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Is male bisexuality a turn on or off for women
October 29 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
def on
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hotmarriedcouple
9 years ago
A definate turn on! Why not? The girls always get into it!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
The bi male or even unsure about orientation are both turn offs for me. I definitely want to be with a guy who's into all my very very female charms, and not even remotely thinking of anything else. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
For me it's a turn off. I want all the attention on me. Thats just me tho. To each their own. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry..this title title shld read "male" bisexuality. Not "make" bisexuality. I'm particularly interested to find out womens' perspectives on male bi play and what constitutes a turn on or turn off.
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RHP User
9 years ago
The answer is all three, depending on the woman. Some are hugely turned-on by it and go out of their way to find bi guys. Some women just like to hear about the stories and have a bit of a secret thrill by being with a man they know has been with other men. Others are open to the idea of bi MMF or partner-swapping and like to watch/participate. (Thanks ladies! You know who you are! ) Other women don't much mind either way. The reasons they are attracted to men are unaffected by whether that man is also attracted to other men. Then there are also women who are turned-off by the idea, for a variety of reasons that you'll be able to find in other, older threads on the topic. Or maybe some of our users will be kind enough to re-explain here. Speaking for myself, I don't worry about the women who aren't attracted to me as a bi man. I go out of my way to find the ones who sit up and take notice.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Some women will, some won't and some wont care. So you won't find a definitive answer here. But when you hook up with one that does and you get the mmf action.....woo woo!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Don't think I'd be turned on by it But happy for those ladies that do
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ha. As i suspected. Some yay, some nay.
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
Yep a turn on, that is all.😈
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MissBishere
9 years ago
I always think it's an added bonus if he happens to be bi
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RHP User
9 years ago
I had misconceptions about seeing someone who was bi. Since being on RHP Ive met a couple of great guys who are bisexual. Ive learned 3 things. ( personally that is ) He will not be thinking about men when you are together. In fact I get much more attention which feels amazing. They are more experimental which I love. No wham bams thank you mams. And the thought of them being naked with another guy is a huge turn on. I watch gay porn ....love it....so for me I love being with a man who likes both men and women. Turn on for me.
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RHP User
9 years ago
The guys I did see ( who are respectful and affectionate) had straight on their profiles because of the stigma, even now, of liking men and women.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
A bi guy will be focusing on the woman he's with. Some people seem to think that a bi guy will leave them hanging if a cute guy catches his eye.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry a bi guy is not a turn on for me . But plenty of women seem to love them. 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have no issues being with someone who's either curious or serious about their bisexuality. I tend to be drawn to the personality as much as whether they are male or female ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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ocean_man
9 years ago
All the secretly bi guys will be watching this thread :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
It doesn't really bother me if he likes other stuff that I don't. As long as he doesn't feel he's missing out on something and, if he does, then that tells me that we're not really suitable for each other. Having said that, addressing the bi men subject, to me it's neither a turn on or a turn off. So we both like chocolate cake. I'm happy to share my piece as long as who I'm sharing with is a nice guy.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Since "coming out" on RHP I have been snobed by many people. Especially the ladies! :(
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RHP User
9 years ago
You'll meet someone who accepts you for who you are and will join you in many sexy adventures xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Champagnesunsets' The guys I did see ( who are respectful and affectionate) had straight on their profiles because of the stigma, even now, of liking men and women. did you engage in bi mmf threesomes with these bi guys?
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RHP User
9 years ago
if I hooked up with a bi guy, I'd be flat out getting him to bring in a third, because you're 2/3's of the way there much easier
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Their loss not yours. You've dodged some bullets is all.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have no issues with being with a bi guy - as long as he gives me lots of attention which is exactly what I would expect from a straight guy anyway. Not sure whether being in an MMF would be a turn or not yet, I'm still a novice here. But I can imagine having a DVP would be a lot more sensual 😉
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Women mention that they could not be with a bi man. Is there any men who could not be with a bi woman?
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RHP User
9 years ago
No although one had a willing friend? Its still on my to do list but the guys I were seeing were so focused on me and experimental that we had the best times without a third wheel. In fact one day one guy told me " today is all about you ". The only time their bisexuality was brought up was by me. I was turned on by their recollections....
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am still watching your profile pic. Sigh..... xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Liam0610' Since "coming out" on RHP I have been snobed by many people. Especially the ladies! :( Congratulations on your bravery. As other posters have noted already, there are many men in your position who aren't open about what they're looking for. I can respect that approach as well, of course, but it goes without saying that one takes a bit more courage than the other. My advice is to run with it. In 2011 I met a young woman on RHP who has absolutely rocked my world. She told me that she only sent me a flirt because I was openly bi, and that appealed to her. MMF wasn't even on the cards at that stage, she just preferred a bi fellow over a straight one, for similar reasons to how other women prefer straight men I suppose. She was just my major success story. I've had many others, too. Those who reject you probably weren't looking for you anyway in the first place, no matter what orientation was listed. But when you find women and MF couples who are looking for you specifically... ...Jackpot!
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RHP User
9 years ago
No ..from me ... prefer my guy straight... but personally is the major player... if the guy has fantastic personality. ... i could conside the bi side. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Bi mmf is the only way I would play with 2 guys. Works for me. Love sharing a dick... With another dick ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
If I am attracted to a males profile, and I want to get to know them better, them being bi, pansexual or straight,doesnt come into it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Wouldn't scare me away that's for sure!! Looking forward to ticking that bi MMF box off of the list one day. 😜
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RHP User
9 years ago
Massive turn on!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Willow_1' Bi mmf is the only way I would play with 2 guys. Works for me. Love sharing a dick... With another dick ;) bugger, I'm just a cunt
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your sideboob pic just gave my strappon a chubbie... Just saying
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RHP User
9 years ago
WTF is with the stigma that a bi guy won't give a woman all his attention? So obviously it's totally cool if a straight guy is with you and thinking about the other chicks he wants to bang right? For mine, the bi guys I've met were awesome. I've had several incredibly hot MMF threesome experiences with some wonderful bi men. Hottest freaking thing ever...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Out come the flirts and messages from the bi guys. Lol. Every time And the best thing about bisexual guys.... They can multitask !!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I love bi play ... and an MMF is the most divine of threesomes :) Imagine the attention of two men focused on you ... I have been the F in an MMF where the gents were long term lovers, talk about being spoilt :) even watching the two of them get lost in each other is horny. Even 'soft' bi play (bi situational) is incredible ... I love a play with very few limitations between everyone involved ;) I hate that there's such a stigma surrounding bisexual men (this is not a 'go' at previous posters but a general societal standpoint). As a bisexual woman I'm 'revered' but a bisexual man is ostracised, to a degree :( Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
'Turn off' is such a negative term, and nobody's sexuality or preferences should be viewed as that. Saying that, it's not something I seek in a man and further, I'm one of those woman who have absolutely no interest in women. Just not my 'thing.' The beauty of these sites is that diversity is embraced and that we can all hopefully find things that make us happy. Lovebitten X - Posted from rhpmobile
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MeGustaCaliente
9 years ago
Turn on for me. Love it 😘
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RHP User
9 years ago
Has always been a huge turn on for me (the female speaking here) ...... so much more fun to be had, so many more possibilities and adventures, so much naughtiness...... 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
For me (Mrs) it is not a turn on. But then, it is not a turn off. Fairly neutral. But talking preferences straight would win. For obvious selfish reasons...rather a man who is more into women than into both ;) However I do find the sight of man on man action very sexy. I wish my man was bi. Would be great if we could enjoy MMF together. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quote : "Seriously...? WTF is with the stigma that a bi guy won't give a woman all his attention? So obviously it's totally cool if a straight guy is with you and thinking about the other chicks he wants to bang right?' - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I find it a turn on. My husband and I wna try it. As long as I get some extra attention i wont get upset lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
9 years ago
Where are they all!?!
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FunSexyCple
9 years ago
What I find I interesting is the common thread of girls who are not for a bit male, is not that they are bi, but rather it takes attention away from them. I'm a bit guy which just means when we have a threesome or moresome I am happy to also include the other guy in my sex play, doesn't mean it detracts from my sexy wife. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
The snobbing by some is real I'm afraid. If you're not personally into it that's certainly your prerogative, but if you find it unnatural, disgusting, or that it makes a guy less of a man, you're an idiot. Especially if you're a lady who has no problem with girl on girl. Just my two cents :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
It doesn't worry me either way as long as everyone is relaxed and having fun. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've always been to afraid to put down I'm bi curious, I've wanted to play with a couple and experiment at the same time, I've asked and expressed interest that I am bi curious and wanting to explore but I've never had any couples actually allow me to play andhave fun experimenting. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
My girl is bi and turns me on seeing her with both men and woman I'm also bi and watching her face when I'm with both sexs turns her to jelly we challenge each other who can get the most moaning from both sexes total turn on all night and when you have another bi couple its a lot of heat and plenty of fun ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Happy to watch him play with himself and let me play to tho. Just not interested in male on male.
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RHP User
9 years ago
That is so nice bisexual We both looking for that - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Anyone who is comfy with their sexuality is a turn on. You never know where the fun leads! - Posted from rhpmobile
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TakingMyTime
9 years ago
If you read my profile my ex is bisexual though I suspect more gay than straight or bi and I will have to say that moment I started perpetrating him he stopped pleasing me physically in any way. However it is still my fantasy of being with 2 bi guys - I hesitate at wanting to be intimate with a bisexual guy 1 on 1 - probably because I had to do all the work with the ex And I have to say in Mackay there are a lot of straight guys who have bisexual tendencies - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Anyone truly comfortable in their own skin is a confidant and sexy individual. Being open minded, I'm comfortable with all elements of not only my own sexuality, but very much others. I'm not a lover of "labels" but understand terms are used to help define an element, I guess sexuality is no different. A guy who gets turned on by another guy is extremely sexy to me; a massive turn on, and well, add a woman to that mix; that is just as hungry for participation, it's a win win play scenario. In saying that, I get as much arousal from just watching two guys together. The energy, the unique, primal, raw way they play is an insane turn on. Everyone to their own and I respect everyone's views but by fuck I embrace sexual choice, liberating and embracing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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mature101
9 years ago
We have had a number of mmf catch ups and find that some of the straight males seem scared of any male touch which is sometimes unavoidable given the mmf scenario. Bi, bi curious, experimental seem more at ease in the bed. Makes for a lot of fun. We have never had a situation where f is left out. She gets the attention of two males, it is wonderful. There are some straight males who aren't so straight after all. Just have fun. Cheers Mature101
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm exploring. Not sure where it will lead to or how much. I do know I want to find out but I'm a bit particular about the scenario so it may take a while to happen. I am certainly not afraid to make some mistakes and test my boundaries. I've missed out on too much from standing back in my life. I have noticed a different viewing audience of my profile since I've started looking for it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I guess the question is just how bi. Bi curious, strongly swinging one way or another? With straight you know it's 100% in your favour. The scales tip in the direction of he adores women... only. Just an opinion ;) Considering bi women usually don't want a bar of us, as I'm straight (mrs). Clearly a man is not enough. I'd guess it's the same with bi men. Sure women are great... but it's not enough. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yep turn off for me too sorry facey1234 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
well it nice to find a couple where the guy is bi and doesn't mind some guy performing on him but when it comes to do it in front of his partner, then the answer is no. tried for ages trying to meet that type of couple here but they all want your partner in on as well. Time to delete profile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Love bi men. Such a turn on for me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm straight, but I love MFM..... Occasionally you find the other guy, mostly the females husband in bi. This doesn't worry me, I know where I stand, so long as he's attractive and polite, I enjoy the time and if he finds me attractive, great. I've never crossed the line, but sure swords have crossed, balls have banged, so what. If your confident in your sexuallity it doesn't matter - Posted from rhpmobile
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dimples4fun67
9 years ago
Oh i love it!!! Very horny indeed, does it for me bigtime especially talking about it while making me cum send me crazy!! Haha Bring it on xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Also the point that Atomic couple says that "a women is not enough" One could say 1 woman or several women isn't enough for her man either. Just like 1 or several men isnt enough for her either. No difference when convert the male/female to person phrase. We are all happy to have several variants. No difference really the sex. Hope that makes some sense........
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Atomiccouple' I guess the question is just how bi. Bi curious, strongly swinging one way or another? With straight you know it's 100% in your favour. The scales tip in the direction of he adores women... only. Just an opinion ;) Considering bi women usually don't want a bar of us, as I'm straight (mrs). Clearly a man is not enough. I'd guess it's the same with bi men. Sure women are great... but it's not enough. - Posted from rhpmobile A man is definitely enough, but why would we share him with someone we're having no interaction with when we can have one all to ourselves? The whole fun of a threesome for a bi person (from my perspective) is having no holds (or holes... thanks Summer ) barred play where everyone is all in and enjoying each other. I wouldn't even know what to do if I was naked in bed with someone that I couldn't touch.... It would be weird.
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RHP User
9 years ago
This has been a great discussion. Very interesting to hear peoples (particularly women's)' views on bi male sexuality. What drives one person's desires is very different to anothers. So i guess all perspectives are just "whatever floats your boat". Personally (being bi, obviously) is a massive turn on.
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RHP User
9 years ago
for your encouraging words on the bi male thread :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Are missing my point. The question was asking girls (not a threesome). Obviously in a threescore situation I'd want bi... If my man was into it. But if me/myself/I wants a guy.... Why would I want bi? I'm a woman so a straight man makes sense to me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
A bi man or a bi curious man is the most exciting hot steamy sex a woman could have...in saying that it must be the right combination of personalities to make it a success....like anything else if there is no connection between everyone in the room it wont get hot and wild but if there is........well its just wow wow!
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Quoting 'Atomiccouple' Are missing my point. The question was asking girls (not a threesome). Obviously in a threescore situation I'd want bi... If my man was into it. But if me/myself/I wants a guy.... Why would I want bi? I'm a woman so a straight man makes sense to me. - Posted from rhpmobile And you are missing the other point.In what you say, there is no difference in the play scenario. The bi guy will perform no different to the straight guy. You would and probably haven't, noticed any difference. Do you think the bi guy is gonna jump your hubby? Lol.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am Bi , but that doesn't mean I jump every man and / or every woman or any other sexed person in sight indiscriminately....... Just like anyone else with any sexual meeting there has to be consent , attraction and above all respect of boundaries for all . Everyone just has to remember that No means No and then everyone is happy and relaxed and can enjoy whatever transpires. When I am with a woman I am 100% focused on enjoying her and hopefully pleasing her, and the same if I am with a TS/TV/CD , guy, couple or group or football team lol. Outback, Summer, Annie and others make some great points in this great topic of enlightenment
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RHP User
9 years ago
Again you are missing what I said. We have no issues with bi men. My guy isn't afraid of bi men either. But I'm answering the posters question from my opinion as a woman (not as a couple). FYI I've been with bi men. And had an awesome time. But typically if I'm seeking a man I would prefer straight. Likewise some seek bi for their own reasons. We all have our preferences. I realise many don't agree with my perceived reasons. But it's my truth, my reasons, my choice. I'm graciously sharing my opinion with Facey. He is curious about ppls perspective. I'm sure he wants peoples honest opinion. RHP is awesome because we can create specific profiles so that we can find the people who meet our preferences and interests. Facey, I think you get my point of view... Feel like I keep repeating myself. I'm signing out from this thread I no longer wish to defend my views ;) Plenty bisexual ppl on here. Good for you if you enjoy both sexes. It definitely gives you more choice xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorey thats a turn off - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Are often less inhibited, have less rules, less pre-conceived ideas of the male/female roles which is why I would prefer bi men to straight men. I also think that makes a man more willing to experiment and makes him more diverse in the sexual arena compared to a straight guy. As a general rule. So if Mrs Atomiccouple is into straight/vanilla sex I understand why she would want a straight guy .. well I sort of understand. Kinda.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Perhaps a better phrase would have been "traditional" sexual roles and sexual activity. Possible some women can't see a bi male as dominant as a straight male perhaps? Just my thoughts.
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TakingMyTime
9 years ago
With the ex was his being bisexual showed in every part of his life - come to think of it I guess I had to take more of the dominant role cos he chose to sit back and make me make the decisions - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'TakingMyTime' With the ex was his being bisexual showed in every part of his life - come to think of it I guess I had to take more of the dominant role cos he chose to sit back and make me make the decisions - Posted from rhpmobile That's a function of personality, not sexual preference. Both my ex's were like that and they're both straight as a ruler. I have a pretty dominant personality and I'm bi.... See where I'm going with this?
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
That bi guys are less pushy than straight guys. A lot of straight guys have a high mission status to score pussy at any cost. Focus on the target to get the dick wet. Whereas they have found bi guys less demanding and less pushy. Go with the flow and more respectful. Maybe because they have more options? Just whats been said to me and im not putting everyone in those buckets. Everyone is different but i agree from my own experiences.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'TakingMyTime' With the ex was his being bisexual showed in every part of his life - come to think of it I guess I had to take more of the dominant role cos he chose to sit back and make me make the decisions
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RHP User
9 years ago
But its a turn off most def - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Have to say that because we have not yet have the pleasure of meeting one to find out. But since we are actually looking for one that could lean us towards yes!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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TakingMyTime
9 years ago
I don't know what you mean - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Depends on woman. For me it is. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Put me in for Team On. Though, I think I need some first hand experience, to be even more sure of my team colours:)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Some women are insecure and think that being bi or bi-curious as a guy means you're not going to give them your full attention as a sexual partner. This is of course nonsense, but some people are a little more ignorant than others, so I'd suggest just finding people on your own page. Whatever page that is. I tend to find people who are "turned off" by bisexual guys are sexually repressed, selfish or generally ignorant themselves which is a MASSIVE turn off for me (from the few I've spoken to anyway). - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Speaking as a bi guy it amazes me how people, allegedly sexually 'openminded', get threatened by the thought of a bi guy. I respect peoples preferences, but seeing it from my side, i think its silly really. Personlly i can play straight or bi. Its doesn't bother me if there is no bi male play. All comes down to chemistry If chemistry is here ... all good. If not ... all good. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Pretty hot I think 😚👍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm bi curious trying to find a nice bi couple for my first experience... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Moxters
9 years ago
complete turnoff...
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Not_A_Unicorn
9 years ago
My husband is bi and seeing him with another man is the hottest thing. I've always been more inclined toward bisexual men but it's only been the last five years, in the relationship I'm in now, that I've been able to be a part of things (rather than just watching porn). I can safely say I'm now at the point where if a guy says he's straight I let out a disappointed sigh and move on to the next profile. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have nothing against it, at all!!! But... it's doesn't turn me on :( - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Definitely! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I love it.. nothing turns me on more then Male on Male action.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
My absolute fantasy! Finding guys to open up is the hard thing I've found *sad face* haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
HUGE turn on for me.. My hubby is bi and i LOVE it.. makes me so wet, love to watch two men together!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
We have been playing with bi couples for the past few years and find it is pretty hot with everyone sharing each other.
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Devilishduo123
9 years ago
I find it a turn on, we all should be free to enjoy and please who we like :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Devilishduo123
9 years ago
I find it a turn on, we all should be free to enjoy and please who we like :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm the bi female in this couple and having a partner who understands my tastes because he is bi-curious is wonderful. I love seeing men's and women's bodies, and especially being able to openly talk about my tastes with him. To play with a guy together, bi or straight, one day is my fantasy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's hot - Posted from rhpmobile
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