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Attached guys meeting women
August 13 2019
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RHP User
6 years ago
Rhp dating tips rule number 1... Don’t ask for dating tips.
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RHP User
6 years ago
With social media and the web the opportunities to find a FWB have greatly increased but so has the competition and transparency as most people require a face photo before considering meeting which.most attached people dont want emblazoned as their profile picture. So in reality you may have more chance of finding a playmate prepared to over look the fact your attached if you have the looks of Brad Pitt the body of a greek Adonis with the added value of a 10 inch appendage but again you will need photo evidence of all those traits Otherwise like all us married/attached men accept the fact your opportunities are incredibly limited Jimmy
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moreforyou69
6 years ago
Replying to the OP. Attached guys meeting women are still subject to the same rules as attached women meeting guys. NO GO. Honestly, I don't give a fuck what your bitch ass excuses are, (male or female), if you're in a committed relationship, you're in a committed relationship. The-fucking-end. My grade 6 primary school teacher had these words painted, (not chalk, painted), across the top of the blackboard for every one of her students to imprint in their memories forever. "Do unto others as you would have done unto you". Old school values may be out of fashion, but I'm not giving them up yet.....or ever. Peace to all. Xx
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LetsFrolic
6 years ago
I dislike it because it's like they want every woman for themselves and how a few of them act.. especially when there's lots of guys that are single
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RHP User
6 years ago
As the male half of our open relationship couple, all I can say is be honest. I've been lucky to meet some amazing women and also couples who want nothing more than just some mutual NS fun. My wife has always been more than willing to verify this with potentials and I have found that having the consensual openess, honesty and offering this as an option has assisted in a big way. Don't get me wrong there a a great deal of judgemental people out there who quite happily paint all of us with the same brush without knowing better, but I consider that their loss not mine. I definitely wouldn't even consider having my own profile on here and find that maintaining our couples profile may reduce my searchability when it comes to women seeking men but this way it is very clear what my situation is. PS. Not surprised that the regular forumites are being pricks as they tend to do this no matter who you are or what the question may be. If it doesn't fit with them, they're sure to attempt to make you feel shit about yourself. My advice, just ignore the closed minded fools.
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FunSexyCple
6 years ago
Ohhh my, you grabbed the third rail with this one. There are dating websites catering just for that, like minded people seeking discrete physical company. There many reasons for this as well, I am not judging. But before you go down that path, why not take a little time and honestly ask yourself why yo are looking for sex outside your relationship ?. If you are unhappy, sex with a stranger, whilst it seems like fun, has its pitfalls and dangers but probably wont fulfill the cause of your unhappiness. We have been through this, we separated. It took the separation to bring us back together, to talk about our unhappiness and reconnect with each other. So I am just saying you will do what you want to do. But you will have to own and live with the consequences. Look back at home first, go away for a dirty weekend, get a bit buzzed, and talk to each other, share fantasies, fuck, be young again. The n when you get back home reevaluate. If after all that you still want to fuck around without her, Ashley Madison is a well known site. Apparently their security is better now.
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RHP User
6 years ago
With a male profile ( female taking a break, yeh, yeh ) and a paper mache photograph, I find you amusing. No, we are people with morals who actually dont want to hurt others needlessly. Im seeing a pattern of attached guys being horribly defensive, but hey, plenty to contemplate as you wait for your flood of messages from "foolish" women on here
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RHP User
6 years ago
As a man in an open marriage who has been on and off RHP for about a year and a half both as a guest and a Premium member, I have found that RHP is not the place for men in my situation. I’ve chatted to some lovely people however this site seems to be more geared to singles and couples which is cool, everyone has there own preferences and no one else should judge people’s choices. For me I have found other platforms to be better for a man like me.
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RHP User
6 years ago
First, tell your partner. Then, if she's agreeable, go see an escort so you're not messing with the emotions of an innocent third party... If she's not agreeable, work on whatever's wrong either with you or with your relationship. Or leave before you hook up with somebody else. Just my $0.02 :)
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BlackWolf80
6 years ago
How about attached women meeting men?
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RHP User
6 years ago
As a fairly new couple exploring, we can only encourage you to be honest about your wife/“discreet” escapades!! We would certainly not be up for meeting you as a liar!! Some women may want to meet you, it doesn’t speak high volumes about them though... I’d be wary of anyone who freely meets up with you from this point on! I’d be wary of sharing pictures/videos with anyone here. We’ve had a dodgy experience with a guy being arrested on stalking charges, (not us) and bribery (separately also) reported to rhp and account suspended!! I’d be very careful on who you think you are engaging secretly with.
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RHP User
6 years ago
If I had to hide it from the WiFi I wouldn't do it. If you're going to do it I'm going with work it out for yourself then WHEN you get caught out with your fingers in someone else's cookie jar you've only got yourself to blame.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Koko And there you go, thank you for proving my point. Another person who simply assumes they know everything and is worthy of comment. I am in fact married, we are together and have been for 20+ years. My wife is in fact taking a break and has allowed me permission to go solo. Let's hope that you're more thorough with understanding someone else's situation in every day life than you are hiding behind a keyboard.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I’m married in a totally open relationship with my Wife for several years. We have our own profiles which are cross referenced. I am totally honest about this but it makes no difference. The fact is that most people, particularly females don’t believe that open relationships exist (or are jealous if they aren’t a part of one). Most aren’t interested in attached/married guys regardless of if you are up front and honest or not. So I’ve pretty much given up seeking women/couples and sticking to my bi side with the occasional erotic female massage here and there. Just biding time until my paid membership runs out, then I’m outta here.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Also assuming......I dont hide. I used to help to ( and still do to an extent) organise Meet and Greet events. Ive met literally hundreds of people off the site including quite a few of the forumites. Ive no desire to understand your situation. I dont see married guys regardless of whether they are allowed to play or not. Good luck to you
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RHP User
6 years ago
The action is in the profiles not the forums. All you are here is target practice.
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Cunnilingenius
6 years ago
Oh the hypocrisy.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Wow comments are intense. Each to their own in my opinion although I might be bias as I too am married and no, my other half doesn’t know I’m on here. I would suggest though that you make your profile upfront and honest about your situation. I would actually prefer to know your attached. Especially in our situation as it tells me you have just as much on the line. Tread carefully and best of luck X
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