Going down on a woman

February 01 2022

I'm confused, and continually disappointed. Every single guy you talk to on here will talk about how they love eating pussy, favourite thing to do, can do it for hours, not happy until she's satisfied etc etc. But I find, as soon as clothes are off, this is never the case. So my question to: Women: what is your experience? Men: do you say these things because it's what you think we want to hear, but really youd skip it given the chance? And why?

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  • DaveLuvsAsia

    DaveLuvsAsia

    one year ago

    I feel for you... I have never had a girl or a guy suck me off to orgasm by mouth ... yet. But I do say I love pussy, and I do; I can make a bee line for it...after I have warmed up my lady first, during and after. It is more... making love to the whole body... the clitoris is your centre of attention but only after the rest of you. Unless it is a 5 minute sex quicky as for some... which I don't find appealing, making love is a marathon - and dining at the Y is before, during and after...and again. But that is just me, and I believe i am pretty considerate and good at the same time. I do understand why some may 'say it' but then don't play it, but what I don't understand, is why some don't play it. We love our cocks being played with, it is the same for the ladies; simple as that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    maybe just have not met the guy who actually loves eating and his kink is to please his partner

  • Jonny_Vanders69

    Jonny_Vanders69

    one year ago

    I've known blokes who don't like to go down and I simply tell them that they are missing out big time! Also, they want/expect a woman to suck them off so return the favour. 😈 Just my opinion. OH and yes, I'm not a gynaecologist but I'm more than happy to have a taste for as long as the lady wishes and then some.

  • Howhardisthis

    Howhardisthis

    one year ago

    Well I love it but in saying that the girl has to smell fresh and doesn't always have to do anything in return And there are girls that don't like it

  • Meagey

    Meagey

    one year ago

    I 100% agree with everything you have said. It’s funny though how they expect and demand it in them but won’t do it in return!! What’s with that?

  • Heret0please

    Heret0please

    one year ago

    Never really boasted about it but i like to dip my toes well in this case my tongue 😜 I'm no grandmaster at giving oral to women but I've never had any complaints so I just keep doing what I'm doing and enjoy life with what I've picked up along my path it life.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    I'm the best at eating pussy. I know a lot about pussy. They say I'm the best pussy eater ever. I don't know about that, but that's what they say. The woman moan and cry when I eat their pussy. No one give me credit for it, but that's okay. I'm the greatest pussy eater ever.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    I love it, don't know what type u have been hooking up with it clearly not the right type if that what u seeking in a sex partner.

  • Ifnotnowwhen

    Ifnotnowwhen

    one year ago

    I personally love every bit of cunninlingus. It’s one of the few things a man can do multiple times to ensure the woman ( or women) have an enjoyable sexual experience. I also think it demonstrates to the woman his commitment to ensuring sexual pleasure is enjoyed by both, not just himself. A side note - if you’re not willing to perform oral on a woman then you shouldn’t expect a head job from her.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    I would just like to find a women to let me go down on them and let me worship their vag for as long as they let me-now I’m not saying I’m the best at it but I very willing to be to satisfy a lady!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    When you close your eyes you can feel the emotion going thru the lady it’s about taking one in a journey

  • oilsum

    oilsum

    one year ago

    The more you are expecting the more you are disappointed.

  • Waddy69

    Waddy69

    one year ago

    Nope I am always happy to park my cheeks between Your thighs and bring You to the explosive orgasm youre.looking for

  • Jacko1972

    Jacko1972

    one year ago

    I absolutely love it. I love to hear the females moan in pleasure. The more moaning the more i try to please her. Its so intimate and so beautiful to enjoy a female like that.

  • Raymonte1

    Raymonte1

    one year ago

    In my case if things down are nice and well groomed I would spend ages,unfortunately some ladies do taste bit different.

  • curiousss

    curiousss

    one year ago

    i love the idea of eating pussy. I love the smell of pussy. I love the fact that she has entrusted me with something very private. I love the fact that i can give her pleasure.

  • KinkedB

    KinkedB

    one year ago

    I have absolutely no trouble with taking instruction if needed because I'm not perfect. Mutual satisfaction and communication in my opinion is paramount. If you're partner isn't hitting the 'right spot' let them know and respectfully guide them.

  • Stargazer68

    Stargazer68

    one year ago

    definitely turns me on eating pussy, the more she enjoys the more im turned on, so good to taste and feel a woman orgasm over and over, its going to wild night

  • Fantasyseekeat

    Fantasyseekeat

    one year ago

    I love it! I go down on my wife and it makes me very horny for more. I’ll keep going until I’m told to stop and begging for cock…. Then I’ll indulge her a little to then go back down again for more… she comes multiple times. I love it so much she can come and not want any sex lol. I sometimes have to g Lo without cumming or sex coz she’s too sensitive for anything more… yum. I have to finish myself off haha… I love going down.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    Men who wont do it as just s**t c***ts and I do not like them one bit. These are the ones that except BJ's but wont reciprocate.

  • Jack4x4Aziel

    Jack4x4Aziel

    one year ago

    got the wrong man!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    I absolutely love going down on a woman and eating her pussy and asshole and I do like to keep doing it until she cums I love to taste a woman's juices and cum mmmmm

  • OpenmindedSydney

    OpenmindedSydney

    one year ago

    Some guys just say they like going down because they know that most women love being gone down on. What you really want is not a guy who just “likes” going down, but a guy who absolutely loves going down. There are guys out there who really get off on how good they can make the woman feel. Just as there are women who get off on how good they can a guy feel. It’s all about finding people who like to give pleasure vs people who like to take pleasure but not reciprocate

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    i love eating pussie hair or no hair even love when there coming so hot xx.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    I can say I absolutely love eating pussy and I could and have done it for hours. This could also just be the only activity performed in a meet, for me it is all about satisfying the female play partner. I guess it does help that I am a submissive and relish in the dominating aspect of eating pussy and being used for females pleasure.

  • strong41

    strong41

    one year ago

    I say I love doing it and I do it for ages!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    You just haven’t been with us who actually do yet….cause its not what I often talk about, I let my actions do the talking and you let me know what you think while I’m in action. And yes boo, I will stay down there til you decide it’s enough

  • Gibar1

    Gibar1

    one year ago

    Some men, like the taste of pussy

  • LunaAndSol

    LunaAndSol

    one year ago

    I say this but it's genuine

  • DustyK

    DustyK

    one year ago

    It’s a must, most of the time, and yes I’m one of those guys who actually love eating pussy and cock. I could spend the whole time eating and making you cum as much as I can. 😜😜😜😜

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    I think that men who do not give oral but expect it from the woman are terrible in the bedroom. They are not for me and I think they are too selfish.

  • strue276

    strue276

    one year ago

    Hi, Yeh, I agree , some are a bit over them selves. With me, I try to work out what she wants as we go, and its usually some pussy licking. I am told I am very good at it, and always bring her to climax, Im sure you would enjoy me, anyway, let me know, regards Rob

  • Vinbob

    Vinbob

    one year ago

    I love going down on women however if it’s not nice down there then expect that session to come to a quick stop

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    I love licking a woman out for hours

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    If a guy is expecting a blow job but wont eat pussy, then I wont have anything to do with him.

  • 73Roc2025

    73Roc2025

    one year ago

    Well I speak for myself, I keep to my word and I love eating pussy and can say have had never had any complaints. Guys that can’t keep to what they write well egg on their faces. Just be honest . Goes both ways i guess men and women. 🫶 have fun 🤩

  • dfwman

    dfwman

    11 months ago

    Women have 2 sets of lips for a reason. 1 gets them in trouble, the other gets them out. A good man, learns to effectively communicate with both sets.

  • jhonpet

    jhonpet

    11 months ago

    Women: Yes, I’ve noticed many guys say they love it but don’t follow through when it matters. Men: Many just say it to please or impress, but don’t enjoy it that much. Sometimes it’s about comfort or time, so they avoid it.

  • Perth_hills

    Perth_hills

    11 months ago

    The longer you get to eat pussy the wetter it is and the more pleasurable it is when sliding in

  • Openforanything1

    Openforanything1

    11 months ago

    I know I get satisfaction from going down or having her sit on my face. It is even better when she cums on your tongue and you keep going to the next orgasm

  • Toungdiver666

    Toungdiver666

    11 months ago

    You need to come to one of my day events, we focus souly on the female orgasm by any means, over a 24 hours period, with a few breaks obviously

  • Ilovewomen200

    Ilovewomen200

    9 months ago

    You might be able to help me2 old friends flew in to see me and over a. Few ciders we worked out I’ve ate 99 pussys so have till the end of the month to hit 100 be declared world champ or take them bot(h to Parisso help me please

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 months ago

    ALL YOU NEED TO SAY IS YOU ARE WHAT YOU EAT, AND TOMORROW I PLAN TO BE YOU.

  • Sensual_fun42

    Sensual_fun42

    8 months ago

    But who says just going down and a taste for the puss is all they want, a true gentleman will not only go down on them but also caress and touch their whole body like a goddess that they are and focus on having the woman craving the attention solely before any fucking starts to happen. It’s definitely about the woman wanting more to happen than just pounding them with your manhood, I get that!!

  • Dickadick

    Dickadick

    8 months ago

    I don't know about what other guys can do or not , but yes there are heaps of personal who just brag about there size or how good they are at eating pussy. Just be normal be ya yourself.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 months ago

    Hours is a long time. Sore jaw after 20min Come on guys you are letting the side down If you are not going down or rimming, there is something wrong with you I don't think I would ever skip the chance. First its kiss Then it's lay her back slipping her panties off Spread her legs and Seek out her clit Some are big some are small and some are tiny Some it takes a while to come out to play, but when you feel that smooth button on the tip of your tongue you will know Tutorial over now send her to heaven

  • PassionateDesire

    PassionateDesire

    6 months ago

    I have heard of the same comments as well and it surprises me. No woman has been able to tell me why men behave this way and I personally do not understand it. It is about working out when each other desires and wants. Never going to work if you just go to sex. Everyone is different that is what makes everything fun and new all the time. Sometimes it can just be focused on kissing, touching, etc while other times it can the the other extreme. I haven't answered your question at all so I understand your confusion and disappointment. I have the same where I love kissing and someone just wants sex.

  • BugsandBunny

    BugsandBunny

    6 months ago

    Guys are after a root. Pleasing a woman is too much effort. All they can think of is their cock and how special they are. Bugs loves going down on me, and he does...always...as part of our foreplay or just because he wants to eat me out. I am a lucky one.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 months ago

    if you're doing it for hours you're not doing it properly

  • NoStrings7654321

    NoStrings7654321

    6 months ago

    It all depends on the girl and the pussy. If shes very attractive and her pussy is nice, and waxed or shaved, then I will go down under until she tells me otherwise. I love teasing and pleasuring my lover with my tongue.

  • BlueEyesTradie

    BlueEyesTradie

    6 months ago

    I really love it, I love to give pleasure. If she enjoys it then that's what I also enjoy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 months ago

    You have been lured into giving the wrong men a go. Im quite fond of teasing and licking a woman to many orgasms. Ill happily go down on a woman as the ONLY thing we do when we meet. Im not selfish. It gives me pleasure to give pleasure. simple.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 months ago

    I don't just boast about such things, I can prove it and make you cum 3+ times. I was raised by women (no men in my home life till I was in high school) and 40yrs ago an aunt trained me how to treat/worship women properly because "%99 of men are useless in bed BUT think they know better" then there's us %1 that make sure we both cum,.. "I was raised by aunties, sisters, female neighbors, my mum and Oma in the 1970's + 80's to respect female needs... not men's"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 months ago

    Personally take my time and enjoy, will do it longer when shaved or trim. Only skipped at time of month. Lets face it women, tend to be stimulated externally more than internally, if they stimulated right get wetter, squirt more if eaten foe longer. Good taste test and I’ll make sure my thirst is quenched.

  • 1OfAKindBiQueen

    1OfAKindBiQueen

    5 months ago

    Where the Women at that will happily come visit me and arn't scared of the 😻 That's all I'm after and vise vera obviously haha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 months ago

    I think it actually depends to me on connection and how comfortable I am with someone that's just me thogh I can either be finding it fun to put my tongue and fce in as much as possible ( not literal ) but like it can rhen be like practical and a bit on edge where I might actully do a better job and just focus on the clit and I suppose when I haven't actually bee on that level of comfort I use my fingers instead who may actually cum the quickest. the more I like you the slower your orgasm hehehehe

  • col260486

    col260486

    5 months ago

    Maybe their too young and don't appreciate the finer things in life!

  • Christian833

    Christian833

    4 months ago

    I’m king at it

  • Standavid

    Standavid

    3 months ago

    There are still some of us around that will not hesitate to please before being please

  • sixfoot5ish

    sixfoot5ish

    3 months ago

    I can only talk for myself but love to give oral watching feeling her body spasm , it’s an integral part of the intimate connection between the couple

  • DomNdarling

    DomNdarling

    3 months ago

    I will ask to do it before I go down. I think maybe it depends on the guy I know for me it isn't much of a turn on but if I hear the girl moaning it turns me on. If it been talked about in foreplay and you have teased the person about it all week. I think you should do it, if guy doesn't then I think he is just a tease.

  • Justjai

    Justjai

    3 months ago

    To perform oral pleasure or worship a goddess’s vulva for several hours is a different craft, for a woman to sit on your face for that long is not practical, she will cramp up. A queening chair is preference - that way she can do office work or on her phone and control the amount of pressure. A more entry level to long time pussy worship would be watching a movie in a comfortable seated position with the partner on the floor, it will test their neck muscles. But practice always makes perfect. Enjoy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 months ago

    Oh my gosh love this question hahah I have to agree I feel like they all say it and not too often are they actually real good at it..

  • Troubz1

    Troubz1

    3 months ago

    Shame you’ve had that experience,I might be the exception, surely not the only one but I do love being on my knees and slowing kissing my way along a sexy woman’s legs, slowly working my way up and hmmmm, let’s just say it is a genuine pleaser for me to please a woman and to show you I’m not FOS read the attached testimonial

  • RuggedlyRugged

    RuggedlyRugged

    3 months ago

    Never skip! By having a woman kneel over you while you do it you’ll learn everything you need to know about how she likes her clitoral stimulation. If she can control pressure and location you’ll learn a lot and have fun doing it.

  • Passionatedom69

    Passionatedom69

    3 months ago

    The silver foxes will do that for hours Ken dolls are all about themselves

  • Standavid

    Standavid

    3 months ago

    Hi there I’m guessing there are a lot of guys out there that just say it to try and get women into bed I have never promised or bragged about any sexual acts especially oral as there are some women out there that actually don’t like it so i generally go with the flow and if it happens it happens but yes there are some of us gentleman that absolutely love it especially when a woman can orgasm from it But have never used it to lure women or try to impress them

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one month ago

    Your meeting the wrong ones....Im one of those that are willing to book a date and go down on you , properly for hours, and then leave.

  • pocketrocket175

    pocketrocket175

    28 days ago

    I absolutely love eating pussy, I never want to skip it, rather go down multiple times during play. I especially love when the women squirts while doing it. I’ve found that about half the women I’ve played with or a relationship don’t really like it, the other half love it. Suffice to say, going down on a woman is a definite YES!

  • UpforNSA84

    UpforNSA84

    24 days ago

    When I've said Im good at eating pussy it's really me saying "I'm good at picking up on what actions receive a pleasure response" No 2 women are the same. But there's so much that goes into doing it well for that women at the time. And that's half the fun is finding out. Cant just focus on one technique for the whole time because you think you've hit the spot, unless you know they're about to cum.....then definitely keep doing exactly what you're doing and don't stop till you're told to 🤣🤣. Even knowing when and how to use a combination of hands and mouth is an art. In my experience thats why there needs to be some sort of connection. Men want women to be open and indicate what's working at the time. Don't be shy to give a soft whisper telling them at the time of whats working if they lose it, tell them, "go back to where you were, slow down, speed up, softer, firmer" etc etc etc COMMUNICATE 🤣🤙🏼 Men love to be told anyway😜

  • Smilemaker

    Smilemaker

    5 days ago

    I do not claim to be a technically adept

  • Duker69R

    Duker69R

    2 days ago

    Okay, so I’m gonna try to answer on the main side one of the main issues from a lot of my guy ⚜️❗️ ❗️ FRIENDS is they get a very stiff neck? Jaw sore back and sore neck if guys actually put both their hands on the woman’s pelvis area and on the hip bones as well as eating you can actually tell that way what type of speed? What type of rhythm and so forth that she’s liking. But the biggest thing men need to know is that they need to relax the Jaw. They will be able to go longer if they use and stiffen up the Jaw and their face it’s gonna make it harder. It’s not a gym workout. It’s pleasure. For females from my experience of speaking to a lot of females and I’ve said the same thing and first they don’t believe me and then they find out it’s true and that’s because I believe that some people just categorise very quickly with certain or by certain phrases rather than actually finding out more information. There are a lot of different techniques to be able to curl out. The biggest thing is you actually need to know how to put it simply The parts of a woman’s body where you’re able to feel her feel pleasure when you put both hands around her a little bit around the hips on her pelvis when that starts tensing up that means she’s getting closer and guys what you’re gonna wanna do you slowly build it up. Don’t put your tongue in straight away because that will make you tired quicker start slow and work. Don’t just go straight in touch around her body her skin. They’re light heavy medium touch use different things have a conversation about certain thing that she likes. She might like to be blindfolded suggesting her on the other hand we all need to be open-minded willing to listen to others as we are mostly here for the same thing. The reason I’m answering this is not because I’m on either one side or the other. It’s because I want to keep more of an explanation from both sides from a lot of my close friends and from having partners and friends with benefits and so forth, I always ask for have I done something right at the end and I do I need to improve on anything. Every person has something they especially talented that when it comes to sex fun time 16 but there’s also the other side of things that they can’t do and all of us we all need to accept what each other can and can’t do when you stereotype people that’s when you end up having that person feeling ashamed, shy not wanting to speak out not wanting to be honest feeling fearful of Egyptian not because of his ego but because that he has opened up something that he would like to do and to some men it feels like a shutdown. Some men react differently. 

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