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Do older woman really like younger men?
January 19 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm 31 now and when i was about 20-25 i had fuck buddies who ranged from 30 to 42...lots of older chicks love the free and easy abandon of a younger dude but you have to have some substance of conversation there be able to talk about anything and everything...but then again she could just think "fuck this boy is hot...great body looks good....i want him" thats all she has thought you just have to sit there and hopefully don't say anything stupid lol... Have fun with it though and this is a great place to meet people and experience different things...the forum and the chat rooms :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes, it is no secret that I am hot for younger boys! < Please do not take offence to this...But the message you sent me a couple of weeks ago...Is not ever going to get you an older woman! All you talked about was fucking an older woman and how you did with one before that you gave "seconds" of pleasure to! Women look for more than a few seconds! > Most importantly, you did not stand out from the crowd. You gave no indication that you even read my profile (which I know 100% that you didn't)! You need to personalise every message, not send the same message to all the women. How you speak to a woman in her 40's is different to how you would speak to someone your age! We have heard all the pickup lines, we have received messages like yours about 20 times a week, we KNOW what we want. > You need to find an older woman that you are attracted to, not just any one! The last time I slept with a 21 year old was about 2 years ago. He walked up to me in a Shopping Centre and asked me if I wanted a coffee with him. It is all in the approach.... < Good luck with it all and think about your approach... xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
You are way younger than my children. Just a baby to me. Sorry, not into teaching babies love lessons, I want a man who knows exactly what to do.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Younger for me means 28 to 32 ish... sorry angel
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RHP User
15 years ago
im not into any one that is old enough to date my kids...so sorry sweet thing your out with me too but there is a cougar search on RHP so that might help you a little bit good luck roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
C'mon. Where's the modern day Misses Robinson! :p Even I like to root older women 20 years my senior!! Wooohoo!HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Older women are defenetly attracted to younger guys, in fact I mainly go out with older girls and im actually just out of a 5 years relationship with a girl 10years older than me and I think is becouse I feel that I can relate better with them on a intellectual level and I make them feel the same way! but beware that if you want to attract "older" women you will have to do a hell of a lot more than just flex your muscles!!!! You will have to stimulate their brain, make them feel special (becouse they are) otherwise you will never go past the first date, if you are lucky to get one!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey all, I am proof that an older women can love a younger man and visa versa. There are 3 of us and we have lived together for over 2 years now. My hubby Bryan and my boyfriend John, John is 33 , I am 46 and Bryan is 59. We get on very well and love each other to death. There is no bi contact between the guys and it all just works. John is an amazing guy, he is so special and adhoring, without him we would all feel in complete now. I love him so much and he loves me, I also love Bryan so much and he is madly in love with me. So you see i have both ends of the scale. life is great, i am so happy and so are they . It works, we dont know how, but it does. And might i say.....i meet John on here on redhotpie so thanks to redhotpie for showing us that there is so much more out there and they do a wonderful job of bringing people together. I am not the only success story there are heaps on here that we know that have found their soul mates on here and are now married or at least in a very strong relationship. Leesa
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RHP User
15 years ago
Generally stick to 5 years either side of my age.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Me thinks every woman should take a young guy at least once as a service to the young inexperienced of the world.. Basicly, he's looking to be shown the ropes by a experienced woman and not a girl. Lets face it.. the energy level would be high and he will only last about 2 - 5 minutes before he shoots anyway... I had the same fantasy when I was that age, and regret it never happened.. Mr JJ
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RHP User
15 years ago
But I'm of the same opinion as the other fine ladies above me. You are very young and experience does have it's merits.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love older women someone who knows what she wants where she is and where she is going in life problem is I am far too shy to approach them. Used to find it easier when I was in my earlier twenties to pick up women in their 40' and early 50's but as I get closer to 30 I feel Im in that age bracket where Im too old for the ones that like em young and too young for those who like just a bit younger.
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RHP User
15 years ago
as long as you were born in the 80's, you're ok. I wont shag guys born in the 90's, thats the same age as my kids. Too trippy. But those in thier 20's are more enthusuastic, more willing to try things, and haven't been taught by the missus just one way to have sex - which is usually HER preferred way. Some of my best fun sex has been with a younger guy :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love young Men! Im a young 47 for me mid 30's I have son older than u! sweetheart! Most Woman that have Adult children wont go near or under there AGE Hope this helps u understand! U look fine! U will find someone! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I like younger, in fact I prefer men around 5 years younger and would do 10 years younger if the guys "mature" but early 20s is just too young for me. I just can't get my head around it and that over rules how long a younger guy can last and how many times he can cum. I'd prefer maturity and intellect (and skill) over young. Hugs Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's true I have a special affection/fetish for younger men.................depends on the individual however, I am picky.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I broke my drought last night with a 26 year old....HOT HOT HOT!! < I also agree with MrJJ...we should all do our part for the women of tomorrow and sleep with a younger guy at least once! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I broke my drought last night with a 26 year old....HOT HOT HOT!! <Go girl! Bet you're smiling a very satisfied smile today
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RHP User
15 years ago
sorry but i like my guys and girls older then me as they are more mature and know what they want i was in a relationship with a older guy around 45 and it was great, whilst my first boy friend was my age and was dick head didnt know what he wanted but i guess it is not about the age it means nothing to me it is the way the person holds themselfs.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm in the same boat as Dan aswell. Only difference is that i am 31 and not 21. I have an obsession to be with an older woman, but also have not had the chance to fill that void yet. No pun intended there!! Personally, i find that alot of women talk about it (not you girls here, you obviously go for what you want) but in reality not many actually do want to follow through with anything. It seems to be the thrill of the chase for them but when it comes down to it they back off. Shame really as is it would no doubt be good for both of us ;) Shame Caroline Springs is not near Sydney...hahaaa
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RHP User
15 years ago
i only go for ladies 30+ or very mature mentally and I can say I have had a lot of success. from what I've observed women don't really care about your age its more about how old you are mentally (ie conversational skills, conversational topics, etc). also to be noticeable you will have to stand out from the crowd (be intriguing) in the way you communicate with the ladies, don't be like every other Tom, Dick & Harry who can barely think of something interesting to say. to have more success with older ladies you'll have to know what they are looking for - most but not all of the ladies write a lot of stuff on their profiles about what they are looking for but that's only the half of it. I suggest you hang out more with the older crowds so you learn more about older women. good luck mate
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RHP User
15 years ago
YEP
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RHP User
15 years ago
thanks for your in put guys, maybe my approach is wrong, i'll work on that haha Hopefully will eventually get there!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've spoken to a lot of women in their mid to late 40's over the last couple years and the vast vast majority of them like the idea of a young man to bed and most of them have tried it.... And almost every one of them has been greatly disapointed in the final result.. To paraphrase, " They look hot, go like a machine...but are as boring as dirt" is a fairly common comment. As some of the older ladies have already said, " We've heard it all before" which is something young blokes can't quite seem to grasp. Guys... ripped abbs, a 9" piston, cool sunnys and an encyclepeadic knowledge ov the V8's is just not enough...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Young guys are perfect for what I'm looking for, no commitment fun times, but have realised that under 26 is to young, (there are exceptions of course). Like "Funloving" said speak to a mature woman differently than you would a woman your own age, we arnt interested in your past conquests & how long you can go for etc. & when you text plz spell words, if we have to decipher to much we quickly lose interest. Be respectful, read our profile properly & in the initial message try to make us take notice. (Wow your hot want to lick you all over) doesnt work & leave a name with the message, makes us feel like your more genuineVix
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RHP User
15 years ago
trouble with a fantasy is you can get tied up with loving "the idea" too much without actually putting too much thought into how you are going to go about it. little bit of reasearch doesnt go astray, find what women are seeking younger and what they REALLY want. I like the idea of being with an older woman, depending on who it may be. my oldest is perhaps 6 years but that was some time ago also. I don't think you have to go so far to pretend to be a rogue scholar or anything like that. Best thing is to lay off the bullshit, ease back on the sleaze (not saying you do that however, talking general) and be yourself. She's either going to like what you have to offer or she isnt. Really no different to any other woman no matter the age. Older women respect maturity but if you are serious about what you want then that maturity will just naturally come out because you are focussed to the task.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey Arkengel78, hope that was a typo...or perhaps being a rogue scholar is of more use and better value than being a rhodes scholar
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RHP User
15 years ago
Looks like Tahlea might be the exception to the rule. All you young blokes....that term... "make hay while the sun shines".....do that...often.Because when you get to your mid/late forties its gunna be the big drought......forever an ever an ever an ever. Cast off to the equivalent of what ever that child care centre was called in Toy Story 3 !What will it be like by the time i get to Mookas age.....hehehe just kiddin mate....lolCheers Nev.....hiding from the Corridor guards
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'rabbit62' I've spoken to a lot of women in their mid to late 40's over the last couple years and the vast vast majority of them like the idea of a young man to bed and most of them have tried it.... And almost every one of them has been greatly disapointed in the final result.. To paraphrase, " They look hot, go like a machine...but are as boring as dirt" is a fairly common comment. As some of the older ladies have already said, " We've heard it all before" which is something young blokes can't quite seem to grasp. Guys... ripped abbs, a 9" piston, cool sunnys and an encyclepeadic knowledge ov the V8's is just not enough... Welcome to the ooze pond Mr Rabbit You have it in a nutshell... The problem I have with younger guys, extensively younger guys is we are from different eras...Ok the sex is gr8 well sometimes! and you can show the way and they love that! although in conversation (which does it for me!) lacks essence. This I mean by when I talk about certain things, they are unable to relate...purely because of the age difference. I personally need to relate before anything goes on! I have no regrets being with the younger guys and they were hot! Funny I met a 21 yo when I was in my late 30s...we played thumbs you know the thumb in the ring thing...oh this is sounding bad although pple will get what I am saying..It was the biggest turn on for me and him....but that was that! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Pleasure has no bound, age is just a number, hope to still be going strong when i'm old. WooHoo turning 30 in Feb this year...Dirty Thirty's..lol either way young or old, pleasure is pleasure.
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RHP User
15 years ago
It looks like the Oedipus Complex (google it boys) is alive and well on RHP.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Not homework already Mistress T. Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
Good on you gurl.. Good to see you done your bit for humanity.. Trust me' that 26 year old will remember you forever... Lucky bugger... hahahaha
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RHP User
15 years ago
Like Funloving, I also received a msg from you, and some constructive criticism only , not to hurt your feelings...is Often that inital contact will be your foot in the mental door of an older woman, so make it count the first time, don't send the same msg to all of the women that pique your interest, Be natural and open without giving away the whole fruit basket, Perhaps instead of telling them that its always been your fantasy , that instead you find an older/more experienced woman incredibly attractive etc. or along those lines anyway Because to be truthful my first thought with that is.....oh fark!! here we go...whats in it for me then? I have to be the fantasy? sheeet I was hoping to cum...lol No reason for your fantasy not to be a reality down the line with a few adjustments to the approach. stimulate her mind before her body, have a think about what she would want to hear from an eager young buck such as yourself Best of luck xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice'Good on you gurl.. Good to see you done your bit for humanity.. Trust me' that 26 year old will remember you forever... Lucky bugger... hahahaha He didn't have to remember me for too long...he came back for seconds! Damn..I forgot how good I was.....Hahahaha! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I will have to get out my cane I think. Now heads down and concentrate please. Oedipus killed his father then married his mother Jocasta. Sigmund Freud used this as a basis for one of his psychoanalytical theories. Basically it is the idea that at some time in their lives all boys want to get their father out of the way and have relations with their mothers. Not sure how accurate Freud was but it seems to have some basis judging by the number of relatively young men who want to have sex with older women. I am still researching the term for when a young woman wants to be with a much older man. Can anyone enlighten me?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Stalky was talking about that the other day, and from memory it was Electra. but i could be wrong/confused or just plain senile! Am sure someone will correct me.Cheers Nev.......If all female teachers dressed like that and sat on their desks like you.....i think you could guarantee you would have our full attention.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'rabbit62' I've spoken to a lot of women in their mid to late 40's over the last couple years and the vast vast majority of them like the idea of a young man to bed and most of them have tried it.... And almost every one of them has been greatly disapointed in the final result.. To paraphrase, " They look hot, go like a machine...but are as boring as dirt" is a fairly common comment. As some of the older ladies have already said, " We've heard it all before" which is something young blokes can't quite seem to grasp. Guys... ripped abbs, a 9" piston, cool sunnys and an encyclepeadic knowledge ov the V8's is just not enough... Wow way to over generalise...So you are suggesting that age = IQ and personality??? That is really insular. I met my R when I was 30 and he was just 22, and we hit it off staright away- I was doing my doctorate and he was doing his masters and he was by far the most intellectual and interesting person that I have ever met- And being 22 the sex was amazing too, much more firey and lively than men the same age as me or older....and yes I guess married and more than 5 years on shows that age differences can work!
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RHP User
15 years ago
No If I could get Trouserwosers address... I could put a smile on both of our faces ... mmm mmm mmmmm ;-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
No If I could get Trouserwosers address... I could put a smile on both of our faces ... mmm mmm mmmmm ;-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
No If I could get Trouserwosers address... I could put a smile on both of our faces ... mmm mmm mmmmm ;-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Young guys can be exciting and what they lack in finesse can often be made up for in size and stamina. Variety is the spice of life !!!!!! My two regular lovers however are both around my age . You can,t beat experience
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'trouserwowser' I'm in the same boat as Dan aswell. Only difference is that i am 31 and not 21. I have an obsession to be with an older woman, but also have not had the chance to fill that void yet. No pun intended there!! Personally, i find that alot of women talk about it (not you girls here, you obviously go for what you want) but in reality not many actually do want to follow through with anything. It seems to be the thrill of the chase for them but when it comes down to it they back off. Shame really as is it would no doubt be good for both of us ;) Shame Caroline Springs is not near Sydney...hahaaa Well, I am not that far from the Airport! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
i loved your profile but your forum on how to talk to older women was really stupid because all your talkin bout was tittie fukkn n head of my cock doin something n learnin how to squirt which i adore cause im a squirter fan hehehe in your profile but you r a attractive very woman im matthew
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RHP User
15 years ago
Funloving....why didn't you brake your drought with me??? Damn it! ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
i think it has been said quite well above but its definitely your approach that counts. I have always had an interest in and have dated women older then me and maintained sexual partners up to late 30's when i was your age (so not so long ago). If your well read and aware of the world, you can talk with anyone on equal footing. Unfortunately for you most older women are not looking just for sex with someone they know to be inexperienced, they have had that already....you need to be able to stimulate on all levels, especially intellectually, thats always put me on equal footing with my partners regardless of age and quite frankly makes the sexual side of things much more enjoyable for all....good luck mate :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Have to say I'm a fan of the younger man, obviously. I think this is the case because a young man who shows some maturity is so much more appealing than an older man who shows none, or at least imo. Also my experience of younger guys is they want desperately to prove themselves, so they keep going for hours until u beg them to stop, and they watch u closely for every twitch and moan to be sure they're pleasing u. Sometimes older guys think they have it all down and arent interested in being told otherwise. And young guys are fun! They laugh with you and are up for anything! But I also enjoy guys my age, an older too, but that's for another thread ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
there is a big learning curve and lots of competition, so refine your game ("games" going to get me in trouble lol,, but if it's fun it's a game,, don't take it to seriously) don't spam, read the profile! And make your first email relevant to that person. And for god sakes make it interesting, it's got a stand out. Get use to rejection.. And move on, your not going to be every ones cup of tea so to speak.. Just as not everyone will be yours,,, and remember your talking to real people with lives,, not just profiles on a page... Having said that,, you might get lucky and just happen acros some one that needs a quick toy boy fuck,, but I'd think you'd have beter luck just going to a club and flirting,, flirting flirting,, Good luck and don't give up. steve
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RHP User
15 years ago
Having just spent an hour and a half on the phone with a beautiful 46 year old woman, planning our meeting on Saturday and just enjoying conversing on the phone, I'm feeling pretty good about the future ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
You would be amazed at how many young guys have messaged/winked me!And I'm just an old Trannie!Have a strict rule though of no one below 40. I find that older guys know how to take "instructions" better and I really don't want young guys banging away back there as they can do some damage.xxxToni
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RHP User
15 years ago
younger guys, MMMMMMMMMM as long as you have stamina and are willing to learn. 20+ years younger no worries
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RHP User
15 years ago
Please kids.... leave a couple for us older guys ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
YES... YES... OOOOOOH GOD YES!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
When it comes to chemistry ( some call it lust ) age has no barrier.. Isn't it what rocks your boat that counts.. ? xFunlovingx... back for seconds' huh .. Hmmm well, the first must have been worth the experiment... hehehehe
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes i love younger men ....wouldnt even look at men my own age , they all look sooo old . Who wouldnt want a hot young body ...as opposed to an old one. But have to be over 30yrs.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Young guys can be exciting and often bring size and stamina to the bedroom and some even have very good technique. Older guys are often more sensual and considerate lovers and can even make a decent breakfast in the morning !!! I say try them based on your attraction to them regardless of age ,and the good ones will usually get a "please cum again"
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RHP User
15 years ago
Purposely not raising my hand in class now...but Nev is right is oeidpus for the guys and electra for the girls... . Mmmm Mistress T and a cane... . Back on topic though...I have been known to play with guys as young as 19 and up to 48 - at both ends of the spectrum they are exceptions to the rule..it is all about approach...polite, articulate, well devloped arguments to sway me and you MIGHT get lucky . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
"im googling directions to Mona Vale as I type ... No If I could get Trouserwosers address... I could put a smile on both of our faces ... mmm mmm mmmmm ;-) " Ahh...Sassy...........Mona Vale isn't that far up the road.......hahahaha. I bet you could put a smile on my face in more ways than one.
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RHP User
15 years ago
i would love to hang out with a more mature woman. I have had awesome experiences in the past. I hope one in this thread spots me and grabs me off the shelf hehe
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RHP User
15 years ago
The Electra Complex is similar to the Oedipus Complex but with the girl attaching to her father. Thanks Nev and Stalky. Love learning something new.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'michnruss' Quoting 'rabbit62' I've spoken to a lot of women in their mid to late 40's over the last couple years and the vast vast majority of them like the idea of a young man to bed and most of them have tried it.... And almost every one of them has been greatly disapointed in the final result.. To paraphrase, " They look hot, go like a machine...but are as boring as dirt" is a fairly common comment. As some of the older ladies have already said, " We've heard it all before" which is something young blokes can't quite seem to grasp. Guys... ripped abbs, a 9" piston, cool sunnys and an encyclepeadic knowledge ov the V8's is just not enough... Wow way to over generalise...So you are suggesting that age = IQ and personality??? That is really insular. I met my R when I was 30 and he was just 22, and we hit it off staright away- I was doing my doctorate and he was doing his masters and he was by far the most intellectual and interesting person that I have ever met- And being 22 the sex was amazing too, much more firey and lively than men the same age as me or older....and yes I guess married and more than 5 years on shows that age differences can work! Of course it's a generalisation, I'm sure there are loads of older woman that are happy with their young studs and loads of young guys that can actualy walk and chew gum....just as the opposite would be true. I can only go on what I've been told and it still stands, that most of the older woman that I've spoken to are intially excited , but in the end are disapointed because it's about more than "going all night" and sadly a lot of young blokes don't seem to get it. Which is good for us old farts who can hold a conversation, empathise with their life experiances, but sadly can only go half the night. The age is not the problem it's the attitude.
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RHP User
15 years ago
there is the younger guy and then there is the 'way too' younger guy - i am nearly 51 - anything under 32(ish) is pushing it for me. seems too much of an age gap makes it all a bit weird ( have sons in mid 20's ). there has to be some experience ( life and sex ) to make the meeting worth while....have never found that combination with the 'way too' guys.
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RHP User
15 years ago
seriously older women are a massive turn on for me and it only makes me wont to last longer so that she can have even more pleasure from the experience of a younger bloke
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE' Quoting 'rabbit62' I've spoken to a lot of women in their mid to late 40's over the last couple years and the vast vast majority of them like the idea of a young man to bed and most of them have tried it.... And almost every one of them has been greatly disapointed in the final result.. To paraphrase, " They look hot, go like a machine...but are as boring as dirt" is a fairly common comment. As some of the older ladies have already said, " We've heard it all before" which is something young blokes can't quite seem to grasp. Guys... ripped abbs, a 9" piston, cool sunnys and an encyclepeadic knowledge ov the V8's is just not enough... I have never been disappointed by younger men but it's all in the choosing. Perhaps your lady friends weren't careful about their choice because i have had nothing but fabulous experience with younger men. Age has nothing at all to do with how good a lover you are. I have had many a 32 year old lover FAR outstrip his 42 year old counterpart. Mind you i have been very fortunate with older lovers too so i'm a lucky gal MRSSWEETIPIE, You may be right about the choice thing, but the weight of numbers would suggest the odds are stacked against that. And some of lady friends have had fantastic experiances with younger lovers, but as a general proposition the end up being dissapointed with the " whole package" and getting " fucked like a machine" all night just doesn't cut it. I think that while age is not the only determening factor, it is a significant one. With age comes experiance, in all parts of your life, and it's the whole of life experiance that makes the difference.
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RHP User
15 years ago
i prefer older women because you dont get the run around and no last minute cancellations like the younger girls who dont know what they want whereas the older ladies know what they want and how they want it. The conversation is always better because they have experienced life and there not as shy and the the chat normally keeps flowing and theres no awkward silences because the younger girl has stage fright. The sex with older women is always amazing because they have had plenty of experience and want to share there experience and there always turned on by the fact they have a younger harder body thrusting them. No one needs to be popping any blue bills either, straight to it no waiting around hahaXfunlovingx im sure your as great in bed as your personality seems to be, drink sometime..? xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'jamesb008'i prefer older women because you dont get the run around and no last minute cancellations like the younger girls who dont know what they want whereas the older ladies know what they want and how they want it. The conversation is always better because they have experienced life and there not as shy and the the chat normally keeps flowing and theres no awkward silences because the younger girl has stage fright. The sex with older women is always amazing because they have had plenty of experience and want to share there experience and there always turned on by the fact they have a younger harder body thrusting them. No one needs to be popping any blue bills either, straight to it no waiting around hahaXfunlovingx im sure your as great in bed as your personality seems to be, drink sometime..? xx I did ask for your reasoning in wanting older women when I replied to your message. But, this is good enough! < I would love that drink...and mmmm hopefully so much more! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'jackhammer45'Please kids.... leave a couple for us older guys ;) id take you over some young hottie any day Jackhammer roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
My preference is for a man in my age bracket...never had a fantasy for a younger man.....the one i have is awesome tho............. he is 10 yrs my junior which sees him out of his 20s.................................................... My son and his mates already discovered Im a swinger..............meeting one of them on a date would just be mortifying....sorry ya just gotta be over 35 at the very least lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
hey Tah, im all about older woman but u can tell u know how to handle yourself so i would make an exception
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RHP User
15 years ago
u on a drought by any chance?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hello Dan. I have to agree with everything xFunlovingx said about younger men. I love their bodies but I am not crazy about the way they treat older women. As xFunlovingx says - you have to be able to converse and make a woman feel special. You also need to treat them with dignity and respect. We have heard all the pick up lines and are looking for something different. Messages such as, 'I want some fuck fun now!' are not going to endear you to many women but especially not to an older woman. You need to know how to string a sentence together and have some charm and confidence along the way. It's a lot to ask isn't it? Some women LOVE to teach young men about sex but I'm not one of them as I find it BORING. The cougar link is possibly your best option Dan and good luck in your search for a compatible cougar sweetie!
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RHP User
15 years ago
if you're going to reference Shakespearean psychological concepts, don't do it under a misspelt hail of faux-intellectualism. for the record, the 'Oedipal Complex' is *not* relevant here; it is a very different thing to want to lie down with your mother than lie down with a woman who is simply older than you. for the record, i'm 26, male, and most of you older women would bore the shit out of *me* in conversation. door swings both ways on occasion, so keep that in mind before you go off swinging the unassailable maturity sword at every poor bloke in his early-to-mid 20's. you never know.
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RHP User
15 years ago
i was being very general - there is always the exception to the rule xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
How do I apply for my profile to go on the Cougar List? xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
You are already boreing the shit outta me.. Thank god you are the odd one out.. You know what you can do with your shakspearean bullshit.. For god sake ... grow up ... maybe you should introduced yourself to that unassailable maturity sword sometime... FFS Geez hate a smartarse....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Justgoodfunxxx'Older women are defenetly attracted to younger guys, in fact I mainly go out with older girls and im actually just out of a 5 years relationship with a girl 10years older than me and I think is becouse I feel that I can relate better with them on a intellectual level and I make them feel the same way! but beware that if you want to attract "older" women you will have to do a hell of a lot more than just flex your muscles!!!! You will have to stimulate their brain, make them feel special (becouse they are) otherwise you will never go past the first date, if you are lucky to get one!!! ... and less of the thoughtless, one-liner waste of messages will see me dip my toes into a younger market. Until then, no, I personally am not attracted to a younger man, which for me, is someone in their 20s. I can see merit in their good points, their eagerness to please, etc etc, but I'm attracted to a male's brain first and foremost and not his youth.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've been both contacted first by older women and have contacted them first, so yes older women do like younger men. It's not always that you need to be able to hold a good conversation and be quite intellectual to be able to get with an older woman. I've met some who are terrible at holding a conversation and being able to construct decent sentences and there are others who are the complete opposite. What I'm saying is with regards to that age, whilst it is a factor to a degree its not always the be all and end all, personally I believe attraction is a lot more important than age.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Justgoodfunxxx'Older women are defenetly attracted to younger guys, in fact I mainly go out with older girls and im actually just out of a 5 years relationship with a girl 10years older than me and I think is becouse I feel that I can relate better with them on a intellectual level and I make them feel the same way! but beware that if you want to attract "older" women you will have to do a hell of a lot more than just flex your muscles!!!! You will have to stimulate their brain, make them feel special (becouse they are) otherwise you will never go past the first date, if you are lucky to get one!!! yeah like not repling to mail...that will get an older woman thinking ...NOT roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' Like Funloving, I also received a msg from you, and some constructive criticism only , not to hurt your feelings...is Often that inital contact will be your foot in the mental door of an older woman, so make it count the first time, don't send the same msg to all of the women that pique your interest, Be natural and open without giving away the whole fruit basket, Perhaps instead of telling them that its always been your fantasy , that instead you find an older/more experienced woman incredibly attractive etc. or along those lines anyway Because to be truthful my first thought with that is.....oh fark!! here we go...whats in it for me then? I have to be the fantasy? sheeet I was hoping to cum...lol No reason for your fantasy not to be a reality down the line with a few adjustments to the approach. stimulate her mind before her body, have a think about what she would want to hear from an eager young buck such as yourself Best of luck xx Couldnt agree more! another nutshell xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
funlovin has jumped ship, we have lost another one to the boi's.... Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
i've ever gone out with one girl younger than me. it was shit. older women are far better at sex and conversation. and they can be far more sexy
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RHP User
15 years ago
justjuice, clearly you didn't understand a shitting word i said. that's pretty embarrassing... at your age :D
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RHP User
15 years ago
I really enjoy younger men. I find them easy going and uncomplicated in their 20's and 30's and more experienced in their 40's. I love role play and fantasies so I'm satisfied well with willing partners. Age is really just a number as its more about the person and a connection and yes I do agree too young can just be too young. Born2bwyld
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'CarlosSpicyWienr' funlovin has jumped ship, we have lost another one to the boi's.... Cheers Nev Boys Ahoyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I believe the term you are looking for is the Electra Complex. It is analogous to the Oedipus Complex. Apologies if this has already been answered And there I have it, my first forum posting, hope it's been a valid contribution :S Quoting 'MistressT'. I am still researching the term for when a young woman wants to be with a much older man. Can anyone enlighten me?
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RHP User
15 years ago
i am 24 yrs old and love older woman all older woman in melbourne victoria that want to have fun im your guy fill free to contact me <= [email protected]
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi! I am an Older Woman which is quite obvious ...I enjoy the Company of Younger Guys. aged from 26- 45 They seem to be attracted to me too....My Reasons for inviting them to share Sexual Intamcy with me, when they're ready to be My Lover ie open to me on every Level. 1. They have an energy about them .A Zest for Life.... 2. They're Eager to please and Pleasure me....They appreciate the skills I share with them 3 They generally Look very Good so no complaints from me at all :) I'm a Spiritual Woman and My Connections are strong before I choose a Guy as a Lover. I'm all about energies flowing between the 2 of us in a 1-1 Experience which goes to all Levels ..They Have a lot of energy to share with me I utilize that to My Advantage.But also giving back what I receive ..It makes Our time together very erotic and Unique . After 1 shared Intimacy They're left drained and in a state of bliss.I will continue to share this Amazing Experience wth younger Guys . If I choose a Guy over 50 he has to be exceptional, because generally I don't tend to share with them in a Sexual way because They tend to be Hormonal, Gong through a Life crisis be it, work, age, Relatinship related. They're too set in their ways, very needy , basic , not willing to just chill and enjoy . Their energies are not as abundant Lol Lu:)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yeah dude they sure do, i love older chicks,they have it all i reckon !! Been with a lovely babe that was 15 years older than me and another who was 11 years my senior, and wow wow wow !! They also thought the same of me !! Its all about your approach i reckon, so yes i can say that older chicks love younger men, works for me ! If you ever get the opportunity mate go for it !Zeek
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting '2muchNeverEnuff'justjuice, clearly you didn't understand a shitting word i said. that's pretty embarrassing... at your age :D Hey NeverEnough, Did it ever occur to you that justjuice understood EVERY word you said?......but still thinks it's a load of crap... Ahh youth is truly wasted on the young....
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RHP User
15 years ago
You summed it up perfectly... you're right' nothings changed... still think it was a load of crap...
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tank__girl
15 years ago
I have them all the time for breakfast, lunch and tea! I like being the first to tick boxes for the young lads too!! They are always very appreciative, and I just love seeing the joy on their faces, as they whistle and skip down my front garden path clicking their heels 'after' heheee.. And I LOVE hearing them say "Whoa!? No ones ever done that before??!" Hopefully they'll remember me forever, maybe?! Awwww.... I like teaching them, and/or helping them.. I'm very open and understanding. Boys seem to ask me and tell me anything, they'd probably ever tell anyone else. Or ask things they've always wanted to know about girls? I'm a bit of a Mother Duck... 'Virgo' you see. A born teacher hahaaa... Very tasty, and most def make your tastebuds tingle.....until they tell you how much they like 'Older' women. I'm 'just' 30 ffs..? It has made me feel old a couple of times, but I spose...they mean I'm just 'older than them'.. The only this is with the youngins, they are the ones that are always out til all hours of the morning, and wake you up for a bootycall at 4am without thinking anything of it!! Quick story, a friend twisted my arm the other week into letting him come over at about 5am.. So I said "Ok, but plllllease, be quuiiiet, don't knock, just quietly push the door open, and pull it closed behind you..Please?" So I hear the taxi pull up, and pull off "See ya mate!!" he screams to the cab driver!? 'Then' he proceeds to sit the gutter outside my house, under the street light, and call his brother in South Africa to tell him how much he loved him etc..Piss talk. Loud piss talk, that you would've heard a block away!? So I jump up, nude, run out to the front door, and Psssst! him. After I got his attention, told him off, and told him to come in, I went back to bed and waited for him. He then says to his brother, still loud as "Oh mate! Gotta get going, I'm at this chicks house about to go in for some hot fun..........Oh yeahhh, she's a dirty bitch!!" Arrrrgggggghhhhhhhh......thanks!!?? And then...caaarrreefully and quietly sneaks inside the front door, and tip toes to my room, and whispers a "hey babe"..??! Boyssss......brainless. I wonder if "Woman's Day" would like that oe for their mere male bit..?
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Frankiesgame
15 years ago
When i was 22 I had a lovely interlude with a 40ish neighbour, it was one of the hottest experiences I ever had. since then i always had a taste for ladies older than me! even now when i am older i still dont look for ppl under 30 and preferably older than 40!
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RHP User
15 years ago
have been with many older women and learnt some very good lessons from a 40yr old when i was in my early 20s that have come in very handy over the years :) always keen to find an older woman to have some fun with ;) and mistresst i love an intelligent beautiful woman ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
With out intending to i tend to find myself twisted up in knots with 20 - 28 year olds. im 33, fit, flexible, energtic , and You all tend to start to age rapidly by 28no fun any more!!! Its a bonus the young can keep up and are always keen to be taught a thing or two
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm not a fan of younger men but the occasional one or two that i've bent the rules for sound just like these two guys. And they say it has worked for them as well so it's definitely worth studying, MelbourneDan. . Young and dumb and .... let's say overenthusiastic ;) is a real turn-off for me but charming and mature-minded individuals can overcome the age issue.
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RHP User
15 years ago
just sitting there, looking pretty and not saying anything stupid might work too :)
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Jbomb84
15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' I'm not a fan of younger men but the occasional one or two that i've bent the rules for sound just like these two guys. And they say it has worked for them as well so it's definitely worth studying, MelbourneDan. . Young and dumb and .... let's say overenthusiastic ;) is a real turn-off for me but charming and mature-minded individuals can overcome the age issue.yeah u did make me work as well and i do have 2 say she is so much fun cant wait for next time
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Jbomb84
15 years ago
I have been with a lot of oler women ranging from 30-50 and i do have to say they have been lots of fun. It doesnt matter how old or young you are as long as everyone has fun. I have found that with the older women i have met as well i have connected better with them then girls my ages. I really think that older girls are a lot more fun and open and you can chat about anything with them as well as they can holding a conversation.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jbomb84' Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' I'm not a fan of younger men but the occasional one or two that i've bent the rules for sound just like these two guys. And they say it has worked for them as well so it's definitely worth studying, MelbourneDan. . Young and dumb and .... let's say overenthusiastic ;) is a real turn-off for me but charming and mature-minded individuals can overcome the age issue.yeah u did make me work as well and i do have 2 say she is so much fun cant wait for next time all the other older ladies are going to shake their heads at me now 'cos you used a 2 instead of 'to'. lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think we have all had experiences where our lovers both 'young" and 'old' have been both poor and great in bed...my first younger lover was on rhp and he was 31 and the first person I slept with on rhp he he......I rocked his world for want of a better world and he told me I raised the bar for him in regards to sex his first experience with an older woman and he 'pursued' me for more to which I was flattered he he... I have always slept with younger men a couple of years younger ie 2-3 years ...but last year I slept with an older man (51) for the first time in my life it was crap he was the worst lover I had ever experienced ...NEVER AGAIN. I will defintely be sticking to guys around my age group and younger....for me 10 years is probably the maximum I would go unless they are mature minded and can hold a decent conversation....if they have a hot body well that's just a bonus isn't lmao... Some tippers for the younger guys.....don't say the regular thing's you would to a younger chick to an older woman...no late am nite drunk calls and text messages...have a real conversation about the world he he....find out what makes us tick... For me immature young guys no brainers....NO THANKS move along please....you may be hot but I don't want the hassle and you don't impress me lol.... But for those who are intelligent and can hold a decent conversation and have maturity bring it on ! Kat xo
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