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Instant turn offs.

January 10 2014

Just thought I'd start this because I'm sure we all have some things that are an instant no. For me- nightclub toilet selfies, ppl dat ryt lyk dis, people who are over the top- the way they dress, their jewellery, even their make up sometimes (context- I'm a less is more kinda guy), people that don't have basic manners or common courtesy.

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  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    12 years ago

    I detest this word with great passion! plus all of the ones that you listed...lol...and probably many more

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    "My turn offs: Complaining Ambiguity Gold jewellery Template profiles Dirty fingernails Booty calls Tony Abbott Poor grammar Smoking Moustaches Name calling Cock shots Pain Intolerance Bukkake Vanity Unreliability" . Let me add to that: Safe Sex: If required or Sometimes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Men and women that come across as desperate. Men that put their dick in any hole... Even though I always seem to go for the sluts. Lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    those men who want to tell you how great they are in the first sentence,,,,,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Going red in the face with fury makes the blood rush straight out of my pee pee!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In profiles, gives me a soft on straight away.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Is anyone who is homophobic, closed minded and not willing to try new things. They are zzzzzzz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Assumptions!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    answer the most. I have to stop writing now because I believe my grammar is shocking. Hmm what do I not like..... Photos where I can see this person is sooooo untidy....hmmmYes dirty fingernail too.I am free can I come over now....WHAT???I have not spoken with you one word so my answer is NO Yes the ASK ME ...grrrrrrrrrrNo photo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sadly, the following scenarios seemed to occur on a regular basis when I was a single female, and to my female friends... each and every time they were a complete turn-off: Men who talk themselves up (TOO much) It's fair enough for people to state that they are good in bed - if they are. But to continually bang on "Yeah, baby, I'm so GOOD, I'm the best you'll ever have, come on baby you know you want it" blah blah BLAH basically indicates to me that you are, in fact, a dud. More often than not, it ends in disappointment. Quite frankly, if you were that good, you wouldn't be talking yourself up.... because you'd be showing me. And by the way - the people who are good, do ;) Booty-call calls or texts at 2/3/4/5 A.M.Buddy, I know you've been out on the town, and you lucked out. And you're probably drunk, or high, or both, and obviously horny as all hell. But I am NOT your back-up plan. And you're coming across as being desperate because I haven't seen or heard from you for MONTHS.A word of advice - Please get re-acquainted with your left/right hand... because if you interrupt my sleep after a 60 hour week at work, you will not be greeted by a sex-crazed goddess; rather, you will be greeted by the stressed-out, sleep-deprived banshee from HELL. Being grabbed at and called "OI!" when walking into a bar/pub/club/restaurantJust because you are drunk and behaving like an animal , does not mean that you are in a petting zoo. I AM NOT ANIMAL. Please treat me with respect. **UGGH** I hope I'm not sounding too harsh. But seriously?! Why does this happen? It's insulting. To cap, instant turn-offs are:Arrogance (unless, of course, you can actually back it up with the goods. Because there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance)DisrespectImmature, animalistic behaviourLack of manners To be honest - the list goes on. But thankfully there are decent people out there. Phew :) (Written with tongue in cheek... but in all seriousness, this happens.) And apologies for the long post. I'm in a rambling mood today lol :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    -uncut cocks -long hair on a man -unshaven/untrimmed pubes -bad breath -body odor -smelly feet -LYNX deodorant (can't stand the smell of it) -people who say to me 'you're nicely tanned/ have a nice tan' -people that can't spell or construct a proper sentence, i get a headache just trying to read some of the stuff -too much jewellery on a man, especially a necklace -template profiles -cock shots -sexual messages (sexting) -pain/BDSM -cum on my face or in my mouth (I don't care if you've been eating pineapples, blow somewhere else) -argumentative people -people who try and force their values on me...if I dont fit what you're looking for, how about you look elsewhere and all the other ones mentioned by the OP

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    #1 gripe are cowards. RIP Daniel Christie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Meant for the rant about gripes thread...

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    12 years ago

    who think that they are that much more important than everyone else. Mr Luvsilver

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Firstly, my apologies to those that dislike cock shots. Didn't realise so many hate them, I'm considering changing my profile shot now. Back to the topic. The word 'perv', I don't like. I appreciate the female body, and the male body in fact, regardless of its shape or form. Maybe 'appreciatist' instead of 'perv'.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Most of mine have already been covered above. But some other big ones for me are: Sexism - as many on here will know from some of my previous rants ;-) People who have no regard for animal welfare Ableism - for example, if I hear or see you using the word 'retard' in a derogatory / joking manner about a person, then you are not the type of person I want to know. And I include derogatory / stigmatising comments about mental illness in this category as well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'cwhereitgoes'#1 gripe are cowards. RIP Daniel Christie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    - females with more make up on than a circus clown. We actually want to see the real you. - people who wear strong colognes/perfumes... it turns me off literally aka I pass out if I don't move - people who seem to know everything and wreck great conversations. - bullshit artists. We know when you're making shit up. - people who force laughs - women who ask how much is in your bank account and what do you drive inside the first five minutes of a convo. - guys who come up to you when speaking to a girl and say to you "get away from my girlfriend" when she's never met the guy - guys who bump your drink on purpose for a fight - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    One of the turn offs I read here was eastwest saying that guys shout out "OI" to women for their attention... is this common? That's grot - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Nat27'-people who say to me 'you're nicely tanned/ have a nice tan' They seriously say that?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mesmerised' Quoting 'Nat27'-people who say to me 'you're nicely tanned/ have a nice tan' They seriously say that? I get that a lot. It shits me especially since my profile clearly says I'm black.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    12 years ago

    Traits that are a turn off for me - Arrogance, narrow minded, judgemental, racist, homophobic, and untruthfulness..... Oh and bad body order..... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Drug user for sexual needs I can't get my head around y people take drugs just to have sex?? Each to there own re the use but it's not my thing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I know you love chocolate;-)) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm sad to say that I've had "OI" yelled at me a few times at my previous local, and this was usually in conjunction with my arm being grabbed as I'd walk past the individual. Suffice to say, I stopped going there!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Warning69' Drug user for sexual needs I can't get my head around y people take drugs just to have sex?? Each to there own re the use but it's not my thing Totally agree with you there. More people should be like you, a virtuous example of the responsible modern male. I always do wonder though whether such a stance is from experience or ignorance. One of my top ten turn offs is. People who think drugs are dangerous, especially those that have a medicine cabinet full.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    and...misogyny,misandry,racisim,hypocrisy,self righteousness and narcism.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well when they sell recreational drugs at the chemist I will think about it. 👎

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ten pictures of the female on a couples profile with just one blurry obscure picture of the male counterpart. Or people who say "we only meet for sex" WRF!!?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Well when they sell recreational drugs at the chemist I will think about it. 👎 Oh but they do, a wide variety.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Couple_Swap' Ten pictures of the female on a couples profile with just one blurry obscure picture of the male counterpart. Or people who say "we only meet for sex" WRF!!?? - Posted from rhpmobile Sometimes I wonder if the woman in these couples profiles are even aware that there are explicit photos of them on a public site.

  • twowithnolimits

    twowithnolimits

    12 years ago

    Quoting Blindman...."One of my top ten turn offs is. People who think drugs are dangerous" How many ice addicted teens have you buried then? How many have you witnessed involuntarily admitted.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'twowithnolimits' Quoting Blindman...."One of my top ten turn offs is. People who think drugs are dangerous" How many ice addicted teens have you buried then? How many have you witnessed involuntarily admitted. Not one, or know of any, or heard of any. Do you? as its exceedingly rare. Last year 3 people died of Methamphetamine toxicity in Australia. Long term heavy users. Compare that to 3000 from alcohol, 14000 from smoking, 12000 from obesity. More people die getting up in the morning than meth kills.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Am turned off by people who confuse recreational drug users with hard-drug addicts. (I work with heroin and ice users every day, and 2withnolimits I'm terribly sorry to hear that). . On a profile: "D&D free." Also "Clean". Not sure what people even mean by this, and since there have been posters in the past who have mentioned they prefer unprotected sex as long as the other person is "clean", I always think about that when I see the word. . Oh, and discrete is not the same as discreet.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Drug use is definitely an instant turn off for me. Not from a judgemental standpoint, but from the point that I left all that in my teens/early 20's and I have no interest in going back there. Much the same as really heavy binge drinking, I'm over it now and would rather spend time with people who don't need to be half comatose to "have a good time"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Drugs are drugs.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Could debate this with gusto til I'm the last one standing. But we all know where that would end. The slightest sniff on an illegal drug and the night would have a very different ending.... anyhoo... Big turn off, young 20 yo guys claiming that they can please me all night because they have sooooo much experience. Methinks not.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'ApolloThirteen'Big turn off, young 20 yo guys claiming that they can please me all night because they have sooooo much experience. Methinks not. And the old "I will make your eyes roll back in your head" and of course "You won't be disappointed". . I must also add the "Sydney University and other Institutions" bit. Geez, I'm tough. .

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    12 years ago

    Arrogance---people who think their shit doesn't stink ..newsflash IT DOES . Intolerance -- I may not be into the same things you are , but respect your point if view all the same . Bullies-- people who can't win a debate with intellect so they resort to personal insults. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mesmerised' . I must also add the "Sydney University and other Institutions" bit. Geez, I'm tough. . Yes!!! I hate this as well, it just makes me think you're extremely gullible

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My thoughts I hate profiles that have no photos, AND 'ask me' on every field, AND a templated bio......there are plenty of female profiles like that ( maybe men's too...haven't checked). ..the ultimate 'luck dip'....not for me. If there is not one single personal bit of information you are comfortable to share......has to be something to connect too, on some level or another surely?....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    People that share their pg and it has no face pics in it. Usually followed up with, we can email or text pics to you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    May I add "Ladies, do you squirt? I can make you squirt " I am a woman, not a water pistol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Fastest ways to get me running in the opposite direction are: Bad Manners One-sided conversations Meth use Aggression Hidden agendas (and they're always so poorly hidden) Hating on stuff/negative mindset Poor communication

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Arrogance, dishonesty - truth always please even if it hurts, head-fuckers and troublemakers - don't understand why someone would deliberately set out to hurt another person

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    * assumptions * haste* ambiguity* misrepresentation* projections* unjustifiable expectations as well as most of the above

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Interesting to read what other dislike... Agree with some and others don't bother me personally. Body odor and bad breath are big ones. I've gotta be clean myself if I'm getting with someone - If I'm not I won't even try to pick up.... I shower, brush my teeth, etc first... I know this is my my issue... While I don't I expect the same extreme as I give, I do like cleanliness in a partner. People who are constantly on their mobile phone. I will walk away from the most attractive of people if the must be answering txts, being on facebook, taking calls rather than having a conversation. On this topic, whose who take a phone to dinner and use it...... height of bad manners. People who consider their sexual needs more important than the others. For me it is about give an take. I endeavour to ensure my partners needs are met before mine... I gain pleasure from their pleasure, but to have a partner that doesn't try at all..... I'm out of there. Brad

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ..on the photo less profiles, the ask me's and the generic information..at least after one has been listed a little while.I'm obliged to do my groundwork on here as much as in the real world..I would expect others to make the effort too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Men who have photos of their cock as their profile picture Yuk yuk yuk

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Who send flirts that they want to meet you, so send them a message. You send a message and they don't reply. Ignorance - you read the message a quick reply is all that's needed, even a simple no thank you. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Blindman67' Quoting 'twowithnolimits' Quoting Blindman...."One of my top ten turn offs is. People who think drugs are dangerous" How many ice addicted teens have you buried then? How many have you witnessed involuntarily admitted. Not one, or know of any, or heard of any. Do you? as its exceedingly rare. Last year 3 people died of Methamphetamine toxicity in Australia. Long term heavy users. Compare that to 3000 from alcohol, 14000 from smoking, 12000 from obesity. More people die getting up in the morning than meth kills. ... your blindness must be comforting when confronted with such narrow-mindedness. "When I can buy it at the Chemist" tells you all you need to know. Forget about rational decision making, just blindly accept the governments stamp of approval ... there is no saving some people. In the context of this thread the gist of it seems to be that "approved" drugs are fine to keep you breathing and turning up for work but when used for any kind of pleasure, relaxation or improved sexual performance they are suddenly bad. Thousands of children (and I know several personally) have been condemned to a life of amphetamine addiction by a system that diagnoses difference, individuality, bad parenting, toxic environment as mental illness and FORCES them to consume drugs from the chemist (subsidized by our tax dollars nonetheless) that are chemically indistinguishable from pure speed ... of course branding is what matters in this Idiocracy we call a society not facts or truth derived from direct experience. I also personally knew several people who have since topped themselves while under the influence of long term psychological drugs that were prescribed by a "doctor" for "depression" and sold by a "chemist" as "safe". Almost without exception high art was, is and will be conceived and created by a mind opened up temporarily via the natural drugs of the earth that have little to no side effects other than prison if your government catches you doing it. This is especially true of popular music which is universally loved by all. It is indeed a tragic reflection that we need drugs to reach this clean state of consciousness but our cultural conditioning is strongly rooted and difficult to overcome. I note several posts relating to the absolute horror of a bright young man having his life extinguished by an ALCOHOL fueled gorilla ... yet no calls to ban this insidious drug and its promotion as a harmless social relaxant. Ever hear of a stoned marijuanna user killing people for fun with direct physical violence ? It has never happened anywhere ever as far as I can tell. Drug addicts are people who have no control over themselves. Just like people who are morbidly obese because they eat too much or even sex addicts that acquire AIDS for lack of a precautionary safe-sex approach. Neither drugs nor food nor sex are the problem ... Stand clear - evolution in progress.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ladies profiles that say they are over 5'10" but don't want to hear from men under 6' ..?? What's wrong with tall women dating short guys ....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Oh so much better to buy from a drug dealer. Thanks for that A. I feel much better about that now.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Alcohol should be banned too. Turn off - drunk yahoos. The drinking culture in Australia is terrible. :(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'Mesmerised' . I must also add the "Sydney University and other Institutions" bit. Geez, I'm tough. . Yes!!! I hate this as well, it just makes me think you're extremely gullible Yes, I agree! The only thing anyone is bound by on this site is the official terms and conditions of use. I facepalm EVERY time I see one of those ridiculous warnings.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Alius' Drug addicts are people who have no control over themselves. Just like people who are morbidly obese because they eat too much or even sex addicts that acquire AIDS for lack of a precautionary safe-sex approach. Neither drugs nor food nor sex are the problem ... I agree with this bit, and I think that's what Blindman was trying to say (correct me if I'm wrong). . But we did the "People needing drugs to have sex" thread a while ago (frustrating) and I think we are hijacking this forum. . Another turn off? The "hey" and ""hi" messages I receive every day. I'm happy it now sais in my profile those one are an instant no, and I've made a template response accordingly, quoting this line. Only one person has responded to the "Thanks, but you didn't read my profile" template so far. He said "I just joined today and I don't know how to". That made me laugh.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'ShevermiN' Ladies profiles that say they are over 5'10" but don't want to hear from men under 6' ..?? What's wrong with tall women dating short guys .... I'm one of those (only 5'9 though). No apologies for that one.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    People that can't take no for an answer. Eg- don't ask me why I won't compromise on a certain thing, it's just how it is, and trying to change that by whining at me is an instant no, which will turn into a less polite no if pushed

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't care if it's a pic of 'a regular'.

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    12 years ago

    To ShevermiN As I'm 6'4" inches its one of life's joys to read a profile that says men over 6ft. Drugs with sex, I hope we aren't talking about Viagra as at my age it might be my needed friend in the near future. As for turn-offs, I wonder has anyone ever told the person that they have Body Odour or bad breathe? Sometimes we don't know we are doing something which is offensive. We are not all the same, haven't had the benefits of life. Ignorance can be as much from the offended as the offender. Just a thought.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Not paying the electricity bill :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Lack of Self awareness, thumbs down.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    @ wingman, what you said!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    First thing you notice is a smile and teeth...I hate bad teeth...missing teeth...black teeth...crooked teeth....huge turn off for me. I have met all these and was turned off the minute they opened their mouth to say hello. GO TO THE DENTIST.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Smilingwithfun' To ShevermiN As I'm 6'4" inches its one of life's joys to read a profile that says men over 6ft. Drugs with sex, I hope we aren't talking about Viagra as at my age it might be my needed friend in the near future. As for turn-offs, I wonder has anyone ever told the person that they have Body Odour or bad breathe? Sometimes we don't know we are doing something which is offensive. We are not all the same, haven't had the benefits of life. Ignorance can be as much from the offended as the offender. Just a thought. Yes I have told people if there cleanliness is a problem to me.... some are offended; Others ask if the can have a shower. At the end of the day the question was what are OUR turn offs. It is a turn off to me and something I personally can't get past... that is my problem for sure and I take that on board. The things that are turn offs for each person are their issues .... drugs, safe sex, rudeness, cleanliness, arrogance, insensitivity, spelling, grammar, particular words/phrases/questions...... the people doing the things we don't like... not their problem, its ours [mine]. They are who they are and have every right to do what the want and I have every right not to like certain things. However not liking something is definately my issue

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'slippery_halo'Pics of penetrative sex minus condoms I feel I'm seeing more and more of them. Especially anal.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Biggest turn offs for me .. Possessiveness & Jealousy point blank ! A little is alright but not to the point where someone thinks they have the ultimate right to you or to control you .. even within a relationship . Rudeness would be another one ( not that anyone including myself can claim we have never been rude to a person at some point lol ) .. am meaning people who are just outright rude all the time , no manners .. Common courtesy even if it is replying to a txt etc unless there's a damn good reason for it , there's just no need in my books .. the world is bitter enough as it is without rude self absorbed idiots . Excuses ! Now in that i mean for example if someone says " I will be there in an hour " but then all of a sudden you get 5 texts offering up a range of reasons as to why the other person has not turned up .. even when you know its a load of BS and the reasons could rival any amount of ridiculously out there drama straight from a Hollywood movie .. ! ! Where do these types of people get off thinking that we actually believe their crap , as much as what they do lol .. ?! Indirectness or indecisiveness .. don't say to me for example " I want you as a long term fwb/playmate whatever or yeh .. I will pick you up at 10 whatever " then stuff me around & backtrack on what you've just told me ! Fk you buddy literally .. got better things to do than have you waste my time .. lol ! There's a few more but .. they'd have to be my biggest turn offs ! Sayonara to anyone that wastes my time with this sort of stuff lol .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Oh & also I forgot a couple of the very worst ones for me also .. disrespect .. that one kind of speaks for itself .. trust me .. if you haven't learnt that in life .. you have nothing that any woman wants ! False pretenses .. nothing worse than that one , also self explanatory oh , & last but not least .. indecisiveness .. could be because im pretty much just a straight forward kind of person actually I'm the kind of person that knows what I want .. & will pretty much be upfront about & go for it lol .. but it really irritates me when people aren't direct or don't know what they want from one day to the next ! I'm not a fricken mind reader .. & like the average person .. I don't like game players , head fks or people who mess me around & not knowing where i am at .. especially when i can just move on to something better eg: someone who knows their own mind , what they want & then sticks to that lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Oh & also I forgot a couple of the very worst ones for me also .. disrespect .. that one kind of speaks for itself .. trust me .. if you haven't learnt that in life .. you have nothing that any woman wants ! False pretenses .. nothing worse than that one , also self explanatory oh , & last but not least .. indecisiveness .. could be because im pretty much just a straight forward kind of person actually I'm the kind of person that knows what I want .. & will pretty much be upfront about & go for it lol .. but it really irritates me when people aren't direct or don't know what they want from one day to the next ! I'm not a fricken mind reader .. & like the average person .. I don't like game players , head fks or people who mess me around & not knowing where i am at .. especially when i can just move on to something better eg: someone who knows their own mind , what they want & then sticks to that lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Guys who send msgs saying "Hey babe...what's your ph no and address....I'll be there in 20 mins"WTF....are you kidding ????? I'm also with Bigocean on this one.......assumptions and judgement....no thanks !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Instant turn off for me is rude women who won't even "open messages". One day their looks will evaporate and all that remains is the hollow shell, it takes but 20 seconds to send a reply.Strangely enough, it's most common with women who claim "I'm so horny"......Yeah right......Not everyone's an ass hole.... Have a good night, back to work tomozz for Jas xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Bad spelling and grammar is an instant turn off for me. Second is if you are attached Third is if you constantly talk about yourself and have pictures of yourself Fourth is if you make no effort to engage me beyond 'wow your pics are hot, do you want to meet up?'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In my previous line of work I saw a lot of women- mostly under 30 I might add, who get the sads after a few drinks. I literally couldn't handle it, I had to walk away. Obviously I was compassionate to those who were genuinely upset but the ones I saw on a weekly basis crying over the same garbage, I didn't bother. I also find it very unattractive to see women who drink to ridiculous levels.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ArroganceSmokinglots of tattoosrudenessbad hygiene

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi! Findingmemo. Thanks for your very interesting ,fun topic:)General Turn Offs! Racists , Fanatics,Cretins, Morons. Labelled themselves Victims, Door Mats .Mumas Boys, Self absorbed People who think they're Gods Gift. Born Agains be it Religious enlightened or other and want to force their view onto Me.. People with No Consideration Compassion ,Intolerant ,Negative Actions Emotions, and No Manners with Others..Dating Online ..No Pic or Pic with Booze left overs untidy rooms in them ,They're drunk, Unkempt. Contact MSG.Not sharing their Name .or using mine .I hate beuing called Babe, Darl, Luv..I have a Name Lu so use it he! he!Just saying Hi! nothing more.Or Mentioning wanting to Fuck Me and how too in the 1st MSG like I want to be their Cum Bucket.. I don't need Fuck Buddies!Those who seem oblivious to what questions I ask them in Replies and continue on ..ie (I like to know why their Attracted to Me What are their Expectations from our Contact.) It gives us a Base to continue from..Get to know me or don't bother I won't waste My Time ....1st Meets . Those who Don't ring to Cancel or Turn up..Guys who turn up and expect saying Hi! is an Invitation to My Bed and it's OK to grope Me. Yes 1 or 2 have slipped thro. but leave even quicker Haaaaaa!Haaaaaa! That was very Cathartic Thank you for the chance to air My Angsts he! he! Cheers Lu :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    < shudders >

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'notsoinnocent20s' Bad spelling and grammar is an instant turn off for me. Second is if you are attached Third is if you constantly talk about yourself and have pictures of yourself Fourth is if you make no effort to engage me beyond 'wow your pics are hot, do you want to meet up?' ..pointing out that your punctuation needs some work! But I agree wholeheartedly with what your saying. ( Nearly shot myself in the foot with a spelling error..! )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You're probably right about people not being able spell properly :)

  • platinumblonde69

    platinumblonde69

    12 years ago

    I have a huge list. So, not in any particular order: - guys who lie blatantly to you when you know the truth - guys who aren't fussy and hit on any female with a pulse- guys who address you in an email or text by saying "Hey you"- guys who make out they are studs- guys who have photos on their profile of sexual acts wearing no condom- meeting a guy who is dressed like a slob- guys who have bad breath and bad teeth- guys who have dirty finger nails- guys who are heavy smokers and smell- guys who feel they need a drink before they meet you- guys who tell you what you want to hear Hmmm. I think thats it for starters. Haha. Im sure guys hate all these things in women too. Haha. Plat

  • Languid

    Languid

    12 years ago

    They can all go back to bigotland where they came from along with everyone else

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    When u finally call there number they gave u, and the first thing they send u is a pic of there dick. Nothing can change my mind after this happens. Im so tired of this happening i called the last guy a pig... Which is something iv never done before.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    - pixies- rainbows - elves wizards but most of allV * E * G * A * N * S and moist waxed vaginas

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    *sorry I was kidding about the "moist waxed vaginas" - they are not too bad!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's the mark of people who listen to too much rap, it has to be the only genre of music in which the lyrics generally revolve around how great I am, or how much more expensive my bling is than yours or how I could just beat down your whole f@$king (mother-f@&king) crew with just my ridiculously big cock (no pics, wouldn't want to offend you or make you jealous) I'm sick of hearing about me in rap tunes, enough already guys, we get your point, I'm the macdaddy. So women find narcissism attractive or unattractive? Because Im the best goodman narcissist in this team. Because all those pussy shots...it's so hot guys, to get a picture that looks like it belongs in the dos and donts section of a nail-gun manual ;) Women in sexy panties is hot, before and after pics from medical journals are not. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It might just be me, but I cringe in revulsion when guys use the term 'yummy'.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm with you on that one!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It depends who you listen to. Many rappers first albums are about their struggles in the street, i respect anyone who can take themselves out of a horrible environment and improve themselves, no matter how they do it. It's usually the second or third album that becomes all about the "bitches, bling, money" I rarely buy 2nd or 3rd albums.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Bad breath and orsloppy kissers!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    is just a bad vibe. Negative energy. Crankiness and party poopers. I just feel bad for them because there's obviously shit going with them that they don't know what to do with. Oh, and smoking. Someone with positive energy will draw me to them instantly. Those people make me smile.

  • Beachlover1999

    Beachlover1999

    12 years ago

    Just had a memory!!!! Yuck!!!! :(((

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Also norty and norti. Eww. . And laff as in "That made me laff".

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    People who whinge about a topic being non sexual, "because this is a sex site" yet complain about being sent "lets fuck" messages. Hypocrisy at its finest

  • inspectergspot

    inspectergspot

    12 years ago

    damm i wush i cud spull plopaly i mite gut a dayt . wull at leest i no its not mi bad breath.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Last time I answered a thread about this subject I received a funtastic slap... so... entering the room whilst keeping a weary eye out for the hand. . . and flame throwers ;) Physical:- Poor hygiene and lack of self respect for ones own physical appearance. Mental:- See @Wingmans comments re arrogance, intolerance and bullies then add negativity and blatant stupidity to the list... not turned on by someone who intentionally does something stupid just because they think it is cool or will impress someone. SG

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    12 years ago

    the incorrect use ofyou'reyouryoreyaw But I suffer in silence

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Is there another meaning to Yaw?? I only know as being the result of depressing the rudder pedal :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    use of "Your" and "you're" is something which can almost be classified as "Yore" itself, and in my eyes, indicates the "Yaw" in the modern use of the English language. *shrugs*..Having said that.. "The REPLIES to THIS topic, has opened my eyes as to WHY I am NOT getting LAID on here"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    All of the above and a few more! Ugh one in particular when a person claims.....'oh yeah I can give it ti you, long and hard, freakin pathetic, no thought into it at all.......yawn!! (In short all just words), less than a heartbeat turn off for me!!! :/

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Wot ru looking 4 than? Ppl cant help there grammar u no!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm surprised you could physically bring yourself to write that post, must've been hard to go against all your instincts lol

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