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Danger Danger Beware

May 19 2014

Yes we have all heard the stories and dangers of women meeting men and some outcomes can be very unsavory and down right dangerous ending in abuse or stalking intimidating behaviour !! Well remember ladies and gentlemen this is not only a womans problem with men ?? I have had a lovely phone stalker that i miss dearly ! But may i share with you my latest terrifying event ! It all started not more than a week ago , on a seemingly safe internet dating site , vanilla some may say ,! Now on this site i have quite a different profile one that i did think worked quite well at filtering what i did not want !! Nothings perfect ! A couple of conversations in and i work on the motto of meeting asap as much as a person can be enjoyed when messaging in real life face to face meeting is the only way to truly know if you can continue . So as usual i offer a coffee , lunch , whatever the woman feels comfortable with so lunch it is . 18/5/2014 time of arrival 12:36 pm as usual i am late ! Orders beer walks outside music two piece band place is alive and vibrant, i head for a corner table one of only two or three choices ! Minutes later i notice a head that with a similar hair cut and colour must be my date , move towards her and instantly i feel no initial attraction ! And yes disappointing but its the name of the game , but we chat and make small talk and well i offered lunch so i am not going to walk out and say sorry not interested i purchase lunch for us both which was delicious i mite add . Another beer and i decide to let it be known my intentions and feelings ??? Well miss seriously i think you can do a lot better than me , as i do not feel i can offer you what you desire or want at this stage of my life . I did of course sense some dynamic changes in the mood at the time and miss was quite upset , i took her hand and told her not to worry this was her first date for a while and she would indeed find the man that she so desires . We leave the premises she thanks me for being honest and we depart . Well my oh my i have met with rejection on many occasions and rejected on many occasions but what followed was quite perplexing indeed ,miss being upset was in absolute denial and could not accept the fact i felt no attraction to her she abused me saying i was inhumane and not fair ! I did not even try to get to know her ! I am a fool i could of had anything ! I am i lier because im just not into her ! My last comment before i had to stop this barrage was . I did not have feeling for you like you wanted me to did you want a man that feels nothing fill you of fake feelings so you could feel full ?? Well it got so bad i had to turn my phone off and when i turned it back on later that night i am the hunted . Now miss evil is going to hunt me down ring my work brake me into two abuse me threaten me till she is satisfied i am fucked !!!!!!! For look at what i have done i have pissed her off now and i had better look out cause the beast is hunting men !!!! Men beware of the beast that prowls in the hills where the apples grow ????????? - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

12 years ago

Just being here,inviting people into your home,meeting them in hotels....the list goes on....it is simple,the only way to not encourage ,enable stalkers is to live in a cave.....even then there are no guarantees.....because it is about the state of mind of he or she who stalks.....let us not be po faced and hypocrical about this Q

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RHP User

12 years ago

Hi Ocean, I've not spoken to you online, directly or read anything of yours in here that has given me any impression, as I'm not long on here... But regardless of what you said, even if she took it wrongly or was insulted, there is no room or excuse for anyone, male or female to make a person feel as though they are in danger!!! Unfortunately, I've been threatened and called names (only once) by a lady on a "traditional dating site", simply because I had a problem with her saying she was falling in love with me after talking for 2 weeks online and meeting once for coffee. I told her I wasn't that quick a mover when it came to any kind of relationship and I certainly wouldn't be entertaining anything other than a further date, to find out more and to get to know her better. I was told I was a C__T and I had no right to 'lead her on'... LOL. With a cup of coffee??? What???I was also apparently missing out on the only woman that would ever be able to replace my dead wife... (I am serious... She said that!!!). Unfortunately some ladies come out of abuse in a relationship (in this case a very bad marriage involving all three types of abuse (physical, emotional and psychological) with a hell of a lot of anger and they can be very 'warped' and assumptions that every man is the same as the mongrel who hurt her. Fortunately, she had little info on me and couldn't do anything but send me text messages... But I did have to change my mobile number. I have never been anything but completely understanding, gentle and mindful of a lady's feelings when I've expressed either the fact I'm not ready to go forward from coffee, or I have a problem with how their expectations have gotten a little out of hand (i.e. falling in love with someone you've met once). Insulting the memory of my wife and using her as a means to describe what this woman claims she can be to me, is so awful to me that I would have been well justified to have treated her like a pariah, but I was still understanding and through text messaging, tried to settle her down and explain that I (and most people) need a little more time before we go near the big "L" word... But to no avail. I'm sorry for anyone who has to go through this sort of thing. It's only been once in over 8 years online, but still, once to often... Thank you

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RHP User

12 years ago

...are the same thing, except one is stationary.

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RHP User

12 years ago

But I have to say I think im happy single lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

12 years ago

not condoning it. but you shouldnt be so HHHHOOOOTTTT

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RHP User

11 years ago

And here I am as a newbie to this thinking I might meet some fun people along the way and now you have all scared the pants off me. As with all that life throws at you there are always risks involved, but stalking I would feel as being one of the risks that I don't require in my life at any stage. Thanks "Big O" for starting this threat to make newbie's like myself aware of the big bad world out there. It also makes one think twice about how much information we share with others. Think I might just knock the top off myself today.LOL

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