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Reasons Why You Are Single
April 19 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
... I get to do whatever I want to do, whenever I like it, and however I like it! I am so changeable, it frightens me sometimes! My tastes and preferences can change almost overnight or as I ponder over issues, I might soften the hard stand I used to adopt and do a complete 180 deg about-turn! Imagine being stuck with someone who dislikes changes! Or worse, someone who outrights hates it and criticises you for it! In my life right now, terrariums, homeware and furnishings, framing prints, craftwork and living frugally are all very a la mode. Who knows what tomorrow brings! I also don't sleep well if I have to share a bed with someone. And I'm a regular Panda... I need lots of sleep! And I don't want to be made to feel guilty for sleeping too much! Hehehe!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' I also don't sleep well if I have to share a bed with someone. And I'm a regular Panda... I need lots of sleep! And I don't want to be made to feel guilty for sleeping too much! Hehehe! Some couples sleep apart for various reasons, and in those cases it is good for them. So there are always options...
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RHP User
9 years ago
I guess I've always struggled from low self confidence and self worth so it's been really hard for me to talk and hold a conversation with women. Hopefully I can use rhp as a platform to get into the game finally and have some fun and try things that I've always wanted to try but never been given the opportunity to. Unfortunately though, I'm not getting any love on here so far but I'm not surprised about that. Permanent loneliness is looking very real sadly. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Love you new profile name and your profile is much more positive.Why not go to a meet and greet Melbourne is not that far away.Its a good way to start to meet people...you are still young,good looking,educated all huge pluses...forget about the lacks..be confident in your pluses..confidence is attractive..be confident in you Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks for the advice😊 I do appreciate it. I am trying. Putting myself out there. Basically trying to catch someone's eye and just try to get a conversation started. I feel if I can get a lady to just let me show her what sort of person I really am, then I'll have a good chance. It's getting someone to reply is the really tricky part. I'm being creative with my messages as in making the messages personalized to the recipient instead of the copy and paste thing that some do. Hopefully things will start happening soon - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
And keep on posting in the forums Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
Just am
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RHP User
9 years ago
A) ... the world thinks that I'm good enough to go it alone :D B) ... there are three-and-a-half-odd billion women in the world, it may take some time C) ... because, because, because, because, because of the Wonderful Wizard of Oz D) ... I have no idea why I'm single E) ... a combination of the above!
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RHP User
9 years ago
So am I! I like that term, "allergic to female supervision". LOL! I hate bossy and naggy women. Too many of them around. And I hate watching men being henpecked. The way some ladies yell / talk down to their men... So rude!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Because. Just because. I like space to think and operate at my own pace. I'm introverted and solitary but not anti-social, shy or awkward. Plenty of sex available without the need for me to have to be in a relationship, and I have no interest in marriage or even children. Also having left an intense, volatile and destructive relationship earlier this year, I prefer to left to my own devices, get on with my (love of my life) work and share sexy times with other sexy, independent souls from time to time. People who won't manipulate you into carrying all their bags!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
too difficult and needy for naughty times haha :P
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
I believe single life is something that many people embrace in society and can live full lives, happy, and be unapologetical for who they are. Also I think, so many people hear scary/horror stories and think that will happen to them, if they stay single. Therefore become relationship jumpers, never alone by their self. I believe, that's not the case nor is it supported by the research. I also believe being single one can devote more time into different types of relationships. I also believe there is different types of being single. A) married (divorced) now single B) married (divorced) now a single parent c) never married, single, no children. So where does "singlehood" really fit into society? Are people who are single searching for the one, to be coupled again? I think it's a lot more complicated then "married" or "unmarried, or "coupled", "uncoupled" relationships. I think most people have tried the "couple" thing and it didn't work for them. What matters to me, is not what everyone else thinks I'm should be doing, but whether I can find the places, the spaces and the people that fit into who I really am and allow me to live the best life. I just want to be free, know myself better and embrace being me, as I like me. :) Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
I don't want a relationship. I just want someone special to have good times with, the go to the movies, walks, dinners out and on travels with, to share thoughts and conversation on life, to become more involved in each other's lives, perhaps to meet each other's friends and family, to move in together, to fall in love with, and have lots of great loving intimacy and naughty sex with. That is all :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Googling "sex positive singles" didn't exactly turn up the kind of site I was looking for :P
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Quoting 'Masculine55' I'm allergic to female supervision. In my last relationship I felt very much watched and supervised. However I've been in other relationships where that wasn't the case, so I definitely think it's possible to be with someone and be able to be completely your own person. I any, I'd like a relationship where I'm left alone most of the time, to be honest. Ah... solitude! Serenity in Solitude! Fabulous Freedom! Liberation from all expectations, cares and obligations if only for a while! Sheer ecstacy and bliss! I knew my last relationship wasn't going to work when I gently suggested that we actually do not have to meet EVERY weekend and he looked so shocked I had to spend the next few minutes reassuring him that everything was alright but I just wanted to do my own stuff, go out with my friends, etc.
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RHP User
9 years ago
So articulate! I nodded my head so vigorously to everything you wrote that I have a headache now.
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RHP User
9 years ago
... the demographics. With more and more Australians choosing to be single, tax perks should no longer be restricted to mainly couples and families.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I keep hearing the line: "You're a wonderful guy, but..." There always the "but"... Not "butt", for all you perves :) (And that's even before I mention my alterntive interests hehe)
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