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wondering why its so hard to find a girl for a mff!!
May 02 2011
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Hanna_ybbn
15 years ago
Genuine girls are out there - genuine 'couples' are a little harder to come by! The key word being 'genuine'On a site like this, that is up there with finding a needle in a haystack.All the very best in your search.Han
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RHP User
15 years ago
i mean fmf lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
thanks for that girls we are definatley very genuine we are very commited,happy & stable (10yrs together) no jelousy watsoever just wanting to spice things up let someone enjoy our already 'hot' nights. im the female in this couple and am the one instigating the threesum my partner is (happily) along for the ride lol hes even fine with just kickin back and watching just seems like everytime we think msgs are going somewhere BAM dead end =/ we are fine with socialising first fine with one nights only fine if we find someone for continual play arrrgggghhhh were to go from here????
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's a struggle but let's hope the universe will provide! We've had some success at adult parties and CI in Brisbane. M&L
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RHP User
15 years ago
ive been told to go to adult parties owever have not been told which ones are good which ones arnt in sydney? and have always wondered if its just for couples that swing or do single girls or girls in open relationships actually really go?
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Bubbaj
15 years ago
couples club in surry hills on the first friday of the month. lots of variety from couples to single females. always alot of ppl there on that night and you can pick and choose or really let loose! (ages from 20-60 that i have seen, just a very open night)if you want something smaller, try the private parties but with the private ones, you dont really know who shows up till your there!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli'willing to play with a couple are overwhelmed with emails and offers. I know for myself, once I find a smoking hot couple who guarantee a sizzling night of naughty fun, then I'll keep going back to them for more... It's so hard to get the chemistry right between two people let alone three, and most single girls can afford to be VERY fussy... It can take a lot of very ordinary couple experiences to find that elusive couple that really does it for you, because the odds of finding not one, but two lovers who completely satisfy you simultaneously are very low. Also, single girls go through phases where they are no longer playing as a single if they find that right guy... And the dynamics change again. The bottom line is genuine single girls who play with couples regularly will be saying no thanks to a hell of a lot of people every week. Chilli xx We have been overly lucky in finding single girls on here or "unicorns". Chilli is right they report to us that on almost everyday of the week receive NUMEROUS requests and offers. Sorry Chilli if I am just repeating but think of it as confirming. They are also if they have a great time more likely to come back , as they have told us finding genuine and "together" couples is really hard to find. At one stage we had three devine single girls we played with at various time why because we all just had genuine fun and despite a bucket load of offers they found soughting through a series of bad dates not worth the trouble. So the moral ......... just get your stuff together be polite be genuine and be patient. Brae
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RHP User
15 years ago
We too are a secure, genuine couple and heave been together17 years, I too am the instigator!. It is very hard to find the 'right' gal! Everytime we seem to find someone who is looking for the same things as us, we just dont see a physical attraction, and of course, at times the roll is reversed! lolBut patience...patience... patience... is a virtue...Ha! So Im told! We have recently come back to RHP after a year break due to just giving up! Still to meet the 'one'! lol... but I am optimistic, and the best part so far is meeting some lovely people along the way XXXXxxxxMrs Funky
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Hanna_ybbn
15 years ago
Quoting 'livingonthecoast' HA HAWhat a strange comment from Hanna ... of all people!! Thank you for proving my point.Just so we are clear; you have sent me 2 emails stating 'No pressure at all Ms' and because I chose not to respond, I'm not 'genuine' in your opinion?Go plant your dick in some dirt and grow some nuts idiot.Oh and next time - bother to take the time to read someone's entire profile - I OWE YOU NOTHINGThat is all..Han
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Hanna_ybbn
15 years ago
What qualified you to make such a comment?You've grandly shown how much of a mistake it would have been to have contacted you. And people wonder why single women are jaded.ffsHan
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Hanna_ybbn
15 years ago
Thanks for pointing out that as a single female on this site, willing and able and more than happy to play with couples, you get inundated with emails and offers.In an ideal world, it would be polite to respond to every one of those offers.This is not an ideal world and it might pay for some people (not restricted just to couples like Livingonthecoast) that we owe you nothing!!Some people really think they are champagne in a tall glass when really they are just luke warm piss in a cup.Han
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hanna, Agree we have had the same problem with the subject couple, too quick to judge others. There are heaps of others out there without putting up with their rubbish. Quoting 'Hanna_ybbn' What qualified you to make such a comment? You've grandly shown how much of a mistake it would have been to have contacted you. And people wonder why single women are jaded. ffs Han
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RHP User
15 years ago
girls i definatley agree from one female to another as im the one that does the msging ect its such a fine line between sounding confident or pushy which i am definatley not wanting to do again if i was the single girl i would not put up with a pushy demanding cocky couple harrasing me for sex like i was some sort of play object! i myself would prefer msgs or a night out for drinks first as chemistry is a huge part of this id much prefer to feel comfortable and know the gil feels comfortable as to me it will make for a better nite?
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Goodvintage
15 years ago
I think it's all very simple...If someone likes your Profile and takes the time to think about and compose a nice message,the least anyone should do is have the common courtesy to respond...if someone responds and indicates an interest they should follow through with the messaging and organise to meet if they are genuine...Isn't it amazing how most people make a decision without having any contact or knowing a person to either not respond or say I am not interested...and so many people say that they are non-judgemental...?I believe that genuine people will take the opportunity to respond to all messages and meet as many people as they deem to be potentially suitable (time allowing....lol)...If you are genuine then meet and you shall find...
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RHP User
15 years ago
you have to think, the single female has to like both parties not just one. for a guy most of the time finding a single girl to play with is hard but add a female into the equation and its even harder.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'butterflybabe90'you have to think, the single female has to like both parties not just one. for a guy most of the time finding a single girl to play with is hard but add a female into the equation and its even harder. i completley agree with u butterflybabe90 except in our situation im the girl trying to find another girl with no pressure from my partner he is happy for me to play alone females only with or without him there and im still finding it extremley difficult lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Truly if I had of planned it no one could have proven what we meant in our post more than what has been portrayed above. Peeps single sexy girls sadly DO NOT owe you a response , truly no one does. If you go on like a dill getting all grumpy because the first single girl you contact doesn't run to you with their knickers on their heads plop themselves on the bed in front of you, legs open screaming your my dream, fuck me and fuck me hard and when your finished I will be nothing but grateful ! Seriously though I would like to thank couples that do think the above ( or versions of it ) A's you make Sarah and I look not only amazingly sexy but also seriously safe and sane ! Mwah mwah to you ! Brae .........
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nice to see your smile again ! When we doing couple club ? Brae ................
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RHP User
15 years ago
finding a couple where you find BOTH people attractive (and i swear sometimes trying to get a face pic of the male half is like getting blood from a stone) isnt that easy. as for "trying to meet as many people as possible" i dont get much free time that i am willing to spend meeting people of rhp... so if i do i want to make sure i least find them attractive from their photo at least and msg banter. for couples trying to find a single lady i think you would have much better success in 'real life' then off rhp, try chatting to women you see at pubs/clubs, friend of a friends, or try a swingers club. nearly all of the threesomes i have had happened this way. xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
We've been at this for about 2 months now and have had the most success with going to private parties. I think that way everyone knows they are who they say they are and you don't have to worry about that :) In all fairness, you can't really blame girls for being picky as we've spoken to lots of couples who suddenly dissapear when you want to talk on the phone to the female half haha
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Bubbaj
15 years ago
brae, i would say tonite (fri) but i think im being dragged to a different place! mayb next month angels n demons?! lol. im sure to get the txt from me guy friend about tonite but eh...someone else got to me first lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
ive always wanted to play with a cpl even when i was a cpl i found it hard because no one excepted my ex at the time im to looking to find a cpl to play with expecially a female to have some fun with but the chemistry has to be there Quoting 'Cum_Join_Us2011' thanks for that girls we are definatley very genuine we are very commited,happy & stable (10yrs together) no jelousy watsoever just wanting to spice things up let someone enjoy our already 'hot' nights. im the female in this couple and am the one instigating the threesum my partner is (happily) along for the ride lol hes even fine with just kickin back and watching just seems like everytime we think msgs are going somewhere BAM dead end =/ we are fine with socialising first fine with one nights only fine if we find someone for continual play arrrgggghhhh were to go from here????
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RHP User
15 years ago
we have now decided as a couple the best way is to SWING hehe!!!!!!! but with me concentrating on ff play ;) wish us luck rhp users =) and thanku all for ur posts
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RHP User
15 years ago
its true, finding a single girl willing to play with a couple is really hard. i;m the fmale half of the couple, and it was my idea to have a threesome, so i'm the one looking. i'm kinda new to this site and it wasnt until i read this thread that i realised that single girls would be overwhelmed with the number of messages and flirts they receive. makes sense though considering the ratio of couples to single girls wanting to play with couples. but thinking back to it, i think i must have come across as one of those overly persistent people. oops! also, i totally get the chemistry part. i myself am quiet picky, and for the girl, she has to consider the chemistry between her and i AND my partner as well. oh well, fingers crossed! hope we find the right girl for us, or the girl who thinks we'r the right couple will find us!
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RHP User
14 years ago
For me, the guy of the couple, the girls have to get along and be attracted to each other as it would be mainly them playing and me watching. I would only join in if my woman and the girl wanted me too, other wise happy to watch and enjoy. It might be a case of my woman only wanting me to give her attention, especially at first and as the guy you need to respect their boundaries and let the girls do the leading. It all depends on what your own woman wants, other wise you may upset her and you wouldn't want that.
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