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taboo things to mention in your profile

November 03 2017

Ok, we all must have things that we want to list or do list in our profiles that may influence our prospective people of interest. Do we list them and possibly be judged by the interruptions of others without the opportunity to explain further, or do we wait until we have conversed and feel comfortable to be honest. My thought is to be honest, what is your?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    With you on that - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    8 years ago

    If you want to mention taboo things you've definitely come to the right place 😂😝 I have cross dress in my interests not because it's something that particularly interests me as such, l just wanted other people to know they could be themselves with me without having to hide anything. If that makes sense 🤔

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Now that is like a resume do you say it all and risk being too qualified or not mention and it have the other effect of not qualification enough. It's a 50/50 either way.Just like meeting someone on a first text or date saying or do something and then wondering if you have said/done too much and will they like you for your words/actions. Either way we will never win this debate because in way or another we will wish we had or had not done or said anything.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I, the wife wrote our profile because I don't muck around or hold back. I may come off as a deviant animal who just wants to use and abuse males and females because..... I really do!!! I'm also straight up about men contacting and putting on a smooth front.... I'm not after a gentleman or sweet talker... I'm only interested in their hard cock and don't want a connection as they're just my toy!!! If someone can't handle that then no hard feelings!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Anything goes and if you don't like something move on. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ... based on what you've revealed in your profile, be glad because it is a very swift way of knowing that you are not in the same page and there's incompatibility. Is it more fun to crack a joke spontaneously and then pick out those who get your joke and laugh, or explain your joke only to elicit a polite and disheartening attempt at a laugh? 😛 Put it out there, and may the right ones for you be drawn to you and shine brighter than the lit up Christmas angel tree topper!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I love a few taboo things - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ...to be honest to the extent of listing your ''must have or wants'' however that said, there is nothing wrong with leaving a fair bit to the imagination and pathways to mutual adventures of exploration. Best.... CM

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    To make a sex snuff movie, probably best to tone it down until you have casting lead sorted.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I don't meet anyone who states they want to capture vision, still or moving footage, for obvious reasons, worried aboug the motive and where that footage would end up. I do however like that they state what it is they're into up front. Whatever it is, we can then make an informed choice. Much rather that than people who specify 'no time wasters', then well you know the rest 😉 Mine is taboo and yes I'm judged. Do I care? Hell no 😇

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    do agree some things can intimidate. I think if it's something you'd like but not essential, maybe throw in a small mention, or leave it out and wait until the connection develops further where things can possibly evolve if everyone is on board

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    If it’s something you really want to explore or do with people you might meet in here, then put it on your profile. If it’s not high up on your list of “must do’s” then maybe leave it for a private discussion if you’re hesitant to put it on your profile. It’s better to be upfront to ensure compatabiluty. As for people judging you....do you really want to link up with people who would judge you for your kinks? I know I wouldn’t.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Some great thoughtful insights there ladies & gentlemen. Pure pony and Meander, so very true. Our kinks, really are not that too left field, nor do we judge those that are. In the past we have listed that light bdsm is on our radar. However we have found that for some men this gives them the impression that they can be rough. Realistically it just shows to us that they have no understanding or the skills to participate in this side of fun. We do enjoy it when done well. Just need to work out how to find other couples that also share our thoughts. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    8 years ago

    From previous experience where regular feedback told me my profile was intimidating to some men because of the things I wanted/liked I don't list my kinks. But thats me not you. I think the experience is different for everyone. If it is something that you are particularly looking for and you are not interested in anyone thats not into it then I think you probably need to list to it so you don't waste peoples time. One persons kink can be another persons mainstream after all. I don't consider this a kink site though so if I was looking for something that I consider a kink I would go somewhere like Fetlife or Alt Best of luck....

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Country_Couple1' Some great thoughtful insights there ladies & gentlemen. Pure pony and Meander, so very true. Our kinks, really are not that too left field, nor do we judge those that are. In the past we have listed that light bdsm is on our radar. However we have found that for some men this gives them the impression that they can be rough. Realistically it just shows to us that they have no understanding or the skills to participate in this side of fun. We do enjoy it when done well. Just need to work out how to find other couples that also share our thoughts. - Posted from rhpmobile BDSM is so broad. You need to very specific with any play partners prior to engaging on what is expected and what is a no go. I have found its best to find someone experienced that understand the communication required. I would be inclined to list an interest in BDSM on my profile but once communicating with someone be very specific and detailed as to what is acceptance and what you want to include. Like a partner may slap her arse and breasts and pussy but no face slapping. Face slapping is reserved for the husband only. Just my thoughts.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ...that you are a kleptomaniac however with therapy you think you are mostly recovered? PS most men hide their wallets in the top drawer of the night-stand. CM...as always irascibly yours truly!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I don't have any fetishes listed on my profile. Not because I am concerned of what others may think or that I don't have them but because what I want and what turns me on varies with each encounter and scenario based on my connection with the person and how horny I am at the time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    For singles, don't meantion the R word, and absolutely DON'T mention the L word :) :P I do wonder though if my listing of all kinds of group activites through to gbs etc, on the interest list etc, does turn away those who might only be seeking one-on-one. One on one, gosh that takes me back!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ballbusting?