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Gentle men I am not a free whore
April 30 2013
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On_Safari
13 years ago
.....how this "gentleman" is feeling now that he's been soundly, judged, drawn and quartered by the masses? Tuscan you know I have the utmost respect and my musing is purely because somewhere this person has feelings. Initially hard ones for you poorly executed. Let us all hope that he has taken somerhing positive away from this forum thread (because one would think he may be aware of the discussion) and reviews his repertoire, view and approach to enticing a prospective encounter. Safari
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'TwiggyStick'I thought your next tattoo was going to say "crispy duck" in Chinese? Anyhow women ,some guys just think women are here for their pleasure. I know its a silly mentality ,but women help men evolve and become more understanding towards our feelings and the feelings of others.Its a long process but we do come out the other end as better people. Rejection helps alot as we come to the conclusion that ,we have chosen the wrong path in communicating with women ! Give him time and the rejection of a number of other women,will help him change his tune and see how wrong he was.i couldnt have said it any better he must just be a dumdass or thinks hes that good that the world will stop for him i must have read 100 profiles from top to bottom but have only replied to about 10 most have given me some type of reply wether it to say no thanks or have become friends so ithink reading the profiles and only sending them a msg if you fit what they are after but the most importent thing is have some respect and dont be pushy or ask for a quicky strait away at lest get to know who you are speaking to and what they are realy looking.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I asked straight out on Monday and was refused, how about that?
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On_Safari
13 years ago
Hasn't happened since I was a smoking hot early-mid 20yo!! What's with THAT!!!! And there you go guys, woman DO get knocked back if they're putting it out there. It's not a one way street hey. There have been other times in my life when single snd for the life of me I couldn't get laid.....then you get a partner and it's raining men!!! What's with THAT? Any guys care to explain? Safari-girl on the road to enlightenment.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'Nudierudie2'Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to use sarcasm. That may just have to be my next tattoo. Sarcasm - that's me all over! I came across one of those 'humourmeetscomics' cards - it reads "when your sarcasm is so advanced, people think you're being polite". One of my best gal pals sent it to me! Too true.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I doubt the guy thought about you being a whore but really, who says 'asap' for sex? LOL If you felt like a whore (I can imagine why) it's simply your opinion, perhaps he's the straw that broke the camels back, so they say... clearly your not a whore or you would have been thrilled with his message, and he's not said you were or offered money. so it's simply a case of your own opinion. either that, or start charging, you could very well make a fortune :) (and i'd never consider you a whore if you did)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think sex is different for everyone. For some it's just a physical act with no connection, for others, 'sex' is about more than a cock pumping away in a vaj - and no, I'm not referring to a bit of foreplay then a fuck. The thrill of the chase, being appreciated by being seduced with words or touch, there are many different ways to attain sexual satisfaction or an adequate build up. And then there are guys like the one who messaged you, and others who think 'oh these chics have dirty pics and are on a fuck site, they have to think sex is exactly like i want it to be- ding dong- hi- fuck - bye' But just think, if he sends that as a first message to 100 women and gets one taker, he has saved himself a trip to the brothel.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Sugarrbabyy'But just think, if he sends that as a first message to 100 women and gets one taker, he has saved himself a trip to the brothel. You nailed it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
He nailed it. The one in 100 that said yes. I have spoken to guys who send these types of messages and they do eventually get a positive response. Apparently 2 to 3 am on Friday & Saturday nights are a good time to send your spam email. :-/
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Playful2looking
13 years ago
2am to 3am friday and saturday to send spam cool. or is that sperm. I guess its like leaving a chocalot bar at the check out.
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RHP User
13 years ago
This is the only type of requests I get and I don't have naked pics up at all. So yes, I do believe men think of us on this site as free whores. Needless to say, I've met up with no one. It is, however, a sex site :-\- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' He nailed it. The one in 100 that said yes. I have spoken to guys who send these types of messages and they do eventually get a positive response. Apparently 2 to 3 am on Friday & Saturday nights are a good time to send your spam email. :-/ Home from the pub, pissed, lonely and horny !
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RHP User
13 years ago
that another person would take time out of their day to message me, i would consider a privilege! There are so many wankers out there, women know who they are, they are quite easy to spot! So why do all my female friends still go for them every time! It does seem to me like nice guys finish last :(
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mr just...... check the so called Bad Boy topic.These women you mention are going for the "wankers" only because the wankers know how to effectively engage her emotions.... and theyre doing it better than you.Learn that communicative skill.....and its easily learned..... and express yourself through it but without the negatives that these wankers possess, and you'll never have to make comments about nice guys finishing last ever again.DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
I always thought women on here should try another approach such as... "OMG i can not believe you mailed me,i have been watching you for a while now and thought how much fun it would be to meet someone like you,i am free now can we meet here then BLOCK THEIR ASS! @hardcock9 ta for agreeing @ Ms Devious if you ever need anything nailed im here for ya
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RHP User
13 years ago
Classy, sensual, sexy, gorgeous woman who is anything but a whore. Those pics are great but my favourite is your actual profile pic, don't know why but that is one that I find the sexiest.Some guys try the direct approach and that will wok in a pub on a Friday night (sometimes) here though... yeah you need to be respectful
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RHP User
13 years ago
You are a Lady, a damn fine one at that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
FifiAmour, It doesn't matter which site you go to, be them legit(straight) or this wonderful site (sex site) You are always going to get some males of the species being disrespectful, anyway I wanted to say, Stay clothed, maintain your gorgeous smile and enjoy this wonderful site, despite what it may represent, there are wonderful people in here, and I am sure you will find your beau.
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RHP User
13 years ago
As it took so long for my post to appear I thought it wouldn't and now the conversion has gone in several directions. Ok MsD does my message rely on the picture or pictures that are shown? No it doesn't what I read in the profile will have a lot more to do with what message I send than whether there are nipples showing. If the woman is blunt and direct about what she is looking for then I'll message in kind, however there is a polite way to do this. Of course there are the profiles where you think "Screw it if that's what you've written...."but messages like that I find A has that in the profile then they probably want tall as well, which sadly even with the advances in prosthetic legs there are some things that they aren't built for (happy for someone to try mine out and prove me wrong :-) ) so in that case I doubt that any witty/cheeky lines about "ever had any one 'go up' on you" or the most eloquant message will get my foot in the door(metaphorically speaking of course). I know it sounds like I'm wailing and moaning that no one wants to be with disabled guy, and that I hate everything about how I am. I don't, my other silly line is "once you've had legless you'll never go back" it is worth noting though that the best I get from these is laughter, which as they are partly icebreaker is ok and it most definately not true at all that no one wants to be with a disabled guy but the sad fact is that the field isn't as big and you do need to look for the person who will get to know you first, which in itself is harder. So at the end of all this have I changed my mind? No not all TR you are classy, sexy, gorgeous and not what I would call a shore .... don't think I've ever called anyone that actually. It's pretty obvious that he didn't read your profile, as to what reply you should have sent? Well that depends on you and your feeling at the time, we've probably all fired of a text, email, post in the heat of the moment that later we look at and wish we could have done differently but as long as you stand by what you say good or bad who's to judge?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Being on RHP doesnt make you any less of a decent person I was chatting and enjoying a night out with my vanilla friends who know I come here and they just laugh and know me as me. They dont judge thank goodness. After being here a while you get the guys that dont think .....they think they want sex I want sex....1 + 1 = 2 b ut as in the real world it takes a little more tact.....sometimes a lot more tact.I only wish that the people you let into your life would not treat you this way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Beneath_blueeyes'Being on RHP doesnt make you any less of a decent person I was chatting and enjoying a night out with my vanilla friends who know I come here and they just laugh and know me as me. They dont judge thank goodness. After being here a while you get the guys that dont think .....they think they want sex I want sex....1 + 1 = 2 b ut as in the real world it takes a little more tact.....sometimes a lot more tact.I only wish that the people you let into your life would not treat you this way. let any one into my life who is so inept, so I dont get treated this way its just silly online stuff , where men or even women do not articulate what they want with some sense of respect or class you can still be sexy, flirt, even be a little or a lot graphic ( but you only get away with that shit if your some hottie) but not with me its just sad when a guy around my age still cant get a clue how to navigate rhp without shooting themselves in the cock
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RHP User
13 years ago
message atm is from a man I had been chatting to recently,it said''I haven't had sex since Xmas and I want to blow my load in you''....while I was flattered to be the recipient of such an offer, I politely declined.
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RHP User
13 years ago
TR why do you say that you only to get away with graphic messages if you're a hottie? Is this in the writers or the readers eyes? Surely someone who is able to put a few sentences together that gets you so worked up that you need to go and have some quiet recreational alone time is better than someone who looks drop dead gorgeous but can come up only the most basic of sexually charged sentences? Of course the perfect person would be a bit of both but given then choice I'll take the person who can stimulate me through my brain than someone who just looks good.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' I just can't get past the ...."ALL COCK AND NO BRAIN" love love love it!!!TR.... Pricelss!! cock no brain explained :) blood leaves brain to cock ,so less blood in brain ,brain wants blood back but doesnt work quit perfect with to less blood. easy or .thats why good pick up lines are hard to find ,K town girl
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RHP User
13 years ago
who wants to fuck?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well a lot of guys do have simple minds.. In a way I have to take insults as I seem to be last on ladies lists-- then I hear the comment why are more guys not like you. What can I say be rude and say hey you went for looks your fault--LOL So lets put it this way he showed he has no brain and is a waste of space and it was before you wasted your time.. Lucky you
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77' message atm is from a man I had been chatting to recently,it said''I haven't had sex since Xmas and I want to blow my load in you''....while I was flattered to be the recipient of such an offer, I politely declined. My favourite message from a woman is; "who the fuck do you think you are looking at my profile fuck off your blocked"There I feel better now.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I met a man nice as...and even though I wasnt looking it seemed a little more special. I had been away and we were due to meet when a friend of his from out of town pops by so it is arranged we still meet. We all have a few drinks he knows I am on RHP although I didnt mention it and I actually stated how innocently I found this site. In no way did I allude to being easy or free loving and when we got home he made his move right in front of his friend. I felt totally ambushed was this some kind of plan him I wasnt interested and my friend and I removed ourself from the situation. Unfortunatledy for me it brought back lots of memories of being abused as a child always at the hands of guys who drink too muchSeems RHP = easy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes I know how that feels. My fathers friends would grope at me, drunken men who think that because your within reach your theirs for the taking. And men who find out your on rhp, who once were respectful then start to look at you or percieve you to be not a woman to repect. women friends are just as bad, one found out i was on rhp and said, my god I thought you were better than that. sex or a persons desire for sex can cloud the way people treat you. Yes I project sexual desire, lust, pleasure but small minds can turn that into a cheap whore but I refuse to let anyone make me feel less a woman because I like sex with strangers. or not strangers, or the plumber,or the postie
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Kemmster'TR why do you say that you only to get away with graphic messages if you're a hottie? Is this in the writers or the readers eyes? Surely someone who is able to put a few sentences together that gets you so worked up that you need to go and have some quiet recreational alone time is better than someone who looks drop dead gorgeous but can come up only the most basic of sexually charged sentences? Of course the perfect person would be a bit of both but given then choice I'll take the person who can stimulate me through my brain than someone who just looks good. women are in a bar, drinking with their girlfriends two men one hot, georgo sexy beast. one the office nerd, skinny, akward, sweaty palms they take turns to walk up to the women one line only hi ladies, any of you women want to come home with me? even dare I say it for a root? the cute guy may get a few knock backs the other guy who may be bill gates that nobody knows off, gets nothing. same for rhp at times. we are all visual creatures and sometimes the crass gets overlooked for the body but after sex its a different ballgame, good looks alone will not get you between a womans legs the second time around but for the other guy, who will no doubt try harder once he gets there, then his brains and conversation will keep him in the sheets and get him the invite back but as we all know,nice guys dont have much of a chance on rhp its a womans candy shop
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' Yes I know how that feels. My fathers friends would grope at me, drunken men who think that because your within reach your theirs for the taking. And men who find out your on rhp, who once were respectful then start to look at you or percieve you to be not a woman to repect. women friends are just as bad, one found out i was on rhp and said, my god I thought you were better than that. sex or a persons desire for sex can cloud the way people treat you. Yes I project sexual desire, lust, pleasure but small minds can turn that into a cheap whore but I refuse to let anyone make me feel less a woman because I like sex with strangers. or not strangers, or the plumber,or the postie Drifting a bit here but your comments above remind me of a weekend away when I was married, we were sharing a house with a pair of doctors and a pair of PHd's, all of us parents already.Red wine, late night, discussing sex, the intellectuals seemed to have this idea that sex is base and common and that somehow they were above it, that by indulging in sex they would lower themselves and become ignorant peasants. It was like sex would take away their IQ, quite bizarre. My argument that sex was a positive it added to life's fulfilment and joy whilst changing nothing else. They seemed to think sex took over your life and left no room for anything else, I guess with some people that could be true, but to eliminate it completely on intellectual grounds is really quite sad and not actually very smart.My guess is without sex your art would stagnate, as would you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm a piece of candy, am I. 😎 I can handle that label.
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RHP User
13 years ago
"There ain't no such thing as a free lunch" - In saying that at least he didn't beat around the bush and was straight up. He didn't waste his or your time.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'wowwow11' Well Ms Devious after checking out your Profile WOW.... he is after all only human You are SMOKIN Hot
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well as i stated manners where the hell have they gone these days ? would he responde to " hey i want some action right now come on give it up" he probably couldnt give it up on a demand. and he's 55 one would think he would have better manners than this. TREAT PEOPLE THE WAY YOU WISH TO BE TREATED COME TO MIND! wiht his coments he seams to want to be treated like a cock head and funny about that he is. I always read profiles and never approach someone out of there requests. I dont like smoking so i dont even respond to someone who smoke as if i want to kiss an ashtry i would. that probably sound a bit harsh so sorry to the smokers im sure your a nice person . maybe this is why i havent had sex in 5 years im to considerate
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sometimes I think if it were rainin g men I'd get a poufter (joking here, no disrespect to others)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Tuscanred thanks once again for a terrific Topic:) I've noticed this sort of crap seems to come in waves ..Unfortunately at times those Guys Old enough to know better are so crass.. Sometimes it's the Younger Guys who think their cock is God's gift to Women. I had a gem the other day from a young Guy wanting to fuck me no Hi! no Name No Pic. Needless to say I replied in no uncertain terms mentioned as you I'm not a Whore and if I were with my skills he couldn't afford me.. Part of his reply was you Fat, old .... after.younger Guys.You should be paying me to fuck you ha! ha! OMG! I laughed and still am . .I mentioned Umm he actual contacted me...I'm doing very well TY without him Haaaaaaaaa! gotta Luv them he! he! Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
... How does anyone here actually know that such an approach doesn't work for this guy? Or that some people aren't happy to engage in such a direct manner? I just ask because it seems to me that I see the same faces in these forums over and over again and supposedly there's something like 2million odd users so obviously the opinions and range of experience being shown in these forums is from a very limited group. Do you have friends that you know that have tried this approach and complained that it doesn't work? Do the ladies here think that their other lady friends have never met a guy they've barely had any contact with? That they would admit it to them if they had? That sometimes they haven't just messaged a guy something really direct just on the basis that they liked his photos?
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RHP User
13 years ago
We are blown away by the number of single guys who approach with no photo of information in their profile with a message like, "Geez, I could root that! I'm free on Wed at 6 PM - OK?" Wonder how that's working for them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The odd thing is if you said, yep see you then they would just disappear of the grid anyway most are just full of hot air and just sending a message like that has them pulling their puddings for being such naughty boys.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Lady Tuscan:) How are you :) Please let me know when we can catch up in Person I look forward to being added as a Friend. I love your vibes.Oh! I adore your Profile It's so very Sensual and Intelligent. I think I'll ditch mine just put Dito look up Yours you know me he! he! It's exactly what I seek aside from being Married as I'm not . Never know what the Future brings he! he! . You're certainly not a whore.You're a Lady with taste, Sensual, Sexual Artistic Imaginative I love your very slightly risqué but tasteful Pics. I don't know of any Female on any Sex site who's a whore if they were advertising this fact wanting payment for blow jobs they would be suspended forthwith. Some enjoy being whores in Sexual Encounters but that has its place and a lot of fun.. Unfortunately I've had Contact MSGs similar to yours from some Guys in their 50s who are so sexually wound up their brain seems to be focused on their cocks, their needs.We happen to fulfill the role of "Cum Bucket" . ,because they don't really care anything about who they Fuck . .On saying that there are many gentlemen in their mid 50s who treat a Woman with respect I thank you Guys for your approach :) Enjoy Lu :)
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