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Can single guys read
December 28 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
That's right. Single men can't read.
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RHP User
13 years ago
why limit it to just 'single' men.....we find that married men are just as annoying....and message us over and over....even after we've said our polite 'thanks but no'....multiples of times....
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RHP User
13 years ago
''if we need a single male ,we will seek one out''...they are just being helpful,helping with the seeking
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RHP User
13 years ago
and it's non stop. hit the block button and get used to it :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Single men are like ants. They become aware of something sweet and start marching in by the thousands. Not much point in telling them no, but you could try deterring them with talcum powder or vaseline? Disclaimer: these home-made remedies were found on Yahoo answers. I take no responsibilty for any single men being attracted, rather than repulsed, by either remedy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
vaseline,the pre-historic lube
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RHP User
13 years ago
I state on my profile that i will not play with anyone in a relationship but attached men continue to contact me...
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RHP User
13 years ago
no they cant read , they think with something else , no matter how much you explain , or return messages of flirts saying sorry but no thanks , they still keep coming - 20 of 30 a day
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RHP User
13 years ago
They are alone in the dark and throwing out the sexy net. Its a hunter gatherer thing. Not all single men are the same. Most can read and they are the majority who do not contact you. Its a numbers game when the odds are a thousand to one, of course some are going to give it their best shot. or some are just dicking with ya, to get a rise out of you and its working. just ignore it. Blocking people, well I have only done that once or twice. I just think there may be another person on the end with feelings. even my friends list, ten million people want to be my friend I do not add anyone unless I have meet them, its clear on my profile but they keep on coming, its fine I just leave it there. how about this, spend time to actually reply to someone least likely and see how that goes you may get a nice supprise. new year is here soon, how about each of you write a nice message to somone , even if its to say no but hey how is your day going? those of us who are getting more sex than hot meals, need to realise that many single men are getting three fiths of fuck all. the single women who are not getting sex its their own chioce its a sellers market on here.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Couldn't agree more.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' They are alone in the dark and throwing out the sexy net. Its a hunter gatherer thing. Not all single men are the same. Most can read and they are the majority who do not contact you. Its a numbers game when the odds are a thousand to one, of course some are going to give it their best shot. or some are just dicking with ya, to get a rise out of you and its working. just ignore it. Blocking people, well I have only done that once or twice. I just think there may be another person on the end with feelings. even my friends list, ten million people want to be my friend I do not add anyone unless I have meet them, its clear on my profile but they keep on coming, its fine I just leave it there. how about this, spend time to actually reply to someone least likely and see how that goes you may get a nice supprise. new year is here soon, how about each of you write a nice message to somone , even if its to say no but hey how is your day going? those of us who are getting more sex than hot meals, need to realise that many single men are getting three fiths of fuck all. the single women who are not getting sex its their own chioce its a sellers market on here. i mean really? such an irrelevant self absorbed forum topic to post. i have clearly stated on my profile that i am a straight man yet many a gay man has felt inclined to message me. my reply to that is a polite "i am flattered but i am the straightest mother fucker that walked terra firma". you are fortunate that rhp exists and it is heavily slanted cause the reality is your personality only lends itself to the cyber world. misplaced confidence me thinks. be flattered that your getting the attention, be polite and move on. kudos to tuscan red for your reply
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TomatoSauce33
13 years ago
Just ignore them,But honestly, it can't be that bad knowing you're desired by many of the members on here.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I worked out what the problem is with single guys. They have this perception that NO SINGLE GUYS means every other guy, but themself. Which gives them this delusion they have something to offer others cant. Either that or they just look at the pictures and nothing else. ? We clearly state that if we want a single male, we will do the choosing, not the other way round. Only last week we had a guy message us stating he would host ? WTF Not only was he out of our age range, but he had the hide to suggest mrs jj could visit him att his home. ? WAKE UP GUYS.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Doesn't matter what you write in your profile you can be assured that those men will contact you.No Singles, No Attached, No Married, No Under 35....they will all message you because they think they are the exception to the rule and you will want them.Wish Rhp would filter the flirts / messages as per our preferences.If I say No under 35 then I don't want to see or have to read them !!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
We also have a profile on adult match maker and on that profile we've also clearly stated no single men yet we've had about 3 guys try contacting us on there. One guy was Indian and tried sending us a chat request twice then inboxed us asking if we were looking for a single male and told us that he had a 10 inch cock. We replied asking him if he could read he then wrote back asking us to consider him if we ever are looking for a single male. We then blocked him. Another guy wrote to us saying that he had a couple he played with asking us if we would be interested. I told him to tell the couple to email me and confirm what he was saying gave him my email address. He then said that the ladies should talk and asked for our number. I then told him where to go and blocked him. On here we've had single guys wink at us to which we have not responded. - Posted from rhpmobile
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jenniecruising
13 years ago
"For all the women who brag about men that want them, just remember the cheapest prices attract the most attention"Jennie xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
These sites should give you an option to filter who can contact you I'm surprised they haven't yet.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Of The 2 couples and few ladies I have met from here so far, with 3 of them I have either been outside their stated age range or not what is in their "looking for" section. I will read your profile and decide accordingly whether I choose to ignore it or not.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Deepdarkwoods
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RHP User
13 years ago
There is a filter. You can filter on matching messages and non matching messages or all messages. Doesn't it work?
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RHP User
13 years ago
They do have a filter!! So who is the one who can't read huh? Hahahaha ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Deepdarkwoods77'Of The 2 couples and few ladies I have met from here so far, with 3 of them I have either been outside their stated age range or not what is in their "looking for" section. I will read your profile and decide accordingly whether I choose to ignore it or not. I'm not interest in men under the age of thirty, but one day a twenty-something year-old contacted me, assuring me he could read at a 32 year-old level. He made me laugh, and I'm very glad I agreed to meet him! He rocked my world.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nor take heed
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rupamohan
13 years ago
There are 3 stakeholders you, rhp and those men!!! a) men will not change. b) RHP can easily provide mass gender specific block option but they won't do it. Fair enough they have own business reasons. c) If you have already made it loud and clear and upfront for males to stop...that will nearly solve problem. d) Blocking is not much of use bcos it doesn't stop first contact. Repeated contact is anyway rare. e) If you still feel itchy...it may be simply more bcos you are not being contacted as much by whom you want. If 100 members you want contact you then you can easily ignore 2 members whom you don't want. OK I will stop here my stupidty to over read into everything!!! Take care rupa(f)
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RHP User
13 years ago
We have clearly stated on pur profile no single men. Also we have only been on for barely a week and we've had about 15 couples and a few single girls contact us and about 15-20 single males contact us. It's not because we're not being contacted by who we want that is making us itchy it's just that guys ignore or just don't read our profile and contact us telling us how horny they are how big their cock is etc. asking if we're looking for single guys. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
An absolute Pain in the Ass!! We're totally over the constant messages/flirts from them. They should get out there in the world and find a partner, instead of annoying people that don't want to be annoyed!
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rupamohan
13 years ago
I simply got used to ignoring or even sometimes enjoying their attention without ever responding. I found getting mad at them didn't serve much purpose. If there is a recent increase in winks ( not detailed message that I belive is only easy to send from internet) then it can be due to rhpmobile..app..I think app makes it easy for frustrated guys to send wink to anybody online and nearby...
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RHP User
13 years ago
No one can read. People look at the pretty pictures and dont bother with the words. If people took the time to read I shouldnt have any mail (flirts or messages) except the obligatory flirt sent from the hot or what ratings. Dont worry about the messages. Create a template reply saying thanks but no thanks if you chhoose to respond and move on. Kisses Focus- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
For the most part we can ignore the single guys, we usually only block the ones that make contact and view our profile a million times as its mildly irritating. We're mildly hostile in the same way we'd expect hostility of we started sending out random 3 sentence private messages to couples only looking for women under the age of 25 or some other polar opposite to what we are. The thing that makes our skin crawl is the 54yo single guys sending pm's. our female half is 29. That's gross and you're kidding yourself.
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RHP User
13 years ago
so I don't contact anyone !But reading this whiney pathetic drivel gives me a nose bleed.It's human nature, like walking against the lights, gambling against the odds, running with scissors.Get some tolerance and be grateful for what you have.Tuscan
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RHP User
13 years ago
... who cast a shadow over the majority ... We list men in our interests and have met some awesome guys who have become good friends and playmates ... we are contacted daily by guys and for the most part, the ones whom we are not interested in don't persist ... for the few that do, the block button works well ... and it is only a few! Poor single men are always copping a pasting on here and it's mostly unjustified Happy New Year sey people!
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's the minority .... That spoil it for the majority ;-) Sure the constant barrage from guys after you have made it bluntly obvious (without trying to be too rude) is annoying But be honest, if you weren't attractive (or appreciated in the form of a wink or mssg just telling you look nice etc) by the opposite sex then would you take offence ? My case in point being couples are after couples and ironically half of that couple is a male ?? But I understand you don't necessarily all like to be contacted by single guys, just entertain me for a minute .... There are some (I would like to think myself included) really nice genuine, salt of the earth guys here who could be great friends even in a platonic way if you gave them the opportunity We all crave love food and shelter .... all we have to do is define love !! Word x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yet another "let's bash single men" thread 'cos let's face it, we're all the same.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have to say, there is just something different about you just can't put my finger on it though. :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
Must be a pain eh.
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RHP User
13 years ago
upinthesky,and Manly you know we love you...some just for your legendary cheesecake of course Perhaps the time to get annoyed is when the inbox is empty,if you see the message is from someone outside of your seeking criteria don't even bother to open it...the messages I get from single men are almost without exception polite,the messages from couples on the other hand are sometimes very hinky.
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RHP User
13 years ago
......We get from single men are usually 3 words like: Him: "I'm in Charlestown" Us: "congrats, how's that working out? I hope it's working better for you than profile reading" Every so often some guys are polite, they put effort in, bless their little cotton socks. You get an "A" effort, but you don't get a golden ticket. It's not all bad but it is not what we are looking for, nothing stated in our profile that's what we're looking for, we aren't here to make plutonic friendships nor do we require 3rd party affirmation. We have been contacted (Albiet rarely) by single ladies the same way and they meet the same type of responses based on how they portray themselves (ie polite and nice, polite decline, etc) The point is, if we wanted that we'd specify. If we hadn't specified and wanted that we'll contact you when we do. Kudos for trying and all if you were polite and not an awkward dickhead but I find it hilarious to see people on here whinging they got shot down in flames and complained about because other people don't like being hassled by them. It might be a reoccurring thread because its a reoccurring theme, but so is very single other thread in this forum. Moral of the story: Be an annoying pest, get treated like an annoying pest.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Most have no idea with couples, they are looking for a cheap alternative to brothels. We have been told by them. 1/ No, I dont want to share the costs of accomadfation to play in. (well you arnt playing at our place, your place or public toilets) 2/ No, I dont want to have a meal and some drinks first.... 3/ I cant be there 7pm and leave 11pm. I am sure we can have fun in a hour or two. 4/ I dont lick pussy 5/ I dont do what your profile asks 6/ I sent a face photo......but havnt recieved it And on it goes, it takes 30-40 guys exchanging 1-2 messages to shortlist down to 1-2. I think they just tick couples...and have no idea,
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RHP User
13 years ago
I look at this from two perspectives; I have my profile on RHP as a single guy (clearly stating I’m married) and my wife and I have a profile as a couple. As a couple on RHP: we’re not offended by single dudes who message once, despite the fact that we aren’t looking for a single guy at the moment (…at the moment). Actually, the only thing that really annoys us is when couples ask to play with the wife separately. As a single male on RHP: or more accurately and 45 year old married guy looking for some nice people to have some fun and socialise with…well, it’s actually kinda soul destroying, but I recognise that this is the price I have to pay if I want to put myself out there. I practically never get responses to messages that I try to make engaging and polite. On the rare occasions that I actually do get a reply it’s amazing how often they are void of any kind of graciousness, despite the fact that I was within their criteria!! I find it bewildering that so many folks can be judgmental on this website. Take it as a compliment!!! I’m a glass is half-full kinda guy so I’m remaining upbeat about it. Just as my wife and I have been lucky enough to meet the right guys to be part of our fantasies and fun, I figure there’s gotta be some couples like us who’ll look at the situation (and me!) the same way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
....those single dudes that visit our profile over and over - that's creepy so stop it.That will get you blocked.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's safely locked away in my pants, Meeks ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
i also think the ones who say they are partnered but everytime you talk their partners are alwas busy,it can be the same with couples,i work away and there are plenty of couples suggesting to watch my partner for me,some even saying just dont let him know,its about honesty,not honest dont do it
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes its really annoying if single men keeps bothering
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RHP User
13 years ago
In answering your question, I'm pretty certain anyone on here can read. Otherwise setting up a profile would be extremely difficult. It's more a question of attitude than ability.
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RHP User
13 years ago
That something that is trapped in your pants Manly.... Time to let it out I would say.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' That something that is trapped in your pants Manly.... Time to let it out I would say. ..as contained for the good of the world at large.
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RHP User
13 years ago
thats a bit boastful,....oops sorry that's an ''a'' not an ''i''...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh my favourites are supposed bi chicks who are totally fake in what they say in order to get with your partner,I love the fact my partner wrote on here haha I pull him up alot for sending flirts and msgs to married woman when our profile clearly states no single guys or married woman ah awkward babe :/ men are visual creatures thats all I got to say miss frannaman :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' thats a bit boastful,....oops sorry that's an ''a'' not an ''i''... ...if it's not true
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RHP User
13 years ago
Apart from the fact that this topic has been done to death in the past, it is just depressing to hear what some Pete think of all single males. Sure many are assholes and I do realise that most of the women and couples here are generalising, but having read this topic a few times in the past, it seems we have gone from "many single men are..." to "single men are..." We are not all emotional dwarfs led by our penises all the time.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'd just like to point out I can do number as well..~rolls eyes~
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hate to tell you this married men can't read either, even when they no doubt get a warning stating you are not looking for couples. And what's with couples thinking you will meet up for a threesome straight away? It really annoys me... I want sexual chemistry or some sort of connection FFS! Married men!?!?!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Hate to tell you this married men can't read either, even when they no doubt get a warning stating you are not looking for couples. And what's with couples thinking you will meet up for a threesome straight away? It really annoys me... I want sexual chemistry or some sort of connection FFS! Married men!?!?! we have much more trouble with married guys, or the male halves of couples, than we've ever had with single guys.... its like theres this 'entitlement' they feel....they have a profile, and desire.....so we should accommodate them! wtf?
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Playful2looking
13 years ago
I am with you tuscan good post. As All the girls point out they are pissed with single guys and yet they tell everyone how good it is when the girls out number men. they can pick and choose. Well I think the whole site is too forcus on men. I would like to see RHP put some of their money up to change the forcus from selling sex to men to recruiting more women on to the site by offering a more rounded approach to the way the promotions are done and forcus more on signing girls up. there are no Rhp men parading around as eye candy. Sex sites and porn need to change the print media is changing we are starting to get more balanced acticals and more female Journalists but its slow. Other wise the men may start walking to other sites. By the way I get about 10 visits a day from single guys because my profile says I am bi which I am so send them my way he he he just kidding. by the way their profile says they are straight. go figure
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RHP User
13 years ago
Men are the revenue source, simple. Just as its always been.And yes some women do buy memberships, kudos to you.
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Playful2looking
13 years ago
Qutoing 50zcool yea I am aware of the $$$ factor whats your suggestion to change the balance of girls to men on this site. Change is possible To mischevious lad well you can bag the single men as well. But yet no one wants to have a go at change. yes I am aware of pubs that are full of single men playing pool. Who goes to those I go where the women are. I dont want to spend my life proped up at a bar or an adult site full of men. Come on guys if you were running the site what would you do to change the ratio of men to women. If you take a look at all the promotions on this site it is all forcused on luring men to a site that has a high ratio of men already.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Seriously this post was posted by the male in the couple so before you start with a another man hating forum its not meant to put you in a catagory but most of you are shit at reading our profile! Sammy
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RHP User
13 years ago
So aggressive today? You mention fake bi chicks? Really? I would have thought there are so many men on RHP why would a woman have to fake her sexuality to get one?!? Sounds weird.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' So aggressive today? You mention fake bi chicks? Really? I would have thought there are so many men on RHP why would a woman have to fake her sexuality to get one?!? Sounds weird. you crack me up chicky
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RHP User
13 years ago
Go have a dig feel bigger? Look we wouldnt post this if we felt wasnt neccessary to do so everyone on rhp has that right to agree or disagree I really dont give two shits worth what people on here think about me if I did Id be a weak woman.The fact is after being on here for over a year the single men just dont read or profile and you get over it like Im getting over writing back to such a smartarse remark.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We even got asked to put them down as friends.. so over it we cancelled our profile...
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RHP User
13 years ago
That you let others others run your life.I hope no one cuts you off on the freeway, you'll have to train it to work, until someone nicks your seat.Get a grip.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I got shit Im dealing with right now stuff I wouldnt wish on my worst enemy so thats taking all my energy not a post that my partner started.Like I said previously couldnt care less what people think or have to say about me but seems alot of judgemental people think they can throw shit at me and expect I will put up with it I dont think so been there for 15 years never again.Yes he should of posted it differently I agree but the frustration of single guys not bothering to read the profile there straight away thinking of there dicks and not interested in getting to know us as people.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Do you know me do you? I have never met you in my lifetime,whats sad is you saying get a grip you dont know me as a person you dont even know me as a rhp friend so please before you tell me to get a grip make sure you know me and what Im about :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
Frannaman my comment was actually a reply to the xxxcancelledxxx people, Threads about single guys are a constant here, just like they are a constant for you, if you have been here for a while I'm sure you know that, it's not going to change, it's just the way it is, rise above it and carry on, the good people are more than worth it.I used to get pissed off at the man bashing and have had a few rants over it, but, meh, it's not going to change, some people seem to relish the opportunity and there will always be people like that, and time wasters and fakes, the angry the desperate the pseudo academics the rude and the ignorant etc etc. I'm over it, I'm having fun, the forums are good fun, another form of people watching.The action is out in the profiles, this is just window dressing. And often all is not what it seems.Have FUN ! RR x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cool good to hear wish he never posted this to start with I know where your coming from good and bad in all aspects nobody should be targeted :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
No we cant read...but guess what. The world is built by men- suck on that.Please realize that not only the 'single men' are the ones that ignore profile preferences. Couples, and women do to. So don't be bigot toward 'single men'.You are probably the husband looking to shad other women using your wife as an advertisement....Guess what, Men from married couples are different- but they receive better response only because they have 'women' to offer. I have has couples or women that are over my age limit or did not meet my criteria contacted me, so it's not only the single men that can't read.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why is it okay for couples to post cock pics, pussy pics, tits pic but then when single men have cock pics on there it's suddenly unacceptable.There are so many prejudice against single men on here. While receiving 'Hello' from a couple it's usually interpreted as 'Wow, this couple is friendly'- a 'Hello' from single men will be interpreted as 'He's cheap and just want to fuck'. Think about this, when a couple or a female sends you a message, imagine if they are single men- would you respond in the same 'manner' (manner is the key word). If not, aren't you being sexist?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Also- try rephrasing 'Why single men can't read' to 'Why blacks cant read' or 'Why Australians are bogans', you'll realize that generalization 'single men' like you did can be socially offensive.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'elduderino67' ....those single dudes that visit our profile over and over - that's creepy so stop it.That will get you blocked. They have one right- The right to view any profile that is open for public viewingYou have two rights - 1. To block them, 2. Do not put your profile up.Start practicing your right than asking people to stop practicing their rights.Ps. This is like driving a Ferrari and don't like people looking at it- solution don't drive a Ferrari.
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RHP User
13 years ago
so you dont want single men...going by a lot of the forums on here.being bi's not gay.people advertise they want group sex.sex is just sex.doesnt matter who or when you have it...mabe all those sinle guys read it as you dont play one on one and think their in with a shot of being one of a bunch of guys you want to play with, if thgats your thing..as tuscanred said ,its a number game ..and you've got to be in it to win it
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RHP User
13 years ago
There are many men who respect this. Personally, I get tired of hearing these generalisations. If I were to say "All women are...", I would expect to be branded a sexist.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im just going to give up on replying to wankers on this thread seriously have tried to say he needed to rephrase this but he put it up not me.Single guys on this site become frustrating when clearly they haven't read the profile time and time again eg.A chat request came through so we opened it and was one dude wanking off on cam seriously firstly was piss funny as you couldnt see what he was wanking secondly no girlfriend in site as he typed to my partner previously and said in a couple when I dont see or hear a gf then its going to piss others off.How dare you use Indigenous Australians in a post like that.Warren is Aboriginal mate you need to settle down a tad with what your posting I get what your saying,I really do.Maybe I should have posted Why do single men continue to act like boys??? Get tounges flapping then hey.In all seriousness Im apologising for the way the post was wrote should have been a some in there but the next person on here giving shit towards us please read my apology beforehand Fark doing my head in hey!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Read your profile and you like unique opinions heres a unique opinion your not a ferrari but Id still look at you :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'sunshine_man' There are many men who respect this. Personally, I get tired of hearing these generalisations. If I were to say "All women are...", I would expect to be branded a sexist. Sir, you are absolutely correct.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'frannaman' Read your profile and you like unique opinions heres a unique opinion your not a ferrari but Id still look at you :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have no idea why Im laughing but Im amused by something Im sure :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why am I having trouble reading this Thread ? ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
It is interesting that this is the topic on here, unfortunately I would have to agree with the statement in general as I have sent a flirt or two before realising that maybe I should not have. So lets all agree men can't read and that way you can forgive us our silly mistakes...I'm sure no harm is meant
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes, the single man....They vex this site like a plague of biblical proportions....God's wrath is quite evident here....they are teeming in their scurrying multitudes.....seemingly mindless and without direction...A veritable pestilence...a pest causing continued torment to the holy single woman and divine couple........Oh, that they were eradicated.......One can only wish and pray for emancipation from this unholy scourge.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I found it interesting one time a couple of years ago where a couple (still members here) sent me a wink. I thought it was a mistake but no, they were interested in what I had to offer. But sadly it was a once only meeting even though the wife said she enjoyed it & wanted more of the same.
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RHP User
13 years ago
This thread is enough to make you want to :weep:Should I feel *that* ashamed at being a single dude???
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me, my preference is males between 20-27. Any older and I'm not sexually attracted to them, and they are approaching daddy territory. Why do they still contact me when I am expressive in the fact that they do not meet my seeking criteria?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
knowing that everyone is flooded with guys i have not and most likely will not ever send a message to anyone here and just hope that the impossible happens and i receive one eventually
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think that perhaps one little, but possibly significant difference of opinion has been overlooked?? We're all aware that there are men on all dating sites posing as women for the purpose of a monetary scam.....have we forgotten that there is the potential for a few of those scammers, are in fact signed up as men as well??? My experiences with some other sex orientated sites are that, the ones that DON'T read(yes I have received messages from really nice looking ladies) are usually a good source of vitamin SCAM!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'LadyDelight' For me, my preference is males between 20-27. Any older and I'm not sexually attracted to them, and they are approaching daddy territory. Why do they still contact me when I am expressive in the fact that they do not meet my seeking criteria?- Posted from rhpmobile ...that's interesting given the fact that both of your 'friends' are 31 years old......
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RHP User
13 years ago
You ladies need to realise a couple of things. First of all, nearly every profile makes it clear that they do not want single men. Most of those with a passing interest in single men will specify "We will contact you if we're interested". So, you're a single guy. You're looking to meet women. You've payed around $200 for this site only to find out that no one wants to talk to you. Well, what's it going to hurt if you send a message anyway?That is how single guys are thinking. Everyone is telling me to fuck off, but I must belong somewhere!It's a common attitude we get in nightclubs and bars. "I want a guy to approach me, but when he does I'm going to put up the bitch shield and tell him to go away". The lesson is that ballsiness and persistence pays off. Maybe you're going to be the exception to the rule: every man with pride likes to think he is. Personally I can't think of a single girl I've been with who wasn't at least a little standoffish to start with.So it's not that we can't read. Yes, you said you're not interested in single men. You and 95% of female and couples profiles on here. It's just that sending you a message is not a big deal considering every other message has been ignored anyway.Now believe me, I know the difference. On a dating site if you say "NO SINGLE MEN", you probably mean in. It's not a game to push off the weak and feeble. But there's a lot of guys here who are having no luck, getting no feedback, not even polite "no thanks" replies...those guys are just going to keep sending message until they get some sort of response.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Philosopherpoet' Quoting 'LadyDelight' For me, my preference is males between 20-27. Any older and I'm not sexually attracted to them, and they are approaching daddy territory. Why do they still contact me when I am expressive in the fact that they do not meet my seeking criteria?- Posted from rhpmobile ...that's interesting given the fact that both of your 'friends' are 31 years old...... how do you know what people on anyones 'friends' list...are 'playmates' or indeed actually 'friends'? and how would it matter if these 'friends' are in, or outside of, the agegroup of someones preference? you cant know.....and it doesnt matter..so to me, you are deliberately picking an argument with someone who is in all likelihood.....a complete stranger...not very 'philosophical' of you? we have 'friends' on our friend list.....who we have never 'met', and we have had previously...friends on the same list who we knew from our 'non 'play' life, and never played with, and one couple who was my cousin...and his wife... so suddenly 'interesting' has become 'irrelevant'............hasnt it?
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RHP User
13 years ago
like we said before....its not 'just' single guys.....its also attached guys, married, engaged, poly..whatever....who 'cant' read....tho i think its more a case of 'dont' read, .......or do....but dont care enough to respect what another has put in her/his/their profile. whatever the case may be, just do what we do...ignore them....they do eventually go away...and if they persist... block them if you must.
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RHP User
13 years ago
ok we have the other side of the problem. We are a cpl who are looking to bring in someone else to the bedroom. All we find is that guys are just hoping i will cheat on my partner with them. I am so sick of guys that think if a cpl wants another guy then there is something wrong with my partner. You know what? there is nothing wrong with my partner and im still yet to meet a bloke who can even hold a candle to him in bed. seriously us girls get on here with our fantasies already in mind and not just looking for a quick root on the side. seriously thinking that its just a bad idea to even try this with the way Australian males are Cyanide
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'blond_gypsy' You ladies need to realise a couple of things. First of all, nearly every profile makes it clear that they do not want single men. Most of those with a passing interest in single men will specify "We will contact you if we're interested". So, you're a single guy. You're looking to meet women. You've payed around $200 for this site only to find out that no one wants to talk to you. Well, what's it going to hurt if you send a message anyway?That is how single guys are thinking. Everyone is telling me to fuck off, but I must belong somewhere!It's a common attitude we get in nightclubs and bars. "I want a guy to approach me, but when he does I'm going to put up the bitch shield and tell him to go away". The lesson is that ballsiness and persistence pays off. Maybe you're going to be the exception to the rule: every man with pride likes to think he is. Personally I can't think of a single girl I've been with who wasn't at least a little standoffish to start with.So it's not that we can't read. Yes, you said you're not interested in single men. You and 95% of female and couples profiles on here. It's just that sending you a message is not a big deal considering every other message has been ignored anyway.Now believe me, I know the difference. On a dating site if you say "NO SINGLE MEN", you probably mean in. It's not a game to push off the weak and feeble. But there's a lot of guys here who are having no luck, getting no feedback, not even polite "no thanks" replies...those guys are just going to keep sending message until they get some sort of response. I love your respond. I completely agree.
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RHP User
13 years ago
..I see, so I have suddenly become defunct and irrelevant because I make an observation? How astute of you.... The interesting thing is: you are guilty of the very same action that you are accusing me of ;-) Fortunately, your opinion means nothing to me so carry on regardless.
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RHP User
13 years ago
ignore, ignore, ignore... geeez
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh a stir of the best kind. Being Bi I have to deal with the endless barrage of messages from men (sometimes women) that cant read (or don't read). One has to wonder how people that cant read can actually get a profile on here to start with, but that's another point altogether.All I could suggest is stop being so sexy OP.. LOL This is after all a sex site.Oh to the one that thinks a few hundred bucks turn women (and men) into your slave, move on losers. Many women also pay. But then what am I to do with all the paid for messages I have and cant send, due to age, status, cock size and more..Do as I do, ignore.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I certainly dont hassle couples, Actually I dont hassle people at all her.Some couples have man in their looking for list, but then they usually state No single guys and etc in their about you or looking for section. Im sure Im not the only one who respects that on members, from the male end.What about women who block guys for just a simple message with nothing more meant. Or my personal fav, they flirt back, u sent a message and they block u...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Oh a stir of the best kind. Being Bi I have to deal with the endless barrage of messages from men (sometimes women) that cant read (or don't read). One has to wonder how people that cant read can actually get a profile on here to start with, but that's another point altogether.All I could suggest is stop being so sexy OP.. LOL This is after all a sex site.Oh to the one that thinks a few hundred bucks turn women (and men) into your slave, move on losers. Many women also pay. But then what am I to do with all the paid for messages I have and cant send, due to age, status, cock size and more..Do as I do, ignore. Yeah! NEVER right as being "Bi" on your profile... u get hammered left, right and corner with messages from guys..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Philosopherpoet'..I see, so I have suddenly become defunct and irrelevant because I make an observation? How astute of you.... The interesting thing is: you are guilty of the very same action that you are accusing me of ;-) Fortunately, your opinion means nothing to me so carry on regardless. lol...how so? by pointing out that your 'interesting'..........really isnt? what am i guilty of? asking a few questions? ..dont confuse my words for a challenge...it was an 'observation'.... as i said....its the word 'interesting' thats irrelevant, nothing else...so dont paraphrase me and make something......out of 'nothing'..........
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RHP User
13 years ago
I hope that wasn't directed at me blindman67, I never said anything about being obligated to reply simply because they've paid to use the site. Merely that if you've paid for something you're going to do whatever you can to justify that cash spent.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'blond_gypsy' I hope that wasn't directed at me blindman67, I never said anything about being obligated to reply simply because they've paid to use the site. Merely that if you've paid for something you're going to do whatever you can to justify that cash spent. Have no record of any communication with you, thus not directed at you and you look sexy. What gets my goat is that I stipulate no hairy men or too over weight, also that I don't have a place to play. Yet get messages from people that have not read any of that information.Most of the time I reply and decline any offers that don't meet my needs, and if they repeat too then a block. I do clear my block list every now and then. We men are very much visual animals when it comes down to profile searches, I have my self, maybe a little drunk, messaged a little to quick, but if all is fine in the top part will message and after reading the profile. If the profile is too short then will start with questions, if the profile is detailed and to my liking will address the info in the profile that may be of issue. For men I generally wait for contacts rather then contact.friskyeatinYou are right there, being bi on this site gives you an idea of what the girls have to put up with at times. If i am active here there can be a barrage.I don't blame women or men for using the block, Its just a filter in my view and they have every right to filter those that don't interest them. Makes life easier without the constant bombardment.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'd file this under the same thought process as the t-shirt some of 'em like to wear. 'Dip me in honey and throw me to the lesbians.' They are simply thinking with their gonads, and not their brains. Using the 'other brain'? Believe me - I've been there, but I wasn't as stupid as the ones that our original message poster has dealt with. I also think that the challenge to go where they're not really permitted is part of it. This is a similar thought as behind speeding, drinking too much, not using condoms, dancing on traffic islands, climbing up highrise verandah handrails, picking fights or responding aggressively to a drunken idiot. I'm sure they've also read saucy stories of forbidden 'fun' times. Y'know the crap: "She'd always said she just wanted to be friends, but she let me see her bra through that thin blouse, so I know she was thinking about gettin' it on..." Hope that clarifies things a bit :-) Honest Mike's Used Cars and Band Management.
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