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How to get milfs/cougars attention

March 10 2019

Looking for advice on how to find a women older than me. Always been a thing for me but never have had the chance. Do milfs even find young guys attractive? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Women in general like to be treated with respect and as people - not just bodies built for pleasure. A little seduction and attention goes a long way. A woman will like to be pleased and teased and potentially have expectations for drawn out sessions whereby her lover is incredibly attentive and he receives the same attention in return. It’s not rocket science. We are people. If you want us listen to us and what we say - more often than not by listening you’ll find your answer as to what you have to do to get her attention.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    We are called DOWS. Yes, we do find younger men attractive. However you don't find us, we find you. Once we have hunted you, be very very careful as we will eat you alive. 😉 I'm sure there will be a few Cougar Hawks along here very soon. They may take you under their wing if you are lucky. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Do I have to wait until Jane Fonda makes a pass at me?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    More details Your profile needs a boost. More info. Plus a face pic, make it a bit shadowed or whatever if you like, just need more to make an impression.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    It’s our choice young man!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Ahah thank you all ahah I guess I’ll have to work on my profile 😀

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Clearly it’s an individuals choice (regardless of age) who they seek out. If a woman indicates interest and begins a chat - be respectful, be kind, show interest in her, don’t brag about skills or longevity in the bedroom. She’s a person after all... highly desirable and needs to be treated as such. Remember manners they always do well. Good luck with it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    But single. My couples partner is a fwb I first met 4 years ago. Respect goes a long way as someone has already mentioned. Unlike last night when a random messaged to ask for a hook up as he was sober and could drive.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Redmustang u guys have my attention! Foxy is also bang on. I have found the conversation with younger men begins to bore me as I have moved a long way last riding in cars, music blaring and the basic ‘please blow me in my car’ just doesn’t excite me... u want an older woman u need to keep her sexual mind interested leading up to a meet and make ur introduction message hearty but not a short story.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    And sadly crass single males before you have paved a difficult path for all single males to come. So it may feel like pushing you know what up hill. You’ve got two choices - join the ranks of the crass unsuccessful single males or break the mould and be different, persist and pave your own path. We shouldn’t be tarred with the same brush of those before us because of where you fit into the social ladder..

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    I'm not a Cougar or a DOW but I have enjoyed men much younger than myself. I have also NOT enjoyed them, and sadly the latter outweighs the former. I take everyone on a case by case basis but have found alot of the younger men (18 to 28) are completely crass and uncouth and I just don't respond well to either of those traits. There's alot to be said for maturity as an attractive trait....... and I dont mean maturity in years. Maturity in the way you communicate and carry yourself. Respect in the way you treat others.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Backtofun - women are beautiful strong intelligent creative individuals and deserve to be treated as such. They deserve to be nurtured and respected. I always feel that if you seduce the mind then the body will follow. Show courtesy, respect and be interested in getting to know those who interest you. It doesn’t seem such a hard recipe to follow..

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    7 years ago

    I’m a little older than most of the beautiful ladies on the forum so far . I can tell you that I don’t ‘love ‘ the cougar , for some reason I feel it has negative connotations. As you can see I’ve married a much younger man . He was 23 when we met ,I was 43. Younger men ( as well as older ) still get my attention . I agree with you all , respect goes a long way. Some older women find younger men attractive and I’m sure some women don’t ? Like everyone on RHP we all have different wants and needs .We’ve found a huge percentage of young men just want it ‘NOW’! We say in our profile we like to speak first ( that applies to anyone ) , meet for a drink and hope for the best . This isn’t a generalisation but a lot of young men don’t have anything written in their profiles and when they message it’s hi or how are you doing ! Sadly that’s not going to grab ‘a cougars ‘ attention . A bit of humour , the acknowledgment that you have obviously read our profile and are what we are seeking goes a long way . Patience is of utmost importance. Mr_Discreet good luck in your search for ‘cougars ‘ . Be patient and respectful and I’m sure the rest will come to you.

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    7 years ago

    Sorry I don’t love the word cougar !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Agree with everything the other ladies have said.. first impressions count for SO much, especially on here when you're trying to stand out from a very large group of other single guys.. Get some decent profile pics.. I cant soeak for others, but personally I like to see good upper body pics (unclothed) .. maybe Jean's and no shirt.. Ad yes, I do like to see a cock pic or two . But not JUST cock pics lol.. They are definitely secondary. Also, put some thought into your description.. At the end of the day we want to know what you have to bring to the table.. Telling us that "you've always lived cougars etcetc doesnt given us any indication on what you will be doing FOR us.. If you have great massage skills, oral skills, or can make a lady wet by just nibbling her earlobe let us know ! Hope this helps a little.. T xx

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    7 years ago

    As you can see by the advice from ladies in the know. You as a single guy will be expected to do all the work with little or no response .. Why ? because thats just the way of the world. Women have you by the nuts as they say' and they know it ? So while your deadly serious in your attempt to jag a root., woman dont have that same ugency ... Why ? because they can , thats why. True ' there are women who are more serious than others , The trick is to find the one who's up to it.. Good luck...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Sawadee I don’t even know where to begin... Men are not expected to do or the work with little or no response that couldn’t be further from the truth. Women reciprocate what’s put into them as I’m sure men do to them. So if you want a quality woman with skills to make your toes curl and eyes roll back in your head then yes you have to put some effort in.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Right on red mustang !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Same way you seduce any woman... Through genuine connection...

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    7 years ago

    Sawadee, I’m at a loss for words . Really ??!!!!

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    7 years ago

    Redmustang... I was probally thinking out aloud. But i do believe because women dont need to have the same urgency as us males its so much easier.. You never read where a women is asking for advise on how to get onto a younger guy because in most cases its on tap if they really want a hook up.. Thats the point i was trying to explain to mr - discreet .. and thats why l tryed to explain why us males have to work so much harder to get the same result. Nothing against women.. l love women.. 😊

  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    7 years ago

    By not calling them cougars 🙄

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I think its obvious that Swadee is right, that women have no interest in sex, despite apparantely having us by the nuts which actually seems like where we want them almost, obviously the ladies on a sex site are here just for the funnies of having us put in all the effort, because seriously sending a little cheeky and fun message and taking a few photos is the hardest thing anyone will ever do. And anyone who uses the phrase' jag a root' is someone i trust completely. This topic can be closed now i think.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Sawadee, the young OP is not going to benefit from your bitter outlook..... which is totally inaccutate and just reeks of the sooky lah lah's

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    7 years ago

    i have no reason to be bitter. Maybe your perception which im sorry you feel.. l only talk from what ive observed over the years.. Everyone knows its about a ratio of 100 to 1 here on rhp ? We read that here just about every other day ? ?

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    The woman has to be into you in all forms, not just a first message, not just pretty appearances or an elegant cock pic. If she is not interested, she's not interested. Nothing will change her mind. If she is interested (most) will say. That's fine to say they have you by the nuts, but how is a cub going to keep her interested, besides dance a peacock dance or dangling nuts in front of her? Ms Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    Most CUBS want and fantasise all the time wanting and older women. IMO (most) have no idea what to do with her once they have her attention. They want this, they want that, but I'm not sure if they really know what they are getting themselves into. (Most) just want bragging rights and object us to their mates. Little do they know, we are smart and know when they target us as they actually do teach us what signs to look out for. LOL! Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Easy.....They cant run too fastYou want the feeling of a chase?That catch and kill sensation?. Try an RSL club. Those chicks can still move like startled gazelles (Yes, i'm being stupid)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I think the whole urgency thing is completely subjective.... I’d also hazard a guess, that women are just as eager to have sex with men as men are with women...but the defining factor is that a lot of women don’t just settle for sex because they’re horny....which irritates those men who the women they’re trying to fuck; are entirely a wake up to their bullshit...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Just be urself and dont be pushy...Also helps if u don't behave like a boy lol

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    RSL Club...OK, so maybe the Zimmer frame could be used as some kinky apparatus training tool for the cubs. You know bend over onto the seat and handcuff onto the frame, type of thing. Could be the start of something magical. Ms Foxy **Reminder: Don't forget to put the brakes on. OH&S and all that! 😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    RSL club ahaha bloody classic 😂

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    LAWN BOWLS CLUB...you might get a free cup of tea, cucumber sanwiches and delightful perv (when they bend over playing with various size balls). 😛 Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    hey fucking gr8 now youve let the cat out of the bag and set the pigeons amongst the RSL cougars. Lordy lordy dont tell em about the free buses, bingo nights and happy hour or Im screwed :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I’d love some advice

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I received this message just today. This is an example of what not to say: ''I've never had someone quite your age before I think I could be into it, may I see some more photos?'' Yeah nah There's a few issues there. My eyes rolled skywards and my finger went straight to the delete button. Also, I would advise not using the terms cougar / MILF / DOW / whatever other silly names might be used in this situation when you approach a woman, at least until you know whether or not she minds those terms. Personally I very much dislike them, they don't apply to me at all (I'm not a mother and I certainly don't 'hunt' younger guys), and if I get any whiff that a guy is planning to use me as some sort of porn fantasy fodder - as per old mate above - then it's a no go.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Snap_dragon it’s not a fantasy I’ve just always been a person to give it ago before making my opinion. I struggle most girl my age always the same thing. Thinking maybe older women might be a bit more open and willing to explore. Might be able to learn some new tricks 😝

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    The other thing you need to learn to do, is read profiles and respect what they say. Not doing that is a sure way to piss people off.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Good comments here from you beautiful ladies! Also enjoyed the sample mail material - thanks for giving us all a chuckle! Happy "hunting" to one and all....Jx

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    7 years ago

    A bowl of milk and a plate of meat for one and not referring to the other as alphabet soup ~ OS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'Snap_Dragon' I received this message just today. This is an example of what not to say: ''I've never had someone quite your age before I think I could be into it, may I see some more photos?'' OMFG!!! Where the hell does this guy get off sending that message. I am really concerned about the male race - on behalf of the decent males on this site and there are few of us, I apologise Snap-Dragon

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    The majority of men fail to understand that a woman is more attracted to personality, intelligence, genuine quiet confidence and wit than looks, age or a body honed in a gym for hours on end. Once you grasp this, you realise that the development of your ‘people skills’ and genuine self regard (dare I say self love) is the surest way to get female attention. Genuine confidence and the ability to focus on other people rather than your own projected image and needs should see you enjoying plenty of relaxed female company. I hope this helps.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    To be blunt: Generally younger guys are still figuring it out. Much like when I was a 23 yo I didn't know my body and what worked for me. Now I know and I find guys between 35-45 are more likely to know what they are doing to not only get me aroused but also make me orgasm multiple times. I like the bodies on younger guys but I would be very hesitant to sleep with a younger guy unless he had heaps of validations. I don't play often so when I do it needs to be good. I tend to look for the 35-45 yo guys who are cheating time with their bodies (much like my partner, Mike) and also know what they are doing. To have 2 guys with skills is pretty special ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    SuperFoxxxy said it the best. When I was in my early 20s I never really had to do much because if you catch a cougars interest, they will let you know. Now that I'm in my 30s my taste has also matured... So any 50+ cougars, if this couple catch your eye give us a holla 😂. Good luck brother and when it happens you better be prepared

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Pls excuse my ignorance but what is DOW short for? I know the rest 😉

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    There are a few of us here who prefer to be called a DOW. DOW: Delicous Older Woman, Delectable Older Woman, Daring Older Woman, Dazzling Older Woman, Decent Older Woman. My favourite, Delightful Older Woman. 😎 Ms Foxy x

  • FinerLife

    FinerLife

    7 years ago

    Yea I would refrain from using the word cougar, milf.. Its a little played out. Be yourself and understand that these are women who are strong, intelligent and generally have pretty busy lives - work, family and then play? I barely cope with enough free time with work alone to squeeze in some fun. Some may like it but I personally dont use it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    If you TRULY want to get her attention.... Hide her glasses and false teeth 😂😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Simple, engage her in a conversation. Compliment her. Don't assume you have a right to get into her panties. No different to any other female.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    The attraction should be mutual and not talking about just physical also respect and honesty! Not every woman will like you just because you are younger. Not every woman will reply you, if reply just show your personality, show why you are different. Keep simple!

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    Thank you Ms Foxy

  • XTC4UANDME

    XTC4UANDME

    7 years ago

    Mr Discreet If you want to get somewhere with the ladies, you have to be honest & transparent otherwise you will be seen as a fake which turns women off. Like a lot of the other writers have said women need to be treated with respect & you need to be patient. Compliments & praise go a long way as well which will put you on the right path as long as you are genuine about what you are saying. That is how I met the most amazing woman in my life & we are still going from strength to strength in our relationship.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    And always read their profile. If you don't fit their specified parameters, respect that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Well mate it is very simple......you won't truly know how to have a more mature lady take interest in you until you pass through "the young zone". I call it the "young zone" because you have to have had multiple friendships with quite a lot of women to truly understand what women want.....it takes several years and you only start understanding it when you get into your 30's and 40's. I say friendships rather than lovers because if you want to understand how women's minds works become a friend first and lover second. I am still learning and will most likely be learning until the grim reaper comes knocking on my door. Here is what I have learnt so far.........women don't know what they want, they will always tell you that they do, I generally find they don't.......they want you to tell them......but in the most appropriate, intelligent but most confident method you can, that appears to their natural social nature. Example: Excuse me, I couldn't help but notice that you couldn't decide on which summer dress to pick, I saw you looking at both in the mirror.....I think the aqua is fantastic on you.....it brings out your stunning blue eyes and let's face it, you would look great in it too. Find opportunities for conversation starters that will give you a chance to be appealing, intriguing and confident. I can't say that this has always been successful for me because I still have quite a bit of tunning to do on my body language and this has let me down on occasion, but I do find that confident cheeky banter is always a winner with the ladies no matter what age you are trying to appeal to.

  • Goodvintage

    Goodvintage

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'backtofun' Redmustang u guys have my attention! Foxy is also bang on. I have found the conversation with younger men begins to bore me as I have moved a long way last riding in cars, music blaring and the basic ‘please blow me in my car’ just doesn’t excite me... u want an older woman u need to keep her sexual mind interested leading up to a meet and make ur introduction message hearty but not a short story. But I have a nice vintage car with a bench seat...??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'badboyhere'Here is what I have learnt so far.........women don't know what they want, they will always tell you that they do, I generally find they don't.......they want you to tell them......but in the most appropriate, intelligent but most confident method you can, that appears to their natural social nature. Example: Excuse me, I couldn't help but notice that you couldn't decide on which summer dress to pick, I saw you looking at both in the mirror.....I think the aqua is fantastic on you.....it brings out your stunning blue eyes and let's face it, you would look great in it too. Find opportunities for conversation starters that will give you a chance to be appealing, intriguing and confident. I can't say that this has always been successful for me because I still have quite a bit of tunning to do on my body language and this has let me down on occasion, but I do find that confident cheeky banter is always a winner with the ladies no matter what age you are trying to appeal to. Pity us feeble-minded little ladeez, who are just helpless until a big strong man comes along and tells us what to do / what we need. As a single woman, I just don't even know how I manage to get through each day without a man planning my daily activities and making decisions for me. The struggle is real I tell you. Probably not your body language that's failing you with that particular approach, I'd say. At least reading these forums gives my eyeballs a good daily workout

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'badboyhere' Here is what I have learnt so far.........women don't know what they want, they will always tell you that they do, I generally find they don't.......they want you to tell them......but in the most appropriate, intelligent but most confident method you can, that appears to their natural social nature. Please step away from the pick-up artist books, badboy. 1. Yes I do know what I want. No, really. 2. No I won't always tell you (why would I?)3. No I do not want you to tell me4. Please don't appear, nor appeal, to my social or any other nature Hope this helps.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I'm a woman, so please just call me that. Mature woman? Older, even? Sure. Please don't refer to me by acronyms like MILF, I find that a real turn-off. Besides, I'm not even a mother. I'm not a girl, nor an animal, and would much prefer it if the word 'female' was only used as an adjective. Simples.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I am an older woman - older than most .. lol - who likes younger men. I also am not fond of the word 'cougar'.. I don't see myself as a predator. I like them , they like me - there is nothing predatory - not from my side .. haha. Show a little more of your face - you could include your mouth in your current profile picture - sensuality - and put your arm up a little to show your armpit .. even put your arm behind your head .. that is a kind of 'surrender' position. { Yes - I like photography! } Nice to see a bit of creativity and sensuality when you show your body.. not the stock standard torso shot. Most of all, put some warmth into your approach. It is not impressive to get "hey there" or "flick me a message sometime"! Stand out from the others (and there are plenty of them, believe me!). Sex starts in the brain - and there is nothing sexier than feeling desired. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'FinerLife' Yea I would refrain from using the word cougar, milf.. Its a little played out. Be yourself and understand that these are women who are strong, intelligent and generally have pretty busy lives - work, family and then play? I barely cope with enough free time with work alone to squeeze in some fun. Some may like it but I personally dont use it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I think its the experience guys you're age look for and the openess of a mature woman. That has no judgement and enjoys sexsual pleasures with out the nagging phone calls, texts, and young girl drama. You both meet up when it suits have fun be friends also and kick back and enjoy the company and yes respect needs to go both ways.. but work on ur profile maybe even look into what other guys say etc look sexy not the dick pic type and u will do fine. And most of all be yourself my boyfriend is 13 years younger than me we r best friends lovers , experimental open, And the number 1 key between us is HONESTY so yes it can work....He has fulfilled me in many ways.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Exactly what most of the other cougars have said 😜😍 it’s our choice who we hunt and who we have chosen to be their cub. We are people and we are all different shapes and sizes and some still wear the scars of having children so treat us kindly and with respect and you shouldn’t have a problem but yes face pics go along way also and speak you speak also. Wildhorses 😜😛💋💋

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    So to the cubs out there be warned, if we are not treated right, we give one almighty roar and do eat our prey whole! LOL! Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Depending if you can hold a conversation, Respect her and have a big package down stairs and know how to pleasure her 👅, she will show you want good sex is like 😊💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    If you got the looks flaunt it... If not get a fat wallet lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I myself quite like younger men. What I don’t like is being told how the younger guys say they can go all night can lick pussy for hours and can do this or that, like they are the only ones that can actually do that. Experience is everything, also perhaps a lot of us females DONT like to go all night or have hours of oral. Some do, some don’t, I personally love hot quickies and I also love well hung guys. I’m sure if you put some more work into your profile and be patient your Cougar will come along. Keep in mind there is no shortage of you so offering plenty of detail and some nice pics will go a long way. X

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I have enjoyed time with a handful of luscious men younger than myself, not all at once sadly enough. Ha ha! Anyway, the memories are still delicious. Most have been guys that have talked to either my husband or myself at a club. This is what helps grab my attention: *Having a conversation with me that does not start with 'wanna fuck?'. Don't laugh, this actually happens. Talk naturally, ask about the lingerie I'm wearing (bonus points if you know something about about my fave subject), or talk about an interesting place you've travelled too. Whatever, generally its not necessarily the subject but I'm watching you watch me. I am making up my mind about what kind of partner you might be. Respectful? A one-pump-wonder? Will you be generous or will you just please yourself?*I love to laugh, if you can make me laugh the sex is usually.. well delicious. Mwah,Mrs Fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I too enjoy younger guys company however "when was the last time you gave a guy head" is not something that appeals to me! ( last message to my profile). In the end we all want interest and respect. Just be yourself . Be her friend and tell her she's fascinating and be interested in her not what she can do in the bedroom. Good luck x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You grab our attention with hot photos. You keep our attention by showing you have read our profile, are interested in mutual pleasure and know how to use your gorgeous body effectively.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Ummm no just no. 😂😂

  • Quinty

    Quinty

    7 years ago

    Possibly become 25 years old would be very helpful!!!

  • Quinty

    Quinty

    7 years ago

    And just know young men, older women do not respond well to the group message 'Tonight?' or 'Busy sexy?' Or the impatient ?? When there is no reply to their one or two word message! No doubt time poor and messing about but those words do absolutely nothing to catch the attention of the older woman... Yes we can see you are fit and look lovely but the skills you lack when naked are on a par to the skills you lack to attract our attention in the first place! Not all young men are on the same "all about me page" as I have played with a couple of young men who have all the skills needed to satisfy a woman both mentally and physically... they are very delicious, very gentlemanly and definitely on the same page as the older man who does have years of experience and the desire to tease and please a woman from head to toe!!!

  • Justfun65

    Justfun65

    7 years ago

    Yes actually I'm 53 and love younger guys. If I like their face and they seem genuinely understanding of my two problems on this sex site, I meet up and we have both been satisfied in our own way. So the guy who first sent this letter, send me a message or at least look at my profile hornyevie1965 if we both agree we like each other and you accept my problems, I will happily meet you and hopefully we can have a great time together

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I love younger men, & the term cougar doesn’t bother me. You will need to step it up when you talk to us. If you sound really young it’s a turn off. Another BIG turn off is if I see a silly photo of you with your Tongue sticking out, It really shows your immaturity. Another tip, if you do manage to get us into your bedroom, choose your music play list wisely. I don’t want to listen to stuff my teenage boys listen to. And If you can only perform for 40min don’t waste my time. I love men in their mid 30s because they know what their doing in bed & how to please a woman. However I have a favourite 26yr old Toy boy that I’m sure has been trained by a cougar before. I think it’s a win win situation for both parties so go for it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hey mate. Ive had a bit of success with more mature women. What everyone says is true though they come to you. Everyone I've got together with has approached me first or we spoke for a bit about something else and than later they approached me to continue the conversation or to progress it further. One time I helped a lady take the wheel nuts of and change her tyre on the side of the road for her.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Why am I getting the impression that Sawadee is one of those entitled dudes who expects to get lucky after a single ‘Hi, how r u?’ opener...?🙄🙄 ‘Woe is me’ attitudes aren’t hot.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Well maintained bodies, neat, clean, grab my attention. The way you interact keeps it.

  • compressor

    compressor

    7 years ago

    I am happy for any lady to chase me. Waiting Waiting lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    1. Wait for one to contact you (photo's that have been mentioned probably help). 2. Ask what they are after and tell them what your, and don't be a 'fuckboy'.3. Be honest - no point in talking a heap of hype and then meeting up and not delivering - will just let the both of you down. 4. Find one, have an arrangement and go from there.

  • thickhung8inch

    thickhung8inch

    7 years ago

    Like others have said. Make sure your profile is good!.. They will usually make the first move. And when they do, oh my. It’s a magical thing! 😁😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Just be yourself ok take it from an older woman ok

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Being 48, I used to have an age limit of 35. Any less would make me feel like a paeodophile, or so I thought. I’ve been carrying some baggage for a long time ... I’m currently playing with a 24 year old in Norway online. I’ve never felt so alive. He’s so much more encouraging and adventurous than any guy I’ve had in rl. I’m also realistic ... it’s just for fun, but should we actually manage to meet at some point, I’ll be all over him anywhere, anytime, and I don’t care what anyone thinks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You have to chat her up And give her lots of compliments I love that from a younger guy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Speak to them like people always works for me. They are in fact human... just somewhat more aesthetically pleasing than we men.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    That is so nice to know, you made my day.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Be polite well mannered and respectful of there spouse make them comfortable by suggesting could try put the ball in there court with the dominance or dictator of where it's going till she's at ease and comfortable foreplay and romance her neck and breasts with kisses go down for the growl even flicker her ass with a bit of a rim as a tease if it's toned go to work on her clit stop put her hand on your crutch se if she helps herself if not undo it yourself and gently push it in her mouth while you play with her pussy till she spits your dick out her mouth and asks to be fucked or if she tells you make her wait a bit and tease her with your tip till she grapples your cheeks and pulls you in shell clench because she's paranoid or self conscious about the amount of years of sexual expression her pussy has endured tell her to relax and teach her a lesson don't get rough on the first encounter unless she asks you to remember she's still in control make her feel secure don't top to bottom her or she might walk and feel dishonestly baited for self satisfaction borderline whether you'll ever get her back again if she feels treated like meet or a thrash pit straight off the bat after a few times mix it up with a thrashing but watch the pelvic bump and grind or they'll can it with an oww and there whole energy goes and it's like fucking a hooker similarity no effort from them to feel you come inside them and feel beautiful and they still got it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    It's Interesting though...ive always seemed to attract older women. Secretly, I don't think this is a bad thing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I'm sure if you looked online and did a few googly searches you'd be able to find some bars where perhaps mature ladies may frequent. If so and you do meet any always always be respectful, have a laugh, stimulate their minds and look to connect that way....and never use the term cougar. They're simply wonderful woman who are attracted to younger men and the attraction piece is where you need to put in the yards just as you would with anyone you found desirable.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I to am in search of a milf

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I keep looking for a gf whatever the age. But hard to find. !!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Very glad to hear it :-) Come chat with me id love to hear the stories

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Find yourself an older sex worker that turns you on and you connect with...It will be the hottest time you will ever have without the drama...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I haven’t read all the comments here but i get approached all the time by young guys. It’s not my thing as a general rule. So my advice is when a woman says no, don’t hound her. I find they just want to ask 20 questions as to why not. The same things appear all the time. 1. Have you had younger? (Younger than who?) 2. What’s your youngest? (This makes me laugh cause when I was 18 so was he) 3. Age is just a number. (No, it’s tastes, maturity and emotional intelligence as well) 4. Finally - please please please and the begging begins. I appreciate it’s something you want to satisfy but when we are not interested sometimes we just aren’t into it. (Along with the advice above)

  • aussieguy68

    aussieguy68

    7 years ago

    Very good advice bemydaddypl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hi guess girls are little bit more demanding and have more expectations on this website than an app like tinder

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    Yes, "girls' are demanding, have more expectations and lack substance. "Ladies" on the other hand know exactly what they want. There is a massive Difference. 😝😜 Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    what's a DOW???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Willing to find out

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'canthaveit' what's a DOW??? The Dow Jones Industrial Average (DJIA), or simply the Dow (/ˈdaʊ/), is a stock market index that indicates the value of 30 large, publicly owned companies based in the United States, and how they have traded in the stock market during various periods of time ____________________________________________________________________________ or this from the urban dictionary lol"Dirty old woman" (censored)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting '0z_boy' Quoting 'canthaveit' what's a DOW??? The Dow Jones Industrial Average (DJIA), or simply the Dow (/ˈdaʊ/), is a stock market index that indicates the value of 30 large, publicly owned companies based in the United States, and how they have traded in the stock market during various periods of time ____________________________________________________________________________ or this from the urban dictionary lol"Dirty old woman" (censored)

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