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Couples and single ladies only wanting unattached
November 16 2018
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RHP User
7 years ago
It comes down to supply and demand, constraints and risks. Single guys are plentiful and don't share the same issues as the attached ones, unless they have young kids.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Opinions Change Previously I would never consider seeing someone who is attached.. However recently met someone in a open relationship. I can now say that it is more reliable, respectful than some of the previous arrangements Ive had. So like anything you have to base it on the person and the connection no matter the status. As long as everyone is upfront about their needs and expectations. As for an earlier post from another forum member. Whom may have limited life experience yet. This site is for anyone and you can seek whatever you want. Over time those things u seek may change as you experience more. So Koko you stay right where you are. Because you are a great lady admired by many and a friend to alot of us in Perth.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wouldn't mind a start
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RHP User
7 years ago
Part of the furniture Thank you, lovely, and yes, we have a really good social circle here in Perth. Im glad you are happy xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
We just don't go there regardless if it's been approved by the other partner we just don't want to be part of a possible break up for cheating.. It's called respect to all..
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hmm
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RHP User
7 years ago
We r a cpl in bangkok want to meet others couples single ladies. We youn clean and good looking
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RHP User
7 years ago
As a female in an open relationship I actually prefer attached men! I think it’s really kinky and turns me on. Plus the obvious which is lower maintenance!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Any ladies interested in 1on1 neat High Wycombe perth
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RHP User
7 years ago
I totally agree. But can see both sides of the fence being bi myself. It’s hard to find a couple to take you serious because of all of these guys using it to creep on females and couples. It’s disgusting. I really enjoy mm play and mmf bi play. Both with the wife or gf watching and joining in on the fun. But due to the above issues I’ve been struggling on this site. couples and females that are legit and not time wasters. I would love to hear from you! Hopefully this topic helps to fix some of the problems!
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jriste
7 years ago
Interesting comment and point of view, Jo x
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wow! Just looking for some woman who aren’t afraid of something different in sexual intercourse, bongade,gag ball , spanking... and so much more! Live a little life ! Have and enjoy sex in a manner that you can get off so much harder!! Hmmm I promise! Vibrators and dildoes....nice...being tied with hands behind your back taking you by the back of your hair and neck .... forcing my huge cock to the back of your throat...🔥🔥🔥💋soooo hot!!! Or taking your ass and pussy at the same time! Mmmmm
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hmmm can anyone handle some of that hot Americans cock? Well I’m happy to teach and take all comers! Hopefully your living in Ohio or close proximity... anal??? Anyone... anyone...well I’m not HARD TO GET A HOLD OF.... change is the spice of life! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
I recently pulled up a man who stated to me, both him and his wife were in an open marriage and his wife didn't care or want to know about his doings. When I mentioned I would like to meet his wife to get both his and her approval. Poof! Just like magic (the disappearing Act), something David Copperfield would be proud of. 🔮 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ms Foxy, I’m more than happy for a potential playmate to meet and chat to my wife, it’s not an issue for us. Not saying there aren’t guys out there unfortunately that are lying and cheating 😔 And after Shells suggestions I have now added that I’m happy for people to talk to my wife as I need people to be comfortable and know that I’m not full of shit. I really do understand where you are coming from and am just sad that ladies have to wade through the tossers to find a person that fits and is a decent human being. Michael 💋
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RHP User
7 years ago
All I read is Me Me Me. I want to choke and tie up women, I want to get my rocks off on my terms. And...surprise. Ask me as your status.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Im going to put a bit of a spin on this. Im a bi guy that spends 90% of my time as a guy and the rest dressing as a woman. In terms of relationships i have only ever been with women but theyve always known i was bi. Last relationship was 6 years ago and been dressing for 4 years. I have been on most of the dating apps for years as a guy and gotten only 3 really crap flings. Ive tried every angle in trying to find a woman who will accept me for who i am; bit its like hitting your head on a brick wall, you can only do it so often before you're over it cause it hurts too much. Im not bad looking, dont drink or do drugs and very respectful. So i started cross dressing for fun and once i got good at it i was getting asked out on dates at least once a week! But in all honesty theres only one part of a guy im interested in, definitely not dating! So that in itself quickly became a headfuck but one im at peace with now. Guys are always assuming ill see them at the drop of a hat but cause i like to do it properly it means a full body shave, douche, getting dressed, makeup and getting my wig perfect; so when you say youll see them tomorrow theyve changed their minds cause it wasnt instant! Hence i now have a good 20+ questions i ask beforehand and can sort the genuine one's with a bit of accuracy. Ultimately though, id rather be playing with a bi couple or woman as a guy, but in my case they seem to be Unicorns.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'bdsm6619' Hmmm can anyone handle some of that hot Americans cock? Well I’m happy to teach and take all comers! Hopefully your living in Ohio or close proximity... anal??? Anyone... anyone...well I’m not HARD TO GET A HOLD OF.... change is the spice of life! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Willing here.....drop over on the weekend
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
Shall we take the private jet and spice up Bdsms hot American cock?? 😆 Ms Foxy
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Gas her up. Let's go.....
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RHP User
7 years ago
I like to play
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RHP User
7 years ago
We've encountered the same Rdy2play Like Rdy2play, we are our soulmates.We are each others number One.Our reason for playing is not that we don't provide something for the other or that we're somehow lacking in something from each other. For us, It's about the sexual variety. Sex is fun!My wife has sex with different men not for an emotional connection but for the difference and how much fun it is.I love watching my wife having pleasure just as she loves watching me. I won't do the cake/pizza analogy. I'll go gelato. We love gelato. Our favourite flavour is at home, available whenever we want.But we don't order the same flavour gelato everytime we go to the ice cream shop.The RHP shop has a whole mix of flavours that we can try. Sometimes she can even have a double scoop..... My wife would love for me to have access to the same variety of flavours (even double scoops ;) ) that are available to her but we've tried and haven't had much success. I have to question some of the comments regarding greed and what's wrong with your wife etc.This site of all places should be a place of unquestioning openness yet I see Rdy2play being judged even after fully explaining his situation. It baffles us. We've also been contacted by countless "single" men to discover later that they were actually partnered up. Simple solution for us is to judge all single men as taken. It does feel though like blinkers are gladly worn if a man lists himself as single but if a man lists himself as married then it's an automatic...."CHEATER!!!" The point has also been made that single men are readily available which baffles us as we have contacted numerous single men on many occasions when we were available to play only to find everyone busy and unavailable. We're talking about 15 contacts at once of single men that have maintained communication with us over many months.Some of those men were available however it was after they had finished with their boys night, effectively rendering my wife their drunken booty call. How is that respectful? Anyway, we too will keep trying. My lady is "full to the gills" with single men (figuratively speaking) and wants to concentrate on couples and single ladies in the hope that I get access to the smorgasboard that she's been able to have.I have my fingers crossed our luck improves :) We feel your pain Rdy2play! Chris (and Tanya)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes interesting for people to ask for unattached when the intent is to swing with others outside of the immediate relationship. We have had people in relationships and also those 'unattached' and it really made no difference. For us a pleasant reply and some friendly questions are the best way to engage and determine a persons intent and suitability to some joint activities.I would say we do strike a lot of pushy unattached but these are quickly filtered out.No preference for us.
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RHP User
7 years ago
What if one of your wifes many lovers ( full to the gills as you said) sparked an interest and feelings developed? The more flavours you try, the more chance of finding a new favourite...Please dont patronise me and say it wont ever happen. Its fun and exciting but theres also a danger factor
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hello
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RHP User
7 years ago
Koko, it's rather patronising on your part to judge the strength of our relationship though, isn't it? We have been swinging since 2003 with many experiences throughout that time. We have our rules and boundaries which we follow and it has never been an issue, nor will it ever be. As clearly stated in our profile, this is our "sometimes food" only. We're sure it's the same for many couples out there too. We have come across gents who have tried to "turn my lady to the dark side". You can see them coming a mile away with their generic platitudes. But, we are also both second timers at marriage. We are well aware that relationships need constant work for them to continue. If we drift apart for whatever reason, swinging won't be the root cause of it. Whatever was lacking between us will be. The idea that anybody on this site would be the cause of a break up in a marriage we find a little naive. Their relationship was broken before anyone here ever got into the picture. I do agree with the lack of time and availability mentioned by some. I had a girlfriend for a few years that we played with and there was definitely a case of not being there for her when she needed someone, which was distasteful to me too. However that's if you are aiming for a polyamorous relationship, as opposed to just fwb. Fwb is just that, a friend that you occasionally fuck. Not your rock or shoulder to cry on but the booty call when needed. Apologies for the sermon 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
Here's another question. How does the original topic question go when flipped to unattached women? We're fairly certain we have never encountered a profile that specifically excludes attached women but please correct us if we're wrong. I suggest there is a double standard. Or those single men out there just don't care..... Which then begs the question, who is being more respectful to women? The attached men that truthfully state their intentions on this site or the single men that tell you what you want to hear?
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RHP User
7 years ago
We are of the opinion, from what we have found, is that the percentage of attached guys who say they are in an open relationship but actually are cheating is about 99%! We know this because as soon as we ask to speak to his other half they make all sorts of excuses ... then the number of guys unattached who are honest about cheating also don’t interest us. We are ethical and not interested in potentially seriously damaging another person emotionally! Why? Because we both know 1st hand what that looks like and how it feels
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RHP User
7 years ago
Kink_i_fied, Reading your profile it states that you play together and separately so I’m interested in your mans experience with finding playmates given your outlook on attached men. There is a simple and quick way to filter liars and cheaters, ask for their phone number and talk to them and their other half. If they get funny about this then simply move on, I am always willing to talk on the phone as is my wife and when people won’t do this simple thing we just move on as it raises to many red flags for us.
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RHP User
7 years ago
See, I really kinda like guys like you. And I aspire to your/your wife's relationship. Or at least the freedom to have such opportunities if we both wanted. To me, as a single woman, there are a few factors in liking honest non-monogomous men: He is mentally and emotionally stable enough to have worked all this out with his love partner. = smart, open minded and with no baggage. He is clean and safe, usually regularly tested. He knows how to respect a woman, as is usually evidenced by the rules that he brings and adheres to. (such as 'I promised to reply if my wife sends a message') He is quite likely to be sexually experimental, open, and horny... After all, dull missionary once a week guys aren't going to go to the trouble of seeking out flexible sexual arrangements. Yes, I am looking for a relationship, and would love to develop a committed and trusting bond with someone who is available to do so, but that will happen if it happens. In the meantime I have no qualms about attached (ethically) guys.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Rdy2play' There is a simple and quick way to filter liars and cheaters, ask for their phone number and talk to them and their other half. If they get funny about this then simply move on, I am always willing to talk on the phone as is my wife and when people won’t do this simple thing we just move on as it raises to many red flags for us. Very true and we do the same. I guess getting back to how Rdy2plays started the topic, is an attached man who is genuinely allowed to play (and can be verified for by his wife) really any different to a single man that is possibly lying and can't be verified?
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RHP User
7 years ago
No one is saying an attached guy cant be respectful and honest, its about a single womans choice whether or not they want to meet attached guys. I daresay there are some attached men who are more respectful than some of the single guys on here, but its the fact that we all have a preference in who we are looking for.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Too true Koko, freedom of choice is paramount.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Tanglewithme' I'm happy with an attached male, as long as the partner knows.. Not looking for a permanent lover, just an on-going NSA friendship without any hassles or dramas.
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RHP User
7 years ago
As someone who runs Event now and in the past . We are all different as Cpls the things is stick to your boundaries limits . Do not push your partners boundaries as shit will fly. As for single males It is absolutely your choice to pick who you wish and your choice to go ahead with or not. Even to say no stop now as it's not what you wanted and walk away. We have made many good friends in this life style and have not played with them but have respect for each other's boundaries. Have a great time and together.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Happy to meet and help Most importantly have fun A xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes, i find it frustrating as i am in a happily married relationship except our sex desires vary alot. To be rejected sexually alot is detrimental to your mental well being . i have had alot of discussion's with my wife in regards to this and after suggesting numerous options including swinging, her response is she is not interested. Her comment to me was you do what ever you like as long as i dont know about it. Life is short and i love my wife on so many levels and would never leave her but sexually we don't match well. So my journey here which i have met a great couple who i do catch up with on a semi regular thing. So why be judged for being honest and actually enjoying life to the fullest?
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RHP User
7 years ago
This thread blows me away... I just struggle to fathom why so many people lie, especially blokes by the sound of it. What is the point of living in civilisation if we cant be civilised. I can imagine (not excuse in any way) that they are in a relationship with many commitments eg kids and house and are too gutless to address the underlying issues with their partners or themselves. At the end of the day they are polluting their own concious to the point of living a lie.. They end up never happy because nothing is real anymore, its a pity they dont have the decency to be human anymore and consider others. Enough prophetic bs.. Have fun peeps and Respect
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RHP User
7 years ago
This is interesting. I have recently started a solo profile as has my wife after sharing our couples profile for a few years. As expected my wifes profile exploded with dozens of messages and as expected I have only recieved one flirt. However after carefully selecting women to contact and sending a very genuine and thoughtful message I have found my “strike rate” as in actually getting a response or even a date, far better than I expected. Consequently I have managed to meet a few super awesome ladies and have had some great nights. I guess for me it has been focussing on quality and making an effort with the people I do choose to reach out to rather than playing the cut and paste numbers game like most guys do. Just my, very limited experience so far for what its worth. I have not had one single rejection or comment regarding my marital status, a few non responses, 1 thanks but no thanks, but a couple of really great successes.
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Affogato
7 years ago
I have to say in sexless marriage: Shafted by wife... Shafted by RHP members You don’t look right — shafted You lie — shafted Pretty much shafted all over.... This place is full of superficial bullshit... The winning males, if you look good it doesn’t matter what who you are or age. Young males cruise for sex and that’s it
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Bitter much? Seems everyone dodged a bullet then when the real personality shines through during the hard times.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Being attracted to someone and that person being.attractive to others varies on a huge scale. Its not the size of their package that will give them a chance of getting their gear off either. If u come across as knobber it doesnt matter your age looks or anything else. I say act and communicate as you.would if you were looking at that person face to face. As some peoples online manners and behaviours are appauling. Sexual drive mismatch between couples will always change during a long term relationship. If you are miserable and cant seem to communicate or agree to a solution. Then its time to get seriously decide what is important to you. I dont blame men or women who are sexually disatisfied. Whom want to go seek it else where. Its how you go about that is the crucial part
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RHP User
7 years ago
You wish lol
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Affogato
7 years ago
Don’t judge my personality, I’m direct and speak truthfull because no one else does anymore. Nothing gets done in this world when all everyone does is talk around the elephant in the room
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
You are in a sexless marriage. You think RHP is going to help you? Sorry, most (speaking for singles), do not come here to be free counsellers, especially to bitter men in marriages they are not happy in. I for one do not. Another reason I choose to stay away from attached people. The last thing I want to hear is whinge's and distasteful talk about their partners. Red Flag! Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
I will judge people based on my above post, because I can. I'll own that. 😝 Ms Foxy
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Affogato
7 years ago
Yep you’re right, not going to argue. Do I want to be counciled. NO Do I want to winge about my partner. NO Do I love my partner. YES Do I lie. NO Do I think this place is healthy for me. NO Do I think this place frustrates me. YES Do everyone tell the truth on here. NO Am I angry. NO Ms Foxy your points are valid and I respect that, but that is not who I am. I speak from pure frustration and there are a lot of others that would think the same and choose not to put themselves out there, because they are scared of what people think....😃
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hmm I am one of the ones who have specified single guys only. Part of the reason for that is my own tendency towards insecurity but a big part is that unfortunately some men will claim to be in an open relationship when they aren't. But asking for single guys doesn't guarantee anything, last time I was active on this site I kept being stood up on dates by a guy who eventually admitted he was married and just wanted to feel desired again. I mean Jesus, I'm here to stroke some things but egos aren't one of them. Unfortunately, just like filtered photos, we have to take your "status" with a grain of salt.
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RHP User
7 years ago
My play mate is a married man and we been seeing each other for the pass 8 years. I am single. I do feel for his partner sometimes but rarely. Am I cruel? He respects me, he is there when I need him during the day. In 8 years only 3 sleep over, we went to swingers. We are matured pair, his a public figure. We do meet in public places or corporate events. What I am about to say is that respect comes within don’t need to be expressed. Some women here said FWB, kindly try to google. FWB doesn’t meet outside, beach, coffee or movies. That’s couple or being exclusive. FWB means fuck finished and go till later. I do meet man outside of my regular partner. Whom I prefer single male. Simply because I don’t want FWB or NSA. I am feeling randy right now and if he looks according to my needs and why bother ASKING HIS FAMILY TREE? When being a human on the opposite end all you want is S E X. My final say would be. Maturity and Confidence. No point judging and debate. Because there’s no right or wrong, black or white. Life is simple why make it complicated. Hugs and kisses
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RHP User
7 years ago
So long as the other party of the realtionship consents we have no problem. I just wouldn't want to be part of something that was deceitful or hurtful to someone else, in order to have my own fun.
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RHP User
7 years ago
hi any ladies from WA in here
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've been I a loving marriage for 25 years. Unfortunately last year my wife had an accident that made her unable to participate in any sexual activity. I love my wife and would never leave her as this would cause her too much stress that she might not survive. Is it fair that i am know longer considered by women because i am married. I like most normal blokes still crave to feel the warmth and softness of a woman. If you think that this is cheating that's your opinion and may be it is but would you prefer for me to divorce my wife then put myself on the market. I think not why should i hurt someone just so i can be intimate with another woman. Its been 12 months since the accident and i am not a camel and it has been to long between drinks. I'm not looking to jump from one woman to another I'm looking for a friend with benifits some one who may be in a similar situation and needs a friend, it works both ways.
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BungCpl
7 years ago
We all have them, doesn’t make it not fair to those that don’t match them. For us, we choose to not play with just half of a couple, that may change one day if we know both halves of the couple and all parties consent, but when we get messages saying it is just the male half wanting to play it’s a no thanks for us. Sorry if that offends anyone, just our preference
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RHP User
7 years ago
What a selfish scroll. You have been with this woman for 25 years, she had a bad accident and now you are whining because you cant have sex with her in her condition. Yes, I think its fair for other women to think that you are not what they are looking for considering the way you are blaming your wife for your thoughts of cheating. 12 months, oh dear me, how are you surviving???
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
I call absolute BS on "Do I lie. NO". That's a lie right there. Everyone lies and holds secrets. Lies go on a sliding scale and there are different types of lies. White lies, lies of deception, lies to save face etc. You want the truth. There it is, in black and white. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Im not going to judge you based on your situation. No doubt u have been a reasonable husband over the 25yrs. Everyones situation is different and can involve many issues. Like accidents, sickness and depression. Should u feel that u are supporting your wife in every way possible. Then its your choice to have sex with another consenting adult. How u choose to decide and act on it has to be on the terms u can live with. If ur wife is well in mind then maybe u just need to have express your needs and she may well give a response that will make your decision easier.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hey you ya
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RHP User
7 years ago
first things first. sorry to hear about your wife's accident poor thing. now wanting to have a friend with benefits seems like a dick move to your poor Mrs but if she really can't be sexual and give u want u need or want but leaving her isn't a choice for u then I would straight out tell her what u want to do and tell her how u feel and ask her if she is fine with it. then the choice is hers wether to leave u or let u do what u have to. if I was in a situation like that and couldn't have sex or anything like that I would want my husband to be happy even tho I couldn't do that side of things for him. as long as he came home to me every night and he was up front with who and when and not hide anything from me. I would so let him go to other women for it. most girls would understand this and some not so much. I wouldn't want to be a burden on him. but in saying that what happens if u get a regular friend WB and feelings start to form because life is way much easier with her and not with your wife then your left with been depressed and unhappy and not wanting to go home. so at the end of the day maybe seperating or having an open marrage that way no one gets hurt. because lets face it u cant live without sex!
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RHP User
7 years ago
how does that work? don't you get worried or jealous . I know me and my hubby what to experience new things with the same sex because I'm not looking for great sex because still after 7 years our sex life is always mind blowing and addictive and feels like the first time all the time its pretty awesome. I've never had this with any previous relationships. but I can only see us doing this and that is together. I would go bat shit crazy wanting to know stuff. I most probably even stalk his ass. I would be to worried thinking he found someone more hotter then me, which I know wouldn't happen but yeh same room play for me. don't you drift apart or doesn't it affect your relationship? sorry for the questions just really want to hear things from your side of things? and to the chicks wanting single dudes they are either looking for a Mr forever or they don't trust that the Mrs knows. because lets be honest not saying your not at all but about 80% of the males on here lie and it's just because there Mrs had a baby or is going through the life changes. or been married for too long and sex becomes and chore and goes down to 1 day a week. or the hubby has lost his charming touch and just expects it from her with no ground work. its all about the spark and I got that so no need to try and get it from others.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I personally absolutely prefer unattached. There is the notion even on a sub concious level that you don't have to compete with someone else who is actually very special to you. That would play with my mind even though I am here to play. I need my mind blown on some level to want it for my body if that makes sense. I don't want to generalise about how women think but for me I would go into that situation really overthinking it lol. I still want to know that in that moment I am the only woman you are thinking about. You're already having amazing sex and I'm possibly not going to want to compete with that. Great question btw.
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RHP User
7 years ago
My thought process is simple... Chemistry is two way and I am more than confident that most who are rejecting or not considering me are probably doing me a favour as it is rare to find one person to connect with let alone that incredible connection with a couple. I am married, happy for the most part and my situation is no-one else's business, nor do I feel the need to justify it to lesser beings who are not evolved enough to understand me. If others want to judge that, that is actually their problem and that tells me that they are not somebody I would connect with already. C'est la Vie if you like... I believe in Serendipity... I have spent many years online even in the US long before the internet was established in Australia and I have found that people portray mostly untrue images of themselves making it even harder to find a good match via the internet... I am open minded and will go with the flow, but up until now, I have never met a couple and of all the single women, I have only moved to intimacy with one, who is also married, who I am still seeing. It is laughable to me that people draw lines on moral ground when they are already acting beyond the boundaries set by society by entering into a swinging arrangement. I have a more Latin approach to sex and do not follow moral rules set by society when it comes to who I share my body with and since when is giving another pleasure wrong? I am not saying I am right, but I am not losing sleep over rejection of those that i would based on probability most likely reject as well... If the mind is already in the wrong space, why lose sleep about it?
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RHP User
7 years ago
But typical. I myself have evolved sufficiently to be able to choose who I spend time with. If I choose to see a man who is free from ties then thats my perogative. That comment has a " lashing out at women because they dont understand me " undertone. Most, (not all), women in the scene are quite capable of making a choice without making them any lesser a being than anyone else. Deal with it.
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BlueDMB
7 years ago
This thread has been a very informative read for me. Thanks to everyone for sharing their opinions. It seems that the odds are definitely against guys like the OP (and probably myself) finding the right people for the types of activities we’d prefer. From my perspective, the best I can do is to always be respectful and honest with all parties and then trust that suitable people will either respectfully decline my messages or, hopefully, respectfully engage in further contact to get to know me a little better. Everyone is entitled to their feelings, fantasies and preferences. I strongly believe that everyone is also entitled to seek out the sex life that they desire. When your life partner (in my case my wife of 19 yrs) also shares and supports this view, taking initial steps to turn fantasies in reality (such as joining RHP) becomes an open, honest and exciting process rather than a frustrating and deceitful one. Ultimately, RHP may not be place for me to meet suitable partners, but that’ll be no one’s fault and no reason for me to become judgemental towards others. Enjoy the weekend.
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RHP User
7 years ago
It doesn’t matter how strong your love is for your partners someone will get hurt cause there’s always something ware someone wants more and more and before you know it there not telling you and then there falling in love with someone else.. I think if you can sleep with somebody else other than the one your married to then you don’t really love that person that’s my motto
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think you are over thinking it, some people like attached some single and most dont care. Its the same as any preference, some people will bend their rules but if they dont thats their prerogative. Move onto the next interesting lady or profile.
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JT_team
7 years ago
Interesting thread! Been on rhp on and off for 18 months and finally getting in to the forums. Like any community forum, always fascinating to read topics and people's opinions. We're finally getting active on the scene this year and learning what does and doesn't work for us and personally definitely prefer unattached guys. Just because we're still in the discovery phase, we want to be selfish and have an easily available guy timing wise. The few attached guys we've spoken to are lovely and so open, but there's a bit of a power play in terms of availability and like someone stated, just too much drama for our needs.
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JT_team
7 years ago
Interesting thread! Been on rhp on and off for 18 months and finally getting in to the forums. Like any community forum, always fascinating to read topics and people's opinions. We're finally getting active on the scene this year and learning what does and doesn't work for us and personally definitely prefer unattached guys. Just because we're still in the discovery phase, we want to be selfish and have an easily available guy timing wise. The few attached guys we've spoken to are lovely and so open, but there's a bit of a power play in terms of availability and like someone stated, just too much drama for our needs.
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