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What are your Pet Peeves ?
July 31 2019
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RHP User
6 years ago
Hotsince78 That's a little disturbing.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Men not reading my profile, or just contacting me because I physically suit them. Me being ob here is about what I want and I am more than entitled to find that or stay on my own.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Lol@ hotsince you met your mum on here that's the funniest fucken thing I've read all week. Let this be a reminder that anyone 20,years older than me, you're probably my dad. Bahaha
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Quoting 'hotsince78' It really annoys me when people do not have any (clear) face pics on their profile. Recently, I was chatting with an interested female, who suggested that we move the conversation to Kik, where we chatted a bit more and exchanged a number of raunchy pics. We met up a few days later and turns out the mysterious woman was in fact my Mum.....what's worse is, that's the second time in as many months she's managed to hoodwink me in this fashion. I like your mum. She sounds like she has great sense of humor.
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RHP User
6 years ago
They're fucking creepy. That's it, no more. I lowered my upper age limit to 40. Should have done that before
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RHP User
6 years ago
Your mum is certainly very proactive ..did she stalk you all the way from Ireland ? :) Hugs Q
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RHP User
6 years ago
The latest fashion in pejoratives to denigrate men. Why do that ? Why the big statement ? I would have thought your attention levels would be maxed out already. Sheesh.
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RHP User
6 years ago
For being over 40 and creepy... I'd like to but I'd be a fucking liar if I did 🙄
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norteepair
6 years ago
I have given up getting peeves on this site. Always expect the unexpected. It is a sex site after all. Haha! The woods are a big place. But, if I have to nominate one. It would be people not believing you are real even though you are verified and validated!! Also I think single guys get a rough trot, they are more real than single girls! Suckers!
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Rubyt25
6 years ago
That old chestnut --- The familiar pattern of some antagonists.
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Dirtyandfriendly
6 years ago
1. Online play, I have no issues discussion sexual interests and getting to know someone. But I'm so bored with those just wanting online sex play, "what would you do to me?" Is etched in my brain now. it's so boring, I know a few are just looking for a quick fix, but to me it's the equivalent of getting a dick pic now. 2. Altering a meet up. Time and time again when I meet someone the meet up is changed, I've had some cancel or really late, no shows which I dont really care anymore and life happens. But it's when you meet up and they say I can only stay for 15 minutes. In one case last year I met up with someone for a drink and chat to see how we go and when we met up she said shes only got time for 15 minutes and we only have time for sex in my car. That annoyed me. 3. Wanting to meet up at 2-3am. I sleep, I work and I am not a night owl. I tell people this yet I still get messaged to see if I'm keen to meet up for a quick play. No, no im not, I need my sleep
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RHP User
6 years ago
Over 70 more like it
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Supernova
6 years ago
Females who demand my face pics right from the first initial contact, and then inform me that I must earn their trust and respect during hours of online conversation before I am permitted to view theirs 🙄
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RHP User
6 years ago
She's never forgiven me for that time behind the bike sheds at school. Cry yourself a river, build yourself a bridge and get over it.
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RHP User
6 years ago
@hotsince78 Wait. WHAT? Weird. Anyhow ... you made both Mr and Mrs Dinner Date First laugh. Not an easy feat considering how hard we are to please.
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RHP User
6 years ago
1) Being accused of the fact I'm married, and on here, so i must be cheating on my wife! WTF! (Get that alot). My wife does indeed know I'm on here. We are both on here (Mrs E Polywife). 2) Chatting one day and gone the next. Just up and disappear without a reason. At least give some reason for the vanishing act. Constructive criticism helps people adjust the problem areas. 3) Fake profiles. Designed to lure and sucker you in for a mirriad of reasons. (This is problematic on any platform).
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have 3 about this site and 3 about me personally.......... For this site1. Ban Sugar Dating as a status on here - - There has been a massive rise in this over the last few months and there is an infestation of under 30's women joining the bandwagon reaching out to "Daddies" seeking to pay for their uni fees for the odd encounter. This is totally not right to ask for compensation for sex......I ask for Red Hot Pie not to encourage this and this community should stand together on this to ensure that men are not taken advantage of with this issue 2. Disrespect of others from other members - - I am not surprised by anything from the members of this site. It is a sex site and unfortunately 70% of people on RHP are superficial, degrading and downright mean to others, and they just don't care that they are doing this and in fact encourage it. For the other 30% of you that are descent, caring and understanding humans that respect others feelings, I tip my hat to you and hope that others learn from you. 3. Website itself- - Needs to be the same format both on desktop and mobile. It is really frustrating that the mobile version is a completely different experience to what you experience on desktop. The site needs a total user experience overall and come up to the 21st century standard of what your members require from this site. Your chat facility is useless to say the least and that it needs "flash" to run it......hopeless. For me1. Not going to the Gym as much as I should. I go to the gym about 3 times a week and that is nearly not enough - - The competition on Red Hot Pie has a long list of serious "Alphas" and I have had far too many women and couples tell me in my message responses "to get gym fit first". Unfortunately these are the facts I have to deal with and If I am to have any success on here I need to get to the gym everyday, everyday, everyday. Muscle up, get some abs, and then put myself out there again 2. Change my RHP profile - - remove the dick pics for a start, and take some more clothing added pics. Try to place some sexiness in my profile. Add some face pics to my personal gallery. I not ugly by any means so I can make this work 3. Be a better human being - - I feel I am getting much better with this, by having respect for others feelings and opinions. Sometimes I get very frustrated with the negative sometimes degrading responses I receive from (some not all) women and couples on here, but I must put on my big boy pants and persist with my desire to be better than they are and handle it like a man, shrug it off and move on without any second thought. Anyway thank you all for letting me share!! Hope you all get what you want from your travels on RHP.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I’m 40 and I feel rrrrrrapppey 😂😂
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Supernova
6 years ago
I totally agree that it's getting out of control recently. Almost 50% of new, young female members just want a 'daddy' to pay for shit in their lives, it's absolutely eye-rolling to read, and yeah, to me it's utterly pathetic. Imagine giving sex to someone you didn't even really like....just for a new pair of shoes? Well, they can all they like I guess, their body, their choice blah blah blah, but the irony is this: The website says things like : "If anyone asks you for money, do NOT communicate further, instead - report them to us!" But on the other hand "Sugar dating" is a perfectly fine category for women to put in their seeking criteria...aaaalllrighty then..
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RHP User
6 years ago
Over what constitutes payment for sexual favours ..a dinner ,a hotel room,a 'plane ticket etc.Sugar dating is just a spin on what has been common for millennia ...are men really the victims here?Or are they just making poor choices..or not. Q
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yes agree. I occasionally have offers from cashed up men, so the reverse situation, but no matter how nice their house on the beach is or whatever, I don't reply. It's the equivalent of paying for sex IMO
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RHP User
6 years ago
😂😂
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Tall74nHard9
6 years ago
1) Constantly being viewed by males - who are supposedly straight !?2) Newbie profiles that only last for one viewing, then never come back.3) Lack of courtesy - and the excuses around to cover it. Tall
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Tall74nHard9
6 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'Men over 40 They're fucking creepy. That's it, no more. I lowered my upper age limit to 40. Should have done that before Is that so ? I'll remember that.... Tall (over 40)
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RHP User
6 years ago
It's not just for the gals 😊🍑
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Rubyt25
6 years ago
Mistruth because of a false or misleading comment/statement. #stickybeak #gossip #hearsay 👎👎
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RHP User
6 years ago
Like anything u have a choice to.say no. Unless your dick makes more sense then your common sense. Then u could find yourself with empty balls and pockets. 😝 I have a new pet peeve Men who befriend you just to get introductions to your social group. Then never speak to u again. Stupid thing is u do that and the social group won't want to know u anyway.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I agree! X And even though you tell them its a social group they come along expecting a wild all- in orgy. ( Adds to peeve list )
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RHP User
6 years ago
Koko where do they come up with that a social dinner and drinks. Is code for orgy. Must be like that Netflix and chill code. But we are not aware of it. Don't know what the local publicans would think about it. 😝
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3SM_Events
6 years ago
Women do that too...just saying. In fact a hell of a lot of people on here do it.
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Rubyt25
6 years ago
Having no edit button, it would be great to be able to edit posts if needed, a delete option would be good to.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Top Three 1. Flirts/Messages from people who haven't read my profile and are way outside my looking for parameters. Wasting their time and mine. 2. Profiles without face and body shots - I don't mean naked, just I want to be able to see your face and your physique - even if you keep that in your private album and only share when you're ready. 3. Lying about your relationship status. Don't tell me you're in an open relationship but I cannot speak to your primary. That's bullshit and you know it. Don't tell me your separated just cos you had a argument with your SO. Don't tell me you're single when you're not.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I often register my interest in events and then don't go Don't because I wasn't interested in going But mainly because I'll register interest early because I'll have my work schedule then I get the message invite and check who else is interested and to be honest 90% of the time it's couples double some times more my age or single men ..if I'm lucky there will be a few younger couples say 45 and below but I don't want to drive or train 45 mins into the city on the 50/50 They are attractive. Not because I have a inflated sense of myself.. so just don't want to have sex with my grandparents and I'm not into single men 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
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RHP User
6 years ago
we are all fucked up in our childhood in one way or another...a good therapist can help most of us...and dont tell me they are fucked up themselves too! lets have fun fucked up peeps.
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RHP User
6 years ago
People who are quick to judge those who are attached/married. Those of you who are in mum/ dad marriage relationships would know that it is hard work and nearly every person on here will shitcan you immediately for looking for companionship outside your marriage. You can still be a loving parent and be in love with your partner but need some extra intimacy.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yes its hard work. For BOTH parents. If you are shagging behind your wifes back then she deserves better. Im sure she would like some of your extra intimacy as she watches the kids as you are out having fun.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I don't want to be fucking anyone who would hurt someone they supposedly love. Jesus dude, do you even give a shit about your mrs and how much it would tear her apart if she knew? Grow the fuck up.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Can your wife walk? Mine is paralysed.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Arrogant Hooman's that a rude to wait staff. People that think , they are better than everyone around them. Not so long ago In a galaxy not that far away. I had a meet and greet with this lovely lady who turned into an impolite , insolent, discourteous, abrasive silly little girl who was slightly on the topside of aggressive towards wait satff Swearing and mumbling about how useless they were , and all in earshot could hear her rants. Because they made an error with our order. No biggie they would of rectified it and the wait staff apologised for the cock up. In my mind I was already walking out the door due to sheer embarrassment. Ask me how the date ended? But anyways Rudeness and Arrogance !!! are my pets peeves
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RHP User
6 years ago
Is your partner if you have one paralysed? Unless they are fuck off, if your on a sex site because you can’t get sex you aren’t in the position to be telling anyone about how you should/ would behave to a paralysed partner because you don’t have one.
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RHP User
6 years ago
You are right and I understand it's the life cycle of getting married and having kids. Women take quite along time to go back to normal status sexually due to hormones when pregnant and after. Plus dealing with the fact that her body no longer belongs to her or her partner. Multiply that by having your kids close in age. By then you have both become a well oiled machines as parents. But lose the intimacy as u become more mates than lovers. Men's bodies don't go through that change. So it becomes frustrating and anyone who denies that this effects so many couples I'd be surprised. I used to think once kids have gone that my ex husband and I would return to life we had prior to kids. However he decided he was gay. So I guess it's only u who can decided if u want intimacy else where. I think most understand the reasons but just don't want to be involved if ur not in open marriage. I think perhaps there would be less divorces if people actually spoke openly about there needs to each other. Sex is a great part of life and your entitled to desire it. Its normal afterall.
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RHP User
6 years ago
No mention of that before, or in your profile as you happily map out days and times you are free for sex. Have some respect for her, for goodness sake. If its true then your devil may care attitude so far just makes you look worse.
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RHP User
6 years ago
... your wifes physical limitations do not give you a free pass to lie to her. What it does is give you both the opportunity to talk about your needs and wants - together as a loving couple - and work through compromises and solutions to whatever physical limitations face you. I don't have a wife or husband. I do have a physical disability, so please do not use your wife's as an excuse to be a deceitful human being.
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NthBrisFun
6 years ago
Singles and or couples that are all interested and start chatting, swap PG’s etc. Then the next msg is, oh we are busy for the next 2 weeks with other things, so we can chat then. And yet, 4 weeks pass, nothing. Send msg and see if still interested?? Nithkng. But there still connected as friends in the site. Has or does this happens to others, as single women or couples?? Or could it just be a single male profile speed hump?
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RHP User
6 years ago
The lack of girl on girl only events in perth 🤣
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
to publicly name (a profile which you have) and shame them is not cool, especially if it's personal between parties. Some things should just be kept at that and in private. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
Drama. That's another pet peeve of mine!!! And I've seen it on the last few pages of this forum post. Why create drama? If you have issues with someone for whatever reason a Direct Message works fine or just ignore. I prefer the latter myself. Don't sweat the small stuff !!!
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RHP User
6 years ago
SuperFoxxxy, where have a publically named and shamed? I replied to comments on this post. Is indicating who I am replying to 'naming and shaming'?
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RHP User
6 years ago
I'm reading back my posts from prior, and while I am not the only one to address who I am replying to as my title or in my post, I can see now how it could be construed differently to my intent. From now on when I reply to an individual, I'll use an abbreviation.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Half arsed invitation to meet for drinks, then the slimy suggestion we should skip the drinks (in as many words).Well I have an idea. How about we skip the drinks and sex?
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Tall74nHard9
6 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'Play now, meet later lol Half arsed invitation to meet for drinks, then the slimy suggestion we should skip the drinks (in as many words).Well I have an idea. How about we skip the drinks and sex? Was this person under 40 or over 40 ?
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scandu4fun
6 years ago
Starting to like these threads, some real insights to some people, would love to have a few drinks with some, but only for my curiosity of how they hold their views, nothing else. Peeves - 1. Men that have their profiles as women, when setting up the default is male so it's not an accident. WTF 2. Women who say their older than their real age, we're not into proverbial cradle snatching 3. People that don't have any commonality but think they might get lucky. We want some connection or chemistry even for a hook up, stated in our profile. But all good over all, trolls and idiots cannot be avoided anywhere, especially when they can hide behind a keyboard.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
Go back to your post, page 7 as stated: (quote) "Beatle is one of those liars I mentioned" (unquote). It is still there in black and white for all to see. Ms Foxy
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
I read that as generalizing. He's proven himself as a fibber, not lied directly to Kitty. So not named and shamed, just highlighted
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RHP User
6 years ago
is delusional old men 😁
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' is delusional old men 😁 Come on. You know you want me
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'The_Envoy' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' is delusional old men 😁 Come on. You know you want me I know I do
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RHP User
6 years ago
Correct Annie, it was a reply to Beatle's own admission that he lies in order to cheat on his partner. And Superfoxxxy, of course it is still there, we cannot eddit post.
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Rubyt25
6 years ago
Quoting 'KittyDeluxe'And Superfoxxxy, of course it is still there, we cannot eddit post. it would be good to be able to edit posts if needed. It's a real pain at the times when we know we need to but can't.
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Rubyt25
6 years ago
ps... and of course as I already mentioned a delete option would come in handy to.
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RHP User
6 years ago
IRL what comes out of your mouth can't be unsaid. It can be twisted every which way, manipulated and "justified"... Editing is a tool for revisionists, and deleting is a bit of a cop out. I've been on forums where editing posts was abused to the point of being an art form, consequently the quote function copped a flogging just to keep the trolls honest.
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Rubyt25
6 years ago
like most things there are always pros and cons Quoting 'MrMojoRisin' IRL what comes out of your mouth can't be unsaid. It can be twisted every which way, manipulated and "justified"... Editing is a tool for revisionists, and deleting is a bit of a cop out. I've been on forums where editing posts was abused to the point of being an art form, consequently the quote function copped a flogging just to keep the trolls honest.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Last I looked, you were an expert at having posts deleted Rubi, so I don't know why you're going on about editing all over the forum. Someone should explain to Kitty that posts disappear here all the time... Peachy
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Rubyt25
6 years ago
making false claims -- congrats Quoting 'PeachyPearL' Last I looked, you were an expert at having posts deleted Rubi, so I don't know why you're going on about editing all over the forum. Someone should explain to Kitty that posts disappear here all the time... Peachy
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