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subtle gestures that make a woman feel sexy
September 28 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me, it's not so much whether the event is dinner or drinks, but like you've hinted in the title OP, the 'subtle' signs. Things that make me feel sexy (which I can pinpoint anyway, there are usually so many!) include opening of doors (not with an overly exaggerated flourish, but a natural movement), the hand hover over the lower back (not quite touching, but showing a willingness to guide if necessary), lingering eye contact (not too fixated), maybe the offering of an arm to hold (cheesy but so sweet)... You can see I'm an old-fashioned girl in some respects!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'City_Kitty'Things that make me feel sexy (which I can pinpoint anyway, there are usually so many!) include opening of doors (not with an overly exaggerated flourish, but a natural movement), the hand hover over the lower back (not quite touching, but showing a willingness to guide if necessary), lingering eye contact (not too fixated), maybe the offering of an arm to hold (cheesy but so sweet)...yes, treat her like a queen and more often than not you will knock her socks (or panties) off...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I like subtle signs of a man who's decisive, a little dominant in life generally. I love that incredible blend of palpable lust, restrained. A man whose eyes are telling you he wants to eat you alive but whose actions are relaxed, attentive, genuine, fun - and oh so patient. He'll know when the time is right, he'll decide. Ooh la la. It keeps me on the edge of my seat waiting for that moment when he's going to snake his hand behind my neck and pull my lips towards his. I like that feeling of knowing it's going to happen, but on his time, when he wants it to. The anticipation is divine. I like a man whose gaze leaves you in no doubt as to what he's thinking, even if (and preferably so) he doesn't act on it in that moment or better still on the whole first date. I'm a very strong, opinionated, dominant woman generally. When it comes to love and sex I want to know a man can handle me. I lead in all other parts of my life, but I prefer to be led by a man. I love a possessive touch, a firmness and strength to the way a man pulls me in, guides me as we walk down the street, whatever it might be. Ahhhh, I do enjoy men :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'halcyon_days'I like subtle signs of a man who's decisive, a little dominant in life generally. I love that incredible blend of palpable lust, restrained. A man whose eyes are telling you he wants to eat you alive but whose actions are relaxed, attentive, genuine, fun - and oh so patient. He'll know when the time is right, he'll decide. Ooh la la. It keeps me on the edge of my seat waiting for that moment when he's going to snake his hand behind my neck and pull my lips towards his. I like that feeling of knowing it's going to happen, but on his time, when he wants it to. The anticipation is divine. I like a man whose gaze leaves you in no doubt as to what he's thinking, even if (and preferably so) he doesn't act on it in that moment or better still on the whole first date. I'm a very strong, opinionated, dominant woman generally. When it comes to love and sex I want to know a man can handle me. I lead in all other parts of my life, but I prefer to be led by a man. I love a possessive touch, a firmness and strength to the way a man pulls me in, guides me as we walk down the street, whatever it might be. Ahhhh, I do enjoy men :) Couldn't have said better.
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
I agree with halcyon_days dominance I like subtle signs of a man who's decisive, a little dominant in life generally. I love that incredible blend of palpable lust, restrained. A man whose eyes are telling you he wants to eat you alive but whose actions are relaxed, attentive, genuine, fun - and oh so patient. He'll know when the time is right, he'll decide. Ooh la la. It keeps me on the edge of my seat waiting for that moment when he's going to snake his hand behind my neck and pull my lips towards his. I like that feeling of knowing it's going to happen, but on his time, when he wants it to. The anticipation is divine. I like a man whose gaze leaves you in no doubt as to what he's thinking, even if (and preferably so) he doesn't act on it in that moment or better still on the whole first date. I'm a very strong, opinionated, dominant woman generally. When it comes to love and sex I want to know a man can handle me. I lead in all other parts of my life, but I prefer to be led by a man. I love a possessive touch, a firmness and strength to the way a man pulls me in, guides me as we walk down the street, whatever it might be. Ahhhh, I do enjoy men :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'halcyon_days' I like subtle signs of a man who's decisive, a little dominant in life generally. I love that incredible blend of palpable lust, restrained. A man whose eyes are telling you he wants to eat you alive but whose actions are relaxed, attentive, genuine, fun - and oh so patient. He'll know when the time is right, he'll decide. Ooh la la. It keeps me on the edge of my seat waiting for that moment when he's going to snake his hand behind my neck and pull my lips towards his. I like that feeling of knowing it's going to happen, but on his time, when he wants it to. The anticipation is divine. I like a man whose gaze leaves you in no doubt as to what he's thinking, even if (and preferably so) he doesn't act on it in that moment or better still on the whole first date. I'm a very strong, opinionated, dominant woman generally. When it comes to love and sex I want to know a man can handle me. I lead in all other parts of my life, but I prefer to be led by a man. I love a possessive touch, a firmness and strength to the way a man pulls me in, guides me as we walk down the street, whatever it might be. Ahhhh, I do enjoy men :) agree with every word you've said!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ill fight you for him..... But...does he exist ????????? And City Kitty..Im exactly the same....but do these men roam this planet ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
We are talking about the first meet, aren't we? Ask her to meet you at a nice bar, not a sleazy pub. Just do and say nice natural things. Don't come across to sleazy, even if you'd enjoy devouring her there on the spot...Patience! Try not talk about sport, sport, sport..unless she has a liking for it. Ask questions about her, what she likes, has she travelled, whats her favourite food and so on. Keep your tongue in your mouth...until later on. Ha! Most of all, show an interest in her.. Good luck!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'halcyon_days' I like subtle signs of a man who's decisive, a little dominant in life generally. I love that incredible blend of palpable lust, restrained. A man whose eyes are telling you he wants to eat you alive but whose actions are relaxed, attentive, genuine, fun - and oh so patient. He'll know when the time is right, he'll decide. Ooh la la. It keeps me on the edge of my seat waiting for that moment when he's going to snake his hand behind my neck and pull my lips towards his. I like that feeling of knowing it's going to happen, but on his time, when he wants it to. The anticipation is divine. I like a man whose gaze leaves you in no doubt as to what he's thinking, even if (and preferably so) he doesn't act on it in that moment or better still on the whole first date. I'm a very strong, opinionated, dominant woman generally. When it comes to love and sex I want to know a man can handle me. I lead in all other parts of my life, but I prefer to be led by a man. I love a possessive touch, a firmness and strength to the way a man pulls me in, guides me as we walk down the street, whatever it might be. Ahhhh, I do enjoy men :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've always been told me I have sexy eyes.. Even as a kid I can remember family and friends saying', the girls are gunna love you when you grow up.. and I must admit' they have greatly increased my chances with females .. and still do.. But eyes alone will not get a girl into bed without some sort of gallantry.I was raised at a time when manners were the norm, to this day' I still seat my lady before myself, open and hold a door for her or anyone for that matter.. taste the wine for approval and show her she is important without overdoing it.. I prefer to be low key so not to make the night regimented. In other words' make her feel special without making a dick out of yourself..
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RHP User
13 years ago
What Halycon said - Fantastic reply couldn't have said it better !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'halcyon_days'I like subtle signs of a man who's decisive, a little dominant in life generally. I love that incredible blend of palpable lust, restrained. A man whose eyes are telling you he wants to eat you alive but whose actions are relaxed, attentive, genuine, fun - and oh so patient. He'll know when the time is right, he'll decide. Ooh la la. It keeps me on the edge of my seat waiting for that moment when he's going to snake his hand behind my neck and pull my lips towards his. I like that feeling of knowing it's going to happen, but on his time, when he wants it to. The anticipation is divine. I like a man whose gaze leaves you in no doubt as to what he's thinking, even if (and preferably so) he doesn't act on it in that moment or better still on the whole first date. I'm a very strong, opinionated, dominant woman generally. When it comes to love and sex I want to know a man can handle me. I lead in all other parts of my life, but I prefer to be led by a man. I love a possessive touch, a firmness and strength to the way a man pulls me in, guides me as we walk down the street, whatever it might be. Ahhhh, I do enjoy men :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes they do exist, but are in extremely short supply ... I found one of them here on Wednesday night ... heaven .. Quoting 'MsVelvetblue' Ill fight you for him..... But...does he exist ????????? And City Kitty..Im exactly the same....but do these men roam this planet ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
thankyou everybody for your input,,it is much appreciated... Halycon_days...thats exactely the kinda of answer i was looking fori would give u a thumbs up if i knew how...
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RHP User
13 years ago
For restoring my faith Now the trick is to find one within a 500km radius of Mandurah..... Mmmmmm Ok off to watch the footy now GO CATS !!!! What do u mean we aren't in the GF ..........um how in the fuck did that happen ??? ------shakes head over both men and footy -----
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RHP User
13 years ago
pay attention to her.Give her lots of eye contact but conversely not too much,it's a balance.Don't endlessly talk about yourself,this will put her in a coma,ask her questions but don't be too intrusive.Give her some physical space,but not too much...she may think you don't find her attractive.Don't grope or grab her,just the occassional light touch....and at the end of the ''date' it is all about the kiss...that will tell you both if there is the promise of more...Oh and you don't have to channel 50 Shades of anything...just be you. However I suspect coasteride,that perhaps you have already figured most of this out for yourself,simply because you have absolutely asked women the RIGHT question....very impressive
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RHP User
13 years ago
For goodness' sake, develop some skills in seduction and meaningful conversation ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MsVelvetblue' And City Kitty..Im exactly the same....but do these men roam this planet ? I've had a variety of men exhibit the different factors.... never all with the same man though! *Sigh*
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RHP User
13 years ago
thankyou freya for your kind words and good advice...i shall be putting my new skillset to good use
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RHP User
13 years ago
nothing hornier than a man adoring a woman
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RHP User
13 years ago
Perhaps just hump my leg or bend over in the "presenting" pose with your ass in the air a bottle of lube in your hand and a big dildo with a ribbon wrapped around it and maybe I'll get the message ;)xx Sarah
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'halcyon_days'I like subtle signs of a man who's decisive, a little dominant in life generally. I love that incredible blend of palpable lust, restrained. A man whose eyes are telling you he wants to eat you alive but whose actions are relaxed, attentive, genuine, fun - and oh so patient. He'll know when the time is right, he'll decide. Ooh la la. It keeps me on the edge of my seat waiting for that moment when he's going to snake his hand behind my neck and pull my lips towards his. I like that feeling of knowing it's going to happen, but on his time, when he wants it to. The anticipation is divine. I like a man whose gaze leaves you in no doubt as to what he's thinking, even if (and preferably so) he doesn't act on it in that moment or better still on the whole first date. I'm a very strong, opinionated, dominant woman generally. When it comes to love and sex I want to know a man can handle me. I lead in all other parts of my life, but I prefer to be led by a man. I love a possessive touch, a firmness and strength to the way a man pulls me in, guides me as we walk down the street, whatever it might be. Ahhh you know any man like that isnt going to say so in here or he wouldnt be that man :-) cause one of the things u like is that he doesnt need to prove him self but he would so like too you , that or they just think a bit much of them selfs and have just enough ass to pull it of lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
theres no generic answer that can be given here.....as every woman is different, and every relationship...new, long established, or otherwise, is different too....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'City_Kitty' For me, it's not so much whether the event is dinner or drinks, but like you've hinted in the title OP, the 'subtle' signs. Things that make me feel sexy (which I can pinpoint anyway, there are usually so many!) include opening of doors (not with an overly exaggerated flourish, but a natural movement), the hand hover over the lower back (not quite touching, but showing a willingness to guide if necessary), lingering eye contact (not too fixated), maybe the offering of an arm to hold (cheesy but so sweet)... You can see I'm an old-fashioned girl in some respects! I try to do all of that and be a real gentleman (from back when that used to mean something) but in my experience with most young ladies of today, is that they are so used to being independent that when I do things like that, they find it odd and don't know how to deal with it. So it doesn't really get me anywhere.On the up side, little old ladies seem to love it when I open doors at shops for them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Younger women are often grappling with concepts of freedom, independence, sexism, women's liberation, feminism etc, and striving for equality. They haven't yet discovered that its the differences between men and women, and the freedom to share and enjoy those differences, that make us truly equal. They haven't learnt about sexual polarity. They haven't come to understand that chivalry does not equal sexism and that the ability to receive a chivalrous gesture with sincere appreciation is as powerful - and as attractive - as the power to make the gesture in the first place. I generalise of course, but I've found that as women get older they're less concerned about the 'principles' of how men should treat them and more in tune with decent, respectful, considerate, generous, confidence in a man. A confident man can show a woman that it's ok to accept chivalry, it doesn't make her weak :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sometimes he is the guy who looks at your profile a half dozen times over a while and then sends you a well thought out message. You won't really know if he has those qualities until you meet up for coffee or a drink lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Most of what I described needs face to face contact. A man can stand out from the crowd in what he says on this site though, in messages or forums. There's nothing worse than a desperate puppy with his tongue hanging out :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
If any girl has a problem dealing with a guy showing her some good old fashion manners, thats her problem. I dont care how independent she may be.. She will learn sooner than later (specially when the wrinkles start to creep in ) what she passed up. Jay
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'halcyon_days' There's nothing worse than a desperate puppy with his tongue hanging out :) LOL, so true. And I so agree with your first statement! Just thinking about that got me hot, seriously... It's the confidence and *that* look in his eyes that electrifies the air between us... Spiced up with something said that could have a double meaning (nothing shallow!) on one hand and something naturally slightly cute on the other hand that gets my knees weak as butter in a few moments! I really like if he can give me directions without making me feel too submissive...
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Zsuza69
13 years ago
Mrs Z here I think the most important things a guy can do are the following:-turn up on timea hug at least when you first meeteye contactdont cover your mouth when you speaktouching my hand etc pay attention thats it not alot really to remember is there and guys if you make me laugh your in lol xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
credit card, ohhh god that is so subtle and sexy
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