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Lies on your profile
August 29 2018
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
How many times this has happened to me. Smokers especially seem to be quite wiley in their evasive maneuver. The moment I smell it on someone, usually within the first few minutes, I'm outtie🏃♀️ Same goes for druggies. Zero tolerance for it. Ive also been fooled, in my early days on RHP, By "old pics". Meet and realise they're actually 15 years older, considerably different shape and with significant less hair lol. When quizzed as to the disception; common responses have been, "Well its worth a shot because you wouldn't have met me otherwise and I knew you'd like me once we were face to face anyway".... yeah but nah....... seeya 😂 Never understood why people lie on their profiles, it always gets uncovered. Ive always been more of an oversharer with my faults. Lay them all out there via pics and the written word and if someone is still interested enough to contact me in an informed way.... game on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Deception* - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Same thing happened to us Met a couple at a bar in the afternoon then arranged to meet and go to our room. As we were walking to the hotel they lit up despite their profile saying they were non smokers! We had another couple say they were non smokers but in the pics we exchanged they were smoking in them! There excuse was no one will meet us as we smoke wtf?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well, guess you haven't met the right people then 😄😄😄😄 cos there are many who write the truth and so people chose not to meet them 😄😄😄😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
No one here has stated that the "Profile Embellishers" are the only people being met. But we've all had dud/failed meets for a myriad of reasons. I know in my case, those meets have been rare and moreso in the early days (6 years ago). These topics are always good to know that it happens to most people and to share experiences etc. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
There is one guy on here who lists his age as 42 but is really 62 and he thinks no one will notice lol He seems to be on a lot of friends lists though Maybe old age has taught him wisdom perhaps lol
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
no lies and works well for us ,the very odd message and flirt is nice to know we don’t come across as mouldy old salmon ,id rather be honest and go no where, than almost about to touch something, get caught. and be disallowed ,nahhh honesty is key mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I love the profiles where they have taken a picture of a picture in a frame That’s not going to old is it lol But smokers as soon as I smell it I shut down straight away I do get the messages from smokers saying they will clean their teeth and chew a mint but I still am seriously not interested It shows a real lack of insight
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RHP User
7 years ago
Smoking &.old deceptive pics has always been a huge turn off for me. All of my pics do me a big discredit I've been told, but some people must be absolute wizards with filters.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I used to lie about my age as I don't look or act 52, but I'm now loud and proud about it. I reckon 90% of the couples over 40 lie about their age or post photos from a decade ago. We're not fond of smokers either and haven't had that problem...yet. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
One whiff and it’s an instant turn off for us - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yeah right...
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RHP User
7 years ago
No fucking way. Biggest turn off ever. Some profiles have very odd ideals on athletic and slim body types. Happy to say I’m average. As for lies.. well I should update my endowment to 8” and thick make you squirt. 🤦♂️
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RHP User
7 years ago
I am one of those filthy smoker things. Have it on my profile as such though - I know it is an instant cross against my name for most but oh well. It would be frustrating to encounter the opposite though. How do people feel about ''vapers''?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yeah right, again.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Just because I turned you down as I explained in my message you then said something rude and blocked me lol too funny I appreciate it must be hard(or not so hard) but manners don’t have an age I may have said you remind me of my grandfather I am allowed to say no Vapers are still out for me it permeates the lungs and still is a chemical I listened to a scientific study that vaping increases your risk of heart attack still! I have never had a smoke nor never wish to and really don’t understand the appeal! Okeydoke do people say no to you politely?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Over time I’ve encountered a few. 💋 Age is always common. Not a bid deal if it’s only a few years. Usually 40-45 when they’re closer to 50. Whatevs. I did spend some time with a man who had 40 and was in fact 52! But I’m sooo glad he lied. He had the body and stamina of a 35 yo and sexy AF! 💋 Single!!! I’ll only date open relationship or single only! Then you find out they’re still married or have had a girlfriend almost the whole time 😱 Don’t drag me into that shite unknowingly!! 💋 size. It’s not a major factor, but man. We will find out. 💋 Dom - now just cos you’re bossy and like to spank does NOT make you “A Dom” massive difference. If one more wannabe messages me I’ll scream 😝 💋 fake photos once again, we’ll find out. 💋 location- I’m guilty on this one. I won’t have my real location for safety . Small town, and for my childrens safety and my reputation. I only travel for meets anyway and always state the truth in the first or second message. Never encountered an issue. The only guy I meet locally is very discreet, trustworthy and respectful to my situation. Met in the old fashioned RL scenario. Just be honest and upfront and the right people will come to you. And all unnecessary drama can be avoided . Truth will always come out eventually 🙌 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Sweetjen7' Okeydoke do people say no to you politely?Yeah, they do. I am a polite person and I get politeness back.
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RHP User
7 years ago
It comes down to personal hygiene and respect for others. It's not hard to brush your teeth and use deodorant lol 😂 Saying that we have come across people that don't smoke that still smell like shit and breath that smell like a garbage bin. Keeping some mints in your pocket isn't hard lol. I know if we are with a non smoking couple we respect that and keep it in mind. Please don't label us all a dirty filthy disrespectful smelly pigs. Just remember non smokers can smell just as bad if not worse. 🤗
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RHP User
7 years ago
Very important to us too because it is about trusting those you choose to be with. Embellishments such as a few years off the age (within reason of course, lol), different location, photo taken with the best makeup job and filters we can get by. The motivation is more likely to be vanity or anonymity in a small tow over intended deceit. 20 year old photos or 20 kilos or outright false information are deal breakers, we would walk away without a second thought. Not because of what the person really was, but because they had shown their tendency to lie at the first opportunity.
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Supernova
7 years ago
Are the usual, it's rare these days to meet someone who genuinely looks like thier photos. Actually getting sick of the cat fishing that goes on here... Just be honest, how hard can that be, really?!? If you're "large" don't put that you're "average" on your profile and use photos from 5 years ago... If you can't be honest with yourself, you can't really expect positive results from the people you meet online. The end result is that BOTH parties will likely end up dissapointed, one from being deceived, the other because of the resulting lack of enthusiasm / interest from their cat-fished date. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
That’s why I took my photos down the old kilos for years I’ve lost heaps of kgs - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ah yeah the another reason is 90% of people on here are B.S liars - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Agree Supernova, Just went on a date with a guy who looked quite different from his photos. Clearly they were taken when he was much younger and slimmer. It’s dissapointing and makes you wonder if there are other deceptions, so not a great beginning to anything. Just a quick ending. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
If you won't post my comment maybe you should remove the post I replied to.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Then...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Your abs sure look very honest! 😉☺
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RHP User
7 years ago
This is getting to be disproportionately bigger than the original issue. Some balance is required here.
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Obi1kenietzsche
7 years ago
I does happen to guys on here too. I was contacted by a lady who's profile was light on pics and general information. But what she did write was interesting and she did have a tasteful pic that resonated with me. Having piqued my interest, I commented on that particular pic whereupon she said "oh that's not me, more a projection of what I'd like to be". Hmmmm! But at least she told me before things went any further I guess. Ibi1
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RHP User
7 years ago
Have you got dementia? I’m not in control of what is approved for posting lol I said no politely move on I’m not going to date my grandfather
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don’t think I called you a filthy smoker one of your own referred to himself as that! I’m afraid I have heard that before from smokers saying they will brush their teeth and chew mints It permeates the lungs and pores and even the sperm lol Yes I agree there are some smelly breathed people out their 84% of Australians don’t smoke these days so it’s a small percentage but seems to be over represesented on here
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RHP User
7 years ago
got a facebook request from a "single " guy off here on facebook(thanks google) Went to his facebook profile to have a look and his dead wife is very much aliveOMG guys why do you lie!
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AKAHunk
7 years ago
I've always figured it was better to be honest about everything on here, because eventually you're going to be found out, which in most cases will end in disappointment for one or both parties. In saying that, is a few years off your age considered OK? Going off some of the posts here it seems a forgivable white lie? Being 43 puts me over the cutoff of a lot of profiles, but I believe I can mix it up with the under 30's, wondering if I could get away with being 40 again ;-)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Sweetjen7'Why do people lie on there profile? I'm curious, I do remember you a few months back posting about rejecting someone as there was a 29-year age gap and you didn't wan't to date your grandpa, to which someone pointed out that would make your 'grandpa' only 58. You portrayed yourself as 29 years old then. What were your own reasons for lying? Some truly excellent sleuthing there Meander, I look forward with interest to any responses
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RHP User
7 years ago
I remember that one...I pointed that one out. This is why I will never, EVER get in a debate with Meander that I'm not 110% sure I can win.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don't smoke for health reasons but I LOVE the smell of it on others, on their breath/clothes/in their hair. Stale smoke along with the rest of their body's scent.. yum! Olfactory sensations a big turn on for me as long as it isn't absolutely overwhelming. I can tell the difference between even certain brands since they smell different so it can be hit and miss. Horizons/Winfield are a big no but Marlboro/Rothmans and especially B&H smell really nice to me It's like a very subtle cologne
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RHP User
7 years ago
and then there are liars. Our resident self proclaimed shit magnet is really just full of shit. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Why make up furfys?I smoke, and there is no point lying about it.I am single, no point lying about that.If I want to meet people, then it makes sense to have my profile reflect who I actually am.But then, some people underestimate others.Life on RHP is not unlike real life...
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have been fortunate and have only met one lady who smoked though said she didn't and yeah that's a turn off. The smoking a little but as mentioned if people brush properly it's forgivable but the lying is wrong. Thankfully most people on here, or at least those I have spoken to, have been honest. Or I'm gullible. Vaping counts as smoking just in a less cool way. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Lol I had a guy message me once claiming to be black and hung with a name like Irishmick😂😂😂, I’ve lost count how many dodgy profiles there are, especially the ones claiming to be very well hung and clearly their pics were pushing to get them to around 6” lol, had one dude pestering me saying he was straight but had a pic of sucking another blokes cock he wanted a phone number to send a real kinky vid of him in the shower with two soapy fingers up his ass so I gave him my ex’s number 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
18-99 that's a big one right there, to me age is a number for the benefit of others. I'm 49, 50 next year. Wear it like a badge of honour. I teach martial arts and I outlast any of my 20 year old student in the drills I put them through, call me old the little shits lol. Another dislike is the old picture, why do that if you are trying to meet up with someone? You hoping they don't notice the 80's hairstyle lol? If you can't accept yourself for who you are now how do you expect other too? Embrace it. Personally I love a woman with curves and yes even those dreaded "stretch marks" and "sagging boobs from having children. Wear them with pride like they should be worn, you've given life and that's something to be proud of. I don't like "altered women" hell if I wanted a woman with plastic I'd buy a sex doll lol. I don't have grey facial hair (well more white really), I have snow on the porch but that's because my roof needs re-thatching lol. But it's mine and I've worked damn hard to get it :). - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Play nice we may all have to live with one another for another 75 yeaRS AHAHCrikey Never mind I'll just go and put these in the microwave 🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm a casual smoker, and if I were to meet a non-smoker, I wouldn't be smoking. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
The attached men having on their profile they are single. I have my reasons for not wanting to meet a "married" man and don't appreciate my time being wasted 😤 - Posted from rhpmobile
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imjustmetassie
7 years ago
I get annoyed when my guy shows people our gallery and they say my pics arent real Well how abt you see me first and stop saying im a fake and blocking us - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Old photos, suddenly the girl is pregnant and only the guy can play. Our photos are less than a year old and we are verified. This is the girl writing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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joanne1991
7 years ago
My profile is truthful and correct including my age and all my pictures and I’m a smoker trying to quit but not easy. I don’t see the purpose of posting anything that’s untrue when a meet will out you. I have always said honesty is the best policy, lies are hard to keep up and remember
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think most profiles would contain at least one lie, whether that be in the form of a white lie, a slight exaggeration, an old photo, overstated sexual preferences and so on. Hell Ive lied in my profile, I dont really own a red posties bike hahah its really a red ducati and Ive lied in my sexual preferences as well, I listed masturbation and foreplay only, but yes I lied as I just get straight down to it and wank. In my fetishes Ive listed watersports but I wont class that as a lie more of a misunderstanding, geez I love my jet-ski :DI also lied about the pickled gherkins on my profile as well but you never know if the right girl came along :p
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RHP User
7 years ago
Haha. Personally not too fussed by smokers as i think there are worse things a stranger can lie about. I am guilty of lying about my location too in the past, but would inform guys immediately on chatting and travel to the major city to meet. This was for privacy. I always take recent pics! I dont nudes. This is due to having a brain. You see if there was a way to get people to admit they were just time wasting pic collectors instead of lying i would be happy. Some are even verified paying members. They tee up a meeting then ask for pics. Blocked! Ive met one guy who has a girlfriend on facey. A very new relationship. I hope they are happy and he never changes his facebook account. You see i didnt tell him i knew so the next person would find out too. He wonders why he cant get a date. Bahaha I had another that wouldnt give me his phone number. Sweet guy, but yeah something going on. When he ghosted me i didnt care and secretly cheered his crazy ex on who im pretty sure was sending him abusives texts on the ph he wouldnt give me. Lol i wonder if he stood her up. How do you know this shits going to happen though without taking the risk? So many unverfied profiles. Sometimes i get bored and tell them. Other sites are full of american male models.. reverse google is fantastic. Ive even asked guys if pics are recent and theyve lied. Fact is they know. So when we meet i dont say shit. I just excuse myself. How dumb could you be? I have a suspicion women are very guilty of posting old pics. Whats with blurry face pics after my requesting them? Strange. I love the way guys can take 17 clear photos of their dicks but cant focus on their faces or take their sunnies off. I find the merry go round of you meet the wrong people but you dont meet me amusing. Im upfront. No issue finding guys wanting to meet. I dont meet them due to dishonesty, crap personalities,( like sooking ie about not being able to meet women) dick pics wanking vids, unverified etc etc. Im over the sooking. Instead of blaming the women look at yourselves. We all meet loosers despite trying. Just got to keep sifting and leaving them to their own devices when it doesnt work. People decide they arent interested in me all the time. I deal with it like an adult. Im not on here looking to have a go at others about it venting my resentment. Whats more i assure you it isn't because ive lied, have old pics or have sent unsolicited wanking videos. Yuck seriously. If im too fat and ugly and old at size 14 and looking 30 then so be it. Who knows maybe they are married or pic collectors. Who cares. Good luck with skinny chick i hope it works out. I dont want fuck pops either just as a ripped gangbanger doesnt want my jelly thighs wrapped around his head. Who fricken cares. People lie, who knows why. It all comes out in the end. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
...for some people, so lying is no issue for them. When I was single I met lot of people who lied about their weights, drug use, smoking habits, marital status etc. As a couple we never met any of these though, our dates have been really good so far. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
If you want to talk about lies, how about we start with the use of the word 'athletic' when describing body-type. Perhaps it was a typo....can be hard to see a keyboard over a beergut....and don't get me started on the men. lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Looking4fun181
7 years ago
This happens way too often. SMOKERS WAKE UP. You need to realise that A nervous smoker is still a smoker to someone that doesn’t smoke. I would never date someone that smokes and I would not be as polite as you were, because I detest lies more than I dislike smokers - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I recall a few of my initial encounters was a lovely guy claimed to be 38 but when we met looked least 68 I was upset still had coffee, I was polite then left he didn't apologise or anything but had the balls to msg n demand I stop teasing n meet at his place. Told him don't appreciate liars as c'mon if u lied about your age and didn't come clean do worry what else he could be lying. Another had a name here with something huge or massive cock and bragged about it so we met... Let's just say it didn't live up to even half of it in size ... ALMOST gave a sympathy shag but lucky I didn't as I'm sure to regret it later. Last but not least abguy sends me a pic least 20-25 yrs old as seems a lil faded but insist it's 3 yrs old he says athletic on profile. Does seem like an ok guy met during his break discover he is least 3 times my size and I'm a lil extra padding chubby kinda girl. Seriously did he think I wouldn't notice or something... sighs I find many lie about such things a total turn OFF and do find him still stalking my profile time to time.. Happy note I have met some awesome ones and glad that we get along well enough to have more than a couple of times of naughty fun and currently missing Perth guys as the new countries suxxx since not been naughty for few months and might need to fly back for my fix 😉😏😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
99 percent in her tell porkies one way or another....its just how much of their profile is fake is the point... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
We’re sure this is probably covered somewhere else, but still fits here. We are heading to Melbourne shortly so we have just been searching people in the area. Our preference is a single female and second preference is couples, but happy to chat with both. But, why is it when you get into profiles it is more often then “single female, but as you read on the old ‘me and my hubby’ line creeps in there somewhere. It is frustrating to say the least. But really, what is the appeal to couples to put up a singles profile? Is it cheaper membership? Is it free messages? Or is it cat Fishing? Surely a couple is much easier to find when then they list themselves as such. Do others see it as a lie? Are you less likely to contact them as well?
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RHP User
7 years ago
I just dont see the point, the weird one for me is, some women will have a few extra pounds on their profile and be either fine, or really really big, I mean I like all types, but if your a big girl then say so, the bigger the tree the juicier the peach 👅💦 Maybe we should have clothing sizes on here lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'hotmale69' 99 percent in her tell porkies one way or another....its just how much of their profile is fake is the point... - Posted from rhpmobile Is that 99% of the people you surveyed, or 99% of the people on RHP..?
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Rubyt25
7 years ago
In my experiences you can be accused of lying both in RL and online no matter what you write or say.
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Rubyt25
7 years ago
unfortunatley both platforms come with both positive and negative experiences/sitiations for most of us at some point or another.
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Rubyt25
7 years ago
Quoting 'Rubi_Rose' unfortunatley and fortunatley both platforms come with both positive and negative experiences/sitiations for most of us at some point or another.
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
thankyou ,sorry for late response , didn’t see the compliment ,or i think it’s a compliment and your not saying taking a pic under lighting is a lie ,it’s just natural enhancement with helpful shadows ,lol mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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AKAHunk
7 years ago
There's another current forum about how you communicate with people you meet on here, I've been using KIK mostly. The best feature of KIK is that if you take a photo straight through the app it says "camera" underneath so you know it's current...if that little word isn't there the photo could have been taken at any old time 👍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
OP runs scared again after being called out on her own deception. Why put yourself in such a position? In saying that....Good topic! Why lie? What is the benefit and to whom? The way we see it, unless you are a pathological liar, live and breath your lies and have somehow even convinced yourself, a not so great ending is imminent. Pet dislikes (given hate is such a strong word); -No pics of him but an attractive and athletic description= bullshit! -Clear and evident age manipulation. Do you think we're blind? -Single female profiles that have "my hubby" or "Mr" will always be involved -"Experienced" yet quite obviously this is your first time How long does everyone have as the list goes on? Be true, be real or go virtual reality where your foobaa's won't be uncovered. Suggestion RHP; create a new dating platform called "RHP Luckydip" for those who just can't help themselves and others who enjoy opening dissapointing presents 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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1moretime
7 years ago
Ladies. Just curious.. if a man was uncut or a few inches smaller than the profile said.. is that a deal breaker? - Posted from rhpmobile
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ocean_man
7 years ago
Quoting 'steveandhisgirl' I get annoyed when my guy shows people our gallery and they say my pics arent real Well how abt you see me first and stop saying im a fake and blocking us - Posted from rhpmobile I get this regularly. I must be lying, because "you can't be that fit in your fifties". I have been on dates where the lady was not what she portrayed. And it never went any further than coffee … lol. I hardly expect that I am going to be accepted if I am lying too :)
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RHP User
7 years ago
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wouldn't that be like the man in the relationship putting that the woman in the relationship is bi or bi curious because that's what he wants to get out of the swinging experience???? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Agreed. Our profile states that I’m a regular smoker, but my husband isn’t. I am mindful of people that don’t smoke and respect their choice not to even speak with us. But I’ve had contact with non smokers whose breath smells way worse than smokers. It’s about how a smoker will respect another person and limit the nicotine smell. That door swings both ways. If u don’t like the smell, it’s simple. Don’t send a flirt or message to a smoker 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well i met a guy who said he was 45 but was actually 54. Said he was athletic but had a belly. Said he was 6 inches but was 3 inches... aargh. Lie after lie - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It is easier to remember the truth & recent photos are preferred I think - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Can I ask of it looks like Im lying on my profile? I get people saying my photos look like different people...but they were all taken this year. The oldest in April. I just change my hair and beard a lot. I think I look my age? But this thread has me worried! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
To be honest guys I'm actually starting to wonder how many people on here are actually real profiles. not just some made up profile to make people think there really is people out there interested in meeting. but I seem to be lucky if I get a reply from people that are meant to be online at the time - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wonder how many of the fake profiles or misrepresented ones ( Liars) are paid members or guests.I wouldnt think to many paid members would go to far out of their profile make up. but a free guest would say what ever they want .Maybe a rating system on their profiles , such as thumbs up or down to a small list of answers.Like- was the person or couple -as in their profile - was age , body weight , hair , eyes as in their profile - was their personality, fun , happy , easy going or hard, pushy , conflicting, weird, strange etc.ratings can only be processed once both parties agree to a meeting by clicking on a button on their profile stating they are meeting and open to assessment . reviews will be anonymous online but stay permanently on your profile.so if you meet 10 people and get 9 thumbs up then your pretty good with your profile and vice a versa even if the person wasnt your type then a not compatible answer would apply if all the other profile stats tick all the boxes wont stop lairs from deleting profile and starting up a new one though.just a thought, could be a beta test program to trail it.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'typhon' Ladies. Just curious.. if a man was uncut or a few inches smaller than the profile said.. is that a deal breaker? Cock? No. Overall height? Yes. But then the height thing was in my profile when I was looking, so I would not feel bad for turning someone down when meeting face to face (only happened once for that reason).
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Sweetjen7'Why do people lie on there profile? I'm curious, I do remember you a few months back posting about rejecting someone as there was a 29-year age gap and you didn't wan't to date your grandpa, to which someone pointed out that would make your 'grandpa' only 58. You portrayed yourself as 29 years old then. What were your own reasons for lying? I have recieved a few messages from people asking if that was me and its not.I am 40 soon to be 41 and cant remember what 29 was like lolId love to be 29 again thoughLots of profiles woth similiar names like Mr and Mrs Smith
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sensualcple2play
7 years ago
Feel you! We are smoke free and want the same. So far been lucky but would decline too if smelt smoke. Just dont get why people lie about it They could of at least posted social smokers if they "supposedly" only smoke when nevous. Only thing we have had so far in lying area is few "single" woman who after a few messages suddenly ask if we would meet them with their partner. Hello that's not single - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'RenegadesOfFuck' Suggestion RHP; create a new dating platform called "RHP Luckydip" for those who just can't help themselves and others who enjoy opening dissapointing presents 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile Love this suggestion, also love your profile name? A certain Rage Against The Machine song, with oft-mis-heard chorus lyric (my favourite is ''when a redneck wants a fuck'')?
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joanne1991
7 years ago
I’ve thought more on this topic over the last 2 days, regarding smokers, I understand if there dishonest it’s a turn off but thinking to myself as a smoker and read non smoker I am turned off due to the fact that possibly the smell may effect them, but if they have messaged why worry, it’s on my profile, the same as non drinkers, mmm I look and think the same so it’s not just people that don’t like smokers or drinkers, us that do indulge feel the same about the non smokers, drinkers
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joanne1991
7 years ago
Age and pictures well that’s a different story and people who expect to meet for a purpose, and let’s face it we are all here to meet for a specific purpose need to be honest, if you change it up expect to be disappointed
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RHP User
7 years ago
Lying on profiles, Im not that fussed really , a year here or a kilo there. A non smoker who smokes is more of an issue with me but as long as she waits till after to light up, I sposse I can deal with it.
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RHP User
7 years ago
👃🐄💩
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RHP User
7 years ago
In my brief experience of online dating surrealism... I’ve discovered many forms of deception here! I’m a firm believer of what you project out into this world from within, will attract that which you desire. Being honest, perceptive and transparent with integrity is how I choose to live and be in this mortal meat suit! Life’s too fragile and magical to pursue the delusional happiness that is apparent here...and It’s a shame yet not surprising that genuine people lose interest in spending time here! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
This site is no different to other dating/ sex sites in that the percentage of genuine men, woman and couples are the minority. Like many have commented there are plenty who lie about smoking, their looks, saying they reply to messages etc. what would be good is an extension of the validation where comments could be included warning others about differences in reality compared to profile information, whether they are real or not etc At the end of the day if those sad people have nothing better to do than lie or pretend to be something they are not, good luck to them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
honest you'll get exposed at some - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
This is a very frustrating issue. We are both previous smokers. I quit nearly 6 yrs ago. My husband started back up several times since and each time I updated the profile. I don't do lies, deception or whatever you want to call it. Guess what..lieing gets you no where except walked out on...when you meet...your found out. Especially pics! - Posted from rhpmobile
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poppeez
7 years ago
I prefer the truth no matter how bad someone may think it is. Why lie... especially photos. With me if I am meeting you it’s not just for your looks but your sexual hunger and fun. My pics are real, my profile is honest and after a year on RHP i can say it honesty has worked for me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AKAHunk
7 years ago
I see our OP has disappeared again entirely....maybe she started up the thread to see what she could get away with? Great value though, and great sleuthing Meander ;-)
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RHP User
7 years ago
As well as the fact that It depends on who points it out too. Some lies come across as deliberate too, begging for attention, it's laughable that they're missed. Makes me think of Q, how she loved to sleuth and how admired she was for it in the forum. Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
I noticed too Meander. So did my GF. Same pics. Different alias. Flat denial hasn’t changed our opinion. We just couldn’t be arsed engaging, had better things to be doing 🙊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’ve been told several times that I could easily pass for early to mid 30’s but at the end of the day I need to look myself in the mirror and be true to what’s looking back at me. Should things play out as it will then surely it’s better to have started things off with the truth, if people can’t see past the number on screen that is the true then maybe it’s a good thing for me. lies or embislshemts ......... insofar as protecting yourself from the BS crazies (vague location or perhaps a pseudonym are logic choices) that aide however It’s much easier to remember the truth. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sexslaves
7 years ago
The lie that's gets us is the other person/people their profile says they are into certain thing and when asked or confronted with it at a meet it sometimes ends or nearly ends the night. I'm sure they just click every thing or what they think people will like not what they enjoy - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well there's a clean, pure and truthfully fresh cub here if you gorgeous girls are keen - Posted from rhpmobile
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twowithnolimits
7 years ago
Doesn't that just sheeeet you..we have experienced it, often it is part of an attempt to lure you in , but other times they really have no idea what they are ticking!! The other thing is what they leave out, you match tick for tick but then they say not interested because of some reason that appears no where in the profile, is it just a basic lack of literacy? In this time challenged era we really wish people would think more about their profiles for everyone's sake.
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happiestcpl
7 years ago
It's "kind of" Ok if they call themselves average/athletic on their profiles because that is how they perceive themselves. And you can always ask photos (if they are recent) to evaluate if their subjective perceptions are same as what you think they are. But lies about age and 5-10 year-old photos are the most pointless and frustrating ones. For us, it's basically the same thing as telling us that we are idiots. When we meet a couple who look totally different or aged than what they initially reveal in messages or photos, we get really frustrated (as if I and my partner are dumb and dumber and we won't believe what we see with our own eyes but believe what they initially told/showed us before we met them). Luckily hasn't happened to us often!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Definitely, agree with all. Very frustrating when their pics look different.. or taken from different angles which changes their entire facial features. Or when the photo is from several years ago - do they seriously think people on these sites are desperate and will sleep with anyone just because they've made the time and effort to meet for coffee/drink? I've been disappointed many times, so these days will always 'meet first before play' - no matter how great their photos look. In regards to smoking - I smoke sometimes (trying to quit). But am very mindful of the fact that a majority of people these days do not smoke. If I am going to play with a non-smoker or vaper, I don't smoke for a few hours beforehand, wash my hands, spray hair perfume, body perfume.. the lot (all in moderation - that's not to say I am walking perfume bottle), brush my teeth. have mints - lol. In short, I take great care and respect the fact that the other person is not a smoker. In fact, not one person I have met or played with has ever smelt or even suspected I smoked :-) SO, it can be done. I do this because when I have quit in the past, or reduced my cigarette intake, it was not attractive to smell smoke on another person... I don't mind a subtle smell. just not a heavy ashtray smell.
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usrightnow_Again
7 years ago
I've spoken about a variety of lies on profiles in the past. From age-shifters, to Very old, or aspirational, or just plane stolen photos. Dishonesty in preferences and so on also. Why do people do it? Because they think they can get away with it, lack respect for other users of this site, believe their needs come above all else, or, a few might actually believe the shit they tell themselves. First and foremost, they're lying to themselves. We have come across age-shifters, those using old and non-representative photos, the old, "oh, the wife is busy tonight, bit I'm free", with photo of them in a hotel room and only one old one of the partner, on holiday. It is frustrating, it's time wasting, the world is full of those concerned with satisfying their own needs only. When I have brought this up in the Forums in the past, many of those frustrations and questions, were met with disinterest and silence. A few have, over time, come clean with having "parked their age" for a period. We aren't looking for anyone at present, so not such a problem at the moment. As a couple of people have mentioned, they eventually get found out, not by sleuthing, but just people with a decent memory, like Meander or myself, and some others, who then think, hang on... . This site is a great platform for us all to interact and meet, it makes sense to keep it so and call people out who abuse the privilege. Mr. urn. .
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'usrightnow_Again'I've spoken about a variety of lies on profiles in the past. From age-shifters, to Very old, or aspirational, or just plane stolen photos. Dishonesty in preferences and so on also. Why do people do it? Because they think they can get away with it, lack respect for other users of this site, believe their needs come above all else, or, a few might actually believe the shit they tell themselves. First and foremost, they're lying to themselves. We have come across age-shifters, those using old and non-representative photos, the old, "oh, the wife is busy tonight, bit I'm free", with photo of them in a hotel room and only one old one of the partner, on holiday. It is frustrating, it's time wasting, the world is full of those concerned with satisfying their own needs only. When I have brought this up in the Forums in the past, many of those frustrations and questions, were met with disinterest and silence. A few have, over time, come clean with having "parked their age" for a period. We aren't looking for anyone at present, so not such a problem at the moment. As a couple of people have mentioned, they eventually get found out, not by sleuthing, but just people with a decent memory, like Meander or myself, and some others, who then think, hang on... . This site is a great platform for us all to interact and meet, it makes sense to keep it so and call people out who abuse the privilege. Mr. urn. . But actually speaking up like Koolgrey did in the first place so there was something to refer back to. Kudos to him... Peachy
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
I notice. I give you credit where credit is due. Thanks for your contributions. :) Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
My apologies for not reading more thoroughly to be able to respond to the whole in a holistic manner. I agree with what you have said essentially, it's just that I have been on the flip side of appreciation after my final acceptance that white lies can add up to dark clouds when there are enough of them to blind us from the dark truth. and Yes, you have spoken up too and received yet another response. This is a public forum that anyone can join, and for our own security we need to be on our toes and not believe everything we are told is my lesson of the 2018. Peachy, has met many great people from the place, don't get me wrong!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Meander'And Kool You are the bestest, the Watson to my Sherlock. Not that there's any sleuthing going on... Peachy
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