young guys and older women limit

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  I don't think its up to anyone else to call whats right for you. After all it's your life. If you have someone in mind it would depend on your feeling for them not what other people think. I have quite large gaps in ages work quite well. I tend to think that for me however that more than 10 years difference makes it a bit more work in the relationship. Not that it's a dealbreaker for me but it is a concern.

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  speaking from a womans point of view, at 46,I am now enjoying my prime, having grandkids around. but thats not to say that there aren't women out there who want kids at or around that age....age is after all just a number.... But everyone has different views on this and a lot of opther topics, bu8t it is good to see a hottish topic for a change... cheers SuziB

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  It isn;t always the age but how you get on, although i dont know if it would be realistic to have more than say 15 years difference especially as the older one gets older and then the age gap possibly increases. On the other hand the younger one might age quickly. Who knows?? We are approaching the 20 year together thing and have a reasonable age gap. I gave birth to the kids in my late30's, but not all women want to do that either. I guess it is just an individual thing.

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  I think this sort of senario has absolutely nothing to with age and everything to do with love, and I mean deep, emotional, goo goo gah gah stuff. The thing with age difference relationships is that the only people who have a problem with it are the ones that arent in it. But for most level headed people we all agree that if it feels good do it. No matter what superficial differences you have with a partner, no-one can gaurantee how long it will last. The only reason divorce rates are higher now than 50 years ago is now we have choice. So embrace it, but dont pretend, be real to yourself and you if you cant then you have no hope of making it work. fuckin deep hey? enjoy PD

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  What age limit?

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  If you have been looking 4 aa "use by date" you most likely will be out of luck, as the Female Gender is normally more mature to her equal age Male counterpart you would be one up there as she would know a lot more than you, but i guess that if you had some feelings for the woman like if you cared for each other and even were in love with each other, well, in my opinion the age would just be a number on her drivers licence even your marriage cert, whatever and if you truly cared for her then that should be the least of your worries

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  Hey guys, not sure if this is totally on topic (Yeah I've been with some much old...er ladies once or twice too). But was chatting with a mate recently and she says that for *lower* limits the limit is "Half your age + 7". See how this formula works for you, i thought it was pretty good :-)

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  last year, when i was 18, i was taken out by a 37yo. for so many reasons, it was one of the best relationships i've ever had. were it not for the fact that she was from holland and had to return, i would have had no problem marrying her and settling down. if you've got an open mind, everything's an opportunity :)

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  We have an age gap and its fantastic. Would not have it any other way. We really have a good laugh when we are told by other cpls that we are not suitable to meet because of our age gap. Could give you a lot of reasons why.....but if you are really interested you can ask..

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  Well personally being a 24 year old male and looking, anyone below a mature 18 year old is just asking for trouble, preferably I would have to say anyone under 21 I would really have to think about it. I would draw the line at about 35 for the oldest I would actually be in a relationship with.

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  man at 23 what the fuk are you thinking about kids and getting it on with an older woman. you should be out there enjoying everything that life has to offer and building your own future. i was 19 when i got with my ex she was 23 we spent 20 years together and had three kids, i love my kids like no ones business. but fuk me did i miss out on alot of living and travel. then one day she says she doesnt feel the same any more and she's gone. if i could do it again id travel do all the shit i wanted to do, the heart just fuks up all the fun lol. tho i do regret a lot i didnt do i never regreted haveing my kids young as im still young enough to enjoy them and relate to them. so there lays the cunundrum do do it younger or do you do it older/ do you wish to be the younger dad able to have fun with your kids and relate to theor be the geriatric dad that cant do sod all but watch them well enough remble you make ya mind up mal

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