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Dude.... Babe grrrrrrr...

October 18 2012

Just read a post where one guy called the other guy ' dude'OK ' I know its just a name but I find this term offensive ' when I hear it' it immediately puts me in defensive mood. I interpret this term as talking down to the person its aimed at.. In the real world ' I only ever heard it from a few ppl and only once was I called 'dude' . That ended up with a apology once I asked the guy what he meant by that.. he didnt know... Babe, I notice lately quite a few ladies on here say they hate being called 'babe' . I used this term many years ago when the it was not common , but now I avoid it like the plague.. Why ? because every man and his dog use it more so ' for their own ego than the girls use it on. Its common , and I feel the girls are just getting jack of it..OK thats my gripe for the day... anyone care to comment ?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I would only call my friends "dude" through text messages and so forth, but never in person. I never call any female "babe", because I think it's condescending. I cringe when a stranger calls me hun, babe, honey etc. On the ODD occasion I've been called a stud in public which I returned a cheeky smile with one eyebrow raised haha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Jay_Me, sorry to do this to you, (aahh nah lying i'm not sorry at all, to be perfectly honest I am so happy I have exposed you once again I think i'm getting a fat boner like the ones you have viewed on our profile)   now let's get to the crutch of the issue. you have started this thread by saying that you read on a post that one guy called another guy 'dude' & then a few days later the same thing happened to you & you were called 'dude' which you found offensive & you told us all that you contacted this person for a "please explain" and you received an apology.   Mate! LIAR, LIAR, PANTS ON FIRE!!!!!! (Jay_Me, by boner is now really fat & big!)   this is how it went. once again, hold on Jay_Me. in the thread "Are Bi Guys Really Gay?" you made the homophobic, prehistoric, narrow minded & uneducated view, that no, ANY sexual contact between males, makes them gay. no exceptions, cased closed, etc. etc.   I, being an openly Bi Male, (Yes! I love cock & ass almost as much as I love pussy & tits) called you out on this post as I was so offended & this was my public 'please explain' addressed to you. my post to you was in the following context;   "DUDE, LISTEN, RUN QUICKLY TO YOUR CLOSET, THERE IS A SCREAMING QUEER IN THERE FIGHTING TO GET OUT". I also told you to stop looking at our profile daily which has pretty cock pics on it that you seemed to admire.   the real issue here is NOT that you had been called 'dude', it was by whom you were called 'dude' & the context in which it was used.   this is why you were insulted & felt slighted & humiliated. it had nothing to do with the name 'dude' it was because you were called out in public & you were unable to give an intelligent reply or the have the decency & backbone to give a genuine apology, to not just me, but to ALL Bi people, male or female.   in this thread, you big-note yourself by saying you had confronted the guy who had called you 'dude', asked him for a 'please explain' & you received an explanation & an apology. THIS IS A BLATENT LIE!, fabricated to make yourself feel & look more of a man in the eyes of the forum public & to give yourself some type of pathetic, chest beating, ego boost.   I must also state, after I had posted my comment addressed to you in this previous thread, you continued to view our profile daily for 4 days until I got jack of it & messaged you saying 'dude, stop looking at our pretty cock pics or I will publicly out you in the forums again'. I received no reply from you however your viewing ceased.   In this current thread, which you started for your own ego, you are telling the forum public that you confronted, got an explanation & received an apology for being called 'dude'. this is BULLSHIT & you know it! now everybody you 'puffed out your chest for' knows it as well.   welcome to real life, where there are people who will gladly expose the likes of you. just be aware that if you are going to shout out offensive views & target a large demographic & then turn around to fabricate a thread based on lies, I will be there, looking over your shoulder with that boner itching to expose you yet again   I must apologise to all the real 'dudes' out there. I consider a 'dude' a straight-up, no bullshit, manly, modern, funky & intelligent guy with a backbone & a moral fibre. Jay_Me, my love, you are most certainly NOT a 'dude'. the only term that comes to mind, that I should have called you is PATHETIC LITTLE MAN.   you have received NO explanation or apology from me regarding ANY post or thread when I had used the word 'dude' when I addressed you. you WILL NEVER receive an apology or explanation from me either!   all the funky love in the world mr funky (.)(.)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    love it! awesome reply!   keepin it real & making sure everybody else does too. you iz tha Dude!!!!     mrs funky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I made a typo error in the sentence that showed my first reply to Jay_Me   I have quoted 'IN THE CLOSET THERE IS A SCREAMING QUEER'   This is a TYPO - I had meant to write 'SCREAMING QUEEN', Queer can be used as a derogative term to denote a Gay Male. Which of course I would never use.   Stand down with the hate mail xx     Jay_Me, as you were ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've attached a link to the original site where the comments were made in the first place. the first comment where it's put out there by Jay_Me that there is only straight or gay, nothing else, appears on page 2.   it looks vaguely like he may have made a fumbled retraction after being attacked for his comments, but it made no sense, was not directed towards anything or anybody & was dismissive to all     http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Are-Bi-Guys-really-Gay-38786     Jay_Me was given the courtesy of a heads up before this post from mr funky became public. obviously things are not pleasant & appear to only start the onset of whatever is coming, but, fact is Jay_Me accused my husband, myself, a large number of RHP members & outside of this little bubble we are living in a incredible amount of people who are Bi, as Gay. black & white, simple, are his words.   The Bi community has been dismissed by this arrogant, bully, who has only begun to throw this 'weight' around.   If the target was of another race, their would be such outrage that this person would dare not send any messages to anybody with any threats, warnings or whatever else.   This is no different. This shit needs to end. A persons sexual identity should not be ridiculed, dismissed, questioned, commented on, gossiped about or treated as something abnormal or wrong.   please don't anybody dare come at me with any religious crap which supposedly will back up any narrow minded, ignorant view that runs along the same lines as Jay_Me. I see your religion & raise by thousands of years prior to it's existence & still the varying sexual identities that inhabited this planet.   there's my rant, & your link   mrs funky

  • sensualia

    sensualia

    12 years ago

    Hey dude, don't make it bad.Take a sad post and make it fester.Remember to stop him touching your skin,Then you can start to fake it better. Hey dude, don't be afraid.You were made to believe in faggots.Remember to let gays into your heart,Then you can start to take it better. And anytime you feel insane, hey dude, refrain,Don't carry bigotry on your shoulders.For well you know that it's a fool who plays the toolBy making this world a little colder.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Funny read, but reading the above, OP, your not a cool dude, your simply a dumb prick. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Dude I need a cold drink after reading through all that

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I cant believe what people take offence at! But get this, I take offence at when my real name is used!I used to hate being called Love... but now I use it regularly, I call men and women Mate, I call women Babe, I call men and women dudes. I am terrible with names, so yeah most times I get someone's attention by saying "hey mate, you wanna drink?"I think it comes down to how its delivered... If its used in a condescending tone, then yeah take offence..You know what the biggest put down is to me? People who happen to know my real name, and say it in full. When that happens, its always condescending and an insult, its never a happy emotion, its always used with anger, and venom... so much so that I have decided to change my name to Anna officially, its hard to say that with any inflection.... I would much rather be called the jovial vernacular terms of babe, mate or even dude - any day of the week

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Thank you for sharing that about the blue whales! ROFL I love hearing that kinda stuff... It gets even more interesting when I cant remember basic things, yet I would be able to answer "the length of male blue whale"s penis is 11ft long" at quiz nights. Dude? Why oh why does that stuff get retained but not the important shit???!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Being called a sensitive macho whinging git would be worse, surely?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You are a absolute goose by the sounds of things Jay_Me. Pretty sure funky just proved that to everyone. Maybe you should stay out the forums for bit dude! Haha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I was just going to say that every time I hear the word "dude" I think of a scene from "Baseketball" where there is an entire conversation just using the word dude wi different tones.Then I read the last few posts and thought.....flaming? That's a MOAB !!!I don't like it much.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    What does that mean?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I call men dude on this forum a bit but not as a put down, I use it more to express surprise at what someone has said. Like "dude, are you serious?" Or to express my incredulity at someone's stupidity. (That's a joke Joyce!)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'J_1990'You are a absolute goose by the sounds of things Jay_Me. Pretty sure funky just proved that to everyone.   Mr Funky is acting like a douche. Case in point, this thread, where he is still acting like a douche:   http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Funky-2-eat-slice-of-humble-pie-small-slice-42183

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I say dude, I say babe, I say daaarlink, That was brilliant!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Here's my story, sad but trueAbout a girl that I once knew.She broke my heart, I became unglued,It all started when she called me dude

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    For jumping in & directing readers to link, very much appreciated. Had thought you were still struggling to wrap your pretty little head around what flavour the pie was & missed what was actually being said. Funky 2 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    This thread is a joke for so many reasons... I wonder how many posts it will shoot up by now that the whole forum has been alerted to the drama within...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'funkyperthbicpl'For jumping in & directing readers to link, very much appreciated. Had thought you were still struggling to wrap your pretty little head around what flavour the pie was & missed what was actually being said. I do miss heaps. Good thing I'm pretty. And I only said you were acting like a douche. I didn't call you a tosser, like you did to someone yesterday (twice!) Guess I don't miss everything, then. Peace out x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    some dudes need a chill pill man. Deep breath, centre and find your zen happy place.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's a kind of bomb. To be specific a GBU 43, Massive Ordinance Air Blast (knicknamed by the media as the Mother Of All Bombs) one of the most powerful conventional weapons ever made. It is a pretty horrific weapon overall.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Vitriol, judgement and hate, From a group of people who profess to be open minded and embrace an alternate lifestyle. There's something new!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Kaleidoscope'Vitriol, judgement and hate, From a group of people who profess to be open minded and embrace an alternate lifestyle. There's something new!- Posted from rhpmobile I live a normal lifestyle.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Before the stale bread gets tossed, mesmerized kindly provided a link which if you care to look at may answer your questions. Funky 2 (.)(.)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • AussieStriker

    AussieStriker

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Lady_Tuscan' does that count?     Personally I don't like that one either but even worse is Dear

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ben Stiller & Rob Downey JrThe last word on Dude ...Kirk Lazarus: You're gonna focus up now, motherfucker, and say it. "It's me, Tugg!" Tugg Speedman: It's me, Tugg. Kirk Lazarus: That's right! Now, Tugg who? Tugg Speedman: Tugg who? I don't know. Who are you?Kirk Lazarus: Me? I know who I am! I'm a dude playin' a dude disguised as another dude. Kevin Sandusky: What? Kirk Lazarus: You a dude that don't know what dude he is! Tugg Speedman: Or are you a dude who has no idea what dude he is and claims to know what dude he is... Jeff Portnoy: What the fuck are you guys talking about? Tugg Speedman: ...by playing other dudes? Kirk Lazarus: I know what dude I am!

  • westozyboy

    westozyboy

    12 years ago

    Hahaha I think your ego is out of control but lets look at some things here. Firstly the comment was made as someones free right to make a comment on here as they wish. No harm done there and taken as such and given me a good laugh but lets look at the other side of the coin. The real matter if to be taken in the real real world. I use Buddy a lot and maybe there are many who are offended but its done in a lighthearted good way so a to not use something more demeaning. Would you prefer i address you as "Mister, Boy, Lad, Old Man, Hey you, Cock head, Dumbarse, Old fart, or maybe something more wild. A bit of a challenge to find which you like best unless I live with you 24/7 and have a complete understanding of whats going on in your head and how you roll. ( not much chance of that, I can tell you) How many people do you ask if you piss them off by using names like, missus, love, honey, man, dickhead or abbreviated names like Mel instead of Mellisa, Tom instead of Thomas. Maybe lots of people dont like the way you dress like a bogan in the pics. Ha ha get my drift? I take you comment in the way it was given, as all have the right to post there thoughts peeves and likes, but just thought Id bring to your attention that some who think they are perfect may not be themselves and maybe why they are alone at night, watching tv and wondering WTF is going on in life! lolLighten a little and I am sure you will get more out of life ( and maybe more friends here in Australia so you dont have to travel overseas so much . Take care and good luck with your search!

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