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I'm professional, well educated...(yeah yeah) - aren't we all??
July 09 2019
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RHP User
6 years ago
You lost me at "Male half here;".....lol..... sorry....too many words.,...I'm skim reading....then I hit point 3..... Huge generalisations about the stereotypical "professional" person you have there...life in order? no mental illness??.. suicide ..??....really?....aren't they prime candidates..? A swinging lifestyle....is an alternative lifestyle...so you will meet a variety of people. Open the gate on your white picket fence in middle class suburbia....because this site will introduce you to all sorts of people...professional and unprofessional....!!! However you wish to define it. have fun :)
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Try_This
6 years ago
I know heaps of professionals they are called "MOTHERS "
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AandA26
6 years ago
Lol, the ones that state they are professional are probably the least professional if they feel the need to say it. As for people saying they are discreet, well no shit so are the rest of the people on here.
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close_cpl
6 years ago
I think people are just trying to find other folks they'll be comfortable with and who'll be comfortable with them and they're trying to find the right words to do it. Sure they're probably got it wrong but it's no easy thing finding people you'll be comfortable to have semi random sex with. At least for us it's not and I assume we're not the only ones. We often feel like we haven't got things to talk to people about. We're not that into footy, prefer test cricket to the short game, don't care about cars except to get somewhere, don't care about boats but happy to potter about in a tinny, don't really watch TV, spend time reading books. I've been tempted to use "professionals" to point to that but most of my workmates are the opposite so I don't think it would work. Could use Uni educated except the same applies. Bookish? Anachronistic? Nerdy? Not very sexy. So I guess people are just trying to find something that will get them people who are a bit like them I'm the hope of hitting it off more easily. The extroverts won't understand why that's even an issue, but extroverts never do.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I'm just a dumb tradie. What hope do I have :D
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RHP User
6 years ago
Haha now that's what I'm talkin' about, yep there's no hope mate. May as well give it up now 😉
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RHP User
6 years ago
Close couple. Why not put that second paragraff into your profile. Tells a fair bit about yourselfs.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I thought professionals had colleagues not workmates ?
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Thrills33kers
6 years ago
It means I charge you by the hour! 😝
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RHP User
6 years ago
I_touch_myself2 really touched a nerve hey? Your way older than what we seek and your language is straight out of chapter 1 of the bogan manual haha. So yeh nah no thanks! 💩🖕🤣
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RHP User
6 years ago
Ok I love it . It’s a term of endearment from the author stating ‘ you are sub standard compared to me ‘ To make them feel more important than they actually are . If the world goes to shit ,,,, all their degrees ,,, all their money will mean nothing lol . I like ‘ Antichrist s ‘ answer ... Professionals ,,,, the real estate .
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RHP User
6 years ago
You're too old for me too 😉
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handjob4u
6 years ago
As clearly evidenced from the responses here, while 'professional' originally had a narrow meaning, these days people interpret it in vastly different ways. I wouldn't assume professional meant anything beyond employed. But I would anticipate that it might be in a field that requires a degree, adherence to a code of ethics, specialised skills or knowledge, and where this lifestyle would be frowned upon and may be career limiting if revealed. At the end of the day, professional is just one of many subjective labels. I like funny, sexy, articulate, accepting, trustworthy, and well-presented people. But what I find funny (quick, cheeky, silly, punny, sexual, innuendo) could be entirely different to what amuses you. So we might use similar descriptors, yet be astonished at who each other actually finds attractive. Ultimately, if the use of professional increases or decreases someone's interest then it's definitely served its purpose!
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RHP User
6 years ago
We are all professionals to some degree in something, i dont say it on my profile but im highly qualifed in many things because i love knowledge and money but when it comes to intelligence , educated doest mean intelkigent, i love non professinals who are free thinkers and not limited by material parameters, i can fuck a toop class person and had more intelligent conversations and encounters with non pros cause lets be honest i whoop most pros arses , intellectualy and many other ways but find non pros fascinating unless they are absolute skanks of course, if you wise and patient you will encounter the right people but dont limit yourself with parameters otherwise you miss alot , some are shallow, some are deep, so i experience them all
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RHP User
6 years ago
Let me tell you about a hook up I had in the city centre once. Long story short, extensive communication, all seemed good, met for a coffee and decided to play immediately. Fast forward to a semi private location, he pulls his dick out from his suit pants (tiny, had obviously used the rhp ruler lol) and ecpected me to get him off in his lunch break, barely even kissed me! On the surface though, this guy would be classified as 'professional' by many. Give me a tradie anyday. I prefer down to earth people who don't need to hide behind a persona
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RHP User
6 years ago
Fat fingers
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RHP User
6 years ago
that is a generalisation but the point is just because someone works in a corporate job doesn't make them decent and respectful
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RHP User
6 years ago
Miss T here of the couple on my single profile I had young professional because I was working in a very corporate world and was always dressed business.. ect Educated well that one puzzles me ... we are all educated one way or another .. I think professional is another ways to say time poor ...
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RHP User
6 years ago
I read it as more of a cue about lifestyle - they're focused on their career, probably time poor (but aren't we all these days).
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RHP User
6 years ago
If professional equals time poor, then I'm profession, along with the majority of people. Interesting how corporate people think they're busier than anyone else. Try working in the construction industry 12-14 hrs a day, then juggle family and fitness. Why do you think you're any busier? Still wreaks of elitism
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RHP User
6 years ago
Fat fingers. Forgot to mention Mothers. Are corporate suits busier than them?
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SSExplorer
6 years ago
A Profession is an area of vocation which is deemed to have an ability to affect its clients welfare greatly and as such is ruled by a governing society which is supposed to hold its members to a higher ethical ground. So any so called professional that will bill a client based on what they think they can get out of them is in no way a professional and these days that knocks around 95% of people out I fear. I belong to a true profession and I act in a truly professional way and I lament that I meet very few people who do the same but when I do I hold them very close!
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platinumcherry
6 years ago
Define Professional lol there's alot of professionals out there there's also alot of professional bullshit artists too... Sometimes it's hard to pick the honest ones from the ones that lay a role just depends where your looking
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RHP User
6 years ago
For us Professional means that the we can hopefully expect an educated conversation, someone that has a job or wants a job, takes pride in themselves, is discreet and wants to be a positive influence in our world OR someone that’s not a Bogan, doesn’t flick dick pic’s or ask for nude photos in the first sentence. I don’t think it’s connected to a specific profession. And sorry..... but for those that see it as snobby or looking down at others - that’s your perception of yourself. Know your tribe and be happy in their company ❤️
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RHP User
6 years ago
Be happy in your tribe lmfao isn't it interesting that you think that. I don't have a 'beneath you' perception of myself, sorry to disappoint you but in all honesty probably the opposite 😂 I'm VERY happy with myself 😉 and neither would anyone else consider themselves beneath you. That's the whole point we're trying to make, but thank you for admitting your a professional wanker
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RHP User
6 years ago
😂 I just read your profile. You're a couple, apparently, great catch, apparently, and fit, apparently, with no pictures 😉 and you offer reward for services? So how's your tribe coming on? Much interest?
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RHP User
6 years ago
Vocationally, I am a professional.I am an Engineer.So what?I am not doing engineering now.presently, I am doing labouring work, while I wait for that next engineering gig to come to fruition. So what does professional mean?I take it to mean that you have a degree.That should imply that you are an intelligent person.However, it is my experience that passing a degree does not guarantee intelligence.Many of my peers in Uni were not that smart and just wanted to pass.They did and now they are considered intellectuals. Wrong assumption. People with limited intellectual capacity can pass a degree and conversely, people with high intellectual skills may have no interest in doing a degree.A "professional" status does not define a person as intelligent, wise, mature or even capable. Moreover, the title of professional certainly does nothing to define the persona of an individual.While it does evidence that an individual was capable of enduring an onerous education process, it says nothing about the nature of the person. The bottom line.I am the person that I was when I was an unskilled labourer.The same person that I was as a professional (Engineer).The same person that I am now, again doing labouring work.And I will be the same person tomorrow, whether working as a labourer or as a senior engineer, making the big bucks (fingers crossed LOL)
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RHP User
6 years ago
Touch,Read your messages.Rod (Good Guy) aka SNAG4XTC
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RHP User
6 years ago
Vocation does not define a person, professional status or other. Everyone on RHP, and in general, in life, spruiks their prowess as this and that.Professional, DTE, No BS, drama free, etc.The evidence is in the ability to walk the talk. Be the person professed to be.Be honest with yourself and to others. The fundamental rule is "seeing is believing".
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RHP User
6 years ago
funny read, we are usually bit turned off by the use of the Term, but understand why some use it. Between us we have more degrees than a thermometer, but our friends say we are bogans at heart lol
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RHP User
6 years ago
Without judging "Snobs" The rest of us un professionals just keep their cars road worthy,running,looking nice serve the delicious food they eat,build their houses,produce and breed all our wonderful food,dig big holes in the ground for steel for houses rings on their fingers and everything else that keeps this country afloat But hey we're only a couple of genuine fun loving casual people so who are we to judge
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RHP User
6 years ago
For us it translates to “non-bogan” - not that there is anything wrong with being a bogan! I guess people are just trying to find others they get along with. From our perspective, I think we qualify - one of us has letters after their name, the other before their name - however, we get along well with a range of people - regardless of their occupation or edumacation!
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RHP User
6 years ago
It's only a term used by obnoxious yuppies really..
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RHP User
6 years ago
I don't know that I'd go that far, plenty just simply use it to mean they're civilised, drug free etc clean living people, and I have no problem with people using the word, more how the rest of the profile reads, and I think they rule out potentially awesome play partners because of their strict criteria. My best sexual partners probably wouldn't have come onto their radar, because I look beyond a messy bathroom pic or whatever. I try to imagine what they would be like when up close and personal to suit my needs. Are they dominant, respectful, patient in early messaging etc. What they do for a living, I didn't even know with a good percentage of them. One I did because I went to his building site lol and another was very open about his life, but I couldn't care less if they are employed, not employed, wear a suit, wear high vis. It's the person that matters. Bottom line though, their loss IMO If people rule me out because I smoke or I'm a bad arse, well they'll never get to see the sexy side will they? Pfft
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RHP User
6 years ago
Hi all rhp members 😀 I've been a member here for several years and I've had many people that I've communicated with in in their profile many state that they're all are professional !!! I think that they're just bogus people who have sexuall gratification by exchanging emails and phone numbers plus photos and nothing happens )))! Perhaps cyber sex eh ? As you know that anyone can make up a bull shit profile !!! Regarding being professional we are all equal and who is born Will die eh ? So those off you please get a life and stop wasting my time and also other genuine people life that are genuine lovely people that I've met !!!. Regards t. .xxx
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RHP User
6 years ago
Bodie, Doyle..?
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RHP User
6 years ago
It's just waffle , similar to hate smoking but you bump into them smashing a pack of Winfield at the pub.
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Sunshine0000
6 years ago
The term "Professional" generally implies people who have done well for themselves by virtue of their education and qualifications. It's a subtle way of indicating their social status which focuses more on their intellectual abilities rather than physical attributes or materialistic possessions. For example, there is a general perception that professionals are capable of holding intelligent conversations and are much more polished, cultured and sophisticated than their counterparts.
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RHP User
6 years ago
it does confirm is that men will fuck a hole in a wall 😁
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Appears Pixie got taken away......
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RHP User
6 years ago
Perhaps it gives a whole new meaning to "pixilated" ..in a professional way of course :) Hugs Q
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RHP User
6 years ago
Now my comment makes no sense. Oh well, not uncommon 😂
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RHP User
6 years ago
If you have to question the word ‘professional’, argue about it, insult it or even defend it, it probably isn’t the right word for you.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I was just thinking about this the other day. I think that people who have no grammar intellect just copy that from the classifieds section of the local newspaper. It’s what hookers say about themselves, discreet and professional. Discreet means that they won’t fuck and tell and professional means that they do it for a living 😂 so many hookers on here 😛
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RHP User
6 years ago
I always construed it to be a man in a suit, blue collar, professional but now I am doubting myself. So many ways it could be construed.
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LetsFrolic
6 years ago
I don't use it even though I have many qualifications
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have it in my profile, reason being that I don't want to disclose my actual job publicly, even though it's very important to me, to the point that it would probably give you an idea of the kind of person I am - but I'm happy to discuss it privately.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'sonoftheking' I have it in my profile, reason being that I don't want to disclose my actual job publicly, even though it's very important to me, to the point that it would probably give you an idea of the kind of person I am - but I'm happy to discuss it privately. Are you a prince?
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kittyzkatz
6 years ago
Professional could mean anything really... that the person’s employed, that they’re an expertise in their field of work, doesn’t necessarily mean they have to have a university degree.
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LustAndLoveXoX
6 years ago
Yeah I see many girls writing this on their profile but If ai want to know more, I just ask for more lol.
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RHP User
6 years ago
You’re correct, the type of profession & if this lifestyle would be frowned upon. Like high end banking, management or training those professionals. A lot different than taking photos & making videos, from home porn to wedding videos. There are some ‘professional people’, who are quite up themselves & frankly very rude. (i feel better after venting 🙂) But there’s so much more that interests me when deciding if I want to play with anyone, and it’s got sweet FA to do with their employment. Trustworthy, honest, those with integrity; well mannered courteous people are high on my list.
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