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fucking in photos
February 26 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
A turn off for me. Unless Im the other person in the pic, then, its hot!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Agree, a definite turn off! Save them for your PG if you insist on having them at all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lately I've been very unpleasantly surprised at the number of pics showing unprotected intercourse. More often than not the profiles stated "Safe sex" Always for all activities".
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I agree LittleMiss I see these pics regularly. They are a little dis-tasteful and off putting, especially the close up ones. Most of the pics taken appear to be taken via phones, looks cheap and nasty. The ones I've seen lately on single men profiles, the man is not wearing any protection. :{ Put them in private Gallery - not everyone wants to see them! Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
For those "single" men, who have these pics as profile pics and from your point of view.. Can explain to some of us.... Why do you have them as your main profile pic? Is it your only selling point? Do you do it to advertise that you have had intercourse before? Do you do it so that it shows others of evidence of what you can do?? Does it actually work for you?
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Do the woman/women you are fucking in those close up pics, know you are using them as profile pics?? If it were me, and I had no idea nor my permission, I'd hit the bloody roof! Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I suspect the majority of women posting here will dislike action shots, like most don't like cock shots either. But we are of course the minority, and a male poster recently said that when he replaced a "regular" pic with a cock shot, the interest in his profile increased dramatically. So is the same true for fuck photos?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can't stand them. That's what I like about being a guest now. I can't see them anymore, apparently they are too hot for me to handle, thank Gawd!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I see what you are getting at, but it supposes that the photos are of a casual sex partner or an unknown quantity. I think it much more likely they're pics taken with a regular partner - condom use there is not the norm except possibly from a birth control perspective.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That I like action shots, esp of the creampie kind (not that I'd want a creampie or to have a pic of my pussy floating in cyberspace though) At first I thought I wouldn't like them but I'm thankful for rhp as it's helping explore my sexual likes and dislikes :-) I get so excited and horny each time I come across such shots, alas I'm not a paid member so I can't see any now - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
12 years ago
When I see a fucking, or cock, or a sole naked woman pic in a single man's profile. Especially the one with a naked woman posted solely in the pic! Don't understand why a single man would need to use a woman's pic to advertise his profile??? Of course, each to their own and only them know their real reason behind their action! :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
think like men..... Men are attracted by explicit Photos , so in their mind it must be great and sexy and a turn off for all.Showing pussy and a dick which moves in and out....they like.the thought that most women don't......comes later.
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Well it sends the wrong message to me. I cannot remember a time when Ive been rooting, where I distracted myself enough to think... "Oh, I will get a pogo of that for my RHP profile". HugsGazpacho
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gazpacho
12 years ago
a pogo.. is a photo in RHP edit-less forum speak. I wouldn't mind getting a pogo for that sometimes, but that's another story,..HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
And it might not even be the guy in question. I replied to one bloke who had a pic of him in a tangle of limbs, and he said, "Oh, thats not me, I saw that on a porn sight and thought it would make a good profile pic"
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RHP User
12 years ago
I made a similar comment a few weeks back...... and copped flack for it. lol. Seems to be a deliberate tactic employed by guys to convince others that they are worth having sex with because "look, someone else had sex with me!".... It's trying too hard, and more than likely breaching the privacy of the other person in the pic being used as a prop. DG.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's absolutely disgusting. Seriously who do they think they are. Please leave those sorts of action shots for Facebook because it's totally inappropriate for an adult dating site for swingers. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
I never think to look a whether they're using protection! Good point :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
When's the church newsletter coming out people?
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RHP User
12 years ago
So I assume OP that you don't have the same aversion to couples having these sorts of action photos then? It's only single males? Why? Is it ain't because the couples are in love ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51' a pogo.. is a photo in RHP edit-less forum speak. I wouldn't mind getting a pogo for that sometimes, but that's another story,..HugsGazpacho photo of your pogo? I don't mind them at all, and if its unsafe sex well that's always a good red flag right there for you to see. However the pictures might have been with their partner etc. To me its like when you see a man with a woman, you think well at least he is fuckable. I am a very visual person, and I have done a ton of photo shoots with people fucking, so I rather like the image of it all. I am not a member and boy to I miss looking at all the dirty pictures decided not to re join for a while as its to distracting and I have way to much stuff to be doing offline.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm not looking at couple profiles so I haven't come across those photos. I'm also not so naive or prudish or small-minded or whatever, despite the inference, to think that all couple profiles on here are of people in love or that only in-love couples (whatever the hell that means) should put up pics of them having sex. Bottom line, if I'm interested in having sex with a man I expect that he's had sex with other women but I don't want the photos shoved under my nose. I find it crass and immature. My opinion is just that - the opinion of one person. I was curious to know what other people thought, and curious about the reasons men put these pics up ala Foxxy's post with the list if questions. - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' It's absolutely disgusting. Seriously who do they think they are. Please leave those sorts of action shots for Facebook because it's totally inappropriate for an adult dating site for swingers. :p When I am On the loose, (wink) I have some pretty fine Facebook pics at hand, just saying. HugsGazpacho
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I see nothing wrong if a couple have those pics - if that is what they choose to have up, that is their choice. However to me if a single man, has these pics up and says he's single on his profile, uses no condom... It's a red Flag for me. Now, if I put up one of those pics of a man fucking me and status as single and the man has no condom on - would that be a red flag to to others?? Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nope. You would have them queuing around the corner.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The original question has not asked about condoms the question is about action shots. So if we forget about whether people are wearing condoms or not and just focus on action shots, it's okay for couples but not for anyone else? Is that what you are all saying?
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RHP User
12 years ago
for me it's the same as cock shots...I don't have a problem with them per se, and I think they can be very sexy and erotic if done well. But most on here - particularly those on single men's profiles - aren't done well, it's just the grainy close-up of a sausage in a hole, which does nothing for me.
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Taby_DK
12 years ago
As a couple we have seen this many times in other couples PG's. I personally find it a turn off just like I find cock or pussy shots a turn off. I believe in leaving something to the imagination when we meet a couple together and I would much rather explore in person ;) We do like a see a full body shot though (not nude) just so we can tell if a person is in shape or not but photo's of people having sex does turn me off. I can't really speak for Mr but from having him hang over my should on RHP many times he is a little more open to pussy shots of girls, must be a guy thing? lol Although I do have a weakness for the ladies in lingerie ;) Taby xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23'for me it's the same as cock shots...I don't have a problem with them per se, and I think they can be very sexy and erotic if done well. But most on here - particularly those on single men's profiles - aren't done well, it's just the grainy close-up of a sausage in a hole, which does nothing for me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's about "representation". It's pretty well accepted that if you're in here you're not likely to be a virgin. (Sure, the way some people behave ensures they'll stay a RHP virgin, but that's another story). So accepting most in here aren't virgins it's obvious you've shagged at least one person. So Singledude 1.0 showing pics of an unknown (and most likely unknowing) woman.... is being used as an advertising prop in his profile to desperately try and convince other women that they should believe he's shagable. Pffffffffft. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Given the focus and clear obsession most guys seem to have for their dick in here.... Perhaps they've created their profiles to please themselves. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Testimonials are one of the basic methods used in advertising . A pic of people fucking is meant to be solid proof that they can fuck & will fuck & that they can get a fuck. A common failure in these pics seems to be the non-exisistant condom . As if to say "I've just put my knob in this and now I want to put it in you". The saddest thing about these pics is their lack of Art... GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
It was taken at drinks night.... emailed to me and was told to have it as my profile pic. I have done the cock shot a while back ..... was thinking that's what women want to see.... oh how i have matured !!Don't have any pics of me or ex lovers.... they are in the wank bank
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Nope. You would have them queuing around the corner. Condoms I hope!! WHOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOO line em up! Now who's going to be the one fucking my arss, and taking pics?? Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Superfoxy - you are here for social meets only, so why would it bother you?
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RHP User
12 years ago
My god how is the form of a lot of the replies on this topic, you all sit there in judgement of guys who are just playing the game. Who are you to judge them, i have seen on another topic today that a lot of you are just here for the forums, this site was designed as a hookup site, not a chat and stab members in the back site. If the pictures the guys put up help them to meet women that are into what they display then it has worked for him and the girl he hooks up with. i have seen lots of the pictures that you all are having a cry about so the numbers alone tell me that the market is there for these type of pics and they work for some guys. Many guys on this site, as in life, really struggle to meet women, at is this type of bullshit bullying that makes there love and sex lives hard. And what annoys me even more is that these guys put up good cash to be members on this site, and those who choose not to spare a penny sit there and give there shitty opinions... please Durty
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RHP User
12 years ago
Shitty or not, everyone is entitled to their opinion! You don't have to agree with it. You don't have to like it. Just as nobody has to agree or like YOUR opinion. But we are all entitled to voice it.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Quoting 'jamt006969' Superfoxy - you are here for social meets only, so why would it bother you? Because I can do what ever I want and put whatever I want on my profile...that's why! And your point being?? Foxy *skips off an takes a good long hard at Jamt profile...Interesting isn't it??* ;)
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Quoting 'Durty_Angel' My god how is the form of a lot of the replies on this topic, you all sit there in judgement of guys who are just playing the game. Who are you to judge them, i have seen on another topic today that a lot of you are just here for the forums, this site was designed as a hookup site, not a chat and stab members in the back site. If the pictures the guys put up help them to meet women that are into what they display then it has worked for him and the girl he hooks up with. i have seen lots of the pictures that you all are having a cry about so the numbers alone tell me that the market is there for these type of pics and they work for some guys. Many guys on this site, as in life, really struggle to meet women, at is this type of bullshit bullying that makes there love and sex lives hard. And what annoys me even more is that these guys put up good cash to be members on this site, and those who choose not to spare a penny sit there and give there shitty opinions... please Durty Who are we to judge? I"m here to judge about my health, and you?? As they say a picture says 1000 words... I have asked in an earlier post ,which is yet to be answered.. Why do single men in these pics not wear any condoms? I also asked if it works for them? So what you are saying...it does? Well FMD! They maybe members, whoooo haaaa! If it does not work for them, then maybe they may have to reconsider? Wouldn't you agree? Ms. Foxy who has her panties in a very tight knot tonight. ;)
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
As a paid member I will not be wasting any of my precious messages to these men who have these pics. I'll say it again, a picture says 1000 words. ;) I would sooner waste them, on someone who has taste full pics (body, face pics) as well as an attractive dick pic. One that has pure elegance and a little substance. Because that's my choice. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
But wouldn't mind posing for a few for our own private "wank bank". Lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy'dick pic. One that has pure elegance and a little substance. I'll draw a tuxedo on it and give it a powdery coke moustache ;) The simple fact is that the picture indicates the guy had sex without a condom - but it indicates nothing about previous or future performances, or previous or future (from the time the photo was taken) disease histories of him or his partners.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Let's be real for a moment. This thread represents the views of a very small number of people on RHP. The views expressed are mixed - some for and some against the photos. The views expressed are personal opinions, reflecting the likes and dislikes of the relevant author only. Questions have been asked by people who'd like to better understand why men put up the pics and whether said pics work for them - such questions usually mean people are interested in learning something. As yet no questions have been answered. Me saying I find the pics crass and immature doesn't mean they are crass and immature, it just means that's how I see them. Any "opinion piece" is just that, an opinion shared to prompt discussion and consideration. I'm pretty sure if the pics are working for the guys, they're not going to give two hoots about this thread. They'll probably laugh it off as they're cashing their cheques at the pussy bank. But ... if they're home alone each night wondering why the hell no one wants a piece of their manhood, they might get some useful insights from this thread. In the end it's their choice whether they take any interest in what's written here - let's remember, they're grown ups. If they can make the decision to put up fucking photos on their profile, they're capable of deciding whether or not to give a fuck about the opinions of a handful of people who like to debate things now and then. But let's me honest about one more thing - we can all be pretty confident that some of the men do not have their fuck-partner's permission to use the photo. And as many have commented, some say safe axe always but their photos are clearly sans condoms. These, among other points, are good enough reasons for this community to talk about the pics and raise concerns or questions. So you see, like most threads, there's something in it for (almost) everyone ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Derp. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
This is a swingers and adult site. Not eharmony! I am on here for casual friends, and I don't plan on meeting half the people in 100km radius to see if I am interested in playing. I can go to a bar or club for that. I like that people put lots of pictures up. Pictures form a big part of the profile and go a long way for me determining if I want to meet someone. Just as some people have said they are turned off by pics engaging in sex, I am turned off by profiles with one or two 'nothing' pictures that read somewhere along the lines of 'just come out of a long relationship.....' but different things appeal to different people and that is what makes us unique. Wouldn't be any fun if we all like vanilla;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' It's absolutely disgusting. Seriously who do they think they are. Please leave those sorts of action shots for Facebook because it's totally inappropriate for an adult dating site for swingers. :p Love your work!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Durty_Angel' Many guys on this site, as in life, really struggle to meet women, at is this type of bullshit bullying that makes there love and sex lives hard. Who's bullying anyone? I agree with Lilmiss, everyone is allowed to express their own opinion, including you. But you're making it sound like harassment. x Mea, paid member since day one.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I concur ;) GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
My high horse is a Shetland Pony & my Opinions are My Opinions. I'll stick by my Pony & my Opinions too . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Quoting 'Durty_Angel' And what annoys me even more is that these guys put up good cash to be members on this site, and those who choose not to spare a penny sit there and give there shitty opinions... please Durty I assume the male of the couples profile is doing the talking?? Angel is the female ? is that right? Obvisoulsy you are not happy about something?? What exactly are you trying to say??? Why would you say something like that for? So, The ones who are guests (those who choose not to spare a penny) only give shitty opinions compared to those "guys" who pay to be members? When you say "guys" do you mean just men or do you include women as well? Are ladies included in those shitty comments? guests and paid members? I believe every one has a right to an opinion, those who spare a penny or not. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
"The numbers" justify?... What numbers.... The Friends list?? Anyone can send a friend request.... That number is in no way representative of who someone has had sec with. One penis photo in here has more than 1300 so called friends, right across the country.... Even new female profiles seem to have only his dick as a friend... so numbers mean diddly squat. The forums voice opinions, and the weight of opinion of the target audience of single guys... is against rooting pics. But ego compels people to do certain things. DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Although I don't have any on my profile. I'm a guy, so yeah I'm visual, and I've always had trouble thinking like a girl :) And it's a big YES to condoms, btw. - Posted from rhpmobile
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troilism
12 years ago
My profile has a specific purpose - to attract couples that are after well-hung single guys, and 'sexually-submissive' women. It seems to do both, quite well. Yes, I have played with everyone on my friend list (plus a few more) and I quite often get flirts and messages from women/couples instigating the connection. I am always after suggestions on how to do both better, but will value the advice from my target market more highly.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'troilist' My profile has a specific purpose - to attract couples that are after well-hung single guys, and 'sexually-submissive' women. It seems to do both, quite well. Yes, I have played with everyone on my friend list (plus a few more) and I quite often get flirts and messages from women/couples instigating the connection. I am always after suggestions on how to do both better, but will value the advice from my target market more highly. I've been hoping a single male with fucking photos would come to the thread and share an opinion ;) While I don't like the pics and wouldn't be interested in a man who has them on his profile, I was definitely curious about why men posted such pics, and how successful they were on the site. Thanks for answering the question from your perspective! I'm not a couple, or a submissive woman, so I'm definitely not your target market. Hence, I have no suggestions to offer. Besides, if they're working, why change?
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RHP User
12 years ago
The people posting on these forums are such a small percentage of the entire RHP population. Thanks for sharing, troilist.
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RHP User
12 years ago
For a swingers site im amazed by the prudes on here sometimes........truly stunned. This is RHP not RSVP or Eharmony If you cant handle a few "action pics" then clearly your in the wrong place for the wrong reasons As a single guy myself, I have photos such as are being discussed.....to those of you who have issues with pics such as these, especially those without condoms, has it ever crossed your minds that your looking at pics of a long term partner?? be it a girlfriend or long term play partner.....?? Just because a guy is single NOW doesn't mean he always has been ...uh hello McFly anyone home??
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RHP User
12 years ago
Same applies to women...its a definite turn off - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
lol @ angry difference of opinions lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with Durty.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sxy30sGCguy' For a swingers site im amazed by the prudes on here sometimes........truly stunned. This is RHP not RSVP or Eharmony If you cant handle a few "action pics" then clearly your in the wrong place for the wrong reasons As a single guy myself, I have photos such as are being discussed.....to those of you who have issues with pics such as these, especially those without condoms, has it ever crossed your minds that your looking at pics of a long term partner?? be it a girlfriend or long term play partner.....?? Just because a guy is single NOW doesn't mean he always has been ...uh hello McFly anyone home?? Some of us don't like the pics, simple as that. It hardly makes us prudes. If you've ever read other posts from some of those saying they don't like the pics you'd realise they swing/bi-swing/gangbang/DOM-sub/club play/hook-up randomly ... and oh so much more debauchery. They ... we ... just don't happen to like pics on single male profiles where the man is fucking someone. And then ... reading the thread carefully ... you'll see that plenty of people do like them. Now untwist your knickers, for goodness sake.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Durty_Angel' My god how is the form of a lot of the replies on this topic, you all sit there in judgement of guys who are just playing the game. Who are you to judge them, i have seen on another topic today that a lot of you are just here for the forums, this site was designed as a hookup site, not a chat and stab members in the back site. If the pictures the guys put up help them to meet women that are into what they display then it has worked for him and the girl he hooks up with. i have seen lots of the pictures that you all are having a cry about so the numbers alone tell me that the market is there for these type of pics and they work for some guys. Many guys on this site, as in life, really struggle to meet women, at is this type of bullshit bullying that makes there love and sex lives hard. And what annoys me even more is that these guys put up good cash to be members on this site, and those who choose not to spare a penny sit there and give there shitty opinions... please Durty I am a guilty forum writer, and not putting out at the moment. but hey give me time, I just have to find my zimmer frame and my dentures and look out boys. I was a paid member, I might be again, so don't judge me for being a tight arsethings are tight, in more ways than one at the moment. however everyone has a point of view, and yes women here do sound like a bunch of bitches at times, but hey it comes with the territory of an open forum funny how women are called bitches, when we have a point of view your right, prudes are not welcome here but neither are skanky whores, married men, guys that don't use condoms, fat chicks, women with big mouths the talking kind, guys with small dicks, guys that don't go down, guys that live with their parents, women who don't do anal, women who don't suck cock, men who don't like a strap on, women who are not bi, men who are not bi....hold on furrrrrrk who does belong here? anyone, anyone? bhuler, bhuler, anyone?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Also agree with sxy30s.
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RHP User
12 years ago
DG.... Two words. And one is off. One guess what the other one is. Do you seriously believe that the women who have expressed an opinion on this topic are representative of all the women on RHP? You must be kidding!
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Quoting 'sxy30sGCguy' For a swingers site im amazed by the prudes on here sometimes........truly stunned. This is RHP not RSVP or Eharmony If you cant handle a few "action pics" then clearly your in the wrong place for the wrong reasons As a single guy myself, I have photos such as are being discussed.....to those of you who have issues with pics such as these, especially those without condoms, has it ever crossed your minds that your looking at pics of a long term partner?? be it a girlfriend or long term play partner.....?? Just because a guy is single NOW doesn't mean he always has been ...uh hello McFly anyone home?? So does your EX know those pics are on here? So you're single now, so why aren't you selling your "single self"? Why have you pics of the two of you? She's your ex.. Can I ask why? just curious... Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Thank you for answering. Foxy
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MissBishere
12 years ago
But I also like cock shots and I bloody adore cum shots. - Posted from rhpmobile
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troilism
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Thank you for answering. Foxy You're welcome my favourite Sexy Sagittarius! Quoting 'Missb72' But I also like cock shots and I bloody adore cum shots. - Posted from rhpmobile They get sent over text message
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madotara69
12 years ago
Out of all those people along the river, most skiers. They get that now and then. Some people just like to whine at anything that sits outside their comfort level, until the time something they like comes up, and if any others don't like that, they whine about them too. It's a fucking swinging site, single men? how many that are being referred to are listed with options like we all have looking for women, men couples etc. It shits me that the one good site, I've seen so far for the lifestyle has to deal with this sort of shit. You can't see fuck all to the pics unless you open and zoom they give a better view. so if you don't like them, there is enough to know, why look then whine And the condom here the biggest issue, normally used for birth control, if used for safe sex, then use one If someone else does not use one with someone else, what the fuck does it have to do with any one else. Just use them for your own preference, because you all make it that it will keep you safe, well that's safe for you then. Lots of reasons for not wearing condoms, so leave it alone I reckon, again each to their own. But don't give the purpose not to wear a condom a bad name, I'm sick of the comments, because I would need to defend myself every time this comes up. Otherwise sit and listen to all the reasons I am a sick fuck who is going to make anyone sick. The single men bit is just bullshit, because the specifics are excluded from the question. Talk about love to hate sex, it's all sex Opinions vary, but when they generalise, they are offensive, because they are generalised as to all. Who can sit on that chair? Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
@ Meeka..... thanks for watching. Show me where I eluded to 'all' women! Two words..... Chillthafuck... & ...out ;-) lol....... and @ lilmiss ....I don't think sxy30s has his knickers in a twist..... but he DOES appear to be holding a coin very tightly lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
OK my main pic is not anything evil or nasty but some of the other ones apparently might be, in any case I'm quite happy to have them there because I target a specific audience and its seems to work rather well - the couple of people in the pics are actually quite OK with it and are even members on here too so......Its called choice and having funanyway I'm off to wait for the next cock size thread
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RHP User
12 years ago
But the question lies, is it really him in pics or are they off some porn site on the net!!!!!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Try "Tineye", that why you will know if they are off the net or not? Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Thanks for answering. :) So what exactly is your "specific audience"? May I ask? Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
This is not a dating siteThis is not a swingers siteThis is not a site for Bi peopleThis is not a site for Gay people This is a site for all people who can mingle together and learn from one another.Just look at the search engine on here. You can search for any and all of the above. So no need to get snippy at others who have a different view of what your looking forWe are all adults here ..... well except for me ... im a big kid Cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
reading the posts on this thread. For those of you whose posts read more like angry/attacking rants, why get so hot under the collar just because someone's world view isn't the same as yours? And why validate someone else's post when it's full of aggro at one or more other posters? Those people you're shouting at, those people who have different opinions than yours - hell, it's not like their opinions give them the power to press the red button and nuke the planet. What harm can they actually do to you, by simply liking something you dislike, or vice versa? The hostility and aggression baffles me. If you look at the OP, it says I don't like the pics, and I'm curious about what other people think and why men post them. Some of the posts have answered those questions and been informative. Others have just ranted away, fully on the attack. *shakes head*
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madotara69
12 years ago
more of a whisper, should have Whispered
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'lilmiss_fussy' Thank you! Quoting 'troilist' My profile has a specific purpose - to attract couples that are after well-hung single guys, and 'sexually-submissive' women. It seems to do both, quite well. Yes, I have played with everyone on my friend list (plus a few more) and I quite often get flirts and messages from women/couples instigating the connection. I am always after suggestions on how to do both better, but will value the advice from my target market more highly. I've been hoping a single male with fucking photos would come to the thread and share an opinion ;) While I don't like the pics and wouldn't be interested in a man who has them on his profile, I was definitely curious about why men posted such pics, and how successful they were on the site. Thanks for answering the question from your perspective! I'm not a couple, or a submissive woman, so I'm definitely not your target market. Hence, I have no suggestions to offer. Besides, if they're working, why change? This post said it all for me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Thanks for answering. :) So what exactly is your "specific audience"? May I ask? Foxy Well the people here I meet up with are almost always couples with very attractive girlfriends or wives and when I say most that's really only a very small number of people because I'm very picky about who I meet from here. I'm not desperate and I still have my own FB's in the real world and I like to keep the two very very separate. Anyway with the couples I suspect its actually the male that makes the initial selection then runs it past the girl for approval and I'm sure once they have given approval they secretly enjoy the encounters. So do I of course and I regard myself as being very very lucky. So thats my target audience and it works or rather appears to workLately though I've been contemplating meeting up with individuals (yes I know its a bit sick by my usual standards :)) so I might have to modify my profile to appear more suitable to the more conservative.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Would never put them up here for all to see as hot as they are just on my own computer caused me so much grief for the last year even right to a moment ago so my advice to you is think about photos before you put them on the Net ... even at home on your computer
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mpowered' I might have to modify my profile to appear more suitable to the more conservative. Don't be so sure that individuals, as opposed to couples, are more conservative. That's a fairly flawed notion, especially based on the interests of the many individuals here. And don't assume that because someone doesn't like to see fucking photos on profiles, they're also conservative. Being liberated and adventurous comes in many different forms. Keep an open-mind, perhaps ;)
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Thank you for giving such an honest answer. I'm sure you will have no trouble finding individuals. Ms.Foxy a conservative individual.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
What? Did I just read that right....up until a minute a ago? I'm sorry about that.. That is why I always ask if the other person has given permission? Where is their choice or privacy?? To use as a selling point is really bad JU JU (if permission in not given), in my eyes. Just wrong and disrespectful on so many levels. How would people know tho??? We don't.. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
a really grey area for me :-) xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
It was I jumped online after issue's with my Man over our relationship & photos keep getting brought up to read the forums & I see this post OMG I was in the moment of Issues with Photos Maybe not the same as on profiles but still can be seen by others In the small world we live in ... can cause issues jealous partners & more Lesson learn't ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'll modify my profile to remove the 'naughty' pics from the main photos. I'll then replace them with pics of me in suit outside a church, plus a couple assisting inured Pandas and harp seals or similar and then some mention of Tantric practices and the environment. Actually I need a bum shot in there too being careful of course to avoid capturing the toilet in the background
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RHP User
12 years ago
You had me at pandas ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
See its working already and I haven't even removed any pics yet . Fixed by tomorrow I promise
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mpowered'pics of me in suit outside a church, plus a couple assisting inured Pandas and harp seals or similar I tried to upload a pic of myself holding a python, and RHP rejected it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I said earlier that I'm not thrilled with pics of single guys showing unprotected sex. Some responded by saying it could be that the photos were taken while being with a regular playmate. Now, I don't know that, nor do I assume this to be the case. So my question is: Why do you choose to present yourself like this (with no further clarification in your profile), making women sharing my mindset wonder exactly how "safe" you are? I'm looking to gain some insight only.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
CHURCH! Well there is a church in Dixon, Illinois USA in the shape of a penis! Wood the pic taken, be in your birthday suit?? Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have them on my profile. Each to their own. Everyone has different tastes, desires, wants, turn on's and turn off's. Everyone I have met 'in real life' on this site has had no problem with any of my pics, nor did they have a problem with wanting me to take some with them. It's fun. Some even encouraged them. If someone doesn't like them, sweet, we don't have to chat or talk. That's the joys of such a site. As for pics with unprotected sex, this does not necessarily mean the sex was unsafe or is somehow disgusting. Just because such a picture is seen you shouldn't jump to conclusions that the people involved had 'just met and decided to have unprotected sex', or some other ridiculous idea in your head. 99.99% of people I know are safe and respectful. There are certain hoops you tend to go through before unprotected sex occurs. We are all mature and educated here. Unprotected sex is amazing and intimate, why shouldn't it be enjoyed in the right safe circumstance? I'm sure you all do. My two cents.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I said earlier that I'm not thrilled with pics of single guys showing unprotected sex. Some responded by saying it could be that the photos were taken while being with a regular playmate. Now, I don't know that, nor do I assume this to be the case. So my question is: Why do you choose to present yourself like this (with no further clarification in your profile), making women sharing my mindset wonder exactly how "safe" you are? I'm looking to gain some insight only. Well I actually don't use protection for a couple of reasons.The first is I pretty much don't need to with the people I deal with- sort of a closed shop if that makes sense and I still am required to be tested before playing. I remember the first time I was tested that was sort of interesting/embarrassing trying to explain to the doctor why I needed written proof of my results lol.The second is I simply don't enjoy myself at all so there is simply no point going ahead with anything if its not an option.I know this might appear potentially scary to some but I'm not doing this very often at all and If people appear dodgy and I haven't met them several times before I simply don't go through with things. I won't do anything where the other male(s) are bi or gay or where there's contact expected between male body parts in the same holes (yes I get some pretty weird requests at times but that's for another thread) . Risk minimisation I guess, no offence to anyone but that's the path I've decided to go down, again a personal choice. At least the forums are using safe text.Several times I've been abused via PMs for not participating with groups of people whom I've never met before. People who in one message expect you to meet them at a motel without knowing anything about any of the others - Could the girl be a prostitute hired for the event for example? do the guys have some other STD? are they hot looking or butt ugly ? Bizzare really.Sure there are flaws in the system and you could pick the above arrangement apart but getting checked is the key for me. This is also why I prefer couples and I'm thinking of the single fem switch too but meh who knows. What I do know is I need some more pics now.M
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RHP User
12 years ago
love a bit of erotica myself... pictures, stories, movies..... whatever appeals to me. and people should be able to post whatever they want. others don't have to look if it doesn't appeal to them.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Think you missed the point babe, as a guy I can use jealousy of seeing a nice picture of a girl I'm into, having sex and will turn me on and I want to fuck her even better than he did. As long as its artistic and classy but I'm weird lol. But guys and girls are sooooo different, most girls are 60% the mental aspect of sex. Girls start the long build up that leads to sex from the first message. Girls like mystery and having to trigger there imagination, most girls will like a cute guy wearing boxers with a nice big bulge in a pic rather that DICK in there face, as when done right a woman can work herself up into a state where she is basically begging for the sex and usually results in the quickest thirty second orgasem that she cant even stop as the wanted to cum when he entered her for first time but was too horny. Not to say that it's same for every girl, as a girl that just wants to come over and start fucking as soon as she walks through the door and be treated like a dirty slut, she is still doing this in her head and working herself up. It is really the same thing as she is so wet and about to cum as she has been using the fantasy of how this stranger is going to possibly treat her like a whore since befor she even started getting ready. I think seeing the single guy having sex with someone else, blocks most girls ability to put together there own fantasy as the pic is overwhelming the ability to use your imagination as all you can imagine is that pic. And at the end of the day every girl wants to feel special, not many girl like being a notch on a belt. But there is always someone haha.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I promise I am using paragraphs but when I send it squishes together sorry.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Im a guy and Personally I would not put that kinda pic up on my profile,, but in saying that I have no dick pics either but that doesn't seem to matter, finding that it's really hard on this site to just get the attention from any woman,, dick pic or sex romp pics up or not doesn't really matter - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Time and a place for everything. Have read through many comments and can see many valid point's have been made throughout this whole thread. I think it's an individual thing and some on rhp love it, other's are not keen on viewing it. I do agree maby put those pic's in your pg, but to be honest if I see those pic's I'm more curious if it's a current partner, does she look like she's enjoying it or does the lady in question know she's been put there for all to view. Just food for thought :×
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RHP User
12 years ago
See just as many women posting action shots too. Think it's trying to sell the point that they are genuine and ready to meet, I wouldn't use one myself. If I was a part of a couple I'd definitely have some of us together maybe even a friend in one or two, but they'd be in a PG.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I call them 'conquest shots'. Seen on single male, female and couple profiles i.e. every category Humble or discreet? Probably not. Of course, if it's a profile of a couple and it is a photo of solely the couple comprising the profile, fine! You wonder how many photos are uploaded with consent, even if no identifying features are included. Do the subjects of the photo use protection? That can be an interesting divergence from their profile settings.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mpowered'Well I actually don't use protection for a couple of reasons.The first is I pretty much don't need to with the people I deal wil.The second is I simply don't enjoy myself at all so there is simply no point going ahead with anything if its not an option.I know this might appear potentially scary to some but I'm not doing this very often at all and If people appear dodgy and I haven't met them several times before I simply don't go through with things. Thanks for clarifying.
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