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Is MMF deemed unacceptable ??
June 05 2020
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RHP User
6 years ago
What happens between consenting safe adults is should be a non issue.
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RHP User
6 years ago
im straight but will play in a threesome or foursome with a guy who's bi just so long as its straight play for our encounter
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RHP User
6 years ago
I hope not, I would love to try it
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Rlee552
6 years ago
That’s a good point. For me it is all to do with everyone having their boundaries respected. No judgments and no expectations around those boundaries and choices. It is also a matter that even if I enjoy doing one thing, that does not mean I HAVE to do that thing. Because there is so much to enjoy and do about sex and threesomes - there is always a common guy.
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Rlee552
6 years ago
... common ground! Which really changes the meaning above.
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SpicyKale
6 years ago
Teamaj2, I'm guessing you can probably guess our opinion after following the forum for a while! Honestly, we've not encountered a lot issues personally. It's probably because the few parties we go to are bi friendly and we never contact couples profiles that don't include a bi male, even though we're happy to play straight. We do get a number of straight couples contact us, a lot are open minded enough not to care. We're also surprised by the number of straight males that contact us considering how our profile is written. Or best guess is that they're going for the any holes a goal rule, or just don't read profiles🤷♂️ Also maybe scared to put bi down on their profiles because of the perceived bias against bi men on here? I think it's on the improve though, especially with gen y and the millennials
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
OP. I've not found this to be the case. I'm a HUGE lover of MMF (Bi) as is Hubby, so maybe we're a tad odd. We both eye roll and mentally picture our Netflix watch list at the mere mention of an MFF..... different strokes for different folks😉
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SpicyKale
6 years ago
ps. I've lost count of the number of guys that in response to the "are you bi, your profile says straight" question reply with something along the lines of "no, but i might consider sucking a cock if i could be involved in a threesome" That's so not a turn on for me as the male half of the couple in the situation🙁
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
Spicy.... I've found it the opposite...."i'll let your hubby suck me cock if it means I can fuck you".... oh gee thanks..... swipe left
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SpicyKale
6 years ago
FFF, it's honestly been 50/50 between the two! The thought process that goes into thinking that's ok... It's made us ultra picky and more likely to head towards couples as a result. I put some of it down to all the cuckhold porn... hot to watch, but not our dynamic and gives guys the wrong idea🤷♂️ Makes it harder for the genuine single bi guys to break through.
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Rlee552
6 years ago
What about @fff and @spicykale let’s take one side each of your hubby’s shaft and meet in the middle before I take over?
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RHP User
6 years ago
As a male who watched anothee bloke go to town on her, I thought it was spectacular. Could care less about social consensus.
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teamaj2
6 years ago
Spicey kale We 100% agree with you and yes I knew your take on it . Can I say love your profile name and your eloquent responses. So many straight guys try to convince us they WILL ‘be into it ‘ once there . Makes us laugh then block ! We’ve found alot of so called straight males are in fact Bi . When on meeting we ask why their profile says straight , it’s a shrug of shoulders and they r sheepish to say . We are what we are , no shame . To find likeminded people we think it’s best to just say how it is .
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Player_J
5 years ago
100% agree with this! Like we're meant to be grateful? Annoying but a useful filter to delete/block.
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Player_J
5 years ago
Sorry my post above was meant to be in response to FFF and Spicy Kale's comments (the quote feature got lost) on "straight" guys offering to be sucked off in exchange to a threesome - like it's some kind of bartering system.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I dont think its frowned upon. Seems pretty normal and very common to me. Go to some more parties, have a look at fet life in your area, search on here for guys who put MMF as something they are seeking, on their profile. Good luck and great fun 😋
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RHP User
5 years ago
i must be the twist in this as my KINK is not excepted at all. i simply desire to view my man fuck a female as her man and i have a drink and view the performance yet that appears to be a no go for anyone. grrrr Louise
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curiousnhorny05
5 years ago
Anything is acceptable if everyone consents
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coolnhotnok
5 years ago
It would be a dream come true for me.
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gladdy1989
5 years ago
I'm bi and love bi mmf fun
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SpicyKale
5 years ago
Teamaj2, we really appreciate the sentiment! We've gone for the theory that sticking our heads out on here as a couple with a bi male might make it easier for others to speak up too. When we joined up we were warned it was a bit like swinging kryptonite, but our experiences have been positive for the most. As I alluded to earlier we are tad cautious about who we message and what events we'll go to, I'm sure it wouldn't be the same experience if that wasn't the case. I'm not sure if there are any bi friendly parties in Melbourne? Our Sydney friends might have some idea, I'll see if I can find out. As a lot of others have backed up, having guys offering to try something to get to their end goal is cringe worthy. Let me just say that it's very different from guys that are bi curious wanting to experiment, that we completely understand, if you haven't tried it you need to start somewhere. It's the attitude of I'd be doing you a favor that grinds here. ps. this isn't a single guy bashing session, there's lots of good ones on here, but others are making life hard for the genuine bi guys out there. I honestly don't think I could handle life on here as a single bi guy, personally I'd be trying to get along to any parties or meets that I could. Oh, Rlee552, you never know
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teamaj2
5 years ago
Spicy kale There is Bi friendly events in Melbourne which we have attended . We have met some great people there . I agree , that it’s difficult for single Bi men to meet couples and there are some wonderful Bi guys on RHP .
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RHP User
5 years ago
Is only unacceptable if you ain't comfortable with it.there are plenty of people on here to fulfill your sexual desires whatever they maybe.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I'd love to encounter mmf it's my fantasy but I don't think many males are up for it my man said he would as it's a kink for me
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RHP User
5 years ago
I think in any group scenario the boundaries of all parties need to be clearly communicated prior to play and then respected. I've been involved in MMF but with no intentional sexual contact. In one particular experience (actually a MMMF) the girl liked sucking multiple cocks at once and inadvertently cocks would be rubbed against each other in her mouth or on her tongue. However, taking that in the context of the experience, it was not a bisexual action. It was part of the experience for her and didn't phase me at all (I'm note bi). I think MMF is pretty common and accepted by some. However, people should be free to also not want it. We all have different kinks, desires and values. The diversity is what makes this community interesting.
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SpicyKale
5 years ago
MrLibertine07, get where you're coming from with boundaries etc... Just for context with this thread and acronyms on swingers sites, MMF equals bi threesome and MFM equals straight threesome
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RHP User
5 years ago
I need to be careful what I sign up to then :) Thanks for the info. I've always used the two acronyms interchangeably. Learn something new every day.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Hi guys, Speaking more from outside the lifestyle, I'm careful telling new girlfriends that I am open minded. I've had two experiences with women whom I shared that with who were freaked out by it. One of them was proud of her FFM experiences but was weirded out by my MMF experiences. Just my 2 cents. Tom (happily bi-curious)
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RHP User
5 years ago
Certainly is not I’m a bit obsessed with bi MMF Toto be honest
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RHP User
5 years ago
We love mmf. My partner does not like to see me pleasure another women but we both enjoy the pleasure that mmf brings. I am straight but our own sex is much steamier for weeks afterwards.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Yes there seems to be a stigma and I’m not sure why. I would think people who don’t want to be judged for their lifestyle choices would be least judgemental but afraid that seems nit to be the case.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I’ve always thought about MMF, but unable to act upon it until a friend played with myself and my wife without his wife. She would be totally freaked out by two males touching but happily plays with my wife? I enjoyed it, and tried most things as my wife asked to see as it turned her on enormously. He was happy to try anything ( without his wife’s knowledge) as she would have thought him gay. Lots of harmless fun and if it feels good then go for it.
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TheNLMevents
5 years ago
We love it, we love playing with couples but also love mmf, helps that we are both pan and just go with the flow depending on whom we play with.
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RHP User
5 years ago
My experience has been a lot of men don't advertise their true sexual orientation which is so sad (2020 remember) I was seeing a guy who was very much experimental or bi-curious but could not come to terms with that sentence even though we had sucked dick together and almost fucked a guy together as well he still was not comfortable identifying
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FunSexyCple
5 years ago
OMG I so agree. We get contacts from couples and singles and every time I ask, how is Mr with M2M play. Please read. We want to play openly which means we want to share whomever we are enjoying completely with each other. Bi MMF is fun, sharing, consensual and adds extra to the play.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Our favourite past time.. Safe to say my mates enjoy it too.. but yes definatly an extra stigma that goes with it!
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WoodSmoke
5 years ago
It is a tad confusing in the profile selections where you choose MMF or MFM (bi). I always through MMF was bi and MFM was not... maybe people are just confused which M&M combo they should use and choose?
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TheNLMevents
5 years ago
We love connecting with couples where all can play with all. Whilst we respect others boundaries we do find it annoying being contacted by straight single guys who clearly haven't read our profile.
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TheNLMevents
5 years ago
At the core is consenting adults and pleasure. We love to share, with the F being very turned on watching guys play, just as guys love watching the girls play. No difference and it does open up so many more possibilities..
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TheNLMevents
5 years ago
At the core is consenting adults and pleasure. We love to share, with the F being very turned on watching guys play, just as guys love watching the girls play. No difference and it does open up so many more possibilities..
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RHP User
5 years ago
I am not shy in my preference of bi men as I prefer that to a straight partner, however majority of men who message are straight on their profiles and absolutely bi in real life
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Localtradie
5 years ago
Different types of mfm or mmf I’m a straight guy been with few couples in straight 3 somes I don’t get involved in any bi mfm
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RHP User
5 years ago
I'm into that mmf shit but never tried it so I'd say it's acceptable haha
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coeur_dor
5 years ago
Give me mmf every day of the week... ffm not so much.
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MrStive
5 years ago
Love bi mmf, best fun i ever had.
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RHP User
5 years ago
My wife and i have enjoyed a few mmf experiences (with boundaries) and had a lot of fun doing so ... and will do so again and again... yet to have some fun with a couple mmff I'm sure we will get a chance soon enough 😋
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kinkypair88
5 years ago
We have the same issues. Mr is bi and we are mostly seeking MMF or a bi MMF. Seems as though they do not read our profile and if we say Mr is bi they become homophobic or something. We also get guys who seem to think they have the right to assume what they will be doing to me even though I make it clear they need to be open to playing with both of us. I think most men take it as an invitation and think they will just be playing with the female which is not the case but they seem to push to get as much out of it as they can! That's why it's been hard for us to find men to join
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RHP User
5 years ago
Hello We are a bi couple and enjoy all options Smiles
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Nikkidogcpl
5 years ago
I love mmf and always regarded it as pretty normal As for my profile I have straight but am really comfortable in mmf Having it straight saves lots of messages from guys wanting 1 on 1 which I am not into if that makes sense?
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RHP User
5 years ago
MFM major turn on for most men who are in a long term relationship. MMF less so.
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just4fun48
5 years ago
No issues at all. We have had heaps of mmf.
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Hotasianwife
5 years ago
I’m confused. You are alluding too that MMF means that the two men involved must be bi. What happen to two straight men taking turns pleasuring a woman in a threesome?. That certainly what my wife and I do and we are as straight as a arrow.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Lots of interesting posts here but I've yet to see what feel the reason is. It not the MMF that anyone has a problem with its the MM, for some people that is an erotic off switch. This I've learned in conversations with couples and singles on the topic. With RHP couples, after a bit of chat i've had quite a few ask if I'm open MM sex when their profile states 'straight male', they usually say that it's not a deal breaker immediately.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I am very keen for MFM bi
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RHP User
5 years ago
For us if we are to play our preference is mmf ( bi ) or mfmf with bi interaction from both male and female. We have found 99% of females are comfortable with being bi or being comfortable around other bi individuals. But we have so far found many many many men are not accepting or even willing to consider the bi side. Let alone sometimes be in the proximity of another bisexuality male. Even if only orally. We dont want to meet couples if the other male wont consider at least sucking cock. For us it is a given. We won't agree to meet a couple for the sake of just swapping partners. The preference is for fun where everyone is comfortable and able to touch , play lick or suck at their own desire. And in most cases the females are very into it. So why are most males against it I do not understand.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I hope not!!! I would love the opportunity and thought it would be easy to find a willing male. Now I am worried it won’t be so easy
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RHP User
5 years ago
I’m a bi guy, and as long as everyone is cool with boundaries I love em, and if it’s MMF with a straight guy, respect that, your having fun!!!why make someone feel awkward or uncomfortable? Just respect boundaries and be honest
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RHP User
5 years ago
It’s something I’d like to try. Media glorified FFM just shoot me, HIMYM. Both did this. HIMYM also referred to MMF as a devils threesome. It’s just a stigma that still lingers.
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RHP User
5 years ago
teamaj2, are you saying that a straight guy who is seeking a couple for a sexual encounter should be open to MM touch & play?
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ItsBusinessTime
5 years ago
After a number of indepth group chats over a coulle of weeks (Mr works away) we thought we had found the perfect couple to have a both fwb and besties.. they even told us they felt the same.. until the subject was bought up about boundaries and comfortability. Our Mr expressed he was very liberal and that he thought nothing of 'most' contact between M&M as we all moved around in close proximity, but would abide by any set boundaries. The concept of this instantly ended what was building to be a wonderful friendship as the M from the other couple was convinced that "in the throws of passion he (Our M) would likely lose control and would not be able to stop himself"! He then stated that if M went anywhere near him, it would all end very abruptly as he would start punching our M! Around this time, both he and Mrs individually expressed they prefer 'normal' people that only do 'normal' things! .. 🤔 So in our minds.. bullet dodged! But it poses the further question of not just how to negotiate extreamely 'straight' MMF but any group situations with seemingly phobic play mates?! Its curious also why any phobically straight guy would want to play as lart of MMF?! Maybe this should be a new thread?! 😉 He was offered 'good luck' in his quest as we felt he / they would struggle in such a liberal environment!
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RHP User
5 years ago
I certainly wouldn't frown upon it, I'd get up on it. It's personal preference I guess. If you enjoy it, that's so that matters. I can't wait to have my first mfm. Double the pleasure and double the cock pops for me.
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ItsBusinessTime
5 years ago
phone wigged out... sorry! 😄
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RHP User
5 years ago
We had an MMF (Carey's first) a few weeks ago and the 3rd person we accepted to play with us told us he had done MMF 4 times before but alas you could feel how uncomfortable he was with another man there even though we specified what we wanted which included the men to enjoy each other also. Totally bummed our evening as 50 minutes into he left. Grrr. There is nothing wrong with everyone playing. Come on it's hot. (Carey) I am still going to try again. I was so turned on by it.
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RHP User
5 years ago
You will find that these men are happy with MMF in the fact that they both focus on the female. My hubby is happy with MMF, but is straight. You don't have to be bi to enjoy a threesome with another of the same sex. It's no different with FFM. Each to their own really.
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TandA18
5 years ago
I think there's definitely a stigma attached to having a mmf as opposed to mfm. I'd say men dont want to put it out there due to the fear of not being accepted by others. We're both bi but dont feel the need to play that way all the time. I think some profiles over looked if people see the male is listed as bi, curious or even experimental.
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SpicyKale
5 years ago
I'll add a bit of context for a few of the recent posters on this thread. This has been pulled back up from a few months ago and it followed on from a thread on straight threesomes. Most sites in non monogamy land identify straight threesomes as MFM and bi threesomes as MMF, the Pie is one of the few that doesn't. No one is saying you need to be bi to have threesome, but if you read through the first few pages you'll see that's not how this thread started out, or what it was about anyway. Respect, communication and understanding goes a long way! Have fun people😉
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RHP User
5 years ago
I’m polyandrous. I wouldnt mind an arrangement with a MM couple. Definately not unacceptable for me.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Not in my world 🌍 🤷🏻♀️
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Aztek08
5 years ago
Love it
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Casualbibloke
5 years ago
Love it all. Straight, bi. whatever. As long as everyone is comfortable, happy and having as much fun as you can! Who cares what it's called.
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forfun80
5 years ago
A lot of men claim they are bi in messages but when really put on the spot and asked to be clear they really dont want to much interaction with men! What they are really looking for is another way to get with your hot missus lol and will let a guy blow them but thats really all ? Thats not really bi by the way lol
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trypilot
5 years ago
Far from it .....Just the best blokes are trapped in WA
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vanillanot
5 years ago
Aussies are very small narrow minded people even in the lifestyle world, we find the international players accept all types of combinations..
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RHP User
5 years ago
In my experience, I am ok with mm touching and am even a little bi. I am happy to play straight with no mm contact, but some couples are after STRICTLY STRAIGHT. If you have anything experimental, curious or bi in your profile, it's an automatic no. Some men are just that way I guess, a phobia they cannot shake
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NurturingDom
5 years ago
I used to put bi-curious or bi-friendly on my profile in the early days of my kink journey and I got a lot of messages from single guys wanting to meet even though I was seeking women and couples. Most were polite but some were persistent and some aggressive...one even catfished me, pretending to be a couple! In the end I just got sick of explaining that I had some interest in MMF but was not seeking MM. On the upside, it gave me a good insight into what many women and couples must face on a daily basis to be honest and it taught me to be respectful of people’s kinks and not be pushy or try to ‘convince’ them. On the downside, it made me a bit wary of contacting couples and I’ve probably missed out on meeting some great people!
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Katz2
5 years ago
MMF is my favourite. I have experienced MMF with straight guys, and too often found they didn't quite feel relaxed about crossing swords. Then I experienced bi MMF, and that's by far my favorite.
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Curious83
5 years ago
I agree and think it all comes down to communication and maybe experience. Or situations may flow more than others. Being honest and upfront works for me. Stigma is overrated I say. Time to crush it !! Lol great topic xx
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RHP User
5 years ago
We love MMF and I'm not Bi, we don't have many boundaries and if we touch dicks, it's a sword fight but all good.
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one2join
5 years ago
Its soo annoying that no body considers mmf. Even if its straight mmf they still dont consider it. I believe its because the men in the couple are driving the lifestyle in that couple and are orientating the playdates around their own wants and needs. Their female partner are only a means to attract other females or couples and are somewhat submissive so they go along with what ever their partners want. Lets face it. Women love cock so why wouldnt they want it just as much of it as men want pussy.
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Orallover84
5 years ago
Hmmmmm, it’s not unacceptable at all! I think it’s probably just that a lot of guys are usually a bit insecure when it comes to sharing... Ego can get in the way and they just want to feel like the big man being worshipped. Women tend to be a bit more open to thinking outside the box and trying new things so FFM is just a lot more common
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RHP User
5 years ago
Our profile states that I am a straight male. In saying that I am more interested in having a MMF with my wife as it is all about her enjoying the experience. On the occasions we have had the opportunity to fullfil this it has been a memorable night.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I consider myself straight, but i enjoy sucking and wanking cocks.. lol i may be deluding myself.. lol and also, every now and then i bump into people i know on here, who have no need to know these things... so having straight on the profile is just a precaution i feel..
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RHP User
5 years ago
Yes , I believe there is . I removed bi from my profile , too many guys , they don’t understand I enjoy bi with a couple or trans . Have had a couple of fantastic bi experiences but fairly elusive nowadays.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Sadly, I think there is still a lot of internalised, unconscious, homophobia. Wish this wasn't the case, for the sake of the queer community....but also for my sake because what gal wouldn't like to be in the middle of a man sandwich 😁🙊😇
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RHP User
5 years ago
I been a lover of MMF for many years and have experienced it with fully Bi interactions and without. As long as the boundaries are set beforehand and treated with respect there has never been an issue. The options are boundless. To be honest a MMF interaction can come in many variations depending on the desires of the couple. As long as everyone is one the same page about those variations I have always had a fabulous time.
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Roblin
5 years ago
We are both bi, not experienced but would welcome the males to explore. That's all it is exploring! In our thoughts if and when we do enjoy another couples time we don't like the idea of complete swap but love all 4 enjoying every which way together.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I’m bi but when I get the opportunity to be with a female she generally is my focus, not the guy.
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RHP User
5 years ago
As soon as I mention I am bisexual most people block me or ignore me. So I don’t put that on my profile as most of the time I am looking for females. But sometimes look for couples. And I Have found that having bisexual option switched off my profile has worked. I don’t have a sexuality anyway. I’m not new age or hip but sex and sexuality is a very broad term for me Most women and couples seem to find it a turn off and can’t understand male bisexuality but adore it when a woman explores her sexuality.
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Cumdownunder
5 years ago
I think to be bi opens more doors and outlets for experimentation,exploration and truly an open minded concept as to find paths off the beaten track that could offer alternative mental stimuli, its like outside the box more than one path or avenue. People are always looking for the next thing to mix it up or excite our mental thought process which is so important to an overall amazing experience and we need to be relaxed and really feel accepted to do this. I think there is a stigma that people thing you are bi he may try to penetrative me or he may make a move on me or he is overly sexually promiscuous with men and more at risk for disease. I just think like anything its a conversation we are so quick to judge pics , profiles and key words its a simple ask the question,respect and set boundaries. Most bi guys adore women its a once in a blue moon thing for a release. So many people say they are open minded and we relate that to sex not on a broader spectrum yet try are narrow in their mindset when it comes to sex. I would like to think open means reserve judgement until qumuestuons are asked and facts gathered otherwise its assumption and thats false and the unknown. Most people if you actually talk to them can suprise yoymu in so many ways lol.
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Dionysus121
5 years ago
Hi all ... so my profile last time I checked I left off Bi ... through Recent encounters though have enjoyed giving and receiving That said when I’m not in the zone am not attracted to guys ... On the flick side when in a MMF/ MFM it’s a tricky one on who getting the right attention as we can all get carried away .. But I get the thread and I suppose I’m half guilty as I don’t put myself fully out there But we are all here to feel comfortable and safe/only when we are ready to put it fully out there Have fun people
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RHP User
5 years ago
Over the years i have had both FFM,MMF most of my close friends have no idea because i keep it private.When i do MMF i flatly refuse MM Play to me its not Ok.I notice when i talk about the subject of MMF with some females i know they do frown.When the conversation continues i find they are in fear of being judged or talked about behind there backs and then they tell me once they feel comfortable knowing i keep my mouth shut that they do fantasise about it.Most who i have spoken to will not do it with a boyfriend and another male as they find its disrespectful to there BF but yet a FFM is ok.i just think anyone should be allowed to ask about it without judgement.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Gday, I'm new here. Just wanted to say hi to everyone. On this subject though I think it's dependant on the individual, my profile says experimental and that's what I'm looking for. I have never experienced Mmf bi sex before but I would like to see if I can go through it, life is too short to not give things a go. But can see the stigma attached to it all
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RHP User
5 years ago
Whats not to like. One girl two guys. I have had many a mmf where the guys are straight. Never realised it was not the norm
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RHP User
5 years ago
I am certainly looking to explore a mmf play situation. But i totally agree ffm is, one the surface, a desire for a lot of men. As i have sexually matured i have opened my mind to exploring new and fun things. Having been jnvolved in a couple of ffm which was fun i have been thinking about what it would be like to have the lady as the centre of attention and quite possible have the men put on a little show for her pleasure. MM interactions are sadly still seem as a taboo for lots of "normal" people but what you choose or I choose to do should not be judged by anyone else. As long as it safe and consensual. Have fun out there lovers and stay and play safe
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Sensual_Wheels
5 years ago
I've never had a threesome myself but I always thought that it was about the way you list it. MFM is 2 guys on the girl with no MM play. MMF is a free for all with bisexual MM play. There is a stigma on all sides. Some men are very homophobic and don't even want to be near a guy for a MFM. Some women are put off by bisexual men too. Couples can be bisexual or straight, it comes down to comfort levels and what each person wants to do. We all have our limits/likes/dislikes.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Some people need to grow up... pleasure is pleasure.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I’m happy to be a bull for couples and I really think it’s amazing to share the pleasure of a caring relationship and add to it. I’m certainly not bi but love the pleasure of being a part of couples desires for threesomes.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I am a fan of either configuration, as it is all fun in some way, if I me and my FB want a MMF we like to ensure there will some MM involvement so we ask that the other party is comfortable with kissing both of us. This seems to weed out the fakes who are just after her. If I am able to be involved with a couple I am more then happy to meet the guy first and understand what his partner wants from the experience also. I have had some experience where she wanted to just watch and that is fine. As previously mentioned pleasure is pleasure.
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Fantasy_CouplRHP
5 years ago
Can I give my impression as a newbie? My wife and I are new to the scene and haven't even spoken to anyone yet, just slowly dipping our toe in the water. However play with another male is the primary reason for us being here. Now it was my understanding that MMF was different from MFM, being that MMF there was some play between the guys. Now in our "interests" I have the MMF box checked because the MFM box specifically says (bi). I am not bi, or curious. Just looking for someone to focus on my wife with me and pleasure her, so that can be confusing. Of course when boundaries are set they should be adhered to, and if you can't communicate your desires then, well perhaps you need to do some introspection and figure out what you like before joining in. How can you judge some one else's desires, as long your boundaries are being respected, if their fantasies are with the scope of the law the it has nothing to do with you. Once again just the opinion of newbie though.
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RHP User
5 years ago
As I am new here I agree why is it mmf is so tarnished as it is something I want to try
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