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The Vanilla debate
February 24 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
Be true to who you are. If you're a malignant narcissist - well you wouldn't stoop to being anyone anyway because you're "perfect" right? If you want lots of NSA - be upfront and honest so the chances of anyone getting hurt are minimised. If you're wanting to share more of yourself either and have a FWB or heaven forbid are open to the possibility of more - stick to your guns. It's not worth compromising yourself for. Other people's opinions don't matter - seriously! Opinions are like arseholes. Only you have to live your life. What is a dream for some people is a nightmare for others. And as far as vanilla goes - from what I've seen most people on here including those who think themselves kinky are all very vanilla in the eyes of hardcore fet fans. So to me - it's just a lot of people throwing stones who live in glass houses.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Probity' Quoting 'Freya70' Or woman for that matter,the ones who tell you what you what they think you what to hear are fairly easy to spot...insincerity oozes out of them...However being romanced does not mean you don't have your eyes open xxFreya The easier ones to spot are easy to spot, but that under estimates the talent some have.Well educated intelligent and immaculately dressed And you may have no trouble spotting them yourself but sadly most women don't and get over whelmed more easily than you would by romancers. Roflol! Description of your methods there? Quoting 'Probity' Quoting 'Freya70' Or woman for that matter,the ones who tell you what you what they think you what to hear are fairly easy to spot...insincerity oozes out of them...However being romanced does not mean you don't have your eyes open xxFreya The easier ones to spot are easy to spot, but that under estimates the talent some have.Well educated intelligent and immaculately dressed. And you may have no trouble spotting them yourself but sadly most women don't and get over whelmed more easily than you would by romancers.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Probity' Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Thank you for saying we "other women" are not all like you...thank fuck for that. There should be more people like her here and less of the other women who kid themselves its a romance dating siteBlind Freddy can see this is a sex site, its written all over the place You did that in the other thread! Damn, I sort of expected you'd think of something different this time. Slow Sunday huh? Not worth going out to buy more popcorn if you are using the same old line.
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RHP User
10 years ago
opinions are like assholes? lol ooooookay
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RHP User
10 years ago
One can love vanilla, and seek perfection in being vanilla and serve an orgasmic pie for dessert. Or one can boast about having a finger in every fetish pie imaginable under the sun, and fare well in none. Personally, I'd rather start off with a lover and perfect the vanilla first, and then throw in a little fetish and kink here and there as side dishes. Afterall, don't we all need to master our ABC's first before we decide if we'd rather write a prose / poem / play?
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RHP User
10 years ago
That "vanilla" is actually an exotic Mexican orchid from the jungle and the seed pod shaped like a small penis is where of course the "vanilla " comes from.....not so vanilla hah!!!...xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well everyone's got one? Or maybe two 😉
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Yes everyone has opinions. But you get tired when someone posts the same thing across several threads. Like copy paste. Sound familiar?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Country_62' Quoting 'Probity' Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Thank you for saying we "other women" are not all like you...thank fuck for that. There should be more people like her here and less of the other women who kid themselves its a romance dating siteBlind Freddy can see this is a sex site, its written all over the place You did that in the other thread! Damn, I sort of expected you'd think of something different this time. Slow Sunday huh? Not worth going out to buy more popcorn if you are using the same old line. They are both the same thread for all intents and purposes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Country_62'Quoting 'Probity' Quoting 'Freya70' Or woman for that matter,the ones who tell you what you what they think you what to hear are fairly easy to spot...insincerity oozes out of them...However being romanced does not mean you don't have your eyes open xxFreya The easier ones to spot are easy to spot, but that under estimates the talent some have.Well educated intelligent and immaculately dressed And you may have no trouble spotting them yourself but sadly most women don't and get over whelmed more easily than you would by romancers. Roflol! Description of your methods there? Why would I bother with that.I've got far better methods that I've mentioned elsewhere that don't involve any deceptions.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice' I would totally entangle ehhh... arms with you if you got me one of those Chambord cocktails. 😘 this symbol to the left does not adequately convey the sentiment :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes, very familiar, and very subjective
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RHP User
10 years ago
Okay, finally, we're getting back on track lol exactly. It's not always the same for me either, however we approach or however it happens in the situation, different partners, different encounters and different people, it's all good, well said
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nothing like sitting in the line up of cars at school pick up, browsing through RHP profiles while you're waiting and the school chaplain comes and knocks on your window peering in...... Right as a big cock shot fills your phone screen...... Betcha she doesn't think I'm vanilla! 😂😂😂😂
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RHP User
10 years ago
Squirt or not. Cut or not. Bi or not. Just another attempt at elitism by the insecure. Live and let live.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Again labels.... Who really cares what we are, we are complex human beings, sometimes, walking contradictions at times. Given certain situations, where we are presented with opportunities or misfortune to interact with certain individuals or groups, our actions are contingent on the preceding interactions and attraction with the other individuals in the group and our current state of mind. The great thing is that we have a choice to engage with that person/s however we want that the current time and situation calls for. That is empowering ourselves, whether we want to be vanilla, kinky or whatever you want it to be that makes you happy at that moment, even if there is a slight negative outcome, hopefully, not irreversible to our advantage. Go with the flow, as they say.
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MissBishere
10 years ago
And if hate to classed as only one. I just enjoy sex Sometimes fuck like a porn star sometimes missionary is best soft an slow sometimes tie me up, spank me, flog me, drip wax on me, fuck all my holes sometimes all in one session. what does it matter as long as you are enjoying yourself
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am loving the vanilla don't get me wrong vanilla for me is all the lusty passionate moments the only time I think I do go kinky is when I have to drag toys out - I consider myself as being very fem but when I bring toys out that is when I believe kinky is me - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Im in the 'vanilla' club with ya ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Both vanilla and apparently that's not normal in Adelaide, seems to be a very big clicky group of Kinksters here. We've swung with people who say they are into kink only for them to don face masks and only give you the hotel room number when you arrive at the hotel.... that was their kink. Then others that say no kink what so ever only to crack out the a rubber chicken and beat it with a paddle until it laid an egg. Vanilla is so subjective, everyone has their version or ideal. We say do what feels good and disregard the labels !!
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Service_man
10 years ago
I enjoy vanilla icecream -also like neopolitan on the occassion
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RHP User
10 years ago
We have all been there before, 'oogling' with our pimply faces at her or him. Our VIRGINITY! Once held close and dear, now alive and also hormonal.....😲 So begins our VANILLA sexploitation....till along comes something different. Maybe you overhear it, or see it. Our 'sex-buds' perk up, limitless imagination churns, the unknown awaits. We jump and delve deep. Seen now as VIVACIOUS; our eyes filled with that 'sex' spark, irresistible yet playful too. We bounce through life blissful. Now totally unaware of the VIXEN now emerging. We are sessioned sexual beings. Never to return to VIRGINS though VANILLA is now our preferred 'cup of tea'. Too old or tired to do the reverse mounted cowgirl or think about Sexy Sunday drinks with play friends.....we all have been a VANILLA once. 😜
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teejaylongsword
10 years ago
Getting to know someone first brings about a great level of intimacy and trust. It's nicer being able to feel and touch a 'person' with a 'personality' that you connect with, rather than a random who barely speaks and is a complete stranger. Vanilla sex can be great because there are infinite variations in anything that can be done. If the sex is too crazy with too many positions and gymnastics, then it may be less comfortable and less relaxing. Or there may be an accident - 'Och u just poked me in the eye with that!' Vanilla sex can be great because any variation is noticed and fully appreciated. It could be as simple as a grinding motion instead of a slapping motion. Recently I was very turned on by simply massaging (no penetration) my friend's asshole while I slowly fucked her. It was lovely but simple and vanilla.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
🍦🍨🍦🍨🍦🍨🍦🍨🍦🍨🍦🍨🍦🍨🍦🍨🍦🍨 I like all kinds of flavours but nothing's as versatile as Vanilla, you can dress it up or down, add toppings, nuts, liquor, salt, chilli, chocolate, cream and all sorts of stuff OR you can have it Original. There's not too much that can compete with that....just sayin' KokoVanilla Just ask my chocolate man.....
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