M36
Do older woman really like younger men?
January 19 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have had flings with younger men in the past - they do need to remember that older women do NOT have elasticated hip-joints though. With that in mind, the younger lads were always great to look at....Recently I started seeing a bloke who was significantly younger than me - he was damn smart, emotionally together and it was great sharing a bed with him. Ultimately though, I figured that it would be cruel to keep him around. He's got a life to live and, to be honest, being twenty years older than someone else was going to feed MY insecurity issues. Saying goodbye to something so good totally sucks at the moment.
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tank__girl
15 years ago
'Let them free, and if they return, it's meant to be..'. :( Yes, in their defence.. They are most definately not all brainless no. I 'have' also met, and often visit a couple of very intelligent, genuine and reliable 'boys' too, aged 19-22. Maybe it is because I do at times have a 'young' personality, that I 'can' relate to them, and do have alot of fun with them..in and out of the bedroom?! Some of them are more mature than my partner of 14 years, who is ten years older than them..!? Mmmm, thinking of you Rychel...xx ;)
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Tart_Du_Jour
15 years ago
While your advice is good and I appreciate where you are coming from, I think everyone should be treated with respect and cosiderationg regardless of whether they are older or younger.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am an intelligent "boy" as some members would cast me as lol would love to hear from you all and chat :) because you would be surprised about myself.
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RHP User
15 years ago
older women are bees knees of sexual desire,they are more attractive and intelligent,there is something about the seductive look in their eyes as they lead you the most intense orgasmic heights.lesson learned earlier always make them the cente ryour needs of attention.your needs are little compared to them and the more you put into it the more you will recieve. most women of any age dont just want an 8second ride so if you get on the playing field dont kick for goal straight away take the time with the playing field and that goal will be so much better..........to all the older women you girls/ladies are amazing and i liken you to a bottle of fine wine.....gets better with age and worth to savour the moment.you women are the life blood of many a man and wish you the best in your search of your wants/needs/lusts and desires.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have found that as a guy in his early twenties most women over 30 pretty much see me as a baby or "just a kid" which is cool, it just means I still have plenty of years ahead of me lol. I too am interested in older women, pretty much up to mid 40's depending on the individual. There are women willing to go below a 10 year age gap you've just gotta be patient, look hard and realise they think differently to women your own age. Some like youthfulness so being true to yourself might be your ticket but ultimately I think maturity will help you if you want to get with older women. Just my two cents...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi all. I have been reading this thread with much interest. The common theme I am seeing here is YES love the younger man, but not younger than my kids. I was thinking about the young females perspective of the older man. Let's keep the thread going
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yep would LUV to go with an Older woman...One Day!...;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I would like to be with an older woman.... 10yrs+ and also a younger one 10yrs+ but its not as easy to find as I would have hoped... I have different reasons for wanting each experience... to teach and be taught I guess... also jus tot see how it feels with a person of that age gap... what the conection is like...many people in my family have married into large age differences, the biggest being an aunt of mine who has married a 40yr age gap. They are together for 12 years this year and love life. So its not about weather or not there is a potential for me but what that moment would be like... peeling the clothes of a young gorgeous little thing or sharing the intimacy I expect from an older woman... both are equally appealing for different reasons...I just with the fantasy would hurry up and come true (in both cases lol)LS(yes this is an open invite to those interested :P)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Justgoodfunxxx' Older women are defenetly attracted to younger guys, in fact I mainly go out with older girls and im actually just out of a 5 years relationship with a girl 10years older than me and I think is becouse I feel that I can relate better with them on a intellectual level and I make them feel the same way! but beware that if you want to attract "older" women you will have to do a hell of a lot more than just flex your muscles!!!! You will have to stimulate their brain, make them feel special (becouse they are) otherwise you will never go past the first date, if you are lucky to get one!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey, I am a 24 yr old male, I would love nothing more then to show you that not all young guys are stupid deviets. I am a well spoken, well manared younger male who would love nothing more then to pleasure an older women who knows what she wants. Please feel free to email me or write back on here. I will get onto you. :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Man if you're gonna try using words like deviates and mannered at least check up the spelling of it, because it looks kind of bad when you're trying to make yourself out to be intellectual, also tends to reflect badly on the whole.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'LeoSteve' I would like to be with an older woman.... 10yrs+ and also a younger one 10yrs+ but its not as easy to find as I would have hoped... I have different reasons for wanting each experience... to teach and be taught I guess... also jus tot see how it feels with a person of that age gap... what the conection is like...many people in my family have married into large age differences, the biggest being an aunt of mine who has married a 40yr age gap. They are together for 12 years this year and love life. So its not about weather or not there is a potential for me but what that moment would be like... peeling the clothes of a young gorgeous little thing or sharing the intimacy I expect from an older woman... both are equally appealing for different reasons...I just with the fantasy would hurry up and come true (in both cases lol)LS(yes this is an open invite to those interested :P) But your profile reads different as to the age you are after
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RHP User
15 years ago
The trick is not to let them say anything... Otherwise the bubble will burst! Example: Movie night with best friend and young stud. We saw a movie with Kevin Bacon in it. Conversation after movie went... I said: "Kevin has come a long way since Footloose." Young stud says: "What's that?"
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'feistyandtoyboy' Have to say I'm a fan of the younger man, obviously. I think this is the case because a young man who shows some maturity is so much more appealing than an older man who shows none, or at least imo. Also my experience of younger guys is they want desperately to prove themselves, so they keep going for hours until u beg them to stop, and they watch u closely for every twitch and moan to be sure they're pleasing u. Sometimes older guys think they have it all down and arent interested in being told otherwise. And young guys are fun! They laugh with you and are up for anything! But I also enjoy guys my age, an older too, but that's for another thread ;) I agree here but I dont think that "watching every twitch and moan" is age related... its got to do with finding someone who enjoys sex for idea of being able to please someone... to make someone feel amazing...Maybe its more common with young men because it is seen as the mans role to please the woman (soacially if you are a guy that can please a woman you are a failure at young age when sex is being explored and discovered) this I think dies off as men mature because in the majority of experiences it isnt reciprocated and therefore the attitude of "If she isnt gonna bother why should I" is adopted... young men often put in a lot of effort and then are left wondering why they dont feel as fulfilled as they might be and I would suggest its because they felt like they have spent more than they have received... at the end of the day tho a good lover will see any encounter as an opportunity not only to feel fantastic but also to make their partner feel amazing too.. and when you find that then yeah... going all night... all weekend... all week... isnt a problem... good sex is addictive and the rest are still "chasing the dragon" :PLS
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Polymore' Quoting 'LeoSteve' I would like to be with an older woman.... 10yrs+ and also a younger one 10yrs+ but its not as easy to find as I would have hoped... I have different reasons for wanting each experience... to teach and be taught I guess... also jus tot see how it feels with a person of that age gap... what the conection is like...many people in my family have married into large age differences, the biggest being an aunt of mine who has married a 40yr age gap. They are together for 12 years this year and love life. So its not about weather or not there is a potential for me but what that moment would be like... peeling the clothes of a young gorgeous little thing or sharing the intimacy I expect from an older woman... both are equally appealing for different reasons...I just with the fantasy would hurry up and come true (in both cases lol)LS(yes this is an open invite to those interested :P) But your profile reads different as to the age you are after You might want to read the entire first line of my post again :D I think I cover that... at the moment Im advertising for the latter of the two...LS
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Fazz999' Man if you're gonna try using words like deviates and mannered at least check up the spelling of it, because it looks kind of bad when you're trying to make yourself out to be intellectual, also tends to reflect badly on the whole. how is that adding anything to the discussion?Im diagnosed dyslexic but I would bet you a case of beer that my IQ score is pushing the upper envelope of where you might be...stick to the topic posted...LS
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'LeoSteve' Quoting 'Fazz999' Man if you're gonna try using words like deviates and mannered at least check up the spelling of it, because it looks kind of bad when you're trying to make yourself out to be intellectual, also tends to reflect badly on the whole. how is that adding anything to the discussion?Im diagnosed dyslexic but I would bet you a case of beer that my IQ score is pushing the upper envelope of where you might be...stick to the topic posted...LS How does what I said actually have anything to do with you and your IQ? I don't remember ever referring to you nor anything that you posted.
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RHP User
15 years ago
lol no.......with children almost 30 years of age, its difficult to think of a 20 something as anything other than a child.
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RHP User
15 years ago
....is this a trick question ? .. ................. i will say yes ,......... i prefer if they speak little , kiss wonderfully .... and i figure i megan gale (who happens to be the same age as my young self ) ..can date a 22yr old carlton boy , then why not me ? ...though being from the west it wouldbe a dockers toyboy for me please ... :) hoping you all got something yummy for valentines.. ms c xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Saeldyn' The trick is not to let them say anything... Otherwise the bubble will burst! Example: Movie night with best friend and young stud. We saw a movie with Kevin Bacon in it. Conversation after movie went... I said: "Kevin has come a long way since Footloose." Young stud says: "What's that?" Saeldyn you see i would know that stuff lol... i surprise a lot of people because i am not one of those people who thinks anything older than 18months is "old" or "vintage" but i think i am an exception... now waiting on the RHP shelf to be picked by a more mature woman... i hope you will pick me? hehe :)
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PartyOrg
15 years ago
All i can say is i love being hunted by cougars :) older women definitely know what they are doing
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RHP User
15 years ago
A bit of advice Melbdan, follow the words of Justgoodfun - for me you have to engage my mind to keep me interested, but saying that, once you do, there is a whole word of experiences an older woman can give you. Good luck.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have a son older than you and for me the minimum age is 40 and even then I feel awkward. Experience beats yout every day, never have been turned on by the kiddies since I was a kiddie myself. Mr. Ty does it for me and I prefer his age group.
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RHP User
15 years ago
glad your enjoying the young bulls honey, some of us older bulls manage a few moves and theres no substitute for experiencelol.i see you r a wantirna gal,i see a mate in blackburn area perhaps we could discuss it xxx crazy mexican
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RHP User
15 years ago
lol ive always been into older men.. more mature.. more experienced... but recently i was with the first ever guy youner than me.. he was only like 2 years younger but much less experienced than me.. and well it was actually sort of fun taking on a teacher type position lol.. I sort of felt way more confident with him, like he acted as if i was some sort of super sex Goddess haha and im the first girl he went down on so was able to give him pointers... by the end i had him trained fairly good haha.. but yeah it was sort of fun being with a younger less experienced guy... even if i still am young myself... lol possibly future cougar hahaha...
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've promised Mrs Pup a nice young pool boy when she's old enough to be a cougar, I'd reckon you'd want them at least in mid 20's so I guess she'll have to be in her mid 40's to qualify? It's a sex thought!
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RHP User
15 years ago
..well Jessy makes me want to sign up again..Mmmmmm hehe
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RHP User
15 years ago
Younger guys are definitely the go. There try harder to please and just want to get in and do it. hard and fast.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have to be honest with you, that I have never yet been with a younger man that has really done it for me, and that has really put me off being with younger men. I am not judging all men and saying they are all the same, but I'm not really sure what it is. Maybe lack of experience, maybe not enough foreplay and it's all ended too soon, not sure. But after my few experiences with younger men, they seemed to have ruined it for all the others... and my impression is that I don't really like them. I know it has nothing to do with age, and if I meet a younger man that I click with sexually, the age wouldn't bother me...so it's more than just the age thing... it's a sexual connection. I haven't found younger men to be able to click with me sexually..... well not very good anyway.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've always been attracted to women older than myself. There's an experience and wisdom that goes beyond most young women, who are only just learning how to distinguish between a decent guy and a wanker. Speaking with a woman who's confidence is honest and not some defensive pretense is a very enjoyable experience, and a younger man is more likely to find with a woman older than himself.It can be hard at times to get a look sometimes, especially when women are under the belief that younger men are all like energetic young pups. But age and experience don't always equate to sexual maturity; that's usually reserved for knowledge, wisdom and understanding.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have to say...I really want to know more about this topic as well.I do get offers,but mostly from women around my age....What i think i really like to try is a woman in her forties ...into tall black men who can hold a conversation....for some reason most women seem to think i'm joking when i tell them im interested...couples on the other hand...and for some reason ...are always up for it......i think the thought of one to one time...with a mature lady who know what she wants...can be quite exiting..so for the ladies...what do you think i need to do?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Jesus, I'm 26 and I find 21 too young!! Sorry! (MRS)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I need an Older woman!...;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
The best nights I've had have been with older women. Just wish it happened more- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would love to have sex with an older woman......again. Me 36 her 54 she was awesome new excaclty what she wanted and i wasn't afraid to give it to her. Definatly love to do it again.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Yes I do but fopr a particular reason I...A Connection on all Levels before we go further. I agree totally with Funlovings well said Hun . But I'll add don't go tell Mature Women it's your Fantasy that's a Given .you're Male and approaching a Mature female..It makes it seem like you just want sex with them so you can cross that experience off of your "Bucket List" .I for 1 don't Intend being apart of any of that crap! You want to know me me for the Unique Woman I am or not at all.. Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
...I tripped and fell on a 20 year-old on the weekend. Oopsie.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am 48 and John is 35 ..love it Leesa
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RHP User
13 years ago
As a sexy woman in her 40's.... I want an older guy... preferably 35 plus. I would accept early 30's for the right guy. To me if a guy is too young it feels creepy and perverted.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im so glad you are ok. Good think he was there to break your fall.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not at all..Prefer them to be older, as not into Toyboys..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Older girls tend to be confident and fun to play with.
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RHP User
13 years ago
That's so funny hun I juust had a visual ha!haIha! I bet he thought all his christmasses had come at once and was seen smiling all day after you getting up all close and personal with him ha!ha! Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey hun :) I enjoyed your Post especially your very thoughtful sentiments at the end. that was very nice of you and much appreciated by me..Best wishes for you to find the Playmates you desire and who wants what you offer.. enjoy them to the Max ..Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Three times you asked for his address!Quoting 'sassyme' No If I could get Trouserwosers address... I could put a smile on both of our faces ... mmm mmm mmmmm ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have met a number of older women on these types of sites. My preference on these sites is seeking 40+ women. I find them to be more comfortable with themselves emotionally, mentally, physically and sexually. Less head games and from my experience they know what they want and are willing to ask for it. I have found the sex to be so much better with an older woman and younger man. Younger within reason I mean. 40's women and 30s men has been a match made in heaven for me
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RHP User
13 years ago
would have to agree with you there syd
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RHP User
13 years ago
Prefer my men older just talking from experience the younger guys that I/we have dealt with and not saying all younger guys the same,have been so wrapped up in pounding me that they totally forget wjat the scene is about Im small framed small everywhere and have physically been hurt by there lack of experience.Older men and woman for me yipee I went from being with a boy to being with a real man now Im hooked on the mature aged hornbags you rock my boat! Age shouldnt be an issue but from what Ive experienced makes a difference dont care what anybody says the older you are the more experience :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
lovely to look at lovely to holdby the time you have trained themgood damn it ....they've gotten old !!hmmm......... jury is out still..........more evidence requiredhave had some very brilliant experienced with the 35 +......and some just well... weird, akward and dissappointingbut the same goes for 50 year olds...guess it comes down to .......THE INDIVIDUAL and the chemistry...againnever in my life thought id drool over 45 year old men......what is it with that ? lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
I joined for the exact same reason but it turns out to be pretty to find experienced women interest- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I so had to post here today! I was contacted by a 21 year old on rhp, and I did reply and politely told him he was too young for me - he could be my son! So then he comes back, questioning my age and my profile and why I choose 25-40 year olds etc etc etc! Well bugger me, when did having a profile on here mean that I had to meet and fuck any man of any age, with any maturity level and limited sexual experience? Yes I was pissed off! 21 year old men, in MY experience, lack the maturity of mind and sexual prowess to make me cum. That's it! So get over it! That's my rant!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jade36' I so had to post here today! I was contacted by a 21 year old on rhp, and I did reply and politely told him he was too young for me - he could be my son! So then he comes back, questioning my age and my profile and why I choose 25-40 year olds etc etc etc! Well bugger me, when did having a profile on here mean that I had to meet and fuck any man of any age, with any maturity level and limited sexual experience? Yes I was pissed off! 21 year old men, in MY experience, lack the maturity of mind and sexual prowess to make me cum. That's it! So get over it! That's my rant! cool fair enough. But well When i was that age i learnt a lot when with people an well by that age i was able to the spot and hold a decent conversation and string sentences together without resorting to swear words or the c bomb.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Very interesting - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jade36' I so had to post here today! I was contacted by a 21 year old on rhp, and I did reply and politely told him he was too young for me - he could be my son! So then he comes back, questioning my age and my profile and why I choose 25-40 year olds etc etc etc! Well bugger me, when did having a profile on here mean that I had to meet and fuck any man of any age, with any maturity level and limited sexual experience? Yes I was pissed off! 21 year old men, in MY experience, lack the maturity of mind and sexual prowess to make me cum. That's it! So get over it! That's my rant! Oh this sounds so familiar....I was actually contacted by a 21 year old today. I thought I should at least check out his profile and see if he might be different to your 'average' 21 year old male....which his profile indicated he is not. So I politely told him he was too young for me. His response? That by the looks of it I wouldn't be able to handle him anyway. That really made me laugh and I couldn't resist responding and telling him that, and the reasons why. I know there are some exceptions but in general guys in their early / mid 20s are just too full of themselves without the skills and know-how to back it up. They're still boys, not men.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Classic responses and all true :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'jade36' I so had to post here today! I was contacted by a 21 year old on rhp, and I did reply and politely told him he was too young for me - he could be my son! So then he comes back, questioning my age and my profile and why I choose 25-40 year olds etc etc etc! Well bugger me, when did having a profile on here mean that I had to meet and fuck any man of any age, with any maturity level and limited sexual experience? Yes I was pissed off! 21 year old men, in MY experience, lack the maturity of mind and sexual prowess to make me cum. That's it! So get over it! That's my rant! Oh this sounds so familiar....I was actually contacted by a 21 year old today. I thought I should at least check out his profile and see if he might be different to your 'average' 21 year old male....which his profile indicated he is not. So I politely told him he was too young for me. His response? That by the looks of it I wouldn't be able to handle him anyway. That really made me laugh and I couldn't resist responding and telling him that, and the reasons why. I know there are some exceptions but in general guys in their early / mid 20s are just too full of themselves without the skills and know-how to back it up. They're still boys, not men. I would resent that if I was that comment when I was mid 20's... (which is usually every time it rains).I've been on here for nearly 10 years (lat next year), and would like say I was quite mature with all the couples and etc that gave me a go....then repeatedly.. Age is only a number.. maturity is gained by experience :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'friskyeatin' Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'jade36' I so had to post here today! I was contacted by a 21 year old on rhp, and I did reply and politely told him he was too young for me - he could be my son! So then he comes back, questioning my age and my profile and why I choose 25-40 year olds etc etc etc! Well bugger me, when did having a profile on here mean that I had to meet and fuck any man of any age, with any maturity level and limited sexual experience? Yes I was pissed off! 21 year old men, in MY experience, lack the maturity of mind and sexual prowess to make me cum. That's it! So get over it! That's my rant! Oh this sounds so familiar....I was actually contacted by a 21 year old today. I thought I should at least check out his profile and see if he might be different to your 'average' 21 year old male....which his profile indicated he is not. So I politely told him he was too young for me. His response? That by the looks of it I wouldn't be able to handle him anyway. That really made me laugh and I couldn't resist responding and telling him that, and the reasons why. I know there are some exceptions but in general guys in their early / mid 20s are just too full of themselves without the skills and know-how to back it up. They're still boys, not men. I would resent that if I was that comment when I was mid 20's... (which is usually every time it rains).I've been on here for nearly 10 years (lat next year), and would like say I was quite mature with all the couples and etc that gave me a go....then repeatedly.. Age is only a number.. maturity is gained by experience :) thank you. That is what i was thinking. But I was lumped in that category. But i just soldiered on. Up to them to turn around and make a decision.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'friskyeatin' Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'jade36' I so had to post here today! I was contacted by a 21 year old on rhp, and I did reply and politely told him he was too young for me - he could be my son! So then he comes back, questioning my age and my profile and why I choose 25-40 year olds etc etc etc! Well bugger me, when did having a profile on here mean that I had to meet and fuck any man of any age, with any maturity level and limited sexual experience? Yes I was pissed off! 21 year old men, in MY experience, lack the maturity of mind and sexual prowess to make me cum. That's it! So get over it! That's my rant! Oh this sounds so familiar....I was actually contacted by a 21 year old today. I thought I should at least check out his profile and see if he might be different to your 'average' 21 year old male....which his profile indicated he is not. So I politely told him he was too young for me. His response? That by the looks of it I wouldn't be able to handle him anyway. That really made me laugh and I couldn't resist responding and telling him that, and the reasons why. I know there are some exceptions but in general guys in their early / mid 20s are just too full of themselves without the skills and know-how to back it up. They're still boys, not men. I would resent that if I was that comment when I was mid 20's... (which is usually every time it rains).I've been on here for nearly 10 years (lat next year), and would like say I was quite mature with all the couples and etc that gave me a go....then repeatedly.. Age is only a number.. maturity is gained by experience :) Don't get your knickers in a knot frisky...I didn't say that ALL men in their early / mid 20s are like that. I specified that I am aware that there are exceptions (there always are), and I have met a couple of those exceptions in my time. I am talking in GENERAL terms based on the behaviour / attitude of the majority of early / mid 20s men that contact me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
And let's face it, there are biological as well as social reasons for this. The average person's brain hasn't even finished fully developing until around 24 or 25 years. That's not being derogatory, it's just a biological fact. So it is a combination of age and experience that alters our perceptions and behaviours as the years go on.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MaxHeadr00m' Quoting 'friskyeatin' Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'jade36' I so had to post here today! I was contacted by a 21 year old on rhp, and I did reply and politely told him he was too young for me - he could be my son! So then he comes back, questioning my age and my profile and why I choose 25-40 year olds etc etc etc! Well bugger me, when did having a profile on here mean that I had to meet and fuck any man of any age, with any maturity level and limited sexual experience? Yes I was pissed off! 21 year old men, in MY experience, lack the maturity of mind and sexual prowess to make me cum. That's it! So get over it! That's my rant! Oh this sounds so familiar....I was actually contacted by a 21 year old today. I thought I should at least check out his profile and see if he might be different to your 'average' 21 year old male....which his profile indicated he is not. So I politely told him he was too young for me. His response? That by the looks of it I wouldn't be able to handle him anyway. That really made me laugh and I couldn't resist responding and telling him that, and the reasons why. I know there are some exceptions but in general guys in their early / mid 20s are just too full of themselves without the skills and know-how to back it up. They're still boys, not men. I would resent that if I was that comment when I was mid 20's... (which is usually every time it rains).I've been on here for nearly 10 years (lat next year), and would like say I was quite mature with all the couples and etc that gave me a go....then repeatedly.. Age is only a number.. maturity is gained by experience :) thank you. That is what i was thinking. But I was lumped in that category. But i just soldiered on. Up to them to turn around and make a decision. Guys, generalisations are a fact of life. We all do it, but most of us recognise that there are always exceptions. If you read my initial post again, I said that I looked at the guy's profile to see how he presented himself and if I was interested in exploring things further. From his profile, no I wasn't (and there have been many discussions on the fairness or not of judging people on their profiles but fact is I don't have time to talk to everyone that contacts me, so judgment on the profile it is....and based on his childish response to being rejected I think I was pretty correct in my judgment). I didn't just assume that because of his age he wasn't suitable and delete the message without even looking at his profile. We all get lumped into categories that we don't like and that we don't think we fit into. Being a single, childless woman in her 30s, I'm lumped into many categories that I detest and I know I don't deserve to be put into. But that's how our society is. Most people will recognise that there are always exceptions and will try to look a bit further past the sterotype to make a more informed decision. But just because there are exceptions, doesn't mean that people can't talk about their 'majority' experiences with a group, as long as they realise that it's a personal perspective based on their own experience and that other people may have differing experiences and views.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' And let's face it, there are biological as well as social reasons for this. The average person's brain hasn't even finished fully developing until around 24 or 25 years. That's not being derogatory, it's just a biological fact. So it is a combination of age and experience that alters our perceptions and behaviours as the years go on. Actually I dont even wear them as that is an extra layer to take offI didnt "quote" you of saying such a thing. The general concencious of the thread leads to that however.Just another member quoted me and agreed with my sediment.Well aware there are exceptions to the general norm.The brain is highly plasticise, thought it may mature at mid 20's, it is highly vulnerable to environmental factors and always keeps adapting (for most in reverse) til the day we die.
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RHP User
13 years ago
SuperFox - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
To all the younger guys who say.... 'I'm really very mature for my age' or ' I'm the exception to the rule'..,.., just how is it that you 'know' these things? Aren't these the things that we decide, as either the older woman or couple? I'd have thought so....who better to judge than those who have either been there, or who potentially have children of their own.......who are your age, or older?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Greetings Dan, i'm after some no strings fun with a few young fellas aged 18-25 (age negotiable) but am reluctant to do so in case i disappoint prospective play-mates with the body and looks i've got to offer. Average looks (frenz say i look like peter griffin from family guy...that's cool cos he's famous)...i've struggled with my weight for 50 yrs and have been led to believe that young fellas don't care so much about your age but they don't like fat chicks so what hope have i got..? I haven't had the pleasure of any sexual activity for over 19 yrs except masturbation cos i've been too self -conscious to get naked in front of any-one...I've just turned 51 and am still suffering with my body issues, you'd think i'd be over it at my age....So, if any young blokes out there can let us cougars know that we've still got a chance fat and all, pleez tell us cos it would be greatly appreciated.......cheers...R...
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Mr_DarkChocolate
13 years ago
Mr Dark - okay seriously I don't want to be a jack ass but... "I joined RHP to fulfill a fantasy" even with auto-correct you have managed to spell "fulfil" wrong so the first thing you have put out there is your lack of attention to detail... "kid cant even use auto-correct so how's he going to muster enough attention to pleasure me?", next "i am yet to find one that is interested" by the sounds of it you have not looked very hard or tried for very long because I'm quite certain IF you were indeed a man, you would know men have drive, passion & indubitable desire IF you were a man your fantasy would have become a reality & not some half witted brain fart spewed onto the forums of an adult casual encounter facilitating site, did you ever once stop to consider maybe going out & buying some lucky gal a drink ? I'm most certain unless you are a grand oaf of unimaginable magnitude IF you had propositioned a hundred or so older women, at least a few would have taken an interest but the one & only thing keeping you from that reality is your inability/laziness/strong enough willingness to act on your desirer's & that is what makes you a boy, a child in the eye's or any potential suitor. I'm sorry if that was a cold dagger to the heart for anyone reading but I really do tire of boy's constantly whining about women not taking them seriously whether that woman be older, younger or whatever, grow up, be a man & go get what you want.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was fortunate enough to have sex with an older women ( me being 28 and her 45 )and I gotta say it was the best sex ever. But nothing had beat the feeling of a pat on the back at the end and told, fuck that was good!!!:):):)And to the post above, looks don't mean much but being confident is the winner !!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
The younger men I've been with have left a taste in my mouth wanting more... It was NOT just the sex...they were attentative to MY needs...asked me what I like and disliked...Actually I loved that that they actually talked to me and seeked out- used initiative and were very matured. When I look back now made my other lovers (around my age or older) look like selfish effen pricks. Yep for me...Tiger Cub anyday!!! FOXY - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I finally know what I want it's not the younger man :(
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RHP User
13 years ago
No thanks
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im with you Superfox...and there are plenty out there!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
My ex is 36 and we started out having an awesome relationship....6 months later he called it off saying he doesnt know what he wants, he is depressed, wants to disconnect but with NSA......came back a week later and said he cant just walk away from me as I am a beautiful person........we have the most awesome sex I have ever had all during the time we are together......then he just ends it again saying I want a break.....just says I dont know what I want but we can still have sex but with NSA........WTF does that mean?????? Very confused and shattered. I have always had younger men as they can keep up but now Im not so sure as I have been fucked around too much. Anyone got any advice??? I live in Darwin
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RHP User
13 years ago
you are quite wrong,the OP spelt fulfil correctly,it is the British spelling.Fulfill is the American.
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RHP User
13 years ago
RobbieDoo I'd be happy to help out ;)
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