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What do women want?
September 22 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
...its very simple beautiful bum...I mean man...lol I want the following: * someone who is going to love me for me * someone who is going to do those lovely things like open the car door * someone who is sexually explorative * someone who will let me 'fuss' over them (yes thats right I want to cook for him, look after him when he is sick) * someone strong enough to stand up to me and say 'no' Sure I still want my independance, want my own friends, own life to some extent but i want to share the rest of it with someone else...confused??? Good...cause I am ...lol... and seeeing as you are taken Stalky...guess my wish list will go unanswered and I will have to settle for second best... Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'll be grateful if you open the door for me if you get there first the same as I hope you'll be grateful to me if I open the door for you me if I get there first lol but I'm happy for us each to open our own car door for the sake of convenience hehe. Yes please carry my books if I have too many and it will also be my pleasure to lighten the load for you in return when your burden becomes too heavy to bear. In my role of the woman, I hope it's ok if I get around braless even if I'm not completely independent... my boobies haven't drooped too much over the years and they still make a fine point when the weather is a bit nippy. Hehe, it works best when we both take good care of each other... Hehe hugs... Mrs P
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15 years ago
if you want to open my door...then open it if your sick....let me look after you if im sick...look after me if i open your door...let me if my suit case is too heavy...il ask you to help me if your case is too heavy...i wanna help you if you want to cook for me...then i wont say no if you want to put out my rubbish bins...then do it if you dont do it...dont complain that i did please have the balls to stop me when i try and walk over you...believe me if i think i can, i will please dont ask me to burn my bra...i can tuck my boobs into my pants (not a pretty sight) but if you dont want to do any of that....i wont complain, because i can do it all myself roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
My guy may not open the car door for me but he is always ready to give me shove in the backside to help me out lol..... Actually I get treated like a princess so I am very lucky. Too many demanding women who have no concept of real love and respect have stuffed it up for the rest of us. If your guy treats you well then don't take him for granted! And don't go bra-less....your boobs end up heading south!
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RHP User
15 years ago
What woman want ? ummm.. What can woman do ? what are women prepared to do ? Where are those weapons of mass destruction ? Who is running this country ? What do we all want ? and what can we all really give? I'll be back tomorrow night.. same time same channel ...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Spunky bum, awsome post! What I want, chivalry not to die! I like being treated like a woman, as last time I checked, I am actually over 7yo.. I like being treated like I have a brain I like being treated like I have commonsense Open the car door for me, gives me jelly legs Put my bins out as my remote control has not been invented yet! Grab the salt n pepper and utensils whilst I am cooking dinner Fill my glass of chardonnay when empty, mmm with ice and a dash of soda I will grab you a beer when I know you are nearly empty What I want is thoughtfulness, kindness and respect my point of view Please no conflict or toxic talk about anyone or politics When I am fumbling around getting my key in the door, hold the screen door open for me Pat my dog Cuddle up on the lounge and watch documentaries yet still talk Reach for that thing on the shelf which I can't reach Observe me I will observe you and lend a hand Offer to do things without being asked, coz I just won't ask You have a brain and no how to use it Make me the spontaneous coffee after 2am sex Always arrive naked with alcohol xxx Gosh I want alot not! just simple things makes me happy xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just love me Give me the freedom to grow Have the grace to back off when I dont want your help and the sense to know when I do Be my equal and not my superior Be my friend first,second and last. LISTEN TO ME!!! I do not talk for the sake of hearing my own voice. Do not try to change me and do not complain when I do not do things the same as your mother/aunt/grandmother or Ex and do not tell me I am just like them if I act a certain way. Do not EVER take me for granted. Similarly, never underestimate me. Please, please, please do not tell me what to do or think or how to act. I am an adult! Oh and please dont tell me I cant because then I have to prove you wrong. Remember, I am right. And even when I am wrong, I am still right and "Because" is justification. Fionabee.
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15 years ago
ps well a ranga is running the country and go you good thing never will burn tha sed bra...although willing to lose it at pool lol not a womens libber adore a man adore a woman ffs adam and eve as talking of mass destruction, each sex is capable!!! xxx
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15 years ago
Each of the women posting on this topic have said it better than I ever could - oh thank you, sane, smart, beautiful women, you are all amazing! Taipan - my weapons of mass destruction are hidden in my bra, baby. Wanna check them out;)??? xxJ
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15 years ago
Yup , Yup and Yup ! Black stilletto we agree whole heartedly. Stalky your so right its scarey. Women libertion movement is bad for women not for men ! Men wanted a seat on the train , happy to get in the car quicker , really caring an umbrella for you was a pain in the arse and as for standing each time you want to go to the toilet ...yes with your friend, FFS please hold it till we are finished our steak ! Men are happy for you to change the water cooler bottle by yourself , many of us had lowerback issues anyway. Garbage you territory ....go for it , its to cold in winter going out at night ........ and I dont need to buy that self propelled lawn mower if your going to use it as my lower back is not sore any way from lift ing all those freakin water cooler bottles ! But that does NOT happen in our house ! None of it ! NO equal oppurtunity here NO THANKS ! I still open doors , and sarah always walks through first. I do all the outside stuff yup including the dog poo and rubbish ! Sarah does all the cooking I lift grab and reach high stuff . Yes I cuddle and keep warm. Yes I protect , oh me and the two 50 kg plus gaurd dog (no not kidding) Yes I watch on as she cooks , no I dont ! Thank you for thanking me for helping ! making a big deal every time I do! Yes I pour wine like a waiter. Thank you for my beer. Lawns mine ! Thanks sarah for letting me make the decisions , thanks for backing me and being patient even with the crappy ones ! Thank you for saying I dont make crappy ones. Thanks for laughing at "equal oppurtunity" households. I pop her on high and she will be my light all my life there is nothing brighter ! Ah its all rather old fashioned really isnt it ? Yet people other couples freinds talk about us being the strongest couple they know. Brae ........ Thank you for saying all my posts are witty intelligent and correcting my lousy spelling at times !
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RHP User
15 years ago
I just want a man who tells me I light up his life when I walk into a room... (even with my clothes on)..... & wishes to cherish me as much as I cherish him. Gotta love random hugs and cuddles.
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RHP User
15 years ago
this is what my profile says....I want a guy who is my friend, in and out of bed. I want a guy that I can chat to about whatever, whenever. I want a guy that is honest and trustworthy. I want a guy that treats me with respect. I want a guy that has the balls to tell me if he's not interested... instead of just never speaking to me again. I want a guy who understands that hanging out doesn't necessarily mean I want to marry him. I want a guy that doesn't tell me what he thinks I wanna hear just so he can get laid. I want a guy that understands the true meaning of swinging. I want a guy who is willing to discuss things. I want a guy who is open to trying out new stuff. I want a guy who understands that discussing doesn't always mean doing. I want a guy who has personality and smarts. I want a guy who is confident without being arrogant. I want a guy who wants me for who I am, not who I'm not. of course there is more....but most depends on the person im with...i will let things slide with one that i may not let slide with another.Oh..and SWEETIEPIE...if you need to put an animal out of its misery in a humane way....and you're not gonna eat it afterwards...garbage bag hooked up to your car's exhaust (via a hose)Puts them painlessly off to sleep.(I would recommend always carrying a heavy duty gar-bag and a piece of hose if you travel thru the country...just in case you hit something that is too far gone but not gone far enough)JMO...BJxxx
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15 years ago
Dito xxoo
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15 years ago
treat em with respect but don't back down ta tha point of bein a pussy, ya gunna loose respect. always be a stand up fella and never let her be walked over by fuckin ANYONE. bring home the bacon and cook it if she hungover. she don't have ta open the bonnet of the car (better that way) love her with passion that christ wouldn't know. let her win and this is VERY important unless she wants you to win then ya treadin a VERY fine line man. i dunno man, i always fuck it up but thats my thoughts.... ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha Earl
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15 years ago
Quoting 'mynameisearl2' treat em with respect but don't back down ta tha point of bein a pussy, ya gunna loose respect. always be a stand up fella and never let her be walked over by fuckin ANYONE. bring home the bacon and cook it if she hungover. she don't have ta open the bonnet of the car (better that way) love her with passion that christ wouldn't know. let her win and this is VERY important unless she wants you to win then ya treadin a VERY fine line man. i dunno man, i always fuck it up but thats my thoughts.... ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha Earl Nailed it ! Nailed it ! Nailed it ! Luv ya Earl ....... Brae
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15 years ago
I think Brae and Earl have said it best. Go guys!
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15 years ago
The most straightforward definition of feminism says that is a movement for social, cultural, political and economic equality of men and women. It is a campaign against gender inequalities and it strives for equal rights for women. Feminism can be also defined as the right to enough information available to every single woman so that she can make a choice to live a life which is not discriminatory and which works within the principles of social, cultural, political and economic equality and independence.http://ezinearticles.com/?Definition-of-Feminism&id=1697184I like this definition!!!!I want to be equal or better than men :) I want the right to be as slutty as Stalky and not to be degraded for it while he is given the attribute of stud. I want the right to have an opinion, I want the right to have a mortgage ( fuck knows why, if some one else wants to take over the payment please get in touch) I want the right to not have children, just because. I want the right to have an abortion. I want the right to use my feminine side I want the right to use my masculine side and dominate you!!! I want the right to make my own choices and mistakes.Some women want to be drunken brawlers, just like some men. Let them, they are the ugly side of humanity( both sexes) Some women will actually set the equal rites movement back decades in the desire to be equal to men as opposed to being the best they can be as humans.Some men will never be given the attribute humanAnd remember this old line... women will never be equal to men until they can walk down the street with a bald head and a beer gut, and still think they are sexy!!STtky, I thank you for giving me the ability to air my opinion
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RHP User
15 years ago
Wow Earl, that's massive what you say...Omg are there guys out there that think like that????? I know you shoot from the hip and I believe what you write, often reads Earls posts... Wish there were more like you..... xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Not only do I want the right to think I am sexy with a bald head and beer gut, but I also want the right to scratch my groin in public and not have everyone think I have crabs. I am only adjusting my equipment :) Fionabee
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RHP User
15 years ago
Josey Wales.. NymphetamineDrm
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15 years ago
i just old school with a code of conduct i followed since 14 yrs. there plenty of us man................... ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha Earl
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15 years ago
i just old school with a code of conduct i followed since 14 yrs. there plenty of us man................... ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha Earl
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RHP User
15 years ago
my soul mate were still with me. can't do this alone man Earl...................... goodbye
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RHP User
15 years ago
... I think women have a knack for fucking things up. It's like we have this bottomless pit of wanting / longing, and no matter what a man does, it's never enough. Perhaps I'm just speaking for me. The principle of women's lib rocks. The practical application is / has been a bit mangled in my view. Having access to the same opportunities as men does not require the kind of 'man-hating' mentality that I've seen over the years. It's that mentality that has contributed to the emasculation of men (yes, I generalise).I met a man who ...- loves me deeply and passionately, with a tenderness that brings tears to my eyes- makes love the same way, and then other times fiercely - but always in a way that I feel utterly owned (*drool)- is super-dooper smart - god that's a turn on- indulges me, and show's respect for the things that matter to me (even if I'm being needy / petty / whiney / critical etc), but doesn't take shit from me. He calls me on it when I'm being a pain in the ass- is protective to a fault - of me and his family - you know, that feeling that if there was danger he's the one you'd want around- won't let me carry anything - even though I'm fiercely independent, more that capable, and from time to time have had a fair dinkum tanty - it's just a thing he does that's about taking care of me, and I love it- is that magical combination of gentle (peaceful) and strong (powerful)- looks at me like he wants to eat me ... and gropes me when he walks past like all he can think about is stripping me naked and throwing me on the bed (*sigh)And still ... I test him! I throw all sorts of needy shite at him about all the things that are not good enough. God only knows why I do that - it feels like it's built into my DNA. I'm working on it, he has the patience of a saint, and who knows ... I might just grow up one day. I often wonder how many other women feel the same way.So I'm not convinced that women needed the women's lib movement to help us make men's life difficult. I think we do that quite comfortably on our own (again, I might just be speaking for me). I think what the movement has done is confuse men, such that they don't trust their instincts for being a man and 'handling' a woman. Oh, and it made some women hard ass bitches ... not pretty! (Been there, done that).I asked my man what he wanted from me once. What he said really threw me. He just wants me to show him love - even if we're arguing, just be loving. To him, that's 'woman' and that's how he knows everything will be OK. Interesting.Stalky, awesome post as always, lots of food for thought, thanks.lilmiss x
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RHP User
15 years ago
HONESTY HONESTY HONESTY HONESTY
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'lilmissfussy' I think what the movement has done is confuse men, such that they don't trust their instincts for being a man and 'handling' a woman. Oh, and it made some women hard ass bitches ... not pretty! (Been there, done that). Absolutely true! I'm all for women being given the same opportunities in the workforce, but a lot of good conventions got messed up during that process. I like to do things like open car doors for women, but I sometimes get a mixed reaction to even a simple thing like that. It's a pity - chivalry is fun for everyone.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Snowshoe' Quoting 'lilmissfussy' I think what the movement has done is confuse men, such that they don't trust their instincts for being a man and 'handling' a woman. Oh, and it made some women hard ass bitches ... not pretty! (Been there, done that). Absolutely true! I'm all for women being given the same opportunities in the workforce, but a lot of good conventions got messed up during that process. I like to do things like open car doors for women, but I sometimes get a mixed reaction to even a simple thing like that. It's a pity - chivalry is fun for everyone. I totally understand what you are saying, girls need to just relax and enjoy what little chivalry is left...I like the old school.. Gals just relax and smell the roses occasionally..Let a guy open that car door or stand back to let you walk through the doorway first...and newsflash, the guy feels 10 foot tall when he does that..gotta love that.. xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'NymphetamineDrm' Josey Wales.. NymphetamineDrm Unfortunately many of our men are lost now...part of it due to women no longer knowing what they want or despite almost a century of emancipation still being coy about demanding what they deserve...and rejecting what they do not. In lowering one's standards one inevitably also lowers one's expectations..and provides no guidance for men as to how they should be for us.. If you want to know what women want look at the men women flock to focus on obsess about...in literature, film or tv. Men with honour, men that are strong, men that cannot be bought or tempted, men that are loyal, men that protect the weak rather than exploit them, men that admire strong women that view them as equals not a threat...and are prepared to learn as much from them as they like to teach...and are grateful when a woman saves their life. It's not that hard to be that man-you don't need to do anything particularly mythic or supernatural-to impress us it's just having the ability to conquer your fears of standing alone and being different amongst the many that do not have these attractive traits or strength of character in the everyday. You'll have to accept you can't have it both ways... If you want a quality woman for a night-or longer you will have to become a quality man.. Otherwise she may let you entertain her...or you may think you have gotten away with it..."scored"..kept her in the dark... Reality is all you have gotten away with-is now being further away from a woman that could have provided all you need or ever wanted all night every night...those nights that you spend alone in search of what you let go over and over... One wonders what is the light in your life? I often wonder when I hear people (male or female) talk about scoring...when they have purposely taken advantage of someone through chicanery..which is different to two people participating freely with informed consent... What exactly are you winning? How are the points assigned? What is your prize? I thought of two more words...that delivers what women want...well the kind of women I know... Captain Blood (Doctor and Pirate) His prescription for Nuttall could benefit many men out there get more longer lasting quality sex than Viagra.. Dr. Peter Blood: Do you think you could find me a good stout piece of timber? About so thick and so long? Honesty Nuttall: Yes, I think so. Dr. Peter Blood: Then do so and lash it to your spine - it needs stiffening. The fact that a man like this could be bought for ten pounds as a slave...well get me to that marketplace... Especially when he answers his Mistress: "Your slave is grateful for all marks of favor" Director Howard Hawks like all artists was far, far ahead of his time... I miss the 30's...bring back the clubs... *smirk* NymphetamineDrm
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15 years ago
I think (it takes practise) that men and women want the same things in life and a companion...we simply take different paths to get there and equipped with slightly different physiological and psychological skill sets to achieve the same means to an end? | When a weakness in one is a strength in another...I enjoy the chi of balance and celebrate the differences. A sorrow shared is halved...a joy shared is doubled. | Of course...I am all for separate bank accounts, individual credit cards and a personal space. But then again and at least for now...I am happy to look after all of those myself. | As for the rest...what do women want? All of it...and so do I.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I still think chivalry is alive and kicking but does seem to be lost on todays young people. I still think that chivalry can exist with equality, its all about respect for others.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'thegardener68'I still think chivalry is alive and kicking but does seem to be lost on todays young people. I still think that chivalry can exist with equality, its all about respect for others. So agree with you....respect all the way and I personally love being the woman I am but no way do I want to out muscle any man...I do delicate things, men do masculine things mmm...love it that way! Mexican wave to chivalry, but here is a spin! met a couple of guys lately, the thrill of the chase...then ova it...I think you get what I am saying....love to hear your views although probably a different post... Sticking to the wheel....lol...xxx
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15 years ago
we want it all...but the good substance xx
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15 years ago
Ok I've sat back and read these forums for a week or so now but I now feel the need to speak up. I'm new here and shortly after joining was contacted by one of the longer term and well known members and invited for a coffee. Great. Met and had said coffee and chatted fairly freely about anything and nothing but one of the topics was rude people and in particular this person told me one of her pet hates is for someone that is not interested in her to show it by being rude and ignoring her rather than politely telling her so. Fair call. We ended our meeting and exchanged pleasantries and went our own ways. Being polite, as I was brought up to be, I sent a text later that day thanking her for the company and told her I enjoyed the meet. What was the response? Nothing. Not even thanks, but you have a head like a dropped pie and the appeal of a torn car seat cover, Just nothing. Surely with the views expressed earlier you would treat people how you like to be treated? Not bitching, just expressing an opinion.
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15 years ago
Someone who isn't always looking for someone better ...
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15 years ago
Although Im not certain...I guess you're talking about me??Um...I actually DID reply...approximately 2 minutes after receiving your text...thanking you and saying it was nice to meet you too.I dont know why you didnt get it.But after not hearing from you again..I assumed you weren't interested.Sorry you thought I ignored you...I assure you...that was not the case.JMO...BJxxx
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15 years ago
Its true. More simply what does a guy want? A beer, a comfy bed, a nice girl, a few mates for a laugh and he's dog bluey? Girls, want the nice house the nice car, the nice furniture, they great holiday, the great big wedding, the great big honeymoon, the romance, the resepct, the love, the right to choose, the right to stay, the right to leave.lol. Heck watch eddie murphy's Raw and delirious.lol. I know a guy who proposed to he's girl of 4 years, bought a ring worth 3000....she knocked him back...she wanted a rock worth 11000...gold digger? having said that it is true we live in the most selfish times of all. The grass is always green, we want more all the time. A female friend will say, a guy must have a bit of money, she needs to be kept in a lifestyle? She wants the finer things in life and hell she believes she is special? Reality is we are all just ppl. Spoke to a lady who has been married for over 40 years. Remember doing the washing a stone basin out the back and yet her son's wife left him cos he couldnt provide a better life? Dunno, where it all ends, cos i feel sorry for girls today, knowing that younger guys aren't falling for the trap. I know a guy from the local...he is pretty well off and has property and money...twice now he has been burnt and had to pay out to some girl who said, sorry its no longer working out but hey let my lawyer see how much money i can get out of you! The last girl who he thought he would be more careful with....Well, he let her stay in one of he's units for nothing for a year..no rent no bills. ALthough they lived seprately, she was till able to get over 60 grand out of him...Sigh
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15 years ago
a man that can keep up with me mentally, is strong enough emotionally and.... feeds me chocolate! not asking much really ;)
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15 years ago
She was just rude ... plenty of fish in the sea love!
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15 years ago
Quoting 'spike41' Ok I've sat back and read these forums for a week or so now but I now feel the need to speak up. I'm new here and shortly after joining was contacted by one of the longer term and well known members and invited for a coffee. Great. Met and had said coffee and chatted fairly freely about anything and nothing but one of the topics was rude people and in particular this person told me one of her pet hates is for someone that is not interested in her to show it by being rude and ignoring her rather than politely telling her so. Fair call. We ended our meeting and exchanged pleasantries and went our own ways. Being polite, as I was brought up to be, I sent a text later that day thanking her for the company and told her I enjoyed the meet. What was the response? Nothing. Not even thanks, but you have a head like a dropped pie and the appeal of a torn car seat cover, Just nothing. Surely with the views expressed earlier you would treat people how you like to be treated? Not bitching, just expressing an opinion. So why do men even consider dropped pies? Why would you eat anything off the floor-unless you'd intended to have a loungeroom picnic? Is it unresolved childhood pastry issues? Is it because they only intend to cover them with their gravy or have the pie in a bag when they eat them? Is it a case of a hungry man will eat anything-once? *smirk* NymhetamineDrm
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15 years ago
Spike it is possible that she didn't recieve or you didn't send the message. I had a problem with my mobile phone recently. I had sent some texts and didn't get a reply and got all psycho crazy woman and found out that my phone was faulty and the message never got sent. Maybe give her the beniefit of the doubt and send another message on here just to clarify what happened. Really what have you got to lose. Ask for open honest answer about how she felt the meeting went and then the air is cleared and you don't have to wonder what or why you didn't get a reply.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'BlackStilettoes' Quoting 'thegardener68'I still think chivalry is alive and kicking but does seem to be lost on todays young people. I still think that chivalry can exist with equality, its all about respect for others. So agree with you....respect all the way and I personally love being the woman I am but no way do I want to out muscle any man...I do delicate things, men do masculine things mmm...love it that way! Mexican wave to chivalry, but here is a spin! met a couple of guys lately, the thrill of the chase...then ova it...I think you get what I am saying....love to hear your views although probably a different post... Sticking to the wheel....lol...xxx hmmmm, so were these couple of guys chasing you together?
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15 years ago
Well it seems to me most women want a 'Tall, Dark and Hansome Man. They go by looks and do not bother about Personality. I lost all my hair within 3 weeks when I was 22yrs old with nevous shock due to a near motorcycle acident which nearly took my life, I was in my prime then at 22. This has zapped my self confidence and I find most women don't want to get to know the real me. I have a high IQ and Sexdrive, also many Interests & Experiences. So Please Don't Judge a book by its cover as I am very sensetive to women's needs and desires. I know how to treat a woman with respect and have very good manners. So you tell me Why I rarely get any interest when I send my Flirts & Messages to someone I'm interested in !!?? I may not be a Big Hairy Gorilla, but I have more to offer ! Keefe
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15 years ago
Kitten, Seems you were right and it does seem to have been a possible glitch and I may have misread the consequences of this. Still want to point out that I wasn't bitching about it, just thought (incorrectly) that I had indeed uncovered some double standards about what women want. Nymphetaminedrm, you obviously have an insight into the human phsyque(?) that is beyond the norm, to have identified my pastry issues after I hid them for so many years. Yes it was me that used to tear the top off pies and throw them to the ground and laugh maniacally..Ahh the old days. MissBJ..well, how you came to the conclusion I was talking about you I don't know. Just because shortly after I joined RHP you contacted me and invited me for a coffee and we talked about anything and nothing and then I sent you a text thanking you for this and received no reply at all which in turn inspired me to add to a forum about 'what women want'..don't you think that is just jumping to conclusions?? lol. It's all good people. Thanks for the input.
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15 years ago
Yes!!! to all of the above.. and... to thine own self be true.. read The Invitation..poem by Oriah Mountain Dreamer.
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15 years ago
Who really knows what a women wants, every single one I have met is different.. What I think is you have to know your woman, that is hard it must be said, befriending someone and meeting them in their world, in their perceptions, in their feelings, histories, wounds, and worlds of meaning, many of those things are very personal. Sometimes I think were just supposed to know what she wants with out being told, or even when she doesn't. To do this as a man and not hold yourself responsible for someone else' s happiness, I see many great men do this, to not shrink into just the things she needs you to be, or to sever the parts of you she dislikes.. Its an art, just to keep your spine. I think it starts by choosing the right one for you. I have heard that women want another woman in the body of man, (and yes that the more about the ones I have chosen..) as a man I think that often we get sucked into the black hole of the never happy woman who dances on our need to create, provide and find solutions . Where do these un realistic expectations come from, or is it a ploy to stay in power. Who knows, right? I don't. L
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RHP User
15 years ago
Spike I only know from experience that texts and mobiles can be a tricky thing. I was ready to end a friendship over a text message. Lucky it got sorted out and is all good now. Modern technology isn't always what its cracked up to be. Double standards are on both genders its just a matter of keeping your chin up and moving on. Their loss will be someone elses gain.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'spike41' Kitten, Seems you were right and it does seem to have been a possible glitch and I may have misread the consequences of this. Still want to point out that I wasn't bitching about it, just thought (incorrectly) that I had indeed uncovered some double standards about what women want. Nymphetaminedrm, you obviously have an insight into the human phsyque(?) that is beyond the norm, to have identified my pastry issues after I hid them for so many years. Yes it was me that used to tear the top off pies and throw them to the ground and laugh maniacally..Ahh the old days. MissBJ..well, how you came to the conclusion I was talking about you I don't know. Just because shortly after I joined RHP you contacted me and invited me for a coffee and we talked about anything and nothing and then I sent you a text thanking you for this and received no reply at all which in turn inspired me to add to a forum about 'what women want'..don't you think that is just jumping to conclusions?? lol. It's all good people. Thanks for the input. "Although Im not certain...I guess you're talking about me??" Opening lines of my post.Just because you didnt receive a reply,doesn't mean I didnt send one.I dont know whether you are trying to be funny or sarcastic or what...but it's not translating well in the written form.JMO..BJxxxOH..and I wasn't mistaken anyway, was I?
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platinumblonde69
15 years ago
Most people who know me also know I hate rude people. But in saying so I have come unstuck myself a few times by assuming someone was rude...instead of blaming technology having a hissy fit....it happens...MSN...Telstra and Optus Networks...RHP even at times...It sucks when u think u r being ignored...and then about 24 hrs later..u receive the message....and think..SHit...they were telling the truth....Anyway...just wanted to add that because I have been in the same boat myself...but one thing I do...is apologise afterwards....I mean...sometimes it shows more character than just having a whinge... Plat xoxo
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RHP User
15 years ago
Me ! they just all dont know it yet
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RHP User
15 years ago
My mother, who at the age of 79, is a wise old woman, always said to me that the person you fall in love with and settle down with should simply be your best friend! I always scoffed at this, but she is right. For I have a best friend, an awesome lover, someone that is supportive and lets me do my own thing but will also tell me when I do something wrong and will always be totally honest! I adore looking after him and yes I clean, cook, shop, bring the rubbish bins in etc etc and I would not have it any other way. Our house is full of love and laughter and we are so comfortable with each other. So girls go and get yourself a best friend of the male variety and give men a break because they rock!! Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
There are bloke scammers just as there are women scammers. men aren't the only ones who get burnt when relationships go downhill. I'm still paying off my sexually transmitted debt. So is another dear friend of mine, she's still paying off the last two. It's just something that happens when one person in a relationship earns substantially more than the other, and now that often women can be earning more than men we see it happening on both sides. Tell me which person you'd rather hang around with and get to know better?
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RHP User
15 years ago
personally, girls love when u rub their clits and feel their tits. thats the basics. but u should also try toys and costumes, that gets them in the mood too sometomes.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Damn things, just a beep and the door is opened. It used to be nice to unlock the passenger door by key to let a lovely lady in, not to mention the chance to see a flash of lovely calf or thigh. Damn remotes make it a tad pointless but still if I'm taking Mrs Pup out on a date I do sometimes like to open the car door for her.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Was not having a shot at you personally, forgive me as sometimes my humour can be an acquired taste. Was merely trying to make light of the situation and am aware now that it was just a telecommunications glitch. I did and will again admit that I was wrong in my assumption of double standards on your part. I humbly apologise.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'spike41' Was not having a shot at you personally, forgive me as sometimes my humour can be an acquired taste. Was merely trying to make light of the situation and am aware now that it was just a telecommunications glitch. I did and will again admit that I was wrong in my assumption of double standards on your part. I humbly apologise. Apology accepted...and so you know...i DID NOT reply to your subsequent text...just in case there was any confusion.LOL.JMO...BJxxxThose that know me know I am a woman of my word.If people cannot value your word...then what good are you??
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RHP User
15 years ago
Plastic bag, hose, car exhaust yikes. I might look like road kill when she is finished with me (LOL in my dreams) but would like the chance to wake up and remember it. Honestly if I knew what women wanted, I'd br rich, rich, rich and mighty popular on the speaking circcuit. Until then I guess I like sooooooo many others must stay on the learning curve.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Honestly, deep down inside in places they don't want to talk about, but they do anyway coz they are female and us blokes have trouble understanding and expressing, they all basically want the same thing. A GOOD HONEST, CARING AND SHARING FELLA THAT TREATS THEM LIKE A LADY (OR NOT WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT) WHO WANTS THEM FOR THE PERSON THAT THEY ARE NOT THE PERSON WE WOULD LIKE THEM TO BE. BRINGS THEM FLOWERS NOW AND THEN AND COMPLIMENTS OFTEN. Now thats the easy bit, but somewhat down the right track. From there the road can get quite bumpy. And remember don't get startled in the head lights.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sound s like what I want so wheres my flowers orbitron LOL
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hers your flowers bewteen my teeth. Come and get em.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ORBITRON' Honestly, deep down inside in places they don't want to talk about, but they do anyway coz they are female and us blokes have trouble understanding and expressing, they all basically want the same thing. A GOOD HONEST, CARING AND SHARING FELLA THAT TREATS THEM LIKE A LADY (OR NOT WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT) WHO WANTS THEM FOR THE PERSON THAT THEY ARE NOT THE PERSON WE WOULD LIKE THEM TO BE. BRINGS THEM FLOWERS NOW AND THEN AND COMPLIMENTS OFTEN. Now thats the easy bit, but somewhat down the right track. From there the road can get quite bumpy. And remember don't get startled in the head lights. Got it in one!Now....did you wanna catch up for coffee?? All you have to do is ask!JMO..BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
not fancy possessions they count for nothing in the big picture, as hard as that may be to believe.... the love of a man wherever it may be it could be in a shack so long as I had a roof over my head and two strong arms to go to sleep in at night the simplest of things is all I require if I have the love friendship and respect of the man I love and care about.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Love your work Stalky.. you post "Feel free to discuss your disgust for the women's liberation movement, gentlemen!" . and there's almost two pages of what women want, posted by women (fair enough - I mean we certainly don't know!!). Irony . lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'GirlTuesday'Point taken... Just made me laugh... and it's probably why any sex party Stalky would organise would go off with a bang... I mean the tangents would be spectacular. That and the fact he'd definitely have 4 beers and a fountain sauce bottle somewhere for me.
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RHP User
15 years ago
will collect my flowers from bewtween your teeth anytime.... LOL
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Julesjordan' Its true. More simply what does a guy want? A beer, a comfy bed, a nice girl, a few mates for a laugh and he's dog bluey? Girls, want the nice house the nice car, the nice furniture, they great holiday, the great big wedding, the great big honeymoon, the romance, the resepct, the love, the right to choose, the right to stay, the right to leave.lol. Heck watch eddie murphy's Raw and delirious.lol. I know a guy who proposed to he's girl of 4 years, bought a ring worth 3000....she knocked him back...she wanted a rock worth 11000...gold digger? having said that it is true we live in the most selfish times of all. The grass is always green, we want more all the time. A female friend will say, a guy must have a bit of money, she needs to be kept in a lifestyle? She wants the finer things in life and hell she believes she is special? Reality is we are all just ppl. Spoke to a lady who has been married for over 40 years. Remember doing the washing a stone basin out the back and yet her son's wife left him cos he couldnt provide a better life? Dunno, where it all ends, cos i feel sorry for girls today, knowing that younger guys aren't falling for the trap. I know a guy from the local...he is pretty well off and has property and money...twice now he has been burnt and had to pay out to some girl who said, sorry its no longer working out but hey let my lawyer see how much money i can get out of you! The last girl who he thought he would be more careful with....Well, he let her stay in one of he's units for nothing for a year..no rent no bills. ALthough they lived seprately, she was till able to get over 60 grand out of him...Sigh Yes I may want the nice house, the nice car, the holidays and all the other good things in life. This is crass generalisation as I have never been married, raised my kids myself, worked every day I could and can easily provide my own roof, my own food and my own diamond ring should I desire one. A man is not necessary for any of those material things for me. You poor jaded man. We are not all tarred with the same brush. Fionabee
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RHP User
15 years ago
I want an in built bull crap detector. When I chatting to a guy and he feeds me a line that he either doesn't mean or is just saying what he thinks I want to hear. I want loud alarms and flashing lights to drop from the sky and tell me to run like hell. I don't understand why people lie on these sites. We don't know each other, there is nothing to be gained from lying or misrepresenting yourself. My main thing I want is to be treated how I treat others. I will be up front and honest. If I don't think we have a spark I will say so. I will tell you honestly what I'm thinking, feeling or doing I wont lead you on and let you believe that we may meet when I have no desire to at all. Trust and respect
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'kittten' I want an in built bull crap detector. When I chatting to a guy and he feeds me a line that he either doesn't mean or is just saying what he thinks I want to hear. I want loud alarms and flashing lights to drop from the sky and tell me to run like hell. I don't understand why people lie on these sites. We don't know each other, there is nothing to be gained from lying or misrepresenting yourself. My main thing I want is to be treated how I treat others. I will be up front and honest. If I don't think we have a spark I will say so. I will tell you honestly what I'm thinking, feeling or doing I wont lead you on and let you believe that we may meet when I have no desire to at all. Trust and respect DITTO!!!BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting '280177' I'm going to offend women here simply because I won't agree with you. You all bang on about this amazing guy, yet with yor rose coloured glasses on, you totally can't see him. "Tall,dark and male model with a fat wallet" is all you see...then you find the fact that he's an asshole "bad boy" sexually attractive so you throw yourself at him. Then you try and change him and when it works, you marry him (secretly he still does it behind your back) or you dump him and label him along with all men as pigs and abusers of women. Throw into that mix any guy under 5'10,over a pants size 34/70kg,hairy body,intelligent and opinionated,bald or balding (which is a sign of high testosterone-sex hormone ), men who volunteer their life to honourable causes,men who want to be demonstrate chivalry and honour.....none of that matter unless he fits the media image of the perfect successful man. You all bang on about "equal rights" "respect" "trust" etc....yet how many of you actually give the same basic human rights to men? I've only ever had two women open a door for me and on both occassions it was because they just happen to be in front of me and no, they didn't hold it open either. Yes I'm bald by choice, mainly because i started thinning out when I was 27, right after I found out my pregnant fiance who i adored, was sleeping around with women/men/couples in swingers clubs and sex sites and aborted my baby behind my back. Yes I have baggage and issue's...anyone who doesn't is lying to themselves. Real men just want to be men, be loved and adored by their women, make their girl proud,be a great dad and husband and be treated with respect. Have sex when sex is wanted by them as well as by their woman..not beg and steal and lie just to get a half assed handjob. Housework,headaches...blah blah blah...and then suddenly you whinge about how men can't keep up and don't fulfill you sexual needs..no wonder, when you control sex for your own selfish needs. And admit it, it's empowering to control men with your body,but you whinge about how men objectify womens bodies and sex...come on, are you seriously going to try and pull that line? The women in mens mags and porno's are forced to do it against their will.....as if!! Ask those women why they do it and they'll say they love the attention...the objectification of the sexually attractive female form. Ask yourself if you consider yourself bi-sexual, why you find a total female stranger sexually attractive when you've not even said hello to her, then stand back and look at yourself and you'll see you just objectified her yourself. Pot calling the kettle black no?? Women lib has ruined the equality of men and women as couples and people in alot of ways. Having to study law and human rights at the moment, it's improved the quality of life for alot of women. But it has enabled the bad women to use it as an excuse to treat men like shit and get away with it. You want that corporate high paying job, yet you expect the man to pay for the dates...WTF?!? You harp on about how much men make women insecure about body image...yet you all go stupid over strippers and male models and anyone the media says is hot....care to explain yourselves? What is wrong with a guy who's shorter than you? He can't protect you...are you serous? I've met an international kick-boxing champion who was shorter than me, and I'm about 5'8...and I'd never mess with him. I've met plenty of lanky 5ft tall guys who are full of shit and dumb as as horses ass...one aggressive look or punch in the right spot and they're on the ground crying like a baby. A real man does not need to use physical violence,he uses his brain and tact to not get in the situation in the first place. I adore women, yes tiny/petite/fit/athletic feminine women.....educated and intelligent,employed,compassionate,sexual and open minded..preferably bi-sexual,NOT LESBIAN minded and use a man for his cock.A woman who will give her man sex,love,affection,attention and can handle it all back 100%. A woman who listens to her man,but can also speak her mind rationally and see both sides.A woman who wants kids with her man because he's a good man, not because he's a hot ken doll with money...kinda getting sick of meeting single mums with kids in the 2-7yr age bracket who found out that the ken doll they got pregnant too WAS talking shit all along and WAS an ass. What....you didn't know that BEFORE you got married and had his 2 kids? Let me guess...you thought the whole bad boy image was a turn on,and the moment you had his kids it'd all changed? "He was not like that when I met him ad daed him"...no shit sherlock, of course not. He had his barbie doll..his property,his possesion and was getting oodles of sex because you found him hot...why would he let his true colours show until he's got you trapped emotionally?? I'm all for equality,fairness and natural justice. I'm getting sick of that being twisted to suit certain personal agenda's based on image and money and yet those same people (women mainly) demand that they not be held accountable for it. You want equality...but you're happy to ignore it when it comes to men. You want sex on your terms and you way with who fits your fantasy according to the media...but what men want is deemed demeaning and offesive to women !! Unreal....the day women admit men are the stronger sex and women are the weaker sex is when equality rules in a relationship. We are meant to compliment for each others weaknesses and strengths...that's why we were created in this physical form of men being the one with the penis and stronger and women with the vagina and weaker/softer. From what I see..all the relationships that are happy,successful and equal are those where the man is honourable and honest and the woman is subservient and respectful.He honours her because she compliments him,she compliments him because he honours her. I gotta say...for the most part...I agree with you.The only part I disagree with is where you imply that simply by virtue of my gender...I am the very woman you are complaining about.I'm not.Sure...there are women like you describe...and lots of them too...but we are not ALL like that...just like not ALL men are shallow Ken-doll wannabe's that only want some pretty little thing to show off to their mates.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I dunno why you're on RHP 280177 - I really think you need to get yourself some therapy. All of your diatribes paint women as these worthless selfish creatures and yet you have this ideal woman who you want to complement you.. how can she possibly exist, and if she does exist, why would she come near you with the bitterness that exudes from you? Your willingness to pigeon-hole everyone based solely on how they look also shows a distinct lack of maturity. Obviously you've been burnt badly in the past, but are all the women in your life as you describe? Your friends partners? Mother? Sisters? Cousins? Colleagues? If they are then, damn, you've certainly had a bad run of luck with the women in your life.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think its because I always try to give you the benifit of the doubt ..... truly whitie I do ! I agree with this bit ...... " We are meant to compliment for each others weaknesses and strengths...that's why we were created in this physical form of men being the one with the penis and stronger and women with the vagina and weaker/softer. From what I see..all the relationships that are happy,successful and equal are those where the man is honourable and honest and the woman is subservient and respectful.He honours her because she compliments him,she compliments him because he honours her." This pretty much describes the way miss sarah and I relate to each other ...... and may I say there are several other reflections of similair relationships quoted here. It works well for us , has done for a long time and we have no intention of changing. Ours is described as a "really amazing relationship ..... stronger than any other I have seen" (relationship cousellor) ......oh and why were we there because we see relationships like a car they need a tune up from time to time and benifit from working on them.... maybe thats why its so good. I think whitie you and I both know that there are some terribly large generailisations in there ......and as one who dislike generalisations ........ (cough) is it ...........quote " Pot calling the kettle black no??" I dont note what you do, that all women want ......a "Tall,dark and male model with a fat wallet" ..... have you ever considered that it may just be your poor choice in women and it is in fact that subset you have choosen to admire that are like this .......? You also seem to have a fairly limited in your range of choices yourself ....... "I adore women, yes tiny/petite/fit/athletic feminine women.....educated and intelligent,employed,compassionate,sexual and open minded..preferably bi-sexual" I have whitie for sometime noted your attacks on women who challange you seem to be about thier weight and looks and as a generalisation you seem to attack that subset of women more than thin petite women ..... again calling the kettle black a little. Whitie I, like you, think the womens lib movement has alot to answer for , and so may I say do many of the women on hear in rhp land. I dont want women to open doors for me and I dont look for girls that want to be equal to me. It may though after looking at many of your post over sometime in fact be YOU that needs to evaluate your choices, and admiration for certain groups of women. Maybe then you will find more success. My success in life has come by adjusting me, not me trying to convince or change others to suit my agenda. I always have more success changing me than changing others. But in reflection I will keep reading because in life we need whities , we need the emotional arguement the extreme. I missed you when you disappeared for a while. Brae ........
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh dear you are so very bitter. Huge issues. If we (the female portion of the populace) are all that bad then maybe you had better turn gay for surely we have one or two uses that you find. But then again at 5'8" maybe you have small man syndrome. Very few of us go through life unscathed and I am sorry that you feel the need to vent such vindictiveness here on this site and make rash generalisations that lump us all in the same category. I have been hurt...more than once. I have had my tender heart trampled on by some lying, cheating, backstabbing scum. Left to raise my kids by myself (with absolutely no maintenance either I might add) Not once but twice. But hey, I have not lost faith in the male part of the human race. I dont need a man to care for me - but it is nice. I dont need a man to pay my way - but it is nice when they offer. I dont need a Ken Doll - I am no Barbie and Ken will not be such a doll when he is eighty. I dont need a man to protect me - I have been doing that mself all my life. I just want someone that comes home at the end of the day and shares his troubles with me while allowing me to share mine. Just sometimes it would be nice to have a man hold me close and let me know it is all okay - even when it isnt. It would be nice if there was someone there to help me with the chores, gardening as well as household , although I have spent many years coping with this just fine. I want to wake up and see the same face every morning for the rest of my life. I want a friend, companion and lover - all in the one man. And that Mr 280177 is all I want - or need!
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RHP User
15 years ago
im not easily offended but shit you have just offended me in a way no man has in years "A woman who will give her man sex,love,affection,attention and can handle it all back 100%. A woman who listens to her man,but can also speak her mind rationally and see both sides.A woman who wants kids with her man because he's a good man, not because he's a hot ken doll with money" this is me to a T...im this woman you have discribed here...its a shame i am also short, fat (sorry Fionabee), a redhead and a single mum...because if i was tiny/petite and blonde, id be your ideal woman you cant keep putting all us women in the same basket...some of us are nice and thoughtful and sweet enough to hold a door open for a man....if i see anyone (man or woman, old or young) il help them both my exes had nothing and are definately not Ken dolls...my first ex is no taller than me (165cm) and is chubby...my second ex is tall, bald and full of tatts from his head to his toes and eveywhere inbetween...so i have never and will never go for the hunky bloke that looks like a Ken doll...Ken does nothing for me i go for a man that treats me well and lets me treat him like a god sometimes you really need to think before you speak numbers....your really being unfair sometimes and your offending the people that will willingly defend you....maybe you should step out of your box and give others a chance sometime, you may like what we have to offer roxxy :-(
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RHP User
15 years ago
28177, I can't say that I agree with everything that you say, but I'm sorry for the circumstances that lead to you feeling that way. Because men are somewhat simple creatures, I think the amount of emotional distress we suffer is sometimes underestimated. Good luck with it buddy!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well some women are wonderful,hell they even behave like human beings.But let me generalise about Australian women.Not about men, the same may well be true but that’s not my concern.Australian women are:- selfish- self-centred.- schemers- game players- dishonest- fatThat’s enough for starters.In the same way that beer has helped ugly people have sex since 2000 BC,the RHP site is designed to help fat unattractive women have sex.The unfortunate men on this site have so little to choose from that they lower their standardsand very unattractive women then become desirable.When you are lost in the desert for years on end even dirty brackish water tastes good.The women don’t have to try.They don’t have to take care of themsleves and make an effort.Because there are so many willing men ready to take her.On her terms.Always it’s on the woman’s terms.She always has a stated or secret agenda.There is no give and take, no meeting point.if you want it buddy you will do it my way and give me what i want.This is the game and the women nearly always win.Because men want sex first then by accident love might happen.Women want so many things first, each woman has her own long checklist of things,then when enough boxes are ticked she might think about having sex.So for men there is an enormous lack of available sex.Thus the whole social situation is severely weighted in favour of women.The only solution is for scientists to create a “I don’t like sex” pill for men.Imagine the difference that would make.Suddenly women would feel completely disorientated,Men would not be chasing/looking at/seducing them.The tables would be turned 180 degrees.Women would have to try, have to compromise, have compete with other women.Because now there is a shortage of men who want them.All you women here on this site,try really hard to imagine you’re a man here.Read women’s profiles, look at their pics,now, honestly, how many are actually attractive?My favourite is the BBW acronym, makes me laugh, hey it means you’re fat why not say it.I see (very briefly) really fat ugly women in the video chat rooms and there are guys there telling them they look hot and sexy.Come on guys, stop lying just to get a root.Going to the supermarket, espacially when i have just returned from asia, is like a horror show.So many fat obese unattractive women waddling around, its just awful to see.And all ages too.If you’re over 45 a little “extra padding” is probably acceptable.Girls, you are not looking good.All this talk about equality (in personal relationships) is nonsense,if you really like someone and she equally likes you, each can’t help themselves in trying to please the other.But when everything becomes a negotiation then you know there is no substance to the relationship.Well to bring it back to basics.Let me say, for us men, its really hard work to get a root in this country.And often, in the cold light of the morning, not worth the effort for what you get.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We all experience stuff throughout life and paves the way now... Got to find a source to help move on...stop generalising! Gosh if I treated every man I met with negativity generated from my past relationships, I would never get any where..and never feel happy. So darling please move on or find a source to help pave that way to be a happier human being...280177 Turn your energy around to the positive..You are a smart and intelligent man...use it to be a great person that you are underneath all the baggage...or you just need time. Good luck darling, adore reading your opinions neverless.. xxx Care to you 280177
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'GirlTuesday' When I was very little, I read fairy tales and believed in the "Once upon a time" and "Happily ever after" theories. As I grew up, I saw people experiencing very happy lives with rock solid relationships, be they husband and wife, or families with children. I know that such relationships exist and provide the basis of what we loosely call society.I also know, that fairy tales are based more on fiction, than reality. A dose of cold hard reality brought me to my knees, but humans have the ability to bounce back :) We need to look within ourselves for happiness and then most aspects of our lives will be in sync. I yearn for a traditional relationship, where I am wanted by someone special, who accepts me as I am. Not many people will find such a partner online, because this environment allows people to keep shopping for someone better, or whatever it is that takes their fancy, today, tomorrow and next Tuesday.I hear you however do not doubt the intentions of all guys on here there are genuine ones among them... Don't believe they are all bad my ex left me for a woman on line on another site, if I let it it would kill me to have my trust betrayed like that, but I know the world I have now and the one I have in it is far far far better than the world that would have been with the ex. So allow your heart to believe you deserve the happiness that awaits you whether within or without.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm a simple uncomplicated woman with the same in my needs,Love me for me ( warts and all)Allow me to love you (warts and all) Someone to talk endlessly toGood old fashioned romance both given and recieved.Turn up with a smile a huge hug and kiss and a beautiful bottle of wine... (a gentleman)Forgive me when I stuff up and vice versa..... (hey cant be perfect 24/7)Do all that and you' ll have me in a heart beat
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mark1iron. It makes me very sad that you feel that way. Australian women are selfish, self-centred, schemers, game players, dishonest and fat. So are some Australian men too. Yes I am fat, obese, and overweight. Whatever label you want to give me. I may not be catwalk material but neither do I want to be. Just because I’m overweight does not categorise me as unlovable, undesirable or a bad person in any way. I may not be your type but your attitude is just as unattractive to me as my weight is to you. I am successful in my career and happy and content with my life. I know I am a good person who caring and compassionate I do not need to be a certain size to have those qualities. I don’t want or need to be taken care of but I would like a companion to share my life with. This doesn’t mean I will throw open my legs to the first male who shows me attention, gives me a compliment or says something nice about my figure. Men and women are different when it comes to looking for a partner. Some men want to “try before they buy” into a relationship and some women want to get to know the character of the person before they share to much of themselves. Even this comment is a generalisation and not what each individual is looking for. Men and women even have different needs for sex. Some want intimacy some want physical satisfaction and some want that connection that allows them to trust and explore their desires safely. There are game players, cheaters, profile fudgers, manipulates in both sexes. It’s not a female characteristic. Yes I have been sucked in by these kinds of people myself, but I just chalk it up to a learning experience and try to recognise signs in the future. If this site is so full of ugly unattractive women why are you here? And why do you go into the chat rooms if you only want to see perfection. The thing that amuses me the most about our comments is that I am a chubby chick and you can tell by my profile pics but still YOU sent me an email.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Baby your words are such a HUGE TURN ON!!!!! Just love an eloquent male such as yourself who adores women in all thier forms. I bet you are soooooo hot that you have to turn the women away in droves. Love it baby!!!!! I am over 45, have an average body. NOT fat...NOT obese...NOT BBW. AVERAGE. Ugly? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. My kids dont think so, the mirror tells me I am not and my friends also say I am not so I guess they all lie to keep me happy. I bet your mother thinks you are gorgeous but hey...you do nothing for me so why should I fuck you? Clearly you have absolutely no respect for women and that means you are going to be a lousy lover as you will only think of having a ROOT! NEXT!!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't give mugs the time of day.... xxx ps Get over yourselves xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mark1iron' Well some women are wonderful,hell they even behave like human beings.But let me generalise about Australian women.Not about men, the same may well be true but that’s not my concern.Australian women are:- selfish- self-centred.- schemers- game players- dishonest- fatThat’s enough for starters.In the same way that beer has helped ugly people have sex since 2000 BC,the RHP site is designed to help fat unattractive women have sex.The unfortunate men on this site have so little to choose from that they lower their standardsand very unattractive women then become desirable.When you are lost in the desert for years on end even dirty brackish water tastes good.The women don’t have to try.They don’t have to take care of themsleves and make an effort.Because there are so many willing men ready to take her.On her terms.Always it’s on the woman’s terms.She always has a stated or secret agenda.There is no give and take, no meeting point.if you want it buddy you will do it my way and give me what i want.This is the game and the women nearly always win.Because men want sex first then by accident love might happen.Women want so many things first, each woman has her own long checklist of things,then when enough boxes are ticked she might think about having sex.So for men there is an enormous lack of available sex.Thus the whole social situation is severely weighted in favour of women.The only solution is for scientists to create a “I don’t like sex” pill for men.Imagine the difference that would make.Suddenly women would feel completely disorientated,Men would not be chasing/looking at/seducing them.The tables would be turned 180 degrees.Women would have to try, have to compromise, have compete with other women.Because now there is a shortage of men who want them.All you women here on this site,try really hard to imagine you’re a man here.Read women’s profiles, look at their pics,now, honestly, how many are actually attractive?My favourite is the BBW acronym, makes me laugh, hey it means you’re fat why not say it.I see (very briefly) really fat ugly women in the video chat rooms and there are guys there telling them they look hot and sexy.Come on guys, stop lying just to get a root.Going to the supermarket, espacially when i have just returned from asia, is like a horror show.So many fat obese unattractive women waddling around, its just awful to see.And all ages too.If you’re over 45 a little “extra padding” is probably acceptable.Girls, you are not looking good.All this talk about equality (in personal relationships) is nonsense,if you really like someone and she equally likes you, each can’t help themselves in trying to please the other.But when everything becomes a negotiation then you know there is no substance to the relationship.Well to bring it back to basics.Let me say, for us men, its really hard work to get a root in this country.And often, in the cold light of the morning, not worth the effort for what you get. i now know what im doing wrong...atm im the one chasing the man i want and im being nice and letting him get his way...plus iv lost weight since being on here (obviously i should be putting it on) hmmmmm...i should be bitchier and nastier and then id get a man...DOH!!!! whose the idiot??? roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
wow.....who took double dose of their nasty & bitter pill this morning.... I am going out on a limb with a crass generalisation for you....pop on back to asia and find yourself a lovely woman who will be submissive and "luv you long time" ....or long enough to gain her citizenship, then you can start complaing all over again how women use men. Thanks for showing your true colours and feelings towards woman so early in your forum participation. TassieRose...I agree, he & numbers boy must be related. There have been a handful of exceptional men I have been fortunate to meet with on this crazy site....the rest have been gameplayers with no respect for anyone (male or female) other than themselves. On that cheery note...I am out of here, back to the fun of the real world where common courtesy is the norm and not the exception. ...no longer intrigued & curious, more dis-illusioned and disappointed.
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RHP User
15 years ago
... mark1iron, you're on your own - there's no room here for that sort of vitriol. Even if you believe every word of it, there's nothing to be gained by trying to hurt the feelings of women here that you may never have had anything to do with - it's just unkind. The big spray was a bad idea.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Not sure....but has mark1iron just trumped 280177 in this post ??? This is a classic example of why all the nice guys get pissed off with the whole thang ;) Love your passion guys...but unfortunately you infuse it with a (passive) aggression...not very attractive Jx (....a liberated opinion ;p)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mark1iron' Well some women are wonderful,hell they even behave like human beings.But let me generalise about Australian women.Not about men, the same may well be true but that’s not my concern.Australian women are:- selfish- self-centred.- schemers- game players- dishonest- fatThat’s enough for starters.In the same way that beer has helped ugly people have sex since 2000 BC,the RHP site is designed to help fat unattractive women have sex.The unfortunate men on this site have so little to choose from that they lower their standardsand very unattractive women then become desirable.When you are lost in the desert for years on end even dirty brackish water tastes good.The women don’t have to try.They don’t have to take care of themsleves and make an effort.Because there are so many willing men ready to take her.On her terms.Always it’s on the woman’s terms.She always has a stated or secret agenda.There is no give and take, no meeting point.if you want it buddy you will do it my way and give me what i want.This is the game and the women nearly always win.Because men want sex first then by accident love might happen.Women want so many things first, each woman has her own long checklist of things,then when enough boxes are ticked she might think about having sex.So for men there is an enormous lack of available sex.Thus the whole social situation is severely weighted in favour of women.The only solution is for scientists to create a “I don’t like sex” pill for men.Imagine the difference that would make.Suddenly women would feel completely disorientated,Men would not be chasing/looking at/seducing them.The tables would be turned 180 degrees.Women would have to try, have to compromise, have compete with other women.Because now there is a shortage of men who want them.All you women here on this site,try really hard to imagine you’re a man here.Read women’s profiles, look at their pics,now, honestly, how many are actually attractive?My favourite is the BBW acronym, makes me laugh, hey it means you’re fat why not say it.I see (very briefly) really fat ugly women in the video chat rooms and there are guys there telling them they look hot and sexy.Come on guys, stop lying just to get a root.Going to the supermarket, espacially when i have just returned from asia, is like a horror show.So many fat obese unattractive women waddling around, its just awful to see.And all ages too.If you’re over 45 a little “extra padding” is probably acceptable.Girls, you are not looking good.All this talk about equality (in personal relationships) is nonsense,if you really like someone and she equally likes you, each can’t help themselves in trying to please the other.But when everything becomes a negotiation then you know there is no substance to the relationship.Well to bring it back to basics.Let me say, for us men, its really hard work to get a root in this country.And often, in the cold light of the morning, not worth the effort for what you get. PMSL your pullin all the chicks arent you bebe ........ I lurve these diatribes by short ugly men ROFL ........ You guys are top shelf so much to offer ........ Hey if your paying for it in asia Hun it kinda don't count ya know ! Hey I don't find it hard to get a root at all in this country .......wow makes me kinda wonder what you sweetie maybe doin wrong ???????? Brae ........rootin like a rabbit right here in OZ !
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mark1iron' Well some women are wonderful,hell they even behave like human beings.But let me generalise about Australian women.Not about men, the same may well be true but that’s not my concern.Australian women are:- selfish- self-centred.- schemers- game players- dishonest- fatThat’s enough for starters.In the same way that beer has helped ugly people have sex since 2000 BC,the RHP site is designed to help fat unattractive women have sex.The unfortunate men on this site have so little to choose from that they lower their standardsand very unattractive women then become desirable.When you are lost in the desert for years on end even dirty brackish water tastes good.The women don’t have to try.They don’t have to take care of themsleves and make an effort.Because there are so many willing men ready to take her.On her terms.Always it’s on the woman’s terms.She always has a stated or secret agenda.There is no give and take, no meeting point.if you want it buddy you will do it my way and give me what i want.This is the game and the women nearly always win.Because men want sex first then by accident love might happen.Women want so many things first, each woman has her own long checklist of things,then when enough boxes are ticked she might think about having sex.So for men there is an enormous lack of available sex.Thus the whole social situation is severely weighted in favour of women.The only solution is for scientists to create a “I don’t like sex” pill for men.Imagine the difference that would make.Suddenly women would feel completely disorientated,Men would not be chasing/looking at/seducing them.The tables would be turned 180 degrees.Women would have to try, have to compromise, have compete with other women.Because now there is a shortage of men who want them.All you women here on this site,try really hard to imagine you’re a man here.Read women’s profiles, look at their pics,now, honestly, how many are actually attractive?My favourite is the BBW acronym, makes me laugh, hey it means you’re fat why not say it.I see (very briefly) really fat ugly women in the video chat rooms and there are guys there telling them they look hot and sexy.Come on guys, stop lying just to get a root.Going to the supermarket, espacially when i have just returned from asia, is like a horror show.So many fat obese unattractive women waddling around, its just awful to see.And all ages too.If you’re over 45 a little “extra padding” is probably acceptable.Girls, you are not looking good.All this talk about equality (in personal relationships) is nonsense,if you really like someone and she equally likes you, each can’t help themselves in trying to please the other.But when everything becomes a negotiation then you know there is no substance to the relationship.Well to bring it back to basics.Let me say, for us men, its really hard work to get a root in this country.And often, in the cold light of the morning, not worth the effort for what you get. next time do us all a favour and don't come back from Asia!lilmiss
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes Kitten, and you didn’t have to courtesy to reply.But i thought your reply was very considered and sensible, thanks for that.Interesting responses generally in the sense that nearly everyone took my post as a personal insult.Just a note:To understand other people you need to listen to what they say and think about THEM.If you immediately start thinking about yourself you will never understand the other person or what they are saying.This is a very common mistake in conversation, discussion and debate.You have to take yourself out of the equation.I wasn’t talking about YOU.You need to understand that what i said was an opinion.It is not a belief, a credo, a faith or a deep ingrained angry resentful emotion.Its called an opinion.But everyone made the mistake of thinking that what i said is me, the whole me and nothing but the me.Nobody wanted to know why i would say what i said.Ah well i have completely killed myself on this site.But i won’t recant and become one of those guys who try to act nice and ingratiate themsleves with the women here.They are quite sad.Honesty, an agile mind, knowledge, humour, creativity, interest and the pursuit of understanding.These are the things that make women desirable to me.Predictable comments about asian women also.Is that racism or jealousy.Certainly its stereotypical and shows only ignorance of women from other countries and cultures.I think a lot you would benefit from spending time immersed in other cultures.You might come to realize that the average Austalian is quite plain, simple and without much substance.A lovely country with dull boring people.I have lots of opinions.Want to hear any more?hehehee bye now................................
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RHP User
15 years ago
I might be fat, but I'm hell cute, and I do better getting sex off RHP than I do on here.... it's obviously not working as designed!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'phoenixlady64' Quoting 'GirlTuesday' When I was very little, I read fairy tales and believed in the "Once upon a time" and "Happily ever after" theories. As I grew up, I saw people experiencing very happy lives with rock solid relationships, be they husband and wife, or families with children. I know that such relationships exist and provide the basis of what we loosely call society.I also know, that fairy tales are based more on fiction, than reality. A dose of cold hard reality brought me to my knees, but humans have the ability to bounce back :) We need to look within ourselves for happiness and then most aspects of our lives will be in sync. I yearn for a traditional relationship, where I am wanted by someone special, who accepts me as I am. Not many people will find such a partner online, because this environment allows people to keep shopping for someone better, or whatever it is that takes their fancy, today, tomorrow and next Tuesday.I hear you however do not doubt the intentions of all guys on here there are genuine ones among them... Don't believe they are all bad my ex left me for a woman on line on another site, if I let it it would kill me to have my trust betrayed like that, but I know the world I have now is far far far better than the world that would have been with the ex. So allow your heart to believe you deserve the happiness that awaits you whether within or without.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ba ha ha ha ha ha ha. Thankfully I wam not born nor was I raised in this country and therefore can consider myself outside of the diatribe offered by you for your considered opinion on women. I have, however, been an Australian Citizen for over 25 years so I guess it does apply to me. Crass generalisation at its best. No I did not take that load of horse pucky personally because I know full well that it does not apply to me. I did, however, get my hackles up as you and mark1iron both made a full on attack to over 50% of the populace. Weaker sex? Do tell me why you think of women as the weaker sex? Are you talking physically? If that is the case then I personally know women that could whip your ass. Not ALL women are weaker than ALL men. Surely you are not talking about mental capacity? The most fun GF you EVER dated? Why on earth you let such a paragon of female servitude go is beyond comprehension. My arse may be fat buddy but I paid for every single ounce of flesh on that arse. No male has EVER looked after me nor helped me raise my children, not physical help, nor mental nor financial! Yes I am a minority. Further more I spent 20 years working in hard, dirty, physical environment that 20 years ago was considered too hard for women just to educate my children before I gained my degree as a mature aged student. Going overseas to find a real woman? From countries that value thier women so little the leave thier baby girls out to die? Quick then, go and rescue one from the sex trade. Lets see how much sex you get after the marriage certificate and what baubles you have to trade - as a married man - to have sex with your cute little wife who understands her place in your life all too well. I agree that there are women out there who treat men like shit. They are in the minority. No one has the guts to meet you? Happy to do so. Come, have a beer with me. More than happy to dispell some of the myths you have built into your protective armoury. I will even buy the beer and to prove what a great girl I am,cook the bbq to go with the beer. I have no idea where you get the idea from that we have all had a happy, spoilt, priveledged life from either. Just another crass generalisation. Not only am I happy to meet in person, more than happy to debate the merits of man V woman off the forums. Have a great day sweetie. Fionabee
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mark1iron' To understand other people you need to listen to what they say and think about THEM.If you immediately start thinking about yourself you will never understand the other person or what they are saying.This is a very common mistake in conversation, discussion and debate.You have to take yourself out of the equation.I wasn’t talking about YOU....Nobody wanted to know why i would say what i said. Mate, I'm not having a go at you, but I do think it's worth explaining why people got the impression that they did. You specifically said that you were generalising about Australian women - that does make it about them, not you. Had you said that "I have encountered women who are selfish, self-centred, schemers, etc" I'm quite sure your posting would have been received far more sympathetically. You can't tar all the women here with the same brush and then say it's not about them.As for whether we'd want to hear why you say what you did, I must admit that my own interest in other people's tales of woe is somewhat limited. We've all got our stories of hurt and to be honest, I don't get much out of comparing and contrasting mine with anyone else's. I think that women are better at that sort of thing than men though, so you may have opened up some interesting territory, had you not alienated the girls with your first post.I'd be willing to be that if you took a different angle and tried again, you'd find that you may not have burned all your bridges. RHP being a microcosm of society generally means that there are some very forgiving people here - you may even find someone you like.
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RHP User
15 years ago
280177, I don't think that I've seen anyone question the substance of your posts, such as:a) you've had some really bad things done to you by women,b) some women are capable of deeply hurting men, seemingly without caring in the least,c) you have every right to your opinions, particularly those formed from personal experience,d) the roles of the genders in other societies suit some people better than the roles in Australia,e) etc.The main objections seem to be with the very angry tone that you convey them with and the fact that you appear to blame women here with having done or being capable of doing all those things as well. Blaming everyone sounds like giving up to me - maybe you should take a dose of your own advice. Get off your ass, pick yourself up and get out there again, just like the rest of us.
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RHP User
15 years ago
...."Get off your fat whinging ass and change peoples opinions and views about your minority" i tried and i got shit on by YOU...i tried to extend a friendly hand...i tried being nice and talking to you and YOU FUCKING SHIT ON ME...i got crap for something i wrote which you didnt even have the balls to tell me what...just had a go you dont even have the balls to reply to my explanation....your the fake, your the gutless one sitting behind your computer you make me sick....yes im a single mum, yes im fat (sorry Fionabee), yes im a fucking bitch when pushed...yes im everything you hate AND IM DAMN PROUD TO BE ALL OF THOSE THINGS you want a sub...be honest the reason you dont like Aussie women is because their balls are bigger than yours and you cant handle it this was ment to be a thread about WHAT WOMEN WANT not want two men who dont have a clue need....but isnt it good to see the women of RHP can defend themselves so well....love the women of RHP roxxy...appoligies to the fabulous Stalky xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Now Mr G you drew them in you lulled them into a sense of security, let them think they were within like minds ....... then they walked in, Snap the trap goes off closed door behind them ....... and your there chuckling. Snowshoe you smoothy, nice work with your psychotherapist chatter I am falling in love with you..... guiness book of records and art work broadway shows ......... Oh BUT..... he may have an opinion but that in fact does not make it right and luckily society still contains just enough individualism to disagree vermently ............ now off you go you super genius and discover how to make the engine work more effectively on hydrogen .............LOL Now you other boys, SNOWSHOE = Getting a root You other Kids = Wanking in the dark or heading overseas to get some ...... bahahahahahahah Brae .......Wanting to fuck snowshoe ........ mmmmmmmmm
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3'now off you go you super genius and discover how to make the engine work more effectively on hydrogen .............LOL Now you other boys, SNOWSHOE = Getting a root You other Kids = Wanking in the dark or heading overseas to get some ...... bahahahahahahah Brae .......Wanting to fuck snowshoe ........ mmmmmmmmm Well Brae, I damn near pissed myself reading your very funny (if not highly optimistic) assessment of my sex life!As for the use of hydrogen, I favour a less disruptive form of energy to one that replaces fossil fuel with another resource. I'd prefer to see big developments made in solar, and note that there recently was an announcement about dramatically increased photon capture and conversion rates. Transformation of water into its constituent hydrogen and oxygen atoms would be more appropriate for a project such as the colonisation of the moon - keep an eye on my profile for updates...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' ...."Get off your fat whinging ass and change peoples opinions and views about your minority" i tried and i got shit on by YOU...i tried to extend a friendly hand...i tried being nice and talking to you and YOU FUCKING SHIT ON ME...i got crap for something i wrote which you didnt even have the balls to tell me what...just had a go you dont even have the balls to reply to my explanation....your the fake, your the gutless one sitting behind your computer you make me sick....yes im a single mum, yes im fat (sorry Fionabee), yes im a fucking bitch when pushed...yes im everything you hate AND IM DAMN PROUD TO BE ALL OF THOSE THINGS you want a sub...be honest the reason you dont like Aussie women is because their balls are bigger than yours and you cant handle it this was ment to be a thread about WHAT WOMEN WANT not want two men who dont have a clue need....but isnt it good to see the women of RHP can defend themselves so well....love the women of RHP roxxy...appoligies to the fabulous Stalky xx You just make me smile .......you angry little thang .......I can see those cute rosie cheeks getting redder and redder and the BP rising and rising ........ and BAAAAAAAAAAARF out comes the above ...... You go my lovely little arguementative sub ...... then stand to be inspected then bend over and I will .............. Alway lurve ya Rox Brae
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' ...."Get off your fat whinging ass and change peoples opinions and views about your minority" i tried and i got shit on by YOU...i tried to extend a friendly hand...i tried being nice and talking to you and YOU FUCKING SHIT ON ME...i got crap for something i wrote which you didnt even have the balls to tell me what...just had a go you dont even have the balls to reply to my explanation....your the fake, your the gutless one sitting behind your computer you make me sick....yes im a single mum, yes im fat (sorry Fionabee), yes im a fucking bitch when pushed...yes im everything you hate AND IM DAMN PROUD TO BE ALL OF THOSE THINGS you want a sub...be honest the reason you dont like Aussie women is because their balls are bigger than yours and you cant handle it this was ment to be a thread about WHAT WOMEN WANT not want two men who dont have a clue need....but isnt it good to see the women of RHP can defend themselves so well....love the women of RHP roxxy...appoligies to the fabulous Stalky xx God I love hearing the truth :) Heaps of hugs to ya Jx
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magsluvsoral
15 years ago
Oral sex and alot of it See not all women are hard to work out. MLO xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'magsluvsoral' Oral sex and alot of it See not all women are hard to work out. MLO xxx Your wish is my command
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' ...."Get off your fat whinging ass and change peoples opinions and views about your minority" i tried and i got shit on by YOU...i tried to extend a friendly hand...i tried being nice and talking to you and YOU FUCKING SHIT ON ME...i got crap for something i wrote which you didnt even have the balls to tell me what...just had a go you dont even have the balls to reply to my explanation....your the fake, your the gutless one sitting behind your computer you make me sick....yes im a single mum, yes im fat (sorry Fionabee), yes im a fucking bitch when pushed...yes im everything you hate AND IM DAMN PROUD TO BE ALL OF THOSE THINGS you want a sub...be honest the reason you dont like Aussie women is because their balls are bigger than yours and you cant handle it this was ment to be a thread about WHAT WOMEN WANT not want two men who dont have a clue need....but isnt it good to see the women of RHP can defend themselves so well....love the women of RHP roxxy...appoligies to the fabulous Stalky xx crackin me up man, ahahahahahahahahahahaahaha, Earl
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