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what are swingers parties really like?

May 08 2010

Someone just invited me to a swingers party. I said no. Not my scene and I have never really considered that kind of forum but I am curious. What actually happens once you are there and what is it like?

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  • jandv

    jandv

    16 years ago

    We have been to a few parties and always had a great sexy time. Everyone should go atleast once !!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Swingers parties are heaps of fun. You don't always have to play (depending on the house rules). Go along, you can always leave but more than likely you will be panties down and legs up :)

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    16 years ago

    Oh yeah!! Private swingers parties are the best! Much better than the club scene & more fun than just meeting one on one..or two on two although that is good too of course!!!! It's a much more relaxed atmosphere & generally, everyone is respectful & friendly. Give it a go. Life is about discovering new things!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You never know if you never go!! we had our doubts and queries but in the end we are soooooooo glad we went.It was a fairly small gathering of warm and friendly people which worked great for us as a 'first time' (ahhhh they say you always remember a first.......) lolWe made it very clear that we were new to it all and that this was our first party and everyone was so lovely about treating us to a great learning experience, it was just so comfortable and fun i can see that maybe it isn't for everyone but we looked at it as something to try, worst case it's not our thing we say 'thanks' and go home and never do it again but best case we have a fantastic time, meet some great people and make it a regular deal!! (FYI definitely the latter applies here)Agree with Sweetiepie though you gotta do the research and it does all depend on the organizers, i would also add that you should have a good think about what you hope to achieve by going, what your boundaries might be and make those clear with the hosts so that they can tell you if their particular party will suit you also you could maybe get to know the hosts a little first, ask questions and most of all be open minded, life is for living and fun keeps us young!! my advice give it a go and see!!Best of luck,Mrs GC

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    With our limited experience we would have to confirm everything thats been said..........In saying that we're in Melb next week and going to try that scean and see how it compares to Perth. Drop us a line and come along!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    As our friends donna and brett said, private parties are great simply because finding the time to meet everyone is impossible unless you are swinging every night!! Plus you do get to sample a lot of goods. In saying that two on two is can be fun as well.