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Women that block you for little to no reason.....
March 22 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
A red flag to many Women is : Safe Sex : "if required". Also it's not that easy to see what you look like in your one photo . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's a nice message. I hope you don't mind if I copy and paste them. About blocking, I also think it's rude. I've been blocked only just looking at their profiles, but nothing can be done about it. I agree with you completely.
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RHP User
12 years ago
personal about that message.....some people block because they are not interested and don't want you to contact them again...it may seem rude I know but it is the culture here.....makee more of an effort because one chance is all you have sometimesxx Q
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
Good tips Mr green & Ms Q.... Blocking, I don't find it necessary to block people, have only blocked one and that's because he got a little to creepy for me.... But yes I agree it's rude to just block someone for no apparent reason.....💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
In point form, because its faster.... 1. What makes you think youre emailing genuine women?! Shock horror... there are a LOT of fakes in here.2. there are a lot of flakey types in here.... they can be fickle, and easily distracted by the bazillion other people messaging them with everything from boring "Hi" emails....... or offers to shag them as if theyre doing a favour.... to messages so disturbing, they belong on a sex offender registry.3. given point 2, its almost understandable that some people will block you. Its just part of the fun of the circus.4. Your message..... to my way of thinking,.... lacks confidence. It reads a bit soft and wussy, and doesnt show the person receiving it that you've even read their profile. You will never work out all of the behaviour on here. Dont try. Enjoy
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RHP User
12 years ago
If its a couple, the husband may block you if he feels threatened by you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks guys and girls, I'm a big boy and can handle rejection.Push too hard and your a prick, too soft and your wussy.I'm sure a lot of women on RHP are enjoying the power that comes with being on here.But there is still no excuse for rudeness. a simple template of no thanks is not that difficult to manufacture. D.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have been blocked by people I hadn't even looked at. I find it quite precious, haha. Like I was going to contact you anyway!! Get over yourself, lol. I have only ever blocked stalkerish types, even then I usually warn them that I am going to block them if they don't stop. Sometimes they think they're being nice and/or eager and often you get duplicate flirts etc that I don't think are intentional.
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Not long ago, I sent a man a message because I thought he had a quite decent profile. But guess what I got in his reply.......he didn't just say no, but also called me a panda! WTF was my reaction when I read his message! There are many types of personalities on here, and you never know which one you would run into until you meet one! So OP, don't take the negative outcome personally nor letting it get to you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would block all the exits if you were in my bedroon, that's a cross between pantaloons and bedroom. Lady t in her panaloons don't stress op I block myself at times, prunes can help
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
the safe sex to from "if required" to "always for intercourse" Can I ask why? Truth be told, and over time as a regular forum poster my mind has changed with this.. I actually prefer those that have "if required" they are being honest in my eyes, where "always for intercourse" how do I know one does not being honest about safe sex? I give credit to those to put "if required"..it gives readers a choice then. I have met some who have "always for intercourse" and they don't carry any condoms or don't use..they require reminding. Sad but true. My health is important to me and to me they were not being honest. How do I know now after the change you will be "if required" for safe sex? how does any women know, now the change is made?? So OP women will look at that and some will see as a turn off and others not. IMO it's being honest with a choice. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
is a funny little place...with a variety of lovely characters. He's some forums to check out on blocking to help you understand a little more why people block. http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/The-BLOCK-43297 This one is a about sending friend requests and blocking. http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Blocking-42864 Happy reading.....and best of luck! Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
" He's"= Here's Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
People can block on this site, it's how the culture is. People do it for various reasons, some reasons one will never know. If someone blocks me, at the end of the day it's their choice and they can. It says a lot about them. So OP my best advice...is move on there are plenty of pretty awesome people on here. I know I have met them. :) You message is fine - may I suggest tho, put something in there, that is personalized to say you have read their profile and write what ever it was that stood out and you liked. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Glass_Half_Full' I'm sure a lot of women on RHP are enjoying the power that comes with being on here. Just as I'm sure most men enjoy the power they have in just about every other facet of life. Whinging and expecting other people to conform to your ideals isn't going to get you anything except a headache. As the song says, let it go.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I freakin love it. *all hail Meeka* 😘
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would like for my head to ache on here..... Anyhow far be it for me to try and understand the human mind and god forbid if i understood a woman's mind.I am a mystery to women as much as they are to me. So the only advice i could give on here is just try not to let people's reactions get you down.Don't read to much into the actions of others and don't expect anything on here.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'Glass_Half_Full' I'm sure a lot of women on RHP are enjoying the power that comes with being on here. Just as I'm sure most men enjoy the power they have in just about every other facet of life. Whinging and expecting other people to conform to your ideals isn't going to get you anything except a headache. As the song says, let it go. Can you explore/eplain that a little bit more?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' In point form, because its faster.... 4. Your message..... to my way of thinking,.... lacks confidence. It reads a bit soft and wussy, and doesnt show the person receiving it that you've even read their profile. You will never work out all of the behaviour on here. Dont try. Enjoy I wouldn't listen to this advice. I think it's a good message. It's polite and thoughtful. If a girl can't see that then it's her fault that doesn't appreciate a thoughtful message. Trying to act confidence, trying to be is cool is so 11 year-old.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dieselnoi Love your work, many women say they want a strong confident man but if your message conveys that you are an asshole or pervert, if your message conveys respect and thoughtfulness you are a wuss... Good luck to those women, they will not find a decent guy on here or any other place...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some men have complained that I resemble a prune.....and then they blocked me....I think it was a great relief for them :-) xx Auntie
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hell I get blocked for sending a message, clicking on the wrong cam in the chat room, looking at a profile, thinking about looking at a profile, logging on to RHP - yep I get blocked on suspicion lol But the way I see it as dodging a bullet - if these women (specifically) think that highly of themselves that the block someone 'just in case that person does contact them', then they are not the type of woman I would meet anyway. Yes boys and girls, old Mooka actually does have some standards left lol Mooka
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RHP User
12 years ago
The being blocked and getting blocked thing goes way beyond compression on here. Perfect example: Today a married man sent me a long and endearing message. I looked at his profile, sent back a very polite and well worded message thanking him for his message but no thanks. To my disbelief he then sent another saying he would not message me again but did not like my message in short, with a raised eyebrow and mouthing the WTF I told him to apply that concept to his marriage. Low and behold..........he blocked me lmfao. Good riddance I say. X The bock button has its good and bad point's, dust yourself off and keep on moving :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Dieselnoi' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' In point form, because its faster.... 4. Your message..... to my way of thinking,.... lacks confidence. It reads a bit soft and wussy, and doesnt show the person receiving it that you've even read their profile. You will never work out all of the behaviour on here. Dont try. Enjoy I wouldn't listen to this advice. I think it's a good message. It's polite and thoughtful. If a girl can't see that then it's her fault that doesn't appreciate a thoughtful message. Trying to act confidence, trying to be is cool is so 11 year-old. Thats fine. You can tell him to ignore me. Just dont tell him to ignore his statistics.... If his message was "good".... he'd get replies. He asked for help.... and my point is... sure, his message IS polite.... .....but what it isnt, is engaging. It doesnt compel a reply.... a fact that is confirmed by him asking for help. Ive never suggested someone "act cool"... because its just that. An act. BE intriguing, BE interesing, BE intrested.... and show the other person.... youre interested enough in them to have read their profile. As Sergei says......... simples
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yeah I totally agree with what a couple of people have said up there, yeah it's rude - but i'd honestly prefer to block instead of contact people who do not fit my ideal thought of attraction. rather than waste both of our times, I'd rather move stuff on quickly.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for your comments, all taken on board.... Hard to please everyone with a few strokes of a keyboard.. Good luck, take care...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thats funny Macha, Some people are a little whacky...! Great post, you put a smile on my face....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Macha you are very wise and beautiful , a rare find . Blocking , well it's there , and such is life , you can't please all , or go insane trying .
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RHP User
12 years ago
I will block you if you are rude, or do not read my profile and send a message asking for something I am not willing to provide. The age of entitlement is over.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe im just too charming. Or more likely because I rarely use the site. But I will agree that many women say they want one thing but really want another. That's not because of RHP though, and I'm sure there are many men who are the same. It's just life, if someone blocked me I wouldn't give it a second thought.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why is it that only single men complain of being blocked? Why do they get blocked? I wrote in my profile "no single men". Yet I get messages from men multiple times a day asking to meet or just saying hello. Or they send a flirt. Then I get online and lo and behold there are multiple single men viewing my profile. And I know it's just a matter of time till some of them make contact. I am a very private person and I am not here to entertain single men. I don't have to be polite. It is my right to block you, to ensure I have ample personal space and privacy, a god given right.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'DecisiveShagg' Why is it that only single men complain of being blocked? I was talking to a friend of mine and she mentioned that RHP is the only site where she has been blocked.For example she received a message asking if she liked sex, she replied that she wasn't here for the knitting.That got her blocked
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RHP User
11 years ago
I might be wrong - but there doesn't seem to be a way to hide profiles from your search. So if you're not interested in someone, or conversely they have rejected you, I can see that people would block a profile so it doesn't come up in searches anymore. Maybe there'd be less blocking if there was another way to hide a profile.
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RHP User
11 years ago
This is what RHP advises men in one of their articles: "Some people turn (the wrong kind of) nasty when sent a message that they don’t want. Putting the reasons why they do aside, receiving a snippy reply back to your message doesn’t make it okay to start being abusive. Be the bigger man and hit the block button so you don’t make the mistake of contacting them again then move on." A "Hide Profile" button (Like OkCupid for example) would sort that issue. NB the article is here: http://redhotpie.com.au/Article/Top-Tips-For-Single-Male-Profiles-1073
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RHP User
11 years ago
boring, generic template message. Shows little of the sender's personality, or why there might be any mutual interest. Delete & Block
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'DecisiveShagg' Why is it that only single men complain of being blocked? Why do they get blocked? I wrote in my profile "no single men". Yet I get messages from men multiple times a day asking to meet or just saying hello. Or they send a flirt. Then I get online and lo and behold there are multiple single men viewing my profile. And I know it's just a matter of time till some of them make contact. I am a very private person and I am not here to entertain single men. I don't have to be polite. It is my right to block you, to ensure I have ample personal space and privacy, a god given right. So do you block them for just looking at your profile? If they were in contact with you, flirt ,message or otherwise (eg via forum/chat) and you didnt like the experience, welll your prerogative and understandable. I suppose it eliminates potential conflict or conversation with people you were not interested with after all. But to block them before they even contact you, by viewing your profile, interesting. Not criticizing just trying to understand the reasoning behind this behaviour. I think when you put your profile out there in the public, expect it to be viewed by people, who may or may not be interested in you. Your profile may come up on the search, they view your profile and may have caught their eye. Then they read you are not interested in Single Men, so they move on. If you are very private, and dont want jsut anyone to view your profile, you may want to change your mail message preferences to not receive any messages or change your privacy settings to take you out of the search. Then you could take a more pro-active approach to selecting and meeting people that meet your criteria. When I want a break, I put my profile on hold to not receive messages or not to be viewed via search. Saves everyone the grief and frustration.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jack_Denials' Quoting 'DecisiveShagg' Why is it that only single men complain of being blocked? I was talking to a friend of mine and she mentioned that RHP is the only site where she has been blocked.For example she received a message asking if she liked sex, she replied that she wasn't here for the knitting.That got her blocked All we do at the SWB is exchange Knitting patterns for cocks. We need a few in-house models to try out our new designs....
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Dont get on Lily's blocked list. Seriously, took me 6 months to get off it...........
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Any_Whichway' Dont get on Lily's blocked list. Seriously, took me 6 months to get off it........... you were such a NAUGHTY NAUGHTY Gal!!! Lol I forget to check my block list, like almost never until I get reminded. Your incessant grumbling got to me and I crumbled to your cries of despair... Now you complete me... Lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its not always a personal block. Sometimes ppl like to take a break from messages, and make their page invisible, which means nobody can view it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why on Earth would you get upset about a total stranger blocking you ? They obviously had their reason. You are compelled to respect that. No point in getting bitter & twisted about it. I mean, if it was a Friend or someone close, obviously that would be cause for concern . But a total stranger,... really???? You're being overly sensitive & Im sorry to be harsh, but it just sounds sooky. Personally I couldn't care less if Im blocked, however, I realise that everybody is different. Seeing the humorous side though, I have to say, this Post ranks a close second to that written by a Forumite who stood square in the firing line , by complaining about a Profile written in Capitals & how that offended him too!! (Hmmmm......let's get some perspective here hey : destructive Eathquakes in Nepal or being blocked on RHP......mehhhhh it's a no brainer 😩😣!) KKx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'kimbakandi' I mean, if it was a Friend or someone close, obviously that would be cause for concern . But a total stranger,... really???? You're being overly sensitive & Im sorry to be harsh, but it just sounds sooky. Remember a recent little shit-fight where two women got into it? They were perfect strangers, yet they sure managed to rile each other up. I think most of us will take something too personal when feeling criticized or rejected at one time or another, even when done by nothing but a username in cyberspace.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I might start blocking template profiles...RHP tells me on my news feed who's "looking" for me...too many are nothing but ask me and template box ticking profiles. I reckon I'll have a fair few scalps in no time at all.Now back to today's three...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I only block people when they continuously stalk my profile everyday and look multiple times when ive said im not interested. i find it creepy so im glad we can use this.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Love it, block away, your saving me time.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love the block button. I have 5 pages of profiles on blocked list. =D
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RHP User
11 years ago
Do not take this the wrong way... but the message you used as an example exudes 'I'm a little bitch'. There is a feeling of insecurity coming through your choice of words and sentence structure. On top of this it reads like a template message. Good luck sir!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Blocking is so effective, currently I have one for the good reason that they kept sending me messages like I was on some contact list. Peachy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Flirted an awesome new forumite and she blocked me, but not before sending four flirts back. Fark, women are so confusing!
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RHP User
11 years ago
With a grain of salt. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Anyone clicking on my profile, it'd look like I've blocked them. (I've actually blocked myself from the entire world, to regain my equilibrium.) And frankly your message is tame. I've received some that are worthy of being show cased in a B grade Porn script.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Flirted an awesome new forumite and she blocked me, but not before sending four flirts back. Fark, women are so confusing! Maybe she realised she was playing too easy to get...
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RHP User
11 years ago
It is a shame we cant see how many people block a member, I think it would be a good indicator as to a persons likability. I only know of one member that has blocked me, but I am sure their must be dozens or with luck hundreds that have. Its just so hard to get how much of an arse I really am without such information. As for blocking, I love it. Pressing the block button is such a rush, the power, the control, makes me giddy. I love just finding the most lonely pathetic looking profiles and just clicking a block button then click there profiles over and over till they look. Ha ha ha I have blocked you looser... Thank god for the simple pleasures.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You can block / be blocked on here?!? Awesome!! *rubs hands together with a challenged gleam in eyes, and a mischievous grin*
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting Meander "Remember a recent little shit-fight where two women got into it? They were perfect strangers, yet they sure managed to rile each other up. I think most of us will take something too personal when feeling criticized or rejected at one time or another, even when done by nothing but a username in cyberspace." True, some people do. And it is heartwarming to see that you recognise that now. Me riled up?? Mehhhh....not yet,....not even close. 😉 The reason Ive started "getting the big stick out", is , since Ive been reading the Forums, Ive noticed there's a "gang" of you regular/long termers here who are very quick to put the boot into many poor, unsuspecting &/or harmless & polite contributors. You're like a flock of circling Vultures who dive in for the kill. Pack mentality it's called , & Ive watched you & the usual suspects savage quite a number of passers - by for "daring to speak or comment uninvited". You act as if you personally 'own' the Forums. The hypocrisy your 'Gang', frequently engage in with your over-inflated senses of your own importance & authority, is both laughable & cringe worthy. This 'Gang', seems to care little about whom you trample in the rush for their blood! Me, I stand up for the underdog, & I am imune to criticism, rejection, name-calling & any other form of personal attack or offence. And if I see or hear an unprovoked attack (written or in person), on some poor soul,......guess who will be on the Warpath ?! I love to expose & publically embarrass the bullies & nasty b------t-----ds. Indeed, I know only-too well what it is like to be on the receiving end . And i won't stand idly by and allow it to happen to others. So, It is a wise person who ensures they're beyond reproach themselves , before an unjustified attack. Any how,...Im not sure what your post to me has to do with the blocking topic ? I appreciate you taking the time to write though. Enjoy your night ✌ KK x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Rude oh yes but just imagine if you got chatting you may accidentily tell them the truth !! Gentlemen please allow me ! It is but not the message itself ! It is not because it has anal /recieving! It is not because your a wussy ! It is not because your abusive ! It is not because you lack confidence ! It is not because its aggressive bitter and twisted like the moulded culture of the site, because frankly the bitter and twisted mould the culture of the ste . Closely at toe Are the followers mesmerized brain washed in the belief they will get an invite ! Porn in the game correct porn equals getting fucked. You will find the most critical members with the most correct in the lunch box opinion dont meet people. Pppffftt Lilly fantastic idea . Young Lad. Ppppfftt . KK.exactly Gentlemen lock and load When we hunt for pie we do not discriminate . If you send 5 messages a day you will starve . Wanna know what a woman thinks? Is that a sick joke we will start with 20 minimum rapid fire messages each covering the feelings that may have been evident at any given time of the day in regards to targets own profile attitude and status !! 20 point numbered guide to contents of each message delivered : 1 Wanna fuck message 2 Lie about anything 3 truth about everything 4 compliments for her 5 confident 6 comedy make her laugh 7 Pushy 8 wanna fuck message , stats show this does work 9 sympathy/ oh you the victim 10 making love your passion 11 confuse with wit 12 confuse wih intelligence 13 get personal 14 put down 15 bragging 16 cock size and performance stats 17 cuninglingus tequnique 18 show you care 19 Template 20 template Make sure you template each message and attack. Current reply rate varies depending on time of the hour day , month , year currently stats show 20 sent messages = 5 positive replies = 2 fucks 5 not sure = style dependant 1/3 fucks 5 blocked = no fucks 5 ignored = possible one fuck Previous statistics show for every 20 messages you will get 2 fucks and 6 blocks sounds like a fair deal hey 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Kimbakandi, don't you realize what you are saying is making you look like the bad person and the bully and not Meander? Everyone that reads her posts is perfectly capable of making up their own opinion. I don't think anyone needs to be saved from her by you, we are all supposed to be grownups. Can you stop now please?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hahahahaha i haven't laughed so hard in so long, need to get it together, i'm nearly wetting myself, 6 blocks and 2 fucks that's brilliant, you're formula rocks, love your work. You have mastered this fucking business, what the hell's so hard about it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I bow to you, couldn't have said it better myself, better hurry up and read this people because this thread will be removed too by the masters of manipulation and their lackeys haha but it's all good fun, i like you won't be going anywhere and am enjoying a happy sex life so don't lose sleep over this behavior but it is a source of great amusement, shared with friends, oh we do laugh - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
To give everyone a practical demonstration as to the proper application of the blocking button. Now if you haven't already blocked each other...... Well played. (Insert smiley with up thumb here)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't worry about it though. Everyone here has the right to voice their opinion, just as everyone else has the right to vehemently disagree with it. You can't please everyone. As long as the people whose posts I truly respect like mine too, I'm thrilled.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Clearly you've all stopped taking your happy pills! Cheers, N
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yet its rare you can be but anyway I do agree it is rude thank god men have more manners GRINNNNNNNN>
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'feloniousfossil1' Clearly you've all stopped taking your happy pills! Cheers, N There's no need to be so darn cheerful Dear N, LOL. People might take it on as something new and unusual. :-P xxx.kimbakandi, I feel your sense of injustice and you're not alone in the way you feel, obviously. Steph, I read some of this stuff to hubby and we just laugh and laugh sometimes too. But sucky for the many people who cop the crap. :-) .Peachy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh how I laughed....................
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RHP User
11 years ago
Dear Steph, I do respect your right to post here ; by the same token you might consider that I also have that same right. I am fascinated by your perception that truth equals nastiness. Truth can be a bitter pill to swallow . Some first reactions to Truth, by many many people are: to run away from it; cloud/blur it; hide from it; ignore it; feel offended or shamed by it; twist it ; manipulate it etc etc. I just prefer to be truthful & honest. I am sorry if you in particular are offended by my principles. Would you prefer to hear/read dishonesty &/or lies from me? Admittedly that may be more comfortable to tolerate in many instances. But why hide from the truth? Ultimately it serves no benefit - to any one. I do not, nor can not force my views down yours or anyone's throat, because ultimately people will choose to believe what suits them. I have never encountered you before today but I promise to continue to respect your views - whether I am in agreeance or not. Your stand was both gutsy & thought provoking. It tells me you are a compassionate person & that in my opinion, is a very fine Quality. Good for you. 😊 KK xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
I felt compelled to post my observation of your post on the previous page. To state there are "gangs" or organised alliance's on here is very much over the top and basically insulting of peoples intelligence. All that type of statement does is make prospective posters think twice about putting up their opinions and views. And the more posters we have, the better the forum experience for all. Yes there is occasionally a sheep mentality where by people follow the other in their targeting of some individuals and that is unfortunate. But just a bad habit of humans. There are no gangs here. There are some who are regular posters and have some form of friendship through either meeting or just familiaraity through forum association. Thats human nature as well. They have a disposition of liking each others posts because friends do that. But to call them gangs....... If i see a post that i particularly like, i will press the button. I didnt like your post that i have referred to but i did like your post above where you addressed Steph so i pressed the button. I think that's the way it works. We have the intelligence to do that. And of course if you see bullying step in then and say your peace. That would work better than having your vigilante attitude. Annie xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' Yet its rare you can be but anyway I do agree it is rude thank god men have more manners GRINNNNNNNN> Misogyny
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Seachange73
11 years ago
It is good to see passion in people, regardless whether we agree with them or not. This is a forum but let us stay on topic to respect the OP. Thank you. Be well all. Blocking is going to done for whatever reason and that is their prerogative. Why do they do it? It is like the question of 'Why did the Chickens cross the road?'. A: because they CAN. Keep a sense sense of humour and brush it off. The only way to stay sane in this forum. Also a lot of compassion and kindness goes a long way so maybe they are going through something behind the profile persona and their actions is just a reaction to whatever is it they need to deal with at the time. Dont take it personally. It is just the cyber world and for those who have not have met you, be grateful that they have not lured your into any emotional lair that could leave you mentally or emotionally shredded or worst, extracted your bank details to help them retrieve the Millions of AU$ left by their dead Nigerian uncle. Your lucky day!!! It is like a sign from the heavens to buy your tatts ticket now. Go on... what you waiting for? A burning bush????
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
"Back on topic to respect the OP" I think the OP's glass is empty......or it got broken in the scrimmage. ....
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RHP User
11 years ago
You don't click with every person you meet in real life so why should be any different here. Does not mean you are a good or bad person/profile. Just means you are not the right profile for them.
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RHP User
11 years ago
...people who have absolutely no pictures up...neither in their public or private galleries...the way i see it...if you give me nothing to perv on, why should you be able to perv on me? maybe a shallow approach but i am cool with it:)
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Seachange73
11 years ago
If you meet me I am so far removed from the gangsta image. Lol. Unless of course we have high heels and sexy dress up as de rigueur (I'll diss my corporate wear fir the day) and prance around with furry handcuff in one hand and champers in another. Annie would be part of the entourage. Mind you I love a tussle here and there but only in the boxing ring or ksrate mats. We all have our differences and sometimes we say things we really don't mean so we must let some things go. But KK, you can be part of.the non existent sista gang. We need strong willed sisters here too to keep the rowdy lads in line. Although I like them a teeny weeny bit rowdy. Let's just all.chill a bit and not get this thread Canned for those differences. Cheers.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'kimbakandi' Dear Steph, I do respect your right to post here ; by the same token you might consider that I also have that same right. I am fascinated by your perception that truth equals nastiness. Truth can be a bitter pill to swallow . Some first reactions to Truth, by many many people are: to run away from it; cloud/blur it; hide from it; ignore it; feel offended or shamed by it; twist it ; manipulate it etc etc. I just prefer to be truthful & honest. I am sorry if you in particular are offended by my principles. Would you prefer to hear/read dishonesty &/or lies from me? Admittedly that may be more comfortable to tolerate in many instances. But why hide from the truth? Ultimately it serves no benefit - to any one. I do not, nor can not force my views down yours or anyone's throat, because ultimately people will choose to believe what suits them. I have never encountered you before today but I promise to continue to respect your views - whether I am in agreeance or not. Your stand was both gutsy & thought provoking. It tells me you are a compassionate person & that in my opinion, is a very fine Quality. Good for you. 😊 KK xx I really am impressed with how well you express yourself, you speak my thoughts. You seem to have that balance I feel I am missing sometimes. That's just my impression of course. Thanks heaps. Peachy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you, yes I think im a kind person. I still do not agree though. You say to me: I am fascinated by your perception that truth equals nastiness. Truth can be a bitter pill to swallow . Some first reactions to Truth, by many many people are: to run away from it; cloud/blur it; hide from it; ignore it; feel offended or shamed by it; twist it ; manipulate it etc etc. I just prefer to be truthful & honest. I am sorry if you in particular are offended by my principles. But earlier you said to Meander:You act as if you personally 'own' the Forums. The hypocrisy your 'Gang', frequently engage in with your over-inflated senses of your own importance & authority, is both laughable & cringe worthy. So that is Truth? No it's not. It's your opinion. Even if you had 100 people agreeing with you, another 100 might disagree. I also think it's too bad that many posts here on the forums are personal attacks, aimed at the person and not their posts.How can anyone even make such character judgments based on what people write here unless they know them in real life? I wish you well kimbakandi, no hard feelings.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'livingitupnow' ...people who have absolutely no pictures up...neither in their public or private galleries...the way i see it...if you give me nothing to perv on, why should you be able to perv on me? maybe a shallow approach but i am cool with it:) I like that reason! Aso-fucking-lutley
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Steph1985' Thank you, yes I think im a kind person. I still do not agree though. You say to me: I am fascinated by your perception that truth equals nastiness. Truth can be a bitter pill to swallow . Some first reactions to Truth, by many many people are: to run away from it; cloud/blur it; hide from it; ignore it; feel offended or shamed by it; twist it ; manipulate it etc etc. I just prefer to be truthful & honest. I am sorry if you in particular are offended by my principles. But earlier you said to Meander:You act as if you personally 'own' the Forums. The hypocrisy your 'Gang', frequently engage in with your over-inflated senses of your own importance & authority, is both laughable & cringe worthy. So that is Truth? No it's not. It's your opinion. Even if you had 100 people agreeing with you, another 100 might disagree. I also think it's too bad that many posts here on the forums are personal attacks, aimed at the person and not their posts.How can anyone even make such character judgments based on what people write here unless they know them in real life? I wish you well kimbakandi, no hard feelings. http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Who-we-are-is-who-we-are-49004-Page2
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RHP User
11 years ago
*some*
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RHP User
11 years ago
i used to think wtf how can a person claim to know another through a written comment whether it be passionately blunt ! Some people would say nasty ! Or empathy from another ! Some would say soft or pathetic ! I was restricted for one month for my tone !!!! Frustrated or agressive ?? Menace or the menaced ?? Perpetrator or the victim ?? The truth is people do claim to know who you are without knowing you , but what is worse is when they write in public manipulate a persons words or reasoning make it there own and throw it back out there for it to snowball into a train wreck !! When people are beaton with a stick they bite back there is many stick waivers in the forum and many biters , just look at how many quote another ! But only take slices of the entire post paste it then put it out as there own take on it , and when the original poster bites at the misleading way they are conveyed to be . Well guess what everyone jumps on everyone elses bandwagon . And you get a shit fight often with the perpetraitor bowing out graciously to slither off in the long grass !! So many different characters and so many different levels of offence !! If someone Is offended by a word the next person will not be one thinks its funny the other disgusting ! If you dont like what someone says dont comment easy . Problem is to many comment on what is said then label the author to be of a certain nature and that is what starts trouble .When trouble starts nobody can remember why it started because everybody jumps in willy nilly the current conflicts started way back there is truth in all claims there is deciet in all claims there is victims in all corners. And it will unfortunately not change . So grab a bucket lets jump in the pit i wanna pull your pants down 😜😜😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'livingitupnow' ...people who have absolutely no pictures up...neither in their public or private galleries...the way i see it...if you give me nothing to perv on, why should you be able to perv on me? maybe a shallow approach but i am cool with it:) I like that reason! Aso-fucking-lutley Sometimes I'll notice someone viewing my profile, and when I click on their username it shows I'm blocked. I'm always quite happy to return the favour. If I can't see you, you can't see me either.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I thought that thread was going pretty much swimmingly considering I could see the possibility for buttons being pushed. I did not mean to give such a negative opinion.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thankyou for your input & "advice", about when I am 'allowed' to step in & say my piece. With respect to liking & not liking posts, I only use my mobile for this site & not only is the like/dislike feature not available for use through my mobile App, but other people's' likes & dislikes are not visible either (at least not on my mobile anyway). So, whether I or my posts are liked or disliked is none of my business & frankly I intend to keep it that way - sorry. Interestingly, the "Gang" reference was actually mentioned to me by other forumites. Apparently I am not the only person to have noticed or felt the effects of same - as I was contacted privately (& publically) by various forumites expressing agreement or support. Who'd have guessed ?! And if in fact you are not one of the 'gang' or bullies in 'that alliance', then you should have no reason to feel insulted as the post was only directed at certain posters. It is however, your choice to take it on board & I respect that . Thanks for taking the time to write - I am welcoming of the opinions of others (whether I agree with them or not). 😉 KK xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'GypsyWildNT' Quoting 'chevtrek' Yet its rare you can be but anyway I do agree it is rude thank god men have more manners GRINNNNNNNN> Misogyny Some people say the most stupid and misogynistic things to get a reaction and they wonder why they are treated with distaste and contempt. People are not stupid, we can read and we can deduce. As I previously said in one thread, it did not happen overnight and 'consistent' stupid comments like that just reinforces our views and opinions of that person. Lacking in filter from brain to fingers - Forum Tourette. Very attractive. for those who defend these people and accuse many of bullying, please be aware that there sometimes seek the rope themselves, the full length of the MCG. Hope some people read the above statement and take note that we are simply not dreaming and scheming behind close doors. Lol.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
My comment above, with regards to the OP's subject of Blocking, this very behaviour against women deserves a BIG BLOCK from me... Hell, on sighting a man like that on the horizon, I will build a moat around my Lily castle and draw up the bridge until the coast is clear. A big NO WAY, THANKS . Or enter the convent..
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RHP User
11 years ago
You need a chill pill there is no need for aggression.If your going to quote me make a note as it ended in GRINNNNNNNNNNN Learn to take a joke.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Misogyny is never a joke.... Stupidity, ignorance aand insensitivy is a precursor to it. Consistent posting in the same line of thinking makes you stand out like a naked baboon with a massive flaming anal prolapse. GRINNNNNNNN THAATTTT. ..
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RHP User
11 years ago
big time
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Seachange73
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'GypsyWildNT' Quoting 'chevtrek' Yet its rare you can be but anyway I do agree it is rude thank god men have more manners GRINNNNNNNN> Misogyny Some people say the most stupid and misogynistic things to get a reaction and they wonder why they are treated with distaste and contempt. People are not stupid, we can read and we can deduce. As I previously said in one thread, it did not happen overnight and 'consistent' stupid comments like that just reinforces our views and opinions of that person. Lacking in filter from brain to fingers - Forum Tourette. Very attractive. for those who defend these people and accuse many of bullying, please be aware that there sometimes seek the rope themselves, the full length of the MCG. Hope some people read the above statement and take note that we are simply not dreaming and scheming behind close doors. Lol. KimbaKandi made an excellent point above Lily.... Quoting 'kimbakandi' And if in fact you are not one of the 'gang' or bullies in 'that alliance', then you should have no reason to feel insulted. It is however, your choice to take it on board & I respect that . Please do specify who I have accused of bullying, I have talked about the situation, and not people I believe. .Maybe the comments are deliberate now, maybe people reach a point where they figure they may as well, maybe they were all along, but I don't know because I don't read minds, but if they were deliberate, welcome to the world of being trolled. As I have posted more than once, though I wouldn't be surprised if people think they know more than me about me, is that my posts are not about one particular person. Even if you were right in this specific case, that would not dismiss my point that bullying does go in the forums. I have seen the scheming behind closed doors, so I know it happens, I know how nasty it can be, and how far off the facts people can be..Cheers Peachy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would like to be with you for an evening of wine and dinning
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RHP User
11 years ago
Where ever bullies are found. I stress that this is not directed at anyone in this forum. Bulling behaviors range from the sublime to the ridiculous. Bullying is not just straight forward aggression. It includes a host of tactics all designed to bolster the bullies status and need to feel superior. Some people stand up to the bullies and will not let bulling effect them, others I am afraid can not take it and leave. A loss to the diversity of any social group. Bulling is systematic and long term. It includes conspiratouse planing and underhanded behind the scene manipulation. The bullies are well aware of who they are, and who they target. They sit behind a shield of righteousness that covers blatant hypocrisy, it is the target that is sought for attack, not the cause that is to be defended. Bullying stems from insecurity and a need to fit in. Bullies use the naivety of others to further their own needs and encourage feelings of indignation merely to insight attack, recruiting to their cause via false and frivolous reward and punishment. Bullies are always quick to call fowl, they are usually of few words and without logic of argument. They fight argument with directed personal attack and name calling, they do not enter into debate. They spread rumor and lies. They are quick to false modesty and fear exposure of the truth. Bullies are prominent and always in need to be seen. Bullies are never alone, they come in packs. Bulling behaviour can not support its long term existence without support, its to fragile in it indecency to survive on its own. Bullies are not individuals. We should be thankful that a forum for adults like this can remain free of the school yard mentality. What chaos we are spared from without the need to point fingers and name names. I think we can all agree that its nice to be adult, friendly, and open. It welcomes in new faces and ideas to what could be, if allowed to be, a dirty rotten core. Luckily blocking has not been extended to forums, RHP mods are aware of the use of exclusion as a tool for bullies. They would want something like that to encourage bulling type behaviour. Which if allowed to run out of control would destroy a community of like minds and free open expression. Blocking is a tool for personal comfort. For me I have only ever used it once to stop a male member from flirting and messaging me daily. I am a male I get excited when I get something in the mail. Did not like having that joy taken from me so I had to block. I have received all sorts of ugly in my inbox over the years, never have I found it something to click the block button for. Those that block members that never look at their profile, never message, or care, seem to me at least to show something that is not aligned with the ideal of a bully free environment. Vive le diversité
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RHP User
11 years ago
Paragraph 7, line 2 readsQuote:"They would want something like that to encourage bulling type behaviour."Should read asThey would NOT want ...
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RHP User
11 years ago
🍑🌹🌹👌👍🌹🌹🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'livingitupnow' ...people who have absolutely no pictures up...neither in their public or private galleries...the way i see it...if you give me nothing to perv on, why should you be able to perv on me? maybe a shallow approach but i am cool with it:) I like that reason! Aso-fucking-lutley thank you honey...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid'But KK, you can be part of.the non existent sista gang. The non existent sista gang vs the menstrual mafia ...this is not for the faint hearted ...or the feint hearted for that matter
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RHP User
11 years ago
Flattered you (both) refer to it as "my" gang. All that power is going to my head! :-D (Take that, Meeka!)
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RHP User
11 years ago
sometimes you are funny Meander. Even while being sarcastic your ego knows no bounds.
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Flattered you (both) refer to it as "my" gang. All that power is going to my head! :-D (Take that, Meeka!) Hmmm I wonder to whom you are referring? Investing in pop corn futures is the tip of the day...Meeka vs Mea what a show that should be...Lilly will you care to join the judging panel...and be impartial?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm guessing t was probably meant to say "you gang members" or something, not "your gang", but let me have my moment FFS. Yes Lily, come judge!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm guessing t was probably meant to say "you gang members" or something, not "your gang", but let me have my moment FFS. Yes Lily, come judge!
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