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what is it you like about threesome with two females

October 01 2009

As a couple we prefer a couple ''male and female'' or just a single male to join us.   We have talked to other people and read on most of the profiles found that people   wan't to have a single female join them.   So what is  it you like about the whole thing about two females and one male.   as it tends to be something that we have know'n to be the most want'ed sexual act.   And why is it such a turn off for two male's to share one woman for most people.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Two females together,cannot get any more sensual or sexier then that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    In answer to your question, I have no idea.  All i know is that I have enjoyed several MMF situations and found them to be a lot more fun that MFF....I am a straight guy, so only interested in the female touch but there is nothing hotter than watching a woman in the absolute throws of passion being pleasured totally and completely by two guys......you can also really concentrate and enjoy the experience....That is not to say that two girls enjoying each other isn't great, but I am happy to share a girl.......Stu

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Know where you are coming from here...    We perfer another like minded couple or a single male to join us also' but recently we stepped outside our safety zone by adding bi curious F to our profile to see what all the fuss is about..   We also believe a FMM for her pleasure and at her pace is fine'  especially if the invited lover is considerate' ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i HAVE HAD 3 MFF AND ..WELL LETS SAY A FEW MMF....HAVE TO SAY THE MMF FOR ME WINS EVERYTIME...I'M NOT BI AND DON'T JUDGE THOSE WHO ARE. I THINK I JUST LOVE TO SEE A WOMAN ENJOY TWO MEN AT THE SAME TIME..OR MAYBE JUST A LAZY F#CKER AND TWO GIRLS IS HARD WORK.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    backsupport... Not a turn off for 2 guys to share one woman here lol... I'm definitely a guys gal and I love the idea of getting all the attention hahaha!!!Cheers Mrs P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I love MMF...Nothin better!!!  All that attention...Working 2 yummy men...mmmmmmmm..yum! That is so much fun..woot woot..lol   kisses sweetpetite41

  • 2more4fun

    2more4fun

    16 years ago

    FMF appears to be a very sought after situation for a number of reasons:1. Some newbie couples feel it may be the easiest (ha ha) or safest extra-partner situation to try at first.2. The F of the couple is very bi and/or has zero interest in other men sexually3. The M of the couple is not comfortable with another male in the room (let alone touching his partner) and/or has wild fantasies about having two women in bed at the same time.4. The couple want to really 'share' someone, whereas MFM is usually about the lady of the couple getting a whole lotta male attention :)If any of the above apply to a couple, then they probably will find MFM off-putting or the least desirable thing to try. I think you'll find most couples are open to all mutiple-people fun tho.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    .. and to add one more to the gorgeous' 2more4fun's list .. it is FAR more common to find girls in couples who are bi (and so want to share their partner with another girl) than it is to find a hetero couple with a bi guy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    So your saying you have to be bi to enjoy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Don't have to be Bi but it's incediblly pleasureable if you are.......!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    No it was just a question,   Just amazed at how many couples want to meet but are not into the husband, only the wife. And most have been turned off by the thought of oh no he might touch me. It seem's to be ok to meet and play, then when it doe's happen the wife pull's away and the husband gaurds his and your partner like he has just won a prize and no way are you getting to share it.   A little turned off as this seem's to be there only need. To wan't only the female in the play, so why don't they just tell you, your not welcome.   Shheezz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i love two guys .   have had ffm and had fun but two thick cocks to play with is so sexy. the attention and being seduced by 2 cocks that just want to cum on you is soo hot.  Axx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It's not that I like seeing her with other girls, but more that I like just seeing her having fun, with whoever that may be with...Honestly, I'd rather see her getting maximum attention from another guy and me, or a few, or what ever!!IMO - Guys that only want MFF as a couple are only in it for themselves...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We think 2more4fun is absolutely correct in their reasons 1, 2 and 3, 4/ A mfm is about sharing and is fun occasionly. We posted similiar questions on a USA site and got much the same reasons. One thing we have noticed is the profiles that state single bi girl or couple, How often the conversation then turns to a mfm 3 some but not with his wife ,,,,yours! and you never get a phone number to talk to both of them! In a mfm 3 some a bi curious guy is the most fun, some of the straight guys are shocked that another guy might want see what his wife is getting, so its safer to go for a fmf 3 some. Of Course there will be the genuine ones out there as well where the girls are truly bi ....not their partners putting them up to it for his pleasure.   Cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey guys, There both fantastic MMF or FFM but we prefer MFMF as that way you get both anyway.. Our profile we don't include looking for males as any couple on rhp would probably know you get flooded with flirts/messages/phone calls and really gets annoying after a while..   After reading a few forums it seems that a few males in a couple have doubts about size/performance and such that probably contributes to them just wanting females..   Anyway finding a female to join a couple is like winning lotto..lol..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i always thought that when couple meets couple, it was about every one playing with everyone...Coming from a single perspective, i think there is nothing grander than seeing a woman being driven nuts....and what better way to do it than with two cocks, two mouths, three tongues, four hands.......grins and salivates...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    comeandgetme... you couldn't be further from the truth with the platonic "when couple meets couple, it was about every one playing with everyone" .... Some couples idea of swinging is when the ladies play with each other while boyz watch or only play with their partner... now, that's not my idea of swinging but hey... each to their own. As for mmf... it's fun whether you are straight or bi.. doesnt matter... but if you are straight and comfortable with inadvertent mm contact then all the better.   Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    what Ive noticed is when cpls first enter the scene they r always looking for a single female either because the mrs is curious about girls or the bf is not comfortable with another dude being there ...if the girl is rlly bisexual then its great but if not then it can be rlly boring

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We mainly want FFM becasue my gf is mainyl only into females and me. she has tried the extra male part and jsut didnt like it.for me id rather see my gf play with another girl than another guy simple for us.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    we love couples as well as fems. I suppose for us, we are both willing and have done, the MFM thing. We advertise for single fems, as it is near impossible to get any replies or genuine meets with single fems. When we want a male, we can easily find one, so no need to advertise. We also found that when we did advertise for males, we got bombarded with emails and winks, with about 5% actually meeting our criteria, so this wasted alot of time. We are yet to meet a single fem. We have had no luck at all with single fems, but even without advertising, we would still get on average 2 winks or messages a day from males, just hoping we will respond to them. And yep, wife is BI, but loves men, or multiple men, and women, or multiple women. Hubby is straight, but does enjoy seeing the wife with guys, but at the end of teh day, cant beat multiple women. Its all fun.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    A ffm threesome is viewed by most non-swingers as desirable thing the media were two men is "gay" bith literally and the new meaning of the wordI had a similar conversation with the host of a Brisbane swingers group about why  selected single females are allowed but not selected single  males. We decided that it was a bit like supply and demand there are very few single females willing to have no string attach sex but lots of single males willing to therefore single males are not in demand. Also I think a lot of it comes down to the myth that a FFM threesome will mean the male with have two women pleasing him but as someone who as been in ffm threesomes as part of a couple and as the extra girl .... it is always the single girl getting all the attention, that is why i love being the extra girl in threesomes  and can;t wait to have a mmf. There are also lots more bi girls then bi boys

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    that was mrs sexycountrycpl also sorry for the bad typing god damn wireless key board

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well for me the wife is only good for about an hour and one orgasm... So i fonf myself often still wanting. So to have a second girl, Keeps me happy and with the wife watching gets her going and is more willing to keep going !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It's really this simple....men cannot handle knowing & seeing their partner lust for & have penertration pleasure from another man....worse case scenario she gets pregnant or decides she prefers the spare guy to her partner.As for bi women....it's the new fashion,it's really that simple.Single guys will want sex more & more & women are scared that once they bring a guy into the bedroom,they won't be able to get rid of him.And we all know women need to be emotionally attached to have sex...so if she's with "Her Man" then she'll only really want him sexually & do what it takes to please him. My ex fiancé was bi with her ex & he ended up chasing the friend as she was better as oral....and I have a female friend who was the 2nd girl in a 3some and walked out because the guy was very forceful & aggressive with his partner andctge whole 2 girls thing.Make what you want out of that,but remember...the reality is never the same as the fantasy.Women are not as scary/rough/full on fucking as men can be & men will turn up to fuck a hot woman pretty much 100% of the time so you can't back out once addresses have been swapped

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Mrs here   we have had a mmf and ffm and played with a couple (but was preg at the time so didn’t get into it fully) we started out wanting a ffm so I could explore my wanting to be with a woman but ended up have the mmf first and loving it. We discovered that I get spoilt as the guys were straight and that my hubby loves watching another guy please me. With the ffm my hubby got to fulfil his 2 girl fantasy and I discovered how much I really like being with a woman. Out of shear luck we were invited into a 4some so we thought why the hell not. Wasn’t looking for it but just happened. We enjoyed the experience we had and would love to do it all again.   reading what everyone else is saying and our experience trying to find a guy to join in  allot of guys don’t like the idea of another guy being naked with them but once they get over that its so much fun. And I think 2 women playing together are more socially accepted than 2 guys playing. Well in my country town that’s the feeling I get anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I 100% agree with sweetpetite41

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have the BEST MMF times of my life with 2 guys who were not bi. There were originally 5 of us going to have a mini orgy but 2 people (a couple) had issues & ended up leaving. In the end I was so glad they did - honestly some of the best sex of my life. So erotic & I cannot describe how amazing it is when u r getting fucked by two men at the same time - difficult to position tho & we had one encounter where we actually broke the bed!!  It is the best to flirt, play up, fuck one guy whilst at the same time teasing the other & making him watch & wait for his just desserts..mind u in saying this the guys I did this with were best mates which made it easy & we had few complications (make sure u have a safe word tho its was rarely used!!) The guys do need to be open enough to occasionally touch each other even if unexpectedly as its very hard to totally avoid any contact when there are 3 bodies all feverently grappling each other! I have found that most guys love the FFM fantasy but dont really know what to do when the fantasy becomes a reality & if the girls will play a bit but would rather a good fuck its either better to have a strap on handy or just go for the MMF action. God this is making me horny..any cute guys up for a MMF meet???!!!! However...with any group action I have found that these scenarios can be very difficult if 2 out of the 3 are a couple. Works much better with 3 uninhibited, no string attached people - no one gets jealous & makes the night a whole lot more comfortable when u dont have to worry about how someone else might react xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We definitely prefer the idea of adding another fella to our mix rather than another woman even tho it is much less accepted by society.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We stumbled onto a video series called sharemywife quite tastfull Cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I had my 1st MMF last night i must admit i had more fun than i thought i would i went with the expectation of the wife getting  turned on by being in same bed turned out she like to watch in same room she wated to see her hubby taking another man, i went with it and ended up enjoying it but i enjoyed it most when he took me from behind while i was 69 with her, now i know how a woman feels you lucky girls there were other things too but that was just the climax of the evening, being woke up for breakfast is another story.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I've experienced a MFM and didn't really like it at all, felt like the meat in a sandwich! Also, felt I was there for their pleasure not mine....I've been with a woman 1on1 & loved it so really keen to have a MFF as I'm 99% sure I will LOVE it :) but its proving difficult to find the other woman...but I'll get there one day!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Will look into that video tastietwo thanks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We are only interested in couples as well... not single guys or  bi/bi curious women.  I've done the FF thing and prefer my pleasure with a man. Are the bi/bi curious women out there happy to opposite sex swap as well or are they only interested in FF fun?  It seems difficult to find  straight couples 35-55 in our area to meet up with.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thanks for all the letters back.   Like the responses.   Good luck everyone, in your search.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Surely if it's about consensual sex - then it's about your pre-conceptions and whether the fantasy meets reality.   OK - I think most guys would be interested in trying a FMF - but would also consider a MFM - whether straight (two guys pleasuring the woman) or possibly bi - but may not want to talk about it.   I'd be happy to do either - just drop[ me a line   But seriously - it's also about your relationship and what sort of sex you're after.