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Age Lying about age
April 23 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find I can have sexual chemistry and flirt with women of all ages, so age is only a number. But some people have expectations around age, so if you are going to meet , lying about it seems pointless.If you really want to impress some one and need to lie about your age, bump it up by ten years.That'll make em think you look good!
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Katkat
10 years ago
Lie about their age I think it's ridiculous why lie? Just to get some I guess & desperate but I prefer to be real & when they see me they actually think but you don't look 35 you look 27-30. I could lie about my age but I don't want to at least I get complimented about my age. I remember before there was this guy put up a photo he looked like he was in his late 20's when we met up nothing like it 😱👎😂 More like he's in mid 40 I'm like wtf! Luckily we just met up for a coffee 😂😂 That's why it's always best to meet up first before you play see if you click otherwise you would be in uncomfortable situation I honestly think it's ridiculous some people are just so desperate & deceiving. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Nah I'm 47, I am an old duck and I'm ok with that. My photos are not old, oldest would be 2 years old I think and I haven't really changed much it the last 2 years, I seem to be getting better with age. I've also seen some profiles that you just know the age is incorrect, or they've had a fucking hard life. don't tell porkies about your age, if you're telling lies about your age, what else are you telling lies about is how I look at it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am not sure why people lie or falsify things on their profile we have on a number of times been misled especially with pics that show what someone looked like 20 years ago, and im sorry to say this is mainly the females that show their "portrait" photos from many years back, people want to know what you look like now and if you have a couples profile why is it that there are heaps of pics of the female and rarely any of the male ?? I understand that people may wish to keep their faces hidden for privacy but even when opening up the private pics for people to see there are rarely any of the male.?It is our experience that age is just a number when it comes to swinging as a lot of couples have a wide range listed and will meet younger and older couples so why lie about it ?I think the most falsifying thing we have come across is that the age is OK but pics are old examples of this were two couples we met with for a drink who looked nothing like their profile pics and then people bag dating sites etc when they don't hook up when they should be looking at their own descriptions and profiles firstMy two bobs worth....lolRant over...lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
I met up for a drink with a guy (in my early RHP days) he's age said 44, his photos looked 44. He arrived, looked much older..... Chatted for a few minutes then he said you've probably worked out I'm not 44 I'm 56. He used old photos, said when he had is real age only very young women hit on him so went younger as he was told women his age would hit on him. He wanted his own age. I chatted politely, we left and I never responded to him again. Liar liar pants on fire..... I'm not interested. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
And yep if they lie about their age you can be sure they will be lying about other things as well. I can't judge ages of people anymore but I do look at some photos and think if that's your age you have had a fucking hard life. To me honesty is important no matter what type of relationship friendship you have. A lot of people say age is just a number. True, but a lie is still a lie. Also the excuse of changing your age because of search parameters is also bullshit. You are lying and there is no excuse for it.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
I dont look my age........ But feel it sometimes. My photos are all less than 2 years old. I think 2 years should be the max. Its not hard to freshen up the gallery people. Since i turned a 100, i have a lot more views. Not many hitups though but thats fine because i got fed up with the single guys wasting my energy and doing my head in.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I reversed up, parked for a while & decided to stay there 😀 To be honest I own up to it pretty quickly, and no ones given a shit. 😘 RR 💋💋 who is a big fibber lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have my own reasons and I don't like to be categorised as an age group. I don't tell people my age when I meet them at a party I don't see that I should have to here. If they like you as a person they like you as a person- age shouldn't matter. Xxviolet
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ive managed a few dates where they've fessed up to being much older. NEXT😈 On a personal note, I have no respect for liars. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
as we make assumptions about people based on their height , weight, work -profession etc etc...that is how the world is.. the problem with these is that not everyone fits the mould...there 22year olds out there with the maturity and lifetime experience of a 35year old and the other way around.. I am 37 -so I am considered to be TOO OLD TO DATE by many...and whilst I can pull my act together and act like a 37year old should at work and now making progress in acting like a 32year old outside of that (btw anyone knows a style expert who could help me sort out my wardrobe to move from the 25year old's style to the 34year old's style would be of great help!) I am not mature enough for a lot of things the average 37year old is anticipated to do whilst I have gathered experiences in other areas ..so how old am I? the age as per my birth certificate or as old as I feel? I do find annoying when men lie about their age- it only takes the first photo or meetup to be caught out so why do it? I do have a spot for men who are older than myself (even when I was 25 my "boy"friend was 44 ) but if he says he is 45 and then sends across a photo where he barely passes for 62 then he was just wasting my time.. BTW..any tall, Caucasian men who are younger than 50 and have lovely grey hair - send me a massage- you are just my type
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RHP User
10 years ago
Have met a few men who have shaved off 3 to 5 years, and see many profiles where quite a few years have obviously been shaved off. I just don't see the point. I know I can pass for younger but I don't bother, I'm 38 soon and that's me, take it or leave it. I also really dislike the phrase 'age is just a number'. Actually no, it's not. Call me superficial or ageist, I really don't care but age does affect physical, mental, and emotional traits of people. I need to be both physically and mentally attracted to someone to have sex with them on an ongoing basis, and both those types of attraction are very rarely going to be there for me outside of a certain age range.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't know why people haft to lie about there age ? , it's annoying mostly but I know I'm not lying !
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horneycouplewa
10 years ago
Whoops I haven't updated from my last birthday lol But am happy to stay there....at my age (for you younger ones) it is more difficult. However, I do update my photos very couple months with very clear face and body shots plus yes I'm guilty of getting on the cam not just to show my boobs but also my face when chatting. Nothing to hide and have met some awesome people as those know what to expect xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'misskez' I met up for a drink with a guy (in my early RHP days) he's age said 44, his photos looked 44. He arrived, looked much older..... Chatted for a few minutes then he said you've probably worked out I'm not 44 I'm 56. He used old photos, said when he had is real age only very young women hit on him so went younger as he was told women his age would hit on him. He wanted his own age. I chatted politely, we left and I never responded to him again. Liar liar pants on fire..... I'm not interested. - Posted from rhpmobile Kez because he told me that same crap story.His pics are nothing like what he is really like.When I was new on here he started messaging me and I gave him the benefit of the doubt and agreed to meet at a restaurant.Despite me trying to make the best of a bad situation, it was a boring date with a boring man so after finishing dinner we paid and I thanked him for his time and said goodbye.Unfortunately he followed me back to my car and I stopped a few times and repeatedly asked him not to then he attempted to embarrass me out loud in a busy street full of people by criticising me because I had said no to his sexual offer!! I WISH I could name and shame however I would never do that on here.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ive wound the clock back by 2 years in the vain hope of getting a message from someone, anyone.As MOST women here have their age preferences set at below 50, that puts me well and truly on the cyber scrapheap.In reality I look younger than my age, most people in real life get a bit of a shock when told how old I am. The majority of people (men and women) underestimate my age by 10 years or more. So, if I look like Im in my 40s, act like Im in my 20s and Im fitter than most 40 year olds (and a lot of 30 year olds) Im young at heart and can most probably out fuck half the men half my age, I dont really see the problem in shaving a few years off, perhaps I should lower my age to 44. Age may be a number to some, but in reality its how you look, feel and perform. Fuck me this is not a sex site its a car yard of new & used men for women!hahah Any ladies out there after a well used rusty old 1959 FC Holden ute with a few dings and a bit of bog around the rear end hit me up with an offer. Ps the tires are bald but the horns working fucking great! Pss I pwomise I didnt wind the clock back. :D
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RHP User
10 years ago
... putting up a very old (as in really old) pic of myself back in days when I played lead guitar in a jazzy rock band. I still play but not with a Marshall stack, vintage LP or Tele and certainly don't have a shag haircut flowing down to the middle of my shoulders...it was a bit of a joke and for fun, past history. It got knocked back although you could tell it was me...okay so round two? I then embedded my real first name and year of the photo on it and again knocked back. End of story, I could care less although could have been fun and never misconstrued as anything other than what it was meant to be. I'm also into graphics, photography and web design so not a hell of a lot new under the sun. To take a page out of the books of the internet, WYSIWYG and keep it real...I do but take no offense at those who choose to play a different game. ℳ₢
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scubaboy69
10 years ago
My age is 47 as per my profile. I've always been honest about my age. My main photo is from January and an ex-girlfriend is going to take some new arty shots soon (when she's not so insanely busy). My other photo is from my 40th birthday and I'll probably take that one down when the arty shots are done because I do look a lot older now, but that was my first photo on RHP and I've kept it for nostalgic reasons. It's like a security blanket, I can't let go!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
People who lie about age - or anything for that matter, take away my ability to make the choices that are important to me. Whatever they may be. And I find that disrespectful. I often find that they are people who view this as purely a sex site - which seems to mean, that basic respect goes out the window, and that sex comes before honesty. I can certainly understand the reasons behind it - but I don't like it. I what to be able to trust someone that I plan to clasp between my thighs. I have no problem with people not putting actual DOB in - I certainly just keep that for my bank. But I'm the same year as my profile age. Having said that - I was listed as 101 for a while on here, but that because I didnt' want to come up on any searches, which seemed to cap at 99. Which was a quiet existence.
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RHP User
10 years ago
with LD here. I also don't see age as just a number, though I'm grateful others do, double standards what Thanks for all the great responses, including the honest ones (fessing up lol), had a giggle, thanks. I haven't met anyone who either looked or was older than their age stated. I'm not fussed about minor tweaks and do understand how age stated can rule people out of search brackets, some young guys for example, actually do the opposite and increase their age, because they have the opposite problem where they're overlooked because of apparent inexperience or perceived that way. SYD makes a good point about people being so different, if I saw 5 guys aged 25, all would be different obviously, but some more experienced, some more mature sexually, same with women, and the same with the older bracket, me included. We don't all fit a mould for that age. At times the age is irrelevant. I do look at each person as an individual, but continue to struggle with the seemingly impossible task of finding out exactly how they look NOW, or how old they actually are. I'd rather know straight up. Few said, what's the point, you're going to find out anyway, and that's the way I see it. It also affects how people view your profile in a broader sense. They might be looking for a 'keeper' and looking for someone closer to their age, that kind of thing. Take for example a guy aged 28-30 who might consider a woman up to 40 for a relationship, so hits on a woman aged 40, but the woman is actually 50? So that's just another way of looking at it. Appearance isn't the only consideration, the entire profile as a whole, lures us in. Just my 2 cents
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RHP User
10 years ago
oh and Annie and Betty, when you look that good for your age, the rest is just conversation
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RHP User
10 years ago
oh and small vent, being spoken to like I'm a 2 yr old, I happen to have a 50 attached to that
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RHP User
10 years ago
it would likely be a deal breaker for me - i can't stand lying so to start off on a lie wouldn't sit well with me
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RHP User
10 years ago
What's the point in lying about your age or putting up pic's that were taken many years ago?? Surely you are going to want to meet with the person at some stage, are you hoping to woo them so much through messages that they won't notice that you're 10+ years older and twice the size? Why bother? They will find out sooner or later - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well I'm exactly what it say's on the tin, 39. Yes nearly the big 40 and I don't give a shit so if you don't like it move on! My ex wife was 12 year's my junior and when we'd go out to say burswood I'd be the one who alway's got asked for ID which was even stranger there as I used to manage (Paddy's back in the day!) My normal response was either "you've made my day" or "old enough to be your dad" anywho older/younger who care's! Bettysullivan....WOWZERS! but hey always thought that and Star Justice your profile could say 101and I wouldn't say no! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
and being a realist, see no reason to lie about my age.If anything, its good as it takes me out of many online searches. Many, both men and women here lie about their age for various reasons, most have been mentioned in previous posts. I have pointed out to many men, when they lie about their age, their message is automatically sent to my non-matching message file ( as supplied by rhp). Dont mind it when men tell me their true (?) age in their first message to me....at least I have the choice to continue contact if I wish.If they continue their lie til we meet and the difference from their stated age...their old pics... is vast, I will walk away.As xxxticklishxx said, you can be sure they will be lying about other things as well. Its another reason I prefer to meet face to face sooner rather than later.I adore meeting men close to my age.... Not at all interested in getting involved in any hot and heavy chat with someone who can barely walk ( due to far older age than stated) and not at all capable at living up to their words....purely a fantasy on their behalf.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If someone lying about their age is a deal breaker then so be it. Little rock, lets not get into the straw man debate. Everyone lies about something.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'ilovelaughter' Quoting 'misskez' I met up for a drink with a guy (in my early RHP days) he's age said 44, his photos looked 44. He arrived, looked much older..... Chatted for a few minutes then he said you've probably worked out I'm not 44 I'm 56. He used old photos, said when he had is real age only very young women hit on him so went younger as he was told women his age would hit on him. He wanted his own age. I chatted politely, we left and I never responded to him again. Liar liar pants on fire..... I'm not interested. - Posted from rhpmobile Kez because he told me that same crap story.His pics are nothing like what he is really like.When I was new on here he started messaging me and I gave him the benefit of the doubt and agreed to meet at a restaurant.Despite me trying to make the best of a bad situation, it was a boring date with a boring man so after finishing dinner we paid and I thanked him for his time and said goodbye.Unfortunately he followed me back to my car and I stopped a few times and repeatedly asked him not to then he attempted to embarrass me out loud in a busy street full of people by criticising me because I had said no to his sexual offer!! I WISH I could name and shame however I would never do that on here. that is just such a horrible thing. what a horrible date and I hope not to get to meet him in Melbourne. I was contacted reacently by a 45yo. I have a feeling he is not what he said he is. It is the actions of a few dubious men who ruin it for all the other good honest men here...
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Seachange73
10 years ago
when you meet a man who said in their profile to be 45 and when you meet him, he looks more like 65-70. this was early on in my dating life in rhp. how naive I was then. I met him for a drink and passed him by the bar a couple of times and then he called out my name. I turned around and there was this old skinny guy with white hair and craggy face smiling up at me. I must have shown my displeasure right there and then as his smile got wiped out. I told him he looked very different from his profile picture and he made the excuse that he cant get any interest from women if he was older than 45. so he lied. Bastard.... I had a glass of water while he had his drink, then I said goodbye. he insisted on walking me to my car, parked out front of the bar and tried to kiss me. Arghhhh... I told him no thanks. and covered my face and pushed him away. I told him I am not attracted to him and he is way too old for me. I just found him to be disgusting, as a person , for deceiving me.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
look older than their age. I know this for sure as I have met some at work and on site. Time has not been very kind to them or they have not looked after themselves too well - wrinkles from over exposure under the sun, bad diet or too much alcohol. I have been mistaken to be younger than my years due to my fashion sense, my sunny disposition and my lack of wrinkles. Being Asian, we seem to have less wrinkles but I also look after myself very well. My colleagues and friends are surprised to find out that I have young adults for children. It makes me blush. I know of some people who look a lot younger than their age. A wonderful surprise and good to see that some people just look after themselves well by simple sun protection, healthy diet, good daily exercise regime and lots of hydration. It takes lots of hard work to combat ageing so I appreciate people who lead a good healthy lifestyle.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' when you meet a man who said in their profile to be 45 and when you meet him, he looks more like 65-70. this was early on in my dating life in rhp. how naive I was then. I met him for a drink and passed him by the bar a couple of times and then he called out my name. I turned around and there was this old skinny guy with white hair and craggy face smiling up at me. I must have shown my displeasure right there and then as his smile got wiped out. I told him he looked very different from his profile picture and he made the excuse that he cant get any interest from women if he was older than 45. so he lied. Bastard.... I had a glass of water while he had his drink, then I said goodbye. he insisted on walking me to my car, parked out front of the bar and tried to kiss me. Arghhhh... I told him no thanks. and covered my face and pushed him away. I told him I am not attracted to him and he is way too old for me. I just found him to be disgusting, as a person , for deceiving me. See that just disgusts me and the excuse they use about not getting any interest if they use their real age, diddums, and how is that our problem? Well, you're a better person than I am, I would have walked without the glass of water. Longest drink of water you've ever had, I suspect
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RHP User
10 years ago
sorry, I didn't comment on your posts before but wow, I don't even know what to say to that. It's so wrong in so many ways. That would have made me really angry
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RHP User
10 years ago
Excellent post and you highlighted our choice being taken away, which equals lack of respect. I couldn't agree more Mr urn, it comes as no surprise to me that you and your wife are honest people, I love your comments, always so well articulated and polite. I agree with everything you said. Great post Thank you all for a great response
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sweetgem
10 years ago
With the men whom I actually met in person and had a physical connection with! But they didn't confess about their real age until we got connected well and got comfortable with each other, then they went "I am actually four years older than the age I stated in my profile"....now, given that I am only interested in men who are slightly over than me, the two men in my cases were about 8 years older than me......so, my instant reaction to their confession was "are you serious?" then followed by "why do you need to lie about your real age?" and the answers they gave were really silly, or BS. Since then, I sometimes don't even want to meet men who are older than 45, even though that is my preferred age cut off! Because some 45 years old men do look like 50! And that is too old for me given that I have uncles aged in their 50s. Hence, age lying turns me off instead of on because, if they even have to lie about something so simple and little, I don't know what else would they be lying about! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'tanian' I am not sure why people lie or falsify things on their profile we have on a number of times been misled especially with pics that show what someone looked like 20 years ago, and im sorry to say this is mainly the females that show their "portrait" photos from many years back, people want to know what you look like now and if you have a couples profile why is it that there are heaps of pics of the female and rarely any of the male ?? I understand that people may wish to keep their faces hidden for privacy but even when opening up the private pics for people to see there are rarely any of the male.?It is our experience that age is just a number when it comes to swinging as a lot of couples have a wide range listed and will meet younger and older couples so why lie about it ?I think the most falsifying thing we have come across is that the age is OK but pics are old examples of this were two couples we met with for a drink who looked nothing like their profile pics and then people bag dating sites etc when they don't hook up when they should be looking at their own descriptions and profiles firstMy two bobs worth....lolRant over...lol Rant all you like, it's my main gripe too. I'd have to say a high percentage of profiles I've looked at have had old pictures up. Not always ALL of the pictures, but they invariably include some where they look REALLY young, and others with the furrows in their forehead? One I looked at yesterday, one picture had him looking like he was in highschool, and no, he wasn't, before anyone reports this, he was I think late 20's or 30's, can't remember exactly, but in other pictures he looked like he was high 30's, even early 40's? Huge discrepancy and a joke really. If I see differences even when they're not that obvious, I go for the back arrow, simple as that. I can't be bothered wasting my time when odds are they'll be lying about other stuff as well
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'sweetgem' With the men whom I actually met in person and had a physical connection with! But they didn't confess about their real age until we got connected well and got comfortable with each other, then they went "I am actually four years older than the age I stated in my profile"....now, given that I am only interested in men who are slightly over than me, the two men in my cases were about 8 years older than me......so, my instant reaction to their confession was "are you serious?" then followed by "why do you need to lie about your real age?" and the answers they gave were really silly, or BS. Since then, I sometimes don't even want to meet men who are older than 45, even though that is my preferred age cut off! Because some 45 years old men do look like 50! And that is too old for me given that I have uncles aged in their 50s. Hence, age lying turns me off instead of on because, if they even have to lie about something so simple and little, I don't know what else would they be lying about! - Posted from rhpmobile and again this highlights how your choice was taken away. By lying, they took away your ability to look at everything about the person, including age, then make the decision taking all those things into account. Lying does equal lack of respect and this example shows how shaving a few years off, didn't seem like an issue for them, but it can be for others. It's a combination of things we look for in potential partners, the whole process would be so much easier if everyone was honest
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'usrightnow' Obviously meant I am like a reverse Dorian Gray and I often refer to the reverse of him, as a nice old picture of me shows me before life happened. And not referring to being like him or having done what he did. Sorry for any confusion. From the novel, there is a wonderful old b/w film version. Better than the newer one. so do you mean you have an old picture up? How old is the picture?
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RHP User
10 years ago
HHmmmmmm Just as I suspected! (said in my best Maxwell Smartish voice) No offers yet for this fine piece of iconic Aussie engineering history! Ok, maybe I need to spruke this up a bit. Slightly rusted 1959 FC Holden ute with a few dings and a bit of bog around the rear end.For those of you messaging me about the bog around the rear end, yes it was due to being rammed up the arse, but only minor. I was paddick bashing late one night in a block of units (3rd floor) somewhere in Frankston when a young girl grabbed the wheel and took it up the dirt track (only rammed about 7 or 8 times and by a little pink Morris I swear!) see I told you it was minor, ha :pIt doesnt come with a spare tire (as you can see in the photos) and as I said the tires are a bit bald but the horn is still working fucking great! The donk has had a little work done on it, its been supercharged, blown and circumcised <(GGrrrr) but the upside to the circumcision is that you get a free spare fan belt thrown in for nothing (what a fucking bargain!) Only had one owner, and no it wasnt a little old lady :pAnd for you tire kickers out there, dont knock it until youve taken this bad boy out for a spin around the block a few times.Granted it doesnt have the smell of a new model but you get the best of both worlds here with enhanced performance plus old school strength and reliability. Extremely cheap to run and will get you there and back a few times on less than half a tank (VB thank you)Pss I pwomise I didnt wind the clock back. :D Ok Ok Ok I wound the fucking clock back, so sue me :pDISCLAIMER:~Re the winding back of the clock and some prospective buyers thinking their getting hoodwinked, well this bad boy dosent have a tow bar so there is no chance of gettin hitched up.Crikey girls settle the fuck down!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've always been honest about may age and situation, it saves having to explain anything later on or trying to remember what you told who. I've met one woman who lied about her age and whilst it didn't really impress me, I did give her a chance though and we ended up seeing each other a couple of times. I'd much prefer total honesty from the get go though so you're not wondering what else they've lied about.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting '0z_boy' HHmmmmmm Just as I suspected! (said in my best Maxwell Smartish voice) No offers yet for this fine piece of iconic Aussie engineering history! Ok, maybe I need to spruke this up a bit. Slightly rusted 1959 FC Holden ute with a few dings and a bit of bog around the rear end.For those of you messaging me about the bog around the rear end, yes it was due to being rammed up the arse, but only minor. I was paddick bashing late one night in a block of units (3rd floor) somewhere in Frankston when a young girl grabbed the wheel and took it up the dirt track (only rammed about 7 or 8 times and by a little pink Morris I swear!) see I told you it was minor, ha :pIt doesnt come with a spare tire (as you can see in the photos) and as I said the tires are a bit bald but the horn is still working fucking great! The donk has had a little work done on it, its been supercharged, blown and circumcised <(GGrrrr) but the upside to the circumcision is that you get a free spare fan belt thrown in for nothing (what a fucking bargain!) Only had one owner, and no it wasnt a little old lady :pAnd for you tire kickers out there, dont knock it until youve taken this bad boy out for a spin around the block a few times.Granted it doesnt have the smell of a new model but you get the best of both worlds here with enhanced performance plus old school strength and reliability. Extremely cheap to run and will get you there and back a few times on less than half a tank (VB thank you)Pss I pwomise I didnt wind the clock back. :D Ok Ok Ok I wound the fucking clock back, so sue me :pDISCLAIMER:~Re the winding back of the clock and some prospective buyers thinking their getting hoodwinked, well this bad boy dosent have a tow bar so there is no chance of gettin hitched up.Crikey girls settle the fuck down! lol so you haven't been bowled over in the rush, asking them to form an orderly queue? I'm so sorry I didn't reply to your first comment. I laughed hysterically when I read it. Now about winding back the clock, you're a naughty naughty boy, why am I quoting Monty Python this morning doing the maths if you're a well used rusty old 1959 FC Holden ute, you haven't wound the clock back too far ,
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RHP User
10 years ago
just as I suspected in MY best Maxwell Smartish voice nah actually I didn't suspect a thing
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RHP User
10 years ago
as soon as I find out someone has lied about their age it annoys the shit out of me and it's 'game over'. I don't care how they look, chemistry etc, they've taken me for a fool and have no respect - they may as well lie about anything.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Have met a few men who have shaved off 3 to 5 years, and see many profiles where quite a few years have obviously been shaved off. I just don't see the point. I know I can pass for younger but I don't bother, I'm 38 soon and that's me, take it or leave it. I also really dislike the phrase 'age is just a number'. Actually no, it's not. Call me superficial or ageist, I really don't care but age does affect physical, mental, and emotional traits of people. I need to be both physically and mentally attracted to someone to have sex with them on an ongoing basis, and both those types of attraction are very rarely going to be there for me outside of a certain age range. The "age is just a number" is the classic line that really annoys me! it really shows how little respect they have using a cliche that only suits them
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RHP User
10 years ago
they hav Quoting 'dwoodvale' What's the point in lying about your age or putting up pic's that were taken many years ago?? Surely you are going to want to meet with the person at some stage, are you hoping to woo them so much through messages that they won't notice that you're 10+ years older and twice the size? Why bother? They will find out sooner or later - Posted from rhpmobile I think they naively believe that once they get to meet you they can charm you with their personality or think, "I'm here now, I'm worked up, I will still fuck you." Other than that, it makes no sense at all! I've had men who have been as much as 10 years older than they claim. Then there's the single guy who suddenly has a Mrs he never told you about.
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RHP User
10 years ago
thank you for the amazing compliment and sharing your story. Still reeling at the comment your father made. It said more about him than you, and I know what my response would have been, my back. Your comments come from the heart. I have my hand on my heart after reading that. It helps us all to know the challenges people face. I also recently found some old footage of myself as a child of about the age you say, about 3 I would guess, moving footage, which is now on dvd, but originally taken on the old reel to reel, showing my age here. But I was then able to pause it and photograph the screen on my laptop to get still images. Yes, back in the days when I was a natural blonde there I was in a white crocheted bikini my Mother had made, strutting around on the beach with my ponytail flicking side to side. Not much has changed really
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RHP User
10 years ago
sorry, that comment was obviously for you, I didn't reply with quote because our quotes were getting a bit long
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting '0z_boy' HHmmmmmm Just as I suspected! (said in my best Maxwell Smartish voice) No offers yet for this fine piece of iconic Aussie engineering history! Ok, maybe I need to spruke this up a bit. Slightly rusted 1959 FC Holden ute with a few dings and a bit of bog around the rear end.For those of you messaging me about the bog around the rear end, yes it was due to being rammed up the arse, but only minor. I was paddick bashing late one night in a block of units (3rd floor) somewhere in Frankston when a young girl grabbed the wheel and took it up the dirt track (only rammed about 7 or 8 times and by a little pink Morris I swear!) see I told you it was minor, ha :pIt doesnt come with a spare tire (as you can see in the photos) and as I said the tires are a bit bald but the horn is still working fucking great! The donk has had a little work done on it, its been supercharged, blown and circumcised <(GGrrrr) but the upside to the circumcision is that you get a free spare fan belt thrown in for nothing (what a fucking bargain!) Only had one owner, and no it wasnt a little old lady :pAnd for you tire kickers out there, dont knock it until youve taken this bad boy out for a spin around the block a few times.Granted it doesnt have the smell of a new model but you get the best of both worlds here with enhanced performance plus old school strength and reliability. Extremely cheap to run and will get you there and back a few times on less than half a tank (VB thank you)Pss I pwomise I didnt wind the clock back. :D Ok Ok Ok I wound the fucking clock back, so sue me :pDISCLAIMER:~Re the winding back of the clock and some prospective buyers thinking their getting hoodwinked, well this bad boy dosent have a tow bar so there is no chance of gettin hitched up.Crikey girls settle the fuck down! told you I would meet you when/if you come to Melb and I meant that so when are you coming down?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lovman8' I find I can have sexual chemistry and flirt with women of all ages, so age is only a number. But some people have expectations around age, so if you are going to meet , lying about it seems pointless.If you really want to impress some one and need to lie about your age, bump it up by ten years.That'll make em think you look good! I did that, I'm really 42 well until I wake up at least
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'sweetgem' Happened twice...With the men whom I actually met in person and had a physical connection with! But they didn't confess about their real age until we got connected well and got comfortable with each other ...I am only interested in men who are slightly over than me I find this kind of response to the issue really interesting. Of course you're allowed to choose your limits and preferences, sweetgem - as we all are. I'm fascinated by the dynamic that goes "I had a physical connection ... and comfort with each other" and then at the same time says "only interested in men ..." Surely you were interested in them in the period before you knew their accurate chronological marker? Why did that interest change with a different marker? ... and before I get flamed - yep, I understand the importance of truth-telling. It's one of my passions too. My question is *why* does age make a difference?
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RHP User
10 years ago
A man I met from here four years ago had his age as sixty on his profile.in reality he told me he was seventy-one. I recently noticed that he is now fifty - five. Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' A man I met from here four years ago had his age as sixty on his profile.in reality he told me he was seventy-one. I recently noticed that he is now fifty - five. Q omg there needs to be a wall of shame in here Obviously, I'm just joking. I know we can't do that but seriously?
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RHP User
10 years ago
some interesting responses. Funny how (and correct me if Im wrong as my memory aint what it used to be :p) there seems to not be any blokes here complaining of women altering their age, and no one seems to object to those who raise their age.Ive seen plenty of female profiles where they have obviously used an old photo and or dropped their age by a decade or more, to most guys (including cougar hunters) this presents zero problems, bang the lights off and bang that box boy! (just dont trip over the zimmer frame in the dark in your haste to flee the scene) Another disturbing scenario would be the HCGGF (hard core great granny fucker) inadvertantly falling into the clutches of the 99~101 FFAI (fake female age increase). Note, for full effect you need to read the below passage with a heavy David Attenborough drawl. A new species of cougar hunter has evolved, the HCCH (hard core couger hunter) Scientifically known as "Australis bogunus cougarus chasererus".Predominantly a nocturnal beast, although this creature has been known to frequently pick up prey in broad daylight within the suburban regions with the hours of this activity centered mainly around 9am to 5pm weekdays, give or take, depending on the absent husbands work schedule. Due to the sudden surge of telecommunicational technology of the modern era the HCCH has a plethora of weapons at his disposal. Connected via the World Wide Web and guided with pinpoint GPS accuracy the unprepared cougar dosent really stand a chance.howyagoin yawanna root? is the one of the many and unusual, but highly effective mating calls of the Australis bogunus cougarus chasererus. The nasally twangy call is said to be heard over hundreds of kilometers (TXT and voicemail) The HCCH is an impressive sight to see and not one for the faint hearted, fully decked out in his nikes, cap on backwards and the mandatory arse crack showing, complete with mobile phone at the ready, this creature is a sight to see.Dressed more to kill than thrill the hard core cougar hunter comes prepared, at first glance youd be mistaken in thinking the attire was inappropriate, non functional and just plain ugly, but dont be fooled, those little brothel creepers he has on his feet cost in excess of $269.95 and will pay for themselves many, many, many times over as the HCCH makes good his stealthy and or speedy escape. The reversed cap serves its purpose too, not only is it more streamlined and less prone to flying off when the inevitable chase ensures, or more commonly "fleeing the scene after copulation", it also serves as a beacon to others of the specie.The arse crack flash is still one of natures little mysteries but it seems to be some kind of bizarre mating gesture. Scientists are still debating whether it is tribal, genetic, or a throw back to our primate relatives IE: orangutans, apes, chimpanzees etc etc as it dosent seem to be a human trait in any way. The HCCH can be aged anywhere between 18~27 and at 27, almost past his prime and reaching the pinnacle of his short but rather industrious little sex life it has been noted that in their never ending thirst for older and older cougars due somewhat to the fact that they tend to tire rather quickly of an individual couger and with the inevitable thinning of the local cougar herd they can evolve and take on the form of the rather rare and highly disturbing sub species the "HCGGF" (hard core great granny fucker).
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Grouse33
10 years ago
At 47, I'm just over the 45 year old limit some people set. I've tried the messaging people saying that while I'm older than they're looking for, I'm so immature that they'd be hard pressed to notice, but nobody's responded positively. But of course, there could be many reasons other than my age for this. I often get surprised reactions when I tell people my age. I don't have any visible grey hair and I have a very young looking face. I used to joke that I had the scrotum of Dorian Gray, all they grey hairs and wrinkles that should have been appearing up top were showing up downstairs first. I find that I have more in common with younger people, as a rabid fan of contemporary music and pop culture most of my friends were much younger than I. Except I've got teenaged children, which was an experience totally alien to the people I went to gigs etc with. My first (and best) interaction here was with somebody who disclosed they were ten years older than their profile stated, and that they were attracted to younger people (in my age range). This person was a lot of fun, and I was not offended or upset. I would not have happened upon them if they didn't lie, so I was grateful that they did.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm a cougar and I don't lie about my age. I most definitely could, but I never would. I agree with you though that it's not just men, and I also, would love to hear from men, hear their experiences. Bring it on guys
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RHP User
10 years ago
funny post btw "fleeing the scene after copulation" yes many do but as a matter of interest, I quite like that, and the few older guys I've hooked up with are worse in my experience, so not defined by age. Morning sex I particularly love, leaves the rest of the day free I'm a practical kind of person, down to business. Depends on what the person wants from it. I'm not expecting anything other than sex, I don't want to marry them. We're talking a massive age gap here so it's purely about sexual pleasure, and liking/trusting him obviously. So long as both parties are happy, all good I've actually got to the point where I feel a bit awkward if they stay too long The way I'm going, I'm certain I'll move into that granny fuck sub-species
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have 19 year old trapped inside me. Would I lie to you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
👲 Confucius says effect of gravity on clock is same as getting stoned on pot.The higher you get the slower things go. Hurry pass me the Hong Kong you bogart.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'usrightnow' I was watching a doco the other day and it was discussing time travel and the ideas of Stephen Hawking. Two very special clocks were set to the same time, at an altitude of just over 2300 feet a.s.l. . One of the clocks was then taken up a mountain to 9091 feet a.s.l. . The other clock was driven up 24 hours later. The time on the two clocks was then compared. The one that had spent 24 hours at higher altitude was now 20 billionth of a second slower than the other. Apparently, the rise in altitude lessons the effect of the earth's gravity and time passes at a different rate, albeit, only fractionally. This is even true if you go up in a high-rise, although the rate of difference is tiny. . So, perhaps some people look older than their stated age, as they reside at a lower altitude 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃. Further, they then state the age from birth at altitude 😃😃😃😃 . Or, they may just be lying 😊 . Mr. urn. . I love this, well that explains it, they're all residing at a lower altitude. That settles it, I'm off to live in Peru
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting '0z_boy' 👲 Confucius says effect of gravity on clock is same as getting stoned on pot.The higher you get the slower things go. Hurry pass me the Hong Kong you bogart. You're too funny
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RHP User
10 years ago
Best invention eva..hair dye😎as for time travel..I think you can only go forwards not backwards..and would you remain the same or have aged accordingly?...Maybe the question should be...Knock knock,who's there ?..Answer...WHO. 😇Q
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Love me or leave me 😳😃😂💋
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Some absences from this conversation topic are very conspicuous - 😇 Indy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' Some absences from this conversation topic are very conspicuous - 😇 Indy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Haha yes, and a big reason some of them don't show themselves properly. If they did, how would it be if someone from RL saw them signifantly younger. Might sound nasty but it's what it deserves. I don't care how nice they are, they shouldn't deceive like that. Thank you for bringing that up, I had noticed, not much gets past this old dog 😯
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Actually I_Touch the person(s) I'm thinking of do meet people but I'm just wondering how they're still Benjamin Buttoning and just giggle to myself when the age hovers between 40 & 44 but I honestly feel it must be getting harder to pull off. Then there's the fact that most don't return for seconds.....or thirds.....or calls after a while. 🙄 Some days I look younger than 44 some days I look and feel older. Inside I still think like a 28yo (late twenties I think I started coming into my own by early 30's I was pretty awesome, I hear that'll come back around 50 and just keep getting better from there!!) Some of the hottest women here I know are comfortable in their own skin post 40 and into their 50's. 40 is the new 30 anyway so I'm told👍🏽. Jumping into my rollerblades and scooting off......before I get stoned. Lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've dated many women who are more than five years older then me, and none of them lied about their age. To lie about things like that is pretty low and says alot about their self esteem.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Updated my profile pic. Took this one today...in Bali. Screw winter... I like it when I can dress like this. 😀
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RHP User
10 years ago
I cut 2 yrs off, for what I think is a good reason, I recognised a family member who had looked at my profile several times. It feaked me out, because I had a clothed body pic (cropped head) that was probably more recognisable than the pic I have up now. (So no more full body pics shown publicly for me 😎) so... I changed age slightly, and location. Makes me feel less recognisable if it happens again. Oh and I was 101 for a while last year, to keep me out of searches when Im not meeting.
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RHP User
10 years ago
That's a very understandable reason, many on here want a level of anonanimity due to the lifestyle choices made and the social stigma it can create. That's why I wouldn't want any pics here, but am willing to share in private.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Was it really necessary to throw in the "Bali" word? Thats a four letter word you know. Freezing in Stral'ya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SNAG4XTC' Updated my profile pic. Took this one today...in Bali. Screw winter... I like it when I can dress like this. Quoting 'SNAG4XTC' Updated my profile pic. Took this one today...in Bali. Screw winter... I like it when I can dress like this. 😀 omg I'm so jealous. Can you take me next time you go over there
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' Best invention eva..hair dye😎as for time travel..I think you can only go forwards not backwards..and would you remain the same or have aged accordingly?...Maybe the question should be...Knock knock,who's there ?..Answer...WHO. 😇Q the answer be "correct", "yes", or even "affirmative"?
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RHP User
10 years ago
We have considered adding 5 years to Mrs Adelaide's age before due to lack of interest with people thinking she is to young.The age gap between us brings up a few conundrums.Women seem to think because i have a partner that is 15 years younger than me that we may not be interested in them.People seem to think she is a mail order bride from another country (This always makes us laugh) when in fact she is probably more Aussie than me.Some swingers have children around her age and we understand why they chose not to play.... So yes we considered it but at the end of the day we decided the truth is better than trying to explain a lie for the sake of a little fun. Not regretting the decision either.
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' Some absences from this conversation topic are very conspicuous - 😇 Indy Anyone in particular in mind, mmmm ? I'm no fan of lying about your own circumstances, regardless of whether it be age, height, race, or whatever else may be put down. As has been mentioned, if you're intent to meet, you're going to get found out - and if someone is going to be displeased with the possible outcome it could be much worse off than anticipated. Better off to let someone know what they're really up for. Like a few have made reference to, I too could cut down a number of years to get included in searches, as I don't have any grey hair (good genes), and my physical features do not generally allude to an older age. But I also would not like to meet a (listed) 50+ lady who would actually be closer to her 70's, so I play fair. Tall
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Take I touch with your to Bali. the woman needs a break from Perth winter walking around her jumper and no undies!!! No wonder she is freezing. On the plus side, she does not eat much and she travels light. you can only fit so many bikinis in a handbag and Moby Lick will be stored in the overhead luggage. The perfect meange-a-trois in Bali...There goes the neighborhood.... P.s. Itouch you can thank me later. Just get me one of those duty free Bombay Gin bottles upon return.
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RHP User
10 years ago
All you need is a passport Touch. You don't even need to pack...just come with the clothes on your back and buy everything else here. You could be here for dinner.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'SNAG4XTC' All you need is a passport Touch. You don't even need to pack...just come with the clothes on your back and buy everything else here. You could be here for dinner.
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RHP User
10 years ago
ME TOO! ME TOO! ME TOO! ME TOO! GGggggrrrr damit I have to work and study. Bugger. ☃❄☃❄☃❄☃❄☃❄☃❄☃❄
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' P.s. Itouch you can thank me later. Just get me one of those duty free Bombay Gin bottles upon return. Make that two bottles I-Touch. Quite partial to the Bombay myself and Patrone and Spiced Rum and Opal and ...... a nice red.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Lily and Indy, I could easily accommodate there because I can't take grog to site/work. Now that I have a storage unit in Perth, I can stockpile duty free grog. The only trick is dropping it off to you...on the other side of the country. Maybe a M&G event will work for the exchange. Maybe I should change my name to "The Mule". LOL
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RHP User
10 years ago
How the hell did we get this far off topic It's my topic and I just had to scan up to the top to recall what the topic was ahaha no flies on me. I can even take my own topics off topic Lily and Indy, you are naughty if you want your duty free grog, you'll have to arrange a quick pick up cause it won't last long. Snag and I will need to warm up when we get back from Bali. open fire and Liquor/ licker usually does the trick
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RHP User
10 years ago
and can we get back on topic. We're supposed to be lying about our age well something like that........ found any fakes over in Bali snag?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Like the new pic,a very youthful Tarzan look😈Q
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Quoting 'SNAG4XTC' Lily and Indy, I could easily accommodate there because I can't take grog to site/work. Now that I have a storage unit in Perth, I can stockpile duty free grog. The only trick is dropping it off to you...on the other side of the country. Maybe a M&G event will work for the exchange. Maybe I should change my name to "The Mule". LOL I'm now pondering how much you can hide up your butt.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Re: Bali. No passport confirmation = no ticket and whoosh... The SNAG is gone. Re: Duty free. Nice mental image there Touch... How I love some fine lickher. HM hmm. Re: Tarzan. You Jane? Re: OP. Actually, yes I did find a faker in Bali. A 5 year age adjustment.. it reminded me of another thread...Hotel rooms. 5 squirts on the balcony...between sessions inside...in the AC. :-)) So who cares about a 5 year age adjustment...she went the distance with the Energiser Bunny.
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RHP User
10 years ago
WTF?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hope you kept the lady hydrated. Nothing worse than the post over squirting headache and lethargy. And good call on the balcony. No clean up. 💦
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RHP User
10 years ago
Unfortunately the balcony was only a break and rehydrate after Round 1... The bed was already a wading pool by then. Another good thing about hotels... That plush pillow top mattress was only a few months old. Oops.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am going to shutup now. Oh look...something shiny....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' Quoting 'SNAG4XTC' Lily and Indy, I could easily accommodate there because I can't take grog to site/work. Now that I have a storage unit in Perth, I can stockpile duty free grog. The only trick is dropping it off to you...on the other side of the country. Maybe a M&G event will work for the exchange. Maybe I should change my name to "The Mule". LOL I'm now pondering how much you can hide up your butt..... I was just laughing at the 'exchange', sounds very underworld
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SNAG4XTC' I am going to shutup now. Oh look...something shiny.... No-one hijacks like I do, feel free to outdo me, if you think you're up for the challenge and you saw something shiny huh? You sound easily distracted like me. You and I would have fun in an adult shop. We'd be looking at/trying one toy, the spot another one and go 'ooh look at that one', race over and crank that up, then on to the next The last time I was in an adult shop, I did exactly that, everything was buzzing, and miss 20 questions here, asked every question under the sun about everything. I finished up making my purchase, tried it out at home, wasn't happy with it and took it back haha even after I'd used it omg thankfully the exchange one was perfect and I now have about 4, just in case one breaks down. Creature of habit. But we'd have fun testing out the merchandise
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've never got post squirting headaches and I flood the place. But I drink a lot of water knowing I have to replace what comes out. Also allows me to continue, rinse and repeat, more of the above mmm but yeah, always have water for me and the guy near the bed and drink litres leading up to the meet if I have time
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RHP User
10 years ago
what is wrong with me, that's really bad English. I've never 'had' I give up, I need to proof read but I can't be bothered. I need a coffee
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RHP User
10 years ago
to me is pretty important. Though I can understand why some people may put in higher ages to stop searches. As for the numbers themselves...age is really just that. I have dated women 15 years older than me and 15 years younger. If anything I identify more with people younger than myself (most ppl at 47 think they are over the hill, it seems). So I dont care so much about age, its more about the person, and if you are a person that feels the need to misdirect others for your own gain, then we wont get along at all. (as usrightnow has said, I do understand a small fudge factor though, not everyone thinks to update their profile every birthday).
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' what is wrong with me, that's really bad English. I've never 'had' I give up, I need to proof read but I can't be bothered. I need a coffee Would that be at the Blo'n'Go' ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Looked at a profile of a man who claims he looks much younger than his stated age..according to his photo he doesn't ..Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes I agree, the website updates it on my birthday. Have to say they are far too efficient 😉 Mr Urn, I'm out at the moment, will respond later when home. And tall, I wish 😜
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RHP User
10 years ago
Who needs a sex shop. Let your imagination run wild and we will hit Bunnings and a super market. LOL.
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RHP User
10 years ago
So who's going to my 50th in 4 weeks? Oh shit...did I just say that aloud? I meant 40th.. 45th..30th. Why won't this damn cat get back in it's bag? LOL. Age is a often misrepresenting number. You are as old as you act. I might have to change my profile name to Nigel Lovelace...11 years of age. Almost 12.
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RHP User
10 years ago
haha don't worry, turning 50 is a whole lot easier than turning 30 IMHO I struggled big time clocking over to 30. 51 was the best year of my life, without question. Who would have thought, at that ripe old age, that such pleasure could be at my fingertips Hit me up, we'll go out and have a drink for your 50th haha
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