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How long ago was your last sexual experience ?
July 20 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
dhawkes,was almost as old as you 😈Q
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ArtsyLusttty
9 years ago
Is "in ages"? s3d - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
But I have heard some guys say that their 'real' dry spells didn't start until they got married; albeit this has not been my experience. So might I suggest being careful re your selection of your life partner
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yep, I feel like that at the moment. op ask me again on Friday afternoon right now I'd be embarrassed to say, working too much. That however, is about to change
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RHP User
9 years ago
dhawks...... I bet your last sexual experience was MUCH more recent...... but you didn't share it with anyone else 😄 The more you focus on it as a goal, the less you feel like it happens..... and that thought that you're missing out while everyone else isn't wells up. Be aware that there's also an element in here of people wishing to remain private on their personal encounters so the replies to your topic won't be fully representative of the real stats. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
and now I am 5 weeks and two days into an indefinite enforced celibacy.It sometimes makes me question why I still indulge in this site ??
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RHP User
9 years ago
17 minutes ago.Joy to being a couple.
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
you shouldn't be complaining yet. When you get older you start to forget what the fucking question was...and then what it was you were missing. Tall
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Sawadee
9 years ago
Sex comes in waves, and couples have it on tap so that doesn't help you. But ' you could always join those who say they do. Not that they tell porkies ..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Please...excuse...the...jumpy...typing...wait...now...I'm...finished. Ohhhh sorry, what was the question? Come again...please! Glad you're keeping your game up for the rest of us to admire!
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CrouchingTiger
9 years ago
Monday afternoon, or 2hrs ago if masturbation counts. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
But there was a period of 18 months!!! And yep was married!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I had mine yesterday, hopefully get it again very soon. When I was married I never got sex.😯 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Nice another one for my hotlist
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ahhh ,... that sleazy institution called marriage ... where expectations rule and presumptions fester!Why would anyone spoil a good thing by marriage. Love is just so much better than marriage!!!!
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On_Safari
9 years ago
Ummmm and I got a head job yesterday morning and the morning before that....😇 but my longest dry spell has been about 18mths a very long time ago. 😂 Just sayin' ~ Indy
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RHP User
9 years ago
That's involving another personThere has been more recent solo flights
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Seachange73
9 years ago
A couple of weeks as busy with work and seems another 2-3 weeks. Just the nature of my work. Miss my lovers (fwb) but they are very patient and understanding. Lots of make up sex when I get back into the swing of things. But we still have sexy texts. Damn them for sending me sexy pics of their sexy bods. Tortuous ! 😔
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RHP User
9 years ago
I genuinely havent had intercourse and any form of sexual experience (besides masturbation) in awhile haha id say about 7-8 months. Unsure if this is normal for people my age. I guess im not really trying as i dont go to clubs or pubs, i definitely think going overseas i would be putting myself out there more than i am here in my hometown. I am also very new to the whole online scene ! But hey i can be patience, sometimes my hand just gets the better of me or doesnt feel as satisfying lol
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clarky1976
9 years ago
this is one dry spell im ready to brake last sex was before Christmas I need sex badly
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Well we do what we can, either with a lover or for you Mrs Palmer 😉. recently, too tired to even contemplate any self love. Brain overload. 😔 Welcome to the forum, young man. 👍 Keep posting and you will get noticed. who knows, your luck may change and give Mrs Palmer a break or two. Lol 😁
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Lucky gal! Good for you!!! 😉 Sigh. One day i say. Just need to focus on work. But those pics sent to me by are "very" distracting. Best I.can do is lick my phone screen clean. 😁
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clarky1976
9 years ago
I find it hard to believe that a woman like you doesn't have men hitting on you all the time
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LeMerovingien
9 years ago
About two weeks ago. So about two weeks too long ago!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Once in the last three weeks for me :( Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well now you've said that, I'm sure the drought won't last!
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Sawadee
9 years ago
You're right , not all married couples have sex on tap. Just those who keep things interesting. But at least you are female. No one seems to worry about a married female seeking some much deserved relief.
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RHP User
9 years ago
A couple of months ago and it was shit. My fault though, I knew it would be shit and should never have gone there. I find it interesting how some men are so surprised when women say it's been a long time since we had sex, and seem to think that we would be shagging every guy who hits on us.
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LeMerovingien
9 years ago
I think it's more that you could rather than you would!
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RHP User
9 years ago
My longest dry spell was 7 years, completely conscious and strategic choice to focus on my life and sort my shit out right...done! That ended 18 months ago when I completed that exercise and joined up here. Currently my last sexploitation was only a week ago, besides having just fooled around with myself in the ladies before I left work...now let the weekend fun begin! 😉💁🏻👏
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RHP User
9 years ago
Nah not really...not what I've experienced anyway. It's more of a 'but you're a woman, you'd be getting hit on all the time so how can you not be having sex?!' type of surprise. I get it a lot when guys find out how sporadic my sex life is. They don't seem to consider that I might not want to have sex with every guy who offers (also... compared to women on here who live in the big capitals I don't get nearly as much interest anyway). I wonder if it's just a function of the fact that men are generally approached by women much more rarely for sex...so the men can't really imagine saying no if they were propositioned. It's interesting.
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RHP User
9 years ago
yeah I get what you're saying. We can orgasm by our own hand, but it's not the same. In the flesh, skin on skin, nothing beats it
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RHP User
9 years ago
The question has been asked, and I am an honest guy, so.... 2 years and 3 months. And that's not even my longest dry spell!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your story, and reasons sound very similar to mine, except I took a little longer than you did... but it was silly of me, I took way too long
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joanne1991
9 years ago
After my divorce it was 8 years now I call a dry spell a month
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Saffadude2
9 years ago
A few nights ago. Lol. And a countdown ro T minus 40 minutes to our first fmf threesome. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Saffadude2
9 years ago
How can you last that long lilyorchid? I havnt got a choice as im fifo but when you in the cbd you got it on tap. Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
9 years ago
i know... I do miss the intimacy but because of work, that may require me to fly interstate at short notice and my long irregular hours this month (due to company strategy changes and eventual restructuring) I have to show my boofy head at meetings to earn my crust. my outlet is my boxing and gym training. expels sexual frustrations. I find it difficult to call my fwbs at short notice for a 'quickey'. It might be offensive to them to be treated as sexual objects..... I sure will make it up to them in 2-3 weeks when I get back. nice profile pics btw. you and your partner are quite fit and attractive. hope you have lots of luck and fun here.
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RHP User
9 years ago
negative sarcasm is SOOO attractive!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Truthfully, im very eager and looking forward too having sex again. It feels like it will be my first time all over again.. its been that long ! Im a growing man and i love affection and love to give it back ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Im stetching 18 months now and im single grrrr longest ever
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's been a week or so ,but I'm too busy looking for Pokemon 😂😂😂 I'm afraid those little creatures in your phone have got me walking close to 50 km and taken over my sex life !
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yesterday, a threesome on the beach, two guy's one one girl, magic.......
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RHP User
9 years ago
My longest break was 25yrs.
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RHP User
9 years ago
About 13 months 😢
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well I'm embarrassed to say nearly 15 months, I absolutely love sex, but there times in your life for what ever reasons they might be , Ye just don't have sex. It could be that you single,and it's a dry patch ,medical reasons, sexless relationship, insecurities etc what ever it is, just remember when you do get to have sex again after a long period without, the feeling is amazing.
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RHP User
9 years ago
... hearing so many married folks say that the sex dried up for such a long period after marriage! Makes me not want to think of marriage ever! I once confided in a male friend that if I ever get married, I want to be more like a mistress than a wife. I want to be a total seductress and my man's personal playboy bunny, and I don't want to have any part at all in the stuffy wifey stuff, and especially no nagging because it's not sexy to nag, ever! However, it is sexy to ask in a nice, sultry tone of voice whilst wearing a French maid uniform and sitting on his lap! Hmm... do you think a mistress gets a lingerie and bedroom stilettos allowance? And let's not forget the handcuffs and feather whips and etc!
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
I'm sure a "well done" lap dance would probably score you pretty much whatever you want in allowances..
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RHP User
9 years ago
and gagging for it. Not just the getting off but for the connection. Ive been ill and now that Im coming good I find my drive is higher than I ever remember. I've tried here and even on the vanilla sites. Just can't seem to get anywhere with it all.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes, know the feeling. Yes you're right, I too miss the "connection", sometimes I think even just a nice lady to chat too would be nice. Keep your chin up, it can only get better. Cheers Paul.
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MissBishere
9 years ago
was last Tuesday...I think my vagina is closing up
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MissBishere
9 years ago
My longest dry spell was 3.5 years
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RHP User
9 years ago
That simply will not do. No, ma'am.
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RHP User
9 years ago
How are you going??? I just got back on here myself and have had you in my thoughts 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Post surgery, 5/6 has now turned into 9 weeks aaargh!!! Post marriage it was 5 years, needed to get my head right first 😊 not sure I succeeded 😲🤑 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Something should be done!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Tbh, if masterbate counts then just 15mins ago. A real sex exp, well 1 year ago. New to Aus, no friend, culture shocks and atm really need a friend to chill with and to make infinite fun time :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RunningFreee
9 years ago
I've been too busy hiking 80k's in central australia over the weekend, hunting orange and white things. Looking forward to a good massage today :-)
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RunningFreee
9 years ago
my longest dry spell was until I was 22 :(
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Chaucer
9 years ago
Had a few 6 month dry spells when I was married. Some my choice, some hers (for various reasons). At the moment though, last was before Xmas 2014 some time, so what's that? 20 months? Chaucer
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No1Lover
9 years ago
Nothing in 2 years 7 months. I'm not pleased but I'm a shift worker with 2 young kids who live with their mother 3hrs away. Not surprising I don't have a social life in a small town haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
3 weeks but working on it .. hopefully this weekend - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweet_cherry69
9 years ago
Only a few days ago and yes it was mind blowing FWB. Always looking for more daytime frolics ha ha 😈🍷😄💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I had one dry spell that lasted about 8 years. At the moment, i have to think back a long way. I actually cannot remember the last time i had sex with someone else. lol. This latest dry spell is at least two years. I guess I am just too shy. Having three spine surgeries since 2013 hasn't helped. I am still recovering slowly from a spine fusion in september last year, but willing to try again if anyone is interested? lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
Always on the look out for some day time frolics if interested
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RHP User
9 years ago
... if I state that as long as it isn't happening now, it's too long ago? ROTFLMAO!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Still on my dryspell at the moment ! And its hard, not sure if not having sex reguarly at my age causes low self esteem in the bedroom because LOL im feeling soo unconfident with myself atm but i guess thats due to not having a job (which im working on, i was let go from my previous due to financial issues with the owner) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'dhawks95' I genuinely havent had intercourse and any form of sexual experience (besides masturbation) in awhile haha id say about 7-8 months. Unsure if this is normal for people my age. I guess im not really trying as i dont go to clubs or pubs, i definitely think going overseas i would be putting myself out there more than i am here in my hometown. I am also very new to the whole online scene ! But hey i can be patience, sometimes my hand just gets the better of me or doesnt feel as satisfying lol Hang in there chap, it's all about baby steps. Don't place too much emphasis on sex, women, work etc; so long as you're not going backwards, don't stress. There's a phrase a good friend of mine used to always say, it goes 'this too will come to pass' . With the ladies, it's important to treat them as you would any one else (as in males) that you have respect for, be yourself around them. I'm pretty sure they have special power for spotting guys that a full of shit lol. Also, don't use the bedroom as a goal, just enjoy your time with them in friendship and what happens happens, it does not always have to be about sex, I myself have a lot of female friends that are just that. Don't stress about work, opportunities always come up, but, one little bit of advice I have for you. I have and always will employ on attitude meaning you can have all the qualifications and references in the world, but I would rather employ the guy with none that displays a positive go gettem attitude. Just my 2c worth, now go and have a good weekend because today is the youngest you will ever be again.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' ... if I state that as long as it isn't happening now, it's too long ago? ROTFLMAO!
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RHP User
9 years ago
think im lagging. 3 months damn lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
this morning Darling, my Sunday's always start with confession, I have been a bad girl!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Chin up lovely, Thinks have a way of turning out. a job will come along, just takes longer these days than it has in the past. :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I envy whoever the lucky person was that you had fun with CD! Haha
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's been a couple of weeks now. Far too long :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
10 years ago! No word of a lie! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'langton11' Quoting 'dhawks95' I genuinely havent had intercourse and any form of sexual experience (besides masturbation) in awhile haha id say about 7-8 months. Unsure if this is normal for people my age. I guess im not really trying as i dont go to clubs or pubs, i definitely think going overseas i would be putting myself out there more than i am here in my hometown. I am also very new to the whole online scene ! But hey i can be patience, sometimes my hand just gets the better of me or doesnt feel as satisfying lol Hang in there chap, it's all about baby steps. Don't place too much emphasis on sex, women, work etc; so long as you're not going backwards, don't stress. There's a phrase a good friend of mine used to always say, it goes 'this too will come to pass' . With the ladies, it's important to treat them as you would any one else (as in males) that you have respect for, be yourself around them. I'm pretty sure they have special power for spotting guys that a full of shit lol. Also, don't use the bedroom as a goal, just enjoy your time with them in friendship and what happens happens, it does not always have to be about sex, I myself have a lot of female friends that are just that. Don't stress about work, opportunities always come up, but, one little bit of advice I have for you. I have and always will employ on attitude meaning you can have all the qualifications and references in the world, but I would rather employ the guy with none that displays a positive go gettem attitude. Just my 2c worth, now go and have a good weekend because today is the youngest you will ever be again. Sorry langton, you know i worship the ground you walk on but i disagree, it IS all about sex
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RHP User
9 years ago
ITM2 wants a LOT of sex Dhawks95 wants to give a lot of sex You see where I'm going with this???
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hey i find ITM2 very attractive so i wouldnt mind it, Older women are pretty sexy haha , but thank you ITM2 ill take that advice onboard :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweet_cherry69
9 years ago
Nice photo and profile Hun. FWB from brisvegas last week and a swingers party on Saturday improved my lacking experiences at home here with the grumblebum indeed 😈🍷💋😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm very attracted to your face you look very tasty mmm lol if I'm scaring you, the distance will help
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RHP User
9 years ago
I do see where you're going and I like it
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RHP User
9 years ago
it's the cougar needing young flesh, takes me over sometimes
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RHP User
9 years ago
I HAVEN'T HAD SEX IN OVER 30 YEARS...! Naaa just kidding...! :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Have to say though, it really is crap when the sex El Nino comes along.Gets quite frustrating,and dare I say it, lonely. But hey - trick is, keep thinking thinking 'thumbs up Sunshine", the good stuff comes along. Hey, another thing that seems to work - I'm not exactly an alter boy, but seeding a good prayer or two works for me.Mind power, put the message up there and it seems to come along... Keep it Hot!SS
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well if only the distance was alot closer, id say let me taste you ;) Not at all takes alot too scare me away from an older woman, except for spiders and bugs LOL - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I literally have not had sex in 10 years next month. People think I'm only joking when I say that. If you look at my picture closely, it's not hard to see why women think I'm butt ugly! But that's life. I don’t have to keep anyone happy, I can continue to let myself go. I can neglect my health because I have nobody to live for. It does have its advantages. Guys, don't be nice. Don't be a gentleman because it gets you nowhere. If you want to get laid, you have to be a complete jerk! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hi There everyone. FOr the male half here it has been approx 13 weeks since sex, or any means of orgasm for that matter...
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RHP User
9 years ago
I had sex once. I think, all still a bit hazy.. so it must hav been a spell, I try not to think about it, gets me down. I do so hope next time it dont mess me up so much, I realy do. Sometimes I try and set my mind with positive attitudes, listen i hear them all.. It might be fun who knows maybe if it's not just by yourself again, alone in our cell, naked cold steel just by my self.....alone with ten big hairy shadows, a bar of soap and those bloody awefull grunting socks.....Sex!! you're not missen much, Its over rated, its way so over rated... The thing is, and every one will tell ya, time just flys.. before you know it you'll be at at.. straining maken that dumb arsed funny face again, eyes glazin over. If you're real lucky youll get a blow, maybe a few or two, maybe pass out who knows if you're lucky. Makes it go quick ya know, and just like that you will be back on that spell again, It an't that bad bein on a dry spell so dont ya worry, sex is so overrated, way not worth maken a fuss bout, no point... Listen to sumone who knowns, ive had sex! I know, not just boasting.. chin up sport, ya got nothin to be wasten fussing about, coz sure as carp crap in what they breath youll be in it real deep, like now is yesterday just wanten a blow and get sum fucken sleep. Shhh I better go now, dont want nobody to know I woke from my coma early again.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Summer & GeelongLad, it also helps to be a gentleman at house parties :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
the soon to be devoured bacon said to the eggs.. "At least you guys got laided."
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's been 6 days and I'm going loopy!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
When the last one was, doesn't worry nearly as much as when the next time will be. ^^
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RHP User
9 years ago
3 weeks ago whith my ex in her car felt shit afterwards - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
I've been there too! Never will I be going back there again. Those feelings are shithouse. And sex in a car is like sex in a crate. Next time try the bonnet. Don't give up! 😂 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
2 years.. beat that!! Haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Current dry spell is 6 months ish. Could be longer, this year has gone by way too quick - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Bibeauty23' 2 years.. beat that!! Haha - Posted from rhpmobile Seven. Mostly due to my own psyche, I'm not really the relationship type, nor am I the go-out-to-the-club-and-fuck type. Part of why I'm here, I figure FWBs are the way to go.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'thewanderer85' Quoting 'Bibeauty23' 2 years.. beat that!! Haha - Posted from rhpmobile Seven. Mostly due to my own psyche, I'm not really the relationship type, nor am I the go-out-to-the-club-and-fuck type. Part of why I'm here, I figure FWBs are the way to go. Can't believe I'm about to admit this, but like the post before me, I'm not the type to go out and take someone home, mainly because I'm hopeless at approaching the opposite sex, a series of bad relationships completely sapped me of confidence. Currently I'm on about a 2 and half year drought, but before that, I had an 11 year drought..... yes 11 years, mostly by choice, basically I couldn't be bothered with the games or the BS. Some may be asking why I'm ion this site, well to be honest, relationships just don't work for me, I always seem to attract the nasty/crazy ones, so I'm here, trying something new... but I'm still hopeless with the opposite sex, I dunno I guess I'm hoping that there is a females out there who will make a move lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
I can hardly remember my last time. Kidding. It was at about lunchtime. I paid for it but damn it was worth every redskin. The time before that.... last night... good old tinder. 🌹🌹🌹
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RHP User
9 years ago
Does giving head in a carpak count? If so, last night. - Posted from rhpmobile
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