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Are men the gatekeepers of mf couple profiles?
January 16 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
No you are not alone! I completely understand how you feel - from my experience I very rarely get to chat with the woman in a MF couple! I love to be involved often moreso than my other half is! X Mrs Rudefun
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RHP User
7 years ago
Most couples i interact with are generally the men doing recon work and i dont end up wanting to meet because they get pushy
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RHP User
7 years ago
For us i (m) pre- screen all suiters. Mainly due to the absolute rediculous amount of fakes, pic hunters and basic disrespectful people that make contact. i know what my partner likes and is after. so after the initial “hi hello etc” we get to the viewing and meeting. also part of somewhat protecting our r-ship. have had a lot of guys in the past try to arrange side dates and solo meets. so she doesn’t have much to do with things until we get to meet stage. simply out of couldn’t be bothered and lots of idiots and fakes in the past. everyone is different and everyone plays it their way.... that’s just ours
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RHP User
7 years ago
Depends who the alpha is usually as it requires a hunter mentality to be successful.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Only joined recently but my partner and I share the account so far even though I seem to be on more (simply out of curiosity). But yeah, definitely keen to meet people and explore together as a couple
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have only just started my profile, but he has no interest in doing the looking as play partner is mainly for me. I know what he likes and doesn’t like so it’s all up to me.
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thesaintnsinner
7 years ago
I do most of the messaging here. I am more particular and prefer to get a feel of the person/couple. Hubby works long hours too so it makes it hard. He usually will join a conversation once we are interested in meeting. I do find it a rare thing to chat to the mrs...usually it’s the men and I feel it looks like they r driving the experience which I’m not a fan of. If I don’t chat at some point with the mrs..it can put me off. Plus I’m bi so always nice to have a connection with both parties.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I usually do all the messaging and set up chats for another couple to chat to us. We have seperate Kik accounts so the other couple know who’s talking ! I involve my hubby and he sees all messages also. It’s hard to know who’s talking when it’s a joint account. We both share this 50/50 🤔 I guess someone, somewhere, will try to catfish us but that’s what is in , when ur online trying to chat 😔 Mrs Cx
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filipinahotwife
7 years ago
We set up a group chat on Kik and that way we can all chat each other up. That way you know if it’s me or hubby chatting. Hubby just likes to keep updated on the chats.
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imupinthesky2
7 years ago
Filipina Hot Wife I would love to be included in that group chat 😆
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RHP User
7 years ago
I, the female in this couple am the one looking most actively for another male to play with. My man is straight so as I am the one who will b touching and playing with the new male. My man is mostly a spectator, therefore I browse and make contact where interest is sparked. He has input also though. In the end I let him decide Yay or nay. He has amazing intuition and so I am happy to listen. I enjoy the chat and tease that can happen before a meet, so again I mostly begin, but in the end it's both of us discussing the potential new play person.
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RHP User
7 years ago
We definitely play an equal part jb it. I just wish I could actually find a female to have sex with us!
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RHP User
7 years ago
No but I show him every message, photo ect. So far we haven’t found anyone we’re particularly interested in. Do they ever do big meet & greets for RHP ?
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CaliAsianHotwife
7 years ago
Ma'am has requested that I do the legwork and to show her profiles or messages that I feel would resonate with her. She then tells me who to reach out to, what to ask, and who to say no thanks to etc. So in a sense, I am a gatekeeper to her, but that's not to suggest that she's in the dark or uninformed. She is very selective and so she enjoys going through a curated shortlist rather than scouring hundreds of profiles. It's just what works for us.
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RHP User
7 years ago
We are similar to yourselves, Madame and Boy. Mrs G has no interest in trawling through the profiles nor responding to the volume of approaches (a lot) mostly inarticulate and boorish. She trusts me to Shortlist and bring the highlights to her to review. The choice of who, when, where and remains solely up to her. Mr g
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’m probably the one that does the most looking on here and if I’m interested I then will show my husband. We both have an equal say on if we contact someone or not and it would generally be me 90% of the time doing the talking
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RHP User
7 years ago
90% of the time, I (Mr Cuddly) browse thru the chats, mails, flirts and see what is interesting and filters all the "i'm yay big, bla bla bla". Mrs Cuddly has access as well and logs in and checks when i tell her about a potential hookup or beautiful pictures, but for the most part it's me. Mrs keeps the kids on their toes with homework, while i'm doing the cooking...so i have more free time it seems :)
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FireKatFunCpl
7 years ago
Quoting 'cuddlycoupleaus' 90% of the time, I (Mr Cuddly) browse thru the chats, mails, flirts and see what is interesting and filters all the "i'm yay big, bla bla bla". Mrs Cuddly has access as well and logs in and checks when i tell her about a potential hookup or beautiful pictures, but for the most part it's me. Mrs keeps the kids on their toes with homework, while i'm doing the cooking...so i have more free time it seems :) I (Mr) get more of the "free time" while supervising the kids at a park (or the rare occasion they're all asleep!) than Mrs FireKat does at work at the moment.. so it'll often be me that sees messages/profiles first.. and let her know they are there to respond to :) She is the one more likely to go out and play while I babysit - so I give her first chance to message.. But there is always the option of talking to one of us directly if asked..
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sounds like a job interview....lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
Being part of a couples profile, Me being the female takes Control of page. Since I’m the one allowing my husband to take pleasure in having me and another female, I belive I should be the “gatekeeper” of the Profile as well as my man ? In time after getting to know the interested lady after a connective conversation only then May the partner be taking over “in private chat”. But short answer The female here has charge of the page 👍🏻
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Sawadee
7 years ago
As you can see , this is my single profile but we are a couple who occassionly lash out when Mrs gets the urge to hit out.. .. Doesnt mean she's not interested.. Just not the kind to do the back and forth stuff. I would love to hand the talking over to Mrs , but by her very nature , she's quite happy to sit back and let me create the interest.. then step up for the good stuff.. Hard for me ' yes .. because so many brutal finger pointers . Bottom line is as much as id love Mrs to take the reins, it wont happen... 🤣
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newyboy70
7 years ago
YES, I filter for her.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Not really for us. I enjoy being on here and meeting new people as much as my partner. Mrs RC
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RHP User
7 years ago
We both keep an eye on the profile and answer where we can. Sometimes it does require us both to look at the same time to see if we like them. This can be a challenge sometimes lol Our rules are that we each say if were interested or not but if one of us says no then it's a no for both of us.
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RHP User
6 years ago
All Our profiles on these types of sites are set up by Mrs. most initial contacts made by wifey. I just get to enjoy reading and seeing what she and them have to say
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RHP User
6 years ago
It’s a joint effort with us, whoever has the time to check RHP will discuss any possibilities with the other , I ( female ) will make initial contact , but in the case of single guys hubby will have a chat to him prior to meeting. Not just to fill him in on my /our likes or dislikes but to make guy feel at ease , and in some cases explain that it’s a three way thing, and the guy is not here because hubby needs to be shown how to fuck me . God some guys have huge egos.
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