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swingers clubs does body size matter ?

January 02 2014

we are an average sized couple thinking of going to a swingers party .... we are not supermodels .....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Supermodels are few and far between, thankfully.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've been to a few parties in Sydney, and the answer is no, absolutely not. I've seen tall, short, petite, large, stunning, flabby, scarred and everything in between. The most sexy people were often the ones without perfect bodies. The same goes for the swingers club here. Have a great time!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    No body size doesn't matter. Everyone is different as stated above. Everyone is in the same boat and has their own insecurities. Give it a go, you will be fine :-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ... a supermodel thats as curious as me, then we can go along together... Nothing like aiming high... aint that right you ?

  • KiwiGuy68

    KiwiGuy68

    12 years ago

    There are all shapes and sizes. Noone is there to judge and I have found it to be a open and friendly experience. Relax and enjoy it. Whether you have fun together or enjoy it with new friends its exhilarating. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hey guys... Go and enjoy yourselves. Private parties are a great night out, and attract a variety of different styles, shapes and nationalities. Enjoy!!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    To the nature of swinging as people who are all treated equally for acceptance, for all the reasons to be an enjoyable experience. Supermodels more than likely feel the ones left out for that, they don't have so much freedom outside a much lonelier world. Of course only an opinion, though from questioning swinging, the idea is for people to mix amongst others that care for each other. So that means everyone for it full stop? Doupt swinging would still exist if it were not for that common law amongst common folk. There is other things that would not be invited and or accepted, they are only to do with what no care brings which is selfishness and disrespect. And that is two things most common folk are not akin to. Be proud of your self and values. Fuck the "MAN" and it's selfish and disrespectful ways, wouldn't even piss on it all. Fuck that feels good Mado Tara xx

  • justus246

    justus246

    12 years ago

    Hey we go to a club in Perth and we are definitely not super models - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In my experience you'll find all shapes and all sizes and generally a friendly environment. If you go in willing to chat and mingle I'm sure you'll surprise yourself how much fun it can be (even if you don't play).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's not how they look, physical attributes are very superficial. I prefer the way I'm looked @

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't know who you have been speaking to but certainly my experience of swingers, and swing parties and clubs can't be more removed from the " idea is for people to mix amongst others that care for each other." Well unless it couples that know each other and have invested time in getting to know each other and swing between themselves. Swing clubs and sex clubs are a completely different ball game. Some clubs and some nights will have predominantly young and attractive people, and yes in general they are very accepting and friendly. One of those things, you just have to go and see if you are comfortable. Different clubs have a different vibe, the same club on different nights has a different vibe. Some times you just dive into the mosh put of bodies with a "whoo hoo" and other times you think... Nah not feeling it tonight. It's all good, but you shouldn't assume that all the couples are in loving relationships, because not all are.

  • mikesplace01

    mikesplace01

    12 years ago

    After running clubs and attending clubs for nearly 20 years now. We have found on most nights you will find allshapes, sizes, races and ages. If you chat with people and keep an open mind you will generally find some people to have fun with. Remember the biggest erogenous zone is the mind.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    So I'll describe myself for the purposes of being sensitive. I'm shapely.....and round is a shape. While I'm not ripped with an 8 pack, I'm an exquisitely intoxicating keg. Better value for money I'd say....wouldn't you?? I'm also quite aerodynamic. Which means when I get towed behind a moving car, or train surfing, I actually look like I should be there for safety reasons :) I'm also very buoyant!! So when my daughters are in the pool they can cling to me, sit on their very lively pool chair and squirt people with their water pistols. The negatives are however, that so many people are intimated by my diversity and can only dream of being this awesome :) lol - Posted from rhpmobile