RHP

RHP User

M63 F50

Soft Cock

October 11 2013

Look I know that a lot of you guys are going to take offence to this comment, and I'm sorry! However, I am now totally over it and I have to say my piece. I am a very attractive women (yes I am blowing my own trumpet - excuse the pun), I have a very good figure that I work hard to keep. When we go out I get a lot of attention that my partner has had to get use to, but I chose not to pick up randoms, but chose to pick quality people who know what they want and claim to be good at it. Far more preferable then some drunk hottie at 2am in the morning! But....... I am getting very, very frustrated because apart from my gorgeous man (who can go all night, with a rock hard cock), I am getting sad limp dicks. Now I know what your thinking, well you must be doing something wrong! I'm not, I try every trick in the book but on at least 4 occasions it simply doesn't rise to the occasion! Do we intimidate them, do they prefer blonds, what?????? I would love to hear from anybody male or female who think they can help us avoid this awkward and frustrating situation in the future. Maybe a way to make guys feel more comfortable or girls if you have a trick to help tell me I am all ears and eager to learn.- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I am sure it has all been said in this thread but 5 pages to read, cant be bothered. Op it is all said plain and clear in you opening post. Expectations. Your rock hard man that can go all night.. the shy one that will not publicly display his image. My blind skin tingling, oh you are on the hunt for MM couples as well. But as you do take the stance, feminine, in the post I have to wonder how much experience you have had in the swinging scene. It is not easy for guys to just meet up, whip it out and fuck strangers. Oh and the sound of the expectations "rock hard all night" does not give said male adventure much hope does it.Men need fore play, we need to be told we are sexy and wanted, we need to be enticed, a promise of something sensual. By god by the time most of us are in our 40's sticking it in another pussy just to shake it about for her please alone has way lost it luster. Make us think that you will put the effort in to make us come like we have never come before. Do not forget that it is so easy to get your end wet all of us here. What do you offer that excites and entices. Legs spread do not cut it.I am BI and if a guy can not get hard, I blame my self, if a girl does not get wet, I blame my self. Yet the thing is that seldom happens. I know how to do it, I know how to work someone up into a state of excitement. You make love, not fuck, you subdue not with demands but with words of kind undemanding hungry giving wanton lust. Not for you own pleasure, that comes when you awaken the animal.You say you have tried every trick in the book. Well that is something I would like to hear about. What tricks are they LOL what ticks that on at least 4 occasions left you without satisfaction. (gosh you must be busy) But I can understand how you with your totally perfect body, self centered and demanding requirements, perfect rock hard all night man, fail to excite a man into another 100 push up waste of time.So drop your tricks from your book, and give give give. For people that can not give in sex sadly end up seldom getting.Sorry I was so cruel. But when i see a couples profile that does not display a image of both partners, I must just, clear my throat. Now where all that white stuff come from.Wonder if your man complains about the women he cant get wet.. LOL owning a pussy does not make you sexy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Take the time to think, that the guys you've been with, don't really think you're that attractive? As not all blokes think with their peckers, and do like an attraction to perform..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Domme? i don't like tagging one's “sexualty” but reading your comment's and profile you do seem to have that dominate forward energy of a Domme, so unsupecting guys can get the 0.0 ohh this is going to be interesting, its not my place to direct you to your 3rd partner! but maybe you and your partner should look at where you both fit into what your looking for, i think even i would be put off if you was the dom in bed and your partner is more dominate than you, seems most guys wouldnt know where they fitted in to the mix..

  • Ringleader

    Ringleader

    12 years ago

    Something that kills it for myself, is a condom. I had no idea there were different sizes. The packets don't mention size. Look for a size chart and review. I'm going to try some model known as "ZERO"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It annoys us that there are some couples on this site who think they are the bees knees...get over yourselves and take care of your guest, don't bash them on the forums because they were unable to perform to your expectations.   We love having a guy visit us and we always look to make our guest feel welcome and valued - not one hasn't been able to perform, but then we aren't placing any expectations on them except to have a relaxed and good time with us, not FOR US.

  • enduran

    enduran

    12 years ago

    I am always encouraged when I read from people who so clearly got it right. I think too often here it is a competition around performance, cocksize or whatever it is. I think at the end of the day it is about having fun and that can have many different flavors.And yes pressure can make it go limb...so best thing to do is relax enjoy a bit of light hand action and once he relaxes he will rise again...pressure will just do the opposite.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi Well your pics did the trick for me so unless you have a mouth full of rotten teeth and breath like a farting hog I don't know what the problem is. Maybe guys are just nervous?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    No I haven't got rotten teeth or breath like a farting hog! Lol! However, your reply made me laugh :-) x- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Hawt1

    Hawt1

    12 years ago

    I don't know these guys your referring to or the situation.. so I will tell you from personal experience how it can be, not always mind you.I find I go better with a warm up... after a long drought of no puss it takes me a few days practice for the sensitivity to settle down. Then I have found I can go for hours at a stretch... maybe your ring ins have been out in the cold too long?All you can do is have a friendly laugh and wait a while... with no expectations, takes the pressure off... maybe concentrate on your guy for a little while. This should turn them on again Take it with good grace and imagine your self in these guys situation.Good Luck :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Plain and simple. Biggest erection killer ever. If their brain isnt in the right space their c ock definitely is not going to join the party. And I dont think popping a viagra to bring about a fake erection should be the answer. If the guy isn't into it then we suggest to pop a pill to get him hard & override the mind not being in,??? I find this wrong. Im sure if it was suggested women pop a pill when they are not into it it would be a different story. My suggestion - focus more on taking your time to get comfortable & relaxed and take the pressure off for the big event. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    What every happened to foreplay. Guys need it as much as women. So many women seem to have lost the art of foreplay.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm probably considered fairly vanilla compared to other people on this site, but once I got pulled into a room by a girl and 2 friends came in who wanted to watch, I was incredibly turned on but alas, old mate didn't want to play the game, that girl was awesome about it and said you know what? I'm going to fuck him later. Then later I did just that. So I guess what I'm getting at is sometimes guys just suffer from stage fright. Especially if it's their first time - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Couldn't agree more with In spirit

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    it all depends on the time and place i believe! ive had times where ive stayed rock hard n blown my load 7 times n it still wont go down but then on the odd occasion ill blow twice and straight after that it goes soft (very frustrating) but not to say, give it a minute or two and ill be raring to go again n again ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    as you seem to be in your profile, I have a little break from RHP and get back on when I can put up a positive, sexually vibrant (albeit blunt) profile description. Maybe your challenges have been because of a combination of factors rather than just performance anxiety from your guest? You say you aren't going to change your profile/methods but if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you always get (or something more grammatically sound... it's early)Good luck on your sexual journey, there has been a lot of amazing advice and opinions for you and I hope you have success with your challenge.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    There is nothing worse these soft guys letting them selfs down , I will in multiple times and never not being able to get it up , 7 times in a night mm was good and went again the next day

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    good man

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    yes I tolaly agree with u so much , only truly far dinkim humans need only apply n that is body contact person skin contact that's what we r looking 4 . m8's with benefits no wanting 2 marry done that n sorry not doing that again hehe.   so any females bi or couples with bi female need only reply pls. thanks

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