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wow: restricted photos who knew

October 13 2015

I have updated my profile today and I am now able to see previously restricted photos. Talk about being like a kid in a candy shop. Two things I have noticed is how some photos have been quite confronting and if I had been able to see them before I may have never had started conversations with some members. I have also noticed the amount of pussy shots. So I guess my questions are 'is that what men want to see to spark interest'? And is this why my profile does not seem to get any interest?

Comments

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    may get views. But they will have a wank and move on. Interest is made with a variety of photos and a good description. Leave something for their imagination. It will build intrigue and interest. Play with your camera. Look at other profiles. Dont be put off by having to take lots of shots. Its nothing to take 50 just to get one that you want to use. Lighting, angle. Have fun taking them. Different outfits, backdrops. Get a selfy stick or even better, someobe to take them for you.

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    10 years ago

    Good profile photo's tempt. They are alluring rather than just see it all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Explicit shots will catch your eye briefly, then theres nothing else to see? Alluring and suggestive shots retain more interest. Chatting to people on here, I get that a lot of guys love women wearing lingerie in photos, and most (not all) women prefer a pair of tight jocks with the outline of a nice cock straining through rather than a close up cock shot, And its all about angles, lighting etc. There are some gorgeous, sexy profile photos on here, both boys and girls, Ive spent a lot of time looking at them........

  • compressor

    compressor

    10 years ago

    I think a nice sexy photo is better than a pussy shot. leave something to the imagination I think and work your way up

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Whateverway...always hear about how there are not enough ladies on here in proportion to the guys looking, but starting to think all the guys are wanting the same few ladies....like being back in high school. I am who I am, no ex model - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Meh-- for me it's a great way to weed out the hermaphrodites 😂 This reminds me of a t-shirt a few years back- 'I'm no gynecologist, but I'll take a look'.

  • horneycouplewa

    horneycouplewa

    10 years ago

    It is mind boggling some of the pics on here. I got a flirt the other day & their profile pic was a close up of her clit....firstly I asked myself hhmmm don't think u read our profile lol. We are so not into that, I like to see just body shots and in a private gallery faces of BOTH ggrrrr, this is what gets our attention Immediatley.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Said this before. It amazes me the photos some people clearly think are a great representation of themselves, their most attractive advertising image. IF they think a red sore looking dick-beside-object is their best image... .... god knows what photos they decided didnt make the grade!!! DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I had a friend take a few tasteful shots of me at the local nudist beach recently, and after she sent them to me, she told me her favourite which I then put up as a profile pic on here. And after about 6 hours I had a message from RHP telling me that my photo is too hot for guests and people on the phone app to view haha. I have seen many bum shots of both women and men on here as their main photos, and even women topless or completely naked as they are turned away so that not everything is shown, and it confuses me as to where the line is drawn and what guidelines depict what is too hot for guests to see. About six months ago I had a fully naked shot of myself knee deep in the ocean facing away, and they had no problem with that one at all as my main photo...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    what really gets my attention is an intelligent witty profile and interesting sexy photos.Nortyforty you profile photos do interest me!

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Hear what you are saying as well. Few of us are ex models. And the fact that this old tranny can still pull a fuck is testament to the power of half decent photos. The photos create interest and thus messages. And messages create meetings. And in those meetings they get to meet the inner you. Present yourself in the best way possible and you will have success. Looks are not everything and the ones who are model material will be busy. Give it a go, they will come and they will cum. Annie xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm the male half and pussy shots are for the most part not needed except the "looks like brown lettuce" ones and then it becomes more of a public warning which is very much appreciated. By and large I don't ask for pussy shots and don't expect them. Face and body photos are definitely important though along with polite exchanges. The crass ones on public display however aid matchmaking greatly.....ie we are not compatible, so that's appreciated.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    And a crack up! Like your thoughts lure them in, be yourself and they will cum and cum and cum.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Smilingwithfun' Good profile photo's tempt. They are alluring rather than just see it all. I hate pussy shots, nearly as much as cock shots. Alluring & sexy wins.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'TactileSessions' I have seen many bum shots of both women and men on here as their main photos, and even women topless or completely naked as they are turned away so that not everything is shown, and it confuses me as to where the line is drawn and what guidelines depict what is too hot for guests to see. current pic is restricted, which seems a bit ridiculous to me. The decisions about the pics on here can be rather inconsistent, to say the least.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Is restricted for the app and facebook but not to guests here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ..... I tend to thing sensual photography is more about what is left out ... than what is shown. To captivate the viewers imagination to want to see more .... a little like wearing the right outfit ... as opposed to being nude ? .... pussy shots .... ? a little like cock shots ...... except they haven't got the flooded river depth marker ?? .... ;) Uly

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    for the majority is the birthday suit in front of the suitor . Online photos are today's electronic shoe box.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    For two years, I've had a simple face photo for a MAIN and a few more in the public gallery that show different aspects. My profile is also quite detailed and no questions need to be asked about my intentions, needs or leanings. Last Sunday night, I put a 'provocative' photo (which you now see), as I've explained on a couple of topics since. It's a kind of 'brave experiment' to see what actually attracts 'Views, Flirts and Messages...' Unfortunately, it's proven in just 3 days that such a shot attracts 4 - 5 times the amount of views I'd normally get and about 3 times the flirts. Messages are a mystery because many women are not members and can't see or message... But I have received an average of three messages a day, compared to a couple a week before. The views have come from Women, Men and Couples in petty much equal numbers. It leads me to believe that the views are curiosity or comparison fueled. I am (and was always) sure that most women didn't like a cock in their face every 2 minutes, but some I've spoken to since my Pic change, say they like it... Good for them. Each to your own. I am leaving the pic up till the weekend, when most people will have been online, if they're going to be... THEN, my face goes back up and this Pic goes back into my private gallery, where people can ask to see, if they want... As, despite what you see now, I happen to agree with the 'leave something to the imagination' school of thought. Thanks for another opportunity to explain the sudden change after 2 years.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    its hard to go back to being a Guest.... To answer your question OP .... don't feel pressured to put up revealing pics of yourself if you are not comfortable doing so. I don't get much interest and I put that down to listing my "actual" age and my tame pics. What I do get though is more quality and no "wanna fuck" messages which are a real turn off. Meanwhile enjoy the perve fest. Posting in the forums does give you a little more exposure too. Have fun! LG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Men need something visual to catch their attention (lol so do I). Just the way they're built. But I have never, and never will, put intimate pictures on my profile (or in private galleries). I have never had any shortage of quality male admirers. But it is always based on what I write in my profile. Ok, I do need to be able to live up to my profile in real life, but it is my personality and ability to string two words together that has always worked for me. I don't tick boxes showing my sexual tastes as I'm not interested in men who seek ticked boxes. I don't say what I will do or want do. I hint, but never openly declare. So in short. A pussy pic will get you some attention. But really? Is it the type of attention you really want?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Im being prompted lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    All good points...I agree with the less is more theory when it comes to pics. Also with what turns you on too...not telling a guy online everything, some things are fun to discover when playing ☺ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    But it has gotten ever tamer over the years after beginning with a vanilla and red hot side. The vanilla side was let go of initially, but now it seems the site is swinging the other way and pics get ever more vanilla where even pics you could see in a shopping catalogue are restricted. I'm sure it ties in with popular opinion whether people realise their impact or not. And I suppose tougher restrictions could work to encourage membership $. Pussy, ah I mean Peachy...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'nortyfortyxx' All good points...I agree with the less is more theory when it comes to pics. Also with what turns you on too...not telling a guy online everything, some things are fun to discover when playing ☺ So...... tired of the formulaic "Torso & Dick in the bathroom"..... and "Dick beside object for scale" pics yet?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'xXxINDIGOxXx' Men need something visual to catch their attention (lol so do I). Just the way they're built. But I have never, and never will, put intimate pictures on my profile (or in private galleries). I have never had any shortage of quality male admirers. But it is always based on what I write in my profile. Ok, I do need to be able to live up to my profile in real life, but it is my personality and ability to string two words together that has always worked for me. That particular aspect of a person's profile is important to me... I'm not a 'grammar snob[' or any kind of 'snob' at all... However, I do find it more enticing if someone I'm interested in is able to, as you say, 'string two words together'... Part of the dance is the communication and the ability to express oneself, whether it be verbally or in written form. I have to admit that it's nice when someone hasn't forgotten their primary school grammar and spelling (in these days of abbreviation and substitution of 'easier ways'... I find most people who post here have a good command of both the language and how it's written. P.S. I am not in any way, knocking anyone who, for whatever reason, is short on these abilities... I know there are many valid reasons why this could be the case... None of which are the fault of the person...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Is a cock, is a cock mischievouslad so yes they do blur into each other... Be interesting to know how many males have permission to use pics of ladies they are fucking....yes faces are not usually shown but I personally would hope intimate pics like that would stay private. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'nortyfortyxx' Is a cock, is a cock mischievouslad so yes they do blur into each other... Be interesting to know how many males have permission to use pics of ladies they are fucking....yes faces are not usually shown but I personally would hope intimate pics like that would stay private. - Posted from rhpmobile In answer to your question about "permission" to show pics of ladies I'm with". Out of a number that I won't divulge (because I wouldn't want to appear to be either 'Getting more than my share' OR 'not doing very well'... Those things are best kept to myself), I have only got permission from one lady to publish a pic which only shows her butt (sorry if TMI), taken from my aspect of taking her from behind, which obviously doesn't show her face. Also, when speaking of 'showing faces'... I assume you mean 'faces in pics that also include 'intimate aspects'... Not face pics that are ONLY of the face, on it's own? I generally have one of these as I have nothing to hide and also I would say to anyone who may spot me on here, "what are you doing on the site in order to see me?"... LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Leo_girl' its hard to go back to being a Guest.... To answer your question OP .... don't feel pressured to put up revealing pics of yourself if you are not comfortable doing so. I don't get much interest and I put that down to listing my "actual" age and my tame pics. What I do get though is more quality and no "wanna fuck" messages which are a real turn off. Meanwhile enjoy the perve fest. Posting in the forums does give you a little more exposure too. Have fun! LG Hi Leo_girl... It's a fact, unfortunately, that there aren't the opportunities on such a site (or even the Vanilla Dating Sites) for people say... over 50. It seems to be a 'cut off point' for even those who are not that much younger, in some cases. For Men and Women around the same age, I'd say most men still prefer to 'date' within their own age bracket (or close to). Being someone looking for something more than a 'hook-up', I'm hoping to find a Lady who's around my age (from my age to a few years younger or older). It would depend on their personality, intelligence and other factors that are more personal. Experience, not just in sex, but life in all it's aspects. As has been discussed here recently and over time, most people appear to be averse to having a 'cock' or 'fanny' shoved in their face, without invitation... So, don't think for a moment that your 'tame' pics have anything to do with anything. From you Main Pic, I see that you have lovely eyes... and they're quite seductive.