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Is the swinging scene more shallow than people expected?
June 28 2018
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RHP User
7 years ago
We are verified and real! For us smoking is a turn off. We met a couple that stated they were non smokers and when we left the bar they lit up,Honesty in a profile and verification is great! Had another couple state non smokers but sent face pics and they both were puffing away! I asked him why he said was a non smoker and their reply was people won’t meet us if we say we are smokers lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
Until you do, people are going to think you're not genuine. It probably takes even less time than 5 minutes and it's just a photo with some text on a piece of paper so I'm not sure what you mean by right mind set. On a slightly unrelated note, if your home situation is such that you can't get any time with your partner due to shift work and kids, are you seriously going to have time to play with others, let alone yourselves??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
We will make time but no point trying to organise time with out something to look forward too. I'm pretty sure we wouldnt be the only ones with this issue. We would love to be able to attened every party or meet with with people with 5mins notice but I don't think that is a reality for everyone on here. Basically If we get a genuine offer we will make time we just need notice to be able to book a hotel, find a baby sitter ect. I dont think we are asking too much? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I guess the other question is after the profile is verified will it actually make much of a difference? Easy to say it will but where do we go from here if it doesnt? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
All this defensiveness against verifying your profile is probably turning a lot of people off (and people do read these forums). It reads like a confirmation that you aren't a genuine couple, even if you are, in people's minds. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
All this defensiveness against verifying your profile is probably turning a lot of people off (and people do read these forums). It reads like a confirmation that you aren't a genuine couple, even if you are, in people's minds. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It takes less than 5 minutes lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ok we will get it done as soon as we can and last thing we want us to turn more people away before we even get started or a chance to be accepted into the community which is all we want. We don't want to jump in the deepend for strictly play time we want to meet other people who are on the same page as us and have a drink and a laugh and go from there. We just need to be given the time of day for this to happen. Thanks again for the advice hope our luck turns around - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
But I love the changes you've made ☺ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sadly true Sad but true. No matter how much you change up your profile you simply don’t meet the majority of womens/couples standards for a play partner on this site. They are extremely spoilt for choice and will almost always shop in the better specimen section as RHP is largely a visual attraction based medium. Only thing to do is actually get out there and meet people and hope you can somehow manage to make a connection that way. Sorry to be harsh but it’s the truth of the matter. Don’t worry, there are many of us in the same boat. It is what it is. So does this mean we shouldn't even bother now? We will never meet anyone? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
The reason why it appears "shallow" could lie in the fact that we seek someone equal to us or we have an image of what we find most attractive. That often leaves us disappointed as real life never reflects what we hope to find. Verification is not necessarily the best way nor is it a guarantee of someone's genuineness. We are not verified and have no intention to do so and still genuine. :) Go out, be open and meet people. (Ms)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Our expectations are finding people to have a drink with and make new friends which we have still not found after 3 years. Every reply been the same and now things are getting worse after this forum. We as asked for help and and advice and now being shunned! - Posted from rhpmobile
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FredAndGinger2
7 years ago
Get to a social meet and greet and you'll meet 50+ couples in one evening who you can both chat with together and form connections much faster and deeper than surfing a few pics. Most event organisers require profiles to be verified, or else require a phone conversation with both of you present. Some will ask for scans of both of your drivers licenses. By comparison, is taking a selfie with a code written on paper really such a big obstacle for a genuine couple? No!! You've received this advice many times over the past few weeks so just do it! Fred - Posted from rhpmobile
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technologic
7 years ago
We also have similar problem of meeting the right couple. But it's quite obvious why (it's on our profile). 🙄 Still, it's a small price to pay for a clear conscience though.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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