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Are all men the same on this site as far as women are concerned?
May 08 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey I didn't say we couldn't beat him up over it. Some will reply, some won't, some will be rude, some won't, some will promise the world and never be heard of again... Tough love.
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13 years ago
In my culture the men think/thought the same as DJ's father...well, hopefully NOW only the older generations. My brothers never listened to him and neither did I. However we saw him mistreat my mother and none of us never said anything as we though it the "norm" back then. Clearly it wasn't though, many woman were kept in "check" and some still are. Woman have more rights now and do not have to stay in these situations.
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13 years ago
I just decided to read the above POSTINGS, Sorry inadvertently put my foot in my mouth with that one... :(
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13 years ago
I truly think it was just a bad choice of wording. I get what he is saying, he does stress that he has never hurt , abused or cheated on a woman, and as Inspirit says, things were different 'back in the day'. Let this be a lesson to you DJ... proof reading is a good thing, it is easy for things to become skewed when posting as opposed to talking to someone... And if you do really think that there are certain circumstances where it is okay to do these things, then shame on you! You will have no luck here.
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13 years ago
Quoting DJB76 "Are you against men being able to defend themselves against a woman abusing her position or taking advantage of one of societies rules ?" Yes I am against anyone using violence to defend themselves when they don't like someone's behaviour. Aren't you??? Your comment makes it sound as if you approve of a man hitting a women if she is out of line? Did I get that wrong? Christ if we bashed every man that took advantage of societies rules or abused their position then there wouldn't be many of you left! Everyone has the right to stick up for themselves or speak out when they see an injustice but physical violence is not the answer. Don't you agree?
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13 years ago
Quoting 'DJB76' Quoting 'Ms_Devious' What I'm reading is: "Never ever hit a woman, unless she deserves it." How do you feel about what your dad taught you? What you read is hopefully what I wrote, but if you choose to take my comments out of perspective so you can re-word it into what you wrote, then that is of no issue to me. You have obviously over-analysed my comments to suit your own argument, which again is no issue of mine. I asked how you felt about your dad's ideas, which did (and do) sound to me as I described above. I never insinuated that you shared his opinion. Did I?
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Bitches, how about you try to be BI for a while. Will give you a lovely insightful perspective of what women have to put up with. 5 minute wonders, self centered, unimaginative, demanding and pushy. Most guys have no clue how to make love, most guys think lust starts with pants down and ends with the blow then time to go, not even a kiss good bye. LOL thanks BeMyDessert and DJB76 for your informative argument. When you learn to fuck without your cocks out come back and try again.Haha, seems all that cocks turned you into a bitch. Keep bitchin', bitch.
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting DJB76 "Are you against men being able to defend themselves against a woman abusing her position or taking advantage of one of societies rules ?" Yes I am against anyone using violence to defend themselves when they don't like someone's behaviour. Aren't you??? Your comment makes it sound as if you approve of a man hitting a women if she is out of line? Did I get that wrong? Christ if we bashed every man that took advantage of societies rules or abused their position then there wouldn't be many of you left! Everyone has the right to stick up for themselves or speak out when they see an injustice but physical violence is not the answer. Don't you agree?Let's say you're a man, and for no reason two guys just start whaling on you, you're just meant to stand there and do nothing? Even the law let's you defend yourself, to an extreme degree. Been a while since i read something that stupid. I never knew how crappy news bitching and whining shows like ACA and TT stayed on TV, "Who'd watch that shit" i think to myself, after reading all the totally blown out of proportion replies here, i think i have finally answered the question
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13 years ago
We are talking about men and women. Any man that punches a woman is a douchebag. What you and your other boyfriends do to each other is not my concern. But yes, if a person starts whaling on you, you are supposed to walk away. Can I just say you are the little bitch aren't you? Troll alert! LMAO What is ACA and TT?
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13 years ago
any man who raises a hand or fist to a woman, child or even another man....or who touches, shoves, slaps, pushes, restrains or abuses....in any way......is not a 'man' any woman who would use physical violence, threats and worse, is not a 'woman' this is what uncontrolled children do to each other, its what bullies do, or thugs and oafs.... theres no time , no place where any behaviour like this is justifiable, and theres no set of circumstances where anyone could ever 'deserve' to be treated like this.
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'What is ACA and TT? 'a current affair' and 'today tonight'.....
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13 years ago
reason for most of the flirts i send and probably most others is that i am not yet a full member,and because of my experiences on sites past and present where i have had so many scammers and crap that i wont join till i feel that it and the people are for real.i send flirts cause that's the only way to communicate and helps to find out if im gonna be scammed again. and lets face it ,the flirts available are not the best and never portray you in the best way.i am real and seek with the best intentions but i feel with the way i have to communicate am made to look like i um undesirable .
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Bitches, how about you try to be BI for a while. Will give you a lovely insightful perspective of what women have to put up with. 5 minute wonders, self centered, unimaginative, demanding and pushy. Most guys have no clue how to make love, most guys think lust starts with pants down and ends with the blow then time to go, not even a kiss good bye. LOL thanks BeMyDessert and DJB76 for your informative argument. When you learn to fuck without your cocks out come back and try again. Listen here hero. What have I said to justify having that directed at me, and what have I said that would contribute to not knowing how to fuck without my cock out ? Please enlighten me. I suggest you hop down from your self appointed high horse. BeMyDessert has taken issue with a lot of what you've said so I can understand your comments to him, but I haven't addressed any of your comments until now, so why was I included in your little rant ? All I've said was I was brought up to never hit a woman but only while she acts as one, and I've only argued that point because others decided to form their own opinion of what that meant, rather than taking it in the context in which it was meant. So, what have I said t have that directed at me ?
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'DJB76' Quoting 'Ms_Devious' What I'm reading is: "Never ever hit a woman, unless she deserves it." How do you feel about what your dad taught you? What you read is hopefully what I wrote, but if you choose to take my comments out of perspective so you can re-word it into what you wrote, then that is of no issue to me. You have obviously over-analysed my comments to suit your own argument, which again is no issue of mine. I asked how you felt about your dad's ideas, which did (and do) sound to me as I described above. I never insinuated that you shared his opinion. Did I? When you clearly have the words ......."what i'm reading is "never ever hit a woman unless she deserves it." That is NOT what I wrote, therefore you have twisted my words to suit your own point of view. And I described how I felt about my dad's thoughts. I agree with them but thankfully have never had to put them into practice. What opinion you form from what I wrote or meant is of little meaning to me, as I cannot control what others think, especially when my words are twisted to suit that persons point of view. You can never argue with people that do this.
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Bitches, how about you try to be BI for a while. Will give you a lovely insightful perspective of what women have to put up with. 5 minute wonders, self centered, unimaginative, demanding and pushy. Most guys have no clue how to make love, most guys think lust starts with pants down and ends with the blow then time to go, not even a kiss good bye. LOL thanks BeMyDessert and DJB76 for your informative argument. When you learn to fuck without your cocks out come back and try again. If that "bitches" was directed at me in any way, then please feel free to say it face to face, rather than from the safety of your keyboard. And sorry champ, but I thought BI people were born that way ? So how do I just try and be Bi for a while Lol ? Is there a switch I can flick ? I didn't know it was that easy.
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'Hellenheels' You just gotta roll with the punches and give it your best shot. Considering the comments above, are you sure that was the best choice of words? Depends on if the punches are in self defence, as every person is entitled to :)
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13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' In my culture the men think/thought the same as DJ's father...well, hopefully NOW only the older generations. My brothers never listened to him and neither did I. However we saw him mistreat my mother and none of us never said anything as we though it the "norm" back then. Clearly it wasn't though, many woman were kept in "check" and some still are. Woman have more rights now and do not have to stay in these situations. This response proves yet again that you have completely missed the message of what my father was saying. My father did not, and has not said that you can just hit a woman if you feel like it as many of you people responding are more or less implying. If my father's advice was so bad, and so wrong, then WHY have I used that advice but never had to put it into practice ? Going by your interpretation, I would be going around hitting women just because they looked at me the wrong way. I have NEVER done this, despite having the advice my father gave me. The advice , was as a last resort for self defence. mainly for that 5 or 10% of women who think they can act in any way they want with a guy while then hiding behind "being a woman" if any repercussions were to follow. If you don't fall into the small category that do this, then you have no need to worry about me, or my fathers advice. Can I make it an clearer ?
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Hellenheels'I truly think it was just a bad choice of wording. I get what he is saying, he does stress that he has never hurt , abused or cheated on a woman, and as Inspirit says, things were different 'back in the day'. Let this be a lesson to you DJ... proof reading is a good thing, it is easy for things to become skewed when posting as opposed to talking to someone... And if you do really think that there are certain circumstances where it is okay to do these things, then shame on you! You will have no luck here. Thanks for your fair response. A lot fairer than others have had to offer ! I'm not looking for luck here but, i'm just giving my opinion. And sorry, but its not shame on me for believing there are circumstances where it may be acceptable. Its shame on the people who defend those who start these circumstances with the first act of violence. And every person, male or female is legally entitled to self defence, whether you agree or not. For example, a few words are said between a male and a female, then female reacts and starts swinging punches at the guys head. Are you SERIOUSLY saying that the male is not allowed to defend himself in any way at all ? When someone is swinging a punch/punches at your head, then they are 99% not in a frame of mind to listen to "please stop punching me" and restraining them may be an option in some minority cases, but in majority, the only defence is self defence. You might not agree with me, but there is a law that will prove you wrong ! The law of self defence. In a fantasy world, or utopia, there is no violence, or need for it, and I would love that as much as the next person, BUT we live in the real world, and people take advantage of their positions, and then other people respond to it. If certain people didn't take advantage of their positions, do you think my father would have to offer that advice in the first place ? My father gave me great advice passed on through personal experience that came from living in the real world. I haven't had to act on that advice as I have tried my best to stay away from those type of women so I never have to use this advice. But sometimes these women seek us out leaving us with one defence.........self defence !
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'We are talking about men and women. Any man that punches a woman is a douchebag. What you and your other boyfriends do to each other is not my concern. But yes, if a person starts whaling on you, you are supposed to walk away. Can I just say you are the little bitch aren't you? Troll alert! LMAO What is ACA and TT? If we are talking about men and women, why is it always about the man and what he can't do, yet you seem to avoid the role the female plays in this. So, lets talk about men AND women. You seem to keep focusing on only the male role in all this, but if you looked more into the role played by females who put themselves in these situations, you'd start to understand why advice like my dad's exists in the first place. But when you continue to look at it from one point of view, you'll only ever get one way of thinking. If men are expected to act in a certain way by your', and societies standards, then shouldn't women also be expected to act in a certain way which would limit these situations from developing in the first place. Again, i'm referring to a small number of women, but that small number does exist, and THEY are the reason why some fathers have to give the advice they have to give ! Its the classic case of shooting the messenger, instead of listening to the message :)
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13 years ago
I have asked the question twice now, yet still remains unanswered despite every other word I wrote being picked apart and over-analysed. So I'll ask again and direct it to anyone that has taken offence to what I wrote...................... Q. If you have the mentality that "all men are the same" , and you have looking for a "man" on your profile, then WHY are you here if you truly believe that all men are the same yet claim to be looking for a man ?
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13 years ago
Quoting 'DJB76' I have asked the question twice now, yet still remains unanswered despite every other word I wrote being picked apart and over-analysed. So I'll ask again and direct it to anyone that has taken offence to what I wrote...................... Q. If you have the mentality that "all men are the same" , and you have looking for a "man" on your profile, then WHY are you here if you truly believe that all men are the same yet claim to be looking for a man ? Who told you all men are the same?? Perhaps if you've heard that a few times (which i am assuming of course), you're pissing the wrong ladies off..?? who knows.... The OP asked 'do women think that'.... NOT all women think that... bit different to your question.. Just because a woman ticks the 'seeking man' box doesnt mean she has to settle for the first bloke that comes along... just as you dont have to settle for the first woman who responds to a message..... I can be a woman seeking a man but if the initial attraction isnt there, or you have said something offensive (in my opinion), or bore me shitless or i just dont wanna today.... well i dont have too.... BUT bear in mind my friend.... i never said all men are the same.... not sure where you have plucked that one from.... As to why am i here? to meet interesting, mature, funny, engaging, witty men... Its as smple as that really
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13 years ago
Hi! Hun :) It comes across very strongly to me that you do know how to treat a Woman be she a Friend, Lover or any other situation you tend to meet them. Your Dad was brought up with that point of view from his Father going back many years. It doesn't mean just because it's his view that you'd do the same thing he could be just making a point and not act upon it anyway ...I don't know what the fuss is all about.. I agree with you, I've found each Guy is an Individual and acts differently to any other . I embrace the journey of getting to know them as the Wonderfully Unique Individuals they are, for what ever reason we crossed Paths . The same goes for Women who come say hi! to me too.. Enjoy Lu :)
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13 years ago
But when you look at messages received from some men when POLITELY told thanks, but no thanks, sending nothing at all starts looking like the better option! We don't have a responsibility to tell you why we don't want to continue further contact... In fact in some cases this really may offend. Nobody wants to hear that their physical appearance is not attractive to someone else, That is just life, we all find different people attractive, and that is the way it is. If you can't deal with rejection in a mature way, then you just shouldn't be here. It may be a little extreme to just block someone right off the bat without ever having any contact, I don't really know what goes on with that, and will only block people who have become rude or abusive. But that is their choice, and we all have a right to choose what works best for us on here. Just the other day a man messaged me a couple of times, when both were unanswered he then sent messages imploring an answer even if a 'no', as this is the polite thing to do. So I did answer with a polite 'thanks but no thanks, good luck' only to be further pestered about why, because he thought I had misunderstood him. This continued on with me adding that I just don't want to... Am not interested! Then I receive a diatribe of crap about being a pain in the arse like most women on here, shallow and false and he can't make sense of me??? Oh and has wasted enough of his time... What?? You initiated it all, you pestered me... And if you understood no, you'd have no trouble understanding me! When faced with this sort of comeback, you can understand why there is a block key, maybe some people just want to avoid this altogether and will block if not interested. It sounds very streamlined, and more appealing the more I think about it actually - receive message, check profile and pics, don't like then block. Do like, then send a reply. At least it's very clear that you don't intend to take things further.
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13 years ago
It's a block button, not key.You're welcome.
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13 years ago
Quoting 'DJB76' Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'DJB76' Quoting 'Ms_Devious' What I'm reading is: "Never ever hit a woman, unless she deserves it." How do you feel about what your dad taught you? What you read is hopefully what I wrote, but if you choose to take my comments out of perspective so you can re-word it into what you wrote, then that is of no issue to me. You have obviously over-analysed my comments to suit your own argument, which again is no issue of mine. I asked how you felt about your dad's ideas, which did (and do) sound to me as I described above. I never insinuated that you shared his opinion. Did I? When you clearly have the words ......."what i'm reading is "never ever hit a woman unless she deserves it." That is NOT what I wrote, therefore you have twisted my words to suit your own point of view. And I described how I felt about my dad's thoughts. I agree with them but thankfully have never had to put them into practice. What opinion you form from what I wrote or meant is of little meaning to me, as I cannot control what others think, especially when my words are twisted to suit that persons point of view. You can never argue with people that do this. Nobody twisted your words. Your father told you there are circumstances where it's ok to hit a woman, and you obviously agree (despite the fact that you say you've never actually hit a woman). You're the one making up your own little justifications for your beliefs to try and make them appear acceptable and rational. And nobody is answering your other question because they're probably bored with you like I am. You and BeMyDessert can have your own little anti-female party together. You seem quite suited to each other.
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13 years ago
looks kinda busy.
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13 years ago
Why only women. It is never ok to hit anyone, man, woman, or child. Even in defence you don't hit you incapacitate. Wonder how many here feel it is ok to hit a man????
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Why only women. It is never ok to hit anyone, man, woman, or child. Even in defence you don't hit you incapacitate. Wonder how many here feel it is ok to hit a man????There are situations when I think it's perfectly fine to hit a guy
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'DJB76' Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'DJB76' Quoting 'Ms_Devious' What I'm reading is: "Never ever hit a woman, unless she deserves it." How do you feel about what your dad taught you? What you read is hopefully what I wrote, but if you choose to take my comments out of perspective so you can re-word it into what you wrote, then that is of no issue to me. You have obviously over-analysed my comments to suit your own argument, which again is no issue of mine. I asked how you felt about your dad's ideas, which did (and do) sound to me as I described above. I never insinuated that you shared his opinion. Did I? When you clearly have the words ......."what i'm reading is "never ever hit a woman unless she deserves it." That is NOT what I wrote, therefore you have twisted my words to suit your own point of view. And I described how I felt about my dad's thoughts. I agree with them but thankfully have never had to put them into practice. What opinion you form from what I wrote or meant is of little meaning to me, as I cannot control what others think, especially when my words are twisted to suit that persons point of view. You can never argue with people that do this. Nobody twisted your words. Your father told you there are circumstances where it's ok to hit a woman, and you obviously agree (despite the fact that you say you've never actually hit a woman). You're the one making up your own little justifications for your beliefs to try and make them appear acceptable and rational. And nobody is answering your other question because they're probably bored with you like I am. You and BeMyDessert can have your own little anti-female party together. You seem quite suited to each other. Lol, Drama queen. It's not an anti-female party, it's an anti-stupidity party, hence why you weren't invited.
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13 years ago
Cancel your membership cause seriously you have come across as a prick..... i wouldnt think you would have a chance in hell of meeting any woman who reads the forums! Next thing we will be reading about the lack of responses from messages... and you'll wonder why?!?!
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13 years ago
I wouldn't want to meet anyone that doesn't see where I am coming from anyway. I haven't even said anything bad, it was the few who took ONE SENTENCE this guy posted way out of perspective and made a huge deal about it. Go watch your midday shows and bitch to your gfs.
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13 years ago
Quoting 'SassyMissM' Quoting 'DJB76' I have asked the question twice now, yet still remains unanswered despite every other word I wrote being picked apart and over-analysed. So I'll ask again and direct it to anyone that has taken offence to what I wrote...................... Q. If you have the mentality that "all men are the same" , and you have looking for a "man" on your profile, then WHY are you here if you truly believe that all men are the same yet claim to be looking for a man ? Who told you all men are the same?? Perhaps if you've heard that a few times (which i am assuming of course), you're pissing the wrong ladies off..?? who knows.... The OP asked 'do women think that'.... NOT all women think that... bit different to your question.. Just because a woman ticks the 'seeking man' box doesnt mean she has to settle for the first bloke that comes along... just as you dont have to settle for the first woman who responds to a message..... I can be a woman seeking a man but if the initial attraction isnt there, or you have said something offensive (in my opinion), or bore me shitless or i just dont wanna today.... well i dont have too.... BUT bear in mind my friend.... i never said all men are the same.... not sure where you have plucked that one from.... As to why am i here? to meet interesting, mature, funny, engaging, witty men... Its as smple as that really Society seems to be the one saying that all men and women are the same. You may of heard of the equality debate that has been shoved down all our throats in previous years. Its society, and certain groups that keep saying that men and women are equal. I'm just touching on what we all keep hearing. Don't take issue with me saying it, take it up with society and those certain groups. If men and women aren't equal, then how's does equality have a place in our society ? I will thank you for finally addressing my question. But I never said anything about a woman having to settle for the first guy, or any guy that comes along. The question was about the women who say ALL men are the same, yet this again gets over looked despite being written every time I have asked the question. I'm not the one saying that ALL men are the same, and the question was mainly directed at the women who believe that ALL men are the same, while then claiming to be looking for one on here. And I never said that YOU said this, I directed this question to any person that had the belief that ALL men are the same. if you never made this claim, then you have no reason to worry. I then extended this question to anyone that wanted to answer, especially those that ignored the question while then picking apart every other word I wrote. So again, the question is, if a woman believes that ALL men are the same, and then have "looking for a man". then why on you on here and what do you hope to find if we are ALL the same ? Its a direct question to those that think this way, if you don't think this way then you have no need to worry about the question !
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13 years ago
Quoting 'MadamDragonfly' Hi! Hun :) It comes across very strongly to me that you do know how to treat a Woman be she a Friend, Lover or any other situation you tend to meet them. Your Dad was brought up with that point of view from his Father going back many years. It doesn't mean just because it's his view that you'd do the same thing he could be just making a point and not act upon it anyway ...I don't know what the fuss is all about.. I agree with you, I've found each Guy is an Individual and acts differently to any other . I embrace the journey of getting to know them as the Wonderfully Unique Individuals they are, for what ever reason we crossed Paths . The same goes for Women who come say hi! to me too.. Enjoy Lu :) I know how to treat a woman just fine thanks. I've never hit a woman. I've never abused a woman who didn't first put herself in a position to be abused. I've never cheated on a woman. I treat women with respect, IF they have earned my respect. So tell me, what is it that I do that's so bad that would lead to you to thinking I don't know how to treat a woman ? Maybe if some women learnt how to treat a man properly, advice like my fathers wouldn't need to exist ? You always get a different outcome when you look at it from both sides.
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'DJB76' Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'DJB76' Quoting 'Ms_Devious' What I'm reading is: "Never ever hit a woman, unless she deserves it." How do you feel about what your dad taught you? What you read is hopefully what I wrote, but if you choose to take my comments out of perspective so you can re-word it into what you wrote, then that is of no issue to me. You have obviously over-analysed my comments to suit your own argument, which again is no issue of mine. I asked how you felt about your dad's ideas, which did (and do) sound to me as I described above. I never insinuated that you shared his opinion. Did I? When you clearly have the words ......."what i'm reading is "never ever hit a woman unless she deserves it." That is NOT what I wrote, therefore you have twisted my words to suit your own point of view. And I described how I felt about my dad's thoughts. I agree with them but thankfully have never had to put them into practice. What opinion you form from what I wrote or meant is of little meaning to me, as I cannot control what others think, especially when my words are twisted to suit that persons point of view. You can never argue with people that do this. Nobody twisted your words. Your father told you there are circumstances where it's ok to hit a woman, and you obviously agree (despite the fact that you say you've never actually hit a woman). You're the one making up your own little justifications for your beliefs to try and make them appear acceptable and rational. And nobody is answering your other question because they're probably bored with you like I am. You and BeMyDessert can have your own little anti-female party together. You seem quite suited to each other. You have been given a direct quote where you clearly did twist me words, but then reply "nobody twisted you words" ??????????? Your quote, not mine......."what i'm readin is'never hit a woman unless she deserves it'". That is not what was meant by my words, yet that is the opinion you formed from my words. therefore you HAVE twisted my words. you don't have to agree with it, but you can NOT deny it. Your last paragraph was a childish, and immature response. Go back and read my comments, then compare those comments with beMyDesserts, and tell me how we can be compared, not from your opinion, but from what was written in the manner it was written. And now you want to stoop to a low level by calling me anti-female. Please enlighten me as to what I have said that would make me anti-female, and provide direct quotes, not opinions. But if you want to give opinions about me, then you can listen to mine about you. YOU seem to be the type of person that would rather defend someone that starts a situation, but then criticise the person defending them self. YOU seem to prefer to argue the same point over and over, despite being the one twisting someone's words to suit your own opinion, causing the argument to never end. YOU seem to think its ok for women to behave anyway they wish, but then men have to follow a non existent set of rules regardless of a woman's behaviour. By all these things, and by using your powers of deduction, I would have every right to call you anti-male. Does the shoe feel good on the other foot ?
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Why only women. It is never ok to hit anyone, man, woman, or child. Even in defence you don't hit you incapacitate. Wonder how many here feel it is ok to hit a man???? This is actually an interesting point and I do agree with you. Any form of violence should be condemned, this sort of primitive behaviour only found in uneducated people. As for the topic, I completely in the same boat with the OP. I sent an email, after reading her profile thoroughly, to discuss about her fantasies or 'what she is interested in' and I ended up getting block from that. It's frustrating.
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13 years ago
Frustrating?I dont know why you'd be frustrated.As stated earlier, you don't know that person, haven't verified if they're even genuine, and I suggest if they've blocked you in the sudden manner that they have.... they've done you a favour by saving you wasting any further time upon them.They're either fake, or flat out not what you're looking for with that kind of attitude.So there isnt room for frustration to be felt from interactions with faceless internet profiles.DG
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13 years ago
Quoting 'DJB76' I've never abused a woman who didn't first put herself in a position to be abused. Oh to be so cruel and take you a little out of context. Eeek, but you wrote it and it's inference is daming.
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13 years ago
Quoting 'DJB76' SMASHING HEAD AGAINST BRICK WALL. Keep going!
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13 years ago
Oh, now he dug himself a hole. Haha.
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13 years ago
Quoting 'DJB76' Quoting 'MadamDragonfly' Hi! Hun :) It comes across very strongly to me that you do know how to treat a Woman be she a Friend, Lover or any other situation you tend to meet them. Your Dad was brought up with that point of view from his Father going back many years. It doesn't mean just because it's his view that you'd do the same thing he could be just making a point and not act upon it anyway ...I don't know what the fuss is all about.. I agree with you, I've found each Guy is an Individual and acts differently to any other . I embrace the journey of getting to know them as the Wonderfully Unique Individuals they are, for what ever reason we crossed Paths . The same goes for Women who come say hi! to me too.. Enjoy Lu :) I know how to treat a woman just fine thanks. I've never hit a woman. I've never abused a woman who didn't first put herself in a position to be abused. I've never cheated on a woman. I treat women with respect, IF they have earned my respect. So tell me, what is it that I do that's so bad that would lead to you to thinking I don't know how to treat a woman ? Maybe if some women learnt how to treat a man properly, advice like my fathers wouldn't need to exist ? You always get a different outcome when you look at it from both sides. The woman is agreeing with you and trying to stand up for you. Are you actually reading the comments properly?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'DJB76'This response proves yet again that you have completely missed the message of what my father was saying. My father did not, and has not said that you can just hit a woman if you feel like it as many of you people responding are more or less implying. If my father's advice was so bad, and so wrong, then WHY have I used that advice but never had to put it into practice ? Going by your interpretation, I would be going around hitting women just because they looked at me the wrong way. I have NEVER done this, despite having the advice my father gave me. The advice , was as a last resort for self defence. mainly for that 5 or 10% of women who think they can act in any way they want with a guy while then hiding behind "being a woman" if any repercussions were to follow. If you don't fall into the small category that do this, then you have no need to worry about me, or my fathers advice. Can I make it an clearer ?Yes perfectly clear. If a woman thinks she can act in any way she wants with a guy, it is okay to hit her. As this would be self defence. And that 5 - 10% of women do this. We all assume that "acting anyway you want' must mean something pretty bad. Like trying to stab you or posion you, basically a woman that is trying to use violence against a man that would cause serious bodily harm. Because that would be the only way hitting a women could ever be considered self defence. One wonders why on earth someone would need to tell somebody something like this. Where did your father grow up if you don't mind me asking.
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RHP User
13 years ago
DJB76 :) Hun it seems you're feeling punch drunk from all the negative response to your post that you don't recognize mine. 1 reply that is not only agreeing with you, but actually complimenting you on being the decent Guy you are. That I picked up very strongly in your vibes.. How much clearer can I make it, than saying I agree with you .So please just chill kick back read it once more and not be on the defensive.. I connected with your Dad I felt that he was brought up that way to treat Women with respect, but if it came to it the option was not to be such a gentleman. However I feel he too wouldn't have hit any Female .That's what I was explaining too... Meeka Hun :) Thank you that's very nice of you to try and explain to DJB76 that I was agreeing with him :)I really appreciate it :) Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
So you agreed with the rest of my post then? That some men on here can truly be freakin idiots. In the same vein I have heard a lot of the men on here refer to the women as being snobby, aloof, up themselves, sluts or just a plain old 'pain in the arse' as I was referred to by this lovely gentleman... Because we won't cam, chat or meet with them, we do have a right to exercise the word no, or even ignore messages if we like, and this shouldn't open us up to nasty and rude messages, I don't think anyone has ever said that ALL men do this, there are just a few who spoil it for others...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Hellenheels' So you agreed with the rest of my post then? That some men on here can truly be freakin idiots. In the same vein I have heard a lot of the men on here refer to the women as being snobby, aloof, up themselves, sluts or just a plain old 'pain in the arse' as I was referred to by this lovely gentleman... Because we won't cam, chat or meet with them, we do have a right to exercise the word no, or even ignore messages if we like, and this shouldn't open us up to nasty and rude messages, I don't think anyone has ever said that ALL men do this, there are just a few who spoil it for others...Well, being honest, your post was to long so i didn't really read it, lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Reading all the posts makes me think it doesn't matter what you do, as a male you can't win on these sites, especially as a male close to middle age.Sad...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Welcome to RHP, where your words are seen and your points are ignored :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I met a wonderful guy from this site and we still see each more than two years later. He is 51 now... But still a spunk to me. :)) What you have to be careful of is that you don't sound bitter or angry on the forums when commenting as this will probably scare prospective women you may meet away. Good luck!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'pxljockey' Reading all the posts makes me think it doesn't matter what you do, as a male you can't win on these sites, especially as a male close to middle age.Sad... Is it sad? Really?!I guess that depends upon what you class as a "win".....Ive emailed a few people, and they responded .... is that a win?Ive chosen to meet some interesting people..... is that a win?Or is some predetermined goal of sexual activity, the real win?!Because I see talking, meeting and possibly even engaging sexually with women as pretty normal and logical... and I expect the woman who sign up as members do too.Where it all becomes abnormal, is when people act abnormal and forget that we all have preference, tolerances, standards and expectations of other peoples behaviour.... and those are pretty much the same beyond the site, as they are in it.So what makes those dumbarse men in here think, that carrying on with sexual predator and brittle ego type behaviour is going to achieve their goal?! And can we really blame those genuine women in here, if they grow tired of that kind of behaviour?! They wouldn't tolerate it in the real world either.Food for thought..... if only more guys in here "ate" that thinking food.DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
The guys that win on RHP are the guys that blow the most smoke. There are certain people posting in here who demonstrate that quite well. That being said, I have met alot of awesome people, yet I am being told in hereto cancel my account as no one will want to meet me..lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Can't blow smoke anymore since I've given up the ciggies, but I will try a serve of that food! ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
You read about 96% of my post and then came to the conclusion it was too long to read on... I certainly hope you manage to get through to dessert when you take the ladies out.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Hellenheels' You read about 96% of my post and then came to the conclusion it was too long to read on... I certainly hope you manage to get through to dessert when you take the ladies out. Well no, I read the first 2 lines and last 2 lines
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RHP User
13 years ago
Clearly there are some prickly men on this site that do jade single women and that's a shame. Some of the juvenile reponses here are a testament to that. As to why you get blocked? Maybe their stars, moons and planets didn't align that particular day. Maybe their brain farted. Maybe the cat jumped on the keyboard. Who knows? Chin up and keep going if you believe the experiences you glean from this site are worthwhile. Remember it's just a web site. And the forums here are just a sand pit with a lot of grumpy kids at the moment me thinks. Time for paintme's boobies and a bottle of bubbly?
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RHP User
13 years ago
don't succumb to the illusion that the machinations of the forums and those who dominate them are the be all and end all of how this place works for you.The truth is in your sent file and inbox and how you relate/communicate with the other profiles. Yes the forums are influential but they are far from critical.Many ignore them, some just graze them and very a few take them all so terribly seriously.Lighten up, get out into the profiles and have some funI love the forums ! I came back for them ! But they are not the be all and end all, interesting, yes, edumacational yes, entertaining, absolutely !But they do not rule, unless you let them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Quoting 'DJB76' I've never abused a woman who didn't first put herself in a position to be abused. Oh to be so cruel and take you a little out of context. Eeek, but you wrote it and it's inference is daming. What is so damming ? If you read ALL of whats written instead picking the words you want to see, you'll see the word FIRST written there. That means the reaction will be determined by her actions in the first place. It does not say or mean that you can just hit a woman because you feel like it. It all depends on her behaviour and actions. But this point gets missed by you again so you can keep your replies coming. Now that is damning !I wouldn't have to keep explaining this if people like yourself would get it into your head to begin with. Your pointless, and pathetic earlier attempt at comparing my comments to beMyDesserts showed me what type of person you are despite not meeting you. If you want to play the game, then lets play :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'DJB76'This response proves yet again that you have completely missed the message of what my father was saying. My father did not, and has not said that you can just hit a woman if you feel like it as many of you people responding are more or less implying. If my father's advice was so bad, and so wrong, then WHY have I used that advice but never had to put it into practice ? Going by your interpretation, I would be going around hitting women just because they looked at me the wrong way. I have NEVER done this, despite having the advice my father gave me. The advice , was as a last resort for self defence. mainly for that 5 or 10% of women who think they can act in any way they want with a guy while then hiding behind "being a woman" if any repercussions were to follow. If you don't fall into the small category that do this, then you have no need to worry about me, or my fathers advice. Can I make it an clearer ? Yes perfectly clear. If a woman thinks she can act in any way she wants with a guy, it is okay to hit her. As this would be self defence. And that 5 - 10% of women do this. We all assume that "acting anyway you want' must mean something pretty bad. Like trying to stab you or posion you, basically a woman that is trying to use violence against a man that would cause serious bodily harm. Because that would be the only way hitting a women could ever be considered self defence. One wonders why on earth someone would need to tell somebody something like this. Where did your father grow up if you don't mind me asking. You've just agreed with the point I've been making the whole time, but then say "one wonders why on earth someone would need to tell somebody like this". The reason it has to be said like that, is because of the 5-10% of women who act in a way causing advice like this needs to be given. The whole point was any women that uses violence against a male isn't acting like a woman, therefore the excuse of being a women goes out the door the moment she chooses to act in that way. My father grew up in Australia, the same country as me, and the same country that has people acting in a certain way that then leads to advice like my fathers existing in the first place. You may be surprised at how many other males have received similar advice from their fathers ? That doesn't mean that we just go around hitting women because we didn't like a look or a comment given, its there for when certain women think they can act in a violent way but then expect no repercussions after their actions. If those women don't act in this manner, then my fathers advice only remains as advice with no need to act on it. Pretty simple really, yet here we are still Lol ? Or long story short, my fathers advice is backed by the law of self defence, and can only come into existence if self defence is required. So basically anyone that has taken issue with what I have said, has pretty much shown that they don't agree with the law, and that a male has no legal right to self defence if its defence against a female. Can't argue with those mentalities !
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