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Events that EXCLUDE people 🤓🙊
September 28 2018
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RHP User
7 years ago
Age restrictions.
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RHP User
7 years ago
who can weld....IF you cannot weld.. stay the fuck away... Does THAT Exclude enough people?
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's fine with me if people have restrictions to suit their up of tea. I wouldn't expect any individual to meet anyone outside their criteria after all...
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HotNightsGC
7 years ago
Have been rejected due to age. It’s a really bad image for the scene when event hosts pull that rubbish. Not cool! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
As the saying goes! If you only want cool people, if you only want beautiful people, Then I For one, wouldn’t be seen dead at an event like that! Even if I am the most amusing, charming, urbane, appealing, suave, debonair, guy you are never gunna meet! M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I "welded" my fingers with superglue to a stool (dining stool) I was repairing last week, Does that count?
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RHP User
7 years ago
The wider the variety of honey the better as far as i am concerned. If you dont like certain pots then dont taste them, stick to the ones you like...but dont take the variety away from others. 😋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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3SM_Events
7 years ago
We have age restrictions on our events. We have limits on single male numbers. And we don’t apologise for it. Others have the same. Some only accept pretty people. Some exclude single males completely. For us it’s about the party dynamic we like personally. As I’ve said countless times in the forums if people aren’t happy with whats on offer events wise create your own. It’s how we started. Most events are exclusive in some manner, as are most things outside the scene. Sorry but it’s a fact of life a lot of young people don’t particularly wish to socialise with people 25-30 years older than themselves. And that’s their choice. With meet and greets the variety can be more varied but with an event geared towards play why not try and narrow the parameters to the particular people you wish? People will make a decision on whether they want to attend and if the formula is unsuccessful then you know others aren’t feeling the same way.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Arubabeach' Age restrictions. With our aging population you may find this less of a thing, plus you may see the emergence of ''mature age only'' events.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Never having been to any kind of event, but genuinely curious to do so, I find the seeming multitude of events where single males are restricted disconcerting, but it is what it is - like rocking up to a seniors night and wanting them to dance to hip hop, I wouldn't do it.
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
We feel that it is important, certainly within the swinging scene, to not only have admittance criteria, but also a “code of conduct” that everyone has to abide by, if they are to be admitted to a venue and not excluded from it. Some people may not like it, and may take in personally, we however are all entitled to our preferences, personal tastes and “selection criteria”. We accept it for what it is and don’t moan about it. For example, we are too old, and not “ripped” enough ( and probably not beautiful enough) to attend The Monkeys Club. It is what it is and we accept this and don’t bitch that because we probably can’t get it , we therefore would not want to go to such a club / nor be seen is such a club , in any event . That’s a negative, defeatist attitude. The owners of the club have the right to set the bar, in terms of who will meet their stringent selection criteria and who will not. The have a business to run and they have targeted a niche market, and for them it is about their reputation, based on their fit, slim and attractive clientele, or whatever other criteria they have set. Other swingers clubs don’t allow single males. Whilst this may appear to be discriminatory and unfair ( to those males who have been excluded ) it is well within the rights of the hosts (and attendees) to exclude single males. Accept it and move on, to a club that allows you in. Rather than bitch and moan about how unfair it is and that it must be a crap club in any event (for not allowing you in) We all have different likes, dislikes and tastes. One cannot make everyone “happy” and in the swinging scene one will encounter all ages , shapes, sizes, characters, class distinctions and so on. Whilst we might to enjoy xyz, others may not . It all boils down to ones preferences and ones right to have a personal choice. We prefer champagne over beer. Does that make us bad? To some it makes us tall poppies that we don’t swig VB XXX . We dislike the smell of cigarette smoke in our environment and particularly on the breath of others. We therefore avoid intimate contact with smokers and EXCLUDE them from our social circles and our personal space .Whilst the smokers may freak out and call us stuck up snobs, we are entitled to our choice are we not ? The best thing is to accept that we are all different and as such have different wants, needs, likes & dislikes. And to accept this graciously instead of bitching, moaning and becoming negative , enviousvabd jealous. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Second last word should read “ envious”. Would we be labelled as racist (by the bandwagoning brigade on here ) if we did not want to have sex with. “Martians” ???? Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
OP I'm neither for nor against the afore mentioned restrictions. I can see the difference between the encouragement of certain groups to attend and the discouragement of certain groups to not attend. By the end of today there will be one group who don't want to attend a winners celebration...
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Seachange73
7 years ago
We are not everyone's cup of tea nor are everyone our cup of tea. Everyone has their selection criteria. Even you. Can't take it personally. We do not fire everyone's imagination so find people that are inspired or attracted to you. In this world of diversity, it can be a struggle to find your place and your tribe. The key to it is to persevere and be focused on continuing the search for like minded people in any setting - parties, meet and greets, clubs -that you feel comfortable. We need to remain pragmatic yet positive in order to achieve our objectives. In this case, have fun experiences with those in the same path and journey as you . Surely there are other parties and meets that one can go. Else, take the reins and have your own party. Then you'll be in full control. 😉 Good luck.
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time4us4play
7 years ago
Wait till you get to our age and live in Sydney. Have a look at the events section, the majority have a cut off age of 45-50. Why do the organisers think we don’t have sex over 50? May have to look at a meet and greet for over 50s only. - Posted from rhpmobile
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curiousnhorny05
7 years ago
Having been to a club and the other people there weren’t really your age and preference it was difficult to play. I think sometimes knowing what you want isn’t a bad thing. In my experience you have less regrets later. Being open minded isn’t bad either. Swingalongson I’ll make sure to invite you to my parties :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
And they're not for beginners. I've been to a few with high single male ratios and maintaining any semblance of consent is hard work. If you're inexperienced and/or not assertive that's a huge turnoff for many women, if not flat out frightening. - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
a exclusion criteria and be excluded than be in the minority of outcasts due to the demographic and the desire of main attendees of the party and then treated like an outcast ,eg a single 60 year old man in a mainly 20 to 30s party just isn’t going to be easy mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have read your resume (Profile) and decided you ARE IN FACT, the Very Person/Welder I am looking for...
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
I've never forgiven... for being excluded from Fernwood gyms haha :) :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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Rubyt25
7 years ago
Quoting 'countrytouch82' I've never forgiven... for being excluded from Fernwood gyms haha :) :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Agree. You need to be very confident or be capable of being very assertive. I’ve seen confident women regularly in the swinging scene freak out at some clubs (arrows). Places I would never go on my own.
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totally_normal
7 years ago
Parties catering to over 45's, great idea but should we exclude over 70's. Would it be advisable to have a portable defib available incase us oldies get over excited. Wheb people hold bbw party's what is the inclusion criteria, what criteria would you use. BMI or photograpic evidence. I fancy a key in bowl themed party but this may have a vehicle make/model critera for inclusion. - Posted from rhpmobile
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totally_normal
7 years ago
Thanks for not being hard on me for my slack proof reading. - Posted from rhpmobile
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HarleyQandMrO
7 years ago
We have to understand that its the hosts decision who they invite. It's their party, their venue and people should respect their decision. We agree and support the hosts restrictions. Party narratives can range anywhere from all inclusive (regardless of age, experience or willingness to participate beyond the meet & greet), to niche fetishes where specific criteria is set, such as age range and the expectation for full swap/participation and it's the organizers responsibility to invite suitable people who meet the theme criteria, making the party a success. So rejection should not be taken personally. I am in my 40's, which excludes me from some events, but that doesn't stop me expressing an interest in events which appeal to my husband and me. We keep ourselves in shape and take pride in our appearance and even though we might not meet the criteria, sometimes, we receive an invite, but not always. We don't take this to heart, there are always other events. RHP encourage members to organise and host private parties. Don't be shy, put your hand up to host a party and provide a more inclusive environment more suited to your needs. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It’s about creating a certain ambience and environment. Right music. Right food. Right people. We do it all the time in every day life. Restaurant, bars, shops - how many times have you walked into a place to sit down or wander for a brief period of time before admitting to yourself that you feel uncomfortable? No one likes to be excluded. It’s human nature to want to be included to want to feel a part of things. But when there’s potentially something more intimate on the line than a drink or food or a dress then doesn’t it make sense to go somewhere where when you get there you’ve already go a half idea that you’re meeting the criteria and ticking the boxes? Eliminates a little bit of the unknown. That’s why profiles on here that haven’t been properly filled out are frustrating. It’s koke who are you what do you want what are you seeking - this is all info we look at when looking at profiles and if it’s not there chances are we move on because there’s not enough info provided for us to make an informed decision. It’d be very rare I would imagine for a limited information profile to be sent messages saying hey tell me more and it’s simplt because you don’t have the info at hand already to decide if you want to contact that profile. Event organisers simply do it on a bigger scale and advertise it more so you can make an informed decision as to if the event is right for you. Again no one likes to be excluded. We all could aided ourselves attractive sexual people with something to offer otherwise we wouldn’t be here. But maybe instead of hating the game find a player that’s going to fit with what you want... And for the record - daily I feel like I’m no ones cup of tea here lol so this is just taking a perspective from the organisers point of view... not taking it too heart (which is where not being included normally hits) - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
i’m sure your plenty of peoples cup of tea ,there’s no doubt about that at all ,just some like more and some like less or no milk , but the people that would like you just the way you are either haven’t spotted you yet or don’t shop locally at your shops , mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
People have their own personal preferences. Exclusion is the easiest way to include likely candidates. People are attracted to others based on age, sex, location, gender, build, orientations etc. So if you're hosting a party why would you not try & engineer like minded individuals for the best chance of success. If you don't fit into a party criteria then find a party that does. - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
With restrictions, exclusions or selection criteria. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissRedFox
7 years ago
I don't weld I don't have an issue with events that target age groups but excluding by body type kinda grates me Though it does save me from going places where people judge on those types of things and I like the general scene for its acceptance of people in all their forms Code of conduct and restrictions kg single males are necessary I feel What I would like to see is more premium evevts like that are in nice hotels etc that are open to all regardless of body type and occupation XX - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I can weld. Paraburdoo taught me many things. ;-) OP... I couldnt care about restrictions and so on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
As others have said we all have our preferences. Lol, I prefer tall brunettes ;) Even in Vanilla World we have to limit who we include on certain events; birthdays, weddings, etc, there is always some form of exclusion process going on. If someone doesn't like the lack of events that cater to them they should organise their own parties and invite who they want :) Simple
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PartyOrg
7 years ago
Couldn't agree more with HarleyQandMrO, and Redmustang. Exactly my thoughts.
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RHP User
7 years ago
the chances of you being excluded from any RHP style gathering are very slim. (IMHO) You'd have to be a notable Bunny Boiler, Typhoid Mary, or stink like a polecat! M_D4
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RHP User
7 years ago
Just attend events that you want We went to an event where the single guys outnumbered the couples and had drunk single guys coming up trying it on despite being told politely no thanks. Was not a great evening for us both. Don’t be offended just go to the events your are invited to and respect what people want at other events. It’s not being excluded it’s letting people with specific likes enjoy themselves
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ElectricDreamers
7 years ago
Although some parties like to bleat on about 'the elite' and that's a bore/snobbery I think guidelines for who to expect have their place and are the hosts prerogative. That said it does often seem that some hosts set guidelines they themselves don't fit. That's hypocrisy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
We also limit the number of single guys but not due to our preference but the couples that attend our meet and greets! - Posted from rhpmobile
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LiliSydneyCBD
7 years ago
The absolute biggest turn off for me is toxic masculinity and homophobia. Especially given the "straight man bi woman" profiles. Not asking the guys to be attracted to men but at least tone down the over the top competitiveness and fear of touching another man. The only exclusion/limitation I need is cis gender heterosexual men otherwise the scene tends to have become very selfish. Also 4 hour sessions with 2 other women beats 15 minutes with any guy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
I've never seen drunk anyone at any play event. Perhaps stay away from Club scenes and go towards more private invite / house party scenes. It's like comparing a private BBQ/pool gathering to a downtown rave. Don't worry, sober people can still get up to enough naughty things :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Not being a big drinker myself, one of the things l love about this lifestyle is the lack of drunkeness by anyone. And why you and l welcome anyone to our Meet and Greets. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
The drunk guys were at a meet and greet country touch We had one drink and left My partner had to politely tell the guys we weren’t interested It was like they were lining up lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
There are enough events and parties and private hook ups that cater to all sorts. It should not concern those who ‘would never attend an exclusion party’ because....they would never attend. Just like I’m not going to buy tickets to a rave because it doesn’t suit me..but I’m not going to ask them to change the music to my taste, I’ll just move on. Organisers of parties will me we get it 100% right with every single person happy, it’s not possible. But the choice is so vast that you can find your own niche. If I attend a party and there’s no one I’d like to play with of course I’m not going back. That’s not my scene. I only attend vetted parties for this reason. Higher chance of meeting people for the reason we are all here. All opinions at the end of the day...none of us are ‘right’. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
“The absolute biggest turn off for me is toxic masculinity and homophobia. Especially given the "straight man bi woman" profiles. Not asking the guys to be attracted to men but at least tone down the over the top competitiveness and fear of touching another man” Often wondered the same thing ourselves. Often seen a barrage of homophobic rhetoric in the forums here just to look at the profile and one half (usually the female) is bisexual. Just leaves us shaking our head how someone can accept it or desire it in there partner but then hold every other person to a different standard. Somethings just don’t make sense.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Unwittingly they probably exclude themselves at some point in time.. Just think it's a bit "In Your Face" when RHP Event msgs are sent to those that ARE already excluded by age restrictions. In other words if you have decided someone can't attend an event don't then send them an invite. Wouldn't doing so be regarded as a form of harassment?
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have been to restricted unrestricted events and have found restricted the dynamic flows better. Conversational topics and interests veer towards being more in tune and everyone feels more comfortable. I have been excluded as a single male and on age and invited on the same parameters, it is what it is there are a myriad of events and possibilities to cater to all. So while one event may preclude you it doesn't mean all will. Would you rather attend and realise the demographic isn't to your taste or be aware before hand? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
We host parties and would never, ever open them up to "everyone". We always have a strict screening and criteria process which is why they are so successful and everyone has such an amazing time. Maybe instead of getting rejected or refused, read the selection criteria and if you don't fit into it, don't participate or express your interest, simple. Obviously our criteria will change as we do, but likely that it will remain in a proximity to ourselves. Stop the whinging and create your own parties and events as we did. Then you're likely to get what you want, unless of course you're chasing something well out of reach, which more than likely is why the childish behavior started in the first place. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes i can see the need. If it bothers you can better invest energy used to make posts like this and start your own event to suit yourselves. You know age gender looks. Its like the whiney employees who think they can run a business better. Be constructive. Start your own. Ibet theyre daunting work. Personally im sick of whining posts when every complaint i see pales drastically in comparison to some of the rubbish people like myself, which im sure are also a part of the demographic many of these exclusion rules intend to protect as well as attract, are subjected to in this scene. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Its a scene that ive always felt a calling towards but the fear of exclusion has kept me away. In essence these parties are supposed to be open, free and liberating thats why it'd sting that bit more to be turned away. - Posted from rhpmobile
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technologic
7 years ago
Yes. I think sometimes having more specific restrictions means a concentration of the same kind of people who share the same attraction in the same room, so the higher chance of something electric going off at the event. Which i assume is usually the ideal goal of any event organiser. I don't think it's a matter of discrimination against certain people but it's just the simple fact that everyone is attracted to different demographics which can also change at different stages of their lives. There's so need to take it so personally!! How many times have you been to an event and because only a small handful people are going at it, the overall vibe is just not quite as sexy as imagined? We've been to two events where we were hoping for more people within our age group (looked like it from the interested list) but when we arrived we were somewhat disappointed and feel unmotivated to attend future events.. Perhaps we should seriously consider organising our own event... 🤔 *PS. On the topic of homophobia, racism etc - just because someone doesn't feel attracted enough to have sex with a particular gender/race/age group doesn't automatically mean that they have an irrational dislike/hatred of said group. 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
At the Meet and Greets I have been to, few if anyone are actually drunk, and the men if anything could be said to be sometimes lacking in assertiveness or conversational confidence, at least some have or at times. What kind of venue were these held at? All those I have been to have been essentially on public premises if not a private area of. Which means in public, or in a controlled space with others in the vicinity not part of the event, which I think tones down such behaviour, and not the least all the other guests that have often looked out for others, especially the regulars. There is also often site security available too. Maybe we have some fiesty and assertive women, men and couples willing to put people in their place or kick their asses out if it comes to that! :)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Creating certain criteria such as age, numbers of couples/single males, bicurious parties, etc etc, allows the hosts to better create (or get as close as they can to creating) the vibe they want for their event. I have been to an event with my partner that allowed single males and it was a very uncomfortable experience. The amount of "no thank you" and "sorry, we're not interested" within the first 10 minutes was extremely off-putting. Although, this was not a "limited single males" event, it shows why selection criteria is an important factor as we went in for that one quite unawares - we know better now! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
How can I find a party, which does not exclude single males? I do understand where this limitation comes from, though. Amount of inadequate, rude, etc. guys is such, that it is just easier for the hosts to block the whole category, excluding those who are polite/genuine/.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
Generally speaking, at the Social events I have been to where everyone is welcome, most people have seemed to be willing to chat to anyone, not just those that suit their fancy. I will chat to anyone present, that wishes to chat, including other men, go figure :) Straight women will make friends with other women. If people are coming along ONLY to communicate with possible playmates or those you want to get in the pants of, that's when the whole event becomes quite clicky. Others are just happy to have a good social time out away from home. And if there are not the specific events you like, you can always host one yourself at anytime, for whoever you want and don't want to be there :) For Play events, then of course, a random assortment of all types and ages etc, there will be only a very small number each person might be sexually attracted to, assuming sparks happen then as well. So it might end up with few people playing at all and generally not much interest. I have also been to events where every last person is playing, because they knew what they wanted and the event was advertised as something specific, so of course those not interested wouldn't have even come along, thus there was no reason to deliberately exclude anyone. Of course, other events target those with particular body types. There are parties at 5 star premises but only for 5 star bodies, on the other hand there are BBW parties also, would a slim woman be still welcome?
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
to suit everybody ,you just have to find the one that suits and allows you within the criteria , if not time to have your own ,if we were to have one one of my restrictions would be no alpha male peacocks being loud and obnoxious trying to yell look at me ,while blending in ,lol mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
we have witnessed hardly any drunk guys except the odd newbie trying to get over nerves which he soon regrets ,but have seen a few drunk ladies over time ,must have something to do with they don’t have that problem of gettin it up if they have one too many ,booooooo to them ,lol,maybe a new low drinking campaign for the government,don’t drink if you wanna get it up ,lol mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Fucker does not go down. Maybe the alcohol helps the circulation in me pants. I tend not to drink cause I tend to get loose!
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don't mind it. You need to create an environment where single women and couples feel safe to explore and play. If that means cutting the ratio of single men then so be it. In terms of age or body size or whatever, just find a different party. If a place doesn't want you as a member, you don't want to be a member of that place.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Places like the Monkey Club say they don't want people there old enough to be their parents. I totally agree! I could not think of anything worse than being approached by people young enough to be our children. Over the last few months, we have repeatedly turned down an 'almost' 25 year old with a crush. I have also read posts asking if there are parties only for East Indians. I think this is fair but if I asked if there were parties only for blonde fitness fanatics, it might not be taken as well. Or it might... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I believe parties catering for bi, straight, gay and BBW or thin may be beneficial. It means you know what you are getting and bi people feel comfortable approaching either gender. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Personally I don't find the exclusions overly bothersome. I am a bigger woman and I'd hate to go to a place I wasn't appreciated. For the unfortunate people that feel the exclusions are ruining their fun as another member mentioned, that's a business opportunity right there. You may not want to run it yourself but there are so many options to make it happen! As for the single guy exclusions it's mainly just because of numbers. I don't have anything against single men at parties but I personally do not much need for them because my interest lies elsewhere. Don't be discouraged. Mrs B xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Feeling comfortable is important and I love the business opportunity idea. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
When we first dipped our toes in the water we were at an event with singe guys and they weren’t drunk country touch! Two gorgeous girls were kissing passionately and a single guy came over to them and tried to kiss them as well. The girls stopped immediately and he was quite persistent. That killed the moment for the girls. We have also seen really drunk single girls andcouples that display rudebehaviour. You can’t avoid everyone but can choose events that suit your requirements . There are events in Sydney that are purely for single guys, events for bi guys. Bi girls , couples , trans, BDSM what ever takes your fancy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I go where the in crowd goes I'm in with the in crowd And I know what the in crowd knows Any time of the year, don't you hear? Dressin' fine, makin' time We breeze up and down the street We get respect from the people we meet They make way day or night They know the in crowd is out of sight I'm in with the in crowd I know every latest dance When you're in with the in crowd It's easy to find romance At a spot where the beat's really hot Oh, if it's square, we ain't there We make every minute count Our share is always the biggest amount Other guys imitate us But the original's still the greatest We got our own way of walkin' We got our own way of talkin', yeah Anytime of the year, don't you hear? Spendin' cash, talkin' trash Girl, I'll show you a real good time Come on with me and leave your troubles behind I don't care where you've been You ain't been nowhere till you've been in With the in crowd, yeah Oh, with the in crowd (yeah, yeah, yeah) We got our own way of walkin', yeah (yeah, yeah, yeah) We got our own way of talkin' (yeah, yeah, yeah) In the in crowd” Written by Billy Page M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
Events purely for single guys? How does that work? And I'm not talking about nude bi orgy either haha. Straight sausage fest maybe? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Have a look through the forums.. venture into the chat rooms on other sites.. we pick and choose who we respond to ultimately selecting who we surround ourselves with... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
The response on this forum peeps. Very interesting feedback!🤖
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WishingWell
7 years ago
I have hosted 2 parties so far as I wanted to experience something specific. One was a singles (male/female) only play party and the other a more intimate bi orgy. If there was no selection criteria then it wouldn't have been successful with the theme of the night and everyone who was invited and came knew what to expect and had a memorable experience. Host your own party and fulfill your fantasies I say! - Posted from rhpmobile
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SuperFunkySexy
7 years ago
People have the right to organise events catering to specific needs and people. If u dont like what is on offer feel free to orgainse your own event. - Posted from rhpmobile
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
Most single people are still trying to "organise their own event", Shania Twain style, "Party for Two" that is :P
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RHP User
7 years ago
Don't most people on here want more than just two? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Very exciting "parties for two" since I joined RHP. Shania Twain had nothing to do with any of them
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RHP User
7 years ago
That reminds me of the song by Sam the Sham and the Pharohs, I'm in with the out crowd.
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RHP User
7 years ago
His famous quote: “...... I DON'T WANT TO BELONG TO ANY CLUB THAT WILL ACCEPT ME AS A MEMBER.” M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Your pickup line...darling...don't make me show ya my welding resume! I don't know but in a way that kindah sounds sexy.bahahahah
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RHP User
7 years ago
That excludes exclusions? How would that turn out??
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RHP User
7 years ago
My guess that would provide a room full of older, single, overweight, straight males staring at each other.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Exclusions like these are geared toward fostering a certain dynamic at parties and ensuring that there's a higher chance of everyone having a good time. Just find one that is inclusive of you, is all.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I can remember an event being organised a couple of months ago. Basically the organiser was sick of being excluded because he was a single male so he made an event just for single males and single females. I said to my wife that no way that will work as it will be swarmed by single males and the females would avoid it. Sure enough the event got canceled because every single respondent was a male. No females at all. So that just highlights why most events have limits on single men. - Posted from rhpmobile
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
I held a meet and greet just for singles a couple of years back. Different dynamic because it wasn't a play party, actually had to work harder on getting more men to come along! :)
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Just because they register interest doesn't mean they'll all attend just like all couples that show interest to every event and don't attend. Why would they bother when couples can't even be civil to them. I'm proud to say l have met some of the most awesome men on here who I'm lucky to have in my life. Maybe l just have great judgement. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I only ask because I remember a guy at the Perth M&G I went to so long ago who stood off in the background, it took some tempting to bring him into the group. He was lovely and we met up with him a couple of times after that, just for drinks. I based a thread on his late arrival one time, only after he'd been good enough to let us know he'd been caught up in peak hour traffic for the time of day and would be late. We lost touch, I often wonder how he is these days.
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RHP User
7 years ago
You are one of the few ones on here that does not single male bash! Lisa there goes your hypothesis Countrytouch explained otherwise.
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
In reality when I listed the singles night, it did also appear to be a sausage fest according to the Interest list. However like usual I required people to reply to make formal contact before I sent them further details. So even with the sausage fest listed, few responded and in the end I had to go and try and find more guys. We had about 30 people total at the event. Another way of doing it again would be to create a listing just for women to respond to first, then seek men depending on the numbers of women that responded. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Personally a fan of age restrictions, but events that exclude single guys are pretty bleh - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I neva knew that there were couples who desired single guys( btw that was sarcasm forumites). Bless your sharing hearts.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I neva knew that there were couples who desired single guys( btw that was sarcasm forumites). Bless your sharing hearts.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I neva knew that there were couples who desired single guys( btw that was sarcasm forumites). Bless your sharing hearts.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I neva knew that there were couples who desired single guys( btw that was sarcasm forumites). Bless your sharing hearts.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I neva knew that there were couples who desired single guys( btw that was sarcasm forumites). Bless your sharing hearts.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I neva knew that there were couples who desired single guys( btw that was sarcasm forumites). Bless your sharing hearts.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I neva knew that there were couples who desired single guys( btw that was sarcasm forumites). Bless your sharing hearts.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I neva knew that there were couples who desired single guys( btw that was sarcasm forumites). Bless your sharing hearts.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I neva knew that there were couples who desired single guys( btw that was sarcasm forumites). Bless your sharing hearts.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I neva knew that there were couples who desired single guys( btw that was sarcasm forumites). Bless your sharing hearts.
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
that’s gotta be a record , and that’s coming from me ,ralmao - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It kept reading that it had not gone thru and an error. 😯 Pretty embarrassing lag time here up north 🤐
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RHP User
7 years ago
As a single female attending some party’s with single guys, isn’t always comfortable. Sometimes there are to many, they stand to close, intentionally brush past & touch you inappropriately, continually ask if you want to play. No means no the first time & by the time the same guy had asked you 6 or 7 times. Is he thick, stupid or what ? They think because they’ve paid to walk in the door, that they’re entitled to any pussy they want. So excluding single guys can be a good thing....... I’m sure there’s many single females who’d agree with me (the fussy ones) and there’s those who will fuck anything that’s available. I’m not being critical or judging. We’re all different & have different taste
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RHP User
7 years ago
We used to frequent a party in south side of Brisbane which had zero rules on age, sex, or relationship staus. Was every 3 months roughly.. Absolutely brilliant just brilliant! Those who feel the need to justify the reason their parties exclude people (not all of you but a select few) it's you that are the problem. Judge people on what they drink, smoke, wear, age, size, bi, straight, hell why not throw in political beliefs too lol ... It's truly your loss. Now to be clear on this a party to me is not 2 to 3 couples etc a party is more than 20 people (i certainly wouldn't call it a birthday party if six people turned up lol). So if you are having a meet up sure go with what you want... But a party.. Well its a party there will always be something you didn't expect (could be good could be bad). The most attractive thing to us is personality ( probably some might say because we aren't hot ha ha ha). Colour, size, and all the other things that have been mentioned prior are what divide us. FUN is why we started... Politics is what really ruins the scene... I like this post i truly do and i still do understand why clubs must limit single men (long term the club will be over run with randy sausages ha ha). But one off parties in our experience they truly haven't been too many ever (and we don't look for them either) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks for your thoughts🙏
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RHP User
7 years ago
I can😎 WELD..im in!!!👍
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