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um grose or grouse
October 11 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
ur question made me laugh so i thought i would share my opinion,,,u right it will disrespect u if they put it all over ur face,,, i personaly never done it,and it cause i will only goes through my mind if it is a one night stand and i never see her again. to be honest i love it when they swallow though,,, i was honest on my opinion and i hope u dont charge me. if a man tells u let me finish all over ur face u tell him let me finish on urs how it is,,,lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
but I'm with you there as well, I do find it demeaning and disrespectful, I feel like a tree that the dog pisses on to mark his territory. I don't care what his intentions are behind it. I just hate it with a passion.
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
Hi .....well if you don't want guys to do it don't let them....simple ! The guys probably just want to do it from watching porn....You know...guys being visually stimulated and that ! xo Tam
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RHP User
16 years ago
Those guys sound like that have been watching too much porn on the Internet. The girls that are paid to smile while it happens seem to enjoy it so chances are you might too - they think. I guess they also think you look good enough to be in a porn movie with them as the porn hero making women cum at a touch and can last at least 30 minutes of non stop humping. Perhaps you could so a deal of fulfilling his fantasy as long as he does something for you - equally humiliating like ... 6 non stop hours of house cleaning and gardening - he could be naked it make it interesting .. then you could video it and threaten to show his mates.
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RHP User
16 years ago
My wife asked me to fuck her like they do in the movies the other night. So i fucked her in the arse and came on her face! We must be watching different movies
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well there's nothing gross about a load of warm jizz. I've met women who insist that I cum on them. It's a very empowering thing to make a man cum. You just have your head around it differently. Not that Im saying you are wrong.... just saying that there are different strokes for different folks. Do you enjoy giving blow jobs or do you do it because you think he would like it? Frankly, you should only do stuff you enjoy... not for the sake of your lover. Hugs Gaz
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Ringleader
16 years ago
Or offering a pearl necklace/facinator I think is grouse. It's only grose when you offer it to other at the Xmas family lunch.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It is super important to only do what you enjoy... if it's something that you're curious about, then I would always say try it with someone you trust... some things might just surprise you... never know until you try! :P To answer your question though, yes it is about power exchange but it is only demeaning and disrespectful if you let it be. It's all about mind set.
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RHP User
16 years ago
A pearl necklace is more of a power/show sort of act really. Ive done them and although in the movies it looks quite nasty , in real life it's not. Not for me anyway. As far as alternatives theres nothing more erotic than your lady moaning as you release a load in her mouth. its contained, and down the hatch...very nice indeed. im a very lucky man.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with Casava...good dog analogy lol. I see it as a power trip on his part. But as Gaz said if think you may enjoy it go for it. I can't see it as a power exchange though...you have no power as I see it when someone is shooting a load right in ya face! It just seems like youre the submissive in a very dominant situation... Cheers Elljae :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Could not think of anything worse than having cum on my face, no thank you.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Personally I (Trev) love the power trip, and yeah i think it stems from seeing it on porn videos.. Kilee isn't generally into it, not because she finds it demeaning or disrespectful (she's doesn't have self esteem issues) she just doesn't like the mess...that is unless she is feels like being submissive, and wants me to end a dominant session with my cum on her face.. I think for her at that moment it's about enjoying the submissive state she is in, and living the fantasy of being dominated by her lover right to the end. Problem is the last two times Kilee has asked me to unload on her face..i've missed - need more pratice - Gaz ?? She has total control in the end, we all know that the guy never really is the dominant one. I wouldn't be comfortable doing it to another couple we were with unless both specifically wanted it to happen. Trev
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have to say every sexual act we do is about personal preferances and while it has been said above I will repeat it we do what we like and not what we do not like. Personally i think it is fun and yes it is a little about power exchange. I think the anology of the dog and the tree is a little gross but it is how it makes you feel and that is the issue. Interesting thing about power exchanges is to question who really has the power in this particular case it is the female who has the power...the beauty is the willingness to relinquish it. Mike
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thought we'd add our voice of support for this yummy element. We love it. We're both cumwhores and it's a naughty little finishing touch. She Loves the feel of it and he is happy to oblige. Sorry to see some people find it demeaning however, the power shift or thoughts of it being sub/dom doesn't even enter our thinking. He was actually tentative at first for that very reason but after assurances that she found it hot..well...we do it a lot and it's become a common element to our lovemaking. It's not done with disdain or anything other than being naughty. We both like the visual aspect too, sometimes it's pretty spectacular. And hey..make it an equal element..passionate kisses with seed on the lips and mouth or drooling down the neck quickly brings on another round. Anyhoo, that's our 2cents. Each to their own. We adore it ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
The money shot is part and parcel of the porn production. As an avid watcher for a good number of years now...the more I watch, the more it's same old, same old and the more it turns me off. This is also the reason guys would want to do it. Unless in KilleTrev's case, its part of the play. I am extremly tolerant/open minded, but I do find this to be a male power trip. The only thing that turns me off more is the gagging on these gargantuan rods, being face fucked to the point of near vomiting... Although I have to admit I always chuckle to myself when they get hit in the eye...the recoil is hilarious!
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RHP User
16 years ago
no, i don't have self esteem issues. at least not any more and it was a long hard won battle at that. i just hate it with passion, that, pain and the whole bdsm scenario reminds me of an act of sexual violence perpetrated against me when i was a child. it's visceral and no matter how are you try to get over it, you never do. like all deep wounds it heals over, but you're always left with a scar.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I can relate to your experience to some degree and support your statement. My experience leaves with pure disgust at the idea of watching a man cum and the idea of on my face eeewww. My personal opinion... Mrs
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sugarpants said it best for me..... "Sorry to see some people find it demeaning however, the power shift or thoughts of it being sub/dom doesn't even enter our thinking." Well I've also never thought of it in terms of being dominant or submissive when I'm kneeling there with my tongue out pulling myself off frantically, looking up at a handsome sweaty man with his massive dick hitting against my tongue while he pulls off and I'm moaning at the joy of it... and just thinking.. "c'mon.. give it up mate... I'm nearly there". Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nice imagery Gaz! And just wanted to note, yes both him AND her have been on the receiving end of a wonderful warm geyser so gender bias doesn't enter the equation for us. It's shared and shared alike and I know that when the time comes again with extra bodies in the bed we'll be fighting over every last drop the poor guy can give us. Picture chicks in a nest with mouths agape..meep meep meep But yes, avoid the eyes if possible please, it tends to sting.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i think it is up to the persons' but for me personally i don't like it. I also feel it is tacky and cheap and makes u feel like a total slut in a porn shot. i would rather swallow it all or have it blown over the rest of my body and then if i choose to smear it on my face...
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RHP User
16 years ago
hi ppl, i'm not sure what the attraction is with cumming on faces but its not my cup of tea.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
hahahahahaha you funny girl.... "In the eye of the beholder" is the funniest thing I've read for days... made me laugh out loud... very appropriate for this post :P lmao
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am with U_mmm,,In the eye of the beholder..not literaly..not my cup of tea,,but hey its great we are talking about it on here.
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RHP User
16 years ago
my hubby did it once in the shower, as he had always wanted to. he didnt really enjoy it but im sure my reaction could have been to blame. i hate the smell of cum, there is something about it that makes me sick, i can handle it but not for very long. no bukkake for me. love a nice hot shot on my arse though or tits.when u miss and get it in the hair, bad move.its bloody hard to get out.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just thought I'd add, that I love it when Kilee cums on my face aswell :-) Trev
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RHP User
16 years ago
It is definitely up there as M's favourite things to do. He says it is a bit of a power thing and he likes to see his cum on my face. As for me I can take it or leave it. Certainly don't love it but don't detest it to the point that I won't let him do it to me. He just knows that it only comes out on special occassions and he is always polite enough to ask me first. I'd rather he came inside me or in my mouth but I am always willing to take one for the team (so to speak).
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RHP User
16 years ago
In my case I like it now and then but my fiance won't do it because he feels it is demening and it turns him off. I am just grateful to have such a loving and respectful man. The key is to realise there are plenty of things to have fun with that you are both going to be comfortable with. Interestingly, he LOVES it when I swallow. I don't see much difference but he sees swallowing as loving and erotic.
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