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the "mature" thing......
August 09 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
You are a hot sexy woman.....................nuff said.Cheersexit
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RHP User
14 years ago
With no intention of vacuous pandering...I just looked and I think any healthy man would just shake his head and say "wow", so put in name on that and maybe it's the "wow syndrome" or the "it girl". Labels and names change...the packaging and contents remain the same. | This whole "older woman younger man" thing was one hell of an advert campaign to promote Cougarism...that's one of the new sexy religions where if you buy in to it, women in their about 40s on up are transformed into predatorial creatures and the pups in the pack all line up to jump on them. Kind of an inverse philosophy...but it works and by the time a woman is in her 40s she generally has a truck load more disposable income than a 20s something. | I wouldn't be too worried...hell I am proud to be a Manther once in while when I get lucky. Of course Madison Avenue and the spin doctors all think we are happy being called dirty old men and don't need much encouragement to play up or down either side of our age. | ...your rock, just let it roll off your backside.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sad fact of life Delicious, we are old compared to the 20 somethings. But hey age is a state of mind. I recently had a 22 year old ask me when was I going to grow up. My response.... Never! xx Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
heading towards 50 is great its been a long hard road a lot of ins and outs and ups and downs so to speak I hate the mature woman tag and young boys messaging and flirting with me yuk Its creepy and just wrong all i see is kids and they are the same age or younger than my son each to their own if they want to sleep with boys that go like rabbits and half have no idea about sex I dont sexual have any feeling or want contact from the young boys feel like id have to give them bus fare for the ride home lol Give me men with attuide and live life and can go for more than 15mins
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mrs Delicious the last thing any one would say looking at you is anything other than Sex on a Stick HOT!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I get lots of young boys too and they often tag me as 'the older woman' and how its their fantasy and whatnot... It makes my skin crawl and I just say no. Or NOOOOO if its a flirt... lol! But really - why wouldn't they want us? We are hot - we all know it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
It makes me feel positively matronly and images of my grandmother spring to mind. Dont worry about the young guys. Those in thier early twenties just want to get thier end wet and figure us oldies are so desparate we will do anything for some fresh young meat. They havent figured out yet that we are generally better in the sack that the girls thier own age, know exactly what we want and are not backwards in telling them so....... ......or have they????
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RHP User
14 years ago
A friend of mine was telling me about a young buck she was with (she's 39) when he came up with a real moment-killer.....they were going at it, when he piped up and said "It must feel good to have a young bloke inside you for a change!"That was the last she saw of him
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RHP User
14 years ago
35+ rocks!
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RHP User
14 years ago
'mature' to me also means sensible to a degree and i also like to think im far from that! nursing homes! pfft! we're in the prime of our life and ready to ....
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have to agree. Having someone younger point out the age difference...urgh, it does not do any good what so ever. I have come across a few guys that have told me they prefer older women and I have had a big cry quite some time ago about the guy that called me cougar and thought it was funny to tell me I was his mummy issue!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Things younger men should never say to older women.... 1) You are still hot 2) My mum likes this song too 3) I am too old for this, oh wait what does that make you then? ahem KD ahem 4) I think you look great for your age Oh and on a side note.....I once made the mistake of telling an incredibly well toned man that he made me feel a little intimidated and he replied 'Oh no need to feel like that, I prefer REAL women' Hmmm, that just makes me a real old woman!!!!!! Not sure I am liking that at all :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Salsa, I 100% agree with you, it's like they are trying to reassure us we still have it going on, I stopped needing anyone's assurance in my 30's I love young guys for their enthusiasm, and hard relentless cocks, but they would never be my first choice, despite what they think. I seriously think some young guys think they will be doing me a favour by fucking me !
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RHP User
14 years ago
You gotta be fuckin' kiddin' me aye? Take the bloody compliment. Young blokes by and in large don't know any better. I make a point of not dating below 28, for obvious reasons, but the compliment 'you look great for your age' is about irrtating as when a woman tells me "your very intelligent for your age", I mean yeah, its a bit insulting but its meant to be a compliment because by and in large men under 30 are usually dickheads who want it all and never get it. I went to see Pat Benatar & The Bangles some time late last year, and they all look fucking amazing, like they haven't aged at all, so you know... I live in hope that one day I will find a woman who is god forbid, slightly older whether its 5 years or 15 I don't really care... its not really an issue unless they make it one, and most of the time thats all its been... their issue. And here I was thinking you 'older ladies' didn't have half the baggage that these young sluts have, or was I wrong?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ahhhh Salina. I only came in at #3??? Come on, I have so much better material than that!! What about "Wow...I hope I find someone as good as you to settle down with when I get to your age!" ... or "You're not nearly as saggy as I thought you would be...". Lucky I haven't used "My mum told me to find someone lovely...and you're just like her. You'll do!!"...Proof, a nice smile gets you out of almost ANY depth of shit.
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RHP User
14 years ago
On my birthday my adult son ( who is absolutley nothing like his older sister Focus, he is a real prude ) texted me wishing me all the best. He asked me if I felt old to which I replied.... "You are only as old as the man that you feel. Ooops, that means sometimes I am younger than you" He was suitably disgusted and told me I was feral. He is 32.
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naughtymissxena
14 years ago
I got a message the other day from someone saying they loved mature women which shocked me a bit as i am only twenty seven and didn't expect to be called mature for at least another three or four years.
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RHP User
14 years ago
If you're hot, you're hot. Age makes no difference. :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nick, we all have baggage. Mines only carry on , but it's there. As ive gotten older I just like myself more , that's really the only difference I can feel. I know it is meant as a compliment, as I said, I think I'm having an " ohh shit I'm old" moment, I'm sure it will pass.....eventually.....maybe I need to fuck a guy in his 70's to move forward ?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Bris, Dont care what your baggage is or isn't... youre gorgeous and sexy and all kinds of wonderful in who your are and how you hold yourself. On that note... you can still move like the best of us. Drinks now at the hotel? CheekyDevil33
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RHP User
14 years ago
Such stirrers! In all truthfulness, it does not bother me at all for someone to make a comment in regard to my age or maturity. I don't like it when they don't give up or genuinely think it is funny to constantly point it out...all it really achieves is the realisation that yes that boy is too young for me if that is the best conversational topic he can come up with. Btw, I also do not like it when young women claim they are very mautre for there age. Oh, or claim they get along better with men than women.....and why is that do you think? Well, that was my grumpy old woman rant for the evening. Now I am off to finish my knitting, sneak a Worthers butter caramel from the sweetie jar and settle down to the soothing sounds of the ABC radio before my bedtime at 7pm :P xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Salsa_McCans' Such stirrers! In all truthfulness, it does not bother me at all for someone to make a comment in regard to my age or maturity. When you look that amazing Salsa.... who freakin cares what youre age is?! Cheeky.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Dead man Walking.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't think you have to go that that extreme... | Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris'....maybe I need to fuck a guy in his 70's to move forward ? | Of course a bit of role play spices things up at any age. I'd be happy to rent a wheelchair or a walker...either would help get you back to your car? Just to really make a night of it...I'll give my hair a gray rinse, order only soft foods from room service and we can both pretend we don't remember a thing. | ...don't ask the 80's, I might ask for proof of age.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...as there is no female equivalent of a "dirty old man", by contrast being called a "cougar" is a compliment .Neither of us have a problem with our age, but in RHP at 47 mine probably counts against me more. Don't let a few ill-chosen words worry you - less talk, more SEX !MrA
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Salsa_McCans'Well, that was my grumpy old woman rant for the evening. Now I am off to finish my knitting, sneak a Worthers butter caramel from the sweetie jar and settle down to the soothing sounds of the ABC radio before my bedtime at 7pm :P xx You seem quite young from my point of view. B-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Chatting with a 25 year old male a few nights ago and his come on line was "I love older women". *Sigh!* Time to start colouring the hair more often or maybe I should start looking into which nursing home I should live in. ;-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I've played once or twice with a partner who was much younger than me. But then again I saw the age difference as a compliment in itself. Its certainly better than the usual responses I seem to get here.And now of course most of the much younger women who initiate contact are just after my credit card number because "they just got a new cam and want to try it out". Now that's an insult to your intelligence and creepy and frankly plain dumb! (Dumber if you fall for it of course).So, revel in the attention. It shows you still have plenty to offer and many who would take you up on it.E.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Who cares what age anyone is unless you want to make babies and settle down. Hey, guys don't worry if she's younger. Nor would I worry if he's younger. If it worries you maybe you are just afraid of getting old or you're too serious. If you're sexy you're sexy and it attracts men. Young guys - like young women - are yummy. Equally, older men can be a legendary in bed.... So it's all good.
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