M55
Looks:VERY Attractive
February 06 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
Good point - beauty is in the eye of the beholder! I would never say that I am very attractive! Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
The profiles I raise an eyebrow to are the "he says about her-she says about him" types. The HE. Descriptions seem to always be a little more glowing and reference his absolute desire to offer pleasure. Not hard to work out who wrote the profile. DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree, I've come across many profiles of men describing themselves as "Really attractive" and thought "Really?" Then of course there are also the ones that are conventionally hot and may or may not do it for me. But even you get told how good-looking you are every single day, labelling yourself that way makes you sound a bit too fond of yourself to me and I'm not a fan of vanity. Of course I understand a lot don't mean it that way, but personally I find it as much of a turn-off as profiles listing safe sex as "If required".
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RHP User
12 years ago
To be fair, if you are ridiculously good looking ( and there are a few on here) you have every right to put Very Attractive on your profile. But the guys that do it for me are the ones who are good looking and don't know it, have fantastic personalities and humbly write "Average" on their profiles. I much prefer a bit of rough than buff.
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Really Fuckable. HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
at some people's definitions of just about every category on RHP profiles. But what I find attractive might be world's apart from what the average punter describes as attractive. There's also some very attractive people who just have a terrible photo on here. I'll make my decision when I meet them in the flesh. mmmm ... flesh ... now that's a very attractive word.
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RHP User
12 years ago
is categorically very attractive.
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Quoting 'paint_me' is categorically very attractive. Hell yeah. I noticed too ~ It's like bubble wrap! Don't you just wanna get in there and pop it? HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't care if he's a god, "very attractive" is an instant turn-off for me. "Attractive" would suffice. Some people are clearly conventionally attractive and it's reasonable that they know it, and it could be seen as silly to pretend otherwise. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissBishere
12 years ago
as beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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RHP User
12 years ago
'Ruggedly Handsome' choice so I went with attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so it's hard to call yourself very attractive.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Again looks are entirely subjective and appearances in someone's eye are entirely up to the discretion of the viewer. One person's Adonis is someone else' "hills have eyes"......just sayin'. Beauty's only skin deep but ugliness goes to the bone.... ~ Indy
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RHP User
12 years ago
....yes. Definitely in the eye of the beholder. I changed mine from Average to Attractive, as I have been told by (most) of my men "friends" the latter. Gotta start somewhere, I guess.... And, just quietly, I don't ever believe the VERY attractive ones.................... ;)-
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
I'm listed that way, because MrParadise thought I should. Am an ex-model and in real life I'm bombarded with superficial compliments whenever I make the effort to scrub up. So yeah, just that label only really works for when I've made an effort.
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RHP User
12 years ago
a guy who classifies himself as thats when I see his photo.. Usually I can see that he's clearly very into himself - but very attractive? Methinks not.... I think I've got "see my photo", 'cause you need to judge that. I can scrub up reasonably and I don't (usually) scare babies. Make of that what you will.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The looks debate is subjective in the exact same way as the build/weight question. These selections are based on what society as a whole considers to be attractive so that's who to blame if you have an issue with confident people believing they are 'very attractive'. I'm pretty sure you know if most of the population considers you attractive or whether you are an ugly pog...lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
MrsParadise is very attractive ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Back when I worked crowd control part of my duties was obviously to gauge how drunk people were using my own system, as alcometers are useless in determining "drunkeness." So...I devised a single question system.... That question was:- "Do you find me attractive?" If they say yes....they are asked to leave... If they say no they're doing pretty well :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
i just quickly had to change mine from very very attractive to just plain old stunning pmsl lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's just beer goggles lurk ? Or bad lighting... 😈😈💋💋 Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
What was going through my mind atm looking at your tongue pic Mr Gazpacho. Give you one wild guess :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
Both :) and that's why it worked!!! Because IF in bad lighting, and were too incoherent due to drugs or alcohol that they actually said yes....lol then it was wayyyyyyyyyy past their bed time :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
They didn't have very VERY attractive for me, bit pissed off
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RHP User
12 years ago
I find your bum attractive
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't find anything wrong with people choosing that option 'very attractive' when filing out their profile. There are some very attractive men and women on here; physically (that's what that section is about, no? It's not about beauty or manners etc it's about physical appearance, how appealing they are to look at, how sexually alluring they are) I just see it as that's how they feel about themselves and more power to them. When I look at someone's profile I take that into consideration and I avoid those that list themselves as average or below (but then again I'm shallow at times). I have attractive on mine because that's how I feel and believe I look In my experience, though limited, I have found that the guys that have listed themselves as very attractive turn out to be very attractive (to me) in the flesh. - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Tired of being less than average.....
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Nat27' I don't find anything wrong with people choosing that option 'very attractive' when filing out their profile. There are some very attractive men and women on here; physically (that's what that section is about, no? It's not about beauty or manners etc it's about physical appearance, how appealing they are to look at, how sexually alluring they are) I just see it as that's how they feel about themselves and more power to them. When I look at someone's profile I take that into consideration and I avoid those that list themselves as average or below (but then again I'm shallow at times). I have attractive on mine because that's how I feel and believe I look In my experience, though limited, I have found that the guys that have listed themselves as very attractive turn out to be very attractive (to me) in the flesh. - Posted from rhpmobile And a good fair answer, and caring to another before your self, not to jade the meanings to the questions. If we leave physical where it is, no need to look, then we could wander to just how attractive you are Nat27 Mado Mado Tara xx
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Lol... I think I have a bit of an idea! I dedicate my tongue to you, my long legged friend! So wonderful to see your profile around again... You should "do" Sydney! :p Love you Hugs Gazpacho xxxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
One of the "My looks" options to choose from is "Ask me". I've never seen that one I think and am not sure how I would interpret it if I did.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's similar to body type, some of the profiles say average or ample and I think really, if that's average or ample they mustn't think much of their body shape. I'd rate them wow but that is my perception
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51' Really Fuckable. HugsGazpacho And next to 'Experimental' it should have the number of drinks required..... JGIncredibly FuckableRelatively Attractive
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RHP User
12 years ago
A bit put of by "very attractive", because I think, "what's the point he wouldn't be interested in me". Would they go below "attractive" in their own search??
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RHP User
12 years ago
I felt uncomfortable marking attractive because I know people see things different. So I remember asking myself, are you attractive, and I thought how the fuck do I know, and who am I to judge. Shouldnt that be answered by someone else. ? But' seeing there was no one else 'I thought back on some gracious compliments I received over time and ran with that. Ive been called some pretty unsavoury things over the years but never ugly , so i seen no point in underselling myself here with a description, so it was attractive.. To me' I have no control on what others think and I know there is alot of ppl who will try anything to degrade anyone because of their own lack of self esteem. They should replace " very attractive ' with are you a very happy person ? So'.... all of us are very attractive in our own way... just ask our mums...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I find someone rating them self as very attractive a big turn off.I think its ok for women to rate them self, but men..ughhDon't think it would be fair to have an option for others to rate members.. i have seen this on other websites.Best thing IMHO is to click with someone on line and then meet.If you both have a mutual attraction to one another after meeting well..Lets get ready to rumble! As for me i have posted in my profile i am Average! Cause i like people to judge me on other things than looks!How do women do it? Being judged on looks .... even if they have more to offer as a person.I would not like to be judged on my looks
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RHP User
12 years ago
Jay_Me and it's so true - Posted from rhpmobile
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rupamohan
12 years ago
Based on feedback (not from mom) we are Avg to just above. All description are subjective and likely to be scaled upward. Some profiles will state decryption based on independent feedback. Some will be based on own assessment. Uncommon description may simply go thru more scrutiny. I guess the reasons can be -Many people become uncomfortable in uncommon situation. -Also we have little experience of uncommon situation and that tends to increase the subjectivity. I will prefer to be as fair to "Very attractive" description profiles as much I am to others. ******************************************* Regular forum users - Thanks for keeping forum alive and all the best with others. Please note reply to me is unwanted if it is useless and doesn't meet RHP policy. Such replies will make me hard to respect you!!! Others - Useless replies are welcomed too, to encourage diversity among forum users. Lurkers specially couples under 40 feel free to say anything. How I define Regulars - Forum has about 125K posts. Do an adv search with your name to get your post count. If it is >125. You are regular to me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks Nat... It's one of them questions where you're damned if you do and damned if you don't..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Attractive ??? Yep....to everyone?? No....but that's life :) I don't aim to please everyone as I know I can't.... But I can repel anyone.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
People will judge regardless of what you have in your profile. 'See my Photo" I feel is most appropriate for me as I'm the older of the two and I think my lovely wife is attractive so I'll, 9 times out of 10, be the one letting the team down, whether it be the way I look, the age factor, or all of the above. It's quite simple, you can't judge people on a picture or a few lines of txt. Some people are charming and witty on txt but have the personality of a phone pole in person and others think they're all that which makes the instant ugly on the inside. We prefer to see people in the flesh regardless of how they brand themselves, problem is there, we just have to find a couple that stays in contact because we can hardly get out ha! ha... Never judge a book by its cover they say.. Well, same goes for profiles I think.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You both look 'very attractive' to me so I doubt anyone is letting the team down, but then again, what do I know (one man's meat is another man's poison) - Posted from rhpmobile
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moreforyou69
12 years ago
Great topic! It's puzzled me for years. A females 'attractiveness' seems a lot more obvious and definable than a males. Maybe guys should be sorted by general description terms like 'rugged', 'groomed', etc. Then you ladies could filter your 'type', and us guys could stop guessing about what you are expecting to see? :-) Xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you can define attractive by the number of looks you get, I must be very attractive because I get almost all males and females looking at me (not my face of course, my chest) as I walk down any street. It is a sport for my husband, he likes to walk a couple metres behind me just to watch peoples reactions (thankfully he is so dull and average looking no one notices him watching). He says it's quite comical the reaction of some women, who almost immediately after noticing me try to puff up their own chest.
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RHP User
12 years ago
For the record, I think you both look equally fuckable. Just sayin'.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Attractive for my age group....46 Hideous in the morning....70 Less attractive in daylight...50 Attractive in photos....40 Attractive at night....38 hahahahahaha
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RHP User
12 years ago
O.M.G people take a chill pill man,,,who cares what they say...the point is that what is attractive to one is not necessary attractive to another,,,man who say they are attractive its only 10% of the time correct. Wel,,,l all you lovely people in here if you can't judge how you look then you need serious check up...lol..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51' Lol... I think I have a bit of an idea! I dedicate my tongue to you, my long legged friend! So wonderful to see your profile around again... You should "do" Sydney! :p Love you Hugs Gazpacho xxxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Cause I am Sensational. BUT attractiveness is subjective.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Attractive: appealing to look at; sexually alluring (alluring: mysteriously attractive or fascinating; seductive) So yep, I am attractive and if I put in some effort I am Very attractive but in the end others can judge for themselves - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
And that's that ... as we walk away contented ....
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RHP User
12 years ago
In all honesty .. there's one thing over the years ive come to find & that is .. that beauty really is in the eye of the beholder . What I may/may not consider attractive .. another person just may so that's just the way it goes .. lol. That being said .. I have seen a lot of people's profiles on here that state "very attractive" but to me they aren't so each to their own i guess :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am not one to consider myself under that title .. lol . As for drinks/lighting influencing ones perception .. im quite sure it does for some & last but not least .. i personally think that option is really unecessary as having the "attractive" option .. should pretty much cover that whether the person is deemed very attractive by others or not .. lol .
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RHP User
12 years ago
I will go 2 directions,1--How they look and carry themselves.2--personality they have to have it.I posted on here ages ago that I picked up a younger spunk bubble and some good sex but second time wewent back to her place.After seeing how filthy her place was I high tailed it out of there and that was it.everyone has different ideas on this subject.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have found some of the guys who list average on their profile to have Adonis-like hotness. I have therefore learnt not to bother using that descriptor as a guide. I have also found that some exaggerate the size of their package or state their age as significantly younger than they are and this has led to my occasional annoyance when meeting in person. I guess it's better to undersell and be and be a pleasant surprise than to oversell and have someone feeling disappointed or that you are a liar.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Let the picture do the talking,they say a picture says a thousand words ,however i Do believe in balance between looks and character.let people put whatever they want the question is why does it have such effect on u what others classify themselves as
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MissBishere
12 years ago
I agree with what you're saying but you could get away with very attractive and totally fuckable....just sayin. I do hate when they select "see my photo" and they are a grey ghost though.
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HereToPlease77
12 years ago
Rupamohan... You are seriously one strange couple!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I see a point of difference..... Someone may LOOK fuckable.... but their personality is toxic.Then, I pass.. and leave them for some other poor schmuck to pander to.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Haven't read all the comments, but great post!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have their own perception on how they look! I guess if they the self confidence to put "very attractive" then who are we to bust their balloon.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm so attractive, sometimes I even seduce myself.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Big awww shucks to you two!!! Xx :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mmm its a difficult question,the people or persons who know me could probably categorize me,to me i am what i am,straight down the line and what you see is what you get,obviously a couple of hidden talents thrown in along the way,but hey not into self appreciation there to be discovered on the road ahead ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
There is the option to 'do not display' which is what I have selected ... ... but by it's very definition ... I am
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RHP User
12 years ago
I generally don't bother replying to messages from people who describe themselves as "very attractive". Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I know many people who may look "average", but since getting to know them, and discovering their personality, I see them as absolutely gorgeous.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Somebody who is "very attractive" in the looks department, to have "super" model good looks and the body to match.
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RHP User
12 years ago
My assumption has been that if someone lists themselves as very attractive they are implying they will only be interested in people who also fall firmly into the conventionally 'more attractive than usual' category. Is that the case, though? I'd be interested in hearing from those who choose 'very attractive' why they do so and how it relates (or not) to what they're looking for. Mrs Paradisepair is the only one I've noticed in this thread that has openly mentioned she's listed as very attractive and her reasoning for doing so sounds more practical than proud. Interestingly, their profile doesn't mention looks otherwise, which I would typically read as a couple who appreciate attractiveness but aren't fixated on it and see other factors as being just as important. Like KiwiBred we've not answered the looks question, and like others we would prefer to avoid designating a body type, either, as both are so entirely subjective. We're conscious of not wanting to 'oversell' ourselves, and we're aware that although we find each other irresistible it doesn't necessarily mean others will. ;) Mrs OC
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RHP User
12 years ago
LOL :D
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RHP User
12 years ago
There is a sign on the wall of the bar at the Tathra Pub. It states... "If you think our barmaids are good looking.... You've had enough" Personally, I like to find something nice in everyone. They may not be 'very' attractive, but a happy smile and a kind hart is very attractive to me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I rated mrs h as v/attractive as I think she is. I rated myself as average because they don't have "head like a busted crab" as an option. Sad but true.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We find it a bit intimidating. As someone stated earlier 'what would they want with us?' is the question that springs to mind and it makes it unlikely that we would contact/reply the profile in question.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The real trouble with very attractive people with supermodel bodies..... ....... Is that we're not very well liked lol ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
...there's a lot more to life than being really, really, ridiculously good looking. And I plan on finding out what that is.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Since my height, weight, BMI don't correlate to anything even remotely attractive (sniff sniff) being body disproportionate sux ballz I tell ya!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
You look damn fine to me what the hell .. lol .
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RHP User
12 years ago
Attractiveness is in the attitude and a person's confidence & how you present yourself. Hence an attractive person on the outside may ruin it by being ugly on the inside.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
I'm no shrinking violet and that post was generalised jest. I agree with what others are saying though, when people who list themselves as very attractive and contact me I instantly think "Oh Lord, what could they possibly want with me?" We could put this down to lack of body confidence in our individual selves but I think it's more that we percieve those persons aren't going to be attracted to us upon meeting so we sort of don't pursue a meet n greet. I'm trying to kick this habit, especially after the gotgeous Adonis last Saturday night actually kissing me back and sighing contentedly as my teeth and tongue grazed his jawline to his neck then back to his perfect lips. You know, maybe these very attractive people aren't so "hung up" on themselves and are open to the "Average", "you can be the judge", "See my pictures" ones among us. ~ Indy, open to meet the "beautiful" people 💋 and some not so typically pretty.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
You promote and carry yourself very well. You also know how to rock a spa 😍 lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Our "very attractive" insecurities go back to days of the schoolyard. You always had your "cool" group and they were all the attractive ones. You always wished you were just like them, pretty, cool, all the guys hung around them. Just once you wished they spoke to you, acknowledged you existed, especially the hot cool guys. As you grow and mature you realise that looks are only a small part of a person and if their personality wasn't very nice then that takes their "attractiveness" away! Give me a sexy smile, or gorgeous eyes but mostly a fantastic personality, and I'm yours!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Learn from a Grand Master, eh lol Some people are just ugly everywhere LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well thank you indy that I will take as a compliment :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
hmm, is that a tramp stamp? On a dude?? Ask a stupid question?? Yeah I know the rest!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Its also the company in the spa that makes it rock :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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hellsxc
12 years ago
I tend to agree with most that I find it a little off putting when I see this on a flirt received or message. Im all for taking care of oneself but thats borderline superficial, which im not. I have met some people who look great in pics but not so in person and vice versa. Attraction comes in all shapes and sizes its all about animal magnetism at the end of the day. To me a personality and humour is the deal breaker ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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hellsxc
12 years ago
Is supposed to say deal maker !!!!! ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
12 years ago
I have had some real surprises with the: - very attractive - athletic - thick penis - a light/social drinker - a non-smoker, etc. Misleading labellings in my entire time on RHP!!! It was truly disappointing when I witnessed that profiles didn't meet the reality!!! I seriously don't understand why some people need to lie even though their motive is clear! But hey, each to their own and I respect their chosen choice......just don't come and bother me again, that's all! 😡 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wouldn't call it lying when it come to someone describing their looks and body shape. It's how they see themselves and it's up to you to have a look at their photos before meeting to then decide if they are attractive and athletic to you. All these words mean a different thing to everyone. Athletic: physically strong, fit and active I describe myself as athletic because I am physically strong and active and agile but I don't have a muscly body. I think each person's profile is meant to serve the purpose of telling us how each person sees themselves and what they are offering us. More power to those confident enough to present themselves in a good light. The rest about smoking and drinking, yes those would be the lies but not stuff like very attractive/athletic etc - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some of these descriptions are self delusional. I have learned that everyone in this place is slightly shorter and wider than their pics suggest 😄... Except for me of course... 😋 I'm much taller and better looking in real life 😘😘 Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hahahahaha! I'm in agreement with you, I've seen profiles that say attractive & I think, to who? It is all in the eye of the beholder & an attractive personally can make a person much more attractive than initial impressions... I let my pics give the impression of my looks... By the way, the 'really fuckable' is really funny! ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I seem to not only encounter not people most attractive in my opinion but .. also the ugliest in nature & spirit .. ! Whooo i always get the trifecta in losers it's seems .. must be doing something wrong lol :/
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love your new profile pic!!
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sweetgem
12 years ago
It was my attempted Christmas theme for a fine dining at The Rocks for 2013 Christmas dinner :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lol I won't even look at their profile. But great point Mister Green, who decides they are very attractive? I know I consider myself a great singer after a few too many drinks but that doesn't mean I actually am... - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
12 years ago
And Passion8-1 you aren't alone in attracting the "weirdos" and "undesirables" it seems to occur in waves....😖 ~ Indy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can't beleive most of you are a bunch of bitches (including the blokes) First of all most people really know where they fit in that category some talk themselves up some talk themselves down, but most will be honest about it. There's nothing wrong with whatever category you fit into, i think the people with the real issues are the ones that need to make such a big deal out of it! To the guys being bitches..... you make me laugh!
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RHP User
12 years ago
yeah I guess 'happy go lucky' is in the eye of the beholder too. Calling most of us a bunch of bitches could be misconstrued.
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MissBishere
12 years ago
But your profile says ask me? So what does that make you? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I couldn't be bothered responding to him this morning... And funnily enough... I still can't 😄😄 Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Who want to get in bed with me that I'm stunning, a goddess of delight, that I'm VERY attractive............. Does this mean I shouldn't believe what they're telling me :(
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' And Passion8-1 you aren't alone in attracting the "weirdos" and "undesirables" it seems to occur in waves....😖 ~ Indy I may be a weirdo but I'm definately desirable.
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RHP User
12 years ago
True except mine seems to be more like a 23 year tidal wave if that's the case .. lol . I'm like a total loser magnet aha :S
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