RHP

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what do people think about this...

July 29 2006

sex

Howdy all, Last night i was talking with my girlfriend about how people might feel toward those who have previously been with (either just sexually or romantically) a member of the same sex. I think we agreed most guys wouldnt mind too much if their lady had been with another girl but i wanted to get your opinion on how women might feel if they found out their male partner had formerly been intimate with another man. Would that change anyones opinon of the person? Or perhaps some of you guys think you might have an issue if your lady had been with another woman before...would trust/insecurity be an issue? Just curious...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    As a chick I can only coment on what I think about a male partner having been with a guy before - won’t even try to guess what you guys think about us girls! For myself, a male partner that has been intimate either sexually or romantically with another guy is actually quite attractive. For a start it means the person is comfortable with themselves and not afraid of their own sexuality. Especially if they have had that experience and choose to share it with you. Unfortunately in our society there is still a negative image of gay men. Gay chicks are sexy - after all, you might be in with a chance of a 3sum (I’m sure that’s what some of you blokes think!) Just my thoughts on the subject... xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    I’ve known wives that have loved watching me go down on hubby. More common they love to watch me wank him, must be something about the big strong hand and steady rythm. The hand can’t be helped but what is it about some girls that they just want to play and can’t keep a steady rythm so their man can’t get where they both want him to be? ;) Oops, i bet this will be another can opener... lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    I’m a better doer than i am a talker lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    I missed your point to start with lol. Of course i’ve had more practice at that than i should imagine any woman. Any individual who thought different would either be a dishonest bloke or one with very low libido, or a woman who just loooves c..k and isn’t ashamed of it. The girl who can do me by hand better than i can myself..., now theres a lass i’d love to meet :). Hard to imagine how good all the rest of the fun would be lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    Thanks to those who have responded... I personally dont think there should be any insecurity or prejudice against those who have been with someone of the same sex before settling down with their partner (of opposite sex). As for the handjob aspect woody...I quite imagine another man would sort of have the edge over a woman in that regard. Since us guys do tend to have a load (no pun intended) of practice in wanking we know just what feels nice and then nicer. Having said that, im sure thats much the same in the case of masturbating women? ...Although there is just something so sexy about watching a womans smaller, slender hand teasing and pleasuring my cock that well and truly makes up it! Im sure you’ll agree...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    Much rather be the plaything for a woman’s delicate touch anytime, the strong and steady accomplished stroke i can provide myself whenever i like. From the voyeuristic wife’s point of view though... When it comes to a lady friend’s previous partners it makes little difference to me, except maybe in being a little fuel for fantasies. I am past the age where i care a great deal about her past other than in discovering mutual likes and dislikes. After a point in life we all have histories, why drag them all up?, its now thats important ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    Sorry I’m a bit slow responding but I thought I should respond from a woman whos husband is bi. All of the woman I have met in this lifestyle who have men who like to suck cock luv to watch him do so. As for not being accepted by the public how many female sex clubs in perth and how many male ones? I believe society provides for gay/bi men but if they provided for gay/bi woman the men wouldn’t get to watch as often. I personly luv the fact that my man can get his rocks of with either men or women & I can bring them home if I want them so we can share. my 2 cents worth j