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You have to earn it in my eyes
September 20 2013
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss' Quoting 'madotara69'Chances are you could find it as a Unicorn! Isn't that what this site is centered around, having your brains fucked out, till you become a quivering mess... For a While?Mado, Tara xx Now where is my next Kinky cOoop fuck coming From Only a "dumbarse" would have a lady wanting to say NO.Ironing the batman suit. (black ears and cape to match)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I charge royalties, you know. DG
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I charge royalties, you know. DG For tax purposes, could we call it a donation to your charity?
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RHP User
12 years ago
DG.......a charityThat does not compute lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mizellicia' I worded my message wrong as I was pissed of at the time, then tried to correct it but guess no one bothers reading the others. Talking on the phone and meeting face to face are not the same to me that's why I do like to meet in public every time thankyou. This site obviously means something different to everyone so no answer is wrong I guess. I thankyou u all for ur input and feel sorry for all u angry people who take this site to seriously but I do not judge u at all in the end. I will remember what u all have said and improve on some to become a better me. - Posted from rhpmobile You're already "better" in many respects - we could do worse than follow your prescient advice.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'I was sincere! Fuck me the footy is on as well!!! I don't even like footy :P Damned if you do and damned if you don't... I know where he lives so shall I go around and slap him!!! Oh i have fucked him a few times before and he knows my life style....but jeeze talk about a slap in the face. I CAN NOT understand MEN! Don't think it has anything to do with him being male. I'll think you'll find the vast majority of people would take your text to indicate you were wanting to cancel. Both of us would have if we received that. Perhaps it was you who was actually confusing?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I prefer to chat first, then coffee, if there is chemistry then the rest is history.Iin chatting you get a rough idea of what they are like and you get to choose whether to meet or not, then if you meet for coffee at a mutually agreeable spot you again get to choose and there is no pressure to perform or at the least get the opportunity to end it there or another meet, if they are well mannered they will respect your wishes.this works for me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Do you think our distance from others might play a big part in these expectations?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Distance does make it hard/challenge - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
12 years ago
One would assume the men concerned would "lift their🌴 game!!!" and not believe that they are the only thirsty men to stop by and 🌴want to slake their 💦thirsts at your cool, 🌴inviting oasis. 🍹 If anything it should make them try harder NOT to let their knuckles drag on the ground.....🙈🙉🙊
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RHP User
12 years ago
distance is definitely one of the biggest hassels..I am 1 and half hrs from the nearest what you would call metropolis lol.. and 3-4 hrs from our major city... its becoming the biggest problem I have...
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's 2013, people fly around the world on a whim
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Coops27M
12 years ago
I'll just pop in my private jet and scoot over east :) Also i'm loving all the little pictures your putting in your post's Indagine. Especially the see no, hear no, speak no evil monkeys :)! Pleasing on the eyes :D, as are your posts :P- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mandurah isn't that far to travel for meets and I stay with mates, that's my limit for visiting a city Perth is too far. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Coops27M
12 years ago
Mandurah is still 30 minutes from baldivis... Haha- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Coops27M'I'll just pop in my private jet and scoot over east :) Also i'm loving all the little pictures your putting in your post's Indagine. Especially the see no, hear no, speak no evil monkeys :)! Pleasing on the eyes :D, as are your posts :P- Posted from rhpmobile sigh...
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RHP User
12 years ago
30mins is nothing...I go shopping in Rocko everytime I'm up that way - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'cwhereitgoes' It's 2013, people fly around the world on a whim you can afford to fly regularly, which many cannot.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What happened to the thrill of the chase?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
nuff said
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree alot of guys just don't know how to overcome the barrier of going from mutual sexual interest to actually seducing the woman through sexy eye contact, gentle touches, flirty language and eventually kissing. This type of pre foreplay seduction is so important for creating a hot passionate encounter. I personally find cold "lets get undressed and fuck" , type sex very unsatisfying.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's those little things that make the encounter worth it :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Us girls have it easy, don't kid yourself. We have clubs we can go to as single girls or couples, the power of sex is under our control, the ratio of women outnumber men. These poor guys only have brothels to go to if they are single. If you don't want sex on a first date then state it in a text "hi, just a heads up(not yours) I don't do the dirty on first dates, we will see how we go on the 2nd, 3rd or 4th" by the way, I'm worth the wait. See easy, to the point and everyone is happy. If you feel pressure to give sex, well sorry but that is YOUR issue, NOT theirs that they want sex. Sorry I'm going on a bit but we are adults here and as such can speak our minds or at least verbalise our intent, hey even grunt. Good luck guys on your search and just a little hint, no matter who you have to compete with to get the girl, make her laugh, feel special and concentrate on her and it will come
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you're on the wrong site? If you want a guy to work for it then perhaps you may want to consider a regular dating site, as previously stated this is a sex site. As you're are also just a guest clearly the men really do have to work for it as far as you're concerned, why not subscribe so you can be more picky?
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RHP User
12 years ago
What the? This is a sex site... So what, girls have to sleep with you without the bloke making an effort? Seriously? Well, there are some women that are after a root in the park with a stranger but some of us want something a little more than that. We have every right to expect more than a guy just showing up for a root. :-/
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some guys just don't get it. 😪
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RHP User
12 years ago
The very fact that this is a sex site means that men AND women join without an expectation of "working for it". If a meet is arranged after both parties talking for a while I don't think it's unreasonable for the male to consider that after a couple of hours of friendly chat that he's going to get lucky.
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RHP User
12 years ago
BigMamma she has not said that she expects a guy to wait. If you read the question you will see that she quite often has sex on the first date if the chemistry is right. Seriously, as youdeserveit has said, I don't think it is too much to expect a bit of respect from the men on this site. Some guys think they can take you for one drink, then they almost flop their dick out at the table and expect you to drop to your knees and suck it. BigMamma I know you are into random sex at the clubs but not everyone enjoys that. Some women like a bit of verbal foreplay, flirting, and dare I say a touch of class. Do we really have to go to a dating site to get that????? Well maybe I am at the wrong site. Random sex with guys when there hasn't been much communication is sexually unsatisfying for me. Well, unless it's part of group sex. In my limited experience, a guy that is not prepared to spent a little effort into warming a woman up is not great in bed and quite often selfish too boot. For me it's a NEXT!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh dear....
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RHP User
12 years ago
By the way The OP has never said a guy has to work for it why are people saying that?. If a man gave me the impression that I had to play on the first meet if we got along after a bit of chat... I wouldn't meet him.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The average guy who spends 2 hours chatting some random up in a nightclub is expecting to get lucky let alone when he's meeting someone who is advertising herself on a well known sex swingers site with a profile that starts " Looking for regular fun if more comes outa it ok if not oh well."
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RHP User
12 years ago
I must say I'm rather disappointed by your posts. Quoting 'Meeka100' I don't think it is too much to expect a bit of respect from the men on this site. Some guys think they can take you for one drink, then they almost flop their dick out at the table and expect you to drop to your knees and suck it. Do we really have to go to a dating site to get that????? Well maybe I am at the wrong site. Random sex with guys when there hasn't been much communication is sexually unsatisfying for me. Well, unless it's part of group sex. In my limited experience, a guy that is not prepared to spent a little effort into warming a woman up is not great in bed and quite often selfish too boot. For me it's a NEXT!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I want a guy to earn it too, which is totally different than making him work for it. The second one sounds like a game and I don't play games. You earn my interest and attraction by being punctual, respectful, funny, slightly dominant, tactile, etc etc. If being any of these sound like work to you, then you are not for me. Meeks said it, a touch of class goes a long way.
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's just a point of view from a guys standpoint. I don't speak for anyone other than myself.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Rutting. "Hello, my name is highpriority, would you like a drink before we rut ?" 👎 If you want to rut, it's probably cheaper to pay by the hour... That way there's no dinner, drinks or room to hire. I enjoy at least a couple of hrs imagining undressing you, before I actually do... I want to be your lover, You will know when I want you... But I like it when you want me first...😍 Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Gotta say I do agree with you....but I say again, it works both ways. More than happy to "earn" it, but it has to be "earned" as well.....I don't just give it away to anyone.As far as expectation goes, when I *do* meet up, I expect nothing more than good company for a while. Where that ultimately ends up is for us both to decide at the time.CheersJAB
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RHP User
12 years ago
In hotshot we have a prime example of male application of the madonna-whore complex to women. Clearly he places women on RHP into a category separate from other women, and applies differing standards to them accordingly. And this is typical of the attitude so many men have towards women who dare to publicly admit that they like sex, and that they may actually have sex on the first date (if they want to). And all I can say to that is BLERGH
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for the analysis, was it free?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Honey, someone may have forgotten to mention.......this is a sex / hook up site. What do you expect? From what I'm hearing from the guys on here, there are some women that are worse than the sleazy men!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes this is a hook up site but everyone has their own definition of a hook up and it's probably important to be upfront beforehand. If I've arranged to meet for a drink first, especially on a first meet then I'm not expecting the girl to jump me in the toilets after 5 mins and it's as much about seeing whether there is mutual attraction as anything but if I get a text saying "my place in an hour and bring your A game" then I know what to expect...- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You have every right to be selective with who you fuck and who you don't. I'm the same, I need to feel I want to fuck the lady rather than going through the motions for the hell of it. So I can't blame you. If I fancy you , there's a good chance we will fuck and enjoy it... When did u say you're coming through Sydney ? lol...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Here is a tip for the ladys when it come's to understanding guy's our little head's do the thinking first then our mouth's with that said, never hint to a guy we will never get it, dont use too many words lol, and sorry to say at time's you lovely lady's need to spell it out, we dont read between the line's, just saying
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's just common sense and respect to meet a person before deciding the next step. Yeah, most guys see this as a sex site where chatting online is the "pre communication" so they think a meet n greet is the open door to a bedroom. For me, the next step after online is chat/text by phone, then meet n greet. You're right, respect must be earned at each level, and the meet n greet is just that. But let's face it, there is a majority of dribbling dicks on here that forget about the effort to be respectful, regardless of the fetish. This isn't a porn site, or sex site.... it is a dating site, with sex being the open goal. Just because a guy paid, doesn't mean this is a hooker service by all means. Fun is fun, but we are all human and should act like it.
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WhispersAndMoans
12 years ago
Quoting 'mizellicia' I don't meet people from manji but thanx anyway :) I feel that what I have said is being used against me now. I love sex and men but I shouldn't be expected to play on 1st meets every time especially if we don't click That's all trying to say?? Sorry to the people who have taken it the wrong way- Posted from rhpmobile Read Mizellicia's original post and thought, "dead right, at least some effort should be expected". Then read a couple more and thought "possibly valid points in amongst that, it is a sex site"Then read a few more posts that came across with a more attacking tone and thought "bull#$%T". It is like mizellicia is being tarred with that nasty little title "cocktease" for daring to post sexy stuff on her profile. Apparently it is too much to expect men to have the maturity and emotional intelligence to observe sexiness (in a profile or meet) and think anything other than "she puts out, I can now expect a root". That is the start of a slippery slope that leads to "she was dressed provocatively so she deserved it".Now if a profile read "All I want is to f@$% and if i reply to you it is on" I might concede that as a different story.I reject totally the assumption that as this is a sex site:1/ Women on here are a sure thing and hence deserve no respect2/ It is ok to make no intellectual effort or show maturity simply because you have a dick3/ An agreement to a face to face meeting means the woman now has no choiceI'd also guess that some of the men complaining about copping a bashing are angling for a sympathy root. Yes some are devious enough for that form of behaviour.By the way - this is written by the male half so I don't think you should interpret it as male bashing. Not all males are emotionally immature, just a proportion. It's that proportion that are deserving of a bashing and they should be the target not males in general. Mizellicia you are right to have expectations to be treated as something more than a sure root that no longer deserves effort or respect. Just make sure you also reject those really hot ones who display bad behaviour or you will weaken our argument Oh and I am not angling for a "I'm very mature and in touch with my feminine side and the sisterhood" root. There are more than enough men on these forums using that tactic.
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WhispersAndMoans
12 years ago
I probably wouldn't have bothered.Note to self, be more observant.
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RHP User
12 years ago
please help relieve my blue balls
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm with you Miz, if you don't you don't have a spark with your clothes on, there's not much use getting your clothes off. And while most people will agree with that, when you're in the situation of going to meet someone with the pretense of sex then most people will look past the spark and view it as a one-nighter and think you wouldn't be there if you weren't wanting it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
ok, as someone who understands where the op is coming from - i can read a profile, see a few pics, chat on the phone and think, sure this guy seems nice and good looking and etc etc. then comes the meet and he is nothing like his pic, or is completely socially awkward in person, or just there is no connection or spark whatsoever. then said guy starts putting the pressure on for something to happen, what would you ladies do?from the sounds of most of you giving the op a hard time, most of you would just have sex with him anyway because you had agreed to meet?no thank you. granted, in all my messages before meeting guys i set the expecatation that there will not be sex on a first meet. sure, sometimes it happens, and its great. but if i have no sexual attraction to the guy after meeting him, and he puts the moves on expecting something, and then gets shitty if i turn him down... and to those people saying this is a sex site, im sorry but NO! this is an adult dating/swingers site. Sure, most people see it as an avenue to easy sex... and for a lot of people it is. majority of people i have met have just ended up being a short term thing, and that is fine. but i have also met lots of amazing people i am happy to call friends, couples and singles alike. grow up, get your heads out of your asses for a minute and accept other people are welcome to use this site however they want!
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