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what does swap partners mean?
February 19 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
We do swap partner for sex but we will only swap if we are all in the same room as we find it is more of a turn on as we can watch each other get pleasured .
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RHP User
16 years ago
swapping partners means 'the full swap' as opposed to 'soft swinging' lol... whether in the same room or not...
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RHP User
16 years ago
berkeleycpl we agree with you, it makes it hard to determine if they are into room swapping, we are very much into room swapping and find it hard to work out if they are or not through them saying swapping. We agree if its same room sex, its same room sex, group sex if everyones getting it on and swapping is for full swapping ie in another room.
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RHP User
16 years ago
You can never assume anything, always ask the question. Where we do it doesn't matter, it can be same room same space, same room different space or separate rooms. Mike & I tend to like our own space but that doesn't always mean separate rooms for the entire swap. I love to play with a like minded woman, giving all 4 the option to play together. Separate space just lets you move around a little easier without kneeing someone as you turn & change position. Separate rooms come down to personal comfort, some do, and some don't. As long as everyone is comfortable & happy with the arrangement all will be fine. Hugs, Shell oo
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RHP User
16 years ago
When I was married, I hoped it meant permanent partner swapping. I'd have hers and she could keep mine, it was when I found out this was erroneous I ran away from homeDelighted
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RHP User
16 years ago
I went and had a look at the selections and the only other option that looked at all likely to me was open relationship/ play. Because we don't look for other couples it's not a question we've ever put any thought into. So I guess like Passionatepair4u suggested, don't assume anything. You'd think I'd remember how often that is the most reliable answer on RHP by now... Cheers... Mrs P' PS Devine:
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RHP User
16 years ago
Bob and I swap partners....BUT.... only if we are in the same room together... we NEVER play apart, yes its a turn on seeing your signifcant other being pleasured by another person, but also..... there is the safety issue. So when we meet people, it is made clear in our intial conversations that all playtime is to be together!! The sooner the boundary's are set the sooner we can all get on having a "jolly" good time :) Brennie
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RHP User
16 years ago
Guys it's really simple. Instead of trying to pigeon-hole everyone into neat little categories why not simply communicate and ask. While it'd be nice to simply consider it as a vending machine where everything is predetermined for you..hmm..tonight we'll have the olive skinned couple with the big willy...a little communication doesn't go astray in order to set up boundaries and feel comfy with the choice you made. We're all different and bring different wishes and wants but if RHP was to pander to everyone's taste there'd be a list of categories as long as your arm. swapping, not swapping, oral only, same room, same room with swapping, different room oral, boys one room watching tv while girls play in the other, meeting the grandmother and swapping her too, swapping underwear, swapping socks but in different rooms It's much quicker simply to say..hey guys do you 'such and such'.... So it's really not hard to determine at all. The categories are a general guide only, the rest is up to you to determine. T x
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RHP User
16 years ago
My partner and I swap for sex IN THE SAME ROOM. If we want to have separate room sex with someone then we play separately. When we play as a couple we play in the same room only.... and this is HIS rule and I agree totally. Sweet
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RHP User
16 years ago
Swap partners, means swap partners, but does not specifically mean swap partners in a seperate room, where does it say that? End of story, why would you think it entailed being in seperate locations?I am not sure why you want to, but hey its a free world...well sorta.. I always prefer the tangled mess of bodies, so much more interesting and lots of choice of bits and peices to latch onto and vice a versa.Cheers Nev....F*&k off you politicians and stop eroding our rights and freedoms....libertines rule!!! and the meek shall inherit the world......ok ok...I know, fuck of home now Nev!
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RHP User
16 years ago
thanks for all the input... i guess like a few gave pointed out... use the toungue for what it is second best at... communicating. we just wanted a little bit of clarification... its like if you straight or other wise there are plenty of options to try and get your position across... but the whole seperate room ... group thing is a bit vague.
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RHP User
16 years ago
guess i though that was what the group sex categeroy was for.. not to put too many pigeon holes but we have a great system to define ones sexuality... but this is one that has the same kind of polarisation .... and its a show stoper in some cases. I feel it needs a bit more development by the web master of this site just to clarify .... because some couples wont do anything with their partner in the same room and others wont do anything without them in the same room ..... and then there are some like us who just go with the flow. ps to say "i am not sure why the would want to" .... hell there are more couples in our society that would say that about even being on this web site ... let alone talking about these "taboo" subjects... ease up.
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RHP User
16 years ago
thats excactly what we are dribbling on about. lol... thank you. Quoting 'googlebum'berkeleycpl we agree with you, it makes it hard to determine if they are into room swapping, we are very much into room swapping and find it hard to work out if they are or not through them saying swapping. We agree if its same room sex, its same room sex, group sex if everyones getting it on and swapping is for full swapping ie in another room.
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RHP User
16 years ago
To us it means that you want to swap partners for sex. Then you add the varibles Same or Seperate rooms? Where? When? Do u want 5-10 meets to become freinds first? Play on 1st meet? Are there any performance issues? If there is, no cumming in each others partners, so if the others are happy with bang bang thankyou you go back to your own partners for that! How do you both like playing? Hard and fast so its over in 10 mins or Slow and gentle so u can feel the new person and enjoy? We fail to see what same or seperate rooms has to do with swapping partners...hey this is a swinging site and thats why we are here, unless a newbee and want to start with the same room just watching......boring! But we have been there and happy to play that way as well...as long as we know beforehand, Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
we will swap parteners but only the same room. we love watching eachother playing with someone else and its about us doing this together.Mrs Bal
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'ballinacpl'we will swap parteners but only the same room. we love watching eachother playing with someone else and its about us doing this together.Mrs Bal so why didnt you tick group? thats where i am going with this... the options arent clear enough. i would have thought that you guys should have only ticked the "group" ones and left the "swap" ones alone. to me... if its all in one room its a group .. dont know of too many people who have two queen size beds in their room ... hence the need for more defined options... and not going silly with the number of options... but seems to me that sexuality (which is defined pretty well ) and swapping or group are two of the big ones, and should be given more definition.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am told it means to find some one else to go to a swingers perty with?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Berkeley couple, a group means an organised group on here who have regular swinging parties. Swap I guess means just that. I used to swing with someone as a couple and we only ever once came across a couple who wanted separate rooms, which they told us once we were at their place!! Not my thing, much too intimate, but each to their own
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RHP User
16 years ago
Drawing on my own experiences, not all couple have hard and fast rules, and even if they do, they don't always stick to them. Not everyone wants to play the same way in every situation. A lot depends on the mood everyone is at the time, and also the level of trust/confidence among the players. Sometimes a couple will swap more cautiously (ie same room) at first, but be interested in different room swaps at the second or third meet.Just becasue we advertise our limits in our profiles, doesn't mean we push them every time...
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RHP User
16 years ago
we'll get to the swap partners stage eventually but will never ever do the 'seperate room' thing. just not on and not for us at all.
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