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Why is a "no thanks" so hard???

August 15 2019

We've probably all been contacted by someone who isn't really our cup of tea...but what do we do in response? It's certainly easier to just ignore them but it's clearly more polite to send a 'no thanks' reply (either by way of one of the pre-formatted Flirt options, or by message if you've received a message from them). I'd be interested in hearing from people about why they do (or don't) send a 'no thanks'

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Like the guy in the chat room the other night.....complaining he couldnt get a root after saying women were only good for 2 things, fucking and throwing rocks at. Hell be lucky to even get a "No thanks".........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I have only been back on for two weeks and have recently had these exchanges: Me: Sorry, you don’t match what I’m looking for etc. Him: Yes, I do so that reply makes no sense. Me: Sorry you dont match what I’m looking for etc. Him: How do I not match? That’s all you bitches ever say. Please explain what’s so wrong with me? Me: Sorry etc. Him: Fuck you, bitch. Me: Sorry etc. Him: Can you please look at my profile and tell me how to make it better? No. Sorry. And please, desperate or not, take the hint and don’t be a dick.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I’d say that saying no wastes a message if you are paying for it..... If you are a guest then chances are if you don’t say no it’s because it’s hard enough to keep up with the yeses let alone the thanks but no thanks Sometimes I’ll reply maybe another time. Silence means no

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    They are absolutely in here. I know for sure ex cons are here, none of whom state it in their profile but reveal it in messaging. Current prisoners who knows, given they get so many privileges and would find a way I'm sure. So what do you base your comment on?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I always reply politely. I get at least 10 new messages a day and my inbox fills up. I make time to go through and politely decline those unsuitable with a no thank you, and good luck with your search type of reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Because women have all the power and this inequality is becoming a problem, men become frustrated, many women love it. The stats will show how one sided it is, particulaly within RHP. I look at it this way, if she cant even be polite enough to say hi thanks but no thanks, then she wont be suitable for me in the first place, because i believe in sexual equality, respect for eachother and taking care of eachothers emotional AND physical needs at some agreed level. Even when its a NSA FWB arrangement.

  • countrytouch82

    countrytouch82

    6 years ago

    Maybe RHP should place examples of written abuse on the offending person's profile. The profile would say something like this: "Always polite and respectful. Yadda yadda yadda. ... RHP system - Most recent email quotes sent: "Fuck you then c*nt". "Piss off you women are all the same". (Might be useful to see someone's real way of communicating in advance).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    We can't all send you a message with tony Robbins in it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    A few of the Perth women do warn each other about abusive repeat offenders. There are a couple of them out there. Pretty scary how they can go from charming to nasty so quickly. One threatened to tell my son Im on RHP. My son knows but thats beside the point. So no answer is sometimes better than a No Thanks and getting abusive messages.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    No reply IS a reply. Too many fragile egos. No one owes anyone shit. Everyone is busy and no one is obliged to give anyone else a reply. Don't take it personally fellas, just accept you're not what she's after, and move on. I'll also guarantee you that for every flirt a message a guy receives, a woman receives 50. No one has time to reply to that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    of hearing how we women are so outnumbered online, that we act like bitches because of it, or (in so many words) can pick and choose and be iverly discerning because of that. Heads up boys, most women are discerning period! My preferences are exactly the same in life. Harder to execute, I'll grant you that, but just as fussy. The day I stop being fussy and root anyone, is the day I'll hang it up, or sew it up lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Fat thumbs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    A no reply should mean a no thanks, clearly if you were interested you’d reply. So no need to msg 4 or 5 times guys. And when you do write back no thanks you normally get an aggressive, abusive reply. You can’t win.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    “Ha “ untill only a couple of daze ago I hadn’t really perused through the forums, topics, amateur pics and content that can be accessed from home screen on RHP. Have to say enjoying the experience ...The reply thingy is kinda touchy one eh.. no pun intended “I touch myself 2” butt was your comment that triggered alarm bells 🔔 as you said you can’t tell what kinda person your disclosing intimate details about yourself so to reply or not to reply is absolutely your choice. How ever from a desperate male perspective. They probably do take as rejection and find it antagonising. So maybe an easy access 👍or👎 Might be not so detrimental to those poor souls that can’t handle rejection. This site is designed for fun not fuck wits... Enjoy and be thankful for any response or reply. Never know might get lucky 🌈👫👭👬

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Oh yeah forgot to mention 🙋‍♂️I would definitely put my hand up to give help you out with sorting through your messages and flirts “ I touch myself 2” Be funny as fuck I reckon.🕺

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    No one likes to be rejected. But to then act like an Idjit, and get abusive over a simple rejection just shows the level of maturity some people have. Also highlights how little regard that person actually has/had for you in the first place. I appreciate getting a response, even the rejections. And I do understand why some don't reply at all, the trick is to not take it personally. Eventually the right one will come along, just have patience.And remember... treat others as you'd like to be treated!! Ash.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Well I can't say I speak for all males, we are all different just like females are different to each other. I can say I feel disappointed when I don't get a reply, even a no thanks. I do understand the ratio men to women is far outweighed on this site. So for a guy, unless you've got a six pack or big dick then you really don't have much chance of getting anything let alone a reply. Men, although you may not believe, do actually have feelings, so if you sent msgs to guys and never got a response you would feel the same. I know I'm no male model, I'm not a comedian so don't ask me to make you laugh, I'm no novelist so don't ask me to send a msg that's thoughtful if you can't even be bothered to read it, but I know how to be affectionate, respectful and affirmative without being arrogant. Pity you only get to read what I write and what you think of my pic. People tell me I'm a genuine nice guy, but you won't here about it by reading my profile.. not all men are bad guys, and certainly majority are not racist, stalkers or creepy weirdos.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    lol well that wouldn't take long. Tumbleweed in my inbox right now 😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    To give an example of the lead up to abuse, only days ago I received another message from a guy I had decided was after just after a quick hookup or blow job. After the initial messages back and forth expressing potential interest>Him: So do you like wine bars....or are they just out of the way...LOL (insert winking face)Me: No reply because my take on that was he was wanting to avoid the initial public meet and go straight for the cherryHim: (3 days later) Just a quick one.....Do you touch your arse hole?Blocked, bullet dodged but no woman should have to be on the receiving end of that. Maybe according to the people who advocate manners, if I'd replied with a thanks but no thanks, he wouldn't have sent that, but why should I be polite to someone like that? What he did was show his true colours

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If you follow the guidelines on how to write a good message you will find yourself spending at least as much time as the women do going through their messages. Perhaps the best option is to keep it simple and say something like “I like what I see and read in your profile if you care to reply I’d be happy to provide more detail of where I think this could go” That way no reply has a context. Fair ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Replied to a flirt from a guy who doesn't match what I'm looking for at all, but I thought I'd be nice and at least tell him thanks, but no thanks. This is what I sent... Thanks for the flirt. However, I'm as straight as they come... sorry Good luck in your search for other guys. This is the message I got back... Dude are bored with your life or something?? If you weren't interested by bother responding at all?? Find some friends you loser 😂 So yes, I understand why most people just don't respond. Ash.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'usebi' If you follow the guidelines on how to write a good message you will find yourself spending at least as much time as the women do going through their messages. Perhaps the best option is to keep it simple and say something like “I like what I see and read in your profile if you care to reply I’d be happy to provide more detail of where I think this could go” That way no reply has a context. Fair ? That wouldn't get a reply from me because it sounds like a template fired off to everyoneThey need to show me they have actually read my profile, I'm thinking not many do from the messages I get. They need to tell me what it is about 'me' they like. But it's an individual choice what course you take.btw I'm now blocking anyone with just a restricted picture or no pictures in public gallery 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Pretty simple, treat others the way you’d like to be treated. If you feel your above 99% of the people who take the time to say hi don’t whinge when you get burned, used, lied to or made a fool of is just karma coming back.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    we deserve it if we don't reply to the message of s random stranger we have no interest in? We deserve to be treated like shit? Good luck on here mate, you'll need it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If you would like a reply every time you ask a woman if she'd like to chat wouldn't you be better served going to a pub/club/etc where you would get a reply every time? This is the internet, there is absolutely no obligation to reply to any message here or on any other chat/sex site....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Sorry should have said 'If someone's not 'If you' wasn't aiming that at anyone in particular just a general comment...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Cmon guys would you honestly appreciate hundreds of "no thanks" knock back replies day after day, week after week, year after year? If youre really that precious about politeness, how the hell would you cope with an ongoing reply to 99.99% of messages sent with a "no thanks, youre not what Im looking for" reply? Funny if the shoe was on the other foot hmmm. Imagine a scenario where the male/female situation re messaging was reversed. Would the girls be here whinging about an empty inbox? I think their boxes would be chockers hahah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    That’s why everything here is reduced to lowest common denominators. The dumb fucks just wear you down through shear weight of numbers.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Now we're dumb fucks? This is exactly the point I've been trying to make. There are psychos hidden within profiles, just waiting to snap. Don't fall for it ladies. Any profiles without pictures expecting a reply, of any kind, well that's just not going to happen. I think they are mostly Creepy old men fantasising about a mercy fuck lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If it wasn’t so sad it would be funny. It’s totally gone over your head itm2, but you keep chipping away with your negatives and your , oh fuck it. I give up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I've had over 500 responses to my profile. It's very time consuming to read and reply to everyone. Further, I've had guys get nasty when I've said I'm not interested. I have a phobia to foreskin. And the number of guys who either lie about being cut, or try to convince me that it doesn't make any difference is disturbing. My profile makes it very clear: no uncut cock. No. Not even yours. But still I get bombarded by uncut men trying to convince me otherwise. Or men telling me that I should be cut as pussy flaps are revolting. No means no. Respect it! If you want cut women, then ask for it. I'm not the girl for you! If you want bareback, fine, but not with me! Heck if you want a busty blonde with a smooth shaved pussy then look elsewhere. I'm not a charity bringing sex to the unfukkabke of the world. I'm here for the same reason most of us are: I'm looking for mutual pleasure with playmates. I'm happy when someone says no to me. I'm not so desperate that I need to harass someone who says no to me that they should fuk me. There are plenty more people, seriously guys, no means no. Move on, find someone else and enjoy your life. Don't keep messaging someone who clearly isn't interested!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I find these threads do leave a sense of fear... Despite never having copped abuse from replying. This week, I had a bit of a laugh after I received a flirt... From a woman. In America. Who said they wanted to meet... Hmmm... So I decided to send a reply flirt inviting them to message me because I am only a guest... Have to say here I'm bummed I haven't heard back. Last I looked my reply hadn't even been viewed. The funny thing was, I also accidentally replied to a genuine man who then sent that message I'd asked for. Oh shit, what to do? Fear struck me at the idea of what I might receive in return if I explained what had happened. Who is going to believe that weird arse shit? Long story short... I explained and wished him well... And all was good in a reply that echoed my sentiments. Cheers guys, 🍑

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Not all of us. I've found far better behaviour to negative replies in messages than I have in the forum. And I still do me. 🍑 😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Keep on doing you 😘

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    😘

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Because a polite no thanks often leads to: 1. Why not? 2. I can change your mind 3. Abuse 4. Sexual descriptions of how they will please me. Read my profile, and you might not get blocked immediately if we have something in common. If you can’t read a profile, you don’t get a chance to read my body language. And if you message me from a blank profile, without introducing yourself, with a photo and a short description about what you enjoy (because THAT interests me, how I can make YOU happy) expect to get blocked, not a reply.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    We have had guys and couples message us, we politely say no thanks with a message. How had is it to take the hint? We don't have to tell you why, and your not about to change our mind. So move on. What is creepy is when after you say no to them they keep looking at your profile. That's when the Block button gets pushed really fast.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If we don't act like humans we might as well join the rest of the animals

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Is outing these maniacs who abuse women after a reply of no thanks against the moral code of the community? Dont come back with a snitches get stitches bullshit please. This is meant to be fun

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    Naming and shaming is not cool. Would you like it done to you? Treat others how you would like to be treated. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Would i like it done to me? The easy answer is dont be an asshole and you wont have to worry. Now it gets tricky if you start naming and shaming for other actions such as unsolicited dick pics or crass comments where do you draw the line? We are very different people behind a keyboard so abusing someone is not right but happens so naming and shaming is the same as getting slapped in real life, No?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Opens the door to all kinds of dishonest and malicious behaviour, spite, revenge and character assassination just for starters. Let’s not go there, there’s enough meanness here already.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I've been on this site for a month now with no response. I'm getting a little lonely and no replies is demoralising but I understand that no-one is obligated to reply. I would prefer that people only interact if I am indeed someone they could be interested in. I did get one polite reply of 'no' which is nice. Not being a woman I cannot begin to understand the amount and type of attention they most likely get in real life and here on this site. So it's probably not personal, and I would hope nothing too negative to do with my attempt at contact

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    also people, including myself, have a limited amount of messages per day so we have to be sparing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    A reply does not mean that your message quota is reduced, you can reply to replies ad nauseum with no use of quota.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'MinavonLustern' I've been on this site for a month now with no response. I'm getting a little lonely and no replies is demoralising but I understand that no-one is obligated to reply. I would prefer that people only interact if I am indeed someone they could be interested in. I did get one polite reply of 'no' which is nice. Not being a woman I cannot begin to understand the amount and type of attention they most likely get in real life and here on this site. So it's probably not personal, and I would hope nothing too negative to do with my attempt at contact I'm not within your preferred age bracket, nor in your location, but would be interested if I was. I like your look. I'm used to being around performers and arty people, so I like unique characteristics, individuality I suppose. But it's not widely accepted or liked, I'm tripping over my words. What I'm trying to say is be patient. You will get replies and when you do, they'll be worth waiting for

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Ggg

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Geez. Some of the women on her are so up themselves. It was a simple question asking why some women don’t respond. Not how many hundred of messages you get in your inbox .... Foxy. I mean like you get so many a day you couldn’t reply really. Talk about up yourself! I touch...... really? No need to go off like a banshee. It was just a simple question. I am guitly of no replying often. Sorry. Im just lazy I guess. Simple as that. It’s not because I’m soooo popular I can’t keep up or that I don’t have balls or I think everyone is a rapist etc. im just lazy lol. I presume I’m going to get some flack from a couple of ladies. But geezzzzz. Calm ur farm!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    and we owe any random a reply, why? I will not be guilted into replying to men with tender egos. Whatever you choose to do, I don't care

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    Thanks, I think. I'm very flattered by your attention. We answered from a single womens perspective. You're married (probably without hubby's knowledge on here), try being single then you will know exactly what we (Itouch and myself) are talking about. Ms Foxy PS your profile states "Not into arrogrance", think you proved us wrong and need to take your own advice and own that. 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Foxy. So you ‘assume’ my partner does not know?????? You have no idea what goes on in my life. You ‘assume’ you get more messages and flirts than me? It’s not a competition! As for arrogance I’m the least arrogant person anyone would meet. Arrogance comes from big noting themselves, and arrogance is slamming a simple question and making it all about themselves. Both not aimed at you. Your very welcome for the attention! Just add it to the so many you get. What’s another one hey 😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Please take no offence from my comment Your look on your profile pics, reminds me of a lot of photos on a different site. Just on your pics alone, you might have more luck on Fetlife. I hope RHP aren’t offended by my comment too :-0

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Although I do big note myself at times lol this topic is not one of those occasions. I feel very strongly about women making safe, informed choices, and not being pressured or guilted by men to do anything. History shows the result of women being weak or submitting to men in life without consent. Any expectation at all talking to strangers is unhealthy and they should remove that from their thought process. As far as being rapists, I merely pointed out these are avatars to begin with, as are you and I. You seem to be focusing on the number of messages as the main reason but that now has nothing to do with my decision not to speak to people I have no interest in. FYI I do have a stalker, not embellishing there because I don't want to feed his sick obsession anymore. You can chat to every person who messages you, go right ahead, but don't be putting out the message all women should be expected to do the same. Women need to make their own personal choices without pressure

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    with the picture you have up, I'd be assuming you'e not single too

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    I have no idea what goes on in your life because people dont care, want to know, or make it their business, as I/they are not interested. Now move on, own your own shit and talk it out with your husband or something, rather than being lazy posting crap and taking it out on ITouch and myself. I highly doubt you are the least arrogant person anyone would meet cause thats is lie right there. 😉 Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Hmmmmmm. I touch. I totally get what you are saying. And yes I understand the stalker bit too. I am experiencing the same. As I said in my message I don’t reply to everyone because I’m too lazy. You have explained yourself well. I just didn’t understand your rant when he wasn’t really having a go at you personally All good. My profile clearly states that I am attatched so my profile pic is irrelevant really. Foxy. Lol. You don’t want to know my business is great. But you still assume. You assume I need to talk to my partner?? What would u like me to chat about exactly That i haven’t already? Enlighten me. If you think I’m arrogant that is ok too. I for one only go on what I read. Im sorry if I offended you. My arrogance got in the way 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    You have a sexy eye. :D

  • jadedndreamer

    jadedndreamer

    6 years ago

    I used to reply to everything, until I got so much abusive hate back that I said fine fuck this shit, ya'll can sit and wonder. There is no reason for men to reply back to a no thanks with 'well I didn't want to fuck you anyways you ugly fat cunt' well thanks jackass, I was just being polite and responding to all my mails with at least something.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Jaded, it seems that your experience is far too common. It's a terrible indictment on those guys who can't understand that they are not (and will never be) the ideal partner for every person they send a message to. I'm sorry that your experience of RHP has been soured by them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Can I just reiterate that I don’t think any reasonable minded person expects you to answer the base “wanna fuck” letters or the ones that clearly haven’t addressed your criteria, age, no singles, bi etc. But if you want people to take the time to read your profile and write a personal email that addresses your wants and needs then I’d say it pays to keep the ground fertile. Otherwise the whole site gets reduced to lowest common denominator and we all know that’s pretty low. 😃

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Have ta Laugh🤣 Why should i reply! Too many messages? Don't have the time to sift through them all. Yet... I can spend an exorbitant amount of time in the forums righting an essay on trying to justify my actions! 😂 Truth is... no one really fucken cares!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I think it's a crying shame women don't have the balls to say no after lifetimes of control. Now is the time to take our power and revel in saying No. It's great for assertiveness and self esteem. Or we could keep making like victims and blame our behaviour on past treatment. I love the way this topic was phrased. 🍑

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Some people do care. It'd be best if people spoke for themselves, thanks. 🍑

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    I agree. It'd be best if people spoke for themselves. Spank, your post is not cool. Is intended to cause anguish or hurt. It is spiteful and a macilous swipe towards those who post in the forums. If you have an issue about "forum posters writting essays", best to write to the moderators, as they do care. Ms Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    You didnt even answer the OPs question. He might f*cking care. 🙄🤷‍♀️ Ms Foxy

  • Sensualdays

    Sensualdays

    6 years ago

    My profile states I’m after a certain age group and I see no reason why I should reply to a bunch of 20 or 30 or 40 somethings! They only end up arguing with me when I do politely reply! My profile states what I want, if you arent in that group, then just don’t message me.

  • Sensualdays

    Sensualdays

    6 years ago

    OP, it’s not always whether someone is appealing or not, I just don’t understand when I state quite clearly I prefer men 50 plus why I should reply to 20 somethings! My kids are that age. I want to meet someone who has as many aches and pains as I have and who has had as much life experience as me. They simply shouldn’t write in the first place and I’m not obligated to reply. Stupidly I did the other week and ended up having a phone convo,he then bombarded me with 36 texts demanding I send out extra pics. Men my age don’t usually do that!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Hi cheeky, I can't message either. Maybe reply here and discuss this important topic further Andy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I love a mind that can explore its words and phrases to the point where not reading further would not be possible. I love sex as much as anyone, however, on par is the excitement of being got! And the forfillment which is derived from understanding each other. Captivated in conversation, as if a pseudo foreplay, for me... Making the love making more intense, and wholehearted. ( love that song )

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    If one has met someone face to face, got to know them over time, been on a few dates or what ever, then yes there is an obligation for a "No thanks, thank you for your time" conversation . IMO Having an matured open honest face to face conversation is the kindest most respectful thing to do. It doesn't have to be hard work, just a quick coffee or chat. I respect myself and people more for that, over just a brush off poor excuse text. Those brush off texts just doesn't make anyone feel good. The giver and receiver. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Because when we do respond with no thanks we get a response either abusing us OR they just don't take no for an answer so ignoring is far more easier than dealing with that rubbish Actually I agree with ms Foxxy! We don't have to justify our reasons behind WHY we don't respond with a No Thanks. If you don't get a response it basically means we aren't interested and it's time for you to move on. If you choose to sit around waiting for a reply that's on you not us 💁 T xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Just a little food for thought. What would it be like if guys only had 2 messages a day instead of 5? Would it be better or worse. ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I'd just be happy if guys could read my profile first before messaging/flirting! 🤷🏻‍♀️I live many hours away from Melbourne and I'm sick of the "when are you next in Melb hun", or the "do you get to Melb much?"... If i were looking in Melbourne, my profile would say as much. Honestly guys bring about their lack of replies totally by their own doing, it seems they all have a "no harm in sending a message" mentality, when in-fact doing this clogs up our inbox with unwarranted/unmatching profiles. You've already annoyed me by clearly not reading my profile... why would I then reply? 🤔

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Sorry call me old school, ugly what ever you want but at least I know not to bother asking or trying to get to know you any further. It is very simple “sorry I am just not that into you”. Why is that so bloody hard. I recently chatted to whom I think was a person and her profile is still active so I gunna assume real, for four hours I asked her about her likes dislikes and got the whole my ex is a control freak then nothing I have been blocked cannot ask what I did or if insaid something wrong? There has to be a button to say sorry I have ended our contact - either because your an Ass, I don’t like you or I don’t think we will be a match? I was that worried about her I sent an email to RHP and asked them to check on her because of her ex. WTF that’s why you need to finish with a reply of some sort. I would not have worried that she had been assaulted by her ex if I had been given the simplest of please don’t message me again.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Hi I really would like a reply no thanks, you can add what ever else you like to the reply like I hate fat guys or I am on a dating website and say I am up for anything except YOU. Really it’s a polite way of saying fuck off after all some people have paid to send you the message in the first place? Reply not thanks. Simple as that. Flirts are a free hit if you reply to them it could be seen as an invite for a message to be sent? If you don’t reply to a flirt I don’t care but I ain5 gunna send you a where and when who the hell came up with that as a flirt... may as well have written nice tits or ass or wow it’s bent to the left...

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