Nice guys finish last

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  12 years ago

  Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' May I recommend, Please DO NOT change for anyone. Those that have the "I don't care" or "wad ever" attitude, can suck my balls! If someone says that to me, it says that they are inconsiderate of others and they are dismissing ownership and responsibility of their own actions. It's very selfish and rude. Let me tell you now and believe me, It does not work for them!! They DO NOT cruise through life not worrying about others or the destruction they leave! They are indeed selfish in my eyes. Do you really want to be this way and have a heartless, horrible attitude?? I can't imagine why anyone would want be like that?? No way could I be like that, it's not me! Foxy for selfish and rude, it seems to be working well for me

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  12 years ago

  Im reading many believe they are empathetic with a 'but ' .. Obviously hurt from lifes experiences so up goes the barriers.. Fair enough, those experiences make us what we are today and we become careful. I came from humble beginnings and thats where Im leaving it. I believe Im a very empathetic person. I pride myself I helped many strangers, mostly elderly. I just seem to find them or them me...lol..

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  12 years ago

  I would consider myself one of the nicest guys you'd ever meet. Lived experience for me says nice guys do finish last. Our internal fortitude says we can't change who we are but we grow an exterior that allows us to respond differently, but deep down we are still either an ass, bitch, courageous, caring and so on. I feel the trouble arises when the internal fortitude and the hard exterior clash and we question about who we want to be to survive and who we are born to be. just saying, have a wonderful Easter guys

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  12 years ago

  I consider myself a nice guy and refuse to be a bad boy. Well for one is that I have been blessed and cursed with nice guy looks. Always is getting a no on here because I look like the guy that is nice, type of guy you'd meet at work or somewhere and think oh he looks nice but doubt he would be naughty. That's fine, I am what I am and so nice is what I am. But I would beg to differ to many of the posts on here that nice guys are somehow indecisive, weak, submissive and that bad boys have the monopoly on taking what they want out of life etc. I think there is a choice in life and how you go about things. You can be nice and get what you want. It is all about whether your approach is stepping over or on people, or being charming, nice and perhaps manipulative in a very nice way. I'll always be nice, it is my nature because I like to treat people how I would like to be treated. But I am determined, will seize what I want and will be nice about it. So rubbish to nice guys finish last, nice guys can finish first, bad boys in my experience are insecure and just bullies. Ladies on here may at some stage want to experience a bad boy for various reasons but usually it is a nice guy they want to end up with. So makes me think, bad boys in the end finish last.

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  12 years ago

  The difference between NICE and GOOD:A NICE Fella takes a woman out on a date, then goes home and goes to bed.A GOOD fella takes a woman out on a Date, goes to bed and then goes home.

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  12 years ago

  I'm a nice guy. No doubt about it. I go out of my way for people I barely know. It doesn't bother me what the end result is. It's all about the effort. My goal in life is to be remembered as a good man when I leave this existence. No more, no less. Very simple. If some of the ladies on here would give me their time, I know I could definitely add to their life. Haha. But same here, I wouldn't change for anyone. I am who I am and do what I do. It's all about the output you give, generally positive outputs means receiving positive inputs.

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  12 years ago

  Mado Tara, lots of respect to you for taking a stand. A lot of people pretend they would, but when push comes to shove the crowd of supporters who ash they've 'got your back' seems to thin out fairly quickly! But this doesn't have anything to do with being nice, per se. I think it's about reciprocity. I will support you if you agree to support me, sorta thing. In that context, being 'nice' sometimes means standing against the crowd, taking risks, and suffering consequences. So maybe 'nice' should actually be replaced by the word 'brave'. I don't think brave people finish last. In my mind, they always finish first.

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  12 years ago

  Quoting 'LadyTuscan' Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' May I recommend, Please DO NOT change for anyone. Those that have the "I don't care" or "wad ever" attitude, can suck my balls! If someone says that to me, it says that they are inconsiderate of others and they are dismissing ownership and responsibility of their own actions. It's very selfish and rude. Let me tell you now and believe me, It does not work for them!! They DO NOT cruise through life not worrying about others or the destruction they leave! They are indeed selfish in my eyes. Do you really want to be this way and have a heartless, horrible attitude?? I can't imagine why anyone would want be like that?? No way could I be like that, it's not me! Foxy for selfish and rude, it seems to be working well for me I am who I am and I don't need anyone else to validate my attitude or comments. But I don't like it when I hurt or distress anyone I care about either.

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