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Dating a sex worker
June 01 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
ITS like dating any professional in their field they know what to do and their good at it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Love the fantasy, Guess the real question is: will the green eyed monster raise its ugly head? Is she enjoying someone else more rhan you? Are you secure in your own feelings towards her and your relationship? Or are you going to crumble at the mere thought of her being with another man/woman/couple/group? Other than the obvious payment and choice, how is this lifestyle different to that of a non monogamous relationship? All comes down to the strength of bond and trust between the two....just my thoughts... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
so answer is yes , one should not caste a shadow on another based on profession , i want the person within , cant always read a book from its cover , you have to delve into the pages and see what happens next , page by page , that's the turn on the unknown
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RHP User
12 years ago
My boyfriend dated a masseuse who gave happy endings. When we talk about her speaks about her with pride and said she was a great girl. He never had a bad word to say about her and never has put her or her job down. It just didn't worry him. He said it was a turn on knowing what she was doing and then she was coming home to him.
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RHP User
6 years ago
We sometimes pay for an escort so what would be the difference if my wife escorted a bit. So long as she's happy doing it then it's probably a win win lol
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ChinesenIrish
6 years ago
I dated a sex worker for 8 years I enjoyed the stories of her day at the office... we are now married and 2 kids down.... I wouldn't trade it for the world...
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wildcrazyloving
6 years ago
I am an Adult Industry Worker whom dated a male stripper. It lasted three months, as he had no professional boundaries. There are some socially acceptable occupations that conflicts with my values.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have a unique insight into this topics . I was the "cleaner " for legal purposes. For just under 3 years in Melbourne. very rarely do the relationships last , the women usually have all there saving stolen, but that's not what really hurts them , it's the names that they call each other I have witnessed some very ugly things that we as human beings do to each other, fixing the body is relatively easy, fixing the mind good luck. Thank you for letting me share
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Mask_007
6 years ago
That is a really good subject. Well done, extremely out of the conflict zone, to majority of the people so called " not judgemental ones"... I have spent good part of my working carea in hotel industry up to now. I was blessed with the opportunity of being in direct contact with that amazing working class. Amazing people when you get opportunity to know then. I still have some friends part of that, and i definitely would love to keep making friends with tham.
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Playful2looking
6 years ago
Not sure this would totally depend on the person.. If we clicked and really enjoyed each others company. then dating is very possible. Long therm relationship is a much harder to think about. How would the relationship work.. could the partner end up being on sex rations i know this sounds strange but if she had a busy day and we had not being together for a few weeks because she was out of town with clients and i really missed her both physically and emotionally but when she got home she just wanted to curl up and hug would I be able to request being intimate together.. would she just do it to keep me happy.. then could our loving making become just a mechanical thing another person to keep happy. I know this happens with regular couples where either has had a tough week and doesn't want sex .. but you know your partner is not going off to work to have sex the next morning. Most guys see sex with their partner as a way of expressing their love as well as being a physical release.Would the relationship be mostly about being an emotional supportive and less a physical relationship especially when your loved one has being dealing with emotionally draining clients.. its tricky and would require a very honest and open people to make it work. i think sometimes people put their work a head of their relationship. guys do this a lot .. with a sex worker the couple would need to be very careful about how the work interfered with their relationship.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I think if men are prepared to share their fwbs on here (which most of them have indicated that they would). I don't see the difference. I could never do it. Nor engage with what I refer to as a 'revolving door' man.
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Mask_007
6 years ago
I was reading some of the comments once again and is amazing the level of conflict and divergent opinions attached to these subject. I would like to quote coriander "And I would hazard to guess fewer women could cope with a sexually employed male partner. It takes a real strength of character & self worth to deal with a partner working within the sex industry" My guess is that does not mettar how is a male or female, a job is a job. And in a very simplistic way we are all the same. We just hire different parts of our body for $. I think would be great for the ego have a SP as partner. After all they do is with you they rather be, anf how you are. How special is that!!!!!! Go girl i am totally supportive, and in Melbourne, hit me up.for a drink and a chat. Will be my pleasure be in your company...
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RHP User
6 years ago
Haven’t dated a sex worker per se but I dated a women who did the dinner date escort thing, company dinners that sort of thing, paid for a social work degree. That woman was a revelation and a highlight in my life. (She was 15yrs older too) Dating a sex worker I would imagine would work best with let’s say a more mature man ? And no that is not an advert.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I went out with one in my early twenties said she was a pathology nurse that did the night shift. I found out pretty quickly and she had an insatiable appetite for sex. I didn't really care it's just sex but I felt used I felt that I became a source of material things for her and she got very controlling. It scard me for a while I meet some of her friend's they were good people a few had husbands that had no idea. It must be a hard life.
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Samnite
6 years ago
I have dated a couple of sex workers. I never had an issue with their work because I came to an understanding many years ago that sex and feelings are seperate things. To be honest, I found it exciting that other guys would fuck her but she would still choose to spend the night with me. After all, life is mostly about choices. I would not recommend it for people who are insecure or have jealousy issues.
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Playful2looking
6 years ago
A just reading comments interesting.. many have dated sex workers but not many have moved onto a committed relationship would you marry a sex worker some hubby's do would you want them to stop working once married..
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RHP User
6 years ago
Until relatively recently I had known more sex workers socially than professionally. For some it was a bit of an issue, as in the whispered conversation about what so and so's sister did for a job, if they weren't junkies I didn't give a toss.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I pay for sex regularly. No issues. And I'm non monogamous. That said, I don't think I'd like to date a sex worker, mainly because I like sex. I like a lot of sex, and I've heard that sex workers do get sick of sex. I wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't want to fuk regularly, like 5 plus times per week.
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Mask_007
6 years ago
Acucullophiliac Hey hook me in. I definitely would be in to that level of activities. Is so hard to find someone that like as much as that.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Well my sister was one and it’s not as clean cut as every one thinks and the health ain’t full proof and the drugs that went threw them places were bad as well not saying everyone does it but the things we went threw when she worked there was a bad experience for us so if any says their safe not even a priest is safe or a judge but still done mean everyone is you just have to be careful because they all deserve a chance and respect no mater what but al ways be careful
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RHP User
6 years ago
I couldn’t ever date a sex worker, I don’t think that it’s an attractive profession to chose and I feel like making a real connection with them would be unrealistic.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Dating heh, I married one and had 12 yrs and 2 kids together before the wonders of divorce (nothing to do with her work). Not for the jealous types but if love someone what they do for a living is secondary. So I say go for it, ride the wave, get dumped - and I’d do it again (maybe not the marriage bit lol)
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yeah I have had a gf that was prostitute that's how I meet her first and we exchanged numbers and went from there
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RHP User
5 years ago
Have twice, most of the time whilst working their preforming many roles, the number one is counseling,, some guy's are just different.. I would always ask for a sexy story... Real life ain't quite like the movies.. Have fun
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RHP User
5 years ago
Have twice, most of the time whilst working their preforming many roles, the number one is counseling,, some guy's are just different.. I would always ask for a sexy story... Real life ain't quite like the movies.. Have fun
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Sawadee
5 years ago
As a friend to share a coffee ' no problem... but dating ? 😏
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RHP User
4 years ago
thats a big "NO THANKS" from me to that one
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RHP User
4 years ago
It would depend what kind of sex worker. If we are thinking on full services I would be out. Porn star it is a hard one. Onlyfans, Stripper, webcamer I don't see any issue
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RHP User
4 years ago
There seems to be 2 kinds of working girls ..those on drugs and those not on drugs.. and the difference is massive ..I think I kind of fell in love with one once upon a time. .then she was just resigned one day ..never saw her again ..I think about her all the time but I guess I’ll never know if she felt similar or was that all part of it ? ..she said I was the politest customer she’d ever had.. we would kiss for ages and chat and laugh and fuck..sometimes she would come 4 times over 3 hours and I really don’t believe she was faking .She genuinely enjoyed it too but I’ll never have 100% on that one and everyone says “they do it to everyone “ or “that’s part of the job..to make u feel like that” but I’m not a fucking idiot either ..I can tell if a girl is enjoying herself by now .. I would have dated her I reckon .. Never been to another one since and I genuinely miss our time together and not just for the sex which was fucking wonderful ..sigh
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islandsailor1
4 years ago
would prefer honest sex worker over a jealouse women. Had relationship with ex worker and loved her talking about her history.. So connected had a jealous my ex, no trust. Continual accusations. always on edge. And as commonly the case she was unfaithful on many occasions but denied it. would love we to meet an ex worker and settle in a permanent relationship.
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Nato842
2 years ago
I don't see a problem with it It's a job
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Gregidge635
2 years ago
No way couldn’t do it being at work and thinking whose banging my girl right now sometimes that thought goes through your head anyway it would be hard knowing that there’s being 7,8,.9 or maybe even 10 or more guys before you get home from work
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StealthGuy
2 years ago
I was really excited when a girlfriend took up stripping for a few weeks. For a sex worker, no problem with her doing the job. I'm sure she'd know how to tease me real good. I'd think, everyone else has to pay for what I've got :). Would she have enough energy / desire left for being intimate with me or would she need to take a rest regularly for a day after working? Would she always practice safe sex while working?
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Oysterman
2 years ago
When living in London a few years ago I shared a three bedroom flat with two ladies who worked as 'hostesses' in a number of clubs in the City. We developed a wonderful relationship between the three of us and the only time there was a problem is if one or both of the ladies needed a cuddle and chat when arriving home in the early hours of the morning and I was engaged with a 'friend' that I had met somewhere or other earlier in the night ! On two separate occasions the four of us engaged in some truly remarkable maneuvers ! The three of us are now settled in various countries but we still send each other birthday cards etc.
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sahzpete
2 years ago
Let's face it the younger generation are far more sexualy active than back in my day there where some naughty girls but most where brought up to be good girls , but it is very common for girls to have many , many sex partners now days be for they settle down, not as many as a sex worker , if it was me l would as long as she was a nice person, and she probably would be open to swinging from the start so that would be a big bonus,,, sex workers are normal people with the same wants , as all of us ,, love and companionship,
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fundude86
2 years ago
Could you women be ok if the shoe was on the other foot?
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Feelerup
2 years ago
I dated a girl who was a sex worker 10 years ago.. we had a deep connection and had great sex aswell.. I made her squirt and she told me I was the first person to do that for her (I’ll never know if it was true) but it did somewhat play on my mind, she went into sex work from a series of abuse since she was young and growing up with little to no money.. it definitely affected her aswell mentally. I miss her, but it just wasn’t meant to be. If I fall in love again with an ex sex worker or current I’m probably better off not knowing.. ignorance is bliss, but not reality.
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Nato842
2 years ago
In my younger years I probably wouldn't all kinds of immature jealousy would eventually reared its head now older I would but probably too old for them hahaha
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Hobartfun
2 years ago
I don’t see a problem with it As long as your both honest and talk about it If your both all good then what’s it matter
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RHP User
2 years ago
I'm open to it personally but I won't lie, it is harder than dating a civvie girl and it will affect your dating prospects.
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raylay69
2 years ago
I’m am 52 and she is 26 we been together for 6 years
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kinkyguy24
2 years ago
About 12-14yrs ago I had a girlfriend who was a working girl, thats actually how we meet, she was very picky with her clientele and then she had her regulars, It didn't bother me in the least
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RHP User
2 years ago
I was engaged to a hooker for 5yrs, she obviously stopped doing that for me once we were a couple. However, she could never cum! Couldn't even make herself cum, she was numb brain/body and soul...
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ShortKing82
2 years ago
I think if I entered the relationship knowing what I was getting, sure I could date a sex worker. If it was something she hid, I am not sure I could handle that new found information positively.
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RHP User
2 years ago
I ended up dating an escort after several bookings. I was so attracted to her, her looks and not give a fuck attitude just wanting pleasure and fun, pushing the boundaries constantly, I was at the same place in my life. She moved in after 4 visits maybe and we lived with each other for a couple of years then where on and off for couple more We shared so much and where both going through so much. Over those years. We are still friends 10 or so years later. Huge growth for both of us
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Yolo35wasor
2 years ago
it would be cool as
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RHP User
one year ago
I wouldn’t care at the start but I don’t think long term would work for me . She’d need to stop
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HighburySam
one year ago
I think I could be in a relationship with a woman who works in the sex industry.
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curiousss
one year ago
why shouldn't a man be prepared to date a sex worker? Any sex with her would be due to an emotional connection.. on her part as well as his. The sex work is providing a service.. no love necessarily involved.
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Nato842
one year ago
It's just a job what's the problem If you click with someone their job is irrelevant
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timeformeandfun
one year ago
I have actually dated a sex worker and it was probably the best relationship I've ever had it's a shame it ended
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Robertroland
one year ago
Hello, is anyone in Sydney interested in meeting up tonight for a fun and enjoyable time?
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TheCatIsAway
one year ago
Dating, yes.... Living with or having a serious relationship, probably not
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Letzhavsumfun
one year ago
read almost all your comments and seems people who have had a chance to meet one of You had some good memorable moments in life they hold close. In saying that, I'd like to take a chance myself so, calling out to anyone looking to go out for a good banter over a nice dinner and some drinks, feel free to PM me please. I live close to Mackay area (central QLD) just FYI. Thank you for stopping by.
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Bdaily
one year ago
I’d be happy enough. It’s a generous job to do and could have some real benefits for the relationship
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RupertWombat
one year ago
Was seeing a lass a few years younger than me and a few inches taller, when i was in my mid 30's. She was in the trade. But she also enjoyed just being able to hang out with someone or go to bed, or have a drink... all the regular stuff that people enjoy doing. Yes I would do it again. They are just normal people who sometimes have a very high sex drive. They also like to be treated like a lover.
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soujushi
one year ago
I’ve dated two sex workers over the years. One was already in the job when we met, and the second was a girl who started out while we were together. They both genuinely enjoyed the work and it was wonderful to see them enjoying life. From my end I liked hearing the stories of the good clients and the highlights of her work day.
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Nato842
7 months ago
It's just a job like any other . But if your a person who doesn't have control of your emotions I can see where it would go south . Personally I have no problem with it , I actually think it could be a great thing as long as communication is on point. Actually the more I think of it the more I want it ,
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sterlingarcher1
5 months ago
Absolutely would be fine with it. It is the oldest profession there is.. Not a jealous type.
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mobydick4000
5 months ago
I would, I would see us dating where she could have her needs met both in and out of the bedroom. But I personally don't pay, so not a fan of sugar babe's contacting me. I started a conversation with a former stripper during covid. I was more interested in hearing her story and listening on how she used the money to set herself up. Others, she told me, used the money to spend on expensive clothes, jewellery, holidays, car, apartment etc. She purchased her home. She also worked with other young professional (uni education) women who were also using it for fast big money at a young age to establish their financial independence.
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DrFucalot
5 months ago
I dated a sex worker in my mid 20's and I felt no differently about her re her profession. A few years into my last marriage, my wife wanted to try and ended up working at a brothel for about 6 months. Again no issue. I find a lot of people seem to confuse fun or work for love and a trusting relationship.
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