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Paying for sex opinions?

January 31 2019

As a young fifo worker I’ve been more and more intrigued by the idea of paying for sex, both party’s get what they need. She gets money and I get sex simple. But I’m wondering what other people think on the subject and lads if you know of places to check out online or in wa let me know as I’m new to this and sometimes a lot of this doesn’t feel safe doing. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I’ve personally not met anyone yet on here however been a little busy till lately. (However if anyone interested feel free to message me) I’m an open guy, however molly what you just said is stupid.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Go for it! Like a lot of people have said, if that’s what you want and it work, then why not!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Do it.....No stress. No worries. Guaranteed shag. Lady gets paid, man gets laid....every body is happy. ....Unless of course you can score a shag off RHP then save your $$

  • ColeBarker

    ColeBarker

    7 years ago

    In my opinion I think its a good idea as long as your safe and clean about it. Essentially you are seeking companionship and a release, and if you have the money to pay for such services then engage in it. I will add though that this is just to meet your needs for release, you should still seek a partner or partners depending on your lifestyle choice that you can connect to on more of an emotional level. Sexual experience is made up of multiple areas and when you can find someone who can tick all the boxes, then the experience will me much more powerful. But in the mean time till you find someone who does nothing wrong with fullfilling those temporary needs and desire as long as your safe about it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I say... do what makes you feel good! Maybe do some investigation and talk to the woman(or man) before you have sex. You will know straight away if they enjoy their job or not. Then make your decision. You can still look for a FWB or girl friend in the meantime. Be safe and kind, I'm sure it will be an amazing experience for you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    @snap_dragon I’d venture 17hrs north for you... any day. On topic though... do what’s right, and feel right about what you do. No one can judge, so go and enjoy life.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I think my post has been deleted though I think people have been replying to it. Anyway, I actually meet 'more real' people through escorts than I do online dating. The escorts are usually the ones that ask why I don't have a girlfriend. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I also think there are a few comments that are bagging out escorts for making 'bad choices'... everyone makes bad choices but escort that are doing and who *still* do it think it's the BEST choice they've ever made. They're usually the most well adjusted ones too!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Everyone here has been super helpful and for those who pm’d advice and got to talking with me Thankyou very much.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Bro I’m an fifo engineer and I been paying for it for the last six months no heart breaks no problems

  • 86Jasindy

    86Jasindy

    7 years ago

    I have had all my partners with the exception of my current having paid for sex before meeting me. Honestly, if you have the money to do so, no harm done. Fifo workers work damn hard, have alot of money why not blow off some steam? Sex workers use protection, and provide a service to lonely men (and women). Another thing is if you aren't looking for the complications of a relationship, having a girl get attached, fall for you but just want clean sex with someone who doesn't have the illusion of this turning into something this may be the way to go. I say go for it

  • emmy128

    emmy128

    7 years ago

    You should contact me directly I know a few women

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Life is short!! If you can afford it, do it safely and do it often.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Single guy you have never met anyone off here? Have you paid for a membership and been able to send messages?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hi there young man. I have just started going to swinger's party's. I go to one venue as l enjoy love going there. Good people that host it great house have meet great people who are now great friends. Its up to you if you play there is no pressure to play. There is BBQ snacks BYO alcohol but plenty of bottled water and soft drink. 5 rooms to play in and you can start playing from 10.00pm to earlier hrs of the morning you don't need to bring anything just yourself and your drink. So single $100 or if you go with a female $50 but when you get over 70 people at once at party there is gas water electricity. So for a night of fun l think its cheap. This is in Melbourne by the way. So if you ever get invited go young man go why as there is always RESPECT.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'sweetnsensual' Single guy you have never met anyone off here? Have you paid for a membership and been able to send messages? Yes I was a fully paid member for the first couple of years, just checked my history & over 400 messages sent. It is as Rapunzel notes, I lived in an area with no members nearby. (not it is even worse as overseas) I am not complaining as it is what it is. I enjoy the forums (most of then anyway. :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' Yes I was a fully paid member for the first couple of years, just checked my history & over 400 messages sent. It is as Rapunzel notes, I lived in an area with no members nearby. (not it is even worse as overseas) I am not complaining as it is what it is. I enjoy the forums (most of then anyway. :-) That's the same issue I have (despite being inner city)... send messages, no replies. Either something is wrong with me or people are too picky.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Charlie Sheen was in front of a judge, and the judges says, “ I don’t get it, you’re a good looking, successful man, why do you have to pay prostitutes for sex”. Charlie replied with “I don’t pay them for sex your honour, I pay them to leave”. True story. Too many people think paying for sex is “desperate”, when in fact it can be the opposite. Good luck OP, I echo what others have said, do what is right for you, and be safe.

  • canbefun4u2

    canbefun4u2

    7 years ago

    well in years past I'm had the dealing with escorts but never payed for service .exchange of goods it was ...but I feel sugar dating is a breach or rules in red hot pie .its all about meetting couples singles and having fun be it once or many times not a hook up for escorts .ladys of the nite. hookers or what ever ..I maybe wrong times are changing .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hi i Moonlite as a Escort and can honesty say that im seeing more and more FIFO workerz each day and i ask them all Y A Escort all there responses r 1st itz cheaper than findn a date.. 2nd Less complicated 3rd Not goin 2 Stalk, fall in luvv etc Just 2 name a few... Plus also its not a 1 off nearly 90% i c on a regular basis when on time off... So there U have it straight fm the horses mouth. Bottom line as long as yr comfortable and willing totally yr choice. Cheerz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Go for it mate I reckn I'm a fifo been doing it for years no women on here or couples reply to any messages you send them anyway least you get a root for a hour and you can pick who ever you want to fuck most women on here are full of shit I've got a couple of regular girls but we just fuck buddies

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Im quite vanilla but i see nothing wrong with it you earn the money so spend how you like as youre only young once

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I will have to say if I was that hard up and need a sexual release. I would still not pay for it I’d rather find a nice bbw lady who would really enjoy having someone treat her to a adventurous spontaneous open minded sexual experience over few drinks then pay 150-600 for 30 mins with a skinny open door Hooker

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Im not sure why you think BBW would be so grateful for your attention that they would have sex with you. Ive more respect for single men who pay for sex than I have for cheaters.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'NaughtyPandaM38' I will have to say if I was that hard up and need a sexual release. I would still not pay for it I’d rather find a nice bbw lady who would really enjoy having someone treat her to a adventurous spontaneous open minded sexual experience over few drinks then pay 150-600 for 30 mins with a skinny open door Hooker You'd be surprised that there are a fair few BBW escorts out there. Not all escorts are 'skinny open door hookers'... there's an escort out there for your tastes!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    It's the oldest profession out there, so there is and always has been a need for Sex Workers both Male & Female.If its new to you & you are a bit apprehensive try the good old Rub & Tug, a great de-stress and relatively inexpensive.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Number 1 rule in fucking hookers . * Never talk about fucking hookers . Trust me , it will eventually come back and bite you on the ass. Did I just tell everyone I fucked hookers?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Number 1 rule in fucking hookers . * Never talk about fucking hookers . Trust me , it will eventually come back and bite you on the ass. Did I just tell everyone I fucked hookers?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Why yes you did,twice even:) Hugs Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Lost cheaper than marrage and kids lol

  • Mike_Stone

    Mike_Stone

    7 years ago

    I'm all for "you do you and I do me" without any judgment taken. If people choose to do what they love as their desired career then I actually envy that. Though what a lot of us don't appreciate is being lured into a hot conversation only to realize half an hour later that it's a service rather than a natural agreement.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Paying for sex through a company or organisation is no diffrent to a 1 nite stand really, When u think about what a 1 nite stand cost will cost you anyway, Even if u met a lady at nite club/ Pub and end up buying her 4 or 5 drinks befor you both leave, maybe breakfast befor the quick escape next day. So is it not the same as paying a lady who actualy does it for a living. I mean minius the intimacy maybe, but I guess if she is good there is always the good old "Fake" orgasm for your benefit.... Good luck on ya quest.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I fuck escorts/ sex workers all the time, Why the hell not! Most if not all the girls enjoy the job and if you are half decent looking and respectful towards them they will show you an amazing time. Its so much easier to spend $250-$300 have an amazing hour, blow your load and go home and enjoy the rest of your evening! Dont get me wrong I still enjoy going on dates and bedding ladies that way but sometimes I just Can’t be bothered with the effort required!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    It is quite a legit question and one I am intrigued at and also willing to answer. After being here for a while as a single girl I have had many a treat seeing men, couples, groups and even parties. After a while I realised there was more to this and entered the world of escorting as a mature woman in 2017. Not all women in the industry are strict and painful, there are alot of us women out there, just girls realising we can enjoy sex as a transaction with someone who needs something special for an hour or so where both parties can enjoy and move on with our lives. I would highly recommend this for you as a treat for being FIFO, just do a bit of homework as the industry has a little trickery within it. As a general rule, if youre trying to get a bargain you might end up wasting your money. Women that enjoy their work and know their worth will translate this in their rates. Good luck!! x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    There is nothing wrong with paying for sex,its the oldest professional in the world!!! As long as you agree with the services and prices first everyone is a winner. Just make sure their clean,don't wont no nasty lumps.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Never done it but have no issue if I wanted to expand on s desire with one of the ladies, it can't be that frowned soon when guys openly send Dick pics over the literary to strangers?? Opinions?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Ive seen guys complaining in the chat room that they paid hundreds for RHP membership but havent had sex yet. Yet they would " never pay for it"! Apparently a dick pic is the gateway to success......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    A lot of my friends do it. The money they make is ridiculous! People see it as a business arrangement.. and it’s too clinical. But — that’s part of the filtering. Most are very down to earth laid back and great to chat to! I’ve heard fhe Asians are very quick and are money orientated. But I don’t see the problem in this at least you know they are clean and with the rules people complain about — not going down on them without a condom , or them without a dam. Or kissing. Well imagine all the people they see and they do all that with everyone.. there is a reason why its called safe sex! Do you really want to do all that with everyone that one way to catch herpes real fast. The upside of seeing a escort you know what your getting. You could spend your money on here and hope to god you get a date and then you may not even get laid even after you bought her endless drinks and dinner all night. Most people see escorts because it’s easier. Yes a lot more expensive but you don’t have to worry about her calling you the next day. You get the time and attention and sex you need and deserve.. so hey ... Go for It! Word of warning. Go for the verified accounts. Most will say on the photo on the website verified. Check out escorts and babes. Scarlet blue & escortify.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    I agree! I have witnessed it in the chat room too. These men are happy to pay for membership, which they think entitles them to free unlimited sex. Yet they are not happy to pay a prostitute. Weird, just weird. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I agreed with blankcanvas your money how cares what others think. But also be safe about it. There are some real grubs out there. Check out the sites she listed at least you’d have a better chance.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Pay for it sweetie.... too many on rhp that are time wasters....

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    7 years ago

    Rapunzel, i love you stile. Very straight to the point. And you are such a gorgeous woman. Op. Don't worry about no one, apart from your self. Best of luck, and go for it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Do what ever makes you happy! RHP is a great way to meet like minded people. If it’s just a shag you’re after, either avenues will get you that. If you’re after fwb so you get a regular shag then RHP is a great place to start. Thing i like about fwb, is the sex actually improves as you come to understand what turns each other on. And I don’t have to do their washing!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Mate I’ve paid for it more then I care to remember. My tips are go to a reputable place, be sober the madams and the girls hate drunks, always wear a condom, be polite and establish what the rules are. They will vary from place to place. The girls do this for a living and are fully aware your nervous so go along with the small talk, if a position or something isn’t working for you say something. It’s a hell of a lot of fun, cheaper then chasing some bird in a club and you will never get the I’m pregnant phone call like some random club hook up. Go for gold

  • honkytonk

    honkytonk

    7 years ago

    maybe its with cash, maybe gifts, maybe just maybe as a compromise to oneself. some deep shit there to ponder

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Why can’t you do both? Look on here and pay for an escort/sex worker. Ideally you want to be with someone who thinks you’re grand but that can take a little time & effort, no? And I’m thinking time is in short supply when you’re a fifo worker. I guess it could be an impediment to dating as well, you’re here, you’re there, it’s tough when you are trying to work on something in the hope it becomes something more intimate. Sexual contact is a need as primal as other desires of the body, like sleep and food. There’s no shame in fulfilling that need and using your disposable income to do that, no shame at all. And I bet she’ll think your money’s grand, and you earnt that money doing what you do, that’s a part of you. There’s a litany of relationships on which economic gain is the motivating factor.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Don't even batter an eye lid mate.......forget about the paper involved at all....you get your blue balls transformed...skip in your step ...and $10-100k's cheaper than the majority of people are unwittingly paying for it ....non issue.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    @YoungLad97 - Flick us a message and meet up for a beer. We are both ex-escorts. We know the Perth industry very well. We can help you find what you want, if you want to go there. As for the thread in general - It is so nice that you got so much positive feedback. Both by pm and on the thread itself. Because, to be honest, a lot of what has been written in the last 8 pages is quite awful :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Do what you want to do. Where you stick your dick is your business. One piece of advie: You get what you pay for. If you go for the cheap ones, you may as well have a wank. www.escortsandbabes.com.au

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Mate nothing wrong with it and in my opinion as long as it’s clean and very clear on the service that you get and ensure if you pay for an hour ensure the service last an hour it’s not just about sex persay that could include oral massage use the hour to your advantage fair enough it not going to be raw natural spontaneous in that respect but the benefits are its private and mutual in it benefits both parties evenly you also get to be selective theres room for negotiation and if you feel the service isn’t meet to the professionals service prior arrangements expectations agreements some girls are absolutely useless so cover yourself by clarifying the expectations and any discounts you expect if the service isn’t being met to the madam before you interact also if you are situation where you’re not happy make sure you agree with the madam to only a half hour session and the other half refunded to you due to being dissatisfied remember your the customer and you have to ensure you get what you pay for and if the experience isn’t what you paid for negotiating a discount prior will work in your favour and if they won’t agree only go a half hour service because you will get ripped off clarifying everything prior is paramount to your experience other benefits you get through this service are you don’t have to get to know it you don’t have to buy it drinks pay for dinners pay for hotels it won’t stalk you or want your phone number fuck your best mate on the side argue with you expect other shit from you you don’t care if it’s sulking won’t keep your kids from you take your car or house to name a few benefits it’s in agreed selective mutual service that benefits you without all the hassles and once you’re satisfied back to being single and any man that says they don’t pay for sex there in denial and lying every man pay for sex in one way or another it’s about how much you want to pay and and the convenience you want especially working fifo the amount of men screwed by women in this industry is uncountable

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Go for it mate I have they are very sexy and top grade if your willing to pay the extra 50 Legit I've had worse times with random girls from pubs and clubs who are just in the "please me" category Everything is worth s try

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Why not? There’s no shame in wanting a pleasurable experience. I’ve found a lot of my regs are FIFO and fetishes. Sometimes you can’t do that with anyone. You need someone highly discreet and experienced. Especially for servicing like pegging. You can’t just grab a girl at a bar and she’s going to be comfortable with that. Miss Luna 🌙

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Agree with Kokoflamingo, about wondering why a BBW woman would be grateful for the attention and open minded experience?? Just because a woman is carrying extra weight doesn't make her desperate or devoid of self-worth. Believe it or not, there are tons of men who are genuinely attracted to curvier women, too, and certainly not because the men are desperate themselves. I've dated men who look like they stepped out of a GQ magazine and I'm a size 18. Just sayin'. On the topic at hand, though to the OP... I say as long as you're careful about picking the ladies carefully and you're okay with the rules, go for it! Another option that I think someone else mentioned that might feel slightly less daunting to you would be sugar dating. Either way, best of luck to you...let us know how you go!

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    It's great to see so many open minded answers. I do see some very handsome, good looking men who have posted here who stated they have paid for sex (which is ok), but yet can not find a regular lover. I'm curious to why you have paid for sex. Is it because they choose not too? Have given up on meeting people?, lifestyle (as in FIFO), less hassles from women? . If only it were that simple for women. We kinda don't hear much about women going to male prostitues? Why's that? Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    That is good you pay for sex.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Why pay when so many are giving it away for free.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Partner and I have paid for it. Guaranteed action but the downfall - it’s fake. I’ve looked for an additional girl for so long, but haven’t been able to find one, so occasionally, we pay for our fun. What else can we do?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    where are the ones given it away iin Ayrbut

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    The prostitute is a superb analyst not only in evading the law but in initiating the unique constellation of convention and fantasies that produces a strangers orgasm.She lives by her wits as much as her body. She is a psychologist,actor,dancer,a performance artist of hyper developed social imagination. Straight men who visit prostitutes are valiantly striving to keep sex free from emotion duty family--in other words from society,religion and procreative Mother Nature..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    The prostitute is not as feminists claim the victim of men but rather their conqueror,an outlaw who controls the sexual channels between nature and culture.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    To the tv series Harlots set in 18th century London,one in eight women in London were prostitutes. Hugs Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    hell yes you could have been Rupunzel

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    When I was a lot younger, I did pay for it. I was never lucky with having a girlfriend. So the next best thing was too pay for it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Do it if you can afford it. Some chat sites charge outrageous amounts of money just to say hi to someone. Don’t feel ashamed for trying something at least once

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Adams

  • Shambles

    Shambles

    7 years ago

    Hey mate. Do your research and don’t just go for the cheapest! Beware bait and switch - photos of hot chicks and then it isn’t that person when you turn up. Lots of private escorts around that you can tell what they are like from their profile. Also remember to be polite and treat the escort with respect. Worth checking out what escorts say about potential clients on twitter. Just because you are paying you don’t have the right to be a douche. If you are nice and polite the service is always a lot better. If you find a good one you can have great hassle free sex.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Sex workers are safe and professional. Discuss what you're seeking prior to booking. If you find a regular you enjoy, then that's amazing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Paying for sex is ok but most of the girls selling it overcharge & really aren’t worth it . They just want the money . Why charge so much when we are supposed to enjoy it & it is something we are all given for free

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I’ve just come out of fifo work myself and don’t go out enough to meet people but hey I’m even thinking of doing it myself. Lol fwb . One rule I have always had is I don’t play in camp . That’s not a name I want. But I recon why not go for it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    For what it’s worth, I’ve had sugar arrangements where, as a sugar baby (SB), I’m committed to getting to know and connecting with my lover a little deeper than what you might expect from a traditional sex worker. Sugaring offers the opportunity negotiate exactly what either person wants with the aim of an ongoing arrangement supplemented by an allowance. The downsides are some SB’s aren’t as experienced or as professional as your traditional sex worker because they’re not they don’t exist to be a fuck buddy (though some are - depends on the arrangement), but that could also be part of the charm. Also, you may get banned for attempting a pay per meet or purely transactional encounter from sugar sites because the idea is that you’re gifting / providing allowance for someone in exchange for their companionship. Lots of grey areas, of course! Meaning, people can argue either for or against what exactly is sugaring, I just like that it’s an option for mature people to negotiate something that works for them. Just a thought! :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    @YoungLad97 there’s nothing wrong in paying for sex, I have plenty of girlfriends in that industry. Hell my husband is an ex male escort, that looks like Jason Momoa & Heath Ledger’s love child. Tall, dark, Handsome, big cock, charming, intelligent, can dance like Magic Mike, is funny as hell and the best sex of my life. I would’ve paid to hire him, he’s a god amongst men, and a truly rare specimen. Thank goodness for Tinder and luck. He’s also not jealous or possessive, certainly not insecure at all, I got lucky lol. Escorts are like cars, the expensive ones are like a luxury car and a great ride. The cheap ones are an STI waiting to happen, the sex will be shit and they’ll probably try and rob you. You get what you pay for, people that turn their noses up at top quality escorts have never experienced them, or are usually to poor to afford one. Stuck up conservative sensibilities aside, you end up paying for most women in one way or another buddy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    The Oxford English Dictionary defines it as "the practice and occupation of engaging in sexual activity with someone for payment." Some would argue that marriage is a form of prostitution if one party is being financially supported by another. If a man or a woman pays for another's dinner,hotel room etc with the expectation that the end result is sec.is that a form of prostitution. Is a "sugar"relationship not a form of prostitution" The permutations can be endless. Decide what suits you OP and don't worry about what others may think Hugs Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Cheap brothel or escort??? I have no experience with the cheap brothel variety, however spending a few hours in a nice hotel room with a beautiful, classy and womanly escort sounds like something a hard working fifo man deserves. If you find the right escort you become a regular client and you do actually get to build a connection with them. I’ve also never been told no to kissing, I’m not sure where that myth came from (maybe pretty woman lol). It’s like having an amazing girlfriend who is skilled in the bedroom, doesn’t need to be wined and dined with dates, and doesn’t mind when she doesn’t see you for months 😉 Book yourself an appointment next time you’re at home and see if it’s for you. It can’t possibly hurt to try. Good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Pay for it ?? Just do it...dating sites are full of shit. Very very hit n miss. Usually miss because most of the women are false or hookers anyway. You pay for it you end up with a nice young sexy woman and exactly what you want

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Nothing in life is easy, cheap or plentiful. Paying for sex not something I have do in a straight cash for sex but as a bloke you know there's a cost for any transaction with a Lady. What it comes down to is can you afford it. Can you;put your heart on the line,give up your mates,spend time in a wanky wine bar,let go of Friday night footy,sit around with her friends,afford the fuel, dinner, movie, drinks, flowers I say we pay for sex not matter whether we do it with the wallet or time but the reality is what is the 'transaction' by which we pay. The Money on the night stand before you leave, is simply that convince and short-term, which works for some of us some of the time. But sex is better when the "transaction" takes longer than the act. Me, well I'm a country lad, love the longer transaction and the better quality sex add to it. I have spent more time in my work chair than the gym seat for the last 3 years a quick 40 minute smash sex session would possibly kill me (but what a way to go). I would rather take the time to find that deeper conversation, a little more cerebral than visual. Bloke end of the day circumstance mate the decision for us if you find it works and your okay with it and the other person is then no one is getting hurt give it all you've got (and then some) and have the smile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    The only two sites I would recommend are: 1) www.escortsandbabes.com.au 2) www.scarletblue.com.au Take your time and shop around on these sites. Make sure you read their bio as it gives you an idea of the kind of lover they are and what they are into in the bedroom. Some are also cheaper than others and you can get some decent looking women at about $200/hr. The profile page will also let you know whether or not they've been validated or not and I strongly suggest you stick with the ones that have been validated. Do not use places like Locanto etc because you just never know who or what will be beyond the door lol. Note to all keyboard warriors not that I have to justify myself to anybody but yes I've paid for and yes he (my partner) was there so no I've not been unfaithful. As much as it sucks to pay for it because no I shouldn't have to but sometimes it's just easier because I can't seem to find what I'm after and with the amount of fakes it's too hard to sift through them all. At least with a reputable escort I'm getting exactly what I want and if they're any good at their job they make you feel wanted as you are paying for a service. Best of luck mate. Hope that helps and you find what you're after. Ali.

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    RHP User

    7 years ago

    One of the previous contributors is right there are 4 ‘Adult Clubs’ in Perth. I frequent Club 103 in Belmont and love the staff and regulars there (think cheers but with beds ;-). I have had numerous encounters there with the same ladies and one offs, not once have I felt that I have used or taken advantage of these ladies. Usually there is a great conversation before and after mutual fun had. Another point is I have meet some absolute beautiful people on RHP and had/have ongoing relationships with them. I have no expectations of getting a reply from my messages and even if I get a ‘thanks but no thanks’ always grateful and bumped into them later at an event and had a great chat. Perth is a hard place if you’re FIFO but can tell you straight up I have a head for radio and have been very luck on here. It’s about spending the time and effort to create a connection. Read the profiles and be real to yourself some Ladies just are going to say yes no matter how nice a bloke you are. Hope your getting a picture of your situation and options, just remember like our mate Forrest Gump says ‘life’s a box of chocolates and some look and taste like crap, you’ll have to eat a few before you find a good one’ lol Don’t give up on here mate she/they are there if you look hard enough.

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    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Doesn’t matter if your a mine worker or if ya single and a normal worker like I’m from a broken relationship after 10 years lost nearly everything been single for 2 years now and Havant found anything on dating sites only 2 scam artist and also been hacked.. So I give up on dating sites in fact I got sick of playing with myself I went and paid for it just so I could have some female companionship and a conversation and feel some flesh on flesh cause you do feel lonely sometimes so yeah I’m all for it nothing wrong with it and there checked every couple of weeks by doctors so it’s totally safe sex all round and it’s a win win situation for both parties just make sure to use proper brothels nothing off street corners 👍

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    RHP User

    7 years ago

    If you take the time to look for the right sex worker that suits all your wants, desires anf gets you hot under the collar.....you will be a happy satisfied customer without any drama and free to enjoy life. It may take a few shots to find the right woman (cause some sex worker's out there are not always honest)but it will be worth it.

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    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Its an adult club....not a brothel. Any guys who think they can go along and be guaranteed sex might be sorely disappointed.

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    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I see no issue with it. As others have said as long as you are careful about it and find the right one. I did it once as a teenager after a night out just to see what it was all about, was a memorable experience. Also just done it again recently after coming out of a 10yr+ relationship. Found a local girl who operates out of her house, is clean & safe but at the same time actually makes you feel like she wants you there. If you're not chasing a relationship it can be a great option, especially if you find one you like because you will get to know each other better with each visit and it will seem more natural even though you are still paying. I'm a pretty shy / socially awkward guy by nature so I have a hell of a hard time meeting people out and don''t have very much luck at all on these sites. You also have a lot of fake profiles to contend with and then if you do find a genuine one you have to realise that the ladies have way more options to chose from than the men do.

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    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Go for it. And when you find one that you click with you may find the perfect person for current position.

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