emmy128

emmy128

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FwB .. myth or legendary

September 07 2019

Really would like your thoughts here, when I was younger I had a great mutual beneficial FWB for years. Alas he moved on and we respectfully went our own ways. I would really like to find a similar situation but I don’t think guys are honestly taking my genuine word. I don’t want to trap you into a relationship of any dynamic. Respectfully, we meet up for drinks and/or dinner followed but great climaxes or purely the quick shag when calling for it... is there such a thing anymore these days??? Xx - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    Of course people can be here. Just because someone has 2+ FWBs, doesn't mean a thing. That person chooses to have freedom to do as they please, not what others think they should be doing. Go for it I say. Unless a conversation has been discussed about being in "a committed couple relationship", then they are free to do as they like. Go for it I say and put yourself out there. Life is one big adventure. The more the merrier. Ms Foxy

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    Of course they have the right to be here just as you and l .. But I think you missed the point. What I meant , ( tongue firmly in cheek ) was that if your that popular , do you really need to be here looking for more ? Twist that as you may... ?

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    I'm just here for the forums. Lol! Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Can be both But I agree with emmy keep talking if things are beginning to change and there wont be a disaster. I have had some wonderful FWB s and they start with real reasons generally two humans with elevated sexual desires that are not being satisfied. These relationships last and friendship is strong the needs are big and the satisfaction is big. I have travelled the world moving from place to place regularly and my first was 3 years in France----they don't call it a FWB its a master or mistress. I wud say that over 80% of the French have these relationships and there are rules to the game both attached partners know and accept but never talk about it [ They know because they saw Mom and Dad doing it] the Rules 1 the Children come first no missing kids events to have a root 2 never go to areas in the same town or village 3 never try to find out who the other is 4 stay away from places family may be . 5 If you walk in on something turn around and walk out then and there. Millions Of the French run there lives like this and have been doing so for centuries They are very sophisticated people Anglos are just coming to terms with this life style no matter what it is called and even now its for a group who call themselves swingers ??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Im a fan of the fwb too. So hard to find though. Sone guys get all clingy and doe-eyed Some guys get all territorial, jealous or possessive. Sone girls: the same If only people could separate sex and love. Theyre not necessarily the same thing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    It has worked wonders for me a number of times! I don’t want a relationship!!! 18 years was enough for me and the headache (literally) has gone 👍🏼. Guys say they’re keen on the FWB gig, but then they just use me as a sex toy at their convenience!! FWB is not a ‘fuck buddy’ or NSA! FWB is friends’ that can hang out as friends and have sex without the awkwardness and bullshit involved with a relationship.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I wish it was a thing still. Sadly I have been on the end where Im falling in love with the girl and wanted more like dates, weekends away, beach days and even a relationship. But she just wanted the sex. I find it impossible to be on the same page. Someone is always hoping for more.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    LEGEND ... wait for it....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Im late to the party, but i think it depends on what vibes you give off. These days if somebody gives off a few red flags, it can be a no go because the pain isnt worth it. That said if youre genuine, im sure youll find what youre looking for.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I'm still looking for a FWB. I find all the men I've met just want hookups and one nighters. One guy I know would have turned into something regular, we spent 2 nights together then left for Europe 😭 another guy I had seen a few times but I had to stop seeing him for a few reasons. I think it's a myth to find a FWB on this site. Maybe it takes time? I don't know. I'm getting over constantly talking to heaps of guys and meaningless conversations and dates that don't go anywhere.

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