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Why do people lie on this site?
January 01 2015
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6exxy
11 years ago
People meeting and sharing their experience. There never seems to be this kind of post here. We don't meed names or explicit details then again maybe there is a post and I just don't know?😏
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RHP User
11 years ago
I saw the heading.. and didn't look at the OP..I come on here all primed up to let rip with my usual BULLSHIT... and I see you....Fck it...every SINGLE time that happens Meander..My fckn heart MELTS..And I go to shit!!HNY Gorgeous lady!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is that a fact😳xxFreya
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On_Safari
11 years ago
I'd like to see fewer dicks and more profile pictures of gentlemen smiling and not mugshots. Just sayin'. I'd also like to see less of some and more of others. 😎
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RHP User
11 years ago
Actually I would like more talk about various kinks, but without everyone screaming about safe Sex or making assumptions about the poster and why they posted the question. Why can't people take more things at face value? so, ball gags for the fun police? :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
…there aren't any topics I'd like to see less of, particularly. I don't even mind the cyclical nature of the newbie questions…everyone was a newbie once and they deserve their moment in front of the microphone like any one else. Whether they think before speaking or not. Kind of like kids. As for forums I'd like to see more of? I'd like to see more conversation and debate on subjects unrelated to sex and flirting.Intelligent, interesting stuff. Talking to strangers about sex across a data connection isn't my thing..I'd rather save that until I meet them in person..maybe I'm old fashioned like that.And some of the flirting can be a bit lame to read…save that for private messages…it's usually intended for one poster anyway. These are just my personal opinions, of course..and are not backed up by any facts.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am pretty sure I have read numerous posts of yours espousing safe sex practice and infection. So, why the about face?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79' Is that a fact😳xxFreya Let me attempt to answer for you then. Less grammar Nazis and more ninja fucks?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would really like to see less postings of ppl who feel the need to jump in and belittle others for their opinions/responses, and stop an informitive topic dead in its tracks by directing attention onto themselves (usually done with childish name calling and bullying) Seems to be the same few serial offenders, who are too arrogant and self opinionated to realise that it just makes them look stupid. The pie moderators do end up deleting their posts eventually, but then the threads come across as a little confusing with obvious gaps. Oh and if someone posts about a fantasy of theirs , dont shoot it down because its not what you would be attracted to being involved in.Keep the mind open and you might learn more about other people.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Less jumping all over people for 'advertising'. It's a site for promoting and seeking whatever you're looking for, via your profile and messages. Advertising is natural on here. Let it go ffs people. Wankers who advertise will be left out in the cold - not because they advertise but because they're wankers and people can spot that a mile off. Less bitching, gossiping and carrying on ffs. The number of SWB threads and comments about who said what where is mind numbing. Silence is a statement too. Less personal attacks and more responses to what people actually say. If you can't critique a point without attacking a person then ffs shut up. Less absolutism eg this is just a sex site, all men are bastards, all women are romantic fools, cheaters are evil and all that rubbish. I find those kinds of absolutist statements painful and a turn-off. We're all living proof of the diversity of life so there's not much place for words like 'is'. Try might be, could be, perhaps and maybe for a change, if you want your posts to be less argumentative and more inclusive. More important topics let through by the mods. So many get canned when RHP is the perfect place for open discussion and education. More posts by newbies (see 1-3 above, which might encourage them). More love, less hate Anyway, good topic Mea. Happy New Year all x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd like to know what OP stands for....
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RHP User
11 years ago
... and mostly What Burning_Love said above. . A return to the forums of old! More conversation starters, some acceptance that if a topic was started in the forums, it is obviously discussion-worthy, rather than someone daring to repeat a question that's been 'done to death'. If you don't wish to repeat yourself, don't. More thinking about what you contribute and less need to comment on everything for the mere sake of having said something. Less forum police. . More sunshine and rainbows and less bloody keyboard warriors of BOTH sexes! More well-adjusted, down to earth and sexually evolved LADIES and less jaded, opinion-hating ones who make the rest of our gender look bad. Less cock shots and template profiles and more nice smiley faces and well thought out descriptions. . Happy New Year! . Flirty x
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RHP User
11 years ago
Comment formatting options damnit! How dare we be so bold and advanced as to use technology AND expect to be able to luxuriate in paragraph formatting! *sigh*
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Seachange73
11 years ago
I concur with all the above. Definitely more discussions without judgment or personal attacks. So let us all put our thinking caps on. line up our points for arguments intelligently and let us not forget our sense of humour while we are at it.... It is only a sex site after all... And 1 day a month of free access to nekkid pics of sexy men for women guests who have behaved ... Amen.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd like to be messaged with more than a hey let's fuck .... I get this site is a hook up site but seriously people add a little more into your first message to someone .... what I'd love to See more of is experiences I love to hear more about them - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
and less 'facts' Facts you can get on google, peoples honest opinions you cant...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Knack this is a great post :) we'll done and bout time they stop with tha dang nazi lol... For me I just want to fuk and fuk hard in group not be fucked over by the group :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are fact.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe take a leaf out of your own book (FFS). People have the right to say BS when they see BS! If you want the deep and honest opinions of those who advertise themselves on a sex site, then I do worry for your sense of reasoning lol. How about for the new year we all do something useful like think about homeless people, refugees, those suffering from domestic violence or volunteer our skills for more than the bedroom...and if you don't want honest comments, don't freeking ask. Have a great day
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes, though for me "facts" also includes people who are "saying it like it is" instead of how they see it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's more about how things are said. For example a thread about say, CreamPie gangbangs, a lot of people seem to respond with disgust and anger just because someone may have asked a question or commented on their fantasy. You have some people implying that the person is a rapist with no respect for women, other people stating aggressively about safe sex and the person must be mad, etc etc. I suppose it's more the attack tone that I don't like. Of course mention you wouldn't do something because you feel it's too risky, but don't always make out everyone else is nuts because they don't agree with your risk assessment. I am sure I have done it the past too, but it gets real old when it's pages and pages of it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
OP stands for Original Poster (of the forum) or Original Post. Maybe I should have asked for people to read other's OP's better? B_L, I did say ONE of each. :-P
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would like to see more fun post, stuff that makes you laugh without belittling accounts on RHP. Definitely less BS arguments, if someone attracts you online than ignore it and be the bigger person.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Attracts ment to be attacks lol definitely don't ignore someone that attracts you lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've never been particularly well behaved ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
As per Meeks post, less judgement would be great. More, hmmm I'd like guys to be more honest rather than regurgitating what they think women want to hear. They may not agree with you, but they will respect you.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am going to try and stop the man bashing I have been doing of late. I love men, I just want them to fuck me better and be more considerate so I am going to make the conscious decision to stop being so negative about them.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'simple_desires' and less 'facts' Facts you can get on google, peoples honest opinions you cant... Beware of Spin doctors....
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Does that mean we get to see less of Chev? Awwww...
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RHP User
11 years ago
more tits from the mods!!! 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
... posts/threads remain wether people find them offensive or not. I think it's fair to say that it's apparent when posts have been misinterpreted, posters have reacted emotionally, taken offense to and/or taken things personally. I tend to think the reactions of the offended inadvertently displays true colours just as much as the offending post/s (if not more so - in that reactivity speaks volumes) and consider those posts to be valuable information in terms of building an overall impression of an online persona.
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RHP User
11 years ago
As long as everyone practice what they preach and become the person they expect other to be. Too often its the one's that stomp their feet the loudest are most responsible for flare ups.. so take a step back and realise what your saying before posting.. That goes for me too.. The things I see we need to get rid of are the police.. Particularly the fun and spell police.. Surely its not that hard to realise not every one will have the same level of education. Underestimate at your own risk here because everyone has a talent of some sort and are sure to surprise if taken lightly.. Finally ' Respect... how can you expect to get ' if you dont give... Happy 2015 everyone..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Id love to see more of happy positive or at least balanced posts of what everyone has done or likes to do or know about. more young youtfull and playful energy "not age wise but mentally" after all this is a sex forum full of hopefully sexy youthful hormones, more respect and tolerance for others that some of us may not relate to or understand. and less of the "funny" jokesters who derail threads or the ones who like to pick on others / try to bully them just cuz they dont have much interest or in common to be on same planet, call names, offend others and tell them they are advertising etc etc etc it almost stops new fun energy to come into the forums
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RHP User
11 years ago
all posts by people who havent had sex for absolute yonks who then deem to use the forums as a personal Diary because they are emotionally fragile & frustrated. (Also all topics that sound like someone is running a thesis topic past a control group) Yes Meanader, I know that is 2 things. I would like to see more people allow all posters the right to be outraged alllllll by themself at any comments directed at them.....not for the handful of dobbers who report all sorts of silly comments and get threads-posts deleted or closed. I figure I am old enough to work out what annoys me or amuses me.......and quite frankly, not too much annoys me these days.
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MsJonesy
11 years ago
It's getting a little difficult to think of things to avoid as there has been some great suggestions already. My avoidance would be those who run to the Mods every time they read something and think it is offensive or rude. I'd like them to back away from the keyboard for a couple of hours before they fire off the tirade. Have a think about what the options are rather than be a dibber dobber. Knee jerk reaction to posts is ruining some threads, and taking others down altogether, often unnecessarily. Lately I've been reading the Relationships and Crossdressing thread. Not only do I thank the posters for their openness and willingness to share their journeys, Meeka also deserves praise for posing questions which I am sure many others thought (including me). The respect and empathy shown has been fantastic. So I would love more of that; the opportunity to explore topics and kinks/fetishes with total respect shown for those who brave the forums, reply and share their journey. As others have said, you may not share the kink, but we can all learn more!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Another vote for more respect towards topics about kinks and fetishes. I've been genuinely appalled at the ridicule and disgust expressed by some people about the sexual proclivities of others. I'd really like that to stop. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Debate around a topic without derision for another"s point of view..... if their post is gobsmackingly annoying. I want to avoid the posters who personalise absolutely everything,bite my tongue and resist commenting at all..xx Freya following the rules😉
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madotara69
11 years ago
And if some dim wit comes in and intentionally spits out some disrespectful hurtful snub at my girlfriends, then one of them tells him to get fucked, he rings up the mods crying, they should bash him. Not take away the compassion The first one was just wallpaper Meander. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Younger posters, bringing something new to the forums, or just a different prospective. Less "judgementalism" is it a word? Ive been guilty of that in the past, but its a New Year, hey!Oh, and I would also like Meanders shoes.....they are crazy cool!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well i'm new here and this is only my 2nd post so I can't really say what i'd like to see done differently. Maybe more meet ups? How else is a young bloke supposed to meet hot couples when he can't send messages :P haha!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would like a lot of people to actually read properly and not misinterpret what people are saying or put spin on it to make it look like they are saying something they are not.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree with everyone who has mentioned threads about kinks, without others judging. I will admit before joining this site I was rather naive and hadn't really experienced much more than regular sex. I have tried a few new things since joining Rhp, but there is more I'd like to try. And I am still discovering/learning about even more new things that I had never heard about. I think the forums could be highly educational and informative about the more unusual things we all like/want to experience. If there wasn't the fear of being judged.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think a lot of men on here probably back out at the last second because they were perusing and canvassing as many people on the site, then finally get a response and go with the flow so to speak, only to back off because it's not really what they want or feel intimidated by people with far more experience and are obviously extremely comfortable with some of the things they say they're going to do with/to you. Either that or they're just being horny buggers whilst playing with themselves, then losing all desire to meet because they've satisfied themselves with your pics. I've had couples do the same thing to me previously. Unfortunately from what I've read it tends to be younger guys acting as the main culprits, which cocks it all up for the rest of us who are trying to be genuine and actually want to meet people. C'est la vie.
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RHP User
11 years ago
One thing I'd like to see is responses containing more than 2 lines when I write 4 paragraphs lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would like to see profiles actually written by the person rather than the generic one that seems to be the norm, and what you actually are seeking. Seems to be a hell of a lot of people that don't know what they want, so write it. I enjoy reading the forums, sometimes I reply other times I skim though looking at others opinions. I agree with a few that I would like to see more forums about your experiences, likes and dislikes. HNY to all SG44, - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '50zcool' As per Meeks post, less judgement would be great. More, hmmm I'd like guys to be more honest rather than regurgitating what they think women want to hear. They may not agree with you, but they will respect you. …Women don't like kiss arses any more than men do. They will scorn them, ignore them or add them to they're entourages.So will men. Why is that so hard to figure out? Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Younger posters, bringing something new to the forums, or just a different prospective. Less "judgementalism" is it a word? Ive been guilty of that in the past, but its a New Year, hey!Oh, and I would also like Meanders shoes.....they are crazy cool! Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Younger posters, bringing something new to the forums, or just a different prospective. Less "judgementalism" is it a word? Ive been guilty of that in the past, but its a New Year, hey!Oh, and I would also like Meanders shoes.....they are crazy cool!
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RHP User
11 years ago
…don't double press the quote I wanted to concur about those shoes. Way cool! Avengers assemble!!
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blackbig
11 years ago
More love, and less hate. More sharing of experiences.. More acceptance of diversity of sex desires, kinks, fantasies etc.. Less personal attacks.. If you can't say something positive .....skip it🏃🏂 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Of ice creams with my taste(y) buds, of which are low in saturated fat and more spice. Seriously buds. More caring, less hating. More seeing other people's truths rather than enforcing your own perceptions - otherwise how does one learn?. You're Animalistic Sexual experiences - shit did that actually come out ? More humour less anger. Less generalised Man hating. Serious it's real turn off - not all of us eat our young! SAs 2015 Challenge- everyone has to turn one post per month from a personal attack on you into a joke and observe the result! I dare you to lead the change you want to all see! Take care SA
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RHP User
11 years ago
Koko, I made them (only a little harder than it looks, haha), but you can buy them on Etsy too.
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
I'm with Koko re shoes. Do they come in size 12...........wide? (insert yellow smiling face here)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Less complaining about the form and content of posts.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just....... less.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Yes, though for me "facts" also includes people who are "saying it like it is" instead of how they see it. Isn't this one and the same thing ? You slammed me because I ' say it as it is ' because in your eyes it was only my opinion and no one else's .. ? Wouldn't you say that opinion is just as important as another persons ? So who's opinion should we follow.. Who decides that ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'anywhichway007' I'm with Koko re shoes. Do they come in size 12...........wide? (insert yellow smiling face here) That's exactly what my brother said.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That was a general comment as a lot of people say it, shame you made it all about you.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_me'Isn't this one and the same thing ? You slammed me because I ' say it as it is ' because in your eyes it was only my opinion and no one else's .. ? Wouldn't you say that opinion is just as important as another persons ? So who's opinion should we follow.. Who decides that ? No, it's not the same at all, and I would never suggest no one agrees with your opinions. I think you misunderstood. Example: I could say your comment above is dumb. I may think it is, and so may many others. However, some people may completely disagree with me.IS your comment dumb? That is not for me to decide for the whole world. If I did think it was dumb, it would be my opinion, not the THE TRUTH. Saying it like it IS means you are literally talking for EVERYONE. Saying it's summer (in Australia) is a fact and therefore saying it like it is. Saying it's too hot is your opinion, whether or not 90% of people agree with you, and it is not "how it is", but how you experience it. Does that make sense? That's why in my posts you'll continue to see phrases like I think, I feel, I believe, in my opinion, etc. etc. because though I can speak for some others, I can never ever speak for everyone. (And god knows I've been wrong enough times.)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm nice AND on topic, and I didn't even make resolutions.
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RHP User
11 years ago
When you want to be... My post referred to when you objected to me ' saying it as it is ' some time back.. Had nothing to do with the rest of the world or making it all about me as you say. Most people 'say it as they see or know it That might not mean they are right or wrong simply their opinion.. Example : I seen Mary fucking John on the sand on a rainy day.. So if I was a gossip munger ' I would say.. I seen Mary fucking John on the sand in the rain .? That is " saying it as it is " no matter how much its twisted.. Mary still fucked John on the sand in the rain.. yes ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
This place is perfect. Don't change, not that I fear it will change, but it gets very weird when people start withholding their true opinions. You can feel it and then all of a suddenly they explode. Relax we all love everyone's input, especially when they are being a dick. This is Days of our lives, not a group back scratch, how dull. Got to love this thread, there is more bitching in here then most.. LOL I just can't think of anything to complain about at the moment. Will come back.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Awww all is peaceful in RHP world. I'd like it to become compulsory that every profile be validated, must have one recent face pic in a private gallery AND no more template profile builder. It's not hard.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I totally agree !! Too many people with fake pictures. Misinterpreting themselves.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I mentioned in my profile I take bad selfies and that's true - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Was a woman who looked like Mary,maybe her twin sister? Then you can only say,you saw a woman who you thought was Mary fucking John..or a man who looked like John xx Freya
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Understanding of the OP and trying to keep to the OP's topic. I find that there are so many people who are so quick to press the bitchy buttons and attack the OPs specially newbies, when in reality, the poster has personal issues they need to resolve and deflects their problems onto the OP. Total snore.... A more seasoned poster would not flinch or just ignore the nastiness but newbies will cower and go in the lurke mode after the shaming. so keep your posts more objective people and be more patient. If debate should ensue, great but keep it intelligent, objective, sensible and even funny. Leave your baggage outside the forum door, if you can, and let us not make it too personal... The forum just gets nasty and boring. Who wants that? Peace.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you knew Mary and John.. Why try and make them someone else ? There was nothing to doubt...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Kind of the same as others, but I'd like to see less serious-ness and more cheekiness/flow/laughter in the forums :-P
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think you completely misinterpreted my first comment and, going by your reply, I think you did not understand what I was trying to explain in my second one at all. I have to stop and move on now, I genuinely tried, and that's the best I can do.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari'I'd like it to become compulsory that every profile be validated, must have one recent face pic in a private gallery AND no more template profile builder. It's not hard. Did you you mean verified? Having that done by RHP does not mean you have to have a public profile pic of your face, so I really don't see the issue. And yes, the template builder sucks, though personally I find it a great tool to weed out the men who I'd likely not have much in common with.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's my point.. No ' I didn't misinterpret what you had to say , it gets back to the opinion of one person is not necessarily that of another.. I think we all need to accept that.. OK.. Let's move on
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RHP User
11 years ago
More replying to one line DTF messages, and put out more while you are at it! This is a sex site FFS and you have a responsibility here. More lying and cheating. If everyone did it then it wouldn't be an issue. By taking the moral high ground you are simply relegating others to the low life. Less effort in profiles. Why should everyone make an effort just because you have, not everyone has your motivation and common sense you know. Lowest common denominator please so we can all compete fairly! Get that out of the way and there will be much more room for interesting debate. Just stating my opinion like it is, and yes I am talking to you.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' And yes, the template builder sucks, though personally I find it a great tool to weed out the men who I'd likely not have much in common with. The forums function like this too. The only thing I would like to see change is less moderation, so that the dickheads (and dickheadesses) are exposed. Those that use personal attacks as their standard should have accounts removed rather than their posts. It would be nice to see more controversial topics more thoroughly explored before being killed off.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Hahaha. Put that all down on paper and drop it into Santa's wishlist fot 2015. Bad boy.
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MissBishere
11 years ago
less judgement in the forums. lots more sarcasm and tongue in cheek. I get people are opinionated and there are some very strong opinions on here but it gives me a headache all the eye rolling I do from reading the posts.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yeah I agree that sounds like a great topic
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' lots more sarcasm and tongue in cheek. I get a lot of emails. And thats usually why..... but people take joviality as a challenge to "brand-them"... when their ego drives their presence in the forums. And I aint gonna change. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Because its human nature?Every 0ne of us has and alot still do.On here?Because its easy to do Not that I am.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'drinkerofthewind' Because its human nature?Every 0ne of us has and alot still do.On here?Because its easy to do Not that I am. You missed the devious joke by our sly Meander's (I knew there is always gonna be one that falls into the crack) .... It would be helpful for you next time,my dear, read the whole Original Post by the Original Poster... It may help for you to reply within the context of the topic. Or have you posted after you drank too much of the spirit, errr wind... I'll have what you are having.. Take two perhaps? We will be waiting...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Did you really only read the forum title? ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Less belittling?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I read the title and the first paragraph. That's enough.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would like to see less popcorn on the forum.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
I didn't say they had to have a face pic in their public gallery I said private gallery that way they could show themselves at their discretion. And yes the profile templates also serve to eliminate the lazy and lacklustre but that only creates cranky/bitter people who then post topics wanting to know why people don't respond and what's wrong with my profile? This then perpetuates the crap behaviour and disrespect displayed when people aren't getting sex from every person they approach because this is a sex site after all and people just wanna have fun so why aren't they DTF me? Just an observation.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' I didn't say they had to have a face pic in their public gallery I said private gallery that way they could show themselves at their discretion. I was agreeing with you by saying that since people don't have to have a face pic in their public gallery to get verified, there is no excuse not to be (imo).
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RHP User
11 years ago
Does RHP really police verified profiles? How do you know the face pic you're looking at is the same pic that was verified by RHP? I don't put much stock in this system; I treat verified and non-verified members with equal caution.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' I figure I am old enough to work out what annoys me or amuses me.......and quite frankly, not too much annoys me these days. Accepted!!
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Plain280
11 years ago
So how come we have all these old fashioned morals and values belted over our heads, every time some one mentions that they are after a fling. I joined because I thought foolishly it turns out that there are some understanding people on here, of which there are plenty here, but the judges and executioners belong in the Middle ages.SO NO MORE PREACHING THE OLD STUFF and start understanding some of the new life conundrums that we have in this century.!!1
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Tiroba'How do you know the face pic you're looking at is the same pic that was verified by RHP? You know that RHP send you a code you have to write on a piece of paper and hold next to your face? Of course people can change their pics afterwards, but I feel a bit more certain I'm actually talking to a woman or couple instead of a man pretending to be.
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RHP User
11 years ago
More pretty pictures of boobs on the side. It makes the words more interesting.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Tiroba'How do you know the face pic you're looking at is the same pic that was verified by RHP? You know that RHP send you a code you have to write on a piece of paper and hold next to your face? Of course people can change their pics afterwards, but I feel a bit more certain I'm actually talking to a woman or couple instead of a man pretending to be. I believe that once verified all subsequent images are checked against the original, verified image. A friend on here was able to get photos of other people in her private gallery until she got verified, after that she could only upload images that were her, or those that were not of her had to be masked (unidentifiable). All photos had consent from those in them. I am personally mystified as to the rules for photo uploads. I see lots of profiles where there is clearly more than one person in the shot, face and all. There are images of just words or just graphics, or male profiles with pictures of women. Every attempt I have made to put any of my artwork up has been rejected. Even photos that have the head of the person missing from shot are rejected. To me the process seems to be random, with no consistence between profiles. That is my think that I would like fixed. Why can't I post my art work on here when so many others can???
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander'Quoting 'Tiroba'How do you know the face pic you're looking at is the same pic that was verified by RHP? You know that RHP send you a code you have to write on a piece of paper and hold next to your face Of course people can change their pics afterwards, but I feel a bit more certain I'm actually talking to a woman or couple instead of a man pretending to be. Oh, a code. That makes all the difference, because then members can just check the codes against... oh, wait... Being a "bit more certain" about whether you're speaking with someone who's the actual gender they say they are is a very low bar. Seriously, how many people do you think fake their gender these days? In fact, if someone were really trying to scam people on RHP, they'd likely exploit the pathetic verification system they use on here. You know, to play on members' false sense of security.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
You're cruising for a spanking xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Plain' So how come we have all these old fashioned morals and values belted over our heads, every time some one mentions that they are after a fling. I joined because I thought foolishly it turns out that there are some understanding people on here, of which there are plenty here, but the judges and executioners belong in the Middle ages.SO NO MORE PREACHING THE OLD STUFF and start understanding some of the new life conundrums that we have in this century.!!1 Such as?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can I just add my whinge please. Moderators, the amount of threads about why nobody will reply to my message and where are people's manners is getting to be beyond a joke. Seriously!
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Instead of posting the repetitive overly done type posts how about you respond to the writer and suggest they read the Newbies and Profile Clinic, Tips etc then WE don't have to!! Timesaving all round and it might stop some of the Newbs offending or being offended by others. Surely that's being proactive?
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MissBishere
11 years ago
i totally adore this pic of you... It's super sexy
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Quoting 'Meander' That is my think that I would like fixed. Why can't I post my art work on here when so many others can??? You can post your art in Snap shots, Blindman. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are you talking about on this site, as I can't find any "snap shots" here. Plus once you publish on something like the "Amateur Pic Sets" on RHP you lose control of the images. I am now a guest and I have 2 images in the Red Hot part of this site that I can not access. I have no clue as to which images they were. Just can not remember. Hopefully they are not cringe worthy. I know I can publish on other sites, but these are not the types of images I would want my mun, or other family members seeing, much more suited for RHP. Just tried this afternoon with a another image, all my own work, and it was rejected. It did not violate a single of the upload rules. I just don't understand.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you. :)
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MissBishere
11 years ago
I requested customer service to remove some of my amateur sets. and yours aren't bad they showcase a gorgeous cock.
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