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Does Your Car You Drive Define You?
July 14 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have no car. Don't really want a car. Can't afford a car. See through people who wear a car like jewellery (the men with small feet ). I walk just about everywhere. Take my time. Happy to be out of step. BUT if had money and could indulge a dream i had as a teenager. I'd get one of those old Maserati Sebrings from the 60's. In silver!!!!! YEAH!!!! Then I'll be.....................................meh.
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RHP User
10 years ago
firstly - if someone complained my choice in cars was ecologically unsound while they drive an Xtrail I'd feel justified in asking them why they're a hypocrite. I have 2 cars, one is a sports car - I barely drive it - maybe 10km last year - but I love having it there in the garage, I get an "oooh isn't that good looking" feeling whenever it catches my eye. The other is comfortable and gets me from A to B, it is nice but isn't particularly flashy. As if people don't 'judge' others for their car or other things - you meet some fellow in his well tailored suit, Breitling watch and cufflinks just so... but at the end of the night he's hopping into his mashed up 1980's Ford Festiva - 'judge' is probably the wrong word - but I doubt anyone wouldn't have a moment of surprise because the two images don't line up. People have different interests and tastes, some like to spend money on cars, you spend on holidays. Given how much time we often spend stuck inside our cars, I can see the sense in getting something you enjoy being in. 1. if it is a distinctive car it can provide insight into the person driving it.2. if it's a Robin Reliant then I know they've lied about their age before the door opens ;) but no
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
Cars to a degree can show you something about the owners. I find it more defining to hear about the type of cars people would like to have.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Has eyelashes 😀
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225Special
10 years ago
Yes, my car does define me to an extent. It is different and holds a lot of sentimental value.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' firstly - if someone complained my choice in cars was ecologically unsound while they drive an Xtrail I'd feel justified in asking them why they're a hypocrite. I have 2 cars, one is a sports car - I barely drive it - maybe 10km last year - but I love having it there in the garage, I get an "oooh isn't that good looking" feeling whenever it catches my eye. The other is comfortable and gets me from A to B, it is nice but isn't particularly flashy. As if people don't 'judge' others for their car or other things - you meet some fellow in his well tailored suit, Breitling watch and cufflinks just so... but at the end of the night he's hopping into his mashed up 1980's Ford Festiva - 'judge' is probably the wrong word - but I doubt anyone wouldn't have a moment of surprise because the two images don't line up. People have different interests and tastes, some like to spend money on cars, you spend on holidays. Given how much time we often spend stuck inside our cars, I can see the sense in getting something you enjoy being in. 1. if it is a distinctive car it can provide insight into the person driving it.2. if it's a Robin Reliant then I know they've lied about their age before the door opens ;) but no I actually hardly drive my cars as I take the trains or public transport around melb or to and from the Coast when I visit family. Less stressful. I only use the cars when I need it to transport items over or occasionally drive my kids to sports places and their mate where public transport may be a logistical nightmare. When I travel interstate or overseas, I try to book hotells close to work, walking distance, so as not to add anymore onto the noise and carbon footprint. Public transport all the way for me and some of my friends think that is crazy to be dependent on trains/trams/buses. I like it like that - less stressful, cheaper and ecologically sound. Just need to be more patient. Are you calling me a hypocrite? Strong words when you dont know anything about me. more about you than me? A bit rich? But the more important question is.... What the hell are these 'Breitling watch and cufflinks'? Never heard of them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
We also have kept the old family wagon for our son, learner's this year.... Exciting and daunting all at once.... I'm with you on this Lily...like to spend money on holidays and adventures On the other hand my rig is otherwise known as Queen of the Road.... Patrol... Have always wanted one, to take the tribe further than before....it's my newest baby and we plan to hit the sand at the end of the year ... With regards to what other people drive, we tend to meet our playmates on foot in a neutral setting..... Easier to lose in a crowded mall if they're a little scary 😜
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RHP User
10 years ago
and I don't see anything wrong with that. I love the beauty of the external sleek design too. Yes, you can tell a lot about people by the cars they drive. We are all different so why shouldn't we drive cars that reflect who we are. Lily... you are a practical sounding person and you drive cars that suit that side of your personality. Other sides of your personality may be reflected in other things you do, what you wear and lifestyle choices. At the end of the day a car is a car ... it is only a small reflection of the person that drives it. I drive a Mazda 3 Sport Maxx .... I love the shape of it, the colour, all the features and it has a Satellite Navigation which is essential for my work. If given the option to trade it for a BMW or Audi A6 I would probably say.. "hell yeah" ... but at the same time I'm also happy with my Mazda. I dated a man who frequently bragged about his cars, houses, intelligence and wealth. To me those things weren't important and he couldn't understand why. I enjoyed the beauty of his luxurious lifestyle but did it make him a beautiful person? ... no quite the opposite. I hope I answered your question. LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
My car at the moment is the exs ute, once settlement is done I will get a different ute, do I like Utes, no not particularly but it's reliable and I can do lots of stuff with it. If I could have any car it would be a gorgeous sleek Audi Q7 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quite obvious from my choice of transport that I am absolutely into orgies...trains,planes,and buses 😝😜😛xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
... my own and reserve judgement for how you drive as opposed to what you drive
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'Smilingwithfun' Cars to a degree can show you something about the owners. I find it more defining to hear about the type of cars people would like to have. I'd be happy to drive a solar powered car if there ever was one that would run efficiently and is mass marketed. Can't wait for that day when the emissions are minimized greatly from current levels. Not an extreme environmental activist but where and when I can, I will try to do my bit for the environment. still public transport for me all the way.
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Dryphuz
10 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' firstly - if someone complained my choice in cars was ecologically unsound while they drive an Xtrail I'd feel justified in asking them why they're a hypocrite. xtrail = 7.1 l per 100km of city driving Lambo Gallardo = 20.1 l per 100 km of city driving I've never bought myself a car so the makes/models probably say nothing about me. However i have inherited 4 cars from family members in my life (including my current ride) and that probably does say something about me. If i had the means I'd have a manual VW Golf GTI. I like hot hatches, because you don't have to go fast to get that driving on the edge feel. Straight line speed means nothing to me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'xKiwiBredx' ... my own and reserve judgement for how you drive as opposed to what you drive
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'xKiwiBredx' ... my own and reserve judgement for how you drive as opposed to what you drive i agree...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I hear men with fast cars have little penises.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I can concur.....I used to have an SS commodore.... 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Leo_girl' I love the beauty of the external sleek design. Me too. At the end of the day a car is a car ... it is only a small reflection of the person that drives it. Agree. I drive a Mazda 3 Sport Maxx .... I love the shape of it, the colour, all the features and it has a Satellite Navigation which is essential for my work. Me too. If given the option to trade it for a Maserati I would probably say.. "hell yeah" ... but at the same time I'm also happy with my Mazda. I dated a man who frequently bragged about his cars and houses To me those things weren't important and he couldn't understand why. I enjoyed the beauty of his luxurious lifestyle but did it make him a beautiful person? ... no quite the opposite. Yep, this happened to me too. I hope I answered your question. LG LilyO, I have also been judged on the type of car I drive which is same as above, Mazda 3 Sport Maxx.At the time, the man (from this site) and I were well known to each other so he was well aware that I had paid cash for this car brand new and that I had never in my life taken out a personal loan for a car or anything else and was quite proud of that.However, I was told "It's ONLY a Mazda. It's not a BMW" (which is what he drove)I offered to let him drive my car, he refused "as it's not a BMW"He would not accept travel in my car. We HAD to go in HIS car. As stated above, a luxurious lifestyle certainly doesn't make a beautiful person.The more snobby this man became, the less I wanted to see him. LeoG, Thanks for letting me edit your text to have my say xo
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RHP User
10 years ago
define me. I have always had the view that people who do that are as shallow as they are. Please world... Please let the human race wake up to the real meaning of life. This planet, with the other creatures and plant life and the possibilities of what humans can share with each other are what is, has been and always will be what really matters in the end. If we continue to let material things like a stupid car define us then I think this poor planet is going to rebel big time.... Err lol my serious two cents worth. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Each to their own, but to judge people by the car they drive, is almost as ignorant as judging someone on their haircut, or lack of hair or their lifestyle preferences.
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RHP User
10 years ago
a passion for some people. For some its to show there wealth, some pride especially if they have done one up. For me its about reliability and fuel consumption. If I had lots of money Id probably own at least three cars I think. I grew up in a family that spent alot of time in motorsport. Each to there own as long as the driver isnt an arsehole.
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luvsilver
10 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' I can concur.....I used to have an SS commodore.... 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile After you agreeing with Meeka does that mean you used to have a little dick? - lol Mr Luvsilver
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RHP User
10 years ago
Funny innit'. .I'm not fancy but I'm cheap. I loved my LJ Torana, but the look on the woman's face the day we moved into her rental was priceless. .Now we have a 'luxury' AWD, but only got that because of a payout in the last few years. I always feel like I need to explain that... But never felt like I needed to explain my 6 cyl baby to anyone. :-P... it worked LOL. .I got it on with he who matters most in that Torana. And he drove me to the hospital with me leaning across from the back seat to change gears because he'd only gotten his license 4 days before and my car was 3 on the tree when I was having our baby. Zippy, gutsy lil' car. Just like me. Peachy
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RHP User
10 years ago
As for others, I don't care what they drive, but it does matter to me how they act/talk about it. People bragging about their car, or looking down on others for their (lack of) vehicle are not for me. I've somehow always found myself in relationships with guys who owned old cars, and who made clear they would rather use their money for better things than anything material. My ex drove a Ford Festiva that was about 15 years old, and it was a great car (the dogs loved it too). My own last car was a little red Honda called Marilyn.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You've found an old Mustang wreck in a yard somewhere, and spent lots of cash and years of your time doing it up to the point of entering it into the Summernats, then I think it's just a 'look how much money I have' thing. I've driven cars I can afford to have except post divorce, when I realised I'd never had a new car before. Blue Colorado 4wd it was. Before that: 1971 Cortina, three on the tree; Another Cortina with a bullet hole in the drivers' door (not my doing!); XD Falcon wagon (drove from Townsville to Victoria without missing a beat); Mini Moke - ideal for poaching yabbies from neighbours' dams; LPG Falcon sedan; and Rodeo 2wd, aluminium tray. Excellent for throwing broken concrete into. Cars as status symbols just mark you as a wanker, I reckon. What you drive doesn't define you as a person, nor is it an indicator of your success in your chosen field of endeavour. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
My first car was an LJ Torana. ~sigh~ If that car could have talked ...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have a family type car which is great for towing. The I have my Aussie muscle car, which I've had for over 13 years. I drive this car maybe once twice a month. It doesn't define who I am, however it does make feel a little special when some ppl get jealous of it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've Strictly been an "a" to "b" girl..The mode of transport is simply a means of getting me to the the spot. How the hell I get there was never a status to me. Yet I'm surrounded by what I call the above "car wankers" where the mode in which it get's you there is some how important. I've learnt to a certain degree via the husband and his "passion' for the motor vehicle , that there's more to it and I may have some what ignored his vigour for it..much like he doesn't get my love of fashon.. it's just like talking dutch to me..I don't get it..but Im not going to chew his ass over it.. I will not however buy into the my car is better louder stronger WTF everrrr about it.. So To answer your question Lilly my husband would LOVE a 9 car garage filled with myriad of mopar muscle cars and french cars Me? Give me a >>>>>>>>sorry he's put a hand over my mouth so I cant muffle out a Corr...or a Maz.... WTF eveerrrrr in my books
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xxsexythingxx
10 years ago
I have a car Holden rodeo twin cab, but its used for work only and on the odd occasion for the family to go out with the dogs as its a ute.I would rather ride my bike rain or shine...
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madotara69
10 years ago
Tara wrote off 13 off them, one just tipped over she said. Just reminds me of how much I love her each time. Mado Tara xx
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' I've Strictly been an "a" to "b" girl..The mode of transport is simply a means of getting me to the the spot. How the hell I get there was never a status to me. Yet I'm surrounded by what I call the above "car wankers" where the mode in which it get's you there is some how important. I've learnt to a certain degree via the husband and his "passion' for the motor vehicle , that there's more to it and I may have some what ignored his vigour for it..much like he doesn't get my love of fashon.. it's just like talking dutch to me..I don't get it..but Im not going to chew his ass over it.. I will not however buy into the my car is better louder stronger WTF everrrr about it.. So To answer your question Lilly my husband would LOVE a 9 car garage filled with myriad of mopar muscle cars and french cars Me? Give me a >>>>>>>>sorry he's put a hand over my mouth so I cant muffle out a Corr...or a Maz.... WTF eveerrrrr in my books Hahaha. funny post. made me laugh. thanks.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Tara wrote off 13 off them, one just tipped over she said. Just reminds me of how much I love her each time. Mado Tara xx haha. what the earth does Tara do to them? Wanna-be Dodgem car rally driver? Hahaha. BTW, can you please warn us all via the Tara-Signal in the sky or the bomb-shell horn when Tara is on the road so we can take shelter... Good luck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
My LJ was my second car, and 'she' lasted a long while. Good memories.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Given that they don't grow any then I'd say I still do 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
he likes his car better..... Meh.... I bet you like something of yours better right?? So.... If we flipped the script and were saying "I don't like his chest hair...." Or whatever.....that'd just be a preference right?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'vampavibe' LilyO, I have also been judged on the type of car I drive which is same as above, Mazda 3 Sport Maxx. As stated above, a luxurious lifestyle certainly doesn't make a beautiful person.The more snobby this man became, the less I wanted to see him. Terrible to hear that happened to you too. I can relate. I still couldn't believe I heard that as I thought he was better and less shallow than that. He was quite embarassed to be in my car so I drove slowly. thought that him seen stewing in my car was punishment enough. lol
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madotara69
10 years ago
One was three foot up and wrapped around a telegraph pole, side wall closed up the floor and broke her ankle Another, off the road, over a rock that turned the car over tip for tail, leaving some of the tail lights about 6 metres up on the branch of a tree, car on it's roof The head on with a truck on the bridge was just bad luck, police were behind her when that happened, not her fault. 4x4 Nissan patrol just tipped over on the dirt track, every window and panel destroyed, broke the steering column and they are strong. The rest are too frightening. Love can hurt that's for sure.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The car is not important at all. I have an older car which is practical for my needs and i have no plans to change it. If someone judges me for that then they are not someone i want to know. Same goes for job, location, homeowner/renter, partnered/divorced etc. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
My Bike defines me, loud, mean, and ugly. My car moves me cheaply, comfortably, reliably and thoroughly practically.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have been endlessly judged for not having a car or being able to drive...and I have poor car recognition..I have been known to attempt to get in the wrong car when out with friends..one poor man looked quite scared when I mistakenly opened his car door 😨xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'vampavibe' Quoting 'Leo_girl' I love the beauty of the external sleek design. Me too. At the end of the day a car is a car ... it is only a small reflection of the person that drives it. Agree. I drive a Mazda 3 Sport Maxx .... I love the shape of it, the colour, all the features and it has a Satellite Navigation which is essential for my work. Me too. If given the option to trade it for a Maserati I would probably say.. "hell yeah" ... but at the same time I'm also happy with my Mazda. I dated a man who frequently bragged about his cars and houses To me those things weren't important and he couldn't understand why. I enjoyed the beauty of his luxurious lifestyle but did it make him a beautiful person? ... no quite the opposite. Yep, this happened to me too. I hope I answered your question. LG LilyO, I have also been judged on the type of car I drive which is same as above, Mazda 3 Sport Maxx.At the time, the man (from this site) and I were well known to each other so he was well aware that I had paid cash for this car brand new and that I had never in my life taken out a personal loan for a car or anything else and was quite proud of that.However, I was told "It's ONLY a Mazda. It's not a BMW" (which is what he drove)I offered to let him drive my car, he refused "as it's not a BMW"He would not accept travel in my car. We HAD to go in HIS car. As stated above, a luxurious lifestyle certainly doesn't make a beautiful person.The more snobby this man became, the less I wanted to see him. LeoG, Thanks for letting me edit your text to have my say xo No worries BTW I also bought mine with cash and have never had a personal loan for a car....and yes I was so proud of that achievement too.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I hear men with fast cars have little penises. Quoting 'sir_stir' I can concur.....I used to have an SS commodore.... 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile Stirrer, did you trade it on the penis enlargement? For me cars are utilitarian bikes blow my hair back...
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RHP User
10 years ago
She's a high maintenance Italian lady, a little dated but great lines. Not sure she's everyone's choice but she brings a smile to my lips every time I turn the key to hear her growl hello.
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Dryphuz
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya70' I have been endlessly judged for not having a car or being able to drive...and I have poor car recognition..I have been known to attempt to get in the wrong car when out with friends..one poor man looked quite scared when I mistakenly opened his car door 😨xxFreya I've done that. Waiting for a lift from my dad in his gold mitsi 380. Gold mitsi 380 pulls up at the curb right in front of me and i jump straight into the back seat (didn't bother to think 'who's that in the passenger seat') and 2 young asian women turn around and start screaming and swatting at me. I was laughing so hard i couldn't work the door handle properly and literally fell out onto the pavement when i finally did. No idea what they thought was going on, but they only moved up a few parking spots before the passenger got out and the driver drove off, so they couldn't have been that put out. If i could I would also have more than one car. My VW Golf GTI for a daily drive, fuel economy (good while still being a performance car) and handling as well as being fun to drive. And some form of 5 cab 4wd ute with a canopy for the weekends away or when i need to move some furniture or something. Anything else i would hire for the period i need instead. Now both of those would be quite expensive, but for me its all about how it drives (Golf) or how useful it is (Ute).
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its not flash, and not even new or close to new (13 years old). I love it for the freedom it gives me. I didn't get my license until I was 31 and since getting it, I hate being without a car. I enjoy knowing if I am somewhere and not having a good time I can go and get in my car and leave. If I want to explore, I can. My car has done lots of kilometres and the biggest trip was from Hobart to Darwin. For a gypsy, its freedom of movement that is important, and the car is quicker than horse and cart. Admittedly if I had the money I would trade it in on a 4 wheel drive as that would give me access to more beautiful places. As for people who are status driven, I am too fat and old to be a status symbol so no-one looking for status would ever date me. And for that I am profoundly grateful as I prefer people who enjoy the simple things in life and who invest their surplus cash in caring for global issues and making other people happy.
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RHP User
10 years ago
.... if its filthy.
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RHP User
10 years ago
...is like me. Needs a good servicing on a regular basis.
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RHP User
10 years ago
We come into this world with nothing and leave it the same way, what we accumulate while we're here is irrelevant and completely out choice (well in this country anyway, AUSTRALIA RULES) people who judge others or maybe think differently of other over their possessions or lack there of.......well I just feel sorry for them. Don't get me wrong I make snap judgements all the time! I'm only human after all, any way my point is, Austarlia kicks ass and I love my ute! It works hard it's dirty and it gets the job done, just like me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' ...is like me. Needs a good servicing on a regular basis. Well said. PMSL
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey Lily, maybe you could explain all this to my wife for me lol I too believe that sometimes a car suggests something about an individual; many terms and conditions apply. I do love all sorts of cars, but more to look at and historically appreciate than to drive or show off with. My daily is a very ordinary car which the wife chose as I couldn't care less what I drive (I really only like it for the media system tbh); happy wife happy life is the motto I live by. I thoroughly enjoyed your post Lily, thanks
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RHP User
10 years ago
i dont have a car...havent done for 15 years or so.... i ride a motorcycle, where does that leave me?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Give me a tradie with a ute heaven !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is a lot like me...a bit of wear and tear on the outside, but reliable mechanically and a very comfortable ride 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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8halfway
10 years ago
only cars ? :( I ride a bike most days, I like a little bit of fun before i get to work
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RHP User
10 years ago
If the car you drive defines you then ive taken a nose dive lately!! Just sold the clubsport for a subaru tribeca family car... - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
but the condition its kept. Empty coffee cups, old macca bags and crap rattling around tells me a lot about the owner. Bit like the state of their appearance. Unkempt, l wont go there. Doesnt have to be the best or the latest, just look after it as your personality dictates.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Twisted_Mister' You've found an old Mustang wreck in a yard somewhere, and spent lots of cash and years of your time doing it up to the point of entering it into the Summernats, then I think it's just a 'look how much money I have' thing. Kind of sums of my own, a Datsun 260Z, but still not complete. What I don't get is people having pure show & shine cars that only get transported around on a trailer, never driven.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' Empty coffee cups, old macca bags and crap rattling around tells me a lot about the owner. Bit like the state of their appearance. Unkempt, l wont go there. Mine might be somewhat unkempt until there is a possibility of someone else being in it, in which case it's clean and tidy :) Just like the house. But in my case, having a shedding dog (car and house) makes that next to impossible short of a good and full vacuum immediately before a visitor arrives/travels. I was at the meet & greet, did you get that impression?
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
After the OP's well defined explanation of her question, it all boils down to her question of if you make a judgement about a person because of the car they car (and why ?). As with many questions that have been put forward in the forums over time, we will all see this from various perspectives because we all have differing values in life. As a number have made mention of, they also look at other factors other than the type of car driven, such as condition or purpose. For those of us who actually have some reasonable knowledge of cars we would probably say yes, a car can say something about the person driving it, whilst others will note that it is merely a means of getting from one place to another regardless. If you don't know the person driving it, looking at their car can give you some clues about them. But on the other hand, if you do know the person you can see if it is a practical vehicle for their lifestyle, or if they see it as a status symbol of sorts. I like the comments made by the few of you about the good ol' LJ's. I learnt to drive in one - it was a school car in which the students were taught by the teachers who had undergone advanced driver training courses. It was the "Strike Me Pink " colour with a four on the floor, 3300 engine. Teachers loved it too. Was a fantastic car to run around in. My own first car was a new 1977 Toyota Celica coupe - brilliant orange colour with a 5 speed. As I was still at home then and single it was the perfect car just for me, and sometimes the occasional company. Had it 'til I got married, than mainly had a succession of family hatchback vehicles. Just love the practicality of hatchbacks. Just recently had my poor ol' Laser hatch of 23 years written off with only 123k kms and very well maintained. Just got my hands on a 2011 Mondeo hatch. Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
Wowww what s load of crystal ball crap. Ones car might be something used for work purposes so how can that define an attitude or characteristic Does owning a Garley make one a Drug dealing underworld figure hmmm. Treat people as individuals not as predetermined stereotypes of some fictional TV character. Didn't get Campbell Newman too far did it ? Open your mind before your mouth n legs - Posted from rhpmobile
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precious142
10 years ago
As I love driving......and having lived in many remote parts of Australia you get to do a fair bit of that.........I have always had a good solid car - from 4WD to utes.......and as I was taught by my ex - you have to look after it always to get the best out of the vehicle. I don't spend heaps of money on shoes, magazines etc so I invest in a good car that will get me around WA and across the Nullabor.....my current one bought in May 2014 is a black VE Commadore that I love driving, hoping to upgrade it next year when I turn 60!!!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
We have 2 daily drivers and a classic old Holden that don't get used I don't go much on the euro flashy cars but in general. We don't hate on no ones car if the cars clean and not a rubbish tip of that says something ... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'girthisgood' only cars ? :( I ride a bike most days, I like a little bit of fun before i get to work Ok. Bikes are included too but not everybody will be familiar with the bikes. have you got a mature-people friendly Vespa or hoony CBR or some other mean looking, noisy bike?
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'laugh_anytime' Wowww what s load of crystal ball crap. Ones car might be something used for work purposes so how can that define an attitude or characteristic Does owning a Garley make one a Drug dealing underworld figure hmmm. Treat people as individuals not as predetermined stereotypes of some fictional TV character. Didn't get Campbell Newman too far did it ? Open your mind before your mouth n legs - Posted from rhpmobile who are you talking to? I know we all make judgments but the post is referring to my experience where I was judged by the man on who I am based on the car I was driving at the time. I am not defined by my car if you read my OP properly? Maybe you can clarify your post? coz I ain't laughin at the moment.
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aldus1
10 years ago
Well I guess I am going to get some bagging over this but I currently drive a Merc, and before that a BMW, not because I like German cars but purely because of taxation reasons, so why not drive a nice car when someone else is paying for it.Yes its totally impractical for my other love, sailing, I cannot fit many sails in the back, lol, but one day I will get something more practical when I have to pay for it :-)By the way, I wouldnt buy another Merc :-(
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like to keep my car fairly current, hopefully to avoid mechanical issues and to keep the body work and interior in good condition to help with resale. As such I upgrade at the end of 5 years once the warranty or free servicing runs out. By upgrading every 5 years it also helps to keep my kilometers below 100k. My cars are normally small/mid sized that are economical and cheap to look after. I think the presentation is probably more important than what you drive. I would apply the same to myself and the people I meet. Purchased a new Holden Cruze SRI last year.. probably won't mean much to people who don't know about cars; but the women that sit in the front seat seem to appreciate the heated leather seats during the cold months. Women like having a toasty backside?? If I want to get all 'wankery' I take out the motorcycle.. but it isn't the best thing to be taking out for a date in winter..
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RHP User
10 years ago
First time comment so here goes I don't know what the car I drive says about me to be honest. I love cars I always have and at the moment I have three of them, I would have more but I don't have the room. I have the cars I do because I like them & not for any other reason.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have a little red barina - Im short and cute lol
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Cant quote your post because of the phone. Found your appearance tip top. No critism on that account. Maybe if we go back somewhere, ill take my car just in case you never had the chance to hose yours out......
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Opened his mouth and both feet fell into it.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Toyota Troopcarrier = Bloody legends!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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tylannister
10 years ago
Does my car define me? When my ex and I split up, I lamented on this for a while: “How am I going to impress women in my Toyota Yaris friendly dad-car with kids’ carseats in the back?” And it took a while for me to realize that my car doesn’t really matter that much. (I mean, maybe the extremes do - if I drove a shiny Maserati or a creepy caravan with the windows tin-foiled over it would.) But does my little Yaris define me? Does my little apartment define me? No. It may reflect where I am financially at this point in my life. It may rub at me the wrong way when I think about where I should be as a 40-year old man in our society compared with others my age. Did it give me great joy when I went to NZ and got an orange 2014 Holden Commodore as a hire car and put the hammer down while cruising around the gorgeous green hills of the North Island? Hell, yeah. Is there a secret hoon inside me who wants to get out? Yeah, maybe that, too. But to quote the philosopher (and noted psychopath), Tyler Durden, “You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your fucking khakis.” Okay, sure. Tyler Durden does turn out to be fucking nuts. But he makes some good points. I know that I am more than my car or my house or my clothes. I know that there’s more to me than what most people see. The people that I care about and that care about me also know that.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'alterego83' I like to keep my car fairly current, hopefully to avoid mechanical issues and to keep the body work and interior in good condition to help with resale. As such I upgrade at the end of 5 years once the warranty or free servicing runs out. By upgrading every 5 years it also helps to keep my kilometers below 100k. My cars are normally small/mid sized that are economical and cheap to look after. I think the presentation is probably more important than what you drive. I would apply the same to myself and the people I meet. Purchased a new Holden Cruze SRI last year.. probably won't mean much to people who don't know about cars; but the women that sit in the front seat seem to appreciate the heated leather seats during the cold months. Women like having a toasty backside?? If I want to get all 'wankery' I take out the motorcycle.. but it isn't the best thing to be taking out for a date in winter.. I really dont have issues with people with their choice of cars as long as they are happy with it and is compatible with their lifestyle. I just dont like people telling me my car is crap even if it is? Lol. Like I care what car they drive. But you are happy with yours and you have them for a reason. Am ok with that. It makes a lot of sense. I do like the idea of heated leather seats. NOICE!!! Lol.
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tylannister
10 years ago
Argh. Hate it when I jot up a comment in Word, cut-and-paste it here, and then forget that I have to add hard carriage returns to make the formatting look right. My left nut for an 'Edit Post' option in the forums!
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'tylannister' Does my car define me? When my ex and I split up, I lamented on this for a while: “How am I going to impress women in my Toyota Yaris friendly dad-car with kids’ carseats in the back?” And it took a while for me to realize that my car doesn’t really matter that much. (I mean, maybe the extremes do - if I drove a shiny Maserati or a creepy caravan with the windows tin-foiled over it would.) But does my little Yaris define me? Does my little apartment define me? No. It may reflect where I am financially at this point in my life. It may rub at me the wrong way when I think about where I should be as a 40-year old man in our society compared with others my age. Did it give me great joy when I went to NZ and got an orange 2014 Holden Commodore as a hire car and put the hammer down while cruising around the gorgeous green hills of the North Island? Hell, yeah. Is there a secret hoon inside me who wants to get out? Yeah, maybe that, too. But to quote the philosopher (and noted psychopath), Tyler Durden, “You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your fucking khakis.” Okay, sure. Tyler Durden does turn out to be fucking nuts. But he makes some good points. I know that I am more than my car or my house or my clothes. I know that there’s more to me than what most people see. The people that I care about and that care about me also know that. Well said. Bravo!!! And I love Fight Club!!! But there is no such thing as a fight club right? What fight club? Shhh.
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tylannister
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid'And I love Fight Club!!! But there is no such thing as a fight club right? What fight club? Shhh. ...I never said anything about a supposed ad hoc society that might occasionally (and purely for non-profit recreational purposes) engage in physical sparring. ("I must've left the original on the copy machine.")
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RHP User
10 years ago
What does it mean if I like to drive manuals?
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RHP User
10 years ago
every car have a buyer, and every woman have a man😜 We can drive : old, new car, ute,wagon , and be happy We can have slim, large, sexy, ugly woman , but chemistry is important:) If I have good chemistry with woman I don't care is she sexy or no , slim or large body, This is same with cars. I had : 4 HOLDENS 3 Commodores 1 Magna Now I drive Mercedes C180 compressor, I love this car😘 But I love and my FORD UTIL RTV 3 sits with canopy, under canopy can fit up double bed madras , and can have fun ewerywhere: streets, car park,and if is couple with me can have sex during driving, one man driving , and one having fun, beautiful, did someone try this? Quoting Meeka100 Love I love and have fast car , but for size of my cock, WELCOME TO MY HOME🙈🙉🙊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I couldn't give a stuff what anyone drives... I have a nice car ( cars ) but don't ever think of them as a sign of anything but transport.. When I meet someone it's on mutual ground without a car in sight.. I'm more interested in the person not what they drive..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' but the condition its kept. Empty coffee cups, old macca bags and crap rattling around tells me a lot about the owner. Bit like the state of their appearance. Unkempt, l wont go there. Doesnt have to be the best or the latest, just look after it as your personality dictates. I agree with Whatever sounds like I am too easy, sorry. I agree with Whateverway. Its is how you look after it, service it regularly, keep it reasonably clean & tidy, hey, even check the oil level and tyre pressures occasionally. Mine is a company car that I don't have too much say in, but can't complain. Still have to clean, tidy and check oil and tyre pressures though.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'HennaJay' What does it mean if I like to drive manuals? You like Mexicans?
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RHP User
10 years ago
More often that not, the car that you select does say a little about your personality (colour, style of car etc; not specifically referring to cost/brand). The sad fact is that quite a lot of people are stupidly impressed by material things, which explains why some try to brag about their possessions as a conversation piece. My experience - I (Mr.) was on the hunt for a BMW Z4 last year as I always loved the shape and design of it but I ended up buying a Civic Type R, which was my other favourite (growing up with Hondas). I remember the comments vividly.. "how do you go from a BMW to a Honda? Ugh", "that THING looks like a Prius" etc. Ffwd to two months ago, I bought a Z4 as I found one that I liked at a good price..again..the comments "Oh wow, congratulations! I'm glad you're not driving that Honda anymore" "Finally, a good car!" "You are so awesome!" Wtf? I was unaware that I bought my car to impress you . Frankly I don't care about opinions. I just buy what I enjoy..while my car does say a bit about my personality, it is not what makes me as a person.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't like to have a daily driver that is too new, or too valuable. Things like rough roads, kangaroos, not to mention my desires to go properly "off road/bush" are rarely good for the suspension, paintwork, bodywork etc. But in light of the possibility of having any lady's interest, I've gone for the happy medium of a Subaru Outback. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
once told me he loves pulling over black BMW's The car of choice amongst villians and all round bad guys apparently.
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RHP User
10 years ago
But it does say something about you - Lily your cars say you are practical and not fussed about image. You have got me thinking now about what kind of dining set would define me as a person. Or do I just need a rug that will really tie the room together?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I drive a Toyota hybrid. I love it and drive a lot in it without breaking the bank on fuel. No one has dissed it yet. Actually, it's been positive comments so far. I'm thankful for someone to give me a ride so normally thank them rather than criticize what they're driving. Seriously, who criticizes their ride? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Cars are OK.........I'm really not the type to yak on endlessly about cars or material possessions...... but I do find this topic quite captivating .... I have a car, it is OK. I bought it because I thought it would suit my purpose....... sometimes people say "I like you're car!" how the hell am I supposed to respond to that? ..... I usually say "I like your shirt, where did you get it?" ......... at least my response has some direction to it ...ha OP Lamborghini's aren't always owned by wankers .... but it is fair to say that there is likely to be a greater proportion of wanker in Lamborghini's! What I'm trying to say is that wankers come in all types of cars and its not the car that you need to worry about it's usually the wanker in the car that is the problem!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Soon nobody will be allowed to drive. Google car has done millions of km driving its self. In the next ten years all the truck driving jobs will go to robotic trucks, and then us commuters will be removed from the equation. Even now the google car is so much better at avoiding accidents. We stupid humans have an accident every 100,000km on average. While google car has yet to crash and it is estimated that it will have an accident every 30 to 100 million km. We are most likely the last generation that will ever have to drive a car. I just love progress.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Does the car a woman drives define her? Not necessarily, but the state she keeps it in does. If her car is a pigsty than 9 times out of 10 so is the state of her house. And if she CBF'd learning how to check the basics such air, oil, water, tire pressure etc. than I find it hard to believe her rants about being a "strong independent woman". For some people their choice in cars is dictated by practicality not choice, in this case all it says about them is their life choices e.g. Owns a mini van - probably has a dozen kids. For those who like to modify their cars it's a whole other deal, and I could probably write a novel on the subject. The short version goes like this - To build/modify a car properly takes vision, dedication, patience, and common sense. Qualities that I imagine are desirable to most. In contrast people who drive a car that looks as though it's driven through Super Cheap Auto and had every item in the shop thrown at it tend to have qualities that are opposite those mentioned above. Of course I'm stereotyping, but stereotypes started for a reason
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ajaussie
10 years ago
I am on the road the whole time during work. So I love to have a comfort and trouble free drive. I have Merc Vito and love it. I change my car very 3 years so that I can experience different cars. I think they are a necessity nowadays and one should be comfortable what they are driving and don't worry about others.cheers
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'ajaussie' I am on the road the whole time during work. So I love to have a comfort and trouble free drive. I have Merc Vito and love it. I change my car very 3 years so that I can experience different cars. I think they are a necessity nowadays and one should be comfortable what they are driving and don't worry about others.cheers A reasonable approach to buying the car you need as I do. Don't worry, I dont really worry what people think about my car else I will be driving something else. i choose to drive my cars for a reason. When I bought my Nissan Xtrail, i did a lot of research of all the SUV on the market as I need the car to go on trips with the kids to the snow, long drives interstate (drove to Murrigidore and Byron with lots of kids stuff) and some off road driving. I compared the reviews on SUVs of same size based on the reliability, petrol consumption, parts availability and replacement costs, warranty, repair costs, re-sale values, luggage compartment and of course looks. Nissan came up tops. Had my excel spreadsheet to prove it. Lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
My self I have two cars which I show and get different reactions from people have an old 58 two door morris minor which every where I stop some one tells me there parents or grand parents had one and how they went on holidays I say how did they all fit in, I fine it get as it brings back memories for people. The other is a big old Statesman De Ville which I us for cruising. So how can I be judged driving two different style of cars.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like my car to be practical. I work in an office but at weekends I like to camp and disappear into the bush. So, I drive a 10 year old dual cab. I don't use it enough to feel guilty about the engine size, it has 5 seats with the extra benefit of a tray. I'd love a lambo, but that'd be for my experience. The way I see it, your car doesn't define you. Your shoes however… that's something I notice. Haha. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
In my profession (wealth adviser) I deal with some very very wealthy people To some of them cars are important so they buy the top end (Maserati, Mercedes etc) to other not so important so they buy good reliable cars but not the Expensive Cars. They prefer to spend their wealth on investing, holidays, assisting family etc Point it it means very little and a car should not make judgment on who you are For the record I have 2 cars ... Lol...One a Honda one a Mercedes ... Means little but what's appropriate for my circumstances and position
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RHP User
10 years ago
My "cars" definitely define me. Just as they define anybody else. no, you don't have to have the flashiest cars or bikes or boats but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PEOPLE! Make sure your car is respected. Both maintenance wise and clean! My daily car gets washed 3 times a week (grey water) and waxxed (1, 2 or sometimes 3 coats) once a week. I don't have any leaks, seeps, rattling, ticking or rust in ANY of my cars. (considering i have cars from the 60's and 70's I think thats pretty good?) Take care of your car and it'll take care of you! Happy to give advice/help anybody who wants to learn more? :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Btw, YOU GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR! That is why such vehicles such as the Toyota Land Cruiser and sports Holden Commodores hold their value over their competition. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
A company car :) MrsM drives a commodore wagon which is practical, fits all my band gear in the back! :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I use public transport.. I don't really care what car I drive when I have to hire one.. For city driving I usually take a Toyota Yaris or Hyundai I30 For driving out of the city I do prefer a small SUV - Holden Barina is perfect - and cute :) I guess this means that I am a no-frills person :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'BIGPIZZEL' My "cars" definitely define me. Just as they define anybody else. Can you back that up? Perhaps with some stats or research? (And why the "cars" in quotation marks? Are they pretend?)
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RHP User
10 years ago
it happens both ways. I went on a date with a lady from here and took my commodore as I had lent my hilux to my dad for a few days at the time. its low, loud and obnoxious but it serves a purpose for me and that's drag racing. legally of course. she turned her nose up at it when I started it to give her a lift home. I actually have 3 cars and they all have their purpose. the hilux is my main drive car and I throw all sorts of engine crap in that back of it. I have the ss which a I rarely drive and I race it when I can and I just bought a landcruiser to go 4wding in.
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