M72
why are Asian girls so more attractive to western men
January 04 2011
Comments
-
RHP User
15 years ago
My now husband was seeing an Asian girl when we met and then we quickly got serious and she was history...So I guess it can work in reverse as well. Though personally, I think its all on a person by person basis and not on a broad sweep of a race
-
RHP User
15 years ago
A woman saying saying 'once you go black you never go back' ? I could only imagine western women resenting it if they take it personally. As if you are saying, you are no good as lover because you are not asian. That is not something that a woman can really do anything about, and think about it, many women out there change all sorts of things about themselves to please a man or to please men in general.... I do not take offence to or resent the idea so I am just putting it out there and could be totally off the mark. As for what it is about Asian women....I am simply not at all qualified to answer that one so over to the next poster. xx Salina
-
RHP User
15 years ago
A woman saying saying 'once you go black you never go back' ? I could only imagine western women resenting it if they take it personally. As if you are saying, you are no good as lover because you are not asian. That is not something that a woman can really do anything about, and think about it, many women out there change all sorts of things about themselves to please a man or to please men in general.... I do not take offence to or resent the idea so I am just putting it out there and could be totally off the mark. As for what it is about Asian women....I am simply not at all qualified to answer that one so over to the next poster. xx Salina
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I don't take offence to people having preferences for what they find attractive. I know men who have had relationships with girls with an asian background and gone out with caucasion girls afterwards, it's not quite clear by your comment exactly what you're getting at? So I checked your profile...I think you're mistaking women getting upset at what they see as exploitation rather than resenting the supposed sexual prowess of an entire race of people.That could be my own view on it though, but I see a 57yo wealthy white guy going to thailand for a sex holiday as complete exploitation. Sure, wrap it up with all the "they love their job", "the money keeps their family for a whole year" rationalizations you desire, it is exploitation, and it's hardly something to get all goey and excited about. Why do you even want a pat on the back for doing something hundreds of other Australian (and other nationalities) men do every year?
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Hi!Flitmate. First of all I think you need to broaden your Friendship base to get an accurate assumption of what you're saying..It seems to me they were preaching to the converted...Please enjoy Your Asian Girls as much as they may enjoy you, but for all the right reasons ..I agree in part with with both SalAndyand Polar_Bear_Girl...I am a Caucasion Female .I've no problem with your Comment because I secure in who I am ..I have never shared Myself with an Asian Girl. But My Lovers have been from various Countries including Asia.From what I've found there are very good Lovers etc in every race, but has litte to do with their Culture more about them as Individuals . so your statement is void .Lol LU :)
-
RHP User
15 years ago
no. Asian women aren't attractive to all Caucasian or western men. sorry.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I am now in a long term relationship with an asian girl, and it is different but its not. I still think its about the person. I certainly dont ever want to be without my girl. She is beautiful and sweet and caring and gentle. Does this make her different to a caucasian girl, not really. She is one of a kind not cause of the colour of her skin but because of her beautiful soul. I am an incredibly lucky man to have her in my life.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
but I think it could be the way white men are built. Usually they're taller and more muscular. We can be both but it's not as common. Then western men love asian women cause they're mostly slimmer than white women, no offense of course but thats just what some people like and some people just love all flavours of women. But it's in their diet. If you were to go to an asian city you won't see as many obese people walking around as you would if you were to walk about melbourne or some western city.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Sounds like the motto of this top bloke who used to offer lifts around the Belanglo State Forest. Not exactly a glowing endorsement.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Maybe people are just saying that it's kind of offensive prejudicing a person's sexual prowess on their demographic heritage. In my experience some people are great lovers for me and other people are great lovers for someone else.... I suppose its a pheremone thing... there is either a magic lustful spark there or not, regardless of pedigree. HugsStalky
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Personally Asian girls do nothing for me. But then again, caucasian girls do nothing for me. I have never heard a woman get all defensive about a man liking Asians at all. Maybe you need to look at the reasons why you in particular have singled the Asian girls out for comment as it is a slightly racist thing to say.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Original pick up line but it doesn't work. I am Asian and I find it offensive & insulting. I have heard the story about Asian guy's being small, Fable. Most are normal to any race. It is all to do with the person you are with and how they feel about sex in general. Maybe you should look at the person as a person instead of stories your friends tell you about.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I have reread your question and your profile several times. I think your question actually reads: Caucasian women resent men who have tried groups of beautiful, open, Asian prostitutes saying that they prefer them to Caucasian women. Why is this so? The answer is that we are relating to those exploited women and boys who are desperately trying to keep themselves and their families above the poverty line or who have had no choice but to have been sold into that lifestyle.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
being an asian woman and singled out to be this great lover, i find it frustrating cuz now i have to prove it to every man/woman that i will encounter (hopefully) just ask my partner..some days or nights when wer @ it im great/good/satisfactory vise versa hehe...but also days that im a slacker lol also vise versa...ur sexual prowess doesnt depend or it never depends on ur race, thats just my thoughts....
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Bryan says cause they have little hands and it makes guys cocks look bigger when they hold them..lol
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'couplesint' Bryan says cause they have little hands and it makes guys cocks look bigger when they hold them..lol lmfao. You crack me up!HugsStalky
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I love how you say " you crack me up" when all i can see on your profile is a picture of your crack...pmsl.. Leesa
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Well as I lived in an Asian country for many years I got to see first hand at all the Western men flirting and dating and marrying Asian women. After my divorce could I get a western man while there? .. Nope ! hahahaha.. nor could my other white girlfriends. Guys I worked with told me they just really found them lovley. Honest statement. Some men also think that Asian women will be more passive.. errmm. not my Asian girlfriends .. Strong feisty souls. Some like those that are different and the different cultures. With Asian countries there seems to be that air of mystery.The cultures are old and deep. Lots to take in and learn. Just a few of my thoughts.. sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I certainly understand why people have a general preferance, but Asian Women/Girls are nothing special to me. There is no desire to seek out an esperiance with an Asian where as I do have a desire to seek out sex with a Black Women. | There is a general aspect of submissiveness in Asian women which you might find appealing, I certainly like submissives as well. Perhaps it is this aspect that you like so much as well. | In this case I would have to go on the i do not agree page. | | LC
-
RHP User
15 years ago
each to their own I guess?It's a matter of preference.... like, you know, Maccas over HJ's.But hey, I'm the minority here so I might be a bit biased ;) I DO know for sure that once you go Japanese, you don't go back.True story ;D
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I think you need to widen your circle of friends...or pull the reins in on the horse you are riding in the Gallup polls. I have had the privelege of living in qutie a few countries around the world and have never heard that one...yes, a few very derogatory comments about certain ethnic groups but then again, the source would not have been quoted as a fact. | We all may have preferences and are entitled to them...are you sure this isn't a fetish? Oh well, to each his own and from what I have read...I am almost afraid to read your profile. Personally, I like women from any number of different ethnic and cultural backgrounds... | ...and especially ones with larger hands.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Well I must be the odd man out then because asian women just don't do anything for me. But then I guess most of them wouldn't find me attractive either so all is good! But I have been curious on why I see so many middle aged (and older) men with young asian wives, it was quite prevelant in the military for a while. So I did a bit of asking around, politely of course. And the most common answer was the some men find asian women, specially from SE Asia very subserviant and submissive. These girls - and most of them are girls, not mature women - will do anything to get out of their current situation, even marrying basically a total stranger and relocating to another country. These men want what boils down to a live in maid and sex slave, someone who will not answer back nor say no.None of that is for me, I couldn't stand being with someone who agrees to everything I say, I like a lady with a backbone, one who has her own mind. As for the OP, I hope you enjoy your trip and really hope you take the necessary precautions (thinking of a full body wetsuit comes to mind lol).Mooka
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I don't know about that. A friend of mine married a lady from South East Asia. She's a real princess. No seriously, servants and everything. Anyway, after moving to Australia she met me.... and promptly instructed me to carry her bags inside and drive her to the shops. lmfao. After a number of years of climatic adjustments, I can assure you that she is a load of fun these days.HugsStalky
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'GirlTuesday'His response was, that they are petite and slim. Probably why they DON"T instantly appeal to me...
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' Well I must be the odd man out then because asian women just don't do anything for me. But then I guess most of them wouldn't find me attractive either so all is good!....... Mooka Call the teacher I think some is copying off me :) I didnt repost the whole thing but even our subject line is the same I agree 100% LC
-
RHP User
15 years ago
The answer to this topic is far more complicated than meets the eye! I am married to a beautiful and degree educated Asiani lady whom I absolutely adore. It is my second marriage, my first was to a very attractive English lady. My frst marriage broke up before I met my current wife. I have never had any ethnic preferences in women, she is either attractive with a nice personality or not, whether she is white, black, brown, yellow, whatever. With regard to the countries that have highly publicised sex industries, e.g., Thailand, Vietnam, Cambodia, Brazil, Russia, Phillipines, etc, the high volume of sex workers is generally driven by the economic situation and standard of living. Yes, many Australian (and other affluent countries) have men who travel to these countries for cheap sex holidays. In my opinion, the exploitation is a two way thing, I have seen and read of many men "falling in love" and getting "ripped off" by streetwise sex workers, they know how to "play" thier Johns extremely well. My one piece of advise to any guy looking for a "relationship" in any of these countries is - dont go looking in bars and brothels! And by the way, Perth has a sizeable sex industry too, as does any European style city, only its better controlled and I imagine a lot more expensive. Australian men with younger Asian wives. Yes, there are some men married to Asian women who are in it for a better life and not for love. Sometimes this "arrangement" can work, sometimes not. There are many white women who marry for the same reasons, we just notice it more when they are Asian! Take a look through RHP, there are many caucasian couples with quite a large age difference. However, there is another factor that explains why many Asian women can be seen with much older men - culture. Asian cultures respect older people (something we could learn from). It is very common for Asian women to marry much older Asian men. They look beyond the physical and more at the heart! Not all men are attracted to Asian women, not all Asian women are attracted to caucasian men! But I cant understand why anybody who knows anything about Asian culture cant understand why there are many Asian women with older husbands. My wife is degree educated and has had a professional career since she left University. She has had many younger men interested in her, both here and in her own country, before she met me. I am not "rich" and we both work very hard. I consider myself extremely lucky.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
There are hundreds of brothels in Australia solely populated by asian girls. If this is the case then why do so many Westerners go to places like Thailand and Bali for their sex holidays? An iPod is meant to cost the same in each country. A fuck by comparable looking women in two different countries should alsocost the same, but they don't. Going to that other country to get the cheap fuck IS exploitation.From dictionary.comn which isn't the greatest but I couldn't be bothered getting out the Macquarie.ex·ploi·ta·tion /ˌɛksplɔɪˈteɪʃən/ Show Spelled<ek-sploi-tey-shuhn> –noun 1. use or utilization, esp. for profit: the exploitation of newly discovered oil fields. 2. selfish utilization: He got ahead through the exploitation of his friends. 3. the combined, often varied, use of public-relations and advertising techniques to promote a person, movie, product, etc.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
and pay them well! :)
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ritmofish' Why is it an exploitation? The prostitute has a right to do with whatever she was with her body, and in this case she chosen to be a prostitute. I am assuming there no threat of violence if she does the contrary. Maybe her circumstances are tight, but she still has a choice. The guy pay for a sex service. The guy get his sex and the girl makes a living. Why is wrong with that? Just the other day the Federal Police found underage Asian working girls in brothels in a major bust! The Madam's/Pimps are mostly Asian as well...they bring them over here with a promise to their family that they will be well looked after and that money will be sent to the family each week for them to live on! Usually under the guise that they are going to work as cleaners or cooks! Never ONCE do they let these Asian girls or families know that they are brought here for the exploitation of Prostitution!! Most of these prostitutes live at the brothel and have unprotected sex! They are basically locked into the brothel from the moment they are brought here! They have no choice...their families have no choice! Many, many brothels get busted during the one year...and most of the girls that are found are here on an illegal "working visa" or no visa at all! As for men going to Thailand for sex trips? You do realise that alot of these girls are also under-age! I used to be engaged to a Sailor and one of his mates told me on their return from Thailand that my man had sex with a 10 year old girl!!! 10 fucking years old!! She was presented to him by her Father! I went to both the Military Police and the Federal Police about this and although it is very much known about ..they told me there is nothing we can do about it! Maybe stopping dirty old men like the OP going to places like that to exploit these girls ... will allow these girls/boys to live a normal life! Please do not tell me it is choice! xFunlovingx
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Polar Bear Girl I totally agree. it is a lot about the money. these girls and also these boys are so pleased to have any money spent on them no matter what they have to do for it. they will take you to their homes with their Mother and Father and siblings and they will welcome you too. Their lives are so unfortunate. So please respect all people of all races with kindness and compassion
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Its no secret on here that I am partial to Asian women. I have throughly enjoyed my experiences with a few Asian girls and guess what... Never once did I part with any money.... My first experience was before Mrs JJ and myself were married, a casual relationship but with nice memorys.. My second and most memorable was about 6 months ago. Except for Mrs JJ, definately the best sex I ever had. Its got nothing to do with preferences, more to do with who the experiences were with at the time. I have also had some wonderfull experiences with australian women and some other nationalitys.. Most were good to great.. But I guess no one really wants to hear that... I think I just like the the idea of 2 nationalitys experimenting with each other... In a way its different but then again the same.. Just my thoughts Mr JJ PS. Mrs JJ and myself had a holiday in Thailand. I got propostioned every 50 meters. We laughed ' they laughed and everyone was happy.. So please stop thinking of these ppl as underprivlidged poor souls.. From what I seen, they are a much happier race of people than alot of the people living in Oz...
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I have read all the posts and it has been a well balnced response. I find it surprisoing that some of the guys yes and ladies have said Asian girls nothing for them. My question is then what does? We have play as a cpl with ppl from the Eastern Suburbs of Melb and yes even country folk and found some we like and some we don't and even more amazing it is not their nationality or should I say their race. The real answer is no matter what shape size ehtnic origin if you are sexy to some you will not be sexy to others and that is the way it is. I will go out on a limb and say that a lot of guys usually from broken relationships and slightly older would be swayed by an Asian woman as they see western guys as a ticket out of the less than perfect life. Please do not read this and think "damn redneck" statement we are all sexy and we come(cum) in different packages; we choose to play or be with who we like. To finish we have our standards to and we cross of our list all those, male or female, that do not have teeth and have poor hygiene. Mrs 2into2 admits to f..cking an overwieight but sexy guy very regularly, I am not complaining.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ritmofish' So why is her father handing her daughter for sex? So how do u propose to stop these old perverts? Australian law has not jurisdiction over there! Actually there are some laws that do apply but these involve child explotation... LC
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Nah, sorry I don't see the attraction with asian girls.Doesn't do it for me.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
My own personal opinion regarding this topic may/may not offend, but Asian men and women do nothing for me sexually, as for human beings thats no problem - we all are the same underneath !!I have been to Thailand, and the exploitation exists on both sides - it is a classic example of supply and demand !!Personally it totally disgusts me how humans exploit each other - especially for sex!! Im sure every day the thai girls go home delighted that they have some $$ in their hand, not necessarily happy they pleasured some wanna be porn star or some desperate westerner who wants to sew his oats with some cheap asian beauty !I know some beautiful Asian women, and men for that matter and the stigma that male westerners place on women is some what daunting, and insulting to western women who can be made to feel that, sure, he is having sex with me, but secretly wants some tight young Asian swinging off his end. (believe me I have felt that - only from comments such as Asian women are so f*cking gorgeous and so good in the sack) for what reason?? so they can buy food for the family or for survival. Motivation makes people do what ever it takes.As for flirtmate.... enjoy your exploits..... I hope you get what you pay for? And don't end up getting more than what you pay for!!??
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Asian, Indian, Middle Eastern, blondes, brunettes, redheads, mmmm redheads, thin people, fat people, guys, girls, small boobs/bums, big boobs/bums, penguins etc, etc..........errr, ok, maybe not penguins. Everyone is attractive to someone out there. Putting labels on people isn't a cool thing.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
It's just catching on with the younger generation? It's more to do with the white males being attracted to asians females than the other way around. In my experience it's a bit of everything. Asians girls will go for white males, or they don't care or the only go for asian males. I'm not so sure about aus females but it's probably less common. No idea for european born females.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
exotic sex`especially in a m f f f situation
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I still say its the hand thing....pmsl We have met hundreds of asian ladies and they are all gorgeous and lovely , just as lovely as any other culture ...every one is beautiful in their own right. Have a great day... CI. Leesa
-
RHP User
15 years ago
doesnt matter what angle I look at it from,I just cant see what the attraction is... and when I see old ugly fat aussie guys with their asian partners, its hard to not laugh out loud....
-
RHP User
15 years ago
When I first read flirtmate's post in no way did I think prostituion.. I am wondering why it has gone to that.. quite disappointed because all he asked was why some Western women resent Western men prefering Asian women. Nothing to do with prostition or age of the man.. He is simply asking why some men prefer Asian woman.. Can we get back to the topic..getting off track I reckon. I did answer some in my previous post. Was I jealous when over in Japan? Did I resent the Japanese girls getting the Western men? Heck no !!!!! Because I love Japan ..People , Culture and Country.. I have many Japanese friends. Moving back to Australia have made many more Asian friends. I didn't get laid there after my divorce.. But I wasn't even looking as I was too busy working 6 days a week and raising my son. I have experienced and seen mutlicultual marriages breakup and thrive. Just like they do here. Well that is my lil rant.. lolz.. huggies sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Just read 2 posts, one from Newstart64 and the other from Sweetpetite41. What a difference... Sweetpeteite41.. I agree with you 100%. Your veiw is balanced and right on the money. Newstart64... Wow. After reading your post I felt you are carrying a awful amount of bad baggage, with most of it anti anything to do with Thailand. We have been to Thailand , phuket to be exact. We experieced the girls and ladyboys trying to entice us. Yet we did'nt come away with anything else but wow these people really know how to have a good time' wether they fuck you or not. NO' we didnt get to enjoy what they had to offer. We are just as aware of the STDs as anybody else. I would suggest however, if any Caucasion women go to Thailand to pick up some guys you might be a lil dissappointed, most guys go there not only for the sex , but also to experience the fun that can be had with these girls. We had a drink at quite a few bars and not once were we dissappointed with the company we enjoyed. The girls knew we wer'nt there for sex but still went about making us feel comfortable and chatting to us for ages. We have some great pics and still exchange emails with the lastest being Xmas and new years.. Yes' we did see some older guys with younger women and we hate to see that as much as anybody else. But you must remember' this is a way of life for these people. They dont put the same emotional strain on it like us westerners. They would probally scatch their head wondering what all the fuss is about. I get the feeling there is a fair amount of resentment against asian girls/ women in many of the above posts. It is my opinion Asian girls carry far less baggage than their Caucasion counterpart, far more light hearted and less indictive... Thats just my opinion.... Some people seem to make bad out of anything good and anything they dont understand.. Lighten up please.... Im sure your men are not going to run away with a asian girl just because they exist ? Live and let live.. Mr JJ
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Sweetpetite, you are quite correct, and I must take the blame for steering off topic, to be quite honest, I was addressing some one elses comments more than the orginator. I should have clarified that. I agree with the main stay, its not just about Asian women, its about preferences, whether it be ethnic, physical or personality, we all have our quirky likes and dislikes. Before I met my wife, I had no ethnic preference at all, still don't, but when we met she knocked my sox off from the word GO! lol Take care all, and have a gr8 2011 xx
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Generally Asian women are smaller and seem to me, at least, as fragile. I prefer a strong, taller Caucasian woman, someone that can enjoy vigorous sex without me having to hold back in fear of hurting them. I know im generalizing. Many Asian women are very easy on the eyes, but my preference is to stay in my race. This does not make me a racist, and has nothing to do with racial purity. Caucasian women are the sexiest IMHO.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
just for Mr JJ...sorry if I offended you, not intended - it was phuket that we went to as well, and the opinion re the exploitation was not only mine but also of a 18 year old daughter... it was more of a shock than anything..(Thailand is more renown for their sex industry than most other Asian countries) - and true to the fact that not all who go there indulge - so no bad baggage - sorry !! but as far as sharing myself sexually with an Asian woman, no thanks, just not my cup of tea, but each to their own and that's fine. The world is big enough to accommodate everyone, and what ever sexual experience you desire!I agree that I went left of the subject, but as mikeandshel mentioned the oldies with the young wives - hmmm it is a mystery - but I agree with Mr JJ - we will live and let live yeah !!Why some men prefer Asian women - its a personal thing - I know some men who don't want the challenge that culture and language creates - but I guess sex is a universal language to some degree so if that's all its for then what ever bakes your cake??smiles,Ms NS64
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Nor was my post meant to be anything but a observation of opinions, including my own. No, you didnt offend me, It just came across to me your post weighed unfairly heavily on the Thai people. Pardon me if I was wrong. Seeing we both went to the same place ( phuket ) it is obvious we veiwed it from different propectives. Neither my wife or I felt confronted or shocked by anyone or anything we seen. We knew what to expect when we ventured into Bangla Road. To us it was one giant party. As far as being exploited is concerned, I personally did not see anyone exploiting anyone. If anything, it is the tourist that can be exploited and that is only if they allow it to happen and dont have any people skills. I can appreciate the shock value your 18 yr old daughter might have had, it can be abit in your face if you never been subjected to people being open with their sexuality. Personally, I would not take my daughter there. However' it would be her choice when she got older and more worldly. I have a few thai friends who work in the resorts who get the measly sum of $2.00 per hour. Life is a struggle for them but they are always smiling and happy. When us westerners come with our pockets full of money it is only human to want to find a way to extract some. Isnt that what we do here to our tourists ? The quickest and easiest way for girls to get money for their familys is of course sex. But this is not just in Thailand but all over the world. I feel sure the thai's dont veiw sex the same as we westerners. They dont have the same hangups we seem to have so we shouldnt be so quick to want to judge... Just my observation... Cheers Mr JJ PS.. We are already booked for another holiday in March....
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Spot on, great post(s) Mr JJ. Markuss, dont be fooled by the petiteness of Asian women, they are tough little b*ggers, mentally and physically! However, I understand your preference for bigger stonger "looking" women, the bigger the better for a friend of mine ;) As has been said, its all about personal preference. But again, there are two situations here, the consideration of just a single (or infrequent) sexual encounter with an Asian woman (or man?) or a full on relationship/marriage. For the latter, both parties need to put a lot of thought into the cultural differences and be ready to be patient, very open minded, able to compromise (big time) and considerate. If you both manage this successfully, it can be extremely rewarding, you will both change and grow, and the relationship will become extremely fulfilling and solid. Just wanted to finish by saying - WE LOVE ALL WOMEN! Mr Discrete
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I am not married to an Asian lady but have spent quite a bit of time there in the past. On these visits I often stayed with Asian families in their house. I was always amazed as to how much the lady of the house looked after the man. Everything they could do to look after their man except wipe the butt. Now that kind of women is not for me as I found it to be a little subservient but I can understand Western Men particularly older ones being attracted to this type of relationship. Sexually, a lot of men find them exotic. I am not talking about prostitutes either, the women are open sexually and eager to please for whatever reason. Just my $0.20
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Oh my, this is my first time on here in ages - too much clean fun had over Xmas - and it seems RHP Forums haven't changed, still the place to air ones small-mindedness, fear and hatred of anything different from self. Oh I could reply to the original post and the side tracks with some experience and insight but really what's the use? Those who need a kick in the pants will never learn. Damn, seems our membership has ran out. Oh well, back to the good, clean fun.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I have all ways had a thing for asian girls for as long as i can remember !back when I was a youg lad before I knew about girls
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I have an old Asian friend who has changed my desire over the years. Now I get neck problems walking in to Paddy's Market. I don't expect my desires, on what I view as 'cute', to be handed to me on a plate. Nor do I expect to live for others except for those I love to live for. And the wonder that I married is from a white middle class town in a land formerly called England. But I do like it when she says "is that what you had in mind" If its a problem, then for me it's getting worse. And thats great.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
short term for micronesian?.......now we have fun
-
RHP User
15 years ago
From my past Asian gf's, us as Aussies, are laid back, down to earth (some of us) and like someone to be themselves around us.. Not a pretty little thing in the background who speaks only when spoken to etc etc... And yes.. Penis size has "popped up" a few times, and there is no denying it.. We have the bigger wangs... I think for me, personally, a lot of the attraction is their skin colour naturally, their big chocolate eyes, their daintiness, (depending on where they grew up) their respect and dignity.. As far as their culture, tradition, history etc.. It is something that has surpassed our own.. What culture do we have?? I mean, I'm all for beer and bbq's... Gettin **** faced, playing backyard cricket, runnin around like a lunatic, falling down, opening a knee cap or elbow.. It's all good fun... Not everything revolves around drinking... *just trying to think of something apart from work that doesn't......*
-
RHP User
15 years ago
are not what i would call attractive at all..................its all wrong when i see an aussie guy with his asian bride.....
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Personally I find Asian women, if anything, less attractive on average than other women, but it's not a golden rule. A pretty face on any race gets me going ;)
-
RHP User
15 years ago
spot on justjuice :=-) were just trying to fit in to the mainstreams, i'm aware that being a minority were being singled out a lot....and pls ladies and gents, speaking for myself, just ask my man, i'm not at all submissive or subservient...far from the truth...i think there is a misconception here...the reason why most Asian women seems to be so placid and waiting hand and foot on their husband/partner whatever...cuz their grateful that they have been given a chance for a better life and thats our culture we grew up believing that women's always look after their spouse and kids vise versa even if they both work which most of my friends does... also most Caucasian men treat their ethnic wives very well...i have so many friends and there are few off which not happy in their relationship but who has the perfect one do tell???so if being kind and loving to my man is considered a weakness/ doormat than maybe I am, but than he is also...cuz his kind to me and he loves me...yeah i give him massage every night, and yeah i make his coffee, i put foot lotion on his tired feet etc...etc....but i enjoy doing it and he works hard to provide for us (our family) its the least i cud do... so can we just move on to the next topic pls...all good we just want to have fun...
-
RHP User
15 years ago
ok.. to put things into perspective, how many of the caucasian women in this forum have had an asian male as a sex partner? did you love it? find him attractive? never go back? or is the idea offensive? and why?
-
RHP User
15 years ago
My ex husband is Japanese.. Although I no longer love him in a sexual way..I do love him as my best friend. So I now I sit here and think... WOW! mikeandshel.. You really are turning me off ! You say it is all wrong when you see an aussie guy with his Asian bride.. * shock face*. So my son is half Japanese.. So I wonder.. Does the thought of him dating an Aussie girl when he grows up make you sick? Sorry all for my biting here.. sweetpetite41
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Sweetpetite I gotta say I was thinking the same as you. Mikeandshel I found a few of your posts boardering with racial overtones. Not saying thats the way you meant it, but it certainly started to come across that way. All I can say is you must have had your head in the sand if you have never seen some of the absolutely drop dead beautifull asian girls getting around. I have noticed specially with the younger generation of asian girls who were born here and who now embrase our culture are just as knowledgeable with their fashion sense as our younger generation and present themselves very very well indeed. That also goes for their grooming... Im not saying all asian gilrs are beautifull , but neither are all our aussie girls... Dont knock it to you try it as they say.. You might be pleasantly surprised.. Mr JJ
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'sweetpetite41' My ex husband is Japanese.. Although I no longer love him in a sexual way..I do love him as my best friend. So I now I sit here and think... WOW! mikeandshel.. You really are turning me off ! You say it is all wrong when you see an aussie guy with his Asian bride.. * shock face*. So my son is half Japanese.. So I wonder.. Does the thought of him dating an Aussie girl when he grows up make you sick? Sorry all for my biting here.. You know, I was following up this thread to make yet again another playful and cheesy remark about liking women that are not too tall, such as yourself, fair lady...as traditionally some ethnic groups amongst the broader Asian populations are not genetically predispositioned to height and take it with humour. Similarly, those of my ethnic background are known for certain genetic traits and we all make jokes about that. The original Vikings were indeed "boof heads"...how else could they have worn those ridiculous hats? | Unforunately...the humour seems to have gone out of this thread. There have already been derogatory comments made such as "Once you try black you will never go back" without consideration to the source...which sadly I believe is a reference that came out of ghetto poverty in the USA. The author of this thread had already clearly demonstrated what can only be deemed as a rather pathological fetish. I have not even bothered to read his profile. | Unfortunately, beautiful lady...we will forever fight the battle to change ignorance of the biggot. It has been ingrained into many socioeconomic and sociocultural subgroups for far too long. It is good to see Darwin's theory in practise and best to ignore the process...which is self defecating albeit occurs more slowly than many of us would like. | And you, by the way...stand head and shoulders above those that berate others simply because of their ethnic background. Well done, and I am sure that most here would hope that your son grows up strong, safe and happily...and if he so chooses, marries a Polynesian girl if he falls in love. Uh-oh, another racially impure subset of the Asian culture? I still wonder why so many of those beautiful women there had blue eyes...must have been the missionary's way of making converts? | I shall apologize in advance as I am now sure we shall see yet another essay added to the biggots bible called "12 Angry Men". | You rock, and if you ever get a chance should take the opportunity to demonstate some of the "finer arts" that may just help Darwin's theory progress... | ...on a more martial basis!
-
RHP User
15 years ago
ritmofish, it's not always the prostitute's choice in developing countries where there's trafficking in young girls and boys to service tourists who come to countries like Thailand for a sex holiday. Maybe some prostitutes choose to work in the industry but there are also some who are only there because their families have been threatened or they are so poor that they have no other choice. When there's such a huge power imbalance I find it really hard to respect Western sex tourists who claim ignorance about these problems- the problem is obvious for those who want to see it.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Asian Myths Asian Girls are more passive.... disspelled Asian Guys have small cocks...... not that I check em all out but Nah wrong again Asian girls are more sexy... well maybe but I'm biased Asian girls are more compliant....yeah right!! Asian Girls have no opinion actually true in some but give em a few years in oZ and they loose that one Asian girls are more beautiful, nah there are beautiful girls who just happen to have been born in asia, also Aust, England, France etc What you are suggesting is actually Positive discrimination, and discrimination of any kind is bad All women are beautiful, some are beautiful to look at, to hold, to caress or to put on a pedestal and some have great heads for radio and are just beautiful to talk with. But then what would I know, I'm on this site as an outsider, a pariah, a leach as popular as a single gent in a couples club, as wanted as a turd in a pool party That's right a Single male
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice' Sweetpetite I gotta say I was thinking the same as you. Mikeandshel I found a few of your posts boardering with racial overtones. Not saying thats the way you meant it, but it certainly started to come across that way. All I can say is you must have had your head in the sand if you have never seen some of the absolutely drop dead beautifull asian girls getting around. I have noticed specially with the younger generation of asian girls who were born here and who now embrase our culture are just as knowledgeable with their fashion sense as our younger generation and present themselves very very well indeed. That also goes for their grooming... Im not saying all asian gilrs are beautifull , but neither are all our aussie girls... Dont knock it to you try it as they say.. You might be pleasantly surprised.. Mr JJ oh now i'm racist? because I dont find asian women attractive? I dont find eskimos attractive either,or can i not say that? I dont look at asian gals and think 'oh my god shes beautiful' ! why? because I dont!no head in sand, no ignorance here. finding someone attractive or not is a personal choice ffs, i find blonde hairded caucasian women attractive, but dont find red heads do it for me, or darker haired girls for that matter. being an adult means i can make choices, for whatever reason i see fit. but i cant say that i find something attractive when in all honesty i dont. that you find asians attractive is up to you and what your preferences are.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
You dont see many asian men with white wemen ,,,, i think its a one way street,,,, its the other way round,,, i like my ladys to look a certin age ie,, not the shape of a very young girl,,, anyway its what floats your boat ,,,, but you dont see many asian males in porn fillms do you ,,, wonder why??? A wonan places an ad in the local paper, : looking for a man with three qualifications : wont beat me up, wont run away from me and is great in bed. Two days later her door bell rings. Hi, her visitor announces. I am Tim. I have no legs so i wont run away, no arms so i wont beat you up. What makes you think you are going to be great in bed?? I rang the door bell lady.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
What makes you think there aren't many asian men in porn films? I'm assuming you're talking about american/european porn films. Genuine question I actually have no idea.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I'm not female but i am asian and I don't think any of the comments were that racist.. don't be so sensitive people. it's a sex forum not some PC forum lol. relax.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
FFS... Go back and reread what I posted... All that ranting you posted was all about you... geezzzz
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice' FFS... Go back and reread what I posted... All that ranting you posted was all about you... geezzzz i read your post. and dont see what yr problem is? neither of us finds asians attractive, do i/we have to justify ourselves? no? most asians dont find us attractive either, but are you going to call 1.3 bilion chinese racist? or do they have their heads in the sand too? lol ffs?
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' are not what i would call attractive at all..................its all wrong when i see an aussie guy with his asian bride..... Assuming my perception of what an Asian woman looks like, would you mind explaining what an Australian guy is? Apparently not someone with Asian heritage? No matter what you really mean, you're not likely to come out of this well.But then, I find the whole thread distasteful - some Asian women are beautiful and others are not, just like all races and genders. We may as well be discussing whether blondes are dumb.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I think Im a very lucky person to be able to find attractive people in all nationalitys, and always have. No way will I close my mind to think we are the be all and end all of the world, even this forum. Mikeandshel' You have driven your point home like nothing else.. No one is trying to tell you any different' you have taken it upon yourself to defend your veiw more than once now.. I dont think we need it all over again.. Love thy neighbour.. Even if they do come from somewhere else.. Peace .... Mr JJ
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I've only been with 2 asian women and loved it. i want more. i think it's a fantasy thing but in all honesty i would love to settle down with one but there is a severe shortage here.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Snowshoe' Quoting 'mikeandshel' are not what i would call attractive at all..................its all wrong when i see an aussie guy with his asian bride..... Assuming my perception of what an Asian woman looks like, would you mind explaining what an Australian guy is? Apparently not someone with Asian heritage? No matter what you really mean, you're not likely to come out of this well.But then, I find the whole thread distasteful - some Asian women are beautiful and others are not, just like all races and genders. We may as well be discussing whether blondes are dumb. whatever. it doesnt take a scholar to understand what i mean. what are 'aussies' ? the meaning of the word is 'australians of primarily anglo-celtic origin". it wasnt me that made this up....its been in use for well over 100 years...but hey, who cares? all i was saying was that i dont find asian women attractive, and feel that it really is 'all wrong', but that is my adult opinion, which i am 100% entitled to have. if you disagree, dont think i care really. lol ffs.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Snowshoe' But then, I find the whole thread distasteful - some Asian women are beautiful and others are not, just like all races and genders. We may as well be discussing whether blondes are dumb. I agree, this thread has been done to death so let's let it die one...but that, said you have now brought up a question that has perhaps confused man through the ages. Maybe we can get a quick straw poll before the tread dies? | ...if you think blondes are dumb but love them in spite of it all. | ...if you think they are not dumb and you like intelligent women. | I am only KIDDING...sheesh, I love women of all hair colours and even those that change it as often as I do my socks. Voting on something like this could really get you in trouble fast...so just a bit of humour.| | Good whiskey, fine cigars and fast women!
-
RHP User
15 years ago
mikeandshel quote 'australians of primarily anglo-celtic origin' I am horrified... I am an Aussie, of neither anglo or celtic heritage, and proud of my European background. We are a proud multicultural country and to be an Aussie requires just citizenship. In my view all you have to do is call Australia home. You can be any colour, race, religion, and don't even have to speak English, to be an Aussie. Please reeducate your selfs as bigots do nothing but bring us all down.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Markusss67' mikeandshel quote 'australians of primarily anglo-celtic origin' I am horrified... I am an Aussie, of neither anglo or celtic heritage, and proud of my European background. We are a proud multicultural country and to be an Aussie requires just citizenship. In my view all you have to do is call Australia home. You can be any colour, race, religion, and don't even have to speak English, to be an Aussie. Please reeducate your selfs as bigots do nothing but bring us all down. dont condemn me for what someone else did. I didnt coin the term 'aussie' its more that 100 years old. I was asked for definition. dont need re educating at all. theres no need for shooting of the messenger. lol.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
100 years is a long time and we should ignore the old attitudes. Geez I be locked up for buggery if we held onto old ideals. I am just offended to be excluded from being an Aussie. But peace to you and hopefully we can all move on with the modern meaning. May you have a gay time here on RHP... :)
-
RHP User
15 years ago
OINK, OINK, OINKOne racist says to the other, "isn't my fault I hate everything different than me, someone else started it"But you see sir I didn't coin the phase "racist pig" so I guess I can freely fling it around here too eh?To be or not to be?Aussie is the question!Well I'm some bastardised mix of irish, scottish and who knows what else. I was born here so am I an Aussie?Mrs Pup is a mix of predominantly irish and asian. She was born here too, is she an Aussie?Am I more of an Aussie than her?Well I haven't traced my family tree but she has and she goes back to 2nd fleet and has over 50 000 descendants roaming our land, so is she more aussie now?BUT she looks asian, so surely she can't be an aussie, especially if we're taking the definition from the southern cross totting mob. If they were in Germany they'd be following another kind of cross!I don't mean to offend but am not sorry if I have as I'm thoroughly offended by some of my fellow aussies!Nothing like a stupid question to bring stupidity out of the closetPeace to all, especially the biggots, maybe peace will lead to them finding more beauty in the world.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
ah here we go........ask a question....dont like the answer.... offer clarification (dont know why)...... get shot down again.... lol.... defend myself (again dont know why)......get asked for an explanation (set up i know lol)......get called names (only one 'g' in bigot).......its not my fault the Australian language has so many hidden slurs....get over it.....grrrr.....lol...hugs?
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Good to see you guys!! No doubt you've noticed the forum hasn't changed at all. :p I have to laugh in the face of swingers who think they know their heritage with any certainty... I mean withot a DNA check how the fuck would they know who their great grandma rubbed uglies with back in the day. It's a pathetically tenuous position to try and claim high ground. Personally I rather enjoyed the blonde analogy! Hugs Stalky
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' whatever. it doesnt take a scholar to understand what i mean. what are 'aussies' ? the meaning of the word is 'australians of primarily anglo-celtic origin". it wasnt me that made this up....its been in use for well over 100 years...but hey, who cares? all i was saying was that i dont find asian women attractive, and feel that it really is 'all wrong', but that is my adult opinion, which i am 100% entitled to have. if you disagree, dont think i care really. lol ffs. Okay, so you're saying that you feel it's "all wrong" for a man of anglo-celtic origin to date a woman of Asian appearance? And you seriously don't understand why people think that's a racist view? Of course you're entitled to your own opinion, but if it's controversial, you'd better be prepared to defend it. Good luck defending this one - you'd have had a better time of it fifty years ago.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
This whole thread has derailed on a non-stop trip to Stupid. It is obvious what mikeandshel meant, big deal - next time you see 'aussie' substitute it with 'median aussie' which is someone white with anglo-celtic background, we all know that is what was meant (similarly you should all be complaining "what about the white people that get born in Asia.. They're asians").What I'm surprised about is that people argued on terminology not the assertion that the hypothetical mixed race couple was 'wrong'.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Mikeandshel.. Theres no need for you to defend anything.. leave it alone and it will just die a natural slow death.. Ever heard... Know when to hold em... Know when to fold em.. I think you would agree it's now time hold em and fold em.... Peace brother..
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Snowshoe' Quoting 'mikeandshel' whatever. it doesnt take a scholar to understand what i mean. what are 'aussies' ? the meaning of the word is 'australians of primarily anglo-celtic origin". it wasnt me that made this up....its been in use for well over 100 years...but hey, who cares? all i was saying was that i dont find asian women attractive, and feel that it really is 'all wrong', but that is my adult opinion, which i am 100% entitled to have. if you disagree, dont think i care really. lol ffs. Okay, so you're saying that you feel it's "all wrong" for a man of anglo-celtic origin to date a woman of Asian appearance? And you seriously don't understand why people think that's a racist view? Of course you're entitled to your own opinion, but if it's controversial, you'd better be prepared to defend it. Good luck defending this one - you'd have had a better time of it fifty years ago. explain to me exactly what it is i have to defend? and why its controversial? and who you are that i should care what you think?
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Some things are self-perpetuating and seem to thrive in a fecal environment...however, if you bring them into the light and leave them to their own version of fertilizer, they usually drop right over. In the good ol' days...it was called leaving them spinning in the wind. I am feeling a breeze and ready to hit the door if the rest of you want to do the same. Last one out...turn on the lights. | You can't argue with an idiot...they will bring you down to their level and beat you with experience every time.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Some things are self-perpetuating and seem to thrive in a fecal environment...however, if you bring them into the light and leave them to their own version of fertilizer, they usually drop right over. In the good ol' days...it was called leaving them spinning in the wind. I am feeling a breeze and ready to hit the door if the rest of you want to do the same. Last one out...turn on the lights. | You can't argue with an idiot...they will bring you down to their level and beat you with experience every time. my sentiments exactly. lol.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Like I said, folks....last one out please turn on the lights, mushrooms can't read. | ...especially in the dark.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel'explain to me exactly what it is i have to defend? and why its controversial? and who you are that i should care what you think? You have to defend your opinions, as we all do. It's controversial because there has been a concerted effort over a long period of time to eliminate any stigma related to interracial couples of any description, and may I add that the world is a better place for it. You needn't care about my opinion - I offer it not in the hopes of convincing you to change, but so that other readers know that I don't share your views.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Like I said, folks....last one out please turn on the lights, mushrooms can't read. | ...especially in the dark. think we already established in another post that we dont agree. dont start on me in this one please, or i'll feel you are stalking us with the intent to harass. go away.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Hey guys, lets just leave this... we don't need to get uptight over who says this or who's right or wrong - the beauty of humanity is that we are all different and have different views, we may not and most don't agree with each and every ones views on sex, culture, race and creed, but that's the variety of life.... I respect people who have the guts to voice their opinion, and those who respect those who do - we don't need to throw flames at each other over trivial matters - so lets love, be loved and move on to a more interesting topic !!cheers to you all Mrs NS
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Snowshoe' Quoting 'mikeandshel'explain to me exactly what it is i have to defend? and why its controversial? and who you are that i should care what you think? You have to defend your opinions, as we all do. It's controversial because there has been a concerted effort over a long period of time to eliminate any stigma related to interracial couples of any description, and may I add that the world is a better place for it. You needn't care about my opinion - I offer it not in the hopes of convincing you to change, but so that other readers know that I don't share your views. have to what? defend? no.......its always a choice to defend or not...... lol
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I give up. opinions unchanged. and dont care to discuss it further. said what i said, dont particularly care who it offends. .... off to do something interesting now as this is boring me. ho hum..... tata petals.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Geez.. About friggin time... hope you turned the lights out.....
-
billecart
15 years ago
black brown or brindle its about atraction and sex. i like chocolate and cant get enough all races. asian girls are petite and love slim fit bodies. im glad there is colour in our lives to choose from, i dont need rose coloured glasses im a realist with the oportunity to sample natures wonderful world of woman
-
RHP User
15 years ago
But seriously, any woman who would throw her lot in with you, with that kind of neatherdalic reasoning and questioning...yeesh. No body should ever be that hard up.
-
patrick_starfish
15 years ago
its clear that some girls are threaten by asian women. There are guys who find asian women attractive its perhaps the way they make a western man feel, don't get me wrong this is not a shot at western women but nowadays most women walk around with a checklist that majority of men do not live up to so a man has to go else where to start a family unfortunately the casualty of modern society I have seen men who marry asian girls usually have long happy lives
-
AmiablePrick
15 years ago
Big place Asia. I guess we're not talking about someone from Siberia, Pakistan or Outer Mongolia, just some generic petite attractive type like, I dunno... Aung San Suu Kyi My australian born Chinese ex used to quip about how anglo saxons all looked the same to her.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
The attraction with Asian girls goes way back to Capt'n Cook's day when you could take a rusty nail and trade it for sexual favours from the Tahitian ladies.. Oh those were the days. Sure the boats were a bit rickety leaving Tahiti.... but your balls were light as a feather. . Fast forward a little time and you could impress Asian girls with all sorts of stuff we take for granted. I remember driving young Eun Jung away from the airport years ago.. "Hey mista.. what's that?" "Oh wow Mista.. what's that?" Ahhh yes.. the motorised horse and cart... the big loud animal we use instead of a oxen for harvesting. And a big white box to keep our food and drink cool. Ahh yes.. impressing them was easy, even for an old man past his use by date. . Oh how the tables have turned. These days you fly in your freshly purchased bride and she rocks up with a f*&ing Iphone two generations newer than anything you can buy, has a property portfolio on the Gold Coast, orders on your behalf in French restaurants (in French!) and corrects your English.. . So why are Asian girls so more attractive to western men (yes - I know... she would probably correct that grammar in an instant)... I dunno... duty free grog?
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Plenty of them to choose from. And they only come up to your knees!
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Yep Asia is a big place, we could be talking about women from Pakistan or lower parts of Russia, japan, china, singapore, PNG, micronesia or anywhere
-
patrick_starfish
15 years ago
my bad thai and philipinos
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 15100 Comments: 88191
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1416 Comments: 10247
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2520 Comments: 11712
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2503 Comments: 9778
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 998 Comments: 5080
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1301 Comments: 5760
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 780 Comments: 1984
-
LGBT
Topics: 170 Comments: 869
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share